Excellent. I worked as a counselor for high risk people for years in their homes. We weren't allowed to carry weapons and there were some dangerous individuals. People with serious mental disorders and drug problems. Verbal de-escalation skills got me out of a lot of hairy situations.
Tommy i gather more information on daily interactions than on most. I work as a bouncer and, as a former corrections officer, 90 percent of "conflicts " can and should be handled this way. To many are willing to strike first. Words first, distance next. Being passive does not mean you're less of a man. If forced STRIKE LIKE THUNDER, but only when necessary
Of course there is a possibility that he might say ‘there’s nothing you can do to put this right’, or ‘you shouldn’t have done that, too late now’ . Conflict management is a great tool and can often deescalate, but it’s not guaranteed, and you need a plan b ready to go. Also apologies can be tricky. An apology is also an admission to whatever you are accused of, which maybe entirely false. The admission may give the suspect in their mind, further justification for their aggression.
Excellent.
I worked as a counselor for high risk people for years in their homes. We weren't allowed to carry weapons and there were some dangerous individuals. People with serious mental disorders and drug problems. Verbal de-escalation skills got me out of a lot of hairy situations.
The LEAPS model
Tommy i gather more information on daily interactions than on most. I work as a bouncer and, as a former corrections officer, 90 percent of "conflicts " can and should be handled this way. To many are willing to strike first. Words first, distance next. Being passive does not mean you're less of a man. If forced STRIKE LIKE THUNDER, but only when necessary
Of course there is a possibility that he might say ‘there’s nothing you can do to put this right’, or ‘you shouldn’t have done that, too late now’ . Conflict management is a great tool and can often deescalate, but it’s not guaranteed, and you need a plan b ready to go.
Also apologies can be tricky. An apology is also an admission to whatever you are accused of, which maybe entirely false. The admission may give the suspect in their mind, further justification for their aggression.
0:35 - "What can i do for you ?"
1:50 - Sucker punch
3:30 - Conclusion
what can i do to make this right