She Told Me Not To Worry About The Guy From Work. He’s Just A Friend?
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What it means when your girl says to not worry about the guy from work because he’s just a friend.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who had been with his fiancee for 3 1/2 years. He thought things were great. Then, one night he saw messages from a male coworker popping up in her phone. He asked her about them and she said that I had nothing to worry about because he was just a friend. A few weeks later he realizes that she is flirting with the guy from work and confronts her. She says he’s controlling. Now she wants 2 weeks to think about things and in essence wants a hall pass to explore a relationship with the coworker who she claimed was just a friend.
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If she wants to cheat, she will. If she doesn't want to, she won't. Solutions - practice detachment, be ready to let go anytime, invest heavily in your personal goals.
Comment of the day
Exactly. I would also add having solid principles, standards, and sense of direction for yourself and the women you date
17:35 😂😂😂
24:05
Most importantly, you have to know how to select them. If you chose a party girl who posts thirst traps on her instagram as your gf and she decides to cheat on you the fault is on YOU for being dumb enough to have her as your girlfriend.
Be fully participant but detached at the same time.
She's loyal... right now.
She loves you... right now.
She won't cheat... right now.
She won't leave... right now.
Exactly
She's not yours , it's just your turn.
That’s what my wife said about her coworker, then I caught them cheating now we’re divorced because I kicked her to the curb. Don’t play the pick me game! Go no contact! That shocked my ex. she couldn’t believe I went straight to divorce. Cheaters don’t change.
You made a wise decision, who wants to live with a cheater.
Good for you, bro!! That shows you have power and strength. 👍 ✊ 👊 💪
Best part is she will be attracted to you again now as you showed self respect and strength, so now she desires you. It’s funny in a sad way, these women can’t help but get grass is greener syndrome because of social media and they always regret it.
‘Hes just a friend’ are deadly words to a relationship
Yup. Had that done to me
Yes, unless histh name is Brysth, heeey
The relationship is done. The other guy is just a friend till he replaces the current man. She is not torn between OP and office coworker. She has already made up mind to sleep with him but doesn't know how to bring up the topic. Dump her and move on.
Wow! with emails like this, Corey doesn't ever have to worried about losing business from these simps.
The thirst is real
Her other guy that she tells you is just her "friend" is your replacement.
If your woman ever tells you, "don't worry." "He's just a friend from work" BS, then not only is that a giant red flag. The relationship is "OVER!!" She's cheating on you with him!! It's time to end the relationship and walk away.
Facts, it’s never “just a friend”.
She probably already is. Been there, done that, got the t shirt.
Got the bumper sticker and bobble head as well!
The branch is available for her to swing on, shes just making sure shes got a good grip before she makes the leap...
Get her out of your life ASAP
Never fight with a another man over a woman who want to see about her feelings
"But you say he's just a friend" - Biz Markie
lol i was thinking of this song during the video
If she drops a name at all, she is thinking about the guy. My ex made fun of the guy, now she is having his baby. Just a coworker who has more access to her to build a connection.
Coach Corey Wayne- The Legend himself!
I want to thank you, i am sure that i possibly would have screwed up my chances with the girl i have been with for 7 years now. But when i started dating her back in 2017 i had read your book and learned alot and seen all the mistakes i had done!
We are now expecting a boy in middle of may together, and i have never loved someone that much as my girlfriend.
Thank you🙂
I remember the day a girl told me there was nothing to worry about about the guy from work…yeah found out later, she was definitely getting with the guy from work. Guys if it feels off it probably is
My wife told me not to worry about her 6'3 confident muscular rich succesful model and entrepeneur ex-FwB from college. They are just friends.
Remember guys....sometimes the "Y"in "Your Girl" is silent😂
This was a nice tall glass of reality!
24:15-24:44 Is definitely one of the realist things the coach has said...I was inexperienced with women in college and had an ex cheat on me with a guy who had a crush on her since elementary school. Fast forward 10 years later...she sees me posting a video with me and my best friend out. She comments...why didnt you invite me, I wouldve came out. Still plotting ways to get back with me, after I cut her off 10 years ago.
Of course she slept with the 'work friend' at the work function and cheated. The behaviour she exhibited is exactly that of someone who has cheated. Ask guys wyo have been cheated on. There's maybe a 5% chance she didn't.
Wyo? @chrisw8838
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Or as coach says: “SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS!!!”
I've been that dude that opened her up and listened to her during our work trips, it's a fantastic feeling when it all clicks from the start and when you feel that you wanna fucc each other on the spot. But she's taken and I'm at a point in my life now where I'm spiritually grounded I do not want to unleash the horrific karma on both myself and the woman. It sucks because you can't kiss, you can't make the move, but it's worth it because I know how it will end, I've seen it and it ain't nice. No need for that bad karma in my life. Reach out when you've broken up and healed, sweetheart. Hope she'll understand.
Monkey branching 101
Never get hung up on oneitis, always be ready to split if things are not to your liking, any funny business, show them the door, otherwise you will waste unnecessary time. Always keep your wits about you, you never know when the tide turns.
Id say "go live with your new boyfriend"
If someone says after an accident "hey listen, we don't need to involve the insurance company/police... " , that's when you know to call the insurance company/police.
Lol. My partner of 9 years and wife of 3 months left me for "just a friend" coworker.
I'm recently divorced and let me tell you. The pools are full and you'll have no trouble moving on , when you are ready.
Do not marry this girl. She is done. For whatever reason her needs aren't being met, but she obviously doesn't value loyalty and has failed to communicate properly. You could try talking it through and setting a boundary, but she will probably carry on regardless. At which point you'll have to enforce the boundary and walk away. Very tough when you've been engaged, but just remember... if she's doing this to you.... she can easily do it to the next guy and the next. People don't change.
When the video drops after making breakfast! Good-morning y’all!
I was that guy from work !!!
You’re a shitty guy if you’re stealing a girl from another man..
She will get stolen from u, again by another man, so you’re not winning anything special mate
what goes around comes around
Incredibly dumb
How you get them is how you lose them
always be ready to walk...they are
Every father should be telling their sons this.
honesty is a better word then loyalty honesty encompasses a much broader range of issues
Mr. Corey. I think the competitive edge you have decided to do is going to be a good angle. I have been following you for many years, and there ARE some scenarios where things are under scrutiny. Love you, man, and I really think this is going to be some great content. Cheers to you and all the followers 👌
I’m leaving tomorrow. I told my wife that I was very uncomfortable with her taking to her recent ex before me. I didn’t want to do ultimatums or demands (short term solution) I wanted her to make this decision on her own and she decided that a “friendship “ was more important than our marriage. I’m done.
That announcement was like Christmas Day. I’m super stoked for this new content coach
Great video coach!
Bruh the title sounds like satire😅😂.
The situation sounds really rough, I feel sorry for the guy.
I'm genuinely shocked Corey's staff wasn't asked to read the books day 1.
Man this dude is getting played like a PlayStation 5. This guy can do so much better. Leave her asap!
This guy and others who can relate to the situation, need to remind themselves that there are millions of other women out there who are younger, hotter and more loyal.
Like the saying goes: No one bangs more chicks than “he’s just a friend”.
If a girl loves you she will in no way make you doubt her loyality. Break up with her before she does.
Find herself? Does she have a self?
What if i havent reallt caught her but suspect it based on some of the stuff shes said
Keep it to yourself until you are sure she is cheating and have evidence of it.
@@CoachCoreyWayneShe admitted to cheating with him I got my stuff and moved out i know where I messed up but i dont know if I can ever trust her again.
Don't believe her
Yeah, I've been that "he's just a friend" before 😂
People will do more to avoid pain....
Oh wow, textbook example from the 3% Men book Just as it says in Coreys Book. She belongs in the streets! Sounds like these 2 new "lovebirds" enjoying getting to know each other. And she doesn’t see a problem with it, or she doesn’t want him to think there’s a problem with it. Loyal women who have integrity and who value and respect their relationships and commitments do not spend countless hours on the phone, talking to and texting male coworkers. She don’t value loyalty or her relationship commitments. She belongs to the streets. This guy needs to dump her and find someone who shares the same goals and values.
She's got no integrity and is a low quality character. If your values don't align get rid of her and move on.
It's called Cash for Keys.
my ex is now with the friend from work. shit never ends well
It's just your turn buddy.
You're absolute Legend Corey 😎💪
my ex wife cheated on me with "just a friend" at her work.
that's all I'm going to say. make of it what you will and learn from my mistakes.
Feel bad for this dude
The problem as far as getting married goes is that the government is going to be in your relationship if you have kids anyway. Marriage is supposed to make things easier, in some cases the government can get involved even if she was living with you and not married yet
I know it stings bro but sack up and move on. Don’t ever give this person another chance.
Where is the link to the TH-cam members only content? I only see the Spotify link.
My gf of 6 years dumped me a month and a half ago. She was having an emotional affair with her boss who’s a dentist. After going no contact after she dumped me, she texted me wanting to work things out. I said I wanted to work things out also, and we went on several dates. After the 4th date I thought things were going really well. Then she tells me she has been seeing him behind my back, while we were trying to work things out. She said she met him at a restaurant and afterwards gave him a bj in his car. She came clean. I was disgusted. Now she says she wants to work things out with me. Now she’s acting all loving. I’m trying to make it work cause I love her still, but I feel absolutely betrayed and don’t trust her.
@RonInTheUSA222 leave this girl dude, i know its hard. but she has zero respect for u or herself even.
I know its very hard to call it quits, but she overstepped a line that u cant come back from. She lied and was hiding stuff behind ur back... is that really a women u can fully trust again? hell no.
what stops her from doing this again? trust me i been in this spot where i should have walked away, i didnt and it cost me dearly in both emotional and financial difficulty.
Her choices are on her not on u. She has low character and zero morals.
Also once the trust is gone, its done. u need to drop her and find urself someone new or a few new options.
Yea bro, drop her. Been there(sort of). Let her see that her actions have consequences. Give her 1 last gift though. The gift of your absence. Improve yourself financially, mentally, spiritually etc. There are way better out there, you just have to open your eyes.
She will just get good a hiding it, and she will leave you later. Not to leave out, it will drive your mind crazy every time she walks out the door.
Walk away and never look back. Self respect brother….she can’t control that. You need to do no contact..for you. Not her. It’s gonna hurt and you’ll want her back even hitting the dating world. But I promise you will get over her.
As mentioned in the video. Men want loyalty…at least be loyal to YOUR boundaries.
Best of luck.
As a woman, my advice is to leave her and go no contact permanently. This is not what love is about - we get addicted to the drama, the manipulations, and the brain chemicals that we get from intimacy. You can never trust her again because this a woman of low morals and character and may even have a personality disorder. Please save yourself from more torture and heartbreak - a worthy woman that loves a man would NEVER behave like this. You deserve respect and loyalty. Good luck.
‘Women don’t lie, men don’t listen’.
Would appear not so, in this case.
Technically she isn't lying, he is a fwb and I figured that out from CCW after 2 months as a student and the relationship is over. He's simply dealing with a disloyal women. However you are the man that blames women for everything and doesn't learn from his mistakes or takes personal responsibility.
@@AndrewAung1992
I do, actually.
I do hold myself accountable & it is knowing this that is really hard to deal with.
It’s one thing being in your 20’s & 30’s knowing this stuff, being much older it’s a different story.
My time is running out.
When you’re a seasoned gent as myself in his sixth decade of life, learning to change old habits that have been ingrained into you by societal programming is like trying to teach an old dog new tricks.
I wonder if this is the same way to approach it if you and the girl spent months together but didnt have a title and didnt say we were exclusive
Nope if you didn't have the what are we talk initiated by her. You are both technically still free agents.
“Just a friend”’s pimp game is strong
Oh Nooo. The coworker. Haha
I cant let go . Thus might be twice in a row lol
If you do that strategy shoot that 1k is probably the networth of that ring you sell. No sunk costs lol
Remember guys , shes not yours , its just your turn.
Red pill incel platitude.
@@CoachCoreyWayne In this case is true actually
2 weeks to slow the curve 😂
Bruh i dont ever wana get married.
what if you already have a kid with her? and she put you on child support, and say that if you take her back she will take you off child support?
What? Choose you man! Much better women out there! She’ll cheat and leave you again in the future.
Be responsible for your kid and walk away, if don’t you will regret it later in life.
@@luisventura9289 the court cannot get custody. feminist women side
@@tsuisunyu so you saying you will stay in a relationship when you begin cheated just because you don’t want to deal with court
Naaaa man up take care of your child an do you
Har Har
The best reason to know how to get your ex back,is so you can do the opposite and make sure she NEVER returns!
Corey I don't get you man.. you always say it's better if she thinks she likes you more then you like her but you also just said you have to show her you care. Contradiction. Would need clarity. Thanks
read the book. don't be a robot.
@@CoachCoreyWayne omg omg corey responded to me im blushing. Cmon man, help me help you
This members only is annoying...I got it the first time coach. At least make it a chapter so we can skip it... Thanks
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 bs!
I disagree with "once a cheater, always a cheater" women cheat on beta men. they stay loyal to alphas. it all depends on what she perceives you as.
Character is destiny.
Captain save a H here. Mr White Knight to the rescue have fun and best of luck
Let me guess: you stole a girl and think your a bull or something now. Your ego will get checked, lol. How you get them is how you lose them. A leopard doesn't change its spots. The fact that your defensive says enough.
Yes, alphas are immune to job loss, paralysis, depression and strokes. Nothing in the universe is capable of compromising an alpha’s universal dominance and therefore immunity to infidelity…
100% true fact.
An alpha isn’t always perfect, but they strive to be. They may get complacent, makes mistakes financially, not be in their center etc. The difference is do u want a woman who looks for attention elsewhere when your struggling or a woman who sticks by your side? Choose ur pill
First!