I don't know if it's the "filling in the gaps, build a problem that neither of us needs, something wrong with me" or the "oh so illogical, I'm not magical, I can't read your mind. But how can you not hear the whole conversation I have sitting still with a brain on fire" or the "when you go quiet, I hate myself" but somehow she managed to put into words the EXACT inner workings of an overthinker in a relationship AND IM HERE FOR THE ATTACC
This feels like an abusive relationship I was in. Any little thing would become a big issue, I felt that I was always being scolded for something that I couldn't figure out. It lead me to feel like there was just something inherently wrong with me. They'd berate me and then go silent and I was left alone with my self blame.
I'm at the verge of pulling an arm off, and it's not really a break-up because I'm not official with this guy, just getting real sick of mixed signals 😂
@@flameprincess7313 I honestly relate with this so much. It's so tough to rip off the arm, and I just sort of did it too. I too just stopped trying so hard for this girl that I'm unofficial with. We deserve better, but it still hurts to do so. One day, we'll be like dodie grinning in the back seat. But for now I'm still torn.... :')
this lyric video specifically feels like the biggest power move it's so silly but also have a pretty deep meaning this WHOLE ALBUM FEELS LIKE A MUSICAL AAAAAAAHHHA
The mannequin, for me, is the feel of talking to someone and just not all understanding what’s happening and maybe even getting frustrated because you feel like their not at all understanding or seeing you
I think I've anxiety (not been professionally diagnosed) and I relate to this song so freaking much. The line "When you go quiet, I hate myself" is so so simple and yet so fucking effective cause omg SAMEE 😭❤️❤️
the pained acceptance on her face in the first verse but also looking like if she goes a liiittle bit further she might cry,, WAHH THE ACTING TALENT edit: omfg the smile when she leans into the now-empty space where the mannequin was, iCONIC
This is exactly how it feels like when you offended someone and you don't even know the reason. They sit there doing nothing, saying nothing. Making you want to hate yourself.
This song describes such a specific emotion and yet it’s so incredibly understandable and relatable. I literally feel like I’ve been waiting for this song to describe this emotion my entire life!
OH GOSH I JUST REALIZED THE "HUMAN" CONNECTION! 😮 congrats dodie and jack and hazel and everybody involved in the making of these videos! this is a masterpiece!
this song hits for me, I got ghosted by a guy I’ve been speaking to for 8 months and I still can’t seem to let him go or think of all the things I must of done or said wrong
it´s so maddening to be ghosted... when you cant get an explanation and a satisfying ending. i feel like its one of the most difficult feelings to endure
I love coming back to this and remembering how awful it is to be in a toxic relationship with no communication! So thankful I've moved on from that stage of my life.
I don't think I've ever heard a song that properly explains this kind of dynamic in a relationship and it's so painfully uplifting, I couldn't be more grateful that this exists now.
I relate to this so bad as someone who’s a horrible self critic and gets anxious people pleasing behaviors when people get mad at me or expect something of me without telling me. Just expecting me to cater or know what they need when they don’t communicate their needs. It feeds the cycle of self hatred and anxiety when you feel like a failure or that you should be some super human that never makes anyone mad ever. And when you’re Internally so afraid you hurt someone, bc you perceive them as being angry after sensing something is off but you can’t tell if it’s all in your head or not. The social anxiety and walking on eggshells gets so exhausting. Sometimes getting out of that place and realizing you’re only human is so freeing.
"But how can you not hear the whole conversation I have sitting still with a brain on fire" just hits home sooo much and it makes so much more sense now that I'm figuring out I probably have ADHD. Like that's literally what it feels like when there's an unexpected silence in a conversation.
The acting is amazing, I could feel it when she kisses the mannequins cheek and turns back with the frustrated and sad face because it's not responding
the mannequin is so inspired because like. it doesn't matter what someone says or does, if you're going to overthink something and create a whole problem in your head, you're gonna do it, regardless of reality. i do this all the time, haha, the person in the other seat just looks different time to time. i imagine they're mad at me, and it becomes true in my head, and then i get upset with them for no reason and throw the whole person out LOL
I giggled at her grin there at the end. Your so wonderful, your so magical, you can read my mind!? Don't go quiet. I'll hate myself. Beautiful album dodie. Mad props and congrats you radiant human you. Thanks again for sharing 💕
whenever I listen to this song, I don't think of this being about a lover. I just imagine dodie's character sitting at a dinner table with her parents and this song being about her relationship with them. especially the "when you go quiet, I hate myself" and "neither of us needs something wrong with me" and "strong expectation, already lose".
I have been listening Dodie songs for a very long long long time And her songs is stuff I want to say to people but the thing is I never say it to people because it's almost like it's my deepest deepest secrets And that thew thing that makes her music amazing Thank you @doddleoddle for being you and helping us in everyway that I know you could not even imagine!!!!
i love how both this lyric video and the normal music video gives the same idea but uses different metaphors like dodie is smart with her music videos.
she got to do the 'driving in a car and watching out of the window while pretending to be in a music video' while ACTUALLY BEING IN ONE
This comment 😂
Oh wow yes!! The dream:,D
THATS EXACTLY WHAT I WAS THINKING
that’s what i was thinking!! i was like ah the dream
She humble
SHE BASICALLY DID A VISUAL ALBUM IN A CAR AHHHHH
yes!!!
All Directed by Jack Howard, He did a wonderful job matching the videos to dodie's beautiful music! 🎶✨🎵🌟✨💖
IKR HUHU 😭💖
Class
i bet this comment is why they made it into one
Don't think I've ever been more happy for someone spreading out in the back of a car!! xxxx
Hahahah thank u Louise luv u
Xxxx
Xxxx
Xxxx on
Dodie got her money's worth out of driving around in the car and I love that for her.
That feeling when you accidentally pull someone’s arm off so you decide to throw them out of the car. Problem solved!
problem: unbuilt
@@ellispipermusic i love this comment so so much
Yeah happens all the time
I don't know if it's the "filling in the gaps, build a problem that neither of us needs, something wrong with me"
or the "oh so illogical, I'm not magical, I can't read your mind. But how can you not hear the whole conversation I have sitting still with a brain on fire"
or the "when you go quiet, I hate myself"
but somehow she managed to put into words the EXACT inner workings of an overthinker in a relationship
AND IM HERE FOR THE ATTACC
she's living all of our dreams: look out the window in the car while in a music video
Legit
This feels like an abusive relationship I was in. Any little thing would become a big issue, I felt that I was always being scolded for something that I couldn't figure out. It lead me to feel like there was just something inherently wrong with me. They'd berate me and then go silent and I was left alone with my self blame.
Felt this. Are you away from them now? Cause I assure you, you deserve better than that in your life
Girl, same. I hope you're in a better place now.
This comment is what I was looking for, so glad someone else related in this way, I hope you’re out now 💕
I love how happy she is after literally throwing someone out of a moving car. I'm so here for it
Love the acting!
Also:
2:56 "Goodbye Daniel!"
2:59 "and your little arm, too"
Not a reference I expected to see here lol
This is the most authentic possible illustration of how it feels to lose a toxic partner.
I’m at the throwing out the mannequin part of my breakup right now can’t fucking wait to reach the last part when she’s smiling
Go you!!!
I'm at the verge of pulling an arm off, and it's not really a break-up because I'm not official with this guy, just getting real sick of mixed signals 😂
@@flameprincess7313 I honestly relate with this so much. It's so tough to rip off the arm, and I just sort of did it too. I too just stopped trying so hard for this girl that I'm unofficial with. We deserve better, but it still hurts to do so. One day, we'll be like dodie grinning in the back seat. But for now I'm still torn.... :')
I love that
this lyric video specifically feels like the biggest power move it's so silly but also have a pretty deep meaning this WHOLE ALBUM FEELS LIKE A MUSICAL AAAAAAAHHHA
Slight Human music video vibes with dodie trying to get a guy she built/mannequin to fall in love with her 😂
As catchy as ever, with lyrics that speak directly to my anxiety riddled brain.
this is complete art. i need the bloopers though !! skdkskjksdljskl
even ur lyric videos have to add so many layers of meaning huh dodes
As Meg says in Hercules "No man (or woman) is worth the aggravation"
The mannequin, for me, is the feel of talking to someone and just not all understanding what’s happening and maybe even getting frustrated because you feel like their not at all understanding or seeing you
This is so scarily relatable in a way I can't explain
I think I've anxiety (not been professionally diagnosed) and I relate to this song so freaking much. The line "When you go quiet, I hate myself" is so so simple and yet so fucking effective cause omg SAMEE 😭❤️❤️
this is LITERALLY magnificent, what did we do to deserve a little series of lyric videos that are basically music videos in themselves ugh im so happy
god i can’t WAIT to hear this one live and jump around with everyone and scream the words, it’s gonna be so fun
Imagine driving down the road just to see Dodie fling the top of a mannequin out of her car and drive away lmao.
the pained acceptance on her face in the first verse but also looking like if she goes a liiittle bit further she might cry,, WAHH THE ACTING TALENT
edit: omfg the smile when she leans into the now-empty space where the mannequin was, iCONIC
Why did I started sobbing when she spread out in the seat. This is too real
the manequin gets to sit in a car with dodie and can't even at least smile? wow 🙄
It would be really scary if it smiles
This is exactly how it feels like when you offended someone and you don't even know the reason. They sit there doing nothing, saying nothing. Making you want to hate yourself.
This song describes such a specific emotion and yet it’s so incredibly understandable and relatable.
I literally feel like I’ve been waiting for this song to describe this emotion my entire life!
OH GOSH I JUST REALIZED THE "HUMAN" CONNECTION! 😮 congrats dodie and jack and hazel and everybody involved in the making of these videos! this is a masterpiece!
So expressive. Captivating. Evocative. Especially the "talking" part and the part without the dummy. Love it.
I love all the homages to dodie’s old songs and videos, the manikin her reminds me of the human music video, etc.
YO THAT TWIST IN THE END IM LIVING FOR IT
this song hits for me, I got ghosted by a guy I’ve been speaking to for 8 months and I still can’t seem to let him go or think of all the things I must of done or said wrong
Same girl! Just forget about him…you will be able to move on, I promise!
it´s so maddening to be ghosted... when you cant get an explanation and a satisfying ending. i feel like its one of the most difficult feelings to endure
I love coming back to this and remembering how awful it is to be in a toxic relationship with no communication! So thankful I've moved on from that stage of my life.
I love how all the music videos are in the car lul
Omg dodie the actress these are AMAZING
THIS ONE. THIS CERTAINTY IN DODIE. YES.
3:04 that mood change was great!
Love how she's smiling and driving along at the end, like she's moving towards something better 😊 one of the best songs on the album!
I don't think I've ever heard a song that properly explains this kind of dynamic in a relationship and it's so painfully uplifting, I couldn't be more grateful that this exists now.
This level of cuteness really makes me mad at the person who makes her hate herself.
I relate to this so bad as someone who’s a horrible self critic and gets anxious people pleasing behaviors when people get mad at me or expect something of me without telling me. Just expecting me to cater or know what they need when they don’t communicate their needs. It feeds the cycle of self hatred and anxiety when you feel like a failure or that you should be some super human that never makes anyone mad ever. And when you’re Internally so afraid you hurt someone, bc you perceive them as being angry after sensing something is off but you can’t tell if it’s all in your head or not. The social anxiety and walking on eggshells gets so exhausting. Sometimes getting out of that place and realizing you’re only human is so freeing.
Dodie spoiled us with these... they're beautiful
I LOVE THESE SO MUCH
And this one's just a BOP
The visual metaphor in this one-- I can't !!
Never thought Id find a new favorite artist in a Bo Burnham comment section. Lovely music.
filming these from the back of the car is SUCH a clever concept I love it
"But how can you not hear the whole conversation I have sitting still with a brain on fire" just hits home sooo much and it makes so much more sense now that I'm figuring out I probably have ADHD. Like that's literally what it feels like when there's an unexpected silence in a conversation.
this song is every social interaction ever
I love all of Dodie's expressions in this one!
no im losing my mind thanks dodie x
Dodie's face is so amazingly expressive.
The acting is amazing, I could feel it when she kisses the mannequins cheek and turns back with the frustrated and sad face because it's not responding
the mannequin is so inspired because like. it doesn't matter what someone says or does, if you're going to overthink something and create a whole problem in your head, you're gonna do it, regardless of reality. i do this all the time, haha, the person in the other seat just looks different time to time. i imagine they're mad at me, and it becomes true in my head, and then i get upset with them for no reason and throw the whole person out LOL
this is so good WHAT
congrats dodie and jack
ALL OF THESE ARE SO GOOD ITS SO UNREAL...charming and funny and heartwrenching AH
The moment she puts her head on the lifeless mannequin's shoulder hit me like a ton of bricks. What powerful imagery.
This collection is like a lovely but intensely thought provoking road trip
It's funny cause Dodie lyrics always blend into each other to me that I don't even know what's going on but I get all the feels and totally get it
Such a talent!!! 🔥🔥🔥 This is such a wonderful and powerful video. A++++
Two lyric videos in one day and an album release dodie ur spoiling us❤
UGH THIS IS GENIUS
Uha00q00
I can imagine someone going for a walk and seeing the pieces of a manequin on the floor and go "it's dodie again isn't it?"
This is basically an anxious/avoidant relationship. Yup i get it.
love this one’s message
I giggled at her grin there at the end.
Your so wonderful, your so magical, you can read my mind!? Don't go quiet. I'll hate myself. Beautiful album dodie. Mad props and congrats you radiant human you. Thanks again for sharing 💕
Her voice is so calming, and the album is filled with straight bops! This one has to be one of my favorites ngl
Can we talk about Dodie's acting skills?! Love the visual concept here. Really adds to the lyrics.
whenever I listen to this song, I don't think of this being about a lover. I just imagine dodie's character sitting at a dinner table with her parents and this song being about her relationship with them. especially the "when you go quiet, I hate myself" and "neither of us needs something wrong with me" and "strong expectation, already lose".
Awww dodie's smile after throwing out the mannequin is precious skdhskdhdk
I LAUGHED SO HARD I LOVE THIS
Thank you for writing the music that makes me feel less alone with my "constantly-on-fire-brain"
SO GOOD!!
She’s so creative 🤍
As someone with intense rejection sensitive dysphoria, when someone does go quiet I do hate myself
the one dislike is the mannequin
How rude of it xd
there are eight mannequins now, not the vibe
i have chills
In love W the whole debut
what a treat
I feel like this applies to so many different situations for introverts it’s magnificent
I LOVE HER SO MUCH OMGGG
Queen ♥️
REALLY liked the ending. ❤️
Damn this song and mv almost made me cry I love it so much
Hell yea!!! 💚
This one is awesome... those drums make the song feel so big
its not right how much i can relate to every word of this song just WOW
i never knew you could use a car in so many ways to create beautiful music videos
I have been listening Dodie songs for a very long long long time
And her songs is stuff I want to say to people but the thing is I never say it to people because it's almost like it's my deepest deepest secrets
And that thew thing that makes her music amazing
Thank you @doddleoddle for being you and helping us in everyway that I know you could not even imagine!!!!
Bought your album and loved it from start to finish! You're amazing!
this is such a beautiful lovely song
I have never related to a song more in my life wow
This is my fav one so far, dodie. Lovely.
A great album for exploring and recovering from complex trauma Dodie 🖤🖤
this video spoke to me so deeply
Amazing! I love this one
i love how both this lyric video and the normal music video gives the same idea but uses different metaphors like dodie is smart with her music videos.
This song hits me hard i cry so much and the ending to the video was amazing thank you hun