Married Couple Plays Agree To Disagree!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ก.ย. 2024
- Married couple plays agree to disagree! Such juicy questions! Find Jess book here! 👉🏼 bit.ly/3Gvuk1g
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I’m obsessed with the way this is filmed. It feels so intimate & casual. I love it!
Love you guys ❤
Yall are the most unproblematic couple. I love it 🥰
I love the communication and explanations in this ❤️
hopefully i could have that book 🥰🙏🏻❤️
Love from South Africa
Is Jess’ new book heavily faith based? I’m not religious so struggling to decided if it’s something I’d enjoy or not! 😊
good evening guys, from the philippines! hope you're doing well 🤍🌨️
Are u guys going to black pink concert...
Lol 😂 this video is hilarious 😂 so funny
Wow Jess when you said ‘it’s not marriage that’s hard, it’s life that is hard’ my husband and I (we’re both watching!) we’re like ‘woah!) because that’s exactly what we’ve been saying to each other the last five years of our marriage!! Amazing to hear it from someone else who thinks the same. We also just had our first baby in April and have found doing life together more difficult, but it’s always worth the effort. Thanks for another great video guys ❤
Aww bless you and your family ❤
I love their relationship and how understanding and mature they are, you can really see the love they have for each other.
yes i agree with you
The camera angles are giving me reality tv show vibes and I love it 😂❤
The way you guys talk to each other and the ability to listen and then reply with so much love and maturity is honestly what I look forward to in my marriage oneday. So Godly and pure
Love the way you guys filmed this and the honesty in your answers, was so fun! I think what made it so special though was that it felt like we were watching you two experience the conversation, instead of being presented with it in a way that was addressed to us? It was really cool to just see you guys talk through it, laugh about it and be open and honest with your thoughts and reasons why. Definitely a new favourite video. Would love to see another round please. 🙏🏻🙏🏻
absolutely agree! I love this presentation and the authenticity of it.
Yesss I feel the same way!
As a psychology student, we get way too many cases of mother getting jealous of the child, cuz dad loves the child more than her. This is so common than you can even imagine. Mom thinks that "he doesn't love me anymore like he used to. Now his love is divided into me and child. Etc."
So I'm so happy that Jess feels more love as a mom when she sees Gabriel with their daughter. They gonna be great parents. ♥️
That is so interesting. Do you think that those feelings/ dynamics come in as a mother when actual emotional needs are not met by the husband or bf. I have a friend who is in a toxic relationship where needs aren’t met, he is rude and dismissive sometimes. They’re engaged and we were talking about kids and ideally if we would want a girl or boy first and she said she doesn’t want a girl first bc she knows her fiancé would just push her to the side and just see the baby girl as the apple of his eye and won’t even care about her…. She was laughing as saying it but considering everything she goes through with him I was really taken a back by it. I think it speaks volumes that you would potentially feel that way in the future.🤔
They already are great parents 🥰
what in the verity
Gabriel’s humor has been honed in a lot more as he’s grown up I love it😂😂 “ our opinion” done!!! 😭😭😭
Laughed so much HAHAHA
I really loved that she said “I respect your opinion” before saying her opinion,
I love how open and honest you guys are with each other it's refreshing 💕
Wow I haven't watched you guys' content for a while, but I enjoyed this video so much. I feel like the conversations that you post online now are so mature, yet still funny. This really didn't seem like a "we have to make content" video, just an honest fun activity between spouses. God bless you guys 🤗
*_Everyone who’s reading this comment, Please keep on pushing in life and never give up. Can't wait to see you successful one day and May God always bless you with love and happiness!!!_* 🙏💙
Thank you for this.. 😔🙏🏻
Amen
Likewise more blessings
I needed this, thank you!
Thank you very much 💙
I know your relationship is nowhere perfect. But I truly aspire to have this one day honestly ❤
So beautiful to watch, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i can't stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just can't, i love her so much, i don't know what i am bring this here for, i can't stop thinking about her~
it's always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation my wife for 12 years left me, i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back.
@@haynesatteh4463 wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?
@@bartholetbay412 her name is MIRIAM CHAMANI DIETRICH, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as a caster and healer.
@@haynesatteh4463 Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.
When it comes to cheating I really think it’s about intentions. There’s been a few times where someone assumes I’m flirting or my husband is flirting when we are both just very friendly and talkative. But others have perceived that as flirting. So for my husband and I we go by intentions rather than perceptions
Jess we need some wife advice sit down videos please! You make it look so easy and organic!
Omg I would love this !!
I love that you all published your own ideas and didn't do a couples book or something. This is just way cute and personal to you all furthering my obsession LOL
This was definitely one of the most authentic videos out of the many authentic videos you have, because I felt like I was really getting to know you both more personally through these answers. I love how you both argue gently and defiantly, backing up your own thoughts with great conviction. 😂😂 It’s actually very healthy because honesty in communication makes a relationship thrive and actually get a lot closer. You both are great friends. You guys are perfect for eachother. The opposite for one another. In regards to the relationship argument question, it can be hard to not stress about what your partner is stressing about and what your partner clearly wants to sort out by themselves with God. I love to sort things out on my own too because most of the time I already know what I have to do, just need to get myself together before I do it/to do it. We should never be offended because it’s a personal choice. But sometimes there needs to be a balance, for the sake of communication and the marriage, simply because you are both “one”, no longer separate. But also to be team mates doesn’t always mean do everything together but do everything with peace and respect/understand the other persons desires in a way that produces peace for both husband and wife. It can be difficult crossing that border but God helps us bend towards one-another’s desires and show Grace. Prayer helps a lot too in letting go. I love this video and love the “serious” editing. God bless you guys in Jesus name❤️🙏🏾 love y’all !
I love how intentional you both are about your marriage, especially being new parents ❤
This is so fun to watch, do more please! Really love when you guys just sit and talk 💛
Im getting chills at how beautiful the communication is🥺🥺❤️
Love this setup in a Q&A type video!! We appreciate the effort u guys put into your videos!
I loved this video so much!! The way that they can be completely honest and open with each other while sharing with us in a truly humble, humorous and kind way is so beautiful and inspiring. Love you guys!!! 💛💛
Wow I love the honesty so so much! Please never stop doing social media, you guys give so much inspiration through your content!❤️❤️
when Jess said, I have to be honest about the Divorce Question and Gabe's like, when?! No, no, no, like considered what would happen if it did occur. 😂 Could they be any cuter!
You guys are truly couple goals seriously. The fact since day one you have put God first in your relationship and honestly did not care what anybody else thought I feel like is very humble and is very Noble and is how relationship should be with God being the Center focus of it. I have learned so much from you guys since I met you guys and since I started following you which feels like forever ago now.
Wow I didn’t realize me and Jess r the same age wow I’m just at a different stage of my life and not ready for marriage and kids but u guys r and just seem more mature i love that for u guys !!
Love Jess’ view on marriage not being hard…life is the challenge. I SO agree!!!
I really appreciate how raw you guys are 😊
I really like this style of video. It’s different what the style you normally go for. And by that I mean the way it’s edited. I really like this, it completely focuses on you guys and what you say
i remember watching their first video together when i was kid, thinking that they weren’t going to last cos they were so awkward 😭. but now, look at them!! the comfort they find in and affection they have for each other is evident((: how nice
I feel as that it does not matter when or what age you’ve had a baby/child. It doesn’t not matter what other people say or think. Nobody has the right to tell you how to live your life and the choices you make. I feel it matter what you do with it. If you think you’re a good fit and ready then have a baby whenever and how many ever. I’ve seen so many of my family members get shamed by their own parents only to turn out to be amazing mom’s and dad’s!
The best thing about having children younger you get to enjoy your 40s. Plus you have the energy to play with them. I have pre-ordered your book Jess ordered it last week when you first announced it.
But you can‘t enjoy your 20s and 30s when that’s literally the best years for a lot of people.
But yea, you’ll definitely have more energy if you re young that’s a real « plus ».
more like this please!! this is so entertaining 😂
Gabe and Jess’s answers are so honest, thoughtful, and genuine! I admire you guys. Thank you for your honesty. The end of the video got me 🥺😢
This has been the BEST video thus far from you both! I loved the point Jess made about time being the difficultly, not the marriage itself. The wisdom ✨
I love how calm they are, its so comforting:)
“I think I love you more now than I have ever have.”
I really enjoy learning communication tips just by listening to the two of you communicate
This video was super enjoyable - appreciate getting straight into it and not having ads
Jess and Gabe, I love you both so much. You both are beautiful gifts and blessings to this world. Gabe, I read your book and finished it within a week and a half. It was so beautifully written! You truly have such a talent for storytelling. Jess, I added your new journal to my Christmas wishlist. I am so proud of you both. ❤
This video is just another beautiful reminder of why should one follow you guys! The values you show in respect to your marriage, your families and the honesty in the answers was just a treat to watch 🤩🤩🤩
Most the people I know had kids between 19-25. So 25 is average in my head. Not young.
You guys are a beautiful couple! Couple goals all the way ♥️
The way they allow each other to elaborate on every response demonstrates just how much they respect each other.
I love how positive they are. The way of explaining the situation is just amazing
I love these types of videos! Hope you do more these kinds of videos! Also, I already pre-ordered Jess’ journal. Can’t wait to get it!!! 😊🫶🏼
Jess is so wise, I loved her answers ❤
The too young question surprised me because my mom had her first kid at 21 so i would never think 25 is too young to have a kid i think it's all about social perspective
I’m DEFINITELY the one to “start” the argument by going quiet 🤦♀️ Also, really love the filming style of this video!
you guys are incredible, I loved this conversation , loved the way you filmed this, it felt like we were watching you two having an honest and genuine conversation, so sweet ❤
This was such a good short and substantial video. Love this style of content!
This is so wholesome and sweet❤
Ohmy! Love this new setup 😊 It’s simple and chill. Your personalities really continue to shine here.
My mom had my sister at 24 and my dad was 23, I personally don't think 25 is young to have a kid. Also it's your relationship if you both think your ready for kids then do it. I wouldn't let anyone tell me when I'm ready to have a kid or not.
absolutely love the trust, love, and maturity in this relationship! 😭 from Vine era to now, you are still my top ship!
Loved this video. The only thing that i mind is that there is no camera in the middle so that we could see both of you. It was a bit much to constantly jump from one to another
Your facial expressions make this funnier🤣
I preordered your journal and I’m so excited for it!!! 🎉congrats!
8:38 tbh I had a min heart attack too he was not alone
I was about to sleep and i checked TH-cam randomly and was so happy seeing your video!! This was pretty interesting, loved listening to your insights
I totally understand Jess! I don’t want to talk about it at the moment when there’s an argument, I want to go cool down first and then come back to resolve the issue
My husband and I are very similar. We got married young but he had just joined the military and was about to move away to England for 3 years. Prior this this we had been together for a year and then engaged for a little over a year to year and a half. I didn’t want to be apart, plus I knew he was the one anyway. And here we are 18 years later lol.
Also, I like to be left alone for a moment when I am upset, especially when I am angry. My husband is a right now person and it drives me crazy. I keep telling him to let me cool off for a moment and him bothering me makes it worse.
I agree that flirty is cheating. You marry the person you are with for a reason. When man and woman get married they become one in the eyes of GOD. When you are flirting with other people it means that somewhere in the back of your head you find them attractive. You shouldn't be looking at anyone else that way period. Your heart is already accounted for.
It's so interesting how different the society is. Jess says it's probably looked at as too young to have a baby at 25, while where i live it's considered a bit late to have one 😂
I'm 25 this year and seeing all of my peers have families just blows my mind because i personally am in the headspace of having kids around 30
I think Jess is more beautiful than ever!!
please do more of these videos you guys are hilarious !!! you guys are so in love with life and with each other it's contagious, never stop being who you are and who God want you to be 🙏❤
I really look up to you guys. ❤
I love that you guys didn’t answer everything the safest way. You were honest with each answer, and even the stuff that could be perceived as negative answers had a lot of logical thought behind it. You guys seem to have a very mature, honest, and loving relationship. It’s so inspiring to see ❤
I could’ve watched this for hours! Love you guys!
Gabe finally wearing denim is the best thing to happen to me. That man was rocking joggers for the longest time lol
does anyone feel the energy off in this video?
they look a lot more stressed and it feels like something may have happened between them. hope not tho
they’re probably just tired. thats what happens when you have a baby.
I'm 24 and have 4 kids
We got married at 19 and 22
I gave birth to my eldest 6weeks before my 21st birthday, then I had twins 4weeks before my 23rd (they passed away) and I had my youngest 2weeks before my 24th birthday
Nobody:
Gabe: so in the grand scheme of things 👐🏻
I nearly unsubscribed when I saw the title of the vlog. Coz I strongly hate divorce and you guys are a couple I look upto sometimes. However,I'm grateful I watched. Thanks for being vulnerable and honest ❤️God bless you
You guys are so open about you guys' relationship and a little bit of a different way than some other people I watch so I think you guys are awesome and I really enjoy you know you're you're openness
I’m loving these super honest moments!!!! Keeps bringing me back🥰
Jess is so cute 🤩
Jess you look so beautiful! Also, love this video and seeing how you have grown together. Sending much love and many blessings xoxo
Gabe, I saw your book at my local Barnes and Noble! Hope you both are well, sending love from the East Coast:)
Ok jess dont shock us about the divorce thing 😱🫣
Relationships should be work. But to think a relationship is hard, that's a very big sign to take a deeper look of what you're really doing.
this is is kind of irrelevant to the video topic 😂 but i really appreciate when y'all don't drag out your outro/intros, it feels less like we are being preached at and more like we are invited into your conversation!
More videos like that please!
Why i feel like gab was trying to answer for her the whole time lol specially the divorce one 🤨🤣🤣
This happened to me in the U.K in 1988. When I fell pregnant with my 1st child in September 1988, I had the month before turned 26 years old. When I went to my 1st hospital appointment with the gynaecologist, I was called a geriatric mother. I asked why have you called me that I’m only 26 and I was told that the average age with your first child is 18-21. I thought that was absolutely ludicrous. I think you were both sensible learning about each other and enjoying being married to each other, building your bond as a twosome before having children. I think 6 years was an absolutely fine amount of time. You both married young and waiting to your mid 20’s to take on a family was right. Make sure you keep communicating with each other and make time for each other with a date night at least once every 2-3 weeks. Remember it’s great being a mother or father, but one day your children will grow up, leave home and you will be back on your own again.
I had my first child at 25 and my second and 28. It's perspective. I am glad I had my children when I did with my husband as we are young and been together for a long time.
They're sooo cute an open with each other 😍😍 couple's goals!
Gabe giving is all the angles for the divorce question haha
Jess is firing out the wisdom!!!
loved the way this was filmed - such a fun video! Jess' answer on the divorce question caught me off guard 😅
How can i order "Day by day" from Armenia?😭😭❤️💙💛
Amazon probably. Jess has the link in her last video.
@@zmartieq thank you soo much
I just wanted to tell you guys that Jesus loves you so much...no matter what. He died for you and gave you new life. You can tap into that by simply believing in His sacrifice!