Rape in any circumstance is a terrible thing. Also, sex should never be used as a weapon in a relationship, either by force or by deprivation, by either partner. There is a responsibility of care and concern on both parties.
I think when partners really love themselves any of them will consider the other person first and do as much as possible to satisfy her/him first. If a woman wants to make love when the husband is not in the mood at that time l think the man should do everything possible to make love with her. And the same thing applies to the man. That's love, considering and satisfying your partner first. Having sex with your partner only when you're in the mood is egocentrism, thinking only about yourself first. It's not love but me, me, me, my desires first. It's not easy for both partners to always be in the mood of making love at the same time. So partners that really love themselves will never ever complain or accuse the other of rape.
@@hsl1020 I love your comment. That is feminism, women only want to have sex when they are in the mood alone and want you, by all means, to jump in the mood to take them. This is quite unfair to men. When they need money, they want u as a man to go the extra mile to get it for them. Most women are selfish in marriage.
@@hsl1020 she's very selfish with that statement, you can hear her say if she's not in the mood and the guy is in the mood, to hell with him but if she's in the mood and the guy doesn't give it to her, it becomes a problem.
To every issue there are 3 sides: 1. Your side 2. His side 3. The truth So far we have her side, we don't have His side and the truth so slow down sharing her 'pains' and applauding her 'courage'.
Juliet Ibrahim, has become so Nigerian in the way she speaks. It is so, different from the way she talks when she newly came to Nollywood. Omo! Nigerians, can influence a person. @At Juliet Ibrahim i am so so sorry you had to go through all of those painful experience. Look at you now... You are a strong, beautiful woman.
This life nor balance. This one see man that was dieing for her lose poosy she said she doesn't want. If she sees a guy that has sex only once in 2 weeks she would complain that the guy doesn't love her. Women, what do you guys really want?
I feel her pain. I live through the shame for years and couldn't talk it about to anyone. I have been raped times with outnumbering no was ever an answer to him. I cried for days and nights it came a time that I prayed for God to kill me under him, this man will just laugh and act like it was his right and I had no reason to refuse him or say no to him. But God in his way did not kill me he kept me. I thought he loved me just like I did. Whenever I got pregnant the 1st thing that came out of his mouth was abortion. If I kept the pregnancy he let me go through it by myself until I give birth to that child. I pretended for years so I wouldn't be judged by our society. I started asking God sense refused to kill me, let him give me the courage to be strong. In the year 2021, God did it for me, he brought a house for us to move that, and that is when I told him I wanted to live by myself. Be a single mother to 4 wonderful kids is not easy. But God has to been good to me, I can complain.
Thank you for orientating and inspiring us ladies to speak up if you are in an abusive relationship. You're a courageous and phenomenal woman. Great and Inspiring discussion!💯
@@andrewomo5429 Are you a rapist? Dear woman, No shame in speaking out! The monsters need to get punished! The shame belongs to the rapist, not the victim. Baba Ijesha has just been sentenced to 16years in prison. Get help! Speak out!
@@Oluwakemifully A woman exposes her body in a TV interview...you are negatively labelling others... wherever you are, try the same and tell me the consequences.
No cell phone to call for help if you are locked in someone home. How did you get there were you tied up and forced to enter in? Im not saying her story is not right to tell it just got some holes that both parties should address and tell the complete story.
@@SpokenWord4 Sorry did you watch, she said she was in a relationship with him so she obviously went to his hse..there is no excuse or justification for a man to abuse a woman sexually, emotionally and physically especially if he is a son of a woman
@@liciashealthandmaternity Common sense has to be used. If a woman uses a man spend all of his money no one comes to his defense. He's a man he is suppose to have common sense not to do certain things. It is a double standard. If she did not want to be with that man don't spend his money, don't go to his house. Nothing out here is free this female entitlement needs to stop. I don't justify the man actions Im saying the woman should not have gotten in that situation taking his money gifts or invitation to come to his home.
I've also noticed when the men say no and the woman forces her way in its a sexy move not same when it's the other way round, right?! 😂😂😂 Why would you marry him if you're not really sexually attracted him? Now there's a simple answer for that it's because most women today marry the men with more money who they believe can take care of them and not out of love. I mean in most cases so that's it you enjoy the luxury he's giving you why don't you give to him back what he wants without complaining. That's the reason he choosed to get married to you too right?! I'm sure if you hear the sidestory I'll be different from what she's yapping now. A woman is always turn on when she is sexually attracted to the man. But if she thinks she doesn't feel free to walk out of the marriage simple. Don't forget marriage is for better for worse at times you offer him the sex cause he needs it same as men do to them period. 👰😂😂
For those who are saying they want to first hear the man's side of the story. Are you saying a woman should not speak up about her experience if the man is not there to tell his own side of the story? Also, how many men who have actually raped women have you seen come out willingly and publickly to admit it? Rape happens on a daily basis all over the world and one reason why so many men get away with it is because of how women are treated when they tell their stories. It is true that some women would lie about being raped but that does not take away the fact that most women who are courageous enough to publickly admit being raped are very likely speaking of something that actually experienced.
No people want to hear both sides to make an accurate judgment, are we supposed to just take her side and believe it to be the absolute truth, no that’s not how it’s done
@@robertcarter408 No you don't have to believe her story. She's not telling her story so you would believe it. She's telling her story for her personal victory. Being able to speak about an event like this helps many victims heal better. In such a case it would also help other women who may have been through such trauma to know that they are not alone and they too can come out strong from their pain. So, you see, you are not her audience here. She does not need you to believe her. She just wants her freedom and to help others get theirs. In group therapy sessions for abused victims the first thing they get them to do is simply tell their story so others can hear it. There is power and freedom when such people can simple tell their story without pain, anger or remorse. This is her telling her story. You don;t need to like it or believe it. It's her story, not yours,
@@andrewomo5429 if a man get played by a woman and lose his money job or home there is no one coming to his rescue and saying I feel your pain. They say how are you so stupid to not know she was going to use you? This double standard is just sick.
Amber Heard/Johnny Depp. Taught us plenty of lessons. We should protect women and do so with truth and evidence not destroy someone over mere allegations. MPV
God bless you, you're one of the few reasonable person in this comment section. People always choice to go with feelings and emotions when it comes to matters of abuse instead of Fact.
Amber Heard was sued for ruining his career and it’s wrong to tell your side of the story without telling his? Women will side with other women without hearing everything. Before you get with anyone know who they are especially before sleeping over their house.
I don't believe everything a woman says, after I was charged with assault by my ex and her mother here in America, when in fact I was in another state on a work assignment. This is a woman I had NEVER raised my hand on in my life before . When I returned, I was arraigned in court like a common criminal. The goal was to make me lose my job, and possibly send me to prison. Luckily on the day of the trial, the judge asked the officer who filed the charges, if he saw me on that day when he responded to the call. The officer said no. He further asked if they had bruising or anything similar. He said no. The wise judge in his wisdom dismissed the case. If not, I would have gone to prison. After that day, I have not believed any woman who accuses a man of anything.
Yes some can be evil, with a lot of issues and trauma. When they do have a good man they are not satisfied. They get the thug and they are surprised when they don't want them anymore. They are confused.com
I really enjoyed watching my favorite movie star Juliet Ibrahim, you are so talented, beautiful and soooooo generous. I really love and like your conversation today
Speaking out? Was there a time they were quiet ? Innocent mem have be killed.. jailed for lies and wrong accusation of rape from this women. .. when a woman cries out for rape and even if it's a lie the man will be beating or jailed befote he cam proves he's innocent.. When a man doesn't want to make love and the woman want it.. what do they accused the man of? If my wife says no and I did it with her rape ? You are all mad
What's the balance. Where's the point of equilibrium? If you are not in the mood, fine. Where do I get relief? Is he also allowed to not be in the mood. I believe that eventually you not being in the mood changes him
@@stanleyivor595 Oh I see you here too slightly favouring the rapist. I mean we are talking of rape, and you are talking of partners not being in the mood. You need to check yourself and have a rethink of your comment. Yes, men are also allowed to not be in the mood sometimes. No one is allowed to forcefully have carnal knowledge of the other. No one!
@@stanleyivor595 she’s speaking from her experience. Of course if a man is not in the mood then the partner they are with should also compromise. You’re not gonna die if you don’t have sex for a day . They should be compromise from both people. Of course Juliet knows this but she is speaking of rape and harmful relationships. Please consider this.
@@queenie_2_0_2_4 I hear all your comments and at the risk of sounding pro-rape. When I read or watch stuff, I tend to think people exaggerate things to make them media worthy or sensational. That's why I ask where's the balance. You're allowed to react emotionally to this issue, I'm not going to.
Don't listen to one sided story.She said she was pined on the wall,how can the man make love to her on the wall??? she s trying to attract attention,I don't believe a one sided story.
I've also noticed when the men say no and the woman forces her way in its a sexy move not same when it's the other way round, right?! 😂😂😂 Why would you marry him if you're not really sexually attracted him? Now there's a simple answer for that it's because most women today marry the men with more money who they believe can take care of them and not out of love. I mean in most cases so that's it you enjoy the luxury he's giving you why don't you give to him back what he wants without complaining. That's the reason he choosed to get married to you too right?! I'm sure if you hear the sidestory I'll be different from what she's yapping now. A woman is always turn on when she is sexually attracted to the man. But if she thinks she doesn't feel free to walk out of the marriage simple. Don't forget marriage is for better for worse at times you offer him the sex cause he needs it same as men do to them period. 👰😂😂
We women have been through a lot, personally I had similar experience in the past. Yes, I say no, it means no, and I believed saying no to someone means they would stop. It's unfortunate, because for me this was someone in the Church. We really should stand for our rights, grace to God I am now married and happy
Most Africans, especially Nigerians, aren't ready for that conversation Juliet. They're still stuck in the "blissful" world of misogyny. Just last week, I was having a conversation with one at work and he said a wife is supposed to give her husband srx at will. I wished they'd try that phuckery with a civilized wife.
The problem with Nigeria is most of the men only care about what is between their legs, all you think about is sex. Imagine what the country has become, think men!!
Women who love their husbands do not deny them sex. if you chose a husband and then proceed to not want to have sex with him, he should be able to divorce you without having to pay alimony.
I've also noticed when the men say no and the woman forces her way in its a sexy move not same when it's the other way round, right?! 😂😂😂 Why would you marry him if you're not really sexually attracted him? Now there's a simple answer for that it's because most women today marry the men with more money who they believe can take care of them and not out of love. I mean in most cases so that's it you enjoy the luxury he's giving you why don't you give to him back what he wants without complaining. That's the reason he choosed to get married to you too right?! I'm sure if you hear the sidestory I'll be different from what she's yapping now. A woman is always turn on when she is sexually attracted to the man. But if she thinks she doesn't feel free to walk out of the marriage simple. Don't forget marriage is for better for worse at times you offer him the sex cause he needs it same as men do to them period. 👰😂😂
I thought King Solomon taught us to bring the two parties together, and let them tell their stories, only then could one figure out who is telling the truth, as it was with two ladies that stood before king Solomon.
She from my hometown Pleebo Maryland County Liberia, 1993 war in Pleebo, I remembered, we walked from Pleebo to Africost la cote d'Ivoire, & cross the border
No one is saying she has done the wrong thing by saying it. She has a record of even leaving marriage how much more a relationship. The guy is only asking to hear from the other side of the story. Is it too had to do ?
What I have learnt in life is that when you are tied with the person in love u create something for you to be separate from each other. Not long from your separation one of u find himself or herself with new relationship. These issues of raping for the people who are engaged have so much mix reaction
That is what you get when you went for money and wealth in a relationship. There are so many men out there who are ready to worship you and be that man you deserve, but no you won't accept them because they won't be able to buy you diamonds for your birthdays. Better remain single.
I've also noticed when the men say no and the woman forces her way in its a sexy move not same when it's the other way round, right?! 😂😂😂 Why would you marry him if you're not really sexually attracted him? Now there's a simple answer for that it's because most women today marry the men with more money who they believe can take care of them and not out of love. I mean in most cases so that's it you enjoy the luxury he's giving you why don't you give to him back what he wants without complaining. That's the reason he choosed to get married to you too right?! I'm sure if you hear the sidestory I'll be different from what she's yapping now. A woman is always turn on when she is sexually attracted to the man. But if she thinks she doesn't feel free to walk out of the marriage simple. Don't forget marriage is for better for worse at times you offer him the sex cause he needs it same as men do to them period. 👰😂😂
Totally unacceptable from men, the man should have been beating by her brothers, but ladies must look for real godly values in men they date. Sleeping over at a man's house too is dangerous. Choose good men, una no dey hear, most ladies look for handsome and wealthy men..... this is what you get when you ignore godly counsel..... thank God you came out alive.
This was criminal. How one could escape from such an ugly situation. Such a stupid rascal must be awarded maximum punishment. Feel so sorry for the episode.
We have all learned gradually not to believe one sided stories. Especially when a modern day women speaks up who can actually converse before cameras and crowd about an abusive relationship. Not that we do not respect women or their stories. It's just that we really have to weigh a women and the accused man equally especially in today's times. All the very best to this women.
Some men use 1 Corinthians 7:4 as an excuse to rape their wives. 1 Corinthians 7:4 says " The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife", This verse is not supporting or endorsing violence, it is only instructing each spouse to willingly, lovingly and freely submit to the each other. Colossians 3:19 says "Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them".
People are in these comments talking about "sorry you had to go through this" we meet cases where women accuse men of something they did not do . People are in jail for something they didn't do two sided stories are the best not just one Amanda Du Pont told her story and jub jub also said his part now we all know the truth Women go out saying he doesn't give me this he doesn't give me that is that no goldiging and riping but we wont say it🤧
Ladies and gentlemen, let's not forget that rape can't happen between husband and wife. And please let's not exaggerate the story so that the society can us as saints. Why was she refusing to give herself to her husband? Sisters please let's not disgrace each other. Marriage is the most beautiful thing on earth and let's not spoil the good things in marriage. Women just talk too much while men are at most times and cases very quite about issues concerning their problems in their marriages. Grow up sisters please
Marriage between two people who lacks guidance will always result in failure. Also a man should not get married to a woman who is traumatized by war or sexual abuse. Such marriages mostly ends in divorce. Not because a woman is beautiful looking she is marriable. That woman may be suffering from mental disease such as post traumatic stress from horrible experience in her past life. When a woman denies her husband conjugal rights the marriage does not automatically ends. Sex is an inherent part of marriage, to deny your husband or wife sex is to deny a conjugal right that comes with marriage. The woman in this interview despite her beauty has a lot of underlying issues that may have caused her to be traumatized. Before marrying such women a psychological evaluation is necessary to probe into their past life and provide solutions to heal their mental state before any commitment to Marriage. Otherwise, Marriage to such women couldl eventually end in disaster. And finally a woman that believes that she can deny her husband conjugal rights without any rational reason or law, should not be married.
It is foolish to believe that there is only one kind of abuse and domestic violence without knowing the other half of the story. How many such interviews has he conducted on men? A women can ruin a man's life without even having touched him and men remain speechless, obviously because no one is interested in listening to their story.
Why does someone have to pay to join your youtube channel to have access to your interviews, doesn't make sense. Subscribing is free, 'cos we watch commercials we don't enjoy, for you to make revenue. Why tease with snippet interviews and want to force payment to get full interviews? Is that the nigerian fraudulent attitude? I see some youtubers do that, but don't make it contingent on access to watching their channels. Just saying. If you don't want to share full interview, then, don't show snippets and charge for full interview. Hmmmmh.
I share your opinion too i dont see the point of having this youtube chanel anyway i already spend so much on internet to start subscribing for more those who can afford should enjoy
Unfortunately, no one will be ready to hear the other side of the story, this has always been the outcome once RAPE is the topic. Occasionally men has been accused wrongly and imprisoned all the world.
Excuse me Alpha Green! I've experienced first hand what Juliet Ibrahim just narrated and so has many women around the world, so dont even try to invalidate her truth. Do you know there's a popular insensitive code amongst men that NO from a woman means YES? THEIR MUNDANE REASON: SHE'S DOESN'T WANNA APPEAR EASY TO GIVE IN TO SEX! COMMON NOW, THAT'S AN ANIMALISTIC MINDSET.
@@OmaGladys9Rape is a very serious matter and must be taken seriously that doesn't mean a fair should be given to the alleged culprits in every society as we have heard cases of innocent alleged victims in prisons. I am really sorry to hear what happened to you.
If you go through the comment section and see how some men defend rape and cheating, you’ll understand why it’s so common. Some men don’t even know the difference between rape and sex
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Rape in any circumstance is a terrible thing. Also, sex should never be used as a weapon in a relationship, either by force or by deprivation, by either partner. There is a responsibility of care and concern on both parties.
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I think when partners really love themselves any of them will consider the other person first and do as much as possible to satisfy her/him first. If a woman wants to make love when the husband is not in the mood at that time l think the man should do everything possible to make love with her. And the same thing applies to the man. That's love, considering and satisfying your partner first. Having sex with your partner only when you're in the mood is egocentrism, thinking only about yourself first. It's not love but me, me, me, my desires first. It's not easy for both partners to always be in the mood of making love at the same time. So partners that really love themselves will never ever complain or accuse the other of rape.
@@hsl1020 I love your comment. That is feminism, women only want to have sex when they are in the mood alone and want you, by all means, to jump in the mood to take them. This is quite unfair to men. When they need money, they want u as a man to go the extra mile to get it for them. Most women are selfish in marriage.
@@hsl1020 she's very selfish with that statement, you can hear her say if she's not in the mood and the guy is in the mood, to hell with him but if she's in the mood and the guy doesn't give it to her, it becomes a problem.
If it happens to a lady what will u call that?
A Liberian born movie actress is speaking pure Nigerian English, how the African movie industry can influence the way one speaks.
More like Nigerian movie industry 😂
I think men who are abused should be given the platform to speak out.
God bless you
Yes oh
And every abuse man was initially abused by a woman he is seeking revenge in women with the abuse on women
@ well, it becomes a psychological problem whereby they like sex but hate women
@@obinnahenry2252 so the pastors wey dey touch small boys are women abi. Anything to blame woman.
To every issue there are 3 sides:
1. Your side
2. His side
3. The truth
So far we have her side, we don't have His side and the truth so slow down sharing her 'pains' and applauding her 'courage'.
We have her side and the TRUTH and that's enough.
Stop defending rapists
@@mbrilliB the level of education should at least reflect here too. Looks like common sense is eluding people nowadays
Please share your @ so that we can tell all women to keep away from you forever. Go stay with your fellow rapists.
Juliet Ibrahim, has become so Nigerian in the way she speaks. It is so, different from the way she talks when she newly came to Nollywood. Omo! Nigerians, can influence a person. @At Juliet Ibrahim i am so so sorry you had to go through all of those painful experience. Look at you now... You are a strong, beautiful woman.
This life nor balance. This one see man that was dieing for her lose poosy she said she doesn't want.
If she sees a guy that has sex only once in 2 weeks she would complain that the guy doesn't love her.
Women, what do you guys really want?
@@PepTalkTillYouDrop Did you hear what she said, against her wish ? It is called rape.
@@PepTalkTillYouDrop How can you say such a thing, want her loose p......ssyy ??? May God forgive your words,grow up..
I know for a Liberian. I don't even hear a lick of the accent.
Very true
Stop choosing bad guys over nice guys. 😒
Who is the nice guy.
@@Trust234 They mostly regular guys that are in your circle.
They will always choose the bad boys..
There are nice guys out there, but the ladies just prefer the bad one
@@Trust234If you don't know the definition of of a nice guy then you're a nice guy
I have been in such relationship before I can relate
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Bcos of greed for money. Shut up and suffer 😂
I feel her pain. I live through the shame for years and couldn't talk it about to anyone. I have been raped times with outnumbering no was ever an answer to him. I cried for days and nights it came a time that I prayed for God to kill me under him, this man will just laugh and act like it was his right and I had no reason to refuse him or say no to him. But God in his way did not kill me he kept me. I thought he loved me just like I did. Whenever I got pregnant the 1st thing that came out of his mouth was abortion. If I kept the pregnancy he let me go through it by myself until I give birth to that child. I pretended for years so I wouldn't be judged by our society. I started asking God sense refused to kill me, let him give me the courage to be strong. In the year 2021, God did it for me, he brought a house for us to move that, and that is when I told him I wanted to live by myself. Be a single mother to 4 wonderful kids is not easy. But God has to been good to me, I can complain.
I hope you are okay.
Men are so stupid. If your wife and gf deny you sex,just have side chick. One woman can't satisfy you,they will mostly say "I'm not in the mood"
I’m so sorry for what you been through. I thank God that you are no longer in that situation. It takes strength and bravery 🙏🏿
wow 😞😞😞.... Am so sorry 😢
Happy you are ok now.
Thank you for orientating and inspiring us ladies to speak up if you are in an abusive relationship. You're a courageous and phenomenal woman. Great and Inspiring discussion!💯
Speak up with who...try it now...object of gossip Nan you go be
Yeah, true.
Lizzy state with your man
@@andrewomo5429 Are you a rapist? Dear woman, No shame in speaking out! The monsters need to get punished!
The shame belongs to the rapist, not the victim.
Baba Ijesha has just been sentenced to 16years in prison.
Get help! Speak out!
@@Oluwakemifully A woman exposes her body in a TV interview...you are negatively labelling others... wherever you are, try the same and tell me the consequences.
This is so courageous, so proud of you Juliet.
You did a great job walking out
Juliet, hope you are not lonely?
Walked out into other abuse socalled... Please, go America, Uk
No cell phone to call for help if you are locked in someone home. How did you get there were you tied up and forced to enter in? Im not saying her story is not right to tell it just got some holes that both parties should address and tell the complete story.
@@SpokenWord4 Sorry did you watch, she said she was in a relationship with him so she obviously went to his hse..there is no excuse or justification for a man to abuse a woman sexually, emotionally and physically especially if he is a son of a woman
@@liciashealthandmaternity Common sense has to be used. If a woman uses a man spend all of his money no one comes to his defense. He's a man he is suppose to have common sense not to do certain things. It is a double standard. If she did not want to be with that man don't spend his money, don't go to his house. Nothing out here is free this female entitlement needs to stop. I don't justify the man actions Im saying the woman should not have gotten in that situation taking his money gifts or invitation to come to his home.
This is sickening🤮🤢 I applaud her courage
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Chude I love Ur interview so much, bcos u always go straight to the point.
Juliet, you are a strong woman.....That person named should be mentioned ,I am sure he is doing same to another.....Dont hide him.
It's, mention yours
@@andrewomo5429 nigga please🤡
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I've also noticed when the men say no and the woman forces her way in its a sexy move not same when it's the other way round, right?! 😂😂😂
Why would you marry him if you're not really sexually attracted him?
Now there's a simple answer for that it's because most women today marry the men with more money who they believe can take care of them and not out of love. I mean in most cases so that's it you enjoy the luxury he's giving you why don't you give to him back what he wants without complaining. That's the reason he choosed to get married to you too right?! I'm sure if you hear the sidestory I'll be different from what she's yapping now.
A woman is always turn on when she is sexually attracted to the man. But if she thinks she doesn't feel free to walk out of the marriage simple. Don't forget marriage is for better for worse at times you offer him the sex cause he needs it same as men do to them period. 👰😂😂
Praying for you and your courage.
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This thing is not only happening to women ... also men are experiencing this thing .. woman or man just respect your spouse when they say " No".
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Ugh here you go🤦🏾♀️
Women be holding $ex against men in relationships
@Tabby Panda Is he not saying the truth? When its the other way around, it's never called rape.
Those situations are not comparable.
A lot of people have a long way to go in the comments. Juliet, I’m so proud of you for speaking your truth! May you find healing and justice
I have learned not to believe one sided story. Bring that guy.
😀 You are absolutely right.
Why won't you believe her....You are waiting until she dies before you will be like she should have left dat abusive relationship 🤔🤔🤔🤔
@@giftynajim531 nope. There are two sides to a story. Besides does she look like someone in an abusive relationship?
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Dat was before buh now she looks gud 👌
@@ndukaobi6909 there's no two sides to rape you psycho
For those who are saying they want to first hear the man's side of the story. Are you saying a woman should not speak up about her experience if the man is not there to tell his own side of the story? Also, how many men who have actually raped women have you seen come out willingly and publickly to admit it? Rape happens on a daily basis all over the world and one reason why so many men get away with it is because of how women are treated when they tell their stories. It is true that some women would lie about being raped but that does not take away the fact that most women who are courageous enough to publickly admit being raped are very likely speaking of something that actually experienced.
She enjoy the thing now everything, everybody on you tube, social media.
No people want to hear both sides to make an accurate judgment, are we supposed to just take her side and believe it to be the absolute truth, no that’s not how it’s done
@@robertcarter408 No you don't have to believe her story. She's not telling her story so you would believe it. She's telling her story for her personal victory. Being able to speak about an event like this helps many victims heal better. In such a case it would also help other women who may have been through such trauma to know that they are not alone and they too can come out strong from their pain. So, you see, you are not her audience here. She does not need you to believe her. She just wants her freedom and to help others get theirs. In group therapy sessions for abused victims the first thing they get them to do is simply tell their story so others can hear it. There is power and freedom when such people can simple tell their story without pain, anger or remorse. This is her telling her story. You don;t need to like it or believe it. It's her story, not yours,
@@ojaix555 I hope you will be this understanding when a woman says the same thing about your male family memeber.
@@faithbishop1444 I sure will be. And if the allegations are true I will be even more ruthless with that family member.
Cases of rape ,esp when a husband or boyfriend is involved,it's hard to win in Nigeria
Same thing can be said of women.
Women don't force their boyfriends to have sex when they're not in the mood?
Not just nigeria but in africa .
Really? 😳
...in South Africa men are always on the wrong. Women spite men by claiming rape most of the time and nothing happens to those women🙄🤪
Even in America accusations of rape is hard to prove in court.
Well spoken.
Let's wake up women...let's stand up for ourselves no one else will.
True words. The more women fight for themselves, the more our voices will be heard in topical issues like these. It
@@muoboentertainment two sides to story what is the man version of this story?
Nan where you dey look for money?
Money long throat woman
@@andrewomo5429 if a man get played by a woman and lose his money job or home there is no one coming to his rescue and saying I feel your pain. They say how are you so stupid to not know she was going to use you? This double standard is just sick.
Wow shes one of fav actresses🥰😪
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Amber Heard/Johnny Depp. Taught us plenty of lessons. We should protect women and do so with truth and evidence not destroy someone over mere allegations. MPV
Exactly...
Objection, HEARSAY !!!
Amber heard is 😈 evil.
God bless you, you're one of the few reasonable person in this comment section.
People always choice to go with feelings and emotions when it comes to matters of abuse instead of Fact.
Amber Heard was sued for ruining his career and it’s wrong to tell your side of the story without telling his? Women will side with other women without hearing everything. Before you get with anyone know who they are especially before sleeping over their house.
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I don't believe everything a woman says, after I was charged with assault by my ex and her mother here in America, when in fact I was in another state on a work assignment. This is a woman I had NEVER raised my hand on in my life before .
When I returned, I was arraigned in court like a common criminal. The goal was to make me lose my job, and possibly send me to prison.
Luckily on the day of the trial, the judge asked the officer who filed the charges, if he saw me on that day when he responded to the call. The officer said no. He further asked if they had bruising or anything similar. He said no. The wise judge in his wisdom dismissed the case.
If not, I would have gone to prison. After that day, I have not believed any woman who accuses a man of anything.
Yes some can be evil, with a lot of issues and trauma. When they do have a good man they are not satisfied. They get the thug and they are surprised when they don't want them anymore. They are confused.com
Most women play victim even when they know they are , just to destroy you. We ain't safe as men in this world
What they did doesn't rule out the fact that Juliet was messed up. Sorry about your ordeal.
I'm sorry you had to go through such a traumatic experience...there are alot of evil souls out there.
May you heal 🙏
Your experience doesn't dismiss the fact that men commit most of the violent and sexual crimes in society.
I applaud your courage
Which courage
@@andrewomo5429 Her courage to speak up about her abuse Ogq
@@princessvictorUK But she has to have restraint because people...MEN... don't like such confessions
@@andrewomo5429 so she should not talk??? How can this affect her??? See avoid me
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What an experience for someone to pass through! May we not see war, mentally, physically, financially or otherwise 🙏
Amen!❤️
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who sent her there.
I love my wife too much
@@traceydumase amen means
I really enjoyed watching my favorite movie star Juliet Ibrahim, you are so talented, beautiful and soooooo generous. I really love and like your conversation today
Wow.juliet speaks like a Nigerian.how I wish I could speak like that
This is my question for those dating, what is the purpose of dating or going into relationship?
Does dating have to go with sex?
Dating doesn't have to go with sex especially if you want to get married to that person
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Nooo
@@owusahjessica2982 How?!
@@shinebrian8690yen yen yen yen🙄😂😄
Hmmm war isnt something I want to experience. EndSars was just a tip, I was so scared that time.
Same here.
Where town or village
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I'm so glad women are speaking up about this issue instead of bottling all that pain deep within.
Speaking out? Was there a time they were quiet ? Innocent mem have be killed.. jailed for lies and wrong accusation of rape from this women. .. when a woman cries out for rape and even if it's a lie the man will be beating or jailed befote he cam proves he's innocent..
When a man doesn't want to make love and the woman want it.. what do they accused the man of? If my wife says no and I did it with her rape ? You are all mad
What's the balance. Where's the point of equilibrium? If you are not in the mood, fine. Where do I get relief? Is he also allowed to not be in the mood. I believe that eventually you not being in the mood changes him
@@stanleyivor595 Oh I see you here too slightly favouring the rapist. I mean we are talking of rape, and you are talking of partners not being in the mood. You need to check yourself and have a rethink of your comment.
Yes, men are also allowed to not be in the mood sometimes. No one is allowed to forcefully have carnal knowledge of the other. No one!
@@stanleyivor595 she’s speaking from her experience. Of course if a man is not in the mood then the partner they are with should also compromise. You’re not gonna die if you don’t have sex for a day . They should be compromise from both people. Of course Juliet knows this but she is speaking of rape and harmful relationships. Please consider this.
@@queenie_2_0_2_4 I hear all your comments and at the risk of sounding pro-rape. When I read or watch stuff, I tend to think people exaggerate things to make them media worthy or sensational. That's why I ask where's the balance. You're allowed to react emotionally to this issue, I'm not going to.
She IS SO RIGHT. IMMEDIATELY! ❣️
Women, we need to report these men and get them locked up.
Getting husbands locked up because he wants tobdo his conjugal duties, you must be joking
@@adeshow4307 yes sir, you shouldn’t force yourself on anyone not even your wife
Rape cases is hard to prove in court good lock with that.
Some women lie I think women should get locked up for lying ruin people names n representation
@@tykimikk8048 but you can't compare the percentage of women that lie to those that actually get abused especially in Nigeria.
Some men prefer raising there wives instead of their daughters ,they like treating their women as if they are their children instead of as a partner.
Yes.. the nassists
I agree ☝️
More markets for prostitute. Side chicks will be all around and always ready to help out.
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But women are children in adult female bodies.
Sorry you had to go through that Juliet #notodomesticviolence #notorape
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this woman is sooo freaking GORGEOUS....how can some guy abuse her is beyond me
I think the guy is so obsessed and she really isn’t feeling the guy
Don't listen to one sided story.She said she was pined on the wall,how can the man make love to her on the wall??? she s trying to attract attention,I don't believe a one sided story.
@@akuabata586 the art of reasoning!
Men don't know that if u r nice to a woman, she will give her. No need for force . Abusive men struggle with self hate n use that to inflict pain.
Carried and Pinned on the wall with how massive she is?🤔🤔🤔 The guy must be John Rambo.
I can react I force myself out of such a relationship
Good my dear👏🙋♀️
You lie...how Many times will you marry?
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I've also noticed when the men say no and the woman forces her way in its a sexy move not same when it's the other way round, right?! 😂😂😂
Why would you marry him if you're not really sexually attracted him?
Now there's a simple answer for that it's because most women today marry the men with more money who they believe can take care of them and not out of love. I mean in most cases so that's it you enjoy the luxury he's giving you why don't you give to him back what he wants without complaining. That's the reason he choosed to get married to you too right?! I'm sure if you hear the sidestory I'll be different from what she's yapping now.
A woman is always turn on when she is sexually attracted to the man. But if she thinks she doesn't feel free to walk out of the marriage simple. Don't forget marriage is for better for worse at times you offer him the sex cause he needs it same as men do to them period. 👰😂😂
You can’t just do that to this woman. Only with her permission, you gotta connect emotionally
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Keep up the good work 🤜
We women have been through a lot, personally I had similar experience in the past. Yes, I say no, it means no, and I believed saying no to someone means they would stop. It's unfortunate, because for me this was someone in the Church. We really should stand for our rights, grace to God I am now married and happy
You're so strong dear.. I'm glad you're still a Christian.
God bless you ma.
Sorry that happened to you. You are right, no is NO!
Why are you in his place all by yourself?
She deserve some clap's Ladies and gentle Men say no to abusive relationship's or marriage.
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You sound so Nigerian now
U honestly spoke my mind
What is she. She's STILL BLACK. 💕💝
Like which country were you living then?
Juliet, your Ghanaian accent has changed. Your pronunciations are different. Have you relocated from GH ?
Long ago
I shock self
Lol. I thought I was the only one who noticed it. She sounds Nigerian.
Omg she’s a Liberian I am too beautiful lady and she speak very well😩💗.
Most Africans, especially Nigerians, aren't ready for that conversation Juliet. They're still stuck in the "blissful" world of misogyny. Just last week, I was having a conversation with one at work and he said a wife is supposed to give her husband srx at will. I wished they'd try that phuckery with a civilized wife.
Then the ladies go marry themselves, thats why the '"civilised" world is messed up
Then go for Arab men and u will see hell
The problem with Nigeria is most of the men only care about what is between their legs, all you think about is sex. Imagine what the country has become, think men!!
You are so right it’s evident from the comments I’m seeing😮
Women who love their husbands do not deny them sex. if you chose a husband and then proceed to not want to have sex with him, he should be able to divorce you without having to pay alimony.
Are there longer episodes?
Yes, but he wants us to pay for these interviews, imagine
Yes, there are. You can watch full episode here - youtube.withchude.com/join
Yes, there are. You can watch full episode here - youtube.withchude.com/join
@@WithChude not paying for that! Unlimited contents for free everywhere and we can also get full info on everyone for free!
I'm an Eyhiopian , this lady looks Ethiopian I love her what she is telling is very interesting even if she passed through hardship .
shes mixed
@@noellesiawofori4694 No I think she's Liberian
She’s Ghanaian and Lebanese
I've also noticed when the men say no and the woman forces her way in its a sexy move not same when it's the other way round, right?! 😂😂😂
Why would you marry him if you're not really sexually attracted him?
Now there's a simple answer for that it's because most women today marry the men with more money who they believe can take care of them and not out of love. I mean in most cases so that's it you enjoy the luxury he's giving you why don't you give to him back what he wants without complaining. That's the reason he choosed to get married to you too right?! I'm sure if you hear the sidestory I'll be different from what she's yapping now.
A woman is always turn on when she is sexually attracted to the man. But if she thinks she doesn't feel free to walk out of the marriage simple. Don't forget marriage is for better for worse at times you offer him the sex cause he needs it same as men do to them period. 👰😂😂
@@jeshurundaniel794 she's also ghanaian
I thought King Solomon taught us to bring the two parties together, and let them tell their stories, only then could one figure out who is telling the truth, as it was with two ladies that stood before king Solomon.
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Juliet is naturally beautiful
She from my hometown Pleebo Maryland County Liberia, 1993 war in Pleebo, I remembered, we walked from Pleebo to Africost la cote d'Ivoire, & cross the border
Once lived in Pleebo City too. That's Cavalla river she's talking about. Phew...memories!
Where is this episode on your channel? I only saw one of less than 30mins that doesn't contain this clip.
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@@WithChude Ok, thanks.
@@WithChude It's the same I had watched but didn't capture the part where she talked about being locked up and violated.
@@WithChude Also tried ordering a copy of her book on Amazon yesterday but it was unavailable.
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Brave lady. Wish her all the best...
This must have been tough Lord have mercy !
The Nigerian accent for me!
Sir how can I b part of dis
She is so pretty and cute
Very attractive
No one is saying she has done the wrong thing by saying it. She has a record of even leaving marriage how much more a relationship. The guy is only asking to hear from the other side of the story. Is it too had to do ?
Eeeeeiii since when did Ibrahim Juliet started talking with the Nigeria pigin accent... Wow😃😃😃
She's never had a Ghanaian accent. Check her old videos.
@@sandysings8288 And she never had the Nigerian pigin accent too 🤔
@@beautytawiah7021 her exposure to Nollywood and Nigerians.
The man was right and i support him
Love Juliette Ibrahim. Very good actress and rootsy too....ie down to earth kind of gal.
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Not so much of a great actress though
Please what's her name
It’s in the title of the video
Juliet Ibrahim
What I have learnt in life is that when you are tied with the person in love u create something for you to be separate from each other. Not long from your separation one of u find himself or herself with new relationship. These issues of raping for the people who are engaged have so much mix reaction
Please can you do a video with this actresses Nadia buari, mercy Johnson, Chike lke and Regina Daniels please
That is what you get when you went for money and wealth in a relationship. There are so many men out there who are ready to worship you and be that man you deserve, but no you won't accept them because they won't be able to buy you diamonds for your birthdays. Better remain single.
Not at all. Wicked people can also be poor, talentless or have nothing to write home about
And why has he not be reported to the police?
I hate that this terrible thing had to happen to such a BEAUTIFUL woman such as this...nobody should be forced to do ANYTHING they don't want to do!
what was she doing with him
I've also noticed when the men say no and the woman forces her way in its a sexy move not same when it's the other way round, right?! 😂😂😂
Why would you marry him if you're not really sexually attracted him?
Now there's a simple answer for that it's because most women today marry the men with more money who they believe can take care of them and not out of love. I mean in most cases so that's it you enjoy the luxury he's giving you why don't you give to him back what he wants without complaining. That's the reason he choosed to get married to you too right?! I'm sure if you hear the sidestory I'll be different from what she's yapping now.
A woman is always turn on when she is sexually attracted to the man. But if she thinks she doesn't feel free to walk out of the marriage simple. Don't forget marriage is for better for worse at times you offer him the sex cause he needs it same as men do to them period. 👰😂😂
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@@afambasil753I don’t believe everything she said. I want to hear the man’s perspective
Okay! So, it's OK if she wasn't beautiful? 🤣🤣🤣 Simp!
You are absolutely right.❤️
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Juliet sounds very Nigerian now
the qustion is why isn't he in jail?
Totally unacceptable from men, the man should have been beating by her brothers, but ladies must look for real godly values in men they date. Sleeping over at a man's house too is dangerous.
Choose good men, una no dey hear, most ladies look for handsome and wealthy men..... this is what you get when you ignore godly counsel..... thank God you came out alive.
Even poor and ugly men rape girls !!! Has nothing to do with money , bad people come in all shapes and sizes
Instead of blaming the man who did the act , you blame the woman, was it written on his forehead that he was a rapist
Well said
Spot on. This really matters.
lol, these godly men are even the worst - sooo, there is no difference abeg
Beautiful Black Woman. Own your power!✊🏾✊🏾
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War is the worst thing to happen to a society, Cameroonian are going through it now and it's disastrous
So sad. Someone I know was killed today
@@dzevelalucy Jesus Christ.so painful
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From a woman say no it does not matter if she's your fiance or if she's your wife when she says no you back off and you're going where you can
Such a beauty😙
Where on Earth could I meet a woman like this
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This was criminal. How one could escape from such an ugly situation. Such a stupid rascal must be awarded maximum punishment. Feel so sorry for the episode.
Who is this guy in question 🤔🤔
We have all learned gradually not to believe one sided stories. Especially when a modern day women speaks up who can actually converse before cameras and crowd about an abusive relationship. Not that we do not respect women or their stories. It's just that we really have to weigh a women and the accused man equally especially in today's times. All the very best to this women.
Some men use 1 Corinthians 7:4 as an excuse to rape their wives. 1 Corinthians 7:4 says " The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife",
This verse is not supporting or endorsing violence, it is only instructing each spouse to willingly, lovingly and freely submit to the each other.
Colossians 3:19 says
"Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them".
People are in these comments talking about "sorry you had to go through this" we meet cases where women accuse men of something they did not do . People are in jail for something they didn't do two sided stories are the best not just one
Amanda Du Pont told her story and jub jub also said his part now we all know the truth
Women go out saying he doesn't give me this he doesn't give me that is that no goldiging and riping but we wont say it🤧
We know Amanda Du Pont went through it because we heard two sides
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HOW did she get into the bed? Please sleep in another room! Rapist must be stopped!
I will like to see the man confronted to hear what he has to say about this?
So true!
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Ladies and gentlemen, let's not forget that rape can't happen between husband and wife. And please let's not exaggerate the story so that the society can us as saints. Why was she refusing to give herself to her husband? Sisters please let's not disgrace each other. Marriage is the most beautiful thing on earth and let's not spoil the good things in marriage. Women just talk too much while men are at most times and cases very quite about issues concerning their problems in their marriages. Grow up sisters please
That is so sad, may God keep you safe and strong.
Marriage between two people who lacks guidance will always result in failure. Also a man should not get married to a woman who is traumatized by war or sexual abuse. Such marriages mostly ends in divorce. Not because a woman is beautiful looking she is marriable. That woman may be suffering from mental disease such as post traumatic stress from horrible experience in her past life. When a woman denies her husband conjugal rights the marriage does not automatically ends. Sex is an inherent part of marriage, to deny your husband or wife sex is to deny a conjugal right that comes with marriage. The woman in this interview despite her beauty has a lot of underlying issues that may have caused her to be traumatized. Before marrying such women a psychological evaluation is necessary to probe into their past life and provide solutions to heal their mental state before any commitment to Marriage. Otherwise, Marriage to such women couldl eventually end in disaster. And finally a woman that believes that she can deny her husband conjugal rights without any rational reason or law, should not be married.
Facts
What's his name?
It is foolish to believe that there is only one kind of abuse and domestic violence without knowing the other half of the story. How many such interviews has he conducted on men? A women can ruin a man's life without even having touched him and men remain speechless, obviously because no one is interested in listening to their story.
Abeg who was she talking about?
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Did anyone prevent men from talking?;
Amber Heard case is a good example 😉
@@maryandrew259 No one is interested in interviewing men.
The fact that she's your wife does not give you the right to force yourself on her when she says no back off and go and hold your corner
Why does someone have to pay to join your youtube channel to have access to your interviews, doesn't make sense. Subscribing is free, 'cos we watch commercials we don't enjoy, for you to make revenue. Why tease with snippet interviews and want to force payment to get full interviews? Is that the nigerian fraudulent attitude? I see some youtubers do that, but don't make it contingent on access to watching their channels. Just saying. If you don't want to share full interview, then, don't show snippets and charge for full interview. Hmmmmh.
Exactly my thought but I think the full story is on his platform(website) not TH-cam.
U tube still pay him for views here.He wants to make money here and there.
I share your opinion too i dont see the point of having this youtube chanel anyway i already spend so much on internet to start subscribing for more those who can afford should enjoy
@@judiblanche7636 Some people are just greedy m...therSuckers, agberos. Excuse my Nigerian French.
I am totally against rape but I want to ask if a man is not in the mood and the woman is in the mood what do you do?
There are two sides to a story👍♐♐♐♐
True ... but rape is rape
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Is it true story ....???
So sorry you had to go through all that 🙏
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OMG such a strong beautiful woman she is so brave.💖💖💖🙌🙌🙌💐💐💐
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While I applaud her courage, why is it that ladies always choose the roughians and despise the nice guys and then later on start complaining.
Have you heard from second party?
Sex in a relationship is give and take
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So what if you're in the mood and he's not in the mood.. omo wahala for who dey mood o
Omo, Juliet you don see something o. First of all, we need to get you justice. Secondly, tell us this civil war story in full.
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Which husband is she referring to, katanga? What i have realised in life is always hear both side of the story
Unfortunately, no one will be ready to hear the other side of the story, this has always been the outcome once RAPE is the topic. Occasionally men has been accused wrongly and imprisoned all the world.
Excuse me Alpha Green! I've experienced first hand what Juliet Ibrahim just narrated and so has many women around the world, so dont even try to invalidate her truth. Do you know there's a popular insensitive code amongst men that NO from a woman means YES? THEIR MUNDANE REASON: SHE'S DOESN'T WANNA APPEAR EASY TO GIVE IN TO SEX! COMMON NOW, THAT'S AN ANIMALISTIC MINDSET.
@@OmaGladys9Rape is a very serious matter and must be taken seriously that doesn't mean a fair should be given to the alleged culprits in every society as we have heard cases of innocent alleged victims in prisons. I am really sorry to hear what happened to you.
All thanks to Dr Abiola for curing me permanently from HIV with his herbal medicine 💙...
Truth...
If you go through the comment section and see how some men defend rape and cheating, you’ll understand why it’s so common. Some men don’t even know the difference between rape and sex
Bring the guy on screen again