I sit hear with tears in my eyes...every Sunday I watch your video Susan ......how I found you on TH-cam I don't know...but I did! I realize that you and I have more in common than I thought. The books you read,the poetry, the music, films, (and to go to driftstoors!), the way you see your life how you describe it, the world. What I think is, that I sit hear in a small town in Sweden and you on the other side of the world and we are rather the same! And it have always in history, been so probably although some like to say otherwise, so regardless color of skin, education, upbringing and so on - We have- as you say also- the same hopes, failures and feelings!!! And it makes me so hopeful!!❤️❤️❤️
I loved your words so much Susanne...you really struck a chord with me and reminded me that women in this world, no matter where we live, hold universal thoughts, feelings, and goals.I wish I could travel to your town and Sweden someday and perhaps indulge in a little " Under the Tuscon Sun" only Sweden style and find myself! Love to you always! Susan & Dez
Dear Susanne and Susan I was going to write a reply but your sentiments so reflected mine. I feel my life is very much like you ladies. I am from Toronto, Canada. From all over the world we share so much. Thank you for being here.
@@jbjb3179 I want to know about what life is like in Canada. If I moved there, would I like it? I’ve been so curious to find out for quite sometime now. xo
I'm 70, a wife of 50 years, a mother of two exceptional children, one in heaven and one on Earth, a grandmother of two beautiful, adult grandchildren, and a caregiver. I love cooking and still try new recipes after all theses years. I love my life here in the woods with my husband and all the woodland creatures. Thank you Susan for all that you do with your inspiring channel. PS: Who wouldn't love Darling Desi?
Sensitive, artist, lover of old movies, make-up, fashion and highly connected to dogs. When young: a beauty winner, singer, daddy's girl and lots of friction with mom. Black sheep of family but redeemed by Jesus Christ !! Now I am 64 and married with one married son. Lots of heartache, loss and sadness in the past, but now I am happier than I have ever been! Love your channel and YOU!! You are amazing Susan!!
My goodness. You were never a failure. You are a wonderful film maker, decorator, singer song writer, speaker, etc. ...I do understand your feelings tho. I'm 76, 4 daughters, one son who died at 13 months. I've been single for years. I actually enjoy it. I wanted to get my RN degree, but as a single mom, things just didn't work out. I have regretted that. . I have worked at a hospital for 40 years this summer. I'm retiring In 5 weeks. I'm scared . it's been 40 years of working. I know I will love it tho. . I belong to an Animal rescue, I love to make things. Sewing, art, clay, you name it. I do wish there was a male friend to go and haves coffee with sometimes. I miss the male point of view. I do have 6 grandsons of all ages, but they are scattered around the states. I am happy. I have my cats and my dog. I'm blessed. . love skin care, makeup. So it's pretty fulfilling.
I am probably your oldest subscriber, will be 90 in March, but still love skin care and makeup. I am a mother to 2 sons, 3 grandchildren and 3 great grandchildren. My passion is nutrition, I have been so into it since I was about 18. Back then it was an oddity, but I only read books and studied anything about it. I am married 3 times, the third times the charm, we’re together 30 years, living in the Palm Springs area and except for Covid, enjoying life. Love your videos, been following you for about 3+ years. Hugs, Senior diva 🥰
WELL HELLO~~~~~!!!! I am so happy you said hello....I bet you look fantastic!!! What a great heart you have....I just bought a book on feeding our brain!!! being healthy can be fun!!! My love to you!! Susan and Desi
You have inspired me. I'm 54 and thinking about impending retirement in a few years...if I choose to. My child will be going to college around the same time. Trying to figure out...what do I want to do with the time I have left? What will make me happy?
I am an Aboriginal woman living in the Central Australian desert. I am a mother of one, a Grandmother of 6 gorgeous kids. What makes me passionate is teaching my culture to others, and trying to live the most environmentally conscious life I can and inspire others to do the same. I am single, and absolutely love my life as it is. I have friends ageing from 26 to 75, straight and gay friends, friends from many cultures and spirituality. My life is rich. I started watching your channel to better prepare myself for ageing and the journey that entails. But you have inspired me in so many more ways. Thanks Susan.
I love your apartment. The way you have decorated it is so pretty and you inspire me,...I understand feeling like a failure because I have felt like a failure most of my life. Some years ago I realized that I am contented with my life even though I was divorced twice, and have been single for over 20 years, so I must not have fail completely. I’m retired now and although I sleep in a lot I still put on makeup and fix my hair everyday even though most days I don’t go out. I have realized that a woman alone is much better off than a man alone. Men just can’t “hack it” like we gals can. “I am woman, hear me roar” 😄😄😄😄😄. We are a creation of the Lord most high and we are not a failure. God bless you.
I am a nurse who turned 59 years old in January, I work in the ICU. Crazy days this past year. I found your ch because I want to watch something enjoyable, uplifting, honest and real and that is you. Thank you.
I moved to a small town after divorce in 2012, swearing NEVER to marry again. I did not know a soul there. The town was strategically located between the two offices I managed. I spent weekends, holidays, and nights fixing up my little bungalow. I learned new skills, enjoyed living alone for the first time in my life and found my true self. There, in that tiny town, in 2013, I met my soul mate. Looking back at the timeline of my life, it would seem that ALL was meant to be just for such a time as this.
Loved this video. I am 70, a widow and live alone in a tiny house and love it. I had the perfect life with a wonderful husband, 3 children and a good paying job. Then the business got sold and for the first time in my adult life I was without a job. I decided to pursue my passion and at 51 went back to school for nursing. Man was it hard but I did it. Eight months after I graduated my love died suddenly. My work at the hospital saved my life. I wanted my children to know what it means to give of yourself so when they were very small we started doing summer mission trips. We went to several different states and my daughter went to Romania and fell in love with the people. This is still a passion of mine to help others see the love of our Father.
I’ve been a daughter a wife and a mother. I was so busy being something to others that I never found me! Now that I am no longer busy doing those things I am kind of lost. I hope that I can discover me and find serenity!
I am going through this time of life. I never had time for hobbies. I’m just trying different things right now. Thank you so much for bringing this up.
@@donnahazlett6676 you are a doggy mommy. And that’s pretty important to that sweet doggy you adopted. Sending love to you and your new little fur baby♥️🌹
I am a cancer survivor. I am not getting treated right by my significant other. When you feel alone, remember that it is worse to be with someone and feel alone. I am crushed today because of his actions. Not physical, or even mental. I am just taken for granted. I love watching your videos. I know I am here for a reason. It is really scary to be a senior and not having any savings. I am blessed though because I have my health. Mostly. My passion is music and creativity. I have no expectations. I am just glad you are there every Friday. Oh yeah, I had to say hi to Dezi? I love him so much. Animals are also my passion. See you next time. Love You all.
Hi Deborah. I, too, am a cancer survivor and a people pleaser (sometimes termed "codependent"). If you care to delve deeper I suggest watching some videos made by Dr. Ramani on narcissism. It was my wake-up call and opened my eyes in so many ways. I hope it helps you too. And watching Susan move on in her life is so positive inspiring and empowering it's like a mini therapy session comforting us along the way. I send you love and blessings and extend a caring hand and heart to you. Be blessed, Marie
I've been reading everyone's posts, how lovely! I'm 63, legally blind, a southern woman who moved to northern Michigan with my charming husband in 2003. When my vision loss became profound enough that I could no longer do my job, I joined the ranks of those on disability in 2013. Couldn't sit around watching TV and eating Doritos, so I wrote and published a few steamy romance novels (pen name JOrdan BUCHANAN lol), i became a freelance book editor, and last year I opened an online merch shop featuring sarcastic, humorous, and heartfelt designs. I'm eternally curious about almost everything and I'm a hardcore true crime fan. I can't cook worth a damn, but I make killer brownies. So I've got that going for me. lol
What an inspiration! I have advanced glaucoma, and at only 61, they're trying hard to stop it advancing. I also have RA but try not to let it stop me doing what I want. Thanks for posting and giving me hope. ❤
@@Mel-59 The advancements in eye treatment just keep on coming so hang in there. I had Juvenile RA as a child and my vision loss began as inflammatory glaucoma (related), so I get where you're coming from. The only time I get really pissy is when someone says blind people can do anything normally sighted people can. That's bullshit. BUT you can almost always find other ways to get done what you need to. There are just some times you need to allow yourself some time to own your frustrations, fear, or uncertainty. It's normal. We wouldn't be human otherwise and what's more beautiful than our humanity?
@@barbarawaite5395 Ah, I wonder if mine's inflammatory because my eye pressure was normal on diagnosis. It's under control with drops at the moment but they say I'll need an operation sooner rather than later because I'm "so young". Not keen on the op, but love the fact they deem me to be so young. 😊
@@barbarawaite5395 Haha, I just checked out your book page. I bought one of those spikey wheels online, to make perforations in a card I was making. It wasn't until afterwards I saw the description said "fetish". 😉
66 and a widow. I met and married my soul mate late in life and he died 9 months later. He showed me that joy is truly possible in life. And the way to find joy is by giving to others. Compassion and kindness is everything. And dear the one you love is always with you and your love affair continues as long as you are alive.❤️
Awww Miss. Nina, I’m so sorry to hear you had but a short time with your beloved. You are so right when you said the joy of giving to others, and that compassion and kindness is everything. I have a sign on my desk at work that says, “Remember to be kinder than necessary” I keep it on my desk as a reminder to myself it is never wrong to be kind. Be well ☺️
Hi. I’m Jan. Wife, mom of two adult children, grandma of three., and a sister to my sister. Retired teacher, thrift store and yard sale fanatic. Ebay seller. Dog lover. Cat lover. More introverted than extroverted. Left-handed and proud of it. Member of the Democratic Party. Love listening to audiobooks, especially Louise Penny. Love to travel, love to stay at home. Not much into make up and elixirs to look younger...we can help a lot of things but not our age! Born in Chicago, raised in the suburbs, went to Southern Illinois Universith and graduated in June, 1973. Got married in June of ‘73. Still together. That’s about it! Thanks for asking!!!!! I love your videos! And Desi!!!
I am 62 years old, and have been a widow for 7 years. I moved from my home state CA, and drove myself across the country to help take care of my father. I am in southwest Ohio, retired from the medical field. I have spent most of my life taking care of others. I had to learn self love, and how to adjust being a widow. I love doing crafts, making jewelry, reading, and baking.
Hi Susan I’m 60. I live in West Yorkshire UK. My husband has Parkinson’s & depends on me. I am scared at what the future holds but I am so fortunate to have a loving family around me. Your posts calm me. Your gentle reflections bring me some peace and optimism. Thank you.
I’m a daughter to 2 of the most amazingly caring, most loving, precious parents, that now live in heaven. I long for them more than I can express. I’m a mom to 2 adult children that are my entire world and 2 sweet precious grandchildren. I’m a mommy to 4 rescued kitties and 1 rescue doggy. I’m a friend. I’m a sister. I’m a student at age 53. I’m a child of GOD amen! I’m a lupus warrior. I am divorced and wish that never happened but it did. I miss my parents more than I thought possible. I’m surviving day to day, and I will grow stronger each day. I so appreciate you and your thoughts. Happy birthday ♥️🌹
I would like to add one more thing: You’re a blessing and you are an encouragement to others ☺️ ... okay, so that was two more things 😉 Blessings to you Miss. Home and the Seasons 🙏🏻
@@bambiwest1391 thank you so much. After a week of crying, missing mom so badly, you both made me feel better. My mom just passed November 16. I thought I was stronger than I’ve been during this. Just a million thank yous for being kind to me. ♥️🌹🙏🏻
@@bellapetalart My pleasure my dear. And think of tears as a good way to sooth a hurt soul. You’ll always miss her, and it has only been a couple of months. Time does tend to help ease suffering. And when it gets rough I would like you to think of a couple of things: When sadness envelopes you, think of sweet and funny memories you shared with your mom to help ease your grief. I would also like to you to ponder would your mom want you to suffer so? Probably not if she is like most mothers. Christ tells us when we die we are absent from the body, and present with the Lord. You can’t get any better than that my dear ☺️ - don’t beat yourself up for missing her. She must have been a very special mom no doubt. So now she and her legacy lives in you and her grandkids. Now go put a cool wash cloth on your puffy eyes, blow your red and runny nose and say dag gone it mom I love you, I miss you and thanks for being my mom! Oh, and one last thing, since the statute of limitations has run out, it’s a good time to confess to her you’re the one who broke whatever it was you broke as a kid, and never fessed up too 😂. It’s close to 3:00 am where I live - sweet dreams. Feel free to chat if you need an ear to bend, or someone to make you laugh - big air/virtual hugs! Night 🥱😴
@@bambiwest1391 well even Your comment made me cry. It doesn’t take much these days. Your words move through me and I’m thankful there are people like you in this world. Daddy passed at age 48 so it’s just been me and mom for 30 years. She was a mom with me to my own children. They are grieving too. And she sure was the sweetest, most loving, beautiful mom, created by God. She made me laugh all the time. She could solve all the worlds problems in just one tea time chat. I just miss her. I’m comforted that she’s in heaven. Haha I’ve thought about all the little things she knows now about how things I broke and fibbed on and that I wasn’t where I said I was many times as a teen. I sure hope she is smiling about those things now. Thank you so much. God bless you and you also if you ever want to talk, anytime. Sweet dreams ♥️🌹🙏🏻
I'm from Ireland I'm a mother of two grown up daughters and recently divorced after 31 years, but you inspire me and make me feel less alone. My hobby is sketching and painting and walking my dog Winnie. Love you
I do not believe for a minute that John hates you, he is probably just sad and depressed and you you are so beautiful inside and out and he wishes he ware more like you and wishes you were IN his life. How sweet of him to tell you to be careful and he didn't want anything to happen to you...look forward to your videos every week
Susan would you seriously consider doing a once a week home decorating video? Your apartment is so lovely and so cozy and maybe you can show & tell others how to do what you have done in your two apartments ....you just have a wonderful home decorating knack Lots of people don't know where to hang pictures or even how many to hang ...You can teach us all about colors and heights of things and coziness...even where to shop for good prices and quality- just SO MANY THINGS! I love the way you have made both of your apartments absolutely warm and welcoming and comfortable and truly lovely. Thank you
As I was talking to my therapist, she said, "WOW where are you getting your self esteem? I am impressed" I smiled to myself and then I told her about you and your channel and how listening to your life stories have really brought me such self knowledge and peace. I am on social security and rarely ever have extra money. So, instead of buying stuff for everyone else like I normally do, I used my stimulus check to actually buy for me!! I bought some cute skirts and little black booties and some blouses. She was so excited that I did something for myself, (as was I). I want to thank you so very much Susan for allowing us to learn, think, and to remember we are valuable!! We can be strong and be happy all by ourselves. Thank you again for being you and sharing so much of your life with us. Brightest blessings to you and Desi!
Hi Susan, I live far away from you and when you post your video, I am in bed already. I live with my husband, who is very sick. I take care of him, which sometimes is very difficult. Even if you have a partner, you can feel very lonesome. Every weekend I am waiting for your video. Thank you so much. Have a wonderful week, 'till soon. ❤️
Hello Elke - I’m sorry to hear your husband is so sick. I can imagine how lonely you feel sometimes. I’ll keep you in my prayers and please remember there is someone in California who is sending you prayers and a big virtual hug 🤗
Hello from California... I am a retired dental assistant and I found my passion in antiques !!! So I BECAME A ANTIQUE DEALER ! I married my high school sweetheart who served in Iraq for 3 years ... we have 3 children and one Grandson!!! LIFE IS ONE BIG BLESSING ⭐️Nice to meet you🤗🤗
When you have a kind and loving heart, and I am positive that is you, you have something special that many millionaires don't possess. I would love to be your neighbor. Happy Birthday youngster. I just celebrated 81!
Aww Miss. Dora you’re a peach 🍑 that was very kind and sweet of you to tell Susan that - I bet you’re a hoot too. You’re 81 - well happy birthday ... you’re just getting shifted into 2nd gear ☺️ Be well!
Just turned 70. I was married for 24 years. Divorced for about 24 years. I love to design and garden and love precise hedges and topiaries. I am very artistic but found painting to not be my passion. Interior design is my gift and gardening is my peace. I am very good at listening and truly have enjoyed your channel. Thank you for taking your time to give us your gift!! Your voice is lovely as well.
I've been spending the last few years trying to rediscover myself. I realized after my mom died that I tried so hard to be accepted by her, that I wasn't sure who I really was. I even had a separate wardrobe for visiting her that would be to her liking...lots of black and bold colors and structure that so wasn't me. I like pastels...I love Monet paintings and pretty floral prints. I realized that the combination of her critical nature and my strong need for her acceptance really did a number on me. I do love her very much and I know that she didn't mean to have this effect, and probably didn't even realize the pain I felt. My sweet husband is retired now and has been so supportive on this journey. We've been together almost 40 years...I met him when I was a teen. I enjoy cooking and baking, love decorating for holidays :) and interior design, and I'm now learning watercolor painting, and just enjoying life and being true to myself, and giving up people pleasing. :) I still doubt myself sometimes and have even posted things and then deleted them, but this feels somehow therapeutic to be able to say this is who I am.
I’m also 66 and what makes me happy are my 2 senior cats and also knowing my family is waiting for me in Heaven and someday I’ll never have to be sad sick or lonely ever again. I admit this pandemic has me dealing with depression though.❤️
Hi I can understand , this covid is not easy , we are in lockdown in southern Ont. Not much fun ! Just getting out each day for a long walk sure lifts the spirits and I love walking near water. So therapeutic. Just hoping summer will help reduce the numbers of covid . I sure feel for people that can't get out due to disability but I sure hope family calls them . I also really enjoy my cat . One little pleasure I have . Take care
@@gaillamont9896 Thank you. Aren't cats the best. They make everything better. I was engaged many years ago to someone from Hamilton Ont. Wish I had married him cause I think Canada is beautiful.You take care too and praying this nightmare ends.
Same here. You are not alone. I'm mid-50's single mom of a high school student. We have both struggled through this pandemic and lately it has become pretty difficult. I miss the social life of work as I do not have many friends. I'm an introvert and have moved around a lot, been through a lot. I mind my own business and have put my energy into raising my child on my own....and reading in my spare time. Try to get out every day for a walk. It has helped me. Also, there are many online book clubs, crafting groups, etc. You can join through the New York Public Library...you don't need to live here. We have people joining the google meets from all over. It helps with the loneliness and there are some fun ones. Sending love to you. Let's keep on keeping on!
I'm just trying to manage my life at 58. My parents died 5 years ago 5 weeks apart. My life forever changed. I came from a abusive dysfunctional family and have for 40 years been in therapy to cope with the depression. I only have a sister and she's mentally ill. She's one moment talking listening And next she's not speaking to me for several weeks. I'm running low on fuel to keep going but what keeps me going is the possibility of better days. God bless Susan and Desi.
I am a child of God. I am mother to adults Joe, Jeff, and Julia who i raised myself.after my divorce when my youngest was 8yr. I recently retired after 44yr as an RN. I love to garden and to learn about gardening. Still have not found my next chapter but i will. I know it will be about helping those who need help because that is where my heart is. Thank you Susan for your beautiful videos.
Miss. Sunflower - I love to garden too, and if you like to check out gardeners on youtube, may I suggest you tune into Garden Answer ~ she a lovely young woman, just had her second child, a baby girl, a few days ago and who lives in Eastern Oregon with her husband, and toddler son. They have several acres and she has a passion for gardening. Enjoy your retirement (I’ll be joining you in 1 year, 8 months and 8 days) and thank you for your calling and service as a RN. Many blessings ☺️
Our backgrounds are so similar! I also retired in May after 44 years as an RN. My children were 7 and 8 when I left and divorced their father, who was abusive. I raised them on my own with the exception of $113/month child support for each one (!). They are now adults and live 1,000 and 2,600 miles away, although we stay in close contact. I'm also in search of my next chapter. Right now, I'm enjoying peace and solitude and the freedom of not having to adhere to anyone's schedule but mine. It feels strange not going to work. I often have a nagging feeling that I should "be somewhere", then I happily remember that I don't. The next performance evaluation I anticipate will be from St. Peter at the pearly gates. I bought a battery operated push lawnmower and stayed busy mowing my 1/2 acre yard last summer. The battery and I run out of power about the same time, so it works out well. It usually takes me a few days, but I get it finished. I've taken up the hobby of pressure canning, which I find very satisfying. I gave jars of French onion soup and jars of jam as Christmas gifts. I hope to grow a little garden this summer. I agree with Bambi West's suggestion of following Garden Answer. The channel is delightful!
Hi Susan, I found your channel several weeks ago and have enjoyed it tremendously . I am 71, a widow twice. I am the last of my family and I'm a stage IV cancer survivor. I love animals and have three cats and a very spoiled little dog that will turn 15 in February. So we enjoy our old age together, we walk, play and eat the old person old dog way! Your channel has brought insight into my daily life as to how much we all have in common and how much we all share in life. We're all pretty much the same only a little different. I thank you for all the work you do for your channel and for all of us. Please give little Desi a hug for me, he is an angel!
I am new to your channel. I found you right around the time that you moved into this apartment. I am always so excited when you have a new video! You lift me up girl! Big time! I was happy you showed us how we could hear your music on Alexa. I am your age. I remarried 13 years ago after being divorced for 13 years. We had a wonderful playful first 8 years of marriage and then my husband got Parkinson's disease. He got diagnosed one month after my dearest Mom died of Parkinson's disease. I took care of her through her death. Now I am my husband's full-time caregiver. He is progressing quickly . We have a sweet and special life just the two of us and our 97 pound Goldendoodle. Three grown kids between us and seven grandchildren that we hardly ever see because of covid-19. We look forward to being fully vaccinated so we can get together again. They all live close . I looove to garden and grow beautiful flowers and veggies and cook delicious healthy mostly vegan food. Life is simple and rich. I appreciate your uplifting words each week!
I mentioned before I turned 60 this month and also makes 9 yrs my husband passed from cancer. I didn't realize how much it affected me when he died. I turned to God more and I pray everyday that God will help me be the person he wants me to be and be a light to others. I found my passion to decorate my house again about a year and a half ago - so I am loving finding what to decorate with that makes me happy. Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts and words of wisdom!
I don’t usually share but I thought this might encourage someone else. I was married for 38 years and I’ve now been divorced for 17. What would have been our 50th wedding anniversary I had a choice to make........ I could throw a really large pity party, I could completely ignore the day, or I could celebrate the day even though we were no longer married. I chose to celebrate! I got dressed up I went to the nearest big city I had a wonderful lunch went to the theater, went shopping and I was OK in fact I was better than OK. Like you I choose to be better than OK regardless of the circumstances. Thank you for your videos and I hope you have a marvelous birthday.
I always tried to be traveling on my summer wedding anniversary after divorcing. To numb myself. I had suffered enough. Then came the summer I could not. I remembered more with less going on, but it was okay. My best friend gave me a beautiful card when I divorced: It said that I was about to cross a bridge and I would get to the other side. When I got there, I would look back, not fully understanding exactly how I crossed, but I would be confident that I would never want to cross back. We ladies have made it with strength and love that many men don't realize we have. YOU certainly have crossed that bridge. Thank you for sharing your strength!!
Fellow Michigander here! This cold has been miserable for me. 2020 was a hard year for me in every way. This year I am pregnant with my first child and working full time. It has been so hard and tiring... I love watching this channel to relax 😊 hi everyone!
WoW...do you have an explosion of life waiting on the other side for YOU! You're going g to find out things about yourself that you never knew.Welcome to the mama club
I'm 78, an artist and a widow and I'm one of those women who's perfectly happy to live alone, (not really alone, I would get very lonely without my sweet dog). I like me and I'm almost ashamed to say I'm really happy. I have 3 daughters with their own lives who live away and of course I love them with all my heart. l've lived all of my life in Wyoming and I'm very thankful I'm here. You are one of the regular people I love to watch, I think you're such a kind person, I love your apartment and I'm in love with Dezi. My reason to be living I believe is to let others know how much the Lord has changed my life and to inspire them to know how great their life would be with Him.
Hello, Diane. I am in the Black Hills of South Dakota. We may live near each other. I would not have made it through cancer without knowing the Lord. For the first time in my life, I had the "peace that surpasses all understanding" while undergoing chemo. I am married and almost 66 and our two doxies are a great comfort to us. Do you sell your art?
Hi Cate, I'm in Sheridan and right now I've decided to create for the Lord. I'm so glad that you know Him. There is nothing more wonderful. I would like to share with others but right now I'm kind of stuck in the house like everyone. Thanks for your note. @@catedennis41
You are a beautiful person. I must tell you life throws some hard punches and god knows I’ve had my fair share but my mother taught me well as she lost her husband at 51 totally unexpectedly and had a house an 18 and 13 year old. I fell madly in love and got married at 19 even though my mother wanted me not to do it. Sadly at 26 my husband told me he didn’t love me anymore and divorced me. I was devastated. Thank god I had a mother who told me it was his loss and I needed to love who I was and at the time I didn’t listen until one day I looked at myself and realized that it was time for me! Got myself a really great job after many rejections and my confidence in myself started to grow and I started to love me. I could go on and on with this story but I just wanted you and anyone else who has loved and then been told they do not love you back it’s not you no it’s their lose and your gain. We need to always love ourselves first and feel comfortable with ourselves no one can do that for us. Love to all
God makes no mistakes. We just need to ask Him what do You Lord want from me. Failure is what we think of ourselves, but it’s not the truth about ourselves. We must grow everyday. Love you lovely one.🕊💞
Hi, you wonderful soul! I'm 34 and i'm from Romania 😊! And i must tell that your videos help me heal.... From the loss of my mom when i was 23, from the idea that is somth wrong with me that i am without a husband and a family of my own... I understand so well what you are saying in your videos and i am so happy that you make them - they bring me so much joy! And understanding. And sometimes i tell myself - if Susan could move and was able to make this change and be brave in wanting more for her and decorate her house so beautifully...i can move forward in life, too. Thank you! 🥰
You touch my heart so much today with your words...you lift me up and insprire me but most importantly, you make me feel " part of".....I just love you!
I just turn 67. I got a part time job at Home Depot, in the merchandising dept. I found my passion again. I have a int. design degree, but haven't used it professionally for years. Invalidated by the people I loved. It has never left, the passion. I make the store look good. I hope to graduate to a kitchen designer. I went through what you went through, but if I keep myself healthy, life has only begun. This is what will eventually attract my perfect "older" mature, kind, settled, exciting, loving man who knows himself and lets me be my passion. To God be the glory! Bless you, Nancy
OMGosh you did it again...made me cry.....loved the "john" story.....I have a Step dad like that, when he loves he acts mean....but it's just that he doesn't know how to express it....took me awhile to realize that. I am 65, will celebrate my 47th wedding anniversary in a few days...yup, married my high school sweetheart. I could write a book on our journeys.....we were farmers, I became a Nurse for 36 wonderful years, raised 2 beautiful daughters.....have 4 fantastic Grandchildren. I've taught painting, had my own shop all while still working....still love to teach others the joys of doing creative things. Am into herbs and essential oils, have made my own soap and lotions. I have always been the "peacemaker" and "caretaker".....when I had to stop working and go on disability 6 years ago it took me 5 years to adjust to not being what I was...or who I was....but I am now adjusted to this life and blessed with all I have and those in my life. I continue to inspire others and if you remember that word is my challenge this year...to inspire others .....so yes, I guess I am still the Peacemaker and caretaker....but that's who I am .....
I'm a Christian ✝ and a mom! A new first time grandma my granddaughter is 2 weeks old 💛💕 and I love visiting you and Dezi! You inspire me and make me appreciate the most simple beautiful things! So thank you for sharing yourself and letting us see Dezi in bowties.
Hi Susan, I am a widow, turned 86 this month, still live alone. I do have a couple health issues and have stayed in since March, not a happy camper!. My children see to my needs and I am very thankful for them. I am looking forward to spring and plan on getting out into the world again, the Lord willing! I enjoy your videos, you are a very special and wise person. Thank you!
I was 50 when my husband left me I have grown so much since then. I lived alone for 15 years gaining beautiful granddaughters along the way. When I was just about to retire I met a dear man and we are enjoying this part in our lives together.
Coming across this channel was such a blessing! You are an inspiration! I love being single and not dating. I’m divorced for over 11 years. ( was a controlling and emotional abusive) but I wouldn’t change it! God has turned my pain into joy! I felt a freedom inside, I felt my wings come back, I got a great job, went back to college, made so many friends, got my passion back, love being with my family. I have 4 beautiful children and 3 grandchildren now! We’re stronger than we think! Fear is a liar! I love not reporting to anyone, having to check in , can pick up and go, I feel blessed and thankful!! I love coming to my own home and feeling independent! God Bless you
My birthday is February 2. I'll be 73. For some reason I'm not lonely in my aloneness in this pandemic. I am making this year a year of extreme self care with hope for Spring. You are inspirational. I have a strong belief in God. I'm a little loud at times and love change. I'm tall and a lot boho. I'm beautiful..as we all are. We hold each other's heart and hands
Hi Susan, you made me well up with watery eyes again. I too left with young children. I moved to another town, a small flat with no curtains. I had to use packing boxes up as curtains no beds, clock or tv. I cried too in this unknown place.. I thought myself so lost & a loser too. Not much to show my children for their new start. It was all lost to a dysfunctional relationship. I learnt how to be an even greater mum & care for me withself respect, self love, how to do things on my own. Yep (Like mowing a lawn😳). When I tripped up I got backup & learnt from it. Also others judgements of me being single now doesn't hurt cause I enjoy it..I delved into spirituality, no church just me various meditations styles, self help books & me. Learned many wonderful positive things like diplomas in graphic design & Art. Loved creating & exhibiting in group shows, won awards. Been sitting on that a few years now. A close friend said to me lately , "all these Diplomas & your just a cleaner!" That remark made me feel really sad & less, it broke my heart again. It is what I do right now for the last couple of years. It was hard to get jobs here. Time to open up again & create, relearn & be more for me. Do what I love & find more to Love. I love my home, my 2 grown-up childen & my 3 grandkids. So grateful to you Susan you open my eyes. With each tear shed there is a letting go a healing. Lots of love & thankyou your awesome😊👍
I'm a 60 year old Christian, wife, mom, grandma who loves animals, especially cats. I love music, gardening, reading, and and sewing. I've strived to take care of myself since losing my mom when she was only 53 and I was only 26...too young to really know what a treasure she was until it was too late. Mom had divorced my alcoholic, abusive dad when I was 8 and my sister was 6. It was a time when women didn't get divorced. In fact my grandma (her own mother) told her to go back with him. I studied cosmetology after high school but gladly gave it up to stay home when I had my boys. I've been a secretary in the Special Education Office at our school district for the last 20 years (my mom had been a special education teacher so this felt good) I so enjoy visiting with you and learning from you each week Susan! Happy birthday Blessings Susan! to you and Desi from Midas and me!
I’m new to your channel 💗. How lovely. 💗. I feel so relaxed and uplifted by your words and all the comments 💗. I’m 66 this year. And have spent so many years in my head, trying to solve life’s riddles 💗. I’m going to reinvent myself again this year. To be aware of my life and the world. I’ve began to design and sew dolls for my grandchildren and others. I’m alone and single. And I’m enjoying it. Love to All here. 💕
That was a beautiful story about John. Brought tears to my eyes. We never know who we touch and why. Keep being you Susan, you're such an inspiration. xoxo (Richmond, VA - age 63 - loves beautiful things and feelings of comfort and joy) Happy Birthday!!
One of the most recent lessons I have learned is how much I am appreciated by the community. As a Nurse a lot of us felt like we weren’t appreciated. I have made the paradigm shift to being open to knowing people do care... It took me many years to get here.. So glad I have arrived.🌺
I just love your heart, Little Poet. I feel fortunate to be part of this channel. To follow you and Desi. To have a fun laugh and sometimes a good cry. Many thanks 🙏
I too at age 60 have many regrets in my life. I was married to my high school sweetheart for 27 years... we grew apart and I walked away many years ago. While we remain best friends today, I will forever regret our marriage ending. I kick myself all the time. We have 3 beautiful children.. a son, 2 daughters and 7 beautiful grandchildren. I have always suffered from depression and I am not very easy on myself... I feel guilt about everything and it's like I won't let myself try and be happy... I am my worst enemy. We lost our son...our first born...it will be 3 years in May. He was 35 and the love of my life. I feel like my son went to Heaven and I am in Hell. I am trying so hard to rebuild my life but it is so hard. Our family is so close and to lose someone has nearly killed us. We are still close and try and hold each other up when one is very down. I continue to pray for peace, hope and some sort of happiness. I will not quit trying... each day is a new day and I try it all over again. I love your video's and little Desi makes my heart sing. Thank you so much...you are a beautiful person.
So sorry for the loss of your son and all the emotions that go with. I have a 30 year old son that’s an alcoholic and refuses to seek help & is always angry with me for trying to help or giving advice. Every day I wonder is he ok today? Now, I try to be quiet, but my heart is broken. I wonder where I went wrong and how could this have happened. I miss the way we used to be. We all have regrets, but it sounds like you’re so loved and fortunate to have such a close family and a friendship with your ex. Just know we all struggle sometimes with decisions, but we have made it this far and we’re strong. I’m thinking about you and understand so much where you’re coming from. 💕
So sorry for the loss of your son. I’ll be Preying for you. When you said every Day is a new day and you will try it again shows how brave you are. Try not have too many regrets for yesterday as I think it would hinder today. I’m glad you still have your ex-husband in your life as a dear friend, and the rest of your family helping to lift each other up. May God bless you and your family! Thanks for sharing!
Brenda I'm so sorry for the loss of your son. I just couldn't say nothing. I almost never say anything because I have too many things to say, so I just read everyone's comments and only respond if I see someone or Susan hurting. It seems I've lost my voice ....I almost lost my son, 34, this fall, to brain surgery that we were told didn't need to be done, but did. He's my only child, a beautiful full grown man, but I can't help looking at him seeing the little 3 year old lying on his side on the carpet every day lining up his little tiny cars quietly and seriously as if his life depended on it. He's my everything and the one good thing from my marriage. I'm so glad you have family to love and love you back. It means everything. 🤗♥️
I have reinvented myself many times in my 73 years. The most recent change happened last year when I contracted Covid-19 and I was so sick I could not do very much. Two months into my recovery I discovered TH-cam. I have meet so many people and learned so much from this incredible group of passionate, creative women who I now think of as my friends. You are special to me and you are not a failure!! You are a wonderful person and so kind and giving. Thank you for your goodness!! See you next time! ❤️ Suzy
I am 74 years old and lost my husband last March, 2 weeks before our 50th anniversary. No children but many fur babies during those 50 wonderful years spent together. I left my family and my friends in France to live with the love of my life and I consider myself a very blessed woman as my husband not only was one of a kind but he loved me very much. It makes losing him so much harder. Susan, your looking at life as a glass half full helps me a lot when I look at my present life as half empty💗
How empathic and aware are you to honor John ...his behavior towards you seems like he was afraid because you saw him on a level that he couldn't accept. His tears & words on your recent visit are a breakthrough moment. What a blessing. He now can express your value to him...he cares deeply for you. I'm not 60 yet but getting close and realizing that I'm experiencing my 60's a little bit early through my hubby's eyes. He's 63 yrs young today and thank goodness is very healthy. As time goes by... especially through this pandemic...we are deeply re-connecting to nature and letting go more & more of social media etc...it is truly magical & a permanent shift. Every moment outdoors is a spiritual lesson & connection to God. I remember feeling this same joy as a child playing outside.
How could anyone not like Desi!!! He melts my heart. 💕 I'm in the UK, 61 and divorced 20 years. I live with my beautiful dog. My children all live a distance away. A few months ago I made a new man friend but Covid is making it very slow to progress. I have lots of hobbies and interests, from cooking, baking, arts and crafts to spirituality, reading tarot etc. I rarely feel lonely but it would be lovely to have someone special to share life with.
Beautiful Susan! What a touching story about John! Your gift to him was so much more than the star, it was your warmth and kindness that managed to touch his heart! You touch so many hearts through your wonderful channel! You are amazing! Terianne
Dear Susan, in your last video, you talked about possibly finding love again, and waking up in someone’s arms. You can be married for a long time to ‘the love of your life’ and never experience that. I often fantasize about having my own ‘little place’ with all my antiques, dog, and fairy lights. Susan, you DO have it all.❤️
The first or second time I watched Susan's videos I went out and bought little lights. Now I have different colors for different seasons. Don't fantasize ...go get yourself some . The most affordable thing that will make you smile on the grey days
I am sigle, 40+ years working woman. I retired a few years ago and moved from a big city to a small town in another state (PA). I have worked very hard to become the happiest woman in this town! At first, I really had to work at it, but now it comes naturally because being happy is addicting! I do the things I love like cooking, gardening, thrifting, exploring this area which is rich in history and beauty. I treasure the opportunities that are presented for me to volunteer in the community and at my church, love putting on some makeup and pretty outfit I'm feeling good. During covid-19 oh, I have been trying to learn to do watercolor paintings. I watch a variety of people on TH-cam like you Susan, a young man the wandering Woodsman who hikes all over the beautiful state of Pennsylvania, and Garden Answer Laura, perky young woman who is a fabulous teacher about plants and Gardens. I surround myself with positive people, try to pack as much fun into my day as I can and always keep an attitude of gratitude. I have a widower friend who texts me several days in advance to set up a phone "date". yesterday Saturday afternoon he texted me and asked me if he could call me early next week after 8 . He said that he was too busy this weekend watching the football games and making a pot of chicken soup to do it any sooner . I thought it was hysterical . I texted him to back it said sure eight is fine you sure are a busy guy ! So maybe he'll call some night this week and maybe he won't but I got such a laugh out of it and told my friend in Florida about it and we giggled for several minutes about how " busy" he is! Even during covid-19 , I am determined To love every moment of my life because I put it on hold so long when I was working and made that my priority. now I have to have every drop of beauty and wonder and joy that I can. Susan I challenge you and your viewers to become the happiest women and their towns!
Hello Susan I’m Elizabeth,56 years old,living in Amman Jordan The Middle East Animal lover and a generally happy person Brought up my Granddaughter since she was 3 three years old She brings me laughter,love and happiness From you,dear Susan I have learnt Warmth Unconditional Love And Love of life Desi is gorgeous Hugs
Hi Susan ! What a beautiful heart that you have ! lm retired have been married for 56 yrs have two sons and have been blessed with two Grandaughters < watching your videos makes my heart sing you have such a way with words and like you i collect sayings LOVE THEM ! Im from Yorkshire England looking forward to your blog next week Also love your videos that you show x
What's my passion? I'm activated by things that engage my brain (reading; writing; research) & by faith. And if I got involved in a relationship? Oh, Susan .... I would lose myself into trouble-shooting their brokenness and dissolve myself, and I'm too old and too tired to do that again!
It's priceless that you discovered this pattern & realize it's not in your best interest to repeat it. One of the things I appreciate about age is gaining wisdom from past experiences. Finally figuring out what I like vs don't like. What adds value & richness to my life vs what drags me down into a self sabotaging circumstance. There's no reason to invest your valuable energy doing something that's proven to be wasteful. Focus on topics that fulfill the purpose of serving your interests. Things that are worthy & deserving of your time. It's your life & you deserve to enjoy yourself. Caring for others, I had learn to think of myself & adapt. Wishing you joy & abundant Blessings!
Hi Susan! I'm a married Mother of 4, Grandma of 7, they are all my pride and joy! I am a church organist/pianist and I love praising God in song! I admire your decorating skills and appreciate them very much!
Hi Susan, First I'm kind of new to watching you, but love your video's and Desi , My lil yorkiepoo '' Lola " passed away in my arms on March 6th , broke my heart but she waited until I got home to say goodbye, I'm 60 and married for 41 years and he is a very good man, but he just isn't a talker, so since I am a homebody I often feel lonely. We have two son's that are busy living their own lives, and making a living for their family, we have 4 grandson's 14, 13, twin's that are 12 . 3 stepgrandchildren 20, 17,16 all boy's just 1 16 year old girl, lol I love nature and animals and my escape is watching ladies of my age on youtube and crafting. I'm just now learning about myself and what makes me happy, This pass year hasn't been easy for me, my mom who is 83 has dementia, and in heart failure , she is getting worse by the day and with dementia she gets mad at me for trying to help her. I worry about her day and night, she falls alot and is very confused and even see's people that isn't there. she is so pitiful, it's just breaking my heart. but she will still let you know that she is going to do things her way and won't listen to no one. not even the doctors. her sickness is taking a lot of my time, but I know she is getting worse, so even if she's mad at me, I'm still going to do all that I can for her, Thank you for showing up and being a girlfriend to all of us that watch you, you cheer me up and give me faith and hope.
I am a wife, mother to 3 beautiful grown children, grandma to 2 boys who live on the opposite side of the country. I’m a retired teacher who finally this year pursued my passion for vintage and antique items and rented a booth at a local antique mall. Even with the pandemic, it has been very successful. I am really doing it as a hobby because I love staging my booth and finding all the unique items that I sell. I always wanted to do this but never felt enough confidence that I could do it. I was too afraid to take a risk but suddenly at age 68, I decided that I didn’t have to be perfect and my booth didn’t have to be perfect. I just had to be real and take the chance on something I really wanted. I am blessed! And you are a blessing for all of us. 💕💕
When you get to a point when you enjoy you being single, and you have experienced loss, one goes to a different level of self confidence . It is a process and never has to be a rapid transformation. Thanks for your candid and open feelings. You just never know who and what adventures that you are happening upon. Much love.❤️
I have lived alone most of my life and love every moment. I had a bad childhood, strict parents who would keep me locked in my room most of the time. They feared the environment and thought they were protecting me from it. I’ve had some nice relationships but I wanted to be free and free I have lived all my life.... I’ll be 70 this year and have no regrets. A woman alone is not liked or understood by others who have their own family - I suppose there might not be much in common. And as you said, people might see you as a failure when opportunities have always been there but it was always my choice. Then there are some who feel sorry for me - having no family nearby. I had a lot of single friends growing up in New York City, but California is family oriented and people see you differently. I’m aware of it and it’s okay because I’m very comfortable in my skin and I feel I alone have accomplished a lot in life. I plan to retire in 2 to 3 years and move to Florida where I think it would be similar living to New York City - especially with the most recent exodus out of NYC to Florida. I envision myself in a nice size house with a nice pool enjoying life after retirement. Then I ponder, should I make that big move and purchase a house or move to a retirement community where if something happens to me someone would be able to help? Should I move to the unknown or live out the rest of my life in California, where I have my doctors and acquaintances and I don’t have to start over? I wonder how many more years left do I have - time passes by very fast. Never thought about life after working, never prepared for retirement, never thought I would grow old. I love life and have a lot of hobbies - I’ve learned to appreciate everything and keep busy but what the future holds shall remain a mystery for now and I’m okay with that. At least I have options and something wonderful to look forward to as I live one day at a time. Thank you Susan, you always make me reflect on life - past, present, and future. Thank you!
I know what you mean about moving! Who will help me if I move away from my friend and need a ride home from hospital some day? Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
@@hairdresser1300 I have been YouTubing looking at Naples - nice community but I understand the house prices have skyrocketed lately due to everyone moving there. But I’m in the Bay Area California which is expensive - Florida would still be reasonable in comparison. Thank you. I can’t wait....
I am a retired nurse, married almost 33 years, and first and foremost a beloved child of God, as are you!!!! He works thru you and your kind heart and your channel. How can any of us be a loser with God on our side! Still finding out new things about myself with the gift of each new day. Thanks for your sweet presence and be safe.
You have a gift of sharing vulnerability. Several years ago I was writing a blog. I did a post about social media. My feeling that it had the potential to be so much more. People fill it with the best of life as though there is nothing else. Many times I have seen the meme “be kind, everyone is going through something” yet, no one wants to share what that something is. I would argue the good times are reward enough. No one wants to wish bad on anyone but in bad...everyone wants to know they are not alone. You are the best kind of therapy. Your videos are touching, humorous, inspiring and honest. You help people understand that in bad times, they are not alone. There is grief that the best you can do is learn to carry it. Eleanor Roosevelt? My favorite quote of hers. “You must do the thing you think you cannot do.” Truth.
When is your birthday? I cried throughout this video. As a single 70-year-old, I don't want to be a failure. It's hard not to feel that way though. Thank you for lifting my spirits. I truly love you!!!
My bday is this Friday....and I wanted to thank you Stephanie for beign here and always beign so kind and giving. You are one amazing women and I appreacaite see you...hearing from you. We are around the same age and not every day is great....but every day I am so grateful to be here and see the sky...I hope your week is a good one!!! xxooo Love always, Susan
At 57 heading quickly to 58 I’ve been wife, mom and now Yaya to four beautiful children’s and four grandkids. My children do not live close by which means neither do my grandkids. Having grown up next door to my grandparents, I “expected” my life to be that way also. I’ve come to the realization that life is a gift. I can be sad that life didn’t go as I had planned or I can embrace joy right where I am. I’m still trying to find my true passion in this life. I realize more and more how important it is to have that. I love watching your channel for your thoughts on this life and how better to embrace it!
Dear Jenny , your words were so thoughtful and eloquent, I feel I need to write them down , not only for myself , but for many of my in laws that haven’t come to that realization, when life has thrown them a curve ball . I have a husband of 46 yrs and my grandchildren do live close by , but I still do find myself , wondering threw life , sad and feeling alone even though I’m not . Thank YOU , and we all thank Susan , for her lovely channel where we all learn so much from her & from each other . ♥️ JoAnn ❤️
Hi Susan! I'm 63 yr old that lost my husband, my dad and mom in the last 10 years after caring for them all. I live alone with my cat now. I do have 2 adult children and 2 beautiful grandbabies that I adore. As I was watching your video thinking how life has changed, my phone rang. A good friend that I haven't talked to in a while was calling. We talked for almost 2 hours, laughing and catching up. It was wonderful hearing her laugh and it warmed my heart. There are so many if us women that have had our lives forever changed but we have to always find the joy! ❤️
I'm a 53 mother of two beautiful girls and married to a wonderful man for 26 years. I teach preschool full time at the church and my passion is yoga, running, and reading. I love perfume and clothing. I look forward to seeing you and Desi every week. You are such an inspiration to me. Your love and zest for life is so pure and I love your honesty and vulnerability!
Almost 63, divorced last year. The loneliness creeps in some days.I have grown daughters but they are busy with their families, and of course the pandemic has isolated us all in one way or another. Finding your channel and all who share their stories keeps me alive and focused! Thank You!
I am 60, blessed mother of 5 grown children, grandmother of 7. You are such an inspiration for me and many others. Love your channel. I enjoy living by myself. Hugs and kisses to Desi
Hi Susan. I am Scottish, now live in Ireland but my partner and I have a passion to move to Spain. I am 63 and brought up 3 sons. After 24 years, my husband and I separated. We were still good friends. That was 2009. In 2010 he had a stroke and was in a wheelchair, which truly upset me badly as he was a hill walker, loved cycling etc an outdoor person. 2011 rocked my world, my middle son was brutally murdered, then sadly my husband took another massive stroke and passed away, then my youngest son was in a car crash. His legs were badly damaged and after 3 years unable to walk and in a wheelchair, 22 operations, they saved one leg and amputated below the knee his right leg. That year shook me to my core as I thought naively that life was wonderful, I am stronger now and realise bad stuff does happen but we have to carry on, cope and be happy. Your videos bring tears to my eyes as you are so lovely and so caring. What you did for John was so nice and I think he does think alot of you but cant show it too much. Im a twin and my sister lives alone now after her partner went off with her best friend. She would like someone in her life and I hope one day that person comes into her life but if not I think she will be ok. I love cooking, baking and love crafty stuff. My sister thinks Im a Homemaker as shes totally different. She works full time for the NHS in Admin, so Covid was a big part of her daily life. Susan , your flat is soo nice and cosy and welcoming and its all your work. Dessi is adorable.I have a wee dog Tilly. I love your videos. They have such meaning. Take Care and I will be watching you every week x
Me? I’m a retired judicial supervisor (I started out as a probation officer ‘way back in the day) who has finally come home to what I always wanted. I want to paint and draw and spend time with animals and not just cats and dogs, but the farm animals that so many in our society forget about. I think this is the happiest time of my life (I’ll be 73 next month): I’m the resident artist at a farm animal sanctuary in the Catskills here in New York State. Life is good. Sometimes, though, one has to be patient. I always love your videos, but this one was special. PS - I predict that neighbor that “hates” you (no, he doesn’t) will wind up being a big part of your life.
Enjoy your retirement! I wish I could draw or paint....I can’t even draw a proper stick figure 😂 I would love to have some property where we could have some donkeys. I already have one name picked out ... Don Quixote 😁 - Be well
I am 67 years old and a widow. I am in a relationship with a man, however, probably will not get married again. I am a sewer with an online store in progress. Learning new skills about creating a web page. Reading is one of my favorite things. There are so many books to be enjoyed. I look forward to seeing you and Desi each week. Thanks for a great channel.
Hi Susan, I found you in Nov. 2020 and so glad I did. You share the beauty of kindness to those who love your channel. 12 months ago I decided to sell my townhouse, because it's too large and I don't want to be a homeowner anymore. Was looking forward to selling and finding an apartment, but am even more so after seeing how you have so beautiful accomplished this. I lost the finest person I've ever known ..my husband Razi 19 months ago and know he would've loved the wonderful way you treat others! Stay safe 💗
Wishing you Avery Happy 66th Birthday Susan with all the Happiness that life can bestow upon you Susan you are a breath of fresh air to this world and know you have made a difference in many lives With great admiration 🎂👩🏻🦳🥰
Susan you’re beautiful! Don’t get down on yourself. I love how you decorate your home. I have many things I would like a chance for do do over. I lost both my parents by the time I was 30. I married at 26 and we have two children. But I lost my husband in a car accident January 2 1995. Was thankful I had a good job because I had two kids to raise. My daughter was13 and son 9. I have never dated my thing was to raise the kids. I’m 70 years old, I have some heath issues but I’m ok. I just trust the Lord each day he gives us. He is always there to listen and loves us more than we could ever imagine. Take care, Lin
I am a 73 year old divorced women who has found through the years that I am smarter, funnier, and stronger than I ever believed. A long road to get here and it will be longer still but oh so worth it. Happiness does not come to you, it comes from inside you.
Listening tonight, I had tears in my eyes....especially about your visit to John. We all express ourselves differently, and amazingly that seems to work for us. I got married at 18 years old...and going to celebrate 48 years of marriage soon. It hasn’t always been easy...but it’s those hard moments that have kept us together....we always forgive one another and continue to walk forward hand in hand. We are both retired now....and even tho life can be hard and hurts sometimes, we acknowledge our flaws together before God, the almighty. I am a mother, grandmother, and great grandmother... and ....maybe, I haven’t done all kinds of spectacular things in my life....but, I am HAPPY and content. And, I love listening to your music. Music always makes me happy and soothes the soul. Bless you, Susan
I'm very grateful as well. There was something so many of us needed and Susan brought it with such love and grace...a sense of value in ourselves and the life we are leading...a sense of beauty and connectedness with ourselves, each other, and the world around us. God bless you, Susan.
I sit hear with tears in my eyes...every Sunday I watch your video Susan ......how I found you on TH-cam I don't know...but I did! I realize that you and I have more in common than I thought. The books you read,the poetry, the music, films, (and to go to driftstoors!), the way you see your life how you describe it, the world. What I think is, that I sit hear in a small town in Sweden and you on the other side of the world and we are rather the same! And it have always in history, been so probably although some like to say otherwise, so regardless color of skin, education, upbringing and so on - We have- as you say also- the same hopes, failures and feelings!!! And it makes me so hopeful!!❤️❤️❤️
I loved your words so much Susanne...you really struck a chord with me and reminded me that women in this world, no matter where we live, hold universal thoughts, feelings, and goals.I wish I could travel to your town and Sweden someday and perhaps indulge in a little " Under the Tuscon Sun" only Sweden style and find myself! Love to you always! Susan & Dez
Dear Susanne and Susan I was going to write a reply but your sentiments so reflected mine. I feel my life is very much like you ladies. I am from Toronto, Canada. From all over the world we share so much. Thank you for being here.
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@@jbjb3179 I want to know about what life is like in Canada. If I moved there, would I like it? I’ve been so curious to find out for quite sometime now. xo
Hello friend in Sweden from NYC, USA
I'm 70, a wife of 50 years, a mother of two exceptional children, one in heaven and one on Earth, a grandmother of two beautiful, adult grandchildren, and a caregiver. I love cooking and still try new recipes after all theses years. I love my life here in the woods with my husband and all the woodland creatures. Thank you Susan for all that you do with your inspiring channel. PS: Who wouldn't love Darling Desi?
I’m sorry for your loss. 🙏
‘The neighbour who hates you’ actually loves you. You are a true friend to him and I think he secretly loves your wee gifts
I agree
I agree. I cried when you told that story.
Sensitive, artist, lover of old movies, make-up, fashion and highly connected to dogs. When young: a beauty winner, singer, daddy's girl and lots of friction with mom. Black sheep of family but redeemed by Jesus Christ !! Now I am 64 and married with one married son. Lots of heartache, loss and sadness in the past, but now I am happier than I have ever been! Love your channel and YOU!! You are amazing Susan!!
My goodness. You were never a failure. You are a wonderful film maker, decorator, singer song writer, speaker, etc. ...I do understand your feelings tho. I'm 76, 4 daughters, one son who died at 13 months. I've been single for years. I actually enjoy it. I wanted to get my RN degree, but as a single mom, things just didn't work out. I have regretted that. . I have worked at a hospital for 40 years this summer. I'm retiring In 5 weeks. I'm scared . it's been 40 years of working. I know I will love it tho. . I belong to an Animal rescue, I love to make things. Sewing, art, clay, you name it. I do wish there was a male friend to go and haves coffee with sometimes. I miss the male point of view. I do have 6 grandsons of all ages, but they are scattered around the states. I am happy. I have my cats and my dog. I'm blessed. . love skin care, makeup. So it's pretty fulfilling.
I am probably your oldest subscriber, will be 90 in March, but still love skin care and makeup. I am a mother to 2 sons, 3 grandchildren and 3 great grandchildren. My passion is nutrition, I have been so into it since I was about 18. Back then it was an oddity, but I only read books and studied anything about it. I am married 3 times, the third times the charm, we’re together 30 years, living in the Palm Springs area and except for Covid, enjoying life. Love your videos, been following you for about 3+ years. Hugs, Senior diva 🥰
WELL HELLO~~~~~!!!! I am so happy you said hello....I bet you look fantastic!!! What a great heart you have....I just bought a book on feeding our brain!!! being healthy can be fun!!! My love to you!! Susan and Desi
I'm a 64, solo, full time RVer. Just me and my dog Sierra. Going on 3 years now. Life is good.
I dear Im so jealous
I would love to try that someday!
Doris P me toooo
You have inspired me. I'm 54 and thinking about impending retirement in a few years...if I choose to. My child will be going to college around the same time. Trying to figure out...what do I want to do with the time I have left? What will make me happy?
Cynthia Ann...I just turned 53 and am feeling the exact same. 30 years working at the same place...I'm ready for some adventure.
I am an Aboriginal woman living in the Central Australian desert. I am a mother of one, a Grandmother of 6 gorgeous kids. What makes me passionate is teaching my culture to others, and trying to live the most environmentally conscious life I can and inspire others to do the same. I am single, and absolutely love my life as it is. I have friends ageing from 26 to 75, straight and gay friends, friends from many cultures and spirituality. My life is rich. I started watching your channel to better prepare myself for ageing and the journey that entails. But you have inspired me in so many more ways. Thanks Susan.
You sound awesome
I love your apartment. The way you have decorated it is so pretty and you inspire me,...I understand feeling like a failure because I have felt like a failure most of my life. Some years ago I realized that I am contented with my life even though I was divorced twice, and have been single for over 20 years, so I must not have fail completely. I’m retired now and although I sleep in a lot I still put on makeup and fix my hair everyday even though most days I don’t go out. I have realized that a woman alone is much better off than a man alone. Men just can’t “hack it” like we gals can. “I am woman, hear me roar” 😄😄😄😄😄. We are a creation of the Lord most high and we are not a failure. God bless you.
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God bless you Judy. You are not a failure! 🌺🌹💖🌞💪🏽💜👗👒💛🧡😘
I am a nurse who turned 59 years old in January, I work in the ICU. Crazy days this past year. I found your ch because I want to watch something enjoyable, uplifting, honest and real and that is you. Thank you.
I moved to a small town after divorce in 2012, swearing NEVER to marry again. I did not know a soul there. The town was strategically located between the two offices I managed. I spent weekends, holidays, and nights fixing up my little bungalow. I learned new skills, enjoyed living alone for the first time in my life and found my true self. There, in that tiny town, in 2013, I met my soul mate. Looking back at the timeline of my life, it would seem that ALL was meant to be just for such a time as this.
Loved this video. I am 70, a widow and live alone in a tiny house and love it. I had the perfect life with a wonderful husband, 3 children and a good paying job. Then the business got sold and for the first time in my adult life I was without a job. I decided to pursue my passion and at 51 went back to school for nursing. Man was it hard but I did it. Eight months after I graduated my love died suddenly. My work at the hospital saved my life.
I wanted my children to know what it means to give of yourself so when they were very small we started doing summer mission trips. We went to several different states and my daughter went to Romania and fell in love with the people. This is still a passion of mine to help others see the love of our Father.
This is so beautiful Linda! How inspiring!!!
I’ve been a daughter a wife and a mother. I was so busy being something to others that I never found me! Now that I am no longer busy doing those things I am kind of lost. I hope that I can discover me and find serenity!
I am going through the exact same thing
I am going through this time of life. I never had time for hobbies. I’m just trying different things right now. Thank you so much for bringing this up.
@@donnahazlett6676 you are a doggy mommy. And that’s pretty important to that sweet doggy you adopted. Sending love to you and your new little fur baby♥️🌹
Same here, finding myself at the age of 46♥️
I completely understand what you are saying. We can all find that serenity together. God be with you.
You made me cry talking about John following you to car. Sweet story.
Me too
I am a cancer survivor. I am not getting treated right by my significant other. When you feel alone, remember that it is worse to be with someone and feel alone. I am crushed today because of his actions. Not physical, or even mental. I am just taken for granted. I love watching your videos. I know I am here for a reason. It is really scary to be a senior and not having any savings. I am blessed though because I have my health. Mostly. My passion is music and creativity. I have no expectations. I am just glad you are there every Friday. Oh yeah, I had to say hi to Dezi? I love him so much. Animals are also my passion. See you next time. Love You all.
Hi Deborah. I, too, am a cancer survivor and a people pleaser (sometimes termed "codependent").
If you care to delve deeper I suggest watching some videos made by Dr. Ramani on narcissism. It was my wake-up call and opened my eyes in so many ways. I hope it helps you too. And watching Susan move on in her life is so positive inspiring and empowering it's like a mini therapy session comforting us along the way.
I send you love and blessings and extend a caring hand and heart to you.
Be blessed,
Marie
@@mariewright3839 That is so kind. My heart has been touched by you all. I will check those videos out. Thanks
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I've been reading everyone's posts, how lovely! I'm 63, legally blind, a southern woman who moved to northern Michigan with my charming husband in 2003. When my vision loss became profound enough that I could no longer do my job, I joined the ranks of those on disability in 2013. Couldn't sit around watching TV and eating Doritos, so I wrote and published a few steamy romance novels (pen name JOrdan BUCHANAN lol), i became a freelance book editor, and last year I opened an online merch shop featuring sarcastic, humorous, and heartfelt designs. I'm eternally curious about almost everything and I'm a hardcore true crime fan. I can't cook worth a damn, but I make killer brownies. So I've got that going for me. lol
Go you!!!
What an inspiration! I have advanced glaucoma, and at only 61, they're trying hard to stop it advancing. I also have RA but try not to let it stop me doing what I want. Thanks for posting and giving me hope. ❤
@@Mel-59 The advancements in eye treatment just keep on coming so hang in there. I had Juvenile RA as a child and my vision loss began as inflammatory glaucoma (related), so I get where you're coming from. The only time I get really pissy is when someone says blind people can do anything normally sighted people can. That's bullshit. BUT you can almost always find other ways to get done what you need to. There are just some times you need to allow yourself some time to own your frustrations, fear, or uncertainty. It's normal. We wouldn't be human otherwise and what's more beautiful than our humanity?
@@barbarawaite5395 Ah, I wonder if mine's inflammatory because my eye pressure was normal on diagnosis. It's under control with drops at the moment but they say I'll need an operation sooner rather than later because I'm "so young". Not keen on the op, but love the fact they deem me to be so young. 😊
@@barbarawaite5395 Haha, I just checked out your book page. I bought one of those spikey wheels online, to make perforations in a card I was making. It wasn't until afterwards I saw the description said "fetish". 😉
66 and a widow. I met and married my soul mate late in life and he died 9 months later. He showed me that joy is truly possible in life. And the way to find joy is by giving to others. Compassion and kindness is everything. And dear the one you love is always with you and your love affair continues as long as you are alive.❤️
Awww Miss. Nina, I’m so sorry to hear you had but a short time with your beloved. You are so right when you said the joy of giving to others, and that compassion and kindness is everything. I have a sign on my desk at work that says, “Remember to be kinder than necessary” I keep it on my desk as a reminder to myself it is never wrong to be kind. Be well ☺️
Hi. I’m Jan. Wife, mom of two adult children, grandma of three., and a sister to my sister. Retired teacher, thrift store and yard sale fanatic. Ebay seller. Dog lover. Cat lover. More introverted than extroverted. Left-handed and proud of it. Member of the Democratic Party. Love listening to audiobooks, especially Louise Penny. Love to travel, love to stay at home. Not much into make up and elixirs to look younger...we can help a lot of things but not our age! Born in Chicago, raised in the suburbs, went to Southern Illinois Universith and graduated in June, 1973. Got married in June of ‘73. Still together. That’s about it! Thanks for asking!!!!! I love your videos! And Desi!!!
I am 62 years old, and have been a widow for 7 years. I moved from my home state CA, and drove myself across the country to help take care of my father. I am in southwest Ohio, retired from the medical field. I have spent most of my life taking care of others. I had to learn self love, and how to adjust being a widow. I love doing crafts, making jewelry, reading, and baking.
Hi Susan I’m 60. I live in West Yorkshire UK. My husband has Parkinson’s & depends on me. I am scared at what
the future holds but I am so fortunate to have a loving family around me. Your posts calm me. Your gentle reflections bring me
some peace and optimism. Thank you.
I’m a daughter to 2 of the most amazingly caring, most loving, precious parents, that now live in heaven. I long for them more than I can express. I’m a mom to 2 adult children that are my entire world and 2 sweet precious grandchildren. I’m a mommy to 4 rescued kitties and 1 rescue doggy. I’m a friend. I’m a sister. I’m a student at age 53. I’m a child of GOD amen! I’m a lupus warrior.
I am divorced and wish that never happened but it did. I miss my parents more than I thought possible. I’m surviving day to day, and I will grow stronger each day. I so appreciate you and your thoughts. Happy birthday ♥️🌹
@@PeachesSkinCare it sure is. Thank you so much. Sending love right back to you. ♥️🌹
I would like to add one more thing: You’re a blessing and you are an encouragement to others ☺️ ... okay, so that was two more things 😉 Blessings to you Miss. Home and the Seasons 🙏🏻
@@bambiwest1391 thank you so much. After a week of crying, missing mom so badly, you both made me feel better. My mom just passed November 16. I thought I was stronger than I’ve been during this. Just a million thank yous for being kind to me. ♥️🌹🙏🏻
@@bellapetalart My pleasure my dear. And think of tears as a good way to sooth a hurt soul. You’ll always miss her, and it has only been a couple of months. Time does tend to help ease suffering. And when it gets rough I would like you to think of a couple of things: When sadness envelopes you, think of sweet and funny memories you shared with your mom to help ease your grief. I would also like to you to ponder would your mom want you to suffer so? Probably not if she is like most mothers. Christ tells us when we die we are absent from the body, and present with the Lord. You can’t get any better than that my dear ☺️ - don’t beat yourself up for missing her. She must have been a very special mom no doubt. So now she and her legacy lives in you and her grandkids. Now go put a cool wash cloth on your puffy eyes, blow your red and runny nose and say dag gone it mom I love you, I miss you and thanks for being my mom! Oh, and one last thing, since the statute of limitations has run out, it’s a good time to confess to her you’re the one who broke whatever it was you broke as a kid, and never fessed up too 😂. It’s close to 3:00 am where I live - sweet dreams. Feel free to chat if you need an ear to bend, or someone to make you laugh - big air/virtual hugs! Night 🥱😴
@@bambiwest1391 well even Your comment made me cry. It doesn’t take much these days. Your words move through me and I’m thankful there are people like you in this world. Daddy passed at age 48 so it’s just been me and mom for 30 years. She was a mom with me to my own children. They are grieving too. And she sure was the sweetest, most loving, beautiful mom, created by God. She made me laugh all the time. She could solve all the worlds problems in just one tea time chat. I just miss her. I’m comforted that she’s in heaven.
Haha I’ve thought about all the little things she knows now about how things I broke and fibbed on and that I wasn’t where I said I was many times as a teen. I sure hope she is smiling about those things now.
Thank you so much. God bless you and you also if you ever want to talk, anytime. Sweet dreams ♥️🌹🙏🏻
I'm from Ireland I'm a mother of two grown up daughters and recently divorced after 31 years, but you inspire me and make me feel less alone. My hobby is sketching and painting and walking my dog Winnie. Love you
I do not believe for a minute that John hates you, he is probably just sad and depressed and you you are so beautiful inside and out and he wishes he ware more like you and wishes you were IN his life. How sweet of him to tell you to be careful and he didn't want anything to happen to you...look forward to your videos every week
Susan would you seriously consider doing a once a week home decorating video? Your apartment is so lovely and so cozy and maybe you can show & tell others how to do what you have done in your two apartments ....you just have a wonderful home decorating knack
Lots of people don't know where to hang pictures or even how many to hang ...You can teach us all about colors and heights of things and coziness...even where to shop for good prices and quality- just SO MANY THINGS! I love the way you have made both of your apartments absolutely warm and welcoming and comfortable and truly lovely. Thank you
As I was talking to my therapist, she said, "WOW where are you getting your self esteem? I am impressed" I smiled to myself and then I told her about you and your channel and how listening to your life stories have really brought me such self knowledge and peace. I am on social security and rarely ever have extra money. So, instead of buying stuff for everyone else like I normally do, I used my stimulus check to actually buy for me!! I bought some cute skirts and little black booties and some blouses. She was so excited that I did something for myself, (as was I). I want to thank you so very much Susan for allowing us to learn, think, and to remember we are valuable!! We can be strong and be happy all by ourselves. Thank you again for being you and sharing so much of your life with us. Brightest blessings to you and Desi!
Hi Susan, I live far away from you and when you post your video, I am in bed already. I live with my husband, who is very sick. I take care of him, which sometimes is very difficult. Even if you have a partner, you can feel very lonesome. Every weekend I am waiting for your video. Thank you so much.
Have a wonderful week, 'till soon. ❤️
Many Blessings Upon You Elke for being a Special Caregiver.
Hello Elke - I’m sorry to hear your husband is so sick. I can imagine how lonely you feel sometimes. I’ll keep you in my prayers and please remember there is someone in California who is sending you prayers and a big virtual hug 🤗
Elke, I’m praying for you and your husband. 😊🙏 Take care.
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Hello from California... I am a retired dental assistant and I found my passion in antiques !!! So I BECAME A ANTIQUE DEALER ! I married my high school sweetheart who served in Iraq for 3 years ... we have 3 children and one Grandson!!! LIFE IS ONE BIG BLESSING ⭐️Nice to meet you🤗🤗
When you have a kind and loving heart, and I am positive that is you, you have something special that many millionaires don't possess. I would love to be your neighbor. Happy Birthday youngster. I just celebrated 81!
Dora Wedlock, happy birthday 💐
Aww Miss. Dora you’re a peach 🍑 that was very kind and sweet of you to tell Susan that - I bet you’re a hoot too. You’re 81 - well happy birthday ... you’re just getting shifted into 2nd gear ☺️ Be well!
@@bambiwest1391 Happy Birthday!
Happy birthday 🎂
Just turned 70. I was married for 24 years. Divorced for about 24 years. I love to design and garden and love precise hedges and topiaries. I am very artistic but found painting to not be my passion. Interior design is my gift and gardening is my peace. I am very good at listening and truly have enjoyed your channel. Thank you for taking your time to give us your gift!! Your voice is lovely as well.
I've been spending the last few years trying to rediscover myself. I realized after my mom died that I tried so hard to be accepted by her, that I wasn't sure who I really was. I even had a separate wardrobe for visiting her that would be to her liking...lots of black and bold colors and structure that so wasn't me. I like pastels...I love Monet paintings and pretty floral prints. I realized that the combination of her critical nature and my strong need for her acceptance really did a number on me. I do love her very much and I know that she didn't mean to have this effect, and probably didn't even realize the pain I felt. My sweet husband is retired now and has been so supportive on this journey. We've been together almost 40 years...I met him when I was a teen. I enjoy cooking and baking, love decorating for holidays :) and interior design, and I'm now learning watercolor painting, and just enjoying life and being true to myself, and giving up people pleasing. :) I still doubt myself sometimes and have even posted things and then deleted them, but this feels somehow therapeutic to be able to say this is who I am.
I’m also 66 and what makes me happy are my 2 senior cats and also knowing my family is waiting for me in Heaven and someday I’ll never have to be sad sick or lonely ever again. I admit this pandemic has me dealing with depression though.❤️
Hi I can understand , this covid is not easy , we are in lockdown in southern Ont. Not much fun ! Just getting out each day for a long walk sure lifts the spirits and I love walking near water. So therapeutic. Just hoping summer will help reduce the numbers of covid . I sure feel for people that can't get out due to disability but I sure hope family calls them . I also really enjoy my cat . One little pleasure I have . Take care
@@gaillamont9896 Thank you. Aren't cats the best. They make everything better. I was engaged many years ago to someone from Hamilton Ont. Wish I had married him cause I think Canada is beautiful.You take care too and praying this nightmare ends.
catmama54 you and me both , hugs
Same here. You are not alone. I'm mid-50's single mom of a high school student. We have both struggled through this pandemic and lately it has become pretty difficult. I miss the social life of work as I do not have many friends. I'm an introvert and have moved around a lot, been through a lot. I mind my own business and have put my energy into raising my child on my own....and reading in my spare time. Try to get out every day for a walk. It has helped me. Also, there are many online book clubs, crafting groups, etc. You can join through the New York Public Library...you don't need to live here. We have people joining the google meets from all over. It helps with the loneliness and there are some fun ones. Sending love to you. Let's keep on keeping on!
Cynthia Ann Thanks Cynthia for the tips hugs from Gail , Ont , Canada
I'm just trying to manage my life at 58. My parents died 5 years ago 5 weeks apart. My life forever changed. I came from a abusive dysfunctional family and have for 40 years been in therapy to cope with the depression. I only have a sister and she's mentally ill. She's one moment talking listening And next she's not speaking to me for several weeks. I'm running low on fuel to keep going but what keeps me going is the possibility of better days. God bless Susan and Desi.
I am a child of God. I am mother to adults Joe, Jeff, and Julia who i raised myself.after my divorce when my youngest was 8yr. I recently retired after 44yr as an RN. I love to garden and to learn about gardening. Still have not found my next chapter but i will. I know it will be about helping those who need help because that is where my heart is. Thank you Susan for your beautiful videos.
Miss. Sunflower - I love to garden too, and if you like to check out gardeners on youtube, may I suggest you tune into Garden Answer ~ she a lovely young woman, just had her second child, a baby girl, a few days ago and who lives in Eastern Oregon with her husband, and toddler son. They have several acres and she has a passion for gardening. Enjoy your retirement (I’ll be joining you in 1 year, 8 months and 8 days) and thank you for your calling and service as a RN. Many blessings ☺️
@@bambiwest1391 thank you for the suggestion. I am definitely going to grow more flowers this year. Just for the beauty.
Our backgrounds are so similar! I also retired in May after 44 years as an RN. My children were 7 and 8 when I left and divorced their father, who was abusive. I raised them on my own with the exception of $113/month child support for each one (!). They are now adults and live 1,000 and 2,600 miles away, although we stay in close contact. I'm also in search of my next chapter. Right now, I'm enjoying peace and solitude and the freedom of not having to adhere to anyone's schedule but mine. It feels strange not going to work. I often have a nagging feeling that I should "be somewhere", then I happily remember that I don't. The next performance evaluation I anticipate will be from St. Peter at the pearly gates. I bought a battery operated push lawnmower and stayed busy mowing my 1/2 acre yard last summer. The battery and I run out of power about the same time, so it works out well. It usually takes me a few days, but I get it finished. I've taken up the hobby of pressure canning, which I find very satisfying. I gave jars of French onion soup and jars of jam as Christmas gifts. I hope to grow a little garden this summer. I agree with Bambi West's suggestion of following Garden Answer. The channel is delightful!
@@coronayup wow we really are similar. Got my 2nd Greenstalk for my plants. I find containers easier. I love this channel too.
Hi Susan, I found your channel several weeks ago and have enjoyed it tremendously . I am 71, a widow twice. I am the last of my family and I'm a stage IV cancer survivor. I love animals and have three cats and a very spoiled little dog that will turn 15 in February. So we enjoy our old age together, we walk, play and eat the old person old dog way! Your channel has brought insight into my daily life as to how much we all have in common and how much we all share in life. We're all pretty much the same only a little different. I thank you for all the work you do for your channel and for all of us. Please give little Desi a hug for me, he is an angel!
I am new to your channel. I found you right around the time that you moved into this apartment. I am always so excited when you have a new video! You lift me up girl! Big time! I was happy you showed us how we could hear your music on Alexa. I am your age. I remarried 13 years ago after being divorced for 13 years. We had a wonderful playful first 8 years of marriage and then my husband got Parkinson's disease. He got diagnosed one month after my dearest Mom died of Parkinson's disease. I took care of her through her death. Now I am my husband's full-time caregiver. He is progressing quickly . We have a sweet and special life just the two of us and our 97 pound Goldendoodle. Three grown kids between us and seven grandchildren that we hardly ever see because of covid-19. We look forward to being fully vaccinated so we can get together again. They all live close . I looove to garden and grow beautiful flowers and veggies and cook delicious healthy mostly vegan food. Life is simple and rich. I appreciate your uplifting words each week!
I mentioned before I turned 60 this month and also makes 9 yrs my husband passed from cancer. I didn't realize how much it affected me when he died. I turned to God more and I pray everyday that God will help me be the person he wants me to be and be a light to others. I found my passion to decorate my house again about a year and a half ago - so I am loving finding what to decorate with that makes me happy. Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts and words of wisdom!
I don’t usually share but I thought this might encourage someone else. I was married for 38 years and I’ve now been divorced for 17. What would have been our 50th wedding anniversary I had a choice to make........ I could throw a really large pity party, I could completely ignore the day, or I could celebrate the day even though we were no longer married. I chose to celebrate! I got dressed up I went to the nearest big city I had a wonderful lunch went to the theater, went shopping and I was OK in fact I was better than OK. Like you I choose to be better than OK regardless of the circumstances. Thank you for your videos and I hope you have a marvelous birthday.
I always tried to be traveling on my summer wedding anniversary after divorcing. To numb myself. I had suffered enough. Then came the summer I could not. I remembered more with less going on, but it was okay. My best friend gave me a beautiful card when I divorced: It said that I was about to cross a bridge and I would get to the other side. When I got there, I would look back, not fully understanding exactly how I crossed, but I would be confident that I would never want to cross back. We ladies have made it with strength and love that many men don't realize we have. YOU certainly have crossed that bridge. Thank you for sharing your strength!!
Fellow Michigander here! This cold has been miserable for me. 2020 was a hard year for me in every way. This year I am pregnant with my first child and working full time. It has been so hard and tiring... I love watching this channel to relax 😊 hi everyone!
WoW...do you have an explosion of life waiting on the other side for YOU! You're going g to find out things about yourself that you never knew.Welcome to the mama club
Glad you went to see John. Thrilled my heart.
I'm 78, an artist and a widow and I'm one of those women who's perfectly happy to live alone, (not really alone, I would get very lonely without my sweet dog). I like me and I'm almost ashamed to say I'm really happy. I have 3 daughters with their own lives who live away and of course I love them with all my heart. l've lived all of my life in Wyoming and I'm very thankful I'm here. You are one of the regular people I love to watch, I think you're such a kind person, I love your apartment and I'm in love with Dezi. My reason to be living I believe is to let others know how much the Lord has changed my life and to inspire them to know how great their life would be with Him.
Hello, Diane. I am in the Black Hills of South Dakota. We may live near each other. I would not have made it through cancer without knowing the Lord. For the first time in my life, I had the "peace that surpasses all understanding" while undergoing chemo. I am married and almost 66 and our two doxies are a great comfort to us. Do you sell your art?
Hi Cate, I'm in Sheridan and right now I've decided to create for the Lord. I'm so glad that you know Him. There is nothing more wonderful. I would like to share with others but right now I'm kind of stuck in the house like everyone. Thanks for your note. @@catedennis41
You are a beautiful person. I must tell you life throws some hard punches and god knows I’ve had my fair share but my mother taught me well as she lost her husband at 51 totally unexpectedly and had a house an 18 and 13 year old. I fell madly in love and got married at 19 even though my mother wanted me not to do it. Sadly at 26 my husband told me he didn’t love me anymore and divorced me. I was devastated. Thank god I had a mother who told me it was his loss and I needed to love who I was and at the time I didn’t listen until one day I looked at myself and realized that it was time for me! Got myself a really great job after many rejections and my confidence in myself started to grow and I started to love me. I could go on and on with this story but I just wanted you and anyone else who has loved and then been told they do not love you back it’s not you no it’s their lose and your gain. We need to always love ourselves first and feel comfortable with ourselves no one can do that for us. Love to all
My biggest lesson? Learn to enjoy everything and enjoy yourself, alone, too. I think that’s happiness.
God makes no mistakes. We just need to ask Him what do You Lord want from me. Failure is what we think of ourselves, but it’s not the truth about ourselves. We must grow everyday.
Love you lovely one.🕊💞
Hi, you wonderful soul!
I'm 34 and i'm from Romania 😊! And i must tell that your videos help me heal.... From the loss of my mom when i was 23, from the idea that is somth wrong with me that i am without a husband and a family of my own... I understand so well what you are saying in your videos and i am so happy that you make them - they bring me so much joy! And understanding.
And sometimes i tell myself - if Susan could move and was able to make this change and be brave in wanting more for her and decorate her house so beautifully...i can move forward in life, too. Thank you! 🥰
You touch my heart so much today with your words...you lift me up and insprire me but most importantly, you make me feel " part of".....I just love you!
I just turn 67. I got a part time job at Home Depot, in the merchandising dept. I found my passion again. I have a int. design degree, but haven't used it professionally for years. Invalidated by the people I loved. It has never left, the passion. I make the store look good. I hope to graduate to a kitchen designer. I went through what you went through, but if I keep myself healthy, life has only begun. This is what will eventually attract my perfect "older" mature, kind, settled, exciting, loving man who knows himself and lets me be my passion.
To God be the glory! Bless you, Nancy
OMGosh you did it again...made me cry.....loved the "john" story.....I have a Step dad like that, when he loves he acts mean....but it's just that he doesn't know how to express it....took me awhile to realize that. I am 65, will celebrate my 47th wedding anniversary in a few days...yup, married my high school sweetheart. I could write a book on our journeys.....we were farmers, I became a Nurse for 36 wonderful years, raised 2 beautiful daughters.....have 4 fantastic Grandchildren. I've taught painting, had my own shop all while still working....still love to teach others the joys of doing creative things. Am into herbs and essential oils, have made my own soap and lotions. I have always been the "peacemaker" and "caretaker".....when I had to stop working and go on disability 6 years ago it took me 5 years to adjust to not being what I was...or who I was....but I am now adjusted to this life and blessed with all I have and those in my life. I continue to inspire others and if you remember that word is my challenge this year...to inspire others .....so yes, I guess I am still the Peacemaker and caretaker....but that's who I am .....
I'm a Christian ✝ and a mom! A new first time grandma my granddaughter is 2 weeks old 💛💕 and I love visiting you and Dezi! You inspire me and make me appreciate the most simple beautiful things! So thank you for sharing yourself and letting us see Dezi in bowties.
Your a realist, not a loser 🌹 ever! many women are widowed, divorced hurting alone. 🌹 you are courageous to share your life!
Hi Susan, I am a widow, turned 86 this month, still live alone. I do have a couple health issues and have stayed in since March, not a happy camper!. My children see to my needs and I am very thankful for them. I am looking forward to spring and plan on getting out into the world again, the Lord willing! I enjoy your videos, you are a very special and wise person. Thank you!
I was 50 when my husband left me I have grown so much since then. I lived alone for 15 years gaining beautiful granddaughters along the way. When I was just about to retire I met a dear man and we are enjoying this part in our lives together.
Coming across this channel was such a blessing! You are an inspiration! I love being single and not dating. I’m divorced for over 11 years. ( was a controlling and emotional abusive) but I wouldn’t change it! God has turned my pain into joy! I felt a freedom inside, I felt my wings come back, I got a great job, went back to college, made so many friends, got my passion back, love being with my family. I have 4 beautiful children and 3 grandchildren now! We’re stronger than we think! Fear is a liar! I love not reporting to anyone, having to check in , can pick up and go, I feel blessed and thankful!! I love coming to my own home and feeling independent!
God Bless you
My birthday is February 2. I'll be 73. For some reason I'm not lonely in my aloneness in this pandemic. I am making this year a year of extreme self care with hope for Spring. You are inspirational. I have a strong belief in God. I'm a little loud at times and love change. I'm tall and a lot boho. I'm beautiful..as we all are. We hold each other's heart and hands
Hi Susan, you made me well up with watery eyes again. I too left with young children. I moved to another town, a small flat with no curtains. I had to use packing boxes up as curtains no beds, clock or tv. I cried too in this unknown place.. I thought myself so lost & a loser too. Not much to show my children for their new start. It was all lost to a dysfunctional relationship.
I learnt how to be an even greater mum & care for me withself respect, self love, how to do things on my own. Yep (Like mowing a lawn😳). When I tripped up I got backup & learnt from it. Also others judgements of me being single now doesn't hurt cause I enjoy it..I delved into spirituality, no church just me various meditations styles, self help books & me. Learned many wonderful positive things like diplomas in graphic design & Art. Loved creating & exhibiting in group shows, won awards. Been sitting on that a few years now. A close friend said to me lately , "all these Diplomas & your just a cleaner!" That remark made me feel really sad & less, it broke my heart again. It is what I do right now for the last couple of years. It was hard to get jobs here. Time to open up again & create, relearn & be more for me. Do what I love & find more to Love. I love my home, my 2 grown-up childen & my 3 grandkids. So grateful to you Susan you open my eyes. With each tear shed there is a letting go a healing. Lots of love & thankyou your awesome😊👍
I hope this catches like wildfire.......I just ordered your CD on Amazon because I LOVE YOUR HEART!
I'm a 60 year old Christian, wife, mom, grandma who loves animals, especially cats. I love music, gardening, reading, and and sewing. I've strived to take care of myself since losing my mom when she was only 53 and I was only 26...too young to really know what a treasure she was until it was too late. Mom had divorced my alcoholic, abusive dad when I was 8 and my sister was 6. It was a time when women didn't get divorced. In fact my grandma (her own mother) told her to go back with him. I studied cosmetology after high school but gladly gave it up to stay home when I had my boys. I've been a secretary in the Special Education Office at our school district for the last 20 years (my mom had been a special education teacher so this felt good) I so enjoy visiting with you and learning from you each week Susan! Happy birthday Blessings Susan! to you and Desi from Midas and me!
I’m new to your channel 💗. How lovely. 💗. I feel so relaxed and uplifted by your words and all the comments 💗. I’m 66 this year. And have spent so many years in my head, trying to solve life’s riddles 💗. I’m going to reinvent myself again this year. To be aware of my life and the world. I’ve began to design and sew dolls for my grandchildren and others. I’m alone and single. And I’m enjoying it. Love to All here. 💕
Love you Debr.....hugs and good wishes from me and Desi
Love back to you! enjoy every day of being happy!
That was a beautiful story about John. Brought tears to my eyes. We never know who we touch and why. Keep being you Susan, you're such an inspiration. xoxo (Richmond, VA - age 63 - loves beautiful things and feelings of comfort and joy) Happy Birthday!!
One of the most recent lessons I have learned is how much I am appreciated by the community. As a Nurse a lot of us felt like we weren’t appreciated. I have made the paradigm shift to being open to knowing people do care... It took me many years to get here.. So glad I have arrived.🌺
We appreciate you 🙏🏽👩⚕️⛑💐
I just love your heart, Little Poet. I feel fortunate to be part of this channel. To follow you and Desi. To have a fun laugh and sometimes a good cry. Many thanks 🙏
I too at age 60 have many regrets in my life. I was married to my high school sweetheart for 27 years... we grew apart and I walked away many years ago. While we remain best friends today, I will forever regret our marriage ending. I kick myself all the time. We have 3 beautiful children.. a son, 2 daughters and 7 beautiful grandchildren. I have always suffered from depression and I am not very easy on myself... I feel guilt about everything and it's like I won't let myself try and be happy... I am my worst enemy. We lost our son...our first born...it will be 3 years in May. He was 35 and the love of my life. I feel like my son went to Heaven and I am in Hell. I am trying so hard to rebuild my life but it is so hard. Our family is so close and to lose someone has nearly killed us. We are still close and try and hold each other up when one is very down. I continue to pray for peace, hope and some sort of happiness. I will not quit trying... each day is a new day and I try it all over again. I love your video's and little Desi makes my heart sing. Thank you so much...you are a beautiful person.
So sorry for the loss of your son and all the emotions that go with. I have a 30 year old son that’s an alcoholic and refuses to seek help & is always angry with me for trying to help or giving advice. Every day I wonder is he ok today? Now, I try to be quiet, but my heart is broken. I wonder where I went wrong and how could this have happened. I miss the way we used to be. We all have regrets, but it sounds like you’re so loved and fortunate to have such a close family and a friendship with your ex. Just know we all struggle sometimes with decisions, but we have made it this far and we’re strong. I’m thinking about you and understand so much where you’re coming from. 💕
So sorry for the loss of your son. I’ll be Preying for you. When you said every Day is a new day and you will try it again shows how brave you are. Try not have too many regrets for yesterday as I think it would hinder today. I’m glad you still have your ex-husband in your life as a dear friend, and the rest of your family helping to lift each other up. May God bless you and your family! Thanks for sharing!
@@antoniafoster8264 Thank you...
@@kathylaffitte2966 Thank you...
Brenda I'm so sorry for the loss of your son. I just couldn't say nothing. I almost never say anything because I have too many things to say, so I just read everyone's comments and only respond if I see someone or Susan hurting. It seems I've lost my voice ....I almost lost my son, 34, this fall, to brain surgery that we were told didn't need to be done, but did. He's my only child, a beautiful full grown man, but I can't help looking at him seeing the little 3 year old lying on his side on the carpet every day lining up his little tiny cars quietly and seriously as if his life depended on it. He's my everything and the one good thing from my marriage. I'm so glad you have family to love and love you back. It means everything. 🤗♥️
I have reinvented myself many times in my 73 years. The most recent change happened last year when I contracted Covid-19 and I was so sick I could not do very much. Two months into my recovery I discovered TH-cam. I have meet so many people and learned so much from this incredible group of passionate, creative women who I now think of as my friends. You are special to me and you are not a failure!! You are a wonderful person and so kind and giving. Thank you for your goodness!! See you next time! ❤️ Suzy
I am 74 years old and lost my husband last March, 2 weeks before our 50th anniversary. No children but many fur babies during those 50 wonderful years spent together. I left my family and my friends in France to live with the love of my life and I consider myself a very blessed woman as my husband not only was one of a kind but he loved me very much. It makes losing him so much harder. Susan, your looking at life as a glass half full helps me a lot when I look at my present life as half empty💗
How empathic and aware are you to honor John ...his behavior towards you seems like he was afraid because you saw him on a level that he couldn't accept. His tears & words on your recent visit are a breakthrough moment. What a blessing. He now can express your value to him...he cares deeply for you.
I'm not 60 yet but getting close and realizing that I'm experiencing my 60's a little bit early through my hubby's eyes. He's 63 yrs young today and thank goodness is very healthy. As time goes by... especially through this pandemic...we are deeply re-connecting to nature and letting go more & more of social media etc...it is truly magical & a permanent shift. Every moment outdoors is a spiritual lesson & connection to God. I remember feeling this same joy as a child playing outside.
How could anyone not like Desi!!! He melts my heart. 💕
I'm in the UK, 61 and divorced 20 years. I live with my beautiful dog. My children all live a distance away. A few months ago I made a new man friend but Covid is making it very slow to progress. I have lots of hobbies and interests, from cooking, baking, arts and crafts to spirituality, reading tarot etc. I rarely feel lonely but it would be lovely to have someone special to share life with.
I am a mother of 2 and a grandmother of 4. I taught childern with special needs for 40 years. Now I have grandma camp. It is wonderful.
Beautiful Susan! What a touching story about John! Your gift to him was so much more than the star, it was your warmth and kindness that managed to touch his heart! You touch so many hearts through your wonderful channel! You are amazing! Terianne
Dear Susan, in your last video, you talked about possibly finding love again, and waking up in someone’s arms. You can be married for a long time to ‘the love of your life’ and never experience that. I often fantasize about having my own ‘little place’ with all my antiques, dog, and fairy lights. Susan, you DO have it all.❤️
The first or second time I watched Susan's videos I went out and bought little lights. Now I have different colors for different seasons. Don't fantasize ...go get yourself some . The most affordable thing that will make you smile on the grey days
I am sigle, 40+ years working woman. I retired a few years ago and moved from a big city to a small town in another state (PA). I have worked very hard to become the happiest woman in this town! At first, I really had to work at it, but now it comes naturally because being happy is addicting! I do the things I love like cooking, gardening, thrifting, exploring this area which is rich in history and beauty. I treasure the opportunities that are presented for me to volunteer in the community and at my church, love putting on some makeup and pretty outfit I'm feeling good. During covid-19 oh, I have been trying to learn to do watercolor paintings. I watch a variety of people on TH-cam like you Susan, a young man the wandering Woodsman who hikes all over the beautiful state of Pennsylvania, and Garden Answer Laura, perky young woman who is a fabulous teacher about plants and Gardens. I surround myself with positive people, try to pack as much fun into my day as I can and always keep an attitude of gratitude. I have a widower friend who texts me several days in advance to set up a phone "date". yesterday Saturday afternoon he texted me and asked me if he could call me early next week after 8 . He said that he was too busy this weekend watching the football games and making a pot of chicken soup to do it any sooner . I thought it was hysterical . I texted him to back it said sure eight is fine you sure are a busy guy ! So maybe he'll call some night this week and maybe he won't but I got such a laugh out of it and told my friend in Florida about it and we giggled for several minutes about how " busy" he is! Even during covid-19 , I am determined To love every moment of my life because I put it on hold so long when I was working and made that my priority. now I have to have every drop of beauty and wonder and joy that I can. Susan I challenge you and your viewers to become the happiest women and their towns!
Love how you make being 'happy' intentional!! Thanks for making me think about this! 😊
Hello Susan
I’m Elizabeth,56 years old,living in Amman Jordan The Middle East
Animal lover and a generally happy person
Brought up my Granddaughter since she was 3 three years old
She brings me laughter,love and happiness
From you,dear Susan
I have learnt
Warmth
Unconditional Love
And
Love of life
Desi is gorgeous
Hugs
Hi Susan ! What a beautiful heart that you have ! lm retired have been married for 56 yrs have two sons and have been blessed with two Grandaughters < watching your videos makes my heart sing you have such a way with words and like you i collect sayings LOVE THEM ! Im from Yorkshire England looking forward to your blog next week Also love your videos that you show x
What's my passion? I'm activated by things that engage my brain (reading; writing; research) & by faith. And if I got involved in a relationship? Oh, Susan .... I would lose myself into trouble-shooting their brokenness and dissolve myself, and I'm too old and too tired to do that again!
LOL well Miss. Jeanne, you realize what you want, and what you don’t want.
It's priceless that you discovered this pattern & realize it's not in your best interest to repeat it. One of the things I appreciate about age is gaining wisdom from past experiences. Finally figuring out what I like vs don't like. What adds value & richness to my life vs what drags me down into a self sabotaging circumstance. There's no reason to invest your valuable energy doing something that's proven to be wasteful. Focus on topics that fulfill the purpose of serving your interests. Things that are worthy & deserving of your time. It's your life & you deserve to enjoy yourself. Caring for others, I had learn to think of myself & adapt. Wishing you joy & abundant Blessings!
Good for you
I share these lessons, it's true for me a well
Hi Susan! I'm a married Mother of 4, Grandma of 7, they are all my pride and joy! I am a church organist/pianist and I love praising God in song! I admire your decorating skills and appreciate them very much!
Hi Susan, First I'm kind of new to watching you, but love your video's and Desi , My lil yorkiepoo '' Lola " passed away in my arms on March 6th , broke my heart but she waited until I got home to say goodbye, I'm 60 and married for 41 years and he is a very good man, but he just isn't a talker, so since I am a homebody I often feel lonely. We have two son's that are busy living their own lives, and making a living for their family, we have 4 grandson's 14, 13, twin's that are 12 . 3 stepgrandchildren 20, 17,16 all boy's just 1 16 year old girl, lol I love nature and animals and my escape is watching ladies of my age on youtube and crafting. I'm just now learning about myself and what makes me happy, This pass year hasn't been easy for me, my mom who is 83 has dementia, and in heart failure , she is getting worse by the day and with dementia she gets mad at me for trying to help her. I worry about her day and night, she falls alot and is very confused and even see's people that isn't there. she is so pitiful, it's just breaking my heart. but she will still let you know that she is going to do things her way and won't listen to no one. not even the doctors. her sickness is taking a lot of my time, but I know she is getting worse, so even if she's mad at me, I'm still going to do all that I can for her, Thank you for showing up and being a girlfriend to all of us that watch you, you cheer me up and give me faith and hope.
I am a wife, mother to 3 beautiful grown children, grandma to 2 boys who live on the opposite side of the country. I’m a retired teacher who finally this year pursued my passion for vintage and antique items and rented a booth at a local antique mall. Even with the pandemic, it has been very successful. I am really doing it as a hobby because I love staging my booth and finding all the unique items that I sell. I always wanted to do this but never felt enough confidence that I could do it. I was too afraid to take a risk but suddenly at age 68, I decided that I didn’t have to be perfect and my booth didn’t have to be perfect. I just had to be real and take the chance on something I really wanted. I am blessed! And you are a blessing for all of us. 💕💕
Thank you for capturing the beauty you see in life and sharing it with us! 🌻
When you get to a point when you enjoy you being single, and you have experienced loss, one goes to a different level of self confidence . It is a process and never has to be a rapid transformation. Thanks for your candid and open feelings. You just never know who and what adventures
that you are happening upon. Much love.❤️
I am looking forward to see your posts every Saturday.🌹
I have lived alone most of my life and love every moment. I had a bad childhood, strict parents who would keep me locked in my room most of the time. They feared the environment and thought they were protecting me from it. I’ve had some nice relationships but I wanted to be free and free I have lived all my life.... I’ll be 70 this year and have no regrets. A woman alone is not liked or understood by others who have their own family - I suppose there might not be much in common. And as you said, people might see you as a failure when opportunities have always been there but it was always my choice. Then there are some who feel sorry for me - having no family nearby. I had a lot of single friends growing up in New York City, but California is family oriented and people see you differently. I’m aware of it and it’s okay because I’m very comfortable in my skin and I feel I alone have accomplished a lot in life. I plan to retire in 2 to 3 years and move to Florida where I think it would be similar living to New York City - especially with the most recent exodus out of NYC to Florida. I envision myself in a nice size house with a nice pool enjoying life after retirement. Then I ponder, should I make that big move and purchase a house or move to a retirement community where if something happens to me someone would be able to help? Should I move to the unknown or live out the rest of my life in California, where I have my doctors and acquaintances and I don’t have to start over? I wonder how many more years left do I have - time passes by very fast. Never thought about life after working, never prepared for retirement, never thought I would grow old. I love life and have a lot of hobbies - I’ve learned to appreciate everything and keep busy but what the future holds shall remain a mystery for now and I’m okay with that. At least I have options and something wonderful to look forward to as I live one day at a time. Thank you Susan, you always make me reflect on life - past, present, and future. Thank you!
I know what you mean about moving! Who will help me if I move away from my friend and need a ride home from hospital some day? Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
@@hairdresser1300 I have been YouTubing looking at Naples - nice community but I understand the house prices have skyrocketed lately due to everyone moving there. But I’m in the Bay Area California which is expensive - Florida would still be reasonable in comparison. Thank you. I can’t wait....
I am a retired nurse, married almost 33 years, and first and foremost a beloved child of God, as are you!!!! He works thru you and your kind heart and your channel. How can any of us be a loser with God on our side! Still finding out new things about myself with the gift of each new day. Thanks for your sweet presence and be safe.
You have a gift of sharing vulnerability. Several years ago I was writing a blog. I did a post about social media. My feeling that it had the potential to be so much more. People fill it with the best of life as though there is nothing else. Many times I have seen the meme “be kind, everyone is going through something” yet, no one wants to share what that something is. I would argue the good times are reward enough. No one wants to wish bad on anyone but in bad...everyone wants to know they are not alone. You are the best kind of therapy. Your videos are touching, humorous, inspiring and honest. You help people understand that in bad times, they are not alone. There is grief that the best you can do is learn to carry it. Eleanor Roosevelt? My favorite quote of hers. “You must do the thing you think you cannot do.” Truth.
When is your birthday?
I cried throughout this video. As a single 70-year-old, I don't want to be a failure. It's hard not to feel that way though. Thank you for lifting my spirits. I truly love you!!!
My bday is this Friday....and I wanted to thank you Stephanie for beign here and always beign so kind and giving. You are one amazing women and I appreacaite see you...hearing from you. We are around the same age and not every day is great....but every day I am so grateful to be here and see the sky...I hope your week is a good one!!! xxooo Love always, Susan
@@LittlePoet Thanks, sweetie.
At 57 heading quickly to 58 I’ve been wife, mom and now Yaya to four beautiful children’s and four grandkids. My children do not live close by which means neither do my grandkids. Having grown up next door to my grandparents, I “expected” my life to be that way also. I’ve come to the realization that life is a gift. I can be sad that life didn’t go as I had planned or I can embrace joy right where I am. I’m still trying to find my true passion in this life. I realize more and more how important it is to have that. I love watching your channel for your thoughts on this life and how better to embrace it!
Dear Jenny , your words were so thoughtful and eloquent, I feel I need to write them down , not only for myself , but for many of my in laws that haven’t come to that realization, when life has thrown them a curve ball . I have a husband of 46 yrs and my grandchildren do live close by , but I still do find myself , wondering threw life , sad and feeling alone even though I’m not . Thank YOU , and we all thank Susan , for her lovely channel where we all learn so much from her & from each other .
♥️ JoAnn ❤️
🌷🌹You are a Gift 💝 & inspiration to listen to .🤗 Thank you 🙏 for being so Amazing & Kind!🤲🏻 You bring joy 💕 to so many!!! ☮️
Hi Susan! I'm 63 yr old that lost my husband, my dad and mom in the last 10 years after caring for them all. I live alone with my cat now. I do have 2 adult children and 2 beautiful grandbabies that I adore. As I was watching your video thinking how life has changed, my phone rang. A good friend that I haven't talked to in a while was calling. We talked for almost 2 hours, laughing and catching up. It was wonderful hearing her laugh and it warmed my heart. There are so many if us women that have had our lives forever changed but we have to always find the joy! ❤️
I'm a 53 mother of two beautiful girls and married to a wonderful man for 26 years. I teach preschool full time at the church and my passion is yoga, running, and reading. I love perfume and clothing. I look forward to seeing you and Desi every week. You are such an inspiration to me. Your love and zest for life is so pure and I love your honesty and vulnerability!
Almost 63, divorced last year. The loneliness creeps in some days.I have grown daughters but they are busy with their families, and of course the pandemic has isolated us all in one way or another.
Finding your channel and all who share their stories keeps me alive and focused!
Thank You!
I am 60, blessed mother of 5 grown children, grandmother of 7. You are such an inspiration for me and many others. Love your channel. I enjoy living by myself. Hugs and kisses to Desi
Hi Susan. I am Scottish, now live in Ireland but my partner and I have a passion to move to Spain. I am 63 and brought up 3 sons. After 24 years, my husband and I separated. We were still good friends. That was 2009. In 2010 he had a stroke and was in a wheelchair, which truly upset me badly as he was a hill walker, loved cycling etc an outdoor person. 2011 rocked my world, my middle son was brutally murdered, then sadly my husband took another massive stroke and passed away, then my youngest son was in a car crash. His legs were badly damaged and after 3 years unable to walk and in a wheelchair, 22 operations, they saved one leg and amputated below the knee his right leg. That year shook me to my core as I thought naively that life was wonderful, I am stronger now and realise bad stuff does happen but we have to carry on, cope and be happy. Your videos bring tears to my eyes as you are so lovely and so caring. What you did for John was so nice and I think he does think alot of you but cant show it too much. Im a twin and my sister lives alone now after her partner went off with her best friend. She would like someone in her life and I hope one day that person comes into her life but if not I think she will be ok. I love cooking, baking and love crafty stuff. My sister thinks Im a Homemaker as shes totally different. She works full time for the NHS in Admin, so Covid was a big part of her daily life. Susan , your flat is soo nice and cosy and welcoming and its all your work. Dessi is adorable.I have a wee dog Tilly.
I love your videos. They have such meaning. Take Care and I will be watching you every week x
Me? I’m a retired judicial supervisor (I started out as a probation officer ‘way back in the day) who has finally come home to what I always wanted. I want to paint and draw and spend time with animals and not just cats and dogs, but the farm animals that so many in our society forget about. I think this is the happiest time of my life (I’ll be 73 next month): I’m the resident artist at a farm animal sanctuary in the Catskills here in New York State. Life is good. Sometimes, though, one has to be patient. I always love your videos, but this one was special. PS - I predict that neighbor that “hates” you (no, he doesn’t) will wind up being a big part of your life.
You are living a spectacular life! Your hair is stunning you are so pretty!
@@gwenewing6837 - Thank you. You’re very kind 😊
Enjoy your retirement! I wish I could draw or paint....I can’t even draw a proper stick figure 😂 I would love to have some property where we could have some donkeys. I already have one name picked out ... Don Quixote 😁 - Be well
Karen, hi sister. Im relating to you. Fellow artist and animal lover in upstate New York as well.❤
I am 67 years old and a widow. I am in a relationship with a man, however, probably will not get married again. I am a sewer with an online store in progress. Learning new skills about creating a web page. Reading is one of my favorite things. There are so many books to be enjoyed. I look forward to seeing you and Desi each week. Thanks for a great channel.
Hi Susan, I found you in Nov. 2020 and so glad I did.
You share the beauty of kindness to those who love your channel.
12 months ago I decided to sell my townhouse, because it's too large and I don't want to be a homeowner anymore.
Was looking forward to selling and finding an apartment, but am even more so after seeing how you have so beautiful accomplished this.
I lost the finest person I've ever known ..my husband Razi 19 months ago and know he would've loved the wonderful way you treat others!
Stay safe 💗
Susan, I hope another thing you learn is to see yourself through our eyes! You are so much more...
You exude kindness and compassion. Your grace is so inspiring. I wish you a very happy birthday.
Wishing you Avery Happy 66th Birthday Susan with all the Happiness that life can bestow upon you
Susan you are a breath of fresh air to this world and know you have made a difference in many lives
With great admiration 🎂👩🏻🦳🥰
Susan you’re beautiful! Don’t get down on yourself. I love how you decorate your home.
I have many things I would like a chance for do do over. I lost both my parents by the time I was 30.
I married at 26 and we have two children. But I lost my husband in a car accident January 2 1995. Was thankful I had a good job because I had two kids to raise. My daughter was13 and son 9. I have never dated my thing was to raise the kids. I’m 70 years old, I have some heath issues but I’m ok. I just trust the Lord each day he gives us. He is always there to listen and loves us more than we could ever imagine. Take care, Lin
I am a 73 year old divorced women who has found through the years that I am smarter, funnier, and stronger than I ever believed. A long road to get here and it will be longer still but oh so worth it. Happiness does not come to you, it comes from inside you.
WOW that story from John brought tears to my eyes.God bless you always.
Listening tonight, I had tears in my eyes....especially about your visit to John. We all express ourselves differently, and amazingly that seems to work for us. I got married at 18 years old...and going to celebrate 48 years of marriage soon. It hasn’t always been easy...but it’s those hard moments that have kept us together....we always forgive one another and continue to walk forward hand in hand. We are both retired now....and even tho life can be hard and hurts sometimes, we acknowledge our flaws together before God, the almighty. I am a mother, grandmother, and great grandmother... and ....maybe, I haven’t done all kinds of spectacular things in my life....but, I am HAPPY and content. And, I love listening to your music. Music always makes me happy and soothes the soul. Bless you, Susan
Susan, no one is a failure who has friends - from the movie “It’s a wonderful life”.
So true Jerry ... and Clarence earned his wings! ☺️
That is so true !!
I agree.
One can learn a lot watching this movie, it's one of the best movies ever made.
I’m one of the women who is very grateful, Susan, that you extended a hand to us.
I'm very grateful as well. There was something so many of us needed and Susan brought it with such love and grace...a sense of value in ourselves and the life we are leading...a sense of beauty and connectedness with ourselves, each other, and the world around us. God bless you, Susan.
All the love to you, precious women, you inspire me to do better, in many aspects of my life. You are a keeper!🍨🌺🌷