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Love this so much💛.. I once had a guy take me out to dinner (first date) as a gift to himself☺️. He actually told me that too (literally called me a gift), and said he had no other expectations than to enjoy a nice dinner with a lovely woman. That’s all that happened that night too. It felt incredible✨
So right. I began consciously physically sitting back demurely in my seat at restaurants with my boyfriend instead of leaning forward with my forearms resting on the table, and he actually leans forward every time I lean back. I love this.
Oh Candice, this is a great video. How revealing! Now l understand why my current relationship is a success; one factor was because l leaned back during the dating and simply listened and was determined to not say much about me unless asked. So he talked the whole time... etc. Though l found it annoying at some point; but looking back now, that was definitely the beginning of my transition to my femininity and receiving. I love your wisdom! Thank you!!!
I was conditioned to be masculine and turn down masculine men my whole life. I’m making these changes, it makes so much more sense now. I feel relaxed, fun, adored, not controlling, overthinking. I do need constant reminders to not move into my masculine with my current man, sometimes I don’t even realize what I’m doing! Thank you!
I’m so happy I found your channel! You are one of the very few youtubers who actually give specific tips and advice rather than broad examples so people can purchase something from you. Thank you ❤️
I love this, Candice, and wish I'd had this info many years ago when I was dating! I've got two boys and am discovering that I may not have been teaching them correctly when it comes to dating. I just had a conversation with my 17-year-old, who was complaining about the price of prom tickets. He was upset that a couples ticket is $25, which means he needs to pay $12.50. He couldn't figure out why they couldn't make the price $24, so he could just pay an even $12. I had to explain that he should be paying for his date's ticket as well. He's very confused now, because they've learned about women's lib in school. He thought women want to be like men. He says most of the girls in his school act like they want to be men and I think he doesn't want to disrespect women by making the mistake of treating them as inferior, such as by paying for them when they're perfectly capable of paying for themselves. I didn't know what to say, but i asked him if he wants to take care of his date, or if he wants her to take care of him. He understood then, but I see what he means. I think a lot of us are very confused these days on what our roles should be in relationships.
Ok, so now I totally get why it makes sense that the man "always" pays on dinner date or majority of the time. It's his way of providing IF he is totally in his masculine. Dammit it, I finally got it!!! Hehehehheehe
What is your take on a man coming to you (as in a date) when it’s long distance. I find when a man comes to my city, I feel like the host and actually end up being too much in my masculine. But when I come to his city, he shows me around, takes care of me and he’s in his masculine and I’m in my feminine the whole time. What are your thoughts on that? Thank you! ✨
Hello Geneva Ma. Thanks for your question dear. There's no reason why he can't come to you and you let him lead and take you around. Our job, in the feminine, is to ask for our needs and desires. What this means, is that you can let him know where and what you like to do, and then, let go. Let him do the doing, the leading, and you receive.💕
My sister in law constantly emasculates my brother. As a result, he has allowed it to undermine his self confidence. Then one day she says to me, "I wish he'd be more of a man. He looks to me to handle EVERYTHING!"
My love language is generosity, and often I find myself paying dinners...or making lots of gifts, not only to my friends, but also to the man... Now I now clearly where I need to correct... The relationship with him dissolved months ago, and now I feel ready to live alone, as also all my old friendships ended.. I know it's part of my spiritual path, but now, with your teachings, I feel like I have to stop paying everything to everyone 😁😁 Thanks for the videos, they are truly helpful 🙏❤️
lovely video! I love your advice on how you want to feel in the relationship instead of focusing on making a shopping list of the guy. Can we instead create shopping list of our inner feelings how we wish to feel in a healthy relationship? Maybe like our inner shopping consists of biologically organic feelings and nutritious emotions? This kind of shopping is wonderful!
I was very feminine.. until I realized he was a alcoholic. Then my masculinity kicked in. I’m now in a great love relationship.. that I’m trying so hard to be softer.. you have helped me so much!! Thank you
What do you think for women to offer to pay as a test of sorts. If he lets the woman pay it means he isn’t wanting to be provider/protector. What do you think?
Hi Candice. Can you give advice to women who are divorced single parents? I’ve been providing for my children alone for years and don’t know how to relinquish myself to a man because it feels like I’m always “on”. I left my abusive ex husband and my self esteem is shot. He was my first everything; boyfriend, sexual partner (I was a virgin) etc and never dated before him. Thank you very much.
Hello Ebony C. Thanks for your question dear. 💕 Firstly, be gently with yourself. You've taken on a huuuuge load, and your questions are real concerns. It feels like you need to do some real healing from your marriage before you'll be able to let a man in again love.
Candice Oneida Hi Candice!! Thank you so very much for answering my question. And yes you’re definitely right and I’m relearning about myself which is fun yet challenging but I’m going to get there.
I feel you about my masculine side but I've all ways had to e be mom n dad but I met d someone when I was still in my man energy more I noticed in the end he was in his feminine n recently I heard he was gay I want to be k in my feminine power more to get my meds meet n do I can meet his needs also I need balance
Hi Nancy Darnette! Thanks for your comment. 💕 Yes, it's what I hear often, that women who are masculine dominant attract feminine dominant men....but they want a deeply masculine man. The road to this, is unleash your inner feminine.
Love your channel Candice!! Discovered you on Helena’s Chanel. I’m in the early phase of dating with an awesome man so we are texting. How do you let your feminine energy come through via texts?
Hello Debi Lofstrand. Thanks for your question dear. 💕 To be super clear our feminine "energy" needs to be felt in person, which is why I suggest that you get off text into a coffee/tea date pretty quickly. your feminine energy is both what you want him to feel, but it is also the place from which YOU determine if he's a fit for you.
Just a quick question regarding having him come to you :) the guy i am dating lives 2 hours away, we have been on 4 dates and he has come to me every time. The last time he even worked a night shift and slept in his car for a few hours just so he could see me before he had to go on another shift lol, very sweet. How long do you think I should keep letting only him come to me? When is it appropriate for me to offer to come to his town? :) thank you 💕
Hello cat katta. Thanks for your question dear. Let him come to you, let him lead, let him seek you. This question feels like it's more about your ability to receive this lovely masculine gestures again and again...
Hello Nancy Darnette. Thanks for your question dear. 💕 Yes, just one day at a time, one step at a time. I relate to feel like a "feminine" fake for a while. Just know that your true feminine essence is in there and start to listen to what she wants.
Hello Nancy Darnette. Thanks for your question dear. 💕 I teach about working with the moon cycle in my trainings with women. I'll see what I can do here.
I’m in a LDR.. we text.. talk... FaceTime...we love so much. I want to send him a text telling him I miss him so much. We have been together for almost 3 years. So is that ok? Is that feminine?
Hello Suzanne Jonah. Thanks for your question dear. 💕 Of course, it's fine to text him...you're now in a relationship. The dynamics change after the dating phase. The only question I'd have is, are you the ONLY one who's doing the communicating?
No he texts me too.. he is 5 hours ahead of me. So I will wake up and just want to text him. He will respond almost always.. if he isn’t busy. With beautiful words for me.
men if they all the time repeat the same thing they want what does that mean ....and how do you do know if a man is realy in to you or just wanting a peace of the action...thank you tausha ...
Hello Tausha loves Timothy. Thanks for your question dear. 💕 Men are pretty straight usually. If they are telling you they want something...they probably want it!
Candice Oneida my exhausted used to leave making decisions to me . For example, I would be the one who organized events, planned vacations and paying for them, I would have to call his work about an issue he had to make doctors appointments or order his food at a restaurant. I wanted him to be more spontaneous or thoughtful. He Wasn’t romantic either. I’m wondering if I was at fault . What may I have done for him to behave this way ? I am an independent woman but whatever I wanted to do I wanted to involved him in it . He just wanted to stay home. I know he felt insecure in many things such as my higher income education knowledge of the world . He didn’t want to learn.
Hello Gratitude! Thanks for your comments. ❤️ How about you re-read this as if you were reading somebody elses post and see how you'd view what you've written and what you'd suggest that that women does with this situation/man? Is she happy with it? Does she really want to be with a man like that?
Hello Gratitude! Thanks for your comments. ❤️ How about you re-read this as if you were reading somebody elses post and see how you'd view what you've written and what you'd suggest that that women does with this situation/man? Is she happy with it? Does she really want to be with a man like that?
I am so funny! I was trying to get into your Live broadcast but realized I just wrote Hi in the comments section. I am sure I will figure out how to say hi in your Live videos!
Love your content, Candace. I want to stress the importance of something I see coming up rather frequently and that is the false belief that being a feminist AND being feminine are incompatible... Nothing could be further from the truth!!! I am Latin American. I grew up in the US. My mother was a radical feminist. You know what? She was feminine! It makes me very sad when I hear my fellow sisters use the term, "women's lib." That is a very condescending term. Most women from my culture understand that being an empowered woman means understanding that women's' roles in society have been severely downplayed throughout history and what is needed is a dialogue. Men have also been hurt by the status quo. I have been exposed to enough feminist literature as well as feminine /energy dating coaching to realize that the two are not mutually exclusive. Our world--specifically the western world --has rejected the feminine for a very long time. It's time to respect and acknowledge what both energies have to offer. Peace. ♥️
Hi 1LaOriental! Thanks for your comments. Ahhh the thing is dear, is that in a latin american culture feminine and feminist may very well be the same thing. I come from a western culture in Australia. It is also my observation that in the US and a lot of Europe feminine principles have been subsumed, buried and masculine ones dominanted...in Western women. I'm here to support women being themselves ultimately...and if it is that you call it feminine power, feminist, feminine energy then I'm onboard as long as it has to do with the inner power, not the outward look of being feminine.
Don't you think Queen Elizabeth could write a book on how to be feminine in her role as Queen, and still show up feminine within her marriage? I don't think Prince Philip is at all emasculated.
Hi Jeanog! Thanks for your comment. 💕 However, it's been pretty well documented how emasculated Prince Philip has felt in his role as the "Queen consort"
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This EVERYTHING! "Masculine Leads Direction in a relationship
Feminine Lead in Depth and Intimacy"
Hello Melinda Scott! Thanks for your comments.
Love this so much💛.. I once had a guy take me out to dinner (first date) as a gift to himself☺️. He actually told me that too (literally called me a gift), and said he had no other expectations than to enjoy a nice dinner with a lovely woman. That’s all that happened that night too. It felt incredible✨
Love that!
So right. I began consciously physically sitting back demurely in my seat at restaurants with my boyfriend instead of leaning forward with my forearms resting on the table, and he actually leans forward every time I lean back. I love this.
Hi Bella Bong! Thanks for your comment. 💕
Oh Candice, this is a great video. How revealing! Now l understand why my current relationship is a success; one factor was because l leaned back during the dating and simply listened and was determined to not say much about me unless asked. So he talked the whole time... etc. Though l found it annoying at some point; but looking back now, that was definitely the beginning of my transition to my femininity and receiving. I love your wisdom! Thank you!!!
Hi Sofia L! Thanks for your comment....and well done!
I was conditioned to be masculine and turn down masculine men my whole life. I’m making these changes, it makes so much more sense now. I feel relaxed, fun, adored, not controlling, overthinking. I do need constant reminders to not move into my masculine with my current man, sometimes I don’t even realize what I’m doing! Thank you!
Thanks for sharing!!
I’m so happy I found your channel! You are one of the very few youtubers who actually give specific tips and advice rather than broad examples so people can purchase something from you. Thank you ❤️
Hello Shirley Shirls. I’m so glad this was helpful! ❤️
Love it. Lean back. Allow silence. See if he fills in.
Hello 0Judi0 Bartel. I’m so glad this was helpful! ❤️
I love this, Candice, and wish I'd had this info many years ago when I was dating! I've got two boys and am discovering that I may not have been teaching them correctly when it comes to dating. I just had a conversation with my 17-year-old, who was complaining about the price of prom tickets. He was upset that a couples ticket is $25, which means he needs to pay $12.50. He couldn't figure out why they couldn't make the price $24, so he could just pay an even $12. I had to explain that he should be paying for his date's ticket as well. He's very confused now, because they've learned about women's lib in school. He thought women want to be like men. He says most of the girls in his school act like they want to be men and I think he doesn't want to disrespect women by making the mistake of treating them as inferior, such as by paying for them when they're perfectly capable of paying for themselves. I didn't know what to say, but i asked him if he wants to take care of his date, or if he wants her to take care of him. He understood then, but I see what he means. I think a lot of us are very confused these days on what our roles should be in relationships.
Hello Ronni Hunt. Thanks for your question dear. I'd suggest that he simply say "Hey........I'd LOVE to treat you" Or "Let me treat you"
Candice Oneida I will tell him to try that. Thank you!
Rewatching this a year into my journey has been great. Thank you for your wisdom - we miss you on TH-cam! ❤
You are so welcome!
Thanks Supreme Being Lovelight frequency
Going on a date tonight. Stopped by for reminders
Hello The Crafty Homeschool Super Mom. I’m so glad this was helpful! ❤️
Ok, so now I totally get why it makes sense that the man "always" pays on dinner date or majority of the time. It's his way of providing IF he is totally in his masculine. Dammit it, I finally got it!!! Hehehehheehe
Hello Melinda Scott. My pleasure dear!
Nice to hear
Listening to you let’s me know I’m in the right track ! Thank you !
Hello Brenda Marie. My pleasure dear!
What is your take on a man coming to you (as in a date) when it’s long distance. I find when a man comes to my city, I feel like the host and actually end up being too much in my masculine. But when I come to his city, he shows me around, takes care of me and he’s in his masculine and I’m in my feminine the whole time. What are your thoughts on that? Thank you! ✨
Hello Geneva Ma. Thanks for your question dear. There's no reason why he can't come to you and you let him lead and take you around. Our job, in the feminine, is to ask for our needs and desires.
What this means, is that you can let him know where and what you like to do, and then, let go. Let him do the doing, the leading, and you receive.💕
My sister in law constantly emasculates my brother. As a result, he has allowed it to undermine his self confidence. Then one day she says to me, "I wish he'd be more of a man. He looks to me to handle EVERYTHING!"
Hi Jeanog! Thanks for your comment. 💕 Yes, argggghhh.
I love it !!! Thank you for sharing this knowledge with us, women! I needed it so much!
Hello Miami-Fitness. My pleasure dear! ❤️
My love language is generosity, and often I find myself paying dinners...or making lots of gifts, not only to my friends, but also to the man...
Now I now clearly where I need to correct...
The relationship with him dissolved months ago, and now I feel ready to live alone, as also all my old friendships ended..
I know it's part of my spiritual path, but now, with your teachings, I feel like I have to stop paying everything to everyone 😁😁
Thanks for the videos, they are truly helpful 🙏❤️
Hello Florentina Niculescu. I’m so glad this was helpful! ❤️
That's valuable information! Thank you!
Hello Sondra Myles. My pleasure dear!
Thank you for your time for your words of defining personal
Hello Chuck Higgins. My pleasure dear! ❤️
Great video and content!
Hello Andrea Ellis. My pleasure dear! If you want to learn more please feel free to watch my free masterclass at: powerfullyfem.com/pfi-webinar-ng
Loveeeeeee this❤️
I’m so glad that resonated with you Florencia Garcia Delgado! 💕
hello candice. Who should text / call first after it’s been a while not contact each other? Men Or Women? ☺️
Hello SITI RAUDHAH. Thanks for your question dear. 💕 But...why would you want to contact a man who isn't interested in contacting you?
🧡 I really enjoyed this video 🧡
Hello Mari Alexandra. My pleasure dear!
lovely video! I love your advice on how you want to feel in the relationship instead of focusing on making a shopping list of the guy. Can we instead create shopping list of our inner feelings how we wish to feel in a healthy relationship? Maybe like our inner shopping consists of biologically organic feelings and nutritious emotions? This kind of shopping is wonderful!
Hello evnomia iw! Thanks for your comments. How about we call it a "desire list" instead though. "I desire to feel...."💗
thank you for your clarification...yes!!! beautiful !!!
I was very feminine.. until I realized he was a alcoholic. Then my masculinity kicked in. I’m now in a great love relationship.. that I’m trying so hard to be softer.. you have helped me so much!! Thank you
Thank you 🙏
Hi Shiva Mousavi! Thanks for your comment. 💕
What do you think for women to offer to pay as a test of sorts. If he lets the woman pay it means he isn’t wanting to be provider/protector. What do you think?
Hello Sappy Samurai. Thanks for your question dear. 💕 You don't have to play games dear. A high quality man will want to provide for you.
Hi Candice. Can you give advice to women who are divorced single parents? I’ve been providing for my children alone for years and don’t know how to relinquish myself to a man because it feels like I’m always “on”. I left my abusive ex husband and my self esteem is shot. He was my first everything; boyfriend, sexual partner (I was a virgin) etc and never dated before him. Thank you very much.
Hello Ebony C. Thanks for your question dear. 💕 Firstly, be gently with yourself. You've taken on a huuuuge load, and your questions are real concerns. It feels like you need to do some real healing from your marriage before you'll be able to let a man in again love.
Candice Oneida Hi Candice!! Thank you so very much for answering my question. And yes you’re definitely right and I’m relearning about myself which is fun yet challenging but I’m going to get there.
I feel you about my masculine side but I've all ways had to e be mom n dad but I met d someone when I was still in my man energy more I noticed in the end he was in his feminine n recently I heard he was gay I want to be k in my feminine power more to get my meds meet n do I can meet his needs also
I need balance
Hi Nancy Darnette! Thanks for your comment. 💕 Yes, it's what I hear often, that women who are masculine dominant attract feminine dominant men....but they want a deeply masculine man. The road to this, is unleash your inner feminine.
I miss the long in-depth live streams:(
Hi lin lin! Thanks for your comment. 💕 I'll keep this in mind dear.
Very difficult to change from masc to feminine mood
Hi wanda videira! Thanks for your comment. 💕 Not when you know how dear.
Love your channel Candice!! Discovered you on Helena’s Chanel. I’m in the early phase of dating with an awesome man so we are texting. How do you let your feminine energy come through via texts?
Hello Debi Lofstrand. Thanks for your question dear. 💕 To be super clear our feminine "energy" needs to be felt in person, which is why I suggest that you get off text into a coffee/tea date pretty quickly. your feminine energy is both what you want him to feel, but it is also the place from which YOU determine if he's a fit for you.
Candice Oneida AWESOME!! Got it!!! Thank you so much!
Just a quick question regarding having him come to you :) the guy i am dating lives 2 hours away, we have been on 4 dates and he has come to me every time. The last time he even worked a night shift and slept in his car for a few hours just so he could see me before he had to go on another shift lol, very sweet. How long do you think I should keep letting only him come to me? When is it appropriate for me to offer to come to his town? :) thank you 💕
Hello cat katta. Thanks for your question dear. Let him come to you, let him lead, let him seek you. This question feels like it's more about your ability to receive this lovely masculine gestures again and again...
Hi Candice 🌹
Hi wanda videira! Hello dear! 💕
How do ii get into my feminine n keep it yes do up think I if I turned up in feminine that it t would h being out his masculine
Hello Nancy Darnette. Thanks for your question dear. 💕 Yes, just one day at a time, one step at a time. I relate to feel like a "feminine" fake for a while. Just know that your true feminine essence is in there and start to listen to what she wants.
I feel the same how 5 do I do they
Hi Nancy Darnette! Thanks for your comment. 💕
How do you work with the moon
I've been in masculine for so long when I try to go into feminine what I think it is I feel like I'm being fake how do I get past that
Hello Nancy Darnette. Thanks for your question dear. 💕 I teach about working with the moon cycle in my trainings with women. I'll see what I can do here.
I’m in a LDR.. we text.. talk... FaceTime...we love so much. I want to send him a text telling him I miss him so much. We have been together for almost 3 years. So is that ok? Is that feminine?
Hello Suzanne Jonah. Thanks for your question dear. 💕 Of course, it's fine to text him...you're now in a relationship. The dynamics change after the dating phase. The only question I'd have is, are you the ONLY one who's doing the communicating?
No he texts me too.. he is 5 hours ahead of me. So I will wake up and just want to text him. He will respond almost always.. if he isn’t busy. With beautiful words for me.
men if they all the time repeat the same thing they want what does that mean ....and how do you do know if a man is realy in to you or just wanting a peace of the action...thank you tausha ...
Hello Tausha loves Timothy. Thanks for your question dear. 💕 Men are pretty straight usually. If they are telling you they want something...they probably want it!
What about my husband ( then) always waited for me do do things /make decisions? Is it me or is it him ?
Hi Gratitude! Thanks for your comment. 💕 Can you clarify what you're asking?
Candice Oneida my exhausted used to leave making decisions to me . For example, I would be the one who organized events, planned vacations and paying for them, I would have to call his work about an issue he had to make doctors appointments or order his food at a restaurant. I wanted him to be more spontaneous or thoughtful. He Wasn’t romantic either. I’m wondering if I was at fault . What may I have done for him to behave this way ? I am an independent woman but whatever I wanted to do I wanted to involved him in it . He just wanted to stay home.
I know he felt insecure in many things such as my higher income education knowledge of the world . He didn’t want to learn.
Hello Gratitude! Thanks for your comments. ❤️ How about you re-read this as if you were reading somebody elses post and see how you'd view what you've written and what you'd suggest that that women does with this situation/man? Is she happy with it? Does she really want to be with a man like that?
Hello Gratitude! Thanks for your comments. ❤️ How about you re-read this as if you were reading somebody elses post and see how you'd view what you've written and what you'd suggest that that women does with this situation/man? Is she happy with it? Does she really want to be with a man like that?
What’s if the guy does not align ?
Hello wanda videira. Thanks for your question dear. 💕 Then, let him go!
What if I already pay half of the bill, how do I turn it around?
Hello Renola Visagie. Thanks for your question dear. 💕 Ask him if he is willing to do this
Hello!!
Hello Sophie Navarro. hI! ❤️
I am so funny! I was trying to get into your Live broadcast but realized I just wrote Hi in the comments section. I am sure I will figure out how to say hi in your Live videos!
💃
How can Iturn on my feminine side ?
Hello wanda videira. Thanks for your question dear. 💕 Watch the videos up here dear!
Love your content, Candace. I want to stress the importance of something I see coming up rather frequently and that is the false belief that being a feminist AND being feminine are incompatible... Nothing could be further from the truth!!! I am Latin American. I grew up in the US. My mother was a radical feminist. You know what? She was feminine! It makes me very sad when I hear my fellow sisters use the term, "women's lib." That is a very condescending term. Most women from my culture understand that being an empowered woman means understanding that women's' roles in society have been severely downplayed throughout history and what is needed is a dialogue. Men have also been hurt by the status quo. I have been exposed to enough feminist literature as well as feminine /energy dating coaching to realize that the two are not mutually exclusive. Our world--specifically the western world --has rejected the feminine for a very long time. It's time to respect and acknowledge what both energies have to offer. Peace. ♥️
Hi 1LaOriental! Thanks for your comments. Ahhh the thing is dear, is that in a latin american culture feminine and feminist may very well be the same thing. I come from a western culture in Australia. It is also my observation that in the US and a lot of Europe feminine principles have been subsumed, buried and masculine ones dominanted...in Western women. I'm here to support women being themselves ultimately...and if it is that you call it feminine power, feminist, feminine energy then I'm onboard as long as it has to do with the inner power, not the outward look of being feminine.
Candice Oneida Yes, absolutely!!
Hi
Hello Shiva Mousavi. I’m so glad this was helpful! ❤️
Hi.
Hi Anna Antonino! Hello dear.
Is shiva from canada
Hi Shiva Mousavi! Thanks for your comment. 💕
Don't you think Queen Elizabeth could write a book on how to be feminine in her role as Queen, and still show up feminine within her marriage? I don't think Prince Philip is at all emasculated.
Hi Jeanog! Thanks for your comment. 💕 However, it's been pretty well documented how emasculated Prince Philip has felt in his role as the "Queen consort"
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