Aries Spears & Vlad Argue if Wives are Required to Pleasure their Husbands (Part 19)
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In a recent interview, Vlad and Aries Spears discussed Keke Palmer and the issue of wealth disparity in relationships. Palmer recently accused her partner, Darius Jackson, of abuse and has taken out a restraining order. In the discussion, the two noted how releasing footage from hidden cameras at home can impact situations like this. Aries suggested that having security cameras at home could potentially deter theft, while Vlad advised that it might cause complications in relationships due to incessant surveillance. They continued to explore the dynamics of relationships where women earn more than men, stating that this could often lead to men feeling disrespected. The interview closed with an exploration of gender roles in terms of household income and responsibilities. - บันเทิง
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Aren't husbands AND wives SUPPOSED to sexually please each other? Only in America is this controversial 😂
Especially the equality shit. Other countries don't have the problem of equality because the man is automatically the head of the household. America have a totally different debate in that aspect
The American 🇺🇲 dream ...😐
Its more the man demanding the woman to perform sexual acts whenever he wants even if she doesnt want to
Actually this isn't true at all
When you say please each other that's a mutual thing when you say somebody has to suck my dick on snap he's being ridiculous
Aries on why Diddy never got married: “Because he didn’t want her to ‘Take That, Take That’” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Your comment should be pinned by VLAD.
It put a 😊 on my face.
😂😂😂
And vlad had no idea what he said lol
He thought he ate..😂😂 that's what my kids tell me. 😂
Vlad didnt laugh
I’m tired of vlad confidently thinking he can speak for an entire group, especially one he’s not even apart of.
What community did he claim to speak for?
@@WestCoast-jb6rdshut up dude 😂
Exactly
@@WestCoast-jb6rdreally I’d love to see the list. Becuase I can for sure tell you he hasn’t done more than I have for my own community. I don’t see that man doing no charity, I don’t see that man giving out no turkeys, I don’t see that man buying apartment complexes
Why because he goes a bunch of up and coming rappers a place to talk about the street trauma that means he gave back.
Really lol 😂 😂😂😂
@@WestCoast-jb6rd Name what he's done besides exploit black culture and make money off of it?
It is your wife’s duty to please you as it is your duty to protect and advise and also please your spouse.
A duty and a requirement are two different things. A duty comes from a sense of you feel obligated. People have lost that concept on that. If you're married to somebody, it should be out of love and honor and respect. Y'all throw this word of requirement and duty and I'm supposed to word around way too much when it comes to marriage and y'all truly don't understand what a marriage is
@@flyguy7825 Then, the man can also talk about having the "desire" to protect and provide. Come on, bro. You gotta make sense. If the man is expected to protect and provide, the woman is expected to nurture and tend to her man. That's quality. Rights and responsibilities. Not just rights.
@@flyguy7825 are you of any religious beliefs? I’m also newly married
@@mikep11218 say it louder for the dusty pigeons in the back
Spousal rape??
If you ever want to not feel like a man, move into her house that she owns or has a mortgage on.
Preach!
Yet you're supposed to move her into your house. Pay for everything and then still treat her like an equal
Get married move into the house together ,she still can kick you out lol.
A man needs to bring her into his frame and home.
I don’t need to feel like a man. That’s y’all’s problem. Y’all are insecure
He called Vlad moist 😂
A relationship that would make me have to be so concerned about how I’m acting on camera is not a relationship I would be in.
I don’t see how people think this is normal. They want an employee not a lover.
@@davruck1damn
Every relationship has prerequisites for getting into it and conditions for keeping it.
I know Aries want to slap the hair dye off Vlad face sometimes 😂
Lmfao
No matter how much someone does or doesn’t have it don’t give you the right to disrespect them period
Yea... but some people don't see it that way
My mother made more than my father several years, and I've never witnessed anything short of love and admiration between the both of them. They are old school, traditional, both raised in devout Christian households. Nearly 40 years intensely in love and committed to each other. You are lost if you are doing anything less than supporting your spouse achieving their highest potential. If you are competing with your spouse for who will/shall/must bring in more resources, you have issues in your relationship you need to work out.
“When she come home, turn em’ off!” Was valid as hell 😂😂😂
Aries is absolutely right in NYC you can have your own apartment your name is on the lease and you and your girlfriend get into a argument and if the police comes they will tell you to leave before they will tell your girlfriend to leave
The same thing happened to me in Houston TX.
Same in Jersey, if the cops is called….someone has to leave the place (in most times the man unless it’s blatant the woman did/started something) I believe in Cali if it’s a “DV” situation a person has to go to jail for the night
Bro, that's literally almost everywhere almost but if my name is on the lease and I own this apartment and I called the cops on her best belief they're going to tell her to leave though and most situations on this side of the country.
They do this in every city
@@floridaman7 Not in every city no.
“It’s a job to bring home the bacon and it’s a woman’s job to fry it” Aries be spitting fr💯
do yall dudes want wife or a employee
@@quanbrooklynkid7776 if you want a sister soldier who gets you takeout every night on your credit card instead of cooking, go ahead.
Glad wrong I seen a guy get kicked out of his own house and can’t see his kids. He still paying the mortgage and for everything
Facts
These two men are the last ones I'm taking advice from concerning women
Fr 😂😂😂
exactly lol
Exactly. Especially Aries. I doubt he dates Black women. Probably Puerto Rican and Asian.
@@davruck1His ex wife is Puerto Rican
i dont think any of what they said was prescriptive...
I dont see a problem with having cameras in your home. how about you just dont abuse your partner.
That's what I'm saying, Vlad sounds guilty using that logic...if anything you would have evidence so no one could ever say you laid hands on them in your home or r@p 3d them or some bullshit.
I agree with both of you 100%... I would have cameras in my house, no question. Ik ill nvr put hands on my wife, idc what she does or says to me. Only way my hands r getting put on a woman like that is if she comes at me with a weapon.
If you make far less money than your partner, it's impossible for you to be the provider. You're only over spending and leaving yourself vulnerable. Also, any woman that devalues a man or lacks respect for a man because she out earns him, is an absolute worthless pos of a person. That's not a person of sound ethics and furthermore incredibly dangerous and untrustworthy .
Welcome to women. Thats how they are. Temporarily they can do it. Just like taking care of u if you are dying they cant do it for long. They will make excuses to leave or cheat. Meanwhile men take care of women for an entire marriage and still get rumors about them saying thry are abusive. Im sorry but every man cant be abusive its not statistically possible. And yes a man and woman should please each other if not whats the point?!
Women initiate marriage almost 100% of the time and they also initiate divorce almost 100% of the time. You can't have it both ways.
Exactly, if that’s the case the _problem_ isn’t that she earns more, it’s her disrespectful nature
Now if there’s zero disrespect but she does earn more than the man, and that makes HIM feel insecure? that’s on the man.
So men think women should suck their 🍆 on demand simply because they pay the bills, but are complaining about heauxs ? Lmao. Y’all are lost. No woman is signing up for that.
@@joojoobawthat’s usually the case. These guys feel the need to provide really to satisfy their egos.
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
If you’re in a relationship where you feel like you shouldn’t have cameras in case you abuse each other and the other takes it to court… that’s an issue with your relationship. Them things shouldn’t be happening to have to worry about the cameras capturing them.
Yup
You absolutely should have cameras in your house. Us men need to treat this like it's boxing, "protect yourself at all times" These women can consent to something one day, change their mood & mind and then come back and said we did something wrong, even years later
Right Vlad must say some awful shit in his arguments at his house 😂 Someone would be afraid of cameras in their house if they don’t want proof that they did something bad.
A good natured person would _want_ the video proof to show they did NOTHiNG wrong.
Imagine being this paranoid
@@joojoobawlmao this is incorrect. This is how America became a surveillance state. You don’t have to prove shit. The burden of proof is on the accuser. People need to stop being so worried about being seen as a good person.
Tell me you are 15 without telling me
@PEPSEP , Anyone who speaks like you just did sounds like they're 15
If your woman making more money than you brings insecurities then you need to reevaluate your self esteem.
No, it's called human nature. Women look for providers because that's a man's job by nature, so if you can't do that and she is the one doing it then she's not going to fully respect you.
Facts because dealing with women should never be about the external. You supposed to be able lead a women based off what's on the inside
@@purposeandgoals1189 Ok then, try going on a date with a girl and letting her know you have no money
@@hueyfreeman5509 bruh...how did you just turn "she makes more $$" to "i have NO MONEY to take you out"??! lmbao that's totally not the same thing. stop being so em.0tional. 😂
@@hueyfreeman5509Folks are just hiding go digging behind traditionalism
Folks just don't want to work anymore. And when someone else to pick up all the slack in the hard work so they can sit on the couch. It has absolutely nothing with provision. just hiding behind that to use people
Vlad & Aries are by far the best interviews period. Such great conversations & brilliant!!
If he aint entitled to sex then she aint entitled to monogamy its as simple as that
*Vlad asking a guest a question
Vlad right after asking the question: “the first thing I thought”
Awesome question AND answer Vlad, this is what makes you stand out from the rest..
Probably giving them time to formulate a fulsome response 🤷🏿♂️
Aries Spears looks like an early 2000 New York battle rapper
Definitely smack DVD era
He's a new yorker so it's to be expected.😂
Love when Aries calls Vlad out on his bs😂
I agree with vlad to a certain extent... nd yall don't find it weird that you think your girlfriend or wife have to give her man, or husband sex even if she doesn't want to... that's some slave b.s.
Aries straight up clowned him at the end 😂 I wonder if vlad will ever get tired of being embarrassed or is this his way of thinking he’s apart of the culture 😅
Vlad is a grown up he knows what he is doing sir
Vlad is apart of the culture! Vlad is the CULTURE!❤ No joke!🎉
A part of what culture y'all keep saying the culture and I always ask what f****** culture a culture of hot ratchet mess. If that's the culture then Vlad is 100% a part of it. I'm sick and tired of black folks and telling other people what they can be a part of or not. He knows Aries Spears is going to push back on his topics. That's why he could tell you to have them on and people can tell you the click on it. That's how he makes his money!!
@@flyguy7825you’re on here because of the culture. Stfu. Y’all are hilarious. You try to talk crap about us, but here you are obsessed with us. We dgaf what people like you think. We live how we please and you can’t do anything about it
This is a myth. It depends on the woman and how the woman was raised. New age feminist women will have that mindset. Most women won't. My neighbor who is now passed away was a plumber and his wife was the judge at our downtown court house. She cleared over 200k a year and he barely made 65k a year as a freelance plumber. They were both carribean and they stayed married for 50 years until he passed away. Her upbringing in a conservative christian carribean home made it so that she had a certain level of respect and love for her husband and would never rub the fact she was more educated and had more money in his face. And ijust from me being around them he treated her like a queen in response to that. We used to go over their crib on the weekends and she was cooking and they were both cleaning, etc.
I don't know about all that. You can't tell a woman who makes more money than a man what her behavior is and isn't going to be because you can't speak for all these women out here
most modern western women ARE "new age feminists" tho--so right off the bat there's a problem with your answer. therefore it's not a "myth". #2 the example you gave is of a typical CARIBBEAN woman. not a typical AMERICAN woman. men already know that you have a farrr better chance of meeting marriage-worthy women overseas. 🤷🏽♂
What is Feminism? I don't know that concept because I run all my women. Regardless of race or background. You're just weak!
I bet she never gave a BJ on demand. People need to change their ideas
@@misterhappy5462lmao women are just reacting to capitalism. But you clowns can’t see this.
Rapey? Aries is right it's called playing your part 😂
“if i want you to suck my d*ck on snap”… that’s very weird and rapey. cause if you LOVE AND VALUE your woman, there is no reason that even should come to mind. BUUUT, He did play the “rapey uncle” for a skit 🌚 can’t be too far off
Ain’t no women tryna get sun Aries for anything other than money
@@davruck1 the money makes him 10x more attractive to women.
My friend got kicked out of his own house the same way
Im 43. Single. No kids. Its lonely as fuck sometimes but dammit its way less women stress
I got divorced in October and haven't had A woman in over two years. It's not that bad
women r overrated all hype no action
@@tomburkart7814 W
The provider mindset is a bad idea for modern marriages. Younger men should only provide for their children
Anyone can log into these cameras, sad that most people don't know this. Goes to show how dumb our society is :(
Damn
I know, sad@@quanbrooklynkid7776
What a relatable conversation 2 Millionaires talking about controlling people with money
But they are too myopic to see it.
Vlad always got his facts wrong 😂
He still saying he’d like to be married! Even after all he’s been through ! This is why it will never change !
And he married the same woman twice. Divorced her twice and now he’s still dating her.
lmao who aries? damn damn@@Lenasevilla-yb4ei 😂
@@Lenasevilla-yb4eidamn
These video titles are wild lol. Literally only had to do with the last 10 seconds of the clip. Heated argument for sure.😂
LMAO @ THE END
Aries always on point 🔥
Aries sounds like a keeper. Glad hes funny too.
A Keeper?! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Men and women BOTH have requirements. This being a debate is the craziest shit.
I dated a girl about 6 years ago that made $800K a year. And yes when she wanted the relationship over....it was over. 😅 she never rubbed it in my face or anything but we both knew 😅😅
Oh yea cmon the fact thats she even went on a date with you was just her wasting her time
We can't have it both ways.
@@zxcccccc1You're right, we can't have it both ways. I've been with women who have made more money than me. Not much more but they may more money and what he's saying is absolutely positively not factual at all if a man comes with a disrespect especially to a woman who he laid in bed with and had a child by and not all of a sudden he thinks he's going to change this woman then. He's got to be all the way f***** up
What did she do for a living? Just curious? In medicine?
I hope you got some $$$ while dating her
Puffy is definitely smart in that sense.
You can't generalize people based off ignorant celebrities. "A woman that'll make more money will never respect that man."
That is ridiculous.
Yea
Ares: You sound like you pee sittin down..🤨🤔
Vlad: ......Actually, I do pee sitting down..😐
Let me guess Vlad doesn’t think it’s a wife’s duty to please her husband 🙄
It is just not the way Aries coming off
“Make that make sense” 😂🤣😂
It ain’t required but neither is a ring nor a man paying all the bills.. nor him being with a woman. We got two hands 🤷🏿♂️😂💯
She didn't make or have more money than Vlad that was her dads money it's a difference she came from a family with money, she was spending daddies money not hers.
And then evidence came out that Keke was abusing him and tried setting him up lol
When was this?
@@Independent365 a few days after, I think she recorded him secretly or both were recording and she made herself look crazy
Her mom threatened to kill him and his mother called the police then she went public or something
But she also said in past that she’s physical a lot
@@user-fl5cs6nq5ldamn
The ending😂
LOL @ the end part of the video 😂😂😂😂😂😂
“You moist ninja ….shut up ….” Exactly
Vlad said "So then you can kick me out your house" 😂😂😂😂😭 that mf too funny
My man’s ex was beatin on him and then called the cops and said he beat her.
At court he played the footage and went home a free man.
I personally don’t like cameras, but like Aries said, I’m some situations I get it.
You’re right Aries!
Dont be lazy. It becomes a duty. 100/100 take it or leave it.
That's a Hands-off approach!
Ive seen it happen too when i owned a mortgage company i seen some crazy things when women divorce men
I love the way Ariel waits and waits them boom he reacts…
I only have maid service/cleanings when I'm home, theft is an issue always...
Every true playa wants to be married...but they know they cant...
Thank Aries! Someone needed to tell Vlad to stfu. 😆 🤣 😂
All relationships are 50/50
Both people have to put in 50% of energy and effort into each other to keep the relationship strong once one person is giving more energy and effort than the other it's only a matter of time before that relationship ends💯
You don't mean what you typed. But if you are only giving 50% effort for relationships, this is why they aren't successful.
I've been married for the last 8 years going on 9 I think it's working out just fine for me and my wife😁
For your relationship to be 100% both people need to put in 50% each is what I mean. Didn't think I had to break it down to that degree for people to understand🤣
@comb87 You must be young or a female. The concept of 50/50 doesn't exist. Its a woman's initiative that really asks for husbands to do 50% of the inside housework. Women are not doing 50% of the outside housework in exchange. Nor is a real relationship happening if she pays half the mortgage. You have much to learn.
Money doesn’t make a man. Skill, Values, morals, principles,and standards does
When we getting the full interview
Why does Vlad think it's odd to have security cameras in the house. Everyone who has security cameras will usually have one inside in the living room.
Single people conversation is highly entertaining. 😂
Vlad is married with children..
Take that!
Take that!
My girlfriend makes more than me and she still cooks and clean and takes care of my needs and very respectful too me until i piss her off and even when shes pissed off she doesn’t use money arguments its or belittling like most women do its about the topic at hand , other than that i couldn’t have ask for a better women in my life but my gf is a rare breed because most women i dated that made more would treat you like shit just because they made more and i would get them tf outta my life with that bull shit quick
When you purchase a new flat-screen television do you expect it to show a picture?
Vlad reminds me of the pc principal off South park
Vlad i Love that you haven't love to these lvls
Completion for the protection
Yes. And if she ain't giving it up I'll find it somewhere else.
“You sound like you pee sitting down “😂😂😂😂😂
Pssst I got a sign on both the front & bathroom doors that discloses REC in progres...
Vlad titled the video entirely based on the last 15 seconds😂😂
How many times we gon here the take that joke lol
But if the family rich doesn't means she's rich🤔🤔🤔
MEN: Protect your family. Provide for your family. Love your family. WOMEN: Cook, clean, sexually please your man, love your man, be loyal to your man, respect your man, be his biggest cheerleader, nurture/feed the children.
Yup
This 2023. Everyone ain’t tryna live a regressive life. People can live their family without your BS ideals
@@davruck1 Salute to the suckers/simps.
@@sluggzmcgee6272 they simp cuz they have nothing to offer. They want to be martyr when they get treated like tricks
@@davruck1 if you have a better way that works more consistently, you are doing humanity a disservice by only disagreeing. Tell us the secret, unless you are so evil that you choose to keep it to yourself.
No sex no work no pay bills. The second a woman disrespect you check her or check out.
The fact this is being argued is weird af. Y’all weirdos for real.
"Make that make sense. They system needs a remake." Exactly. Shit crazy they can just take damn near all your shit that they didn't purchase before y'all got together. Like how is that okay?
Just do your own thing. Y’all complain about the system, but when Black people do their own thing, y’all always demand we assimilate. No I’d rather handle business as i see fit than participate in the system
@@davruck1 I've never bee married so i don't deal with the system. But for those who do, it's still not right and people should fight against it. I'm thankful for not having to deal with it though. I agree with you, do your own thing.
@@CosmicBeing538 when I was a kid I used to hear about common law marriages and I had relatives who weren’t legally “married” but were married. There’s a reason the government wanted to get involved in marriage. The government and economy is the real reason for the high divorce rate.
@@davruck1 The government wants to be involved in every aspect of our lives. They want to control and monitor it all.
Of course they are! It's right there in the job description! Has our society disintegrated?
1:54 😂😂
Plenty of people have inside cameras lol...
They have cams that you can turn the camera volume off
“Smd on a 🫰 “ is crazy but I felt that
Nobody's required to do anything really but you would think if you marry someone that both of you enjoy each other's company in and out of the bedroom lol
When you purchase a new car is it required to run?
On tap 💯💯
This was not a argue bro smh 🤦🏾♂️ 😂
U know how the internet works right? OK that's why the title is that
Akademiks having cameras in his house saved his freedom
Vlad is sort of being disingenuous with the Tyler Perry remarks. What Tyler was speaking to was the fact that women in modern days often times make more money than their male counterparts, so if they don’t want to be lonely by only going after dudes who make more, they should be willing to pick up more of the financial slack in a relationship. That’s a lot different than “women take care of your men, pay all the bills and stop complaining.”
Exactly 100% you get it but people have twisted his words. So damn much that they're convinced what Vlad said was true
Yea...
You do t have to worry about the camera if you aren’t putting your hands on anybody like got damn it’s not that fucking hard 😂😂😂😂
Darius never married Keke, so this is different argument. If they are both putting hands on each other they aren't marriage material in the first place. Darius mistake was not telling Keke his feelings about the Usher stuff privately. If he did, they'd probably still be together toxic problems and all.
Apparently they broke up before the usher concert
@@funsizedazzy6708That's a rumor. None of that has been proven to be fact
Exactly. You're 100% right. The whole usher thing was completely blown out of proportion. I think that man let people on social media finesse him and to having a problem with it and then he was dumb enough to express that on social media when Keke Palmer was going to do her regardless. You're not married to her, but yet you want to control how she behaves when you're not even married. Plus she gave birth to a baby. The f*** kind of sense is that
-if a man has to TELL you about your th.0t behaviour at a r&b show...you don't deserve him. lmbao
- you just indirectly explained everything wrong with this age of modern woman culture. privately or public is the least thing to be worried about! 😂
First: she was abusing him on a regular basis. They amplified the time he did!
Second: Vlad...just go ahead and invite fresh and fit 🤣😅😆
It's not true, there's women out there head over heals over guys with zero income. Keke and her ex issues wasn't income(or purely).
Aries: if I gotta bring home the bacon AND cook it why I got you for? Tyler Perry on bm accepting the light bill Aries: “heyyy however you wanna divi it up”. They’re logical when it comes to what they’ll accept but change their tune when it comes to what women should.
Society’s problem is the lack of self awareness. They want an employee not a partner.
A little rappie 😂😂😂😂