Girls, if you feel like a man is “off,” TRUST YOUR INSTINCT. Don’t feel obligated to be nice or “give him a chance.” You don’t owe anyone anything. Especially not someone who makes you uncomfortable.
I'm from Belgrade, Serbia. I have to say, I think Milos is not even Serbian.. his Serbian is not fluent and he has a heavy accent. Also Milos Mihajlovic is a veeery very common name here.. so I would assume it's not even his real name... 🤷🏻♀️
*Sigh* If I have to hear one more grown adult bring up the "pull out method" I'm going to scream. Birth control or condoms should be the only thing in the conversation about preventing pregnancy. If your partner brings up pulling out and won't budge on it, break up with them. They're either an idiot or they're trying to get pregnant.
My only critique on her part was the contraceptive thing, never trust someone else with your sexual health; if they are a doctor or not, keep yourself safe
I’m sad her story wasn’t talked about nearly enough because it was overshadowed with the stupid Chuck E Cheese conspiracy theory, thank you for bringing more attention to this issue, there’s no one better to cover this subject but you, very well researched and in a respectful manner
I think it's easier for the older people to just ignore the topic & the young people (14 & less) probably understood it as a creepy guy that brittani ended up with, but not really understand the true depth of her story. Chuck E Cheese was an easier topic to talk about, ya know?
Yeah I was really into listening to it and then it cuts to him freaking out over pizza! He should’ve done it separately imo, as this is more important than pizza
Many people here are like “spill the tea”. Guys this isn’t about the “tea” but she is actually trying to spread awareness about these things and this is not actually some stupid internet drama tea try to understand that.
Sneha Singh thank you, one of my dearest friends has been trafficked (her parents knew) and is still dealing with everything she thought was true, was just a lie to make her go along with minimum fuss. 💔
This is soooo disturbing,I’m glad Spill is the one uploading thus cause it she will do all of the research and treat this subject with respect💕. Man,this world scary🤦🏽♀️
She was in love with him and truly believed he was a certified doctor. Put yourself in her shoes, she trusted him and his supposed job. He was a darn manipulator.
Random Muggle I KNOW. That was absolutely frustrating that she just didn’t take any responsibility for her own body. She basically asked him what she should do. She’s an adult. You don’t ask for permission to protect your own body.
The cover for her book doesn’t match AT ALL...lmao who let her do that. It’s all cutesy and girly when the situation is very serious and happens everyday...it’s not just “another sucky love story”
I think the cover of the book is used to emphasise that relationships may look happy, jolly, and wonderful in the outside---but there's some difficulties that two or individuals may experience, even perhaps as disturbing as her story.
I wish he did a separate video on her. I felt like it was disrespectful and frankly, kinda disgusting that he put her story with Chuck E. Cheese shit. He gave Tana and Jake a video series but put Brittani in the middle of that conspiracy video.
You tuber 123 I liked it. The subject is extremely heavy, especially for those that are not used to hearing about the topic. He always edited it in such a way that as soon as it was getting too heavy it would change topics. It was annoying at first, but it served as a way to keep people entertained and keep the video from getting to heavy.
Yea especially since the other 2 stories were drastically less serious than Brittani's story lol it kept ruining the mood for me. Potential human trafficking victim vs. Chuck E. Cheese pizza? Come on.
Omg I met my husband on tinder. I look back and think how naive I was then! Brittani is so strong for what she went through! This was a wonderful video.
Before watching Shane’s video I was catfished by a guy, then after watching his video I actually deleted my dating apps off my phone. At this point I’d rather meet/date someone i know in person than over text messages.
The jumpcuts in shane's video confused me a lot I didn't understand Brittani's story, thank you for this video, it really helped to understand everything a little better
This hurt. Rewatching Brittany lose her everything all cause some disgusting manipulator took so much advantage of her heart... This was the same treatment my ex fiance did to me. I don't have a massive following, or any following for that matter, but I wanted to get out my struggle. Its because of him there's no chance to cure my disease or my trauma. I hope you are happy with your new husband, J. Im sure meeting in secret was worth. Thank you Spill for sharing this story without jumps. Have a good day y'all~♡
This is so much better than Shanes video. This was such a serious and scary thing that shoving it into a sometimes light hearted "documentary" didn't do it justice. I didnt bother watching his video because of all the jump cuts so im glad you made this video compiling all the points. Thank you!
The second issue, online dating, hits home. I was groomed online by an American when I was 11, and it's left me traumatised. He said he was 16, turns out he may have been 21. He knew my social media, my town, a lot of things. He lied that he was in the military, and wanted me to travel to America or help him organise coming to the UK. He promised to help me get over my vulnerabilities and problems, but he just added to them. The things he got to do me over camera where inappropriate for my age, and he made me keep it secret from my parents, which I did for a whole year. And it's not always on dating apps or phone social media, this occurred on Xbox. I luckily got out okay before it went further; you need to be careful online, yes not everyone has ill intentions, but keep in mind the signs on both issues and act with precaution. Please be safe out there!
The cover of that book is such a bad uncomfortable choice for what the story actually is and how serious this issue is.. this isn't anywhere close to just "another sucky love story"
Thank you Spill for giving this the RIGHT attention, research, and SOURCES in the description for people to see!! Brittani and Shane kept saying they wanted to help others who may be in a similar situation yet they gave no other hindsight on the issue, what went wrong, what to look for and what not to do, and ((FREE)) sources for those who may be in immediate danger like the domestic abuse hotline ect. They just kept pushing her book which is great, yay I'm glad for you having written about your experience and all but to spend money in order to get insight on something there are OFFICIAL SOURCES FOR is kind of a slap to the face to people struggling with this irl. They could have taken this way way waaay more seriously than they did and it really grinds me man its such a prevalent issue and his influence could do so much help, instead people went for Chuck-E-Cheese's pizza for fucks sake. Thank you so so so much.
I loved reading her book on audible & listening to her story, but the one HUGE flaw in her story is that she is what? 30+ & wasn't capable of googling pregnancy prevention, let alone have common sense??
She was in love with him and truly believed he was a certified doctor. Put yourself in her shoes, she truly trusted him and his supposed job. He was a darn manipulator.
okay, she was 'in love'. I'm sure she knew that if you pull out you can still get pregnant, but at that time I think she just wasn't thinking straight. I mean, she was in a terrible relationship and she was kinda scared so I think she just went along with it. I also think that she trusted him a lot more since he was a 'doctor'.
The online dating tag is a bit ridiculous. Bad people can be found anywhere. She could have just as easily met him at Starbucks. Just bc he's a creep, doesn't mean if she had met him irl he would have been a prince charming.
she was a grown women & didn’t know that she needed to be on birth control? you’re taught in jr high & high school that the pull out method doesn’t work, was he her first partner to where she seriously wouldn’t know to be on birth control??? that part just doesn’t really make sense to me, it doesn’t take a doctor to tell a women that if she’s gonna be having sex then she needs to be on birth control???
Thank you for providing so much accurate information about human trafficking. I work with survivors of human trafficking, and so many people think it's only a cross-border issue. So many people are trafficked and exploited within their own communities. Thanks for spreading the information.
this isn't related to the video but can i just say that i very much appreciate that you add in subtitles to your videos in post so we dont have to worry about youtubes shitty automated captions. i really appreciate it and i know it means a lot to people who are HOH so even they can catch up on the tea. thank you
What I want to know is is Milos paying child support? If he is living in America and not paying child support he can go to jail. And if he's not a resident of the United States it may even get him deported. We take child support very seriously here.
Like how old was she to believe such nonsense? 12? I can be on birth control, we use a condom and he still needs to pull out! That’s how safe I’m trying to be. That’s how safe you should be if you really are not ready for a child. At 14 I knew the withdrawal method is only like 60% safe. 4/100 women safe. Women should learn to take care of themselves. But anyway, this story just got scarier. Man needs to be stopped.
You are the only "tea related" channel I love to watch everytime you upload because you talk about "gossip news" but in a serious tone and by that you educate your viewers. You have a supporter. Keep going.🙌👏
This video was honestly so well done. You put so much awareness to the situations that people NEED to be aware of. Human trafficking is my worst nightmare and I can only imagine how scary that situation was for Brittani.
The fact you do such good research, makes me love these videos. I used to online date too & I experienced a lot of weird things, that's why my friends & family wanted me to stop. Now, I really understand why. This story freaked me out.
I dont think they were trying to traffick either one of them. They were trying to kidnap the baby so his mother could raise him. I live in an area that Yugoslavian refugees were sent after the war, and this situation happens a LOT.
i can relate sm with her. like the manipulative techniques he used on her was some shit my narcissistic ex would pull on me. it’s heartbreaking that there actually are people like that out there. now im extra cautious on who i let into my life n remember if things are going very fast n if ur gut feels bad just RUN for ur own safety!!!
I used to watch only brittani’s videos when i was in middle school, she’s always been such a genuine and kind person, the fact that she went through all of this is so awful.
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Spill this is a 2M subscriber worthy channel. Tf, how do you not have at least 1M yet? Your channel is amAzing!
Girls, if you feel like a man is “off,” TRUST YOUR INSTINCT. Don’t feel obligated to be nice or “give him a chance.” You don’t owe anyone anything. Especially not someone who makes you uncomfortable.
I wish he did a whole separate documentary because jump cuts tend to make forget what was said
helga koshy Like they’re on the couch crying and it cuts to Shane eating some pizza
like creepy music & talking about her kid being sold into human trafficking and then boom shane freaking out over a fucking pizza🙄
Oh yeah
kennedy yea, it gets annoying after a while
Yeah that was super annoying. Her story was super serious and he kept putting his stupid Chuck e cheese shit in it. 🙄🙄🙄 talk about insensitive.
This video honestly got me so scared/disturbed about human trafficking. I'm so happy Brittani, her mother, and her son are safe.
I'm from Belgrade, Serbia. I have to say, I think Milos is not even Serbian.. his Serbian is not fluent and he has a heavy accent. Also Milos Mihajlovic is a veeery very common name here.. so I would assume it's not even his real name... 🤷🏻♀️
Don't ever trust someone who says "pulling out is enough protection".
Girls please always take your sexual health into your own hands. Don't listen to a man do what you think is right and always be safe.
*Sigh* If I have to hear one more grown adult bring up the "pull out method" I'm going to scream. Birth control or condoms should be the only thing in the conversation about preventing pregnancy. If your partner brings up pulling out and won't budge on it, break up with them. They're either an idiot or they're trying to get pregnant.
My only critique on her part was the contraceptive thing, never trust someone else with your sexual health; if they are a doctor or not, keep yourself safe
I’m sad her story wasn’t talked about nearly enough because it was overshadowed with the stupid Chuck E Cheese conspiracy theory, thank you for bringing more attention to this issue, there’s no one better to cover this subject but you, very well researched and in a respectful manner
I think it's easier for the older people to just ignore the topic & the young people (14 & less) probably understood it as a creepy guy that brittani ended up with, but not really understand the true depth of her story. Chuck E Cheese was an easier topic to talk about, ya know?
Yeah I was really into listening to it and then it cuts to him freaking out over pizza! He should’ve done it separately imo, as this is more important than pizza
True, this deserves MUCH more attention than that lame pizza theory. I'm sad it didn't, this is much more important.
Whats worse is Milos is MARRIED AGAIN !! The abuse lives on :(
How do u know? :(
Ikr I hope his new wife realizes who he is
Marian Towers it was said in Shane’s video
@@Danny21hd In Shanes video
really?
Many people here are like “spill the tea”. Guys this isn’t about the “tea” but she is actually trying to spread awareness about these things and this is not actually some stupid internet drama tea try to understand that.
Sneha Singh thank you, one of my dearest friends has been trafficked (her parents knew) and is still dealing with everything she thought was true, was just a lie to make her go along with minimum fuss. 💔
I remember watching her videos about Milo's and her being pregnant.. this is just insane and so so sad, i had no idea this was going on :/
That new girl milos is with better run🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
when you started to paying for your partner, that a RED FLAG.
Finally someone is talking about it omg
Is anyone else worried about the girl that he's with now??? like I wonder if she's going through the same thing or something similar....
Everyone should read her book. It was incredible and so heart breaking. Brittani is a very strong woman!
This is soooo disturbing,I’m glad Spill is the one uploading thus cause it she will do all of the research and treat this subject with respect💕. Man,this world scary🤦🏽♀️
Preach. Spill did an awesome job as always educating everyone about how careful we need when it comes to the disturbing human trafficking
nobody concerned about an adult woman believing it's a safe way to prevent a pregnancy only by him 'pulling out'? o.O
love can make you naive
She was in love with him and truly believed he was a certified doctor. Put yourself in her shoes, she trusted him and his supposed job. He was a darn manipulator.
Random Muggle I KNOW. That was absolutely frustrating that she just didn’t take any responsibility for her own body. She basically asked him what she should do. She’s an adult. You don’t ask for permission to protect your own body.
The cover for her book doesn’t match AT ALL...lmao who let her do that. It’s all cutesy and girly when the situation is very serious and happens everyday...it’s not just “another sucky love story”
I think the cover of the book is used to emphasise that relationships may look happy, jolly, and wonderful in the outside---but there's some difficulties that two or individuals may experience, even perhaps as disturbing as her story.
I think it's a book cover clickbait actually, that would entice teenagers to buy it because of the cover and tell her story.
@@sbeilin yea so they'll read it and it'll warn them the dangers
Lol true
I think it's a way for her to let her younger audience know just how bad online dating can get.
Brittani is such a sweetheart. She was so naive through this whole thing. Never blindly trust anyone.
LOLs I never thought I'd see my photo up on a video about human trafficking timestamp 24:33 oh the joys of being in a stock photography photoshoot.
I dont care how in love you are with someone. If you feel something is wrong, PAY ATTENTION TO THE RED FLAGS!!!!!
I wish he did a separate video on her. I felt like it was disrespectful and frankly, kinda disgusting that he put her story with Chuck E. Cheese shit. He gave Tana and Jake a video series but put Brittani in the middle of that conspiracy video.
Are we going to ignore the fact that not long after separating from Brittani he got another woman pregnant
It’s dumb how the Chuck E. Cheese thing was noticed more then this story
You're such an amazing storyteller, you did such a good job retelling such an important experience
**makes a video on human trafficking**
**gets barely any views**
**makes a video on Chuck E. Cheese pizza**
**gets millions of views**
Kinda pissed that he kept jump cutting from 2 different stories but it was still great
It keeps you from watching the whole thing. Im sure Shane and Andrew worked hard on editing it.
You tuber 123 I liked it. The subject is extremely heavy, especially for those that are not used to hearing about the topic. He always edited it in such a way that as soon as it was getting too heavy it would change topics. It was annoying at first, but it served as a way to keep people entertained and keep the video from getting to heavy.
I think he did that so you'd HAVE to watch the whole vid. It was annoying but smart business wise lmao
You tuber 123 me too. I was so much interested her story than the chuck cheese pizza.
Yea especially since the other 2 stories were drastically less serious than Brittani's story lol it kept ruining the mood for me. Potential human trafficking victim vs. Chuck E. Cheese pizza? Come on.
I love how much research you put into all of your videos. They’re very well put together and professional!
I can already tell this video gonna be real interesting👀👀
hoseok trbl it was, bettwr channel nowadays tbh
Omg I met my husband on tinder. I look back and think how naive I was then! Brittani is so strong for what she went through! This was a wonderful video.
Honestly Shane needs to talk more about this it's a big and important subject.
this girl seriously needed to watch more forensic files in her lifetime talk about red flags
but actually... there really were so many warning signs. too bad she didn't notice
I just can't believe that a woman of Brittani's age though "pulling out" would have been enough to prevent a pregnancy.
Before watching Shane’s video I was catfished by a guy, then after watching his video I actually deleted my dating apps off my phone. At this point I’d rather meet/date someone i know in person than over text messages.
do i pee now or pee after i watch this. i dont know.
Pee now dude
idk can you hold it in for 28 minutes and 16 seconds?
Take your phonr with you to the bathroom
Both
Got to the bathroom and keep watchng man the tea is that hot
Thank you for this! This as well applies to gay dating apps as well! Everyone be careful and do not trust what you see.
Wow. All the red flags. 🙁
Ohhh lord this again is a perfect example why Americans need better sex education.
The jumpcuts in shane's video confused me a lot I didn't understand Brittani's story, thank you for this video, it really helped to understand everything a little better
So glad you covered this, really annoyed me that people was more bothered about the pizza thing than this where a family was in real danger
This hurt. Rewatching Brittany lose her everything all cause some disgusting manipulator took so much advantage of her heart... This was the same treatment my ex fiance did to me. I don't have a massive following, or any following for that matter, but I wanted to get out my struggle. Its because of him there's no chance to cure my disease or my trauma. I hope you are happy with your new husband, J. Im sure meeting in secret was worth. Thank you Spill for sharing this story without jumps.
Have a good day y'all~♡
I hated that chuckie cheese got the attention not this story. Like human trafficking is way more important than uneven pizza
The tea is burning my tongue
Mechanical_Hexate these takis are burning my tongue
I personally wish this was a documentary on its own. This is a very important and serious situation that definitely needs to be discussed.
I don't know how to feel about these disgusting humans.
This is so much better than Shanes video. This was such a serious and scary thing that shoving it into a sometimes light hearted "documentary" didn't do it justice. I didnt bother watching his video because of all the jump cuts so im glad you made this video compiling all the points. Thank you!
Ok but guys this one is actually serious... the world is messed up..
How is this dude not detained
I think for the first time I'm subscribed to a drama channel that is cultured.
The second issue, online dating, hits home. I was groomed online by an American when I was 11, and it's left me traumatised. He said he was 16, turns out he may have been 21. He knew my social media, my town, a lot of things. He lied that he was in the military, and wanted me to travel to America or help him organise coming to the UK. He promised to help me get over my vulnerabilities and problems, but he just added to them. The things he got to do me over camera where inappropriate for my age, and he made me keep it secret from my parents, which I did for a whole year. And it's not always on dating apps or phone social media, this occurred on Xbox. I luckily got out okay before it went further; you need to be careful online, yes not everyone has ill intentions, but keep in mind the signs on both issues and act with precaution. Please be safe out there!
I'm telling you... If a real person with good personality and good background like that exist, they won't be on dating apps.
i wish this was investigated more and milos got a worse punishment
i feel so bad for britanni
Imagine disliking before it even airs jeez
i feel like barbara knew what Milos was like way before Brittani did, mums can sense it
I just finished her book yesterday, it was roller coaster but in a good way. Definitely worth the read!!
The cover of that book is such a bad uncomfortable choice for what the story actually is and how serious this issue is.. this isn't anywhere close to just "another sucky love story"
2 minutes in and I was screaming CATFISH at my screen.
And then it got worse and worse.
Thank you Spill for giving this the RIGHT attention, research, and SOURCES in the description for people to see!! Brittani and Shane kept saying they wanted to help others who may be in a similar situation yet they gave no other hindsight on the issue, what went wrong, what to look for and what not to do, and ((FREE)) sources for those who may be in immediate danger like the domestic abuse hotline ect. They just kept pushing her book which is great, yay I'm glad for you having written about your experience and all but to spend money in order to get insight on something there are OFFICIAL SOURCES FOR is kind of a slap to the face to people struggling with this irl. They could have taken this way way waaay more seriously than they did and it really grinds me man its such a prevalent issue and his influence could do so much help, instead people went for Chuck-E-Cheese's pizza for fucks sake. Thank you so so so much.
Getting rid of her home just proves he was going to take her. No attachments the easier it would be
I wish people brought human trafficking to light more to tell people what things to look out for and such.
I loved reading her book on audible & listening to her story, but the one HUGE flaw in her story is that she is what? 30+ & wasn't capable of googling pregnancy prevention, let alone have common sense??
minabeana THANK YOU! I thought I was the only one thinking this!
She was in love with him and truly believed he was a certified doctor. Put yourself in her shoes, she truly trusted him and his supposed job. He was a darn manipulator.
okay, she was 'in love'. I'm sure she knew that if you pull out you can still get pregnant, but at that time I think she just wasn't thinking straight. I mean, she was in a terrible relationship and she was kinda scared so I think she just went along with it. I also think that she trusted him a lot more since he was a 'doctor'.
The online dating tag is a bit ridiculous. Bad people can be found anywhere. She could have just as easily met him at Starbucks. Just bc he's a creep, doesn't mean if she had met him irl he would have been a prince charming.
This was more interesting than the Chuck E. Cheese theory, change my mind.
Thanks for reading the book sections and also doing the research. Wish shane had done it like this tbh
How is this Chanel not @ one million subs yet
this was better than shane’s video. Which was rushed and didnt make sense with all those jump cuts
the worst part is that she is only one of many victims
Gladly her son is healthy today. All this stress could've harm him in the womb!
This is why I wanna stay single and just adopt a child in the future :)
I'm running a bubble bath for this one
Dear lord this whole human trafficking topic is terrifying.
she was a grown women & didn’t know that she needed to be on birth control? you’re taught in jr high & high school that the pull out method doesn’t work, was he her first partner to where she seriously wouldn’t know to be on birth control??? that part just doesn’t really make sense to me, it doesn’t take a doctor to tell a women that if she’s gonna be having sex then she needs to be on birth control???
Thank you for providing so much accurate information about human trafficking. I work with survivors of human trafficking, and so many people think it's only a cross-border issue. So many people are trafficked and exploited within their own communities. Thanks for spreading the information.
this isn't related to the video but can i just say that i very much appreciate that you add in subtitles to your videos in post so we dont have to worry about youtubes shitty automated captions. i really appreciate it and i know it means a lot to people who are HOH so even they can catch up on the tea. thank you
Thanks for that video.
I now want to read her book so bad.
Your channel is literally my favorite on TH-cam right now.... amazing!!! So informative but captivating!!! ❤️👏🏽
Im here, im listening, and im ready for some piping hot tea
this dude is making rest of serbia look bad. Ew.
Thank you for censoring the childs face. I don't know why Brittani doesn't do that in her videos if she is so concerned about his safety.
What I want to know is is Milos paying child support? If he is living in America and not paying child support he can go to jail. And if he's not a resident of the United States it may even get him deported. We take child support very seriously here.
Like how old was she to believe such nonsense? 12? I can be on birth control, we use a condom and he still needs to pull out! That’s how safe I’m trying to be. That’s how safe you should be if you really are not ready for a child.
At 14 I knew the withdrawal method is only like 60% safe. 4/100 women safe. Women should learn to take care of themselves.
But anyway, this story just got scarier. Man needs to be stopped.
Damn, dude. I remember watching Brittani's videos with Milos, and being happy for her, thinking she had a good guy. That's scary as hell.
This whole story made me angry. The injustice is too much!
I going to buy that book now, honestly like a horror story.
You are the only "tea related" channel I love to watch everytime you upload because you talk about "gossip news" but in a serious tone and by that you educate your viewers. You have a supporter. Keep going.🙌👏
Spill: *talks about human trafficing in USA
Me: Oh Dang I guess I'm moving to canada-
Spill: it not that better in canada :(
Me: $h*t darn it
This video was honestly so well done. You put so much awareness to the situations that people NEED to be aware of. Human trafficking is my worst nightmare and I can only imagine how scary that situation was for Brittani.
This is terrifyingly real. Thank you for laying out the facts and for Brittani for being so brave.
So many red flags, but love or the need to be loved truly makes blind.
The fact you do such good research, makes me love these videos.
I used to online date too & I experienced a lot of weird things, that's why my friends & family wanted me to stop. Now, I really understand why. This story freaked me out.
I dont think they were trying to traffick either one of them. They were trying to kidnap the baby so his mother could raise him. I live in an area that Yugoslavian refugees were sent after the war, and this situation happens a LOT.
That wouldn't explain him wanting to take her close-up picture.
I'm excited for this video! I don't follow Shane Dawson so I don't know exactly what this is about, but it seems _very_ interesting.
You're missing out.
She is such a good writer. Her book was great. She is so amazing and deserves better. Glad she is safe now.
The info about human trafficking at the end makes me think of this R.Kelly insanity....
i can relate sm with her. like the manipulative techniques he used on her was some shit my narcissistic ex would pull on me. it’s heartbreaking that there actually are people like that out there. now im extra cautious on who i let into my life n remember if things are going very fast n if ur gut feels bad just RUN for ur own safety!!!
I used to watch only brittani’s videos when i was in middle school, she’s always been such a genuine and kind person, the fact that she went through all of this is so awful.