i occasionally wear surplus military wear, i must be a soldier. (reason is airsoft. also british surplus pants are comfy and soft. get a pair if you can.)
This is actually addressed in the book Come As You Are. Kurt said he did shit like that to piss off the homophobic metal heads that sometimes made up his fanbase. Had zero to do with being trans.
Well there ya go then. So proof that this person is wrong. And in other cases it could be someone is a drag queen or just more comfortable at times, like in warmer weather.
That bloke is really strange, I've seen him in restaurants recording himself being offended. You may have ringlets and wear girls clothing but just a glance at his face says, man. Our evolution over thousands of years has taught us to identify the obvious, not easily changed because I guy dons a dress and calls himself Mary.
As someone who is trans I have three thoughts 1. Can we please stop with this "I speak on for all (insert whatever group here)" behavior. No, you speak for yourself and most people think you're unhinged. 2. The only person who knew if Kurt Cobain had gender dysphoria is Kurt Cobain. And unless he said otherwise, you can't make assumptions on his behalf. 3. I honestly feel the only reason people like this individual want Kurt to be trans is so they can use that as validation for themselves. For the sake or argument, we'll say Kurt was trans (though he wasn't). They'll say, "Oh, you liked Kurt Cobain, that means you should like all trans people." No, people liked him for who he was and what he did. If you want people to see good in you, give them a reason.
This nutcase definitely deserves karma. Number 3 is just like JoJo Siwa a toxic person called Prince and Michael Jackson gay but in her brainless head both was straight.
This is the typical case where people need validation from famous people being the same as they are. And they'll twist facts, words and whatever else they find just to make'm fit in their narrative with a sledgehammer if necessary.
The older I get, the higher the percentage of people it seem just twist everything to fit their narrative. It's called Semmelweiss Reflex. Very messed up.
yep, I flagged this in my comment as well (and I'm actually partially defending the OOP as I don't think their theory is completely invalid... I don't agree with it, but I think they make some points) But the biggest sense that their claims are BS is that Kurt never tried to push alternative pronouns, and if he did, Dave Grohl is definitely the kind of person who would have respected them and used them. And he doesn't. Listen to Dave Grohl in any interview where he talks about Kurt. Always referred to him as a 'he'.
Right?! Like from what I understand it's how they identify THEMSELVES. This jackass doesn't realize he's doing the very thing right-wingers do to trans people purposely misgendering another human being to fit their narratives & agenda.
Huh ! Lady J this person embarrassed me 💯% My question is why is he wearing this then ? What a hypocrite. That's one of the reasons why there's so much divisions in the transgender & LGBT & Q communities. So what if Kurt Cobain did wear a dress And ? Another turnoff for me. Be real . You're wearing it Does it make you comfortable ? So why the criticism to come out you totally confuse me at the same infuriating me.😡 But I'm on to these damned games to on this subject to. Lady J They sure know how to make ones day don't they ? 😱🤣
I used to use clear nailpolish. Bought a few tampons for my personal use once. ... Played bass guitar (hard on the nails!) and shoved tampons... ...up my nose when the hayfever induced nosebleed just didn't stop basically.
I am gay, but not trans and I wear some women’s clothes. Not usually dresses, but tshirts, jeans, shoes and other random things. I’m very small and I like the way a lot of the clothing fits. There’s nothing wrong with being trans, but I think we have to be careful to assume things for other people.
Poor Kurt . Kurt would definitely have something to say about people like that and it would be like the rising sun above a field of snowflakes, melting them away with it´s harsh and unforgiving brightness .
You all forget the law of the land now!! What was "treat thy neighbor as you would be treated" has now changed to " THE RULES FOR THEE ARE NOT THE RULES FOR ME IN THE NAME OF TOLERANCE!!!"
Steven Tyler of AREOSMITH said in an interview that he wore some of his daughter’s clothes for his Performances … I am pretty sure he was not gay or trans … Just another Flamboyant Performer
The real crime here was forcing her to go through male puberty. We wouldn't have had this speech, I can tell you that, because she'd have had a lot less to try and justify.
I have an accessory I carry with my outfit that contains a multitool with one sharp edge and a bottle opener. I must be a raging alcoholic murderer. Damn. Never knew.
if i wear a tunic they gonna call me trans? cause i know they have no idea what a tunic is. even though tunics are cool, and good for forest camouflage, especially with a drab cloak. people are dumb and i love the sass. keep going, can never get enough of a good laugh.
Cobain wasn't the first singer to wear women's clothing and or make up. Bowie, Boland and most of the British glam rockers did in the 60s and early 70s.
LADY J. I LOVE YOU!!! Yes, I know I am entirely out of line, but i so enjoy you calmly destroying bad logic wherever you find it. And the fact that you have a voice that reminds of the rapacious Kathleen Turner or Lauren Bacall makes you all the more alluring - even as you may not trying to be so. I so look forward to your future vignettes. We in San Antonio, adore you. Keep up the awesome service you bring to the isse of dating issue.
I had a friend who was goth he painted his nails, and I asked why do you paint your nails He answered because I can and because it's cool, he passed away recently so for his memory I painted my nails, so when I was asked why I painted my nails, I said because I can and because it's cool...rest in peace bro
I wear running shoes, I must be a marathoner.
Congratulations I hope you win your next race👍
Damn.
As a White 37yo male, I am gonna put on my jordans. Does that make me a 61 year old baskeball goat 😮? Who is also a billionair
U funny
i occasionally wear surplus military wear, i must be a soldier.
(reason is airsoft. also british surplus pants are comfy and soft. get a pair if you can.)
These people need mental help with their hypocrisy.
Lots of mental help...
on the 'island of misfits'.
Jeffrey Walker I agree.
Ironic that they choose Kurt in two ways, mental health and self-deletion…
that/it just needs mental help, PERIOD! freakazoid!
I wear high heels, suspenders, and a bra.
I must be a lumberjack.
Do sleep all night and work all day?
@@petersimpson4648 yeah, and I'm ok. :)
@@mikey92362 Dammit! I was gonna come comment "But you're okay" only to find my entire joke was told nearly 2 weeks ago xD
And that's ok.
Sleep all night and work all day.
High heels were originally for certain men a long time ago.
Don't misgender me!!!!.
But I will label people I do not know any way I want.
Yes! He not they! Hypocrite
This is actually addressed in the book Come As You Are. Kurt said he did shit like that to piss off the homophobic metal heads that sometimes made up his fanbase. Had zero to do with being trans.
Well there ya go then. So proof that this person is wrong. And in other cases it could be someone is a drag queen or just more comfortable at times, like in warmer weather.
I came here to post exactly this, saw I had been beaten to it. Happily moved on.
Their claims are all pre-written...
Wow! Imagine when that person finds that out. They will hate Kurt then and go on a tirade about that lol
well, nobody ever said Nirvana was intelligent
or maybe its cuz Kurt was pharmaceutical connoisseur
😂😂😂
That bloke is really strange, I've seen him in restaurants recording himself being offended. You may have ringlets and wear girls clothing but just a glance at his face says, man. Our evolution over thousands of years has taught us to identify the obvious, not easily changed because I guy dons a dress and calls himself Mary.
exactly
He must have been an amateur pharmacist.
I wear cargo pants and a tactical MOLLE pack for work.
I must be Special Ops.
You still need NODS my guy. You're almost there.
@@solusaldrain Does an IFAK and an armoured backplate inside the backpack count ?
@@AntalopeAUT nice! That's a good start.
Try wearing a dress along with that tactical molle pack tough guy and I'll feel your sincerity.
I thought that was the lesbians uniform?
As someone who is trans I have three thoughts
1. Can we please stop with this "I speak on for all (insert whatever group here)" behavior. No, you speak for yourself and most people think you're unhinged.
2. The only person who knew if Kurt Cobain had gender dysphoria is Kurt Cobain. And unless he said otherwise, you can't make assumptions on his behalf.
3. I honestly feel the only reason people like this individual want Kurt to be trans is so they can use that as validation for themselves. For the sake or argument, we'll say Kurt was trans (though he wasn't). They'll say, "Oh, you liked Kurt Cobain, that means you should like all trans people." No, people liked him for who he was and what he did. If you want people to see good in you, give them a reason.
This nutcase definitely deserves karma. Number 3 is just like JoJo Siwa a toxic person called Prince and Michael Jackson gay but in her brainless head both was straight.
Bravo! You nailed it...thank you
"I speak for the trees, for the trees have no tongues."
The Lorax never seemed to understand just how he was beclowning himself.
I just love your sarcasm. Really calm and anger tone free.
This is the typical case where people need validation from famous people being the same as they are. And they'll twist facts, words and whatever else they find just to make'm fit in their narrative with a sledgehammer if necessary.
It's nice to have one REAL WOMAN in this conversation LADY J. The second whatever should wear a full face mask preferably that of a clown.
The older I get, the higher the percentage of people it seem just twist everything to fit their narrative. It's called Semmelweiss Reflex. Very messed up.
The mental gymnastics this person does to arrive at their conclusions are gold medal level.
They want to be special and normal and end up being neither 😂
Why does he keep calling Kurt "they"? He never asked for that. Btw Kurt ended himself. He had a lot of issues.
It’s how one rewrites history … publish your agenda, erase/rewrite history to match. The younger generation never has a chance once social media hit.
Yeah. We’ve gone from, “respect my pronouns and don’t make assumptions”, to, “I can tell people what their pronouns are”.
That ending is statistically congruent.
yeah - issue #1 being the beekch he married!
yep, I flagged this in my comment as well (and I'm actually partially defending the OOP as I don't think their theory is completely invalid... I don't agree with it, but I think they make some points)
But the biggest sense that their claims are BS is that Kurt never tried to push alternative pronouns, and if he did, Dave Grohl is definitely the kind of person who would have respected them and used them. And he doesn't. Listen to Dave Grohl in any interview where he talks about Kurt. Always referred to him as a 'he'.
I don't remember their being a gender assignment fairy that visits every newborn and assigns them a gender.
Right?! Like from what I understand it's how they identify THEMSELVES. This jackass doesn't realize he's doing the very thing right-wingers do to trans people purposely misgendering another human being to fit their narratives & agenda.
I once heard someone say "Stupidity doesn't discriminate". It IS true!
Bear in mind…Kurt Cobain was an addict.
Yeah, maybe not the best role model to point to.
And a proven liar. "...Well I swear that I don't have a gun...".
@@vulture3874 to be fair that's just a song lyric, not a legal statement lol
I wore a dress shirt, I guess I'm a top-of-the-line business man
This person is sick. Seeing him I can't help but remember the "Silence of the lambs" movie. Creepy af
Exactly
These are people living outside of reality.
Lady J won't be offended if I say - you're a damn good looking girl! x
I wear denim , ergo I'm a cowboy... 😂
No you're not. Where is your coyboy hat? 😂
@@jackkraken3888 I left it in the bunkhouse...
Or Canadian…
By his "logic," I'm Cybertronian because I wear an Optimus Prime hoodie sometimes.
I love that Lady J mentions “confirmation bias”. It’s everywhere.
Huh ! Lady J this person embarrassed me 💯% My question is why is he wearing this then ? What a hypocrite. That's one of the reasons why there's so much divisions in the transgender & LGBT & Q communities. So what if Kurt Cobain did wear a dress And ? Another turnoff for me. Be real . You're wearing it Does it make you comfortable ? So why the criticism to come out you totally confuse me at the same infuriating me.😡 But I'm on to these damned games to on this subject to.
Lady J They sure know how to make ones day don't they ? 😱🤣
Fashion is a social construct
Dude did it as a joke. Plain and simple.
OUTING ALPHABET ILLNESS
@Daathiel is that greek or egyptian?
This guy is mental.
I used to use clear nailpolish. Bought a few tampons for my personal use once.
...
Played bass guitar (hard on the nails!) and shoved tampons...
...up my nose when the hayfever induced nosebleed just didn't stop basically.
The weaklings have become the bullies.
Well, a popular saying back in the day was “A bully is really a coward.”
Projection in its perfect form.
Ur not "assigned" at birth, ur IDENTIFIED AT BIRTH!
Kurt Cobain just pranked that man
Kurt saw the future, our present! And took the logical action!❤
I ha e been following you for a minute. I like you! Thank you for bringing common sense back. Keep up the good work!
Love you J, but I will never be able to unsee that clip.
You are the greatest of all. Smart calm and funny. Wonderful. Thank you for being here.
Kurt was woke - he’d probably support all this crap
No doubt 😂
Dear Lady J, more of your voice please
the v is in the house. he may have done it for shock value.
Kurt Cobain trans lol nah he was just high AF most of the time
Exactly
I'm so sick of all these twisted gender crusaders.
That dude The Lady J makes a great looking woman.
Damn you’re good!❤
Oh Lady_J! You rock!!
I’ve worn jeans that could convert to shorts as a teenager, so that must mean I’m a Transformer.
The punk that went against societal norms wore a dress? What? No. Impossible.
There's no doubt about it one way or another this dude is going to be a headline one day
I can't stand that narcissist.
I’m here Lady J
I am gay, but not trans and I wear some women’s clothes. Not usually dresses, but tshirts, jeans, shoes and other random things. I’m very small and I like the way a lot of the clothing fits. There’s nothing wrong with being trans, but I think we have to be careful to assume things for other people.
Didn't catch the name reference till I saw your wall.
Love the work! Fire for effect, Ma'am!
Many feel this way, there are entire communities based around it...
Kurt Cobain was a supersimp with oneitis for narcissist Courtney Love. He who swallowed the feminist poison pill. Those things combined ended him.
Imagine lecturing people whilst looking like you're about to go into an audition for one flew over...
Poor Kurt .
Kurt would definitely have something to say about people like that and it would be like the rising sun above a field of snowflakes, melting them away with it´s harsh and unforgiving brightness .
It puts the lotion on its skin
You all forget the law of the land now!! What was "treat thy neighbor as you would be treated" has now changed to " THE RULES FOR THEE ARE NOT THE RULES FOR ME IN THE NAME OF TOLERANCE!!!"
It's pretty easy to look at the past and make up a hypothesis. Humans seem to love doing that and then basing life on it.
I just liked the music It's a shame his work was even mentioned by that silly person. rest in peace kurt.
Love your content and subscribed
Academic gymnastics Olympics gold medalist
What does Caitlin Jenner have to do with this?
I wear a baseball cap, I must be a professional baseball player
Or maybe because he stayed so F 'd up that he didn't realize what closet he was in😂😂😂
Oh this guy…yeah he likes to pretend to be a teenage girl so he can get close to teenage girls changing at swim meets. 🙄😬
Steven Tyler of AREOSMITH said in an interview that he wore some of his daughter’s clothes for his Performances … I am pretty sure he was not gay or trans … Just another Flamboyant Performer
The real crime here was forcing her to go through male puberty. We wouldn't have had this speech, I can tell you that, because she'd have had a lot less to try and justify.
No: The brilliant reason Kurt sometimes wore women’s clothes onstage was to make the jocks/fratboys in the audience uncomfortable/angry.
I have an accessory I carry with my outfit that contains a multitool with one sharp edge and a bottle opener. I must be a raging alcoholic murderer. Damn. Never knew.
You know, Botox is supposed to be a helper, not a way of life.
Ozzy wore a dress,then he peed on the Alamo
if i wear a tunic they gonna call me trans? cause i know they have no idea what a tunic is. even though tunics are cool, and good for forest camouflage, especially with a drab cloak.
people are dumb and i love the sass. keep going, can never get enough of a good laugh.
I love your logic.
Accusing someone of something when they are not able to defend themselves just to prove your own narrative, is the lowest.
Kurt also used a shotgun for depression so…
Cobain wasn't the first singer to wear women's clothing and or make up.
Bowie, Boland and most of the British glam rockers did in the 60s and early 70s.
Thank you so much for this.
The Dress is a humiliation Ritual..
Is she wearing a Gojo shirt😍
Kurt also had psychological problems and self deleted,
dresses weren't the answer to his problems.
Your videos are based. Love your keeping it 💯 as a woman. We need more of you in the world. TY for what you do.
I think that dude is nothing but a box of Fruit Loops
Love your videos
They need to watch Monty Python skits. Eric Idle looks stunning in a dress, but hardly trans, or gay.
I am Scottish. I sometimes wear a kilt to events like weddings. I didn’t realize that I am trans.
Lmao I don't think Cobain was trans he just wore dresses to get a reaction from interviewers
I wear a baseball cap, therefore I can play for the Dodgers.
When on earth are Women gonna 🎬 fight back against lunacy
His mother and father failed him. Be careful out there .
And “Heart Shaped Box” was about Whaaat? 😂
Hail to the J!
LADY J. I LOVE YOU!!! Yes, I know I am entirely out of line, but i so enjoy you calmly destroying bad logic wherever you find it. And the fact that you have a voice that reminds of the rapacious Kathleen Turner or Lauren Bacall makes you all the more alluring - even as you may not trying to be so. I so look forward to your future vignettes. We in San Antonio, adore you. Keep up the awesome service you bring to the isse of dating issue.
I wear a shirt and tie to work, I guess I must be the president of the United States of America.
Holy sh*t I didn’t know Kurt was a ‘they’😂
There are many of him.
And you have beautiful blue eyes!
He personally knew Kurt Cobain? 😂
I had a friend who was goth he painted his nails, and I asked why do you paint your nails
He answered because I can and because it's cool, he passed away recently so for his memory I painted my nails,
so when I was asked why I painted my nails, I said because I can and because it's cool...rest in peace bro
Lady J ❤
Milton Berle. Done.
True.