My husband who I had been with for 20 years got very sick and spent months in ICU on breathing machines. I lived at Grant hospital in the ICU wtg room for 37 days at one point. This was one of the last songs he sent me from the hospital. He passed away one month before our 20 year anniversary on March 30th 2019. My house will never feel like home without him. We had 5 children together and our 16 year old son looks like him. Ppl say that it gets easier as time goes on, but for me, it's not any easier today than it was the night I watched him take his last breath. Idk if ppl actually read these comments or not. But if you did thanks for taking time out of your day to read this. John I love you and I miss you and I hope you're the 1st face I get to see when it's my time to go.
God bless you and your family. You have my sincerest condolences. Close your eyes and breathe deep, as now spiritually your husband is more by your side than ever before.
So sorry for your loss, I usually never read comments on songs I listen to but I clicked yours and read the whole thing and it put tears in my eyes, I couldn’t imagine what your going through and nobody should expect something like that to get easier but I no what you mean when they say it gets easier but I don’t think it would.
Just stay strong I miss my daughter every day so I understand how u feel every room in your house is a memory he would want you to just remember the good times
Wow, I'm sooo sorry for your loss I'm praying for you.! Just hold on and as much as you want to be alone and push people away don't you need them just as much as they need you. You got this just keep holding on
My heart dropped reading this I’m so sorry for your lose I just came back from my nans funeral and this song is helping me I hope it helps u stay strong
My dad abused me for ten years. I was four years old when it first happened. He beat, tortured and humiliated me. He nearly killed me three times. I was bullied because I had to wear the clothes of my sisters. Three years ago my Mum committed suicide. Sometimes I don’t know how to breathe. But, I am here. I survived hell. To all those out there undergoing the same: never give up! You are not alone! There are so many of us. We are warriors! Please stay strong!
I told my ex if four years I cheated couldn’t lie to her no more lost the best thing in my life currently I feel so lost but I know I did the right thing idc how ya feel I shouldn’t be hurting but I am I love you Andrea
Reading the comments in this video while listening to the song was truly heartbreaking. To anyone reading this, please stay strong! we don't know each other, but in case you need this: I believe in you. You can do it. You can get through it. You're strong enough. You're worthy.
Reading these comments 2 days after the second year of my mom’s passing 😢there’s so many of us sharing our pain, receiving love and encouragement… I’m just in awe that in all of our differences and not knowing one another, we’ll not just scroll by those feeling alone, we stop and relate and love on the heartbroken. It truly restores my heart and faith in this cold world that as a collective of strangers, we can still show love to one another when needing it. God’s richest blessings ❤
Why is it that as real and apparently obvious as this comment is people choose ignorance a blindness to fellow humans? With all the knowledge and resources available to be prioritized and allocated "appropriately" there would still be pain and suffering, but not unnecessarily. Greed and corruption is rampantly out of control.
I’m in the fight for my life with brain cancer. Doctors said I should have been dead a month ago.. I’m still going praise Jesus. This song is helping me through some dark times
@@sentinelrevolutionist9798 i hate that feeling ur throat hurt chest tight ur eyes are on the brink of tears im a childhood abuse survivor but its left its scars i now have cptsd and my life hasnt been easy since
Came across this song via tik tok December 2024. Reminded me of my dad and I instantly went to TH-cam to play it. Started crying at work. Been over a year and still can’t comprehend losing him. I love you dad.
My beautiful husband played this song over and over before he died. He was beautiful, amazing, my true love. He wasn't unsteady, just sick, in pain. I never let go until now. I'm healed and ready. He would want that. God bless to all of you who have lost someone who felt unsteady.
"It ran in the family, until it ran into me." To everyone out there struggling with generational trauma: YOU CAN BREAK THE CYCLE. It doesn't have to continue through you. Find a therapist, find support, find books, find God, find friends who can help. Surround yourself with people who can push you out of the circumstances you were raised in. I grew up in an abusive house that left me with psychological and emotional scars, but I fought tooth and nail to recover from the crap that went on. I'm now married to a wonderful guy and we're expecting our first baby. This baby will be raised in a peaceful, nonviolent home, one where they are cherished and loved every day of their life. I know I won't be a perfect parent, but I determined years ago that I would be the link in the chain that would allow itself to be broken. The chain stopped with me. It can stop with you, too. I'm praying for you.
I was raised in an abusive home with alcohol n drugs n although im not in a household with alcohol n drugs I do find myself in a domestic violence situation that I cant seem to get out of cuz of financial n no support unfortunately from outside fam n friends, mean they say leave but where r they to help... n we r pregnant with our first his 4th but my first lol n hes already out his hands on me pregnant so I feel as though he doesn't deserve to b a father he swears he will change but his anger isn't only problem hes controlling possessive aggressive n a liar n a cheater not physically but through social media n I wanna leave n ive tried but he won't let me n he won't keave either. I never thought id find myself in this situation ever but here I am lol. I use to volunteer n help families n women in my situation now n I never try understood why they would stay never understood why my mom did but now I get it n I hate it. But I still care n love him n I feel guilty for tryin to leave... I know its crazy but I feel psychologically fucked in a sense. But bless u that u got away from it all n dealt with it. I thought I had to until I found myself with this one n he was so perfect too perfect to b true n I kept thinking that but we have known eachother from highschool n he had anger issues but never laid hand on his ex wife so I never thought he would me but he says he love sme so much I drive him crazy... once again flipping the blame on me. Im just so tired feeling bad n if I leave he threatens his own life and what not. Like its a psychological roller coaster that ive been drawn into like a maze n cant find my way out of. But so happy for u n urs. Best wishes n many blessings for u n ur lil one.
@@heatherhigman1132 I was in a domestically abusive relationship too. Girl, you deserve to get out. You're trapped right now in a cycle of dependency and control and I am PRAYING you get out of there. You and your baby deserve SO MUCH BETTER. There is a man out there just waiting to treat you like the queen that you are, who won't manipulate you or make you feel crazy and who will NEVER make you feel unsafe. I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. But please know that finances are no reason to stay trapped there. Is there a women's shelter somewhere nearby? You don't have to pay to use one and they can help you figure out how to get on your feet and take care of your baby free of this guy. Please, please, please take that leap of faith. You have such a beautiful future ahead of you but you have to start running for it.
December 2024 anyone It's crazy how music can say everything you're feeling when you can't find the words yourself. To anyone reading this: you're not alone. Keep going, even when it feels impossible. ❤️
anyone else feel so broken that no matter how good your life is going you still feel like nothing can fullfill that empy space in your heart and your chest just never stops hurting?
I used to play this song while in active addiction and now on May 26, 2024 I will be 2 years clean 🙌🏽🙏🏽❤️ I was crying out to God to please keep holding on to me and not let me die I was definitely UNSTEADY at the time I will forever love this song
You came into my life. April 25th 2020, you left 4 years later on the same day. You were the best example of the care and love i was truly capable of. I miss you my son.
Here, here... I’m just finding things out with my marriage, I was already dealing with depression and things going on in my life, myself. We never fought, we laughed and always got along. I feel so weak but have to bring strong for my three babies.
i feel like this really hits when your parents hurt you so much but you know that they've been through so much trauma and have their own things to work out and they don't know any better
My dad has being through a lot when he was a child, he practically raised himself, and he never did anything to hurt us, he doesn't smoke, drink or do drugs. When people do that it's bc they want to, there are no excuses.
you dont have to justify abuse, not even if they have trauma or they have benn abused or when they were little that was okay because that is wrong, abuse can never be justified
gut wrenching feeling when your falling apart and realize you have no one to comfort you or at least hold you. my heart goes out to all those out there going through a tough time and feeling/dealing with it alone.
Same feeling. I know there are worst situations than mine..So I continue to pray for those. I'm having a hard time right now...Friends and family are everything.
juic388 just lost a friend very dear to my heart. sad way to go but he has peace and that's all I'd ever ask for him. reach out in your darkest hour there are so many admiring you and love you. keep your head up and your heart open. lv & respect. takes one to know one. we hear you. I hear you. 💜💔
I just lost my sister. 38 years in life as adopted siblings. Ups. Downs. Both our families let us go, but we always had each other. I miss her. Life got to be to much for her. I couldn't be there. Pay attention to those you love and hold on close.
This reminds me of my dad growing up. Was always taught to view him as the villain not understanding at the time that this is a sickness. He always worked and provided for the family, but drank himself into a depressive state until he took his own life when I was 13. True he could have made better choices early on, but once alcoholism gets a hold, it’s hard to shake off. Though people act crazy when they get drunk and determinate mentally over time, they are still people in the end. Any time I see someone struggling with any addiction I feel that sadness for my father. I always want to help, but ultimately they have to be willing to help themselves.
I'm so very sorry for your loss. It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders with a sweet soul. Don't change...the world needs more people like that. ❤
Myself and my husband both struggled with addiction for years. This song still reminds me of standing in the kitchen when he was at his worst. I thought I lost him forever. Today we are years sober with 2 beautiful girls 2 cars and a beautiful house. I’ll never take a day for granted.
This was my husband's favorite song. He passed away 5 days ago at 6:24pm on 12-12-2021 unexpectedly. At the hospital, he took his last breath with 3 seconds left on this song. My heart is shattered. We were married for 26 years and we were high school sweethearts.
I'm so sorry for your loss. My husband also loved this song. This was one of the last songs he sent me from the hospital. He passed away on March 30th 2019 one month before our 20th anniversary. I will always cherish this song. I never left his side. Not even for one night. I slept) lived in the ICU wtg room for 37 days. I feel so lost without him. I'm not sure if I even know who I am without him. I spent my entire adult life with him. We were definitely soul mates so I know if there is life after death I will see him again one day. Until then I can see him in our 4 boys and daughter. I hope you can find your peace too. Thank you for sharing
“If you love me, Don’t let go” I was saying this 1000x in the back of my mind .. waiting outside my Dad’s ICU room .. hoping that My father hears my appeals and stay alive.. he couldn’t . .. RIP my hero. See you in heaven inshallah.. Love you more than anything
Growing up in a dysfunctional family with abuse and rape...this song hits too hard. For anyone reading. I want you to know that you can grow and become what you want most. You can do anything you want with your life, you do not have to be that person they make you. This is your life, and as hard as it hurts you can do it no matter what
Feeling your pain was doing so good need to learn to think with the mind not my heart. Never get over what happened but the episodes do lessen as time passes. still healing the wounded mind 17 years later . Earliest memory's try to gorget. Forgiving was so hard. Thought at age 30 and being my own man would make it a distant memory. Still weaves through cracks and spills out from time to time
This song has me in tears. I'm literally watching my father slowly die, from cancer. It's so hard, pretending that everything is ok. I try so hard to be strong for him. I'm his only daughter/child. So I'm all he has, and vice versa. Idk how I'm gonna survive without him. Lord, I ask you to wrap your healing arms around him. Let him stay with me, just a little while longer. Amen! I don't want to be selfish. But man, does this hurt! I just want to tell him "I love you Daddy!" I'm just afraid he won't say it back, or will say "me too". God, help me!
Hey if you don't mind.. can I know what stage and type of cancer your dad's in? I may be able to help.. very familiar with cancer unfortunately. But I might still be able to help
I'm a mom. I just want to give you all a hug, tell you that you matter even though we don't know each other, and lift you up. You matter. Please remember that. There's evil in this world, but you are the light that shines through and makes it a better place.
Abby can we be friends?! I'm constantly singing this little light of mine to my kids. I truly believe we all have light in ours souls meant to shine for ourselves and to help others find their way thru the darkness or shadows.
Pain is sumthing that’s doesn’t goes away cuz it sumthing that u learn from grow from n eventually heal from.! Choosing to hold on to the pain is a choice as well.! Your dad isn’t gone truly, he with u everywhere u go, he’s in ur heart n wherever also whenever u need him he’ll be there for u.! Cherish n hold on to the good times n keep him close to u that’s how he will live forever.! Grieve n take ur time just don’t stay gone too long cuz ur father wouldn’t want u sad n lost over the pain of him being physically gone.! My condolences, it’s always tough losing sum1 very close I know the thing is tho in the end God calls us back cause our time is up n we served the purpose we was on earth for.! When we our done earth our true happiness is brought back to n all the suffering ends when we return back to God.!
I also lost my dad 5 years ago after a life long battle with addiction. It never gets easier but you learn how to be stronger. Whoever said time heals all wounds is a liar. Keep pushing on make your dad proud
I believe this song resonates with the struggles of those facing immense challenges. From the comments here, it seems many of us turn to it after experiencing the loss of a loved one. I lost my beloved younger brother just a year ago. He was only 21. One moment he was with us, and the next, he lost consciousness, collapsed, and passed away. I still don’t know how to cope with it-how to keep going without understanding what happened, or whether something similar could happen to me or my children. My heart is broken. My dad suffered a heart attack and had to undergo open-heart surgery soon after. Our family feels incomplete like we've lost an irreplaceable part of ourselves that held us together. I hope that one day, we’ll find a way to feel joy again.
emotion incarnate! i lost my dad 5 years ago and this song brings out so much emotion in me... "mother i know... your tired of being alone... daddy i know your tryin... to fight when you feel like flyin" this line hits me hard, losing my father to cancer was hard...
Hale Valen I feel your pain, man. I lost my father 5 years ago, as well. It was from a work related accident. I didn't grieved much for him, but only because I wanted to be strong. For him, and my mom and sister.
Jonathan i did the same, i became the rock that everyone could depend on, i distanced my emotions so i could be their support. same deal... looking back i should have let myself fall apart too
This song just hits on so many different levels. You're the real MVP if you're still listening in 2021. And remember always. You're never alone! Stay strong
Just been to the DC concert on Saturday. The played Unsteady. I cried through the whole performance. It broke and healded something inside me at the same time.
This song means many things to me... I had some really dark years with deaths, lots of drugs, suicidal depression etc. I turned to God and got sober and know I wouldn't be here today if I hadn't. The chorus really reminds me of God's unending love for me, even through all of the bad times and when I was unlovable. He sent me a loving wife that I didn't deserve who has shown me unconditional love and grace that I have never known. We just welcomed our 1st child last year (our son, Ian, which means "gift from God") and I am so thankful for the opportunity to become a husband and father. So, I hear the chorus from the perspective of my son as well - telling me he needs me to teach him about life, show him the right ways and never give up on him. I haven't had a song affect me so personally in a long time. Amazing!
amazing brother! im a veteran with so many stories i can relate too military friends, own and family, its such a heartfelt song, definitely good music. God Bless!
Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Mama, come here Approach, appear Daddy, I'm alone 'Cause this house don't feel like home If you love me, don't let go Whoa, if you love me, don't let go Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Mother, I know That you're tired of being alone Dad, I know you're trying To fight when you feel like flying But if you love me, don't let go Whoa, if you love me, don't let go Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady
X Ambassadors - Inseguro Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí, porque soy un poco inseguro, (unsteady) un poco inseguro. Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí, porque soy un poco inseguro, un poco inseguro. Mamá, ven aquí, acércate, aparece. Papá, estoy solo, porque esta casa no parece un hogar. Si me quieres, no te sueltes. Oh, si me quieres, no te sueltes. Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí, porque soy un poco inseguro, un poco inseguro. Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí, porque soy un poco inseguro, un poco inseguro. Madre, sé que estás cansada de estar sola. Padre, sé que estás intentando luchar cuando lo que te apetece es volar (feel like) Pero si me quieres, no te sueltes. Oh, si me quieres, no te sueltes. Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí, porque soy un poco inseguro, un poco inseguro. Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí, porque soy un poco inseguro, un poco inseguro. Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí, porque soy un poco inseguro, un poco inseguro.
My grandfather recently passed. To be clear, I grew up living on the streets since I was 10. My grandfather couldn't afford to care for me, but did whatever he could to assist in raising me; went out of his way many times to be there for me. After getting off the streets, I followed his footsteps and joined the army, deployed, and have issues on top of issues, however, this song cultivates... feelings, and I sorely miss my grandfather. R.I.P. Howard "Buck" Clark, 1929-2016. May you and my grandmother live forever in the light and happiness!
I am so sorry for your pain and loss. Thank you and to all vets, every sacrifice you do and are making. I was able to see these guys in September at City Folk in Ottawa ON. If you ever get the chance to hear and see them live, do it. and when he sings this one, remember its ok to feel, its ok to cry, its ok to laugh, its ok to feel good.. and its ok to reach out to anyone healthy to keep moving forward. Music saves me. I had never heard of X ambassadors until Sept, but fell in love with them right away.
The way they used this song in the show Lucifer just melted me into oblivion. I see all these people’s testimony’s and am encouraged by the power of music again. God has given us a beautiful gift, a way to express ourselves no matter what the emotion. God bless you all. ❤
If you are reading this, I don't know who you are, but when you feel like you haven't achieved anything this year, I think that saying that you have survived 2020 is a big enough reward for all the blood, sweat and tears that you have put into it. And when you feel like no one lives you, I'm here for you xxx
2020 was nothing. But on January 24, 2021 I lost my precious son. He was only 48. I really feel like I am being punished for being a sorry bitch. But my 2 sons were my life & now I only have 1. Yes, oh yes, I am paying my dues. Please forgive me, Lord.
@@cyndygough4107 I'm so sorry, I know that the physical and mental pain is unbearable when you have lost someone, but just keep taking one step at a time. I believe in you xx
LYRICS Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Mama, come here Approach, appear Daddy, I'm alone 'Cause this house don't feel like home If you love me, don't let go Whoa, if you love me, don't let go Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Mother, I know That you're tired of being alone Dad, I know you're trying To fight when you feel like flying But if you love me, don't let go Whoa, if you love me, don't let go Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady
Congratulations !! The view is always better looking Ahead then backwards.fight for you and reach out to those who care.and remember we're all just passing thru make it count.
It’s crazy how this song has so many different meanings to people but it brings us together, it brings us peace, and it helps us through some tough times in life. This song will always hit hard.
Its a song you can view from every main character depending on your own experiences. That’s the magic of music, every genre & era has its songs of pain, lust, loss, and love. Mozart even performed music specifically for house parties, and also about missing his (big bottomed) lover, that would be chart toppers today.
My brother 27 overdosed and was put on life support, my dad later committed suicide. My mom scrubs toilets for a living. I feel every bit of this song. My mom's alone, my dad couldn't let go of the alcohol . May God put peace and comfort in the hearts of those who have been dealt pain and grief.
This is my 'calm down' and 'recharge' song. Being ADHD, Chronic Depressive and Anxiety disorder warrior with an addiction to numb the pain, stuck in a dysfunctional marriage it gives me the strength to carry on daily. This is the bond between my baby girl and I, and we love to sing this song. Sadly she doesn't know the meaning like I do.
X Ambassadors has this wonderful ability to make me actually watch and care about what goes on in their music videos, rather than just listening to it alone.
this song broke me to tears after listening it again in a show. it reminded me of the battles I had to face this year with cancer. not me, but the battle both my parents have been fighting. my dad had been in the hospital since january of this year and battles through stress, anxiety, and suicidal ideations because of the harsh surgeries. my whole family suffered from this and every day became one more day I thought I was gonna lose him. “if you love me, don’t let go.” those are the words that got me. I am unsteady. I want them to hold onto me because im unsteady. I love you dad, I love you mom. thank you for fighting.
not reliable I’m sorry about your dad I hope that your parents are alright now...!!! I can understand you a little cause my dad had a surgery for his heart few weeks ago but now he’s still tired and his heart hurts him too i hate that I can’t do anything to help him and I feel so powerless.... when I’m with him I pretend like everything is going to be okay but when I leave I cry cause I can’t take it...!!! And I can’t lose him now I want him to be in my 18 birthday I’m still young and the problem he’s the only one who truly love me so I can’t lose him 💔💔
I know your life will never be the same, but I hope it's moving back on track. I'm not the most religious, but I'm a firm believer of god giving every person a plan.
I lost my dad march of this year, he is the best fsther in the world, everytime i'm with my dad i feel the safest, i have anxiety but never had anxiety or panic attacks when my dad is around because i know he got my back im so lucky to have that kind of love from my father. I miss him everyday and i have been unsteady and never been the same since he was gone.i love you dad someday we will see each other again.
My condolences. Sounds like your father is and was a great man. I truly hope I can leave the same effect on my kids when I pass. But you must know, your father is always there for you, just got to a place you have the best of memories with him, close your eyes and talk to him. Think those beautiful memories you both had and never let those memories go. Someday we will all meet at those pearly gates of heaven. God bless you Dani. ❤
When I was 6 years old, my dad was killed in a car wreck, 2 weeks before my kindergarten graduation. I will never forget sitting on the stage at the graduation, watching the double doors on the side of the gymnasium and praying for God to let my daddy walk thru those doors. That was in 1986 and it still hurts. Some wounds never fully heal, you just learn to live with them.
My dad died in a car crash too. He went over a 40 foot embankment because he was drinking. Lost my brother to alcoholism 11 years ago. My son is in his 30’s and also is alcoholic! My fair everyday is that the same fate will happen to my son and it brings back all the trauma from childhood. I will never fully heal. I could never heal until my son stops drinking.
"Mother, I know that you're tired of being alone" so odd how so many of our mothers are alone and lonely. It hurts to see them yearning for love from a husband and a father to her children for proper leadership and care.
Sometimes when I discuss with my mother and she hurts me with her words I tried to remember this. She has been trough hell with my father when I was a child and somehow she make it until today. She made so many mistakes and she knows but also we are here today thanks to her so ... it's difficult because somes I'm so mad with her but at the end I know she is trying her best.
There is no excuse for abuse or toxicity. You can't blame you doing it to somebody on someone else. Also Fathers too tbh. You have no idea how many Husbands/father's have to deal with that abuse not only as a child but as a boyfriend or husband from their girlfriend or wife, only difference is it goes far more unnoticed. Nevertheless I hate that it happens to anyone because it's truly unnecessary, and it's usually a cycle til someone breaks it.
Thank you for posting that. Your thoughts are absolutely right. That was my mom her whole life. Mom's are so strong as they take on more than anyone will ever know. They hurt deeply yet they raise their heads up and take care of that family all alone if need be. I am so proud of my momma who carried scars and did her best.
Hey ❤ It's okay to cry. It's okay to experience deep pain and sadness. Let it out. Let the tears roll down your face. But don't stay there for too long beautiful. When you're ready take a deep breath. Wipe those pretty eyes. You're going to be okay. Things will get better soon I promise. Whatever you're going through, it is only for a season. This too shall pass. I hope you know what a beautiful soul you are. I hope you know your worth, your value, your beauty. You're such a lovely human that no one else in this world can replace. You are important. You are needed. You are loved. So hold on a bit longer, okay? There is hope. There is purpose. You're going to make it through I promise. The light is just up ahead❤
I have listened to this song for a few years now but have never taken the time to read the comment section as I just listen at work. Your post hit me very hard! I will always remember this feeling. You and your family are in my prayers. I will light a candle for John in my church this weekend. God Bless you and your family!
I lost my dad to suicide 5 years ago this week. he would have been 54 today. This song killed me when I heard it for the first time yesterday. I sobbed for an hour. So beautiful and so much truth in a few short lyrics.
I literally cry for help in silence when my child is sleep .. it’s sooooo hard but I try everyday! I just wish I had someone to unconditionally be there for me
@@UnapologeticallyBM it’s not easy being a mom we have feelings too and that’s okay! I know exactly what ur going through . Ur child and god loves u soo much girll message me if You ever need someone to talk to cause I care 💗
God you have NO Idea how much this hit me. I'm a mom and it's so hard and now my 14yr old daughter is fighting Depression. Its soooo Hard. God Bless you an know you are not alone. Love you
My husband who passed two years ago listened to this song over and over before he passed. He would grab my hand and say, " I'm unsteady". Broke my heart. I love this song even though it makes me cry.
Compared to Imagine Dragons "somewhat similar sound" who just about everyone knows they are relatively unknown and underrated. To my knowledge none of their songs or videos have won any awards even though they have a host of great songs like this one. Thats what I meant by my comment.
+W Lee I agree that more people should know of them, but they really haven't been a band for a really long period of time. I mean, there are still some really great bands out there who have been around for a little longer and they still don't have awards. I saw them live when I saw them with Panic! at the Disco and that's pretty cool to say. They'll get there eventually! (:
+whackedout101 Agree with you 100% on great bands not being heard and getting awards. Its kind of strange to think that if it wasn't for a Jeep commercial "and a advertising person with an ear for good music" this band might have never gotten to that next level like it has. Its like if you don't hear these artist songs in TV commercials, shows or movies then they may never make it big. Kinda of weird don't you think?
W Lee Yeah, it makes me sad when really great bands don't get enough representation in the music industry. I didn't really know who X Ambassadors was when I saw them live, BUT when I heard Renegades on the radio and I heard it live I was like "Whaaat?! That's the same band?!" I was kind of angry with myself for not knowing the name of the band that sang the song. The dude has some AMAZING pipes on him. It is really hard for artists to make it big which is kind of stupid, if you ask me. But then I look at those fans who say they hated when their favorite artist/band got super big because then it was nearly impossible to see them live without their concert tickets selling out in a couple of days and the venues are HUGE. I just FINALLY decided to give Twenty One Pilots a try a month ago or so and finally decided they grew on me a ton and when I found out they were performing at Red Rocks like X Ambassadors did this summer I had to get tickets. They are playing 2 shows and they sold out the first night in a day and the 2nd had probably half of the tickets left to sell. So when I saw that I had a strange feeling that I wish I had listened to them back in 2011 when they weren't so big. It's kind of weird--the music industry. As far as X Ambassadors, their music is pretty amazing as far as vocals, lyrics, and just overall sound. It is a shame that they aren't as big as Miley Cyrus or whatever because they definitely deserve it more. I totally agree with you. Just request their music on your local station and maybe you'll hear 'em more. (:
This song holds SO MUCH POWER that it enables a person to finally have the much-needed breakdown of all the things that they kept inside them while also empowering a person to fight everything and to believe JUST ONCE MORE, JUST ONCE MORE...
The video is beautiful it depicts how easily it is to let yourself fall for the wrong person by making their flaws not bother you and where that leads. They always show us who they are we just don’t want to see it.
Thanks, I feel like I’m drifting away from my best friend and the only comfort in my life and it’s all my fault just because I have blooming anxiety and no one gives one even when I say I need to get homeschooled etc, and my life is just always so shitty! :(
You know ...this song has a special place in my heart my and my husband would listen to this all the time I’d see the tears full up in his eyes he lost his battle with depression on January 21 2022..I’m hurt I’m broken I’m shattered we have two kids together but this song ...this song he held my hand and the pain in this mans voice I saw in my husbands eyes I tried my best to save him ...a part of me wants to blame people because of how he grew up because of the shit he went threw a part of me blames myself because I wasn’t always happy with him he struggled with a lot of things but this song brought a memory to my mind of when he was in the shower and sitting on the floor I took off my clothes got in the shower with him picked up his face and kissed him while crying saying I love baby keep fighting 🥺and now I have tears strolling down my face cause that’s one of the many times I did that I would wash his body when he didn’t have the strength ..I miss him I miss every part of him I have shirts with his smell I have his kids I have pictures and videos but ..I don’t have him and right now I don’t wanna believe this shit actually happened ...that he’s gone our son is 2 and a half and our daughter is 7 mo 💔and he loved them so much our son says his name ...my birthday just passed Valentine’s Day too and man it was hard but I did everything we would have done I love and miss him every second of the day ... his depression was like a cancer ...who loves you more then anybody ...I do 😔to those who are battling depression keep going you only pass the pain to the people that love you ..your not alone keep fighting live for your family anyone can die for them ...live for them too my husband wanted to be here I know it was a instant regret...he wanted to see us grow old and see our kids grow up ..fight ..fight to live
Ma'am I know you don't know me but stories and experiences such as yours are inspiring to young people such as my self and hope you get to enjoy the rest of your life with loved ones around you before you head over to meet your lover in the next life....lessons such as the one you wrote makes me realize anything can happen so don't take things for granted
I'm still 16 but I'm so sorry for your loss I can't imagine how hard that is.. I lost a few family members these last 2 months and it definitely took a toll on me. I'm so sorry.
Your comment was touching I’m currently battling with depression really bad but I try to keep going for my 2 & 1 year old baby boys but it’s just so hard so thank you so much for this comment
@@jaimewalker8921 I know it’s hard I honestly for five years we were together since we were 17 years old we met in high school our senior year and I loved him since the first time I’ve ever laid my eyes on him since our first date I have his kids and I know how hard he fought to be here for them and I know he was not in the right state of mind I know he wasn’t thinking straight he would talk about seeing her son grow up and talk about walking our daughter Down the aisle he would talk about what kind of house we wanted and how we would want to build it it hurts my soul that I don’t have my person here With me with our kids our son wakes up and cries for him and when goes to sleep he misses him to our daughter knew him by his smell our son knows him by a picture his voice .. his smell and now I have to explain things I never thought that I would explain things that I have to learn and I never thought I would have to learn your kids they love you believe it or not you’re their superhero your sons look forward to seeing you come home every day look forward for that look on their face when you walk through that door I love that like the look on my son’s face when he saw his daddy come home from work they look up just pure excitement and pure joy and just wanting to melt in his arms it’s worth it to live you have so much to live for we were just starting out our lives together the way we wanted to the way we worked so hard to have it He was young he was only 23 I am hurt but I’m not angry I understand I want to be angry but I can’t I know What he went through I know what ate him up inside and I’m sorry that you even feel an inch of that but please keep fighting your kids deserve a daddy/mommy and you deserve to be here you deserve to give them a family don’t ever forget that my husband wanted that...you have that don’t give up And no matter what you’re feeling no matter how much you’re fighting you do not deserve to die You deserve to live
We are lucky to have songs like this to help heal. Everyone is going through something you know nothing of, tread lightly and treat people with kindness. You are blessed
i’m in love with this comment section. i’m not suicidal but i really don’t find a point in living. i am happy not depressed but nothing makes sense but this comment section really made me smile. ps: i’ve never come cross a video like this. i don’t know what it means. it’s my first time and made my heart full
I started to break down upon hearing that same line. Beautiful yet sorrowful. Many of the words resonate with me due to some of the experiences I've had
Home is where u make it dont ever let yourself feel lonly cause ur alone abuse is a nasty nasty thing and can really distroy ur life dont let it keep ur head learn ur own worth dont let someone tell u what it is
For anyone that needs to know, just know we are all broken so you don't need to be in a hurry to be perfect. If you feel like you have alot built up inside just sing to songs like this and let your emotions go. It's ok not to be ok 👍
My father spent his entire life trying to make a better life for us. When he passed in the icu , it tore my family apart but we have to keep going no matter the pain. Others deserve to be happy and that’s what I know he would want for our family. This song really hits home for me. Prayers for the ones that’s lost their way. It does get better!
My little sister just sent this song to me and told me i needed to hear it. We went through a lot of terrible things in our life but this song just crushed me. My parents split when I was about 7 and i didnt see my dad again until i was 16 because my mom kept me from him. She had her reasons, she was scared for herself, they got violent with each other. But , 7 years later after i finally got to be with my dad and love him when my other sisters never got the chance, he just passed a month ago. my heart is completely broken, ive never felt so much pain. this song just broke me down into a million pieces
Princess Gere its okay you'll be fine we all lose people at one point its okay cause I know how you feel because my dad is gone and I can feel what you do I hope you feel better .
You are not kidding. The scenes are so relevant too. Leaving the diner when theyre youngerr...compared to them leaving the house..spilling the salt and pepper and then the legos breaking..the necklace in the car on the rearview seems like the only thing that had to hold onto at one point. A moment that brough them together...but its hanging between them in the end. Such a great video and an even harder one to watch.
This song still brings tears to my eyes! Bless yall and thank yall for bringing this record to the masses! I’m 33 years old standing on my back porch right now tearing up to this track. All these years later it holds so much weight
I just got out of rehab this week. I was at Desert Hope for 28 days in Las Vegas. This was the song that helped me through the tough times when I finally admitted that I am an alcoholic. My husband is my rock. Being away from him and our beautiful daughter for that long was hell but I feel so much better now. This will be the first weekend without binge drinking, I'm ready to experience life without being numb all the time. Song/video is very personal.
This is indeed a good and beautiful song, just like you. You are so strong! You're an example for your family. I bet they are proud of you. Stay strong, good luck and God bless you. You can do it!
Hits way different now... it was kool back then but now I lost my fiancé in May to Addiction at only 27... the words mean so much now. Me and the kids miss her everyday ...its hard to get thur tbh
Lost my dad to bone cancer, tried to convince my self he was gonna be ok but we all know I was lying to myself! Dad passed away in front of me. Rest in eternal piece dad, fly like an angel!
This song is amazing and so cathartic. It really hits home for anyone who's been through tough times. The way it blends the lyrics and melody is just so powerful, making you feel understood and less alone. It's a great reminder that music can help us heal and connect with others.
The guy could have trauma of his own, maybe even be trying to mask it with alcohol. I know alot of great guys in the marine corps that turned to alcohol to fix their issues most of it to do with ptsd. Its sad and heart breaking but alot of internal pain masked with alcohol could make even a great guy seem bad. I myself have issues with ptsd and turned alcohol for awhile and it was to the point that if i wasnt drinking i wasnt able to enjoy anything. The guy is wrong and needs help but alot of those issues could be coming from trauma and an inablitiy to get by without using alcohol as a crutch. This song really hits home to me for this reason as well
This is the comment. It mirrors my almost 10 year addiction to me. I remember it when I was still using. I'm so grateful I'm clean now and I'm sure my family is too... but i never thought i would make it
I'm in a rough part of life right now and this song kind of helps me, I replay it and instead of things being rough it makes it go smooth...and empty. I don't like the empty feeling but it's better than being sad I guess. For every one feeling the same or even worse, heads up things will be alright, Bless you all😔❤️
If your reading this , just hold on please i know your hurting ,so am i , that means someone else understands what ur going through, and i wont let go even when u insist on pushing me away
I recently lost my mother, she was my mentor, my friend, my world. I came across this song; tried to hold back tears, but as soon as I heard "Mother I know your tired of being alone" the flood gates burst open, and it felt good to cry and get it out, Thank you X Ambassadors....Thank You!
I lost my 8 month old son last year and this song gave me so much hope. I felt like I was losing grip and didn’t think I could make it out. Then one day my husband and I were in the car and this song came on. We both broke down and held each other. This song will forever be part of my life.
We lost our 4 month old son to SIDS in 2019. It's a horrible club to belong to, but you're not alone. We're forever changed, but so far somehow we've survived. When there's nothing else, there's music to help me personally cope.
I’m so very sorry for your loss. I lost a grandchild last year and didn’t think I’d make it. I grieved for my daughter, her husband and myself. Losing a child is an unbearable pain. I was gravely ill months afterward and had a near death experience. Our consciousness, your baby’s consciousness, continues on without a single second of a break. I no longer fear death, and I know with 100% certainty that you and your child will be together again. I wish you peace and healing 🫂❤
My husband who I had been with for 20 years got very sick and spent months in ICU on breathing machines. I lived at Grant hospital in the ICU wtg room for 37 days at one point. This was one of the last songs he sent me from the hospital. He passed away one month before our 20 year anniversary on March 30th 2019. My house will never feel like home without him. We had 5 children together and our 16 year old son looks like him. Ppl say that it gets easier as time goes on, but for me, it's not any easier today than it was the night I watched him take his last breath. Idk if ppl actually read these comments or not. But if you did thanks for taking time out of your day to read this. John I love you and I miss you and I hope you're the 1st face I get to see when it's my time to go.
God bless you and your family. You have my sincerest condolences.
Close your eyes and breathe deep, as now spiritually your husband is more by your side than ever before.
So sorry for your loss, I usually never read comments on songs I listen to but I clicked yours and read the whole thing and it put tears in my eyes, I couldn’t imagine what your going through and nobody should expect something like that to get easier but I no what you mean when they say it gets easier but I don’t think it would.
You should listen to staind-something to remind you, it is a really good song
Just stay strong I miss my daughter every day so I understand how u feel every room in your house is a memory he would want you to just remember the good times
it’s all love sweetheart 💓 john hears you
My son passed on February 11, 2021. I miss him with all my heart. Life will never be the same without him. I love you son. I will meet you soon.
Wow, I'm sooo sorry for your loss I'm praying for you.! Just hold on and as much as you want to be alone and push people away don't you need them just as much as they need you.
You got this just keep holding on
Be strong. ❤️
My heart dropped reading this I’m so sorry for your lose I just came back from my nans funeral and this song is helping me I hope it helps u stay strong
I'm so sorry for your loss. Always here for you if you ever want to talk 💗 keep your head up
I'm soooo sorry for your loss. This made my heart ache :( Keep your head up.
My dad abused me for ten years. I was four years old when it first happened.
He beat, tortured and humiliated me. He nearly killed me three times. I was bullied because I had to wear the clothes of my sisters. Three years ago my Mum committed suicide. Sometimes I don’t know how to breathe. But, I am here. I survived hell. To all those out there undergoing the same: never give up! You are not alone! There are so many of us. We are warriors! Please stay strong!
Nela Jnaebnit I Don’t know you but I Fucking love you and wish the best for u
we love you and you are a hero
You’re so strong!!! I love you.
Thank you and your a rock star
Godbless you. Stand for yourself. I'm praying for you
It's the fight when you feel like flying that has me forever hooked. It keeps me drug free since 2018.
The pain in his voice as he sings every line, got me in my feelings..
It's heartbreaking, yet therapeutic..
You tube is just taking me through a musical therapy session
The best and worst song after you lose a parent/loved one
Me too 😌
I feel everything... It's so disheartening.
I told my ex if four years I cheated couldn’t lie to her no more lost the best thing in my life currently I feel so lost but I know I did the right thing idc how ya feel I shouldn’t be hurting but I am I love you Andrea
Reading the comments in this video while listening to the song was truly heartbreaking. To anyone reading this, please stay strong! we don't know each other, but in case you need this: I believe in you. You can do it. You can get through it. You're strong enough. You're worthy.
this means soooo much.. idk what to do anymore. i'm sooo tired of life, and everything, and i can't believe i'm typing this.
I hope you are doing okay.. Let me know what's going on? I care about you..
Thanks for believing in me, i jus want u to know that u are an amazing person 🤗
Love and support to all!!!
Aww
My mother was my whole heart. She passed away on December 25th, 2020. Now I am as unsteady as I’ll ever be. I love you mom, r.i.p💔
I'm sorry I know that's hard try to keep your head up
I'm so sorry. I love you. Stay strong .
I'm so sorry
You will get through this
Stay strong xx
I'm so sorry I feel that way too it hurts, my dad passed away in the same date. Stay strong
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Reading these comments 2 days after the second year of my mom’s passing 😢there’s so many of us sharing our pain, receiving love and encouragement… I’m just in awe that in all of our differences and not knowing one another, we’ll not just scroll by those feeling alone, we stop and relate and love on the heartbroken. It truly restores my heart and faith in this cold world that as a collective of strangers, we can still show love to one another when needing it.
God’s richest blessings ❤
Why is it that as real and apparently obvious as this comment is people choose ignorance a blindness to fellow humans? With all the knowledge and resources available to be prioritized and allocated "appropriately" there would still be pain and suffering, but not unnecessarily. Greed and corruption is rampantly out of control.
I love you
Coming up on 10 years. I wish I could say it gets easier man
The pain in his voice just makes the song
This song made me cry cause it remind me if when my parents were fighting and they devorced when I was 4
I feel you. The exact same thing happened to me.
+Paige Dodd same here. My parents divorced when j was 4 and this brought back the terrible memories so I feel ya
The divorce papers were final on my birthday...
My parents got divorced one day after my dad's birthday... and my dog died one month before that...
I’m in the fight for my life with brain cancer. Doctors said I should have been dead a month ago.. I’m still going praise Jesus. This song is helping me through some dark times
may God heal you
God gots ya ! ❤ be strong i hope you beat the s*** out that cancer stay blessed
Praying for you❤
How are you doing?
You are a miracle , doctors are human and make mistakes , God is everything
This song is the lyrical definition of that feeling where your chest hurts and it's just emptiness
omg ik this feeling and i havent had it in so long but now i feel so broken
@@sentinelrevolutionist9798 yesss i have so been their
So true.
For me its a reminder of my child abuse.
@@sentinelrevolutionist9798 i hate that feeling ur throat hurt chest tight ur eyes are on the brink of tears im a childhood abuse survivor but its left its scars i now have cptsd and my life hasnt been easy since
Came across this song via tik tok December 2024. Reminded me of my dad and I instantly went to TH-cam to play it. Started crying at work. Been over a year and still can’t comprehend losing him. I love you dad.
We are just all broken children in adult lives trying to make it okay.. I see you. You are doing a great job.
Thank you.
Well said on point 🖤🖤🖤🖤
Thankyou
Having been through alot, this statement is not an opinion.
It is a fact of life.
Thank you for this. I needed it.
My beautiful husband played this song over and over before he died. He was beautiful, amazing, my true love. He wasn't unsteady, just sick, in pain. I never let go until now. I'm healed and ready. He would want that. God bless to all of you who have lost someone who felt unsteady.
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Hi
🎉❤😊much love happiness and peace of mind
Praying for you❤
"It ran in the family, until it ran into me."
To everyone out there struggling with generational trauma: YOU CAN BREAK THE CYCLE. It doesn't have to continue through you. Find a therapist, find support, find books, find God, find friends who can help. Surround yourself with people who can push you out of the circumstances you were raised in. I grew up in an abusive house that left me with psychological and emotional scars, but I fought tooth and nail to recover from the crap that went on. I'm now married to a wonderful guy and we're expecting our first baby. This baby will be raised in a peaceful, nonviolent home, one where they are cherished and loved every day of their life. I know I won't be a perfect parent, but I determined years ago that I would be the link in the chain that would allow itself to be broken. The chain stopped with me. It can stop with you, too. I'm praying for you.
Kiki thank you..i pray the curse is broken !
Thanks for your post! Stay mighty.
I was raised in an abusive home with alcohol n drugs n although im not in a household with alcohol n drugs I do find myself in a domestic violence situation that I cant seem to get out of cuz of financial n no support unfortunately from outside fam n friends, mean they say leave but where r they to help... n we r pregnant with our first his 4th but my first lol n hes already out his hands on me pregnant so I feel as though he doesn't deserve to b a father he swears he will change but his anger isn't only problem hes controlling possessive aggressive n a liar n a cheater not physically but through social media n I wanna leave n ive tried but he won't let me n he won't keave either. I never thought id find myself in this situation ever but here I am lol. I use to volunteer n help families n women in my situation now n I never try understood why they would stay never understood why my mom did but now I get it n I hate it. But I still care n love him n I feel guilty for tryin to leave... I know its crazy but I feel psychologically fucked in a sense. But bless u that u got away from it all n dealt with it. I thought I had to until I found myself with this one n he was so perfect too perfect to b true n I kept thinking that but we have known eachother from highschool n he had anger issues but never laid hand on his ex wife so I never thought he would me but he says he love sme so much I drive him crazy... once again flipping the blame on me. Im just so tired feeling bad n if I leave he threatens his own life and what not. Like its a psychological roller coaster that ive been drawn into like a maze n cant find my way out of. But so happy for u n urs. Best wishes n many blessings for u n ur lil one.
That first sentence man, that’s my mission right now
@@heatherhigman1132 I was in a domestically abusive relationship too. Girl, you deserve to get out. You're trapped right now in a cycle of dependency and control and I am PRAYING you get out of there. You and your baby deserve SO MUCH BETTER. There is a man out there just waiting to treat you like the queen that you are, who won't manipulate you or make you feel crazy and who will NEVER make you feel unsafe. I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. But please know that finances are no reason to stay trapped there. Is there a women's shelter somewhere nearby? You don't have to pay to use one and they can help you figure out how to get on your feet and take care of your baby free of this guy. Please, please, please take that leap of faith. You have such a beautiful future ahead of you but you have to start running for it.
December 2024 anyone
It's crazy how music can say everything you're feeling when you can't find the words yourself. To anyone reading this: you're not alone. Keep going, even when it feels impossible. ❤️
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Thank you December 2024
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anyone else feel so broken that no matter how good your life is going you still feel like nothing can fullfill that empy space in your heart and your chest just never stops hurting?
All the time i mostly try going to my room and when I go to my room I just cry and act like I'm ok when I am around my family
Yeah
Yup!! :(
I filled mine with Jesus.
@@tonyascheckel6621 oh Ive tried so many times
it hurts when someone is your reason to live but youre not theirs
Can't you be your own reason to live?
Weak !
Squelch
We have all been there don’t pretend you have never felt pain before.
@@squelch6573 shut up
you only have yourself, be your own reason to live.
I used to play this song while in active addiction and now on May 26, 2024 I will be 2 years clean 🙌🏽🙏🏽❤️ I was crying out to God to please keep holding on to me and not let me die I was definitely UNSTEADY at the time I will forever love this song
Keep it up wish I was in that place well done addiction is hard to crack I just need to work out how to crack it lol
@@angelagibson1096 The only way to do that is to say no to crack!! 😉
@@god_chose_me24-7 crack is wack
My children and I just lost their father (my ex husband / best friend) so drugs. I had to ID him today. Now listening to this is all I can think to do
Quitting is for quitters
You came into my life. April 25th 2020, you left 4 years later on the same day. You were the best example of the care and love i was truly capable of. I miss you my son.
I’m so sorry!
The part “Im alone. Cause this house don’t feel like home”. Really, really hit hard for me because of personal reasons.
I don't know what you're going through but what I do know is you WILL get through it. Stay strong and stay safe and know that you are Loved.
Same bro :/
NAW FOR REAL SAME REASONS
Naw for real same reasons
Here, here... I’m just finding things out with my marriage, I was already dealing with depression and things going on in my life, myself. We never fought, we laughed and always got along. I feel so weak but have to bring strong for my three babies.
i feel like this really hits when your parents hurt you so much but you know that they've been through so much trauma and have their own things to work out and they don't know any better
Wish I could tell my kids how sorry I am
mhm
My dad has being through a lot when he was a child, he practically raised himself, and he never did anything to hurt us, he doesn't smoke, drink or do drugs. When people do that it's bc they want to, there are no excuses.
Fuck this comment is everything ☹
you dont have to justify abuse, not even if they have trauma or they have benn abused or when they were little that was okay because that is wrong, abuse can never be justified
gut wrenching feeling when your falling apart and realize you have no one to comfort you or at least hold you. my heart goes out to all those out there going through a tough time and feeling/dealing with it alone.
Same feeling. I know there are worst situations than mine..So I continue to pray for those. I'm having a hard time right now...Friends and family are everything.
thanks, that was so nice to post
juic388 I falling apart to. so much going on and the one that promised to be there forever, left! it hurts!
juic388 just lost a friend very dear to my heart. sad way to go but he has peace and that's all I'd ever ask for him. reach out in your darkest hour there are so many admiring you and love you. keep your head up and your heart open. lv & respect. takes one to know one. we hear you. I hear you. 💜💔
juic388 me.
I just lost my sister. 38 years in life as adopted siblings. Ups. Downs. Both our families let us go, but we always had each other. I miss her. Life got to be to much for her. I couldn't be there. Pay attention to those you love and hold on close.
Im so sorry..
This reminds me of my dad growing up. Was always taught to view him as the villain not understanding at the time that this is a sickness. He always worked and provided for the family, but drank himself into a depressive state until he took his own life when I was 13. True he could have made better choices early on, but once alcoholism gets a hold, it’s hard to shake off. Though people act crazy when they get drunk and determinate mentally over time, they are still people in the end. Any time I see someone struggling with any addiction I feel that sadness for my father. I always want to help, but ultimately they have to be willing to help themselves.
Sometimes even when we want to help ourselves, we can’t. I don’t understand why.
I'm so very sorry for your loss. It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders with a sweet soul. Don't change...the world needs more people like that. ❤
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I’m so sorry :(
Im so sorry for your loss and your right it never gets easier and never will prayers for you god bless you
Myself and my husband both struggled with addiction for years. This song still reminds me of standing in the kitchen when he was at his worst. I thought I lost him forever. Today we are years sober with 2 beautiful girls 2 cars and a beautiful house. I’ll never take a day for granted.
So proud!
I appreciate your story so much ❣️
@@brittanyadkins1491 up.
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As an alcoholic, this hits home. Thank you for making this video. It truly shows our struggle. Much love people. Addicts and non.
Facts
love to u :)
Drinkin is the one think i cant kick, i dont let it get the best of me but sometimes the outcome aint so good but i have to keep moving forward
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@@deepsouthlife8216 i get that....unfortunately...
October 2024 anyone??
You already know ❤️🔥
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Yh
Stay strong buddy
I need help!!
This was my husband's favorite song. He passed away 5 days ago at 6:24pm on 12-12-2021 unexpectedly. At the hospital, he took his last breath with 3 seconds left on this song. My heart is shattered. We were married for 26 years and we were high school sweethearts.
I'm sorry for your loss
I'm so sorry.
My deepest condolences to you, such a beautiful moment yet so heartbreaking at the same time. Wishing you much strength to keep fighting and love!
I'm so sorry for your loss. My husband also loved this song. This was one of the last songs he sent me from the hospital. He passed away on March 30th 2019 one month before our 20th anniversary. I will always cherish this song. I never left his side. Not even for one night. I slept) lived in the ICU wtg room for 37 days. I feel so lost without him. I'm not sure if I even know who I am without him. I spent my entire adult life with him. We were definitely soul mates so I know if there is life after death I will see him again one day. Until then I can see him in our 4 boys and daughter. I hope you can find your peace too. Thank you for sharing
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“If you love me, Don’t let go” I was saying this 1000x in the back of my mind .. waiting outside my Dad’s ICU room .. hoping that My father hears my appeals and stay alive.. he couldn’t . .. RIP my hero. See you in heaven inshallah.. Love you more than anything
Inna Lilla hi wa Inna ilayhi rajeoon. Insha Allah brother, may the path ahead be made eay for you.
This song also takes me back to when my mom was dying from Alzheimers
Inshallah he pulls through. Just remember that everything is Allahs plan :)
Saleem Bassadien Jazak Allah khaira 🤍🙏🏻many thanks for your kind words
Kathleen Yorke may her soul Rest In Peace 🤍 we shall find strength in this life.. god will help us all
Growing up in a dysfunctional family with abuse and rape...this song hits too hard. For anyone reading. I want you to know that you can grow and become what you want most. You can do anything you want with your life, you do not have to be that person they make you. This is your life, and as hard as it hurts you can do it no matter what
Feeling your pain was doing so good need to learn to think with the mind not my heart. Never get over what happened but the episodes do lessen as time passes. still healing the wounded mind 17 years later . Earliest memory's try to gorget. Forgiving was so hard. Thought at age 30 and being my own man would make it a distant memory. Still weaves through cracks and spills out from time to time
I would add it's ok to let go of the toxic people
i hope you find peace. may your soul find light again.
i relate with the Growing up in a dysfunctional family with abuse and rape.. its painful and has scarred me
This song has me in tears. I'm literally watching my father slowly die, from cancer. It's so hard, pretending that everything is ok. I try so hard to be strong for him. I'm his only daughter/child. So I'm all he has, and vice versa. Idk how I'm gonna survive without him. Lord, I ask you to wrap your healing arms around him. Let him stay with me, just a little while longer. Amen! I don't want to be selfish. But man, does this hurt! I just want to tell him "I love you Daddy!" I'm just afraid he won't say it back, or will say "me too". God, help me!
Sending prayers and positive vibes yall's way🙏
My God. Prayers for you.
when my father passed this song was the only song that expressed how I felt and I'm listening to it now in that remembrance, its been 8 years
Hey if you don't mind.. can I know what stage and type of cancer your dad's in? I may be able to help.. very familiar with cancer unfortunately. But I might still be able to help
@papi4062 he's got stage 4, non small cell lung cancer. It's literally a matter of days.
I'm a mom. I just want to give you all a hug, tell you that you matter even though we don't know each other, and lift you up. You matter. Please remember that. There's evil in this world, but you are the light that shines through and makes it a better place.
If I could love this a million infinity times.
@@triciawalker3572 Love & good vibes to you too! Remember, a small flame, when joined by another, makes a bigger fire to light the darkness. ❤️
Abby can we be friends?! I'm constantly singing this little light of mine to my kids. I truly believe we all have light in ours souls meant to shine for ourselves and to help others find their way thru the darkness or shadows.
that touched me. thank you so much.
Heard that!!!
This song feels like sitting and processing your emotions, and healing from the hurt at the same.. I'm in awe.
🙌🏻 Totalmente 🤝🏻👌🏻😌
tell me about it
So true
@@fourway9072eas 1:08 1:09
Yes it is like thinking about what just happened it’s hard
It's 2024, and this is the first song that has touched my soul since I lost my dad 4 months ago. Some pain never goes away.
I'm so sorry for loss may you find strength to never let go but heal 💓 I don't know you but that doesn't matter with compassion
Pain is sumthing that’s doesn’t goes away cuz it sumthing that u learn from grow from n eventually heal from.! Choosing to hold on to the pain is a choice as well.! Your dad isn’t gone truly, he with u everywhere u go, he’s in ur heart n wherever also whenever u need him he’ll be there for u.! Cherish n hold on to the good times n keep him close to u that’s how he will live forever.! Grieve n take ur time just don’t stay gone too long cuz ur father wouldn’t want u sad n lost over the pain of him being physically gone.! My condolences, it’s always tough losing sum1 very close I know the thing is tho in the end God calls us back cause our time is up n we served the purpose we was on earth for.! When we our done earth our true happiness is brought back to n all the suffering ends when we return back to God.!
Me too. My dad passed on December 11th. This was our song.
So true. I learned recently that pain is proof of the love in equal proportions.
I also lost my dad 5 years ago after a life long battle with addiction. It never gets easier but you learn how to be stronger. Whoever said time heals all wounds is a liar. Keep pushing on make your dad proud
I believe this song resonates with the struggles of those facing immense challenges. From the comments here, it seems many of us turn to it after experiencing the loss of a loved one. I lost my beloved younger brother just a year ago. He was only 21. One moment he was with us, and the next, he lost consciousness, collapsed, and passed away.
I still don’t know how to cope with it-how to keep going without understanding what happened, or whether something similar could happen to me or my children. My heart is broken. My dad suffered a heart attack and had to undergo open-heart surgery soon after. Our family feels incomplete like we've lost an irreplaceable part of ourselves that held us together.
I hope that one day, we’ll find a way to feel joy again.
emotion incarnate!
i lost my dad 5 years ago and this song brings out so much emotion in me...
"mother i know... your tired of being alone... daddy i know your tryin... to fight when you feel like flyin"
this line hits me hard, losing my father to cancer was hard...
He is in a better place now... :')
Hale Valen I feel your pain, man. I lost my father 5 years ago, as well. It was from a work related accident. I didn't grieved much for him, but only because I wanted to be strong. For him, and my mom and sister.
Jonathan i did the same, i became the rock that everyone could depend on, i distanced my emotions so i could be their support. same deal... looking back i should have let myself fall apart too
*FUCK YOU CANCER!!!!*
I feel yaa cause My dad died too
This song just hits on so many different levels. You're the real MVP if you're still listening in 2021. And remember always. You're never alone! Stay strong
thats me ong
Dsmmm why this comentó make me feel so good .
@@queenny4739 to/aa
Just been to the DC concert on Saturday. The played Unsteady. I cried through the whole performance. It broke and healded something inside me at the same time.
Thx bro I Appreciate that
This song means many things to me... I had some really dark years with deaths, lots of drugs, suicidal depression etc. I turned to God and got sober and know I wouldn't be here today if I hadn't. The chorus really reminds me of God's unending love for me, even through all of the bad times and when I was unlovable. He sent me a loving wife that I didn't deserve who has shown me unconditional love and grace that I have never known. We just welcomed our 1st child last year (our son, Ian, which means "gift from God") and I am so thankful for the opportunity to become a husband and father. So, I hear the chorus from the perspective of my son as well - telling me he needs me to teach him about life, show him the right ways and never give up on him. I haven't had a song affect me so personally in a long time. Amazing!
Good for you man!
I'm sorry for everything that happened. But I'm glad you're happy now! :) I really love this song too.
Wow same meaning to me too..
amazing brother! im a veteran with so many stories i can relate too military friends, own and family, its such a heartfelt song, definitely good music. God Bless!
Amen!💕
This song hits deeper every time I hear it.
Dear person that’s reading this, we don’t know each-other but i wish you all the best in life.
Right back at ya Sir. May the universe lay on your table all that you deserve and more.
Hope you have a great life dude. Love people like this
Thank you
Thank you🤍
I love you Jonathan ❤
Hold, hold on, hold onto me
'Cause I'm a little unsteady
A little unsteady
Hold, hold on, hold onto me
'Cause I'm a little unsteady
A little unsteady
Mama, come here
Approach, appear
Daddy, I'm alone
'Cause this house don't feel like home
If you love me, don't let go
Whoa, if you love me, don't let go
Hold, hold on, hold onto me
'Cause I'm a little unsteady
A little unsteady
Hold, hold on, hold onto me
'Cause I'm a little unsteady
A little unsteady
Mother, I know
That you're tired of being alone
Dad, I know you're trying
To fight when you feel like flying
But if you love me, don't let go
Whoa, if you love me, don't let go
Hold, hold on, hold onto me
'Cause I'm a little unsteady
A little unsteady
Hold, hold on, hold onto me
'Cause I'm a little unsteady
A little unsteady
Hold, hold on, hold onto me
'Cause I'm a little unsteady
A little unsteady
Thank you ♥️
🤟👋😘🥰😑🤣😙😁😃😂😀🚫🚳🚭🚯🚷🚱🔞☢☣🚾🛂🏳🇧🇩🏴❤🚮😁😀😁😂🤣😃😄😅😆😉😊😋😎😍😘😗😙😚☺🙂🤗🤩🤔🤨😐😑😶😏😣😥😮😯🤐😪😪😫😴😌😛😜🙁😖😞😤😤😭😦😧😨😩🤯😬😰😱🥶🥵😳🤪😵😡😠😷🤬🤒🤕🤢🤮🤧😇🤠🥴🥳🤠🥺🤥🤫🤥🤭🧐☻🤓🤫🤭💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩
Imma copyright you until I can’t no more
Thankx
X Ambassadors - Inseguro
Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí,
porque soy un poco inseguro, (unsteady)
un poco inseguro.
Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí,
porque soy un poco inseguro,
un poco inseguro.
Mamá, ven aquí,
acércate, aparece.
Papá, estoy solo,
porque esta casa no parece un hogar.
Si me quieres, no te sueltes.
Oh, si me quieres, no te sueltes.
Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí,
porque soy un poco inseguro,
un poco inseguro.
Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí,
porque soy un poco inseguro,
un poco inseguro.
Madre, sé
que estás cansada de estar sola.
Padre, sé que estás intentando luchar
cuando lo que te apetece es volar (feel like)
Pero si me quieres, no te sueltes.
Oh, si me quieres, no te sueltes.
Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí,
porque soy un poco inseguro,
un poco inseguro.
Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí,
porque soy un poco inseguro,
un poco inseguro.
Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí,
porque soy un poco inseguro,
un poco inseguro.
My grandfather recently passed. To be clear, I grew up living on the streets since I was 10. My grandfather couldn't afford to care for me, but did whatever he could to assist in raising me; went out of his way many times to be there for me. After getting off the streets, I followed his footsteps and joined the army, deployed, and have issues on top of issues, however, this song cultivates... feelings, and I sorely miss my grandfather. R.I.P. Howard "Buck" Clark, 1929-2016. May you and my grandmother live forever in the light and happiness!
Brandon Clark may you find the light you need in your life.
Brandon Clark nothing but respect coming from me
Brandon Clark as a vet, if you're ever in a bad place reach out and I will talk with you, no one gets left behind.
Thanks foxtrot. I REALLY appreciate that!
I am so sorry for your pain and loss. Thank you and to all vets, every sacrifice you do and are making. I was able to see these guys in September at City Folk in Ottawa ON. If you ever get the chance to hear and see them live, do it. and when he sings this one, remember its ok to feel, its ok to cry, its ok to laugh, its ok to feel good.. and its ok to reach out to anyone healthy to keep moving forward. Music saves me. I had never heard of X ambassadors until Sept, but fell in love with them right away.
The way they used this song in the show Lucifer just melted me into oblivion. I see all these people’s testimony’s and am encouraged by the power of music again. God has given us a beautiful gift, a way to express ourselves no matter what the emotion. God bless you all. ❤
If you are reading this, I don't know who you are, but when you feel like you haven't achieved anything this year, I think that saying that you have survived 2020 is a big enough reward for all the blood, sweat and tears that you have put into it. And when you feel like no one lives you, I'm here for you xxx
Damn 🥺thank you really helped
Amen 😤🙏🏼
this means so much to me, thank you :)
2020 was nothing. But on January 24, 2021 I lost my precious son. He was only 48. I really feel like I am being punished for being a sorry bitch. But my 2 sons were my life & now I only have 1. Yes, oh yes, I am paying my dues. Please forgive me, Lord.
@@cyndygough4107 I'm so sorry, I know that the physical and mental pain is unbearable when you have lost someone, but just keep taking one step at a time. I believe in you xx
LYRICS
Hold, hold on, hold onto me
'Cause I'm a little unsteady
A little unsteady
Hold, hold on, hold onto me
'Cause I'm a little unsteady
A little unsteady
Mama, come here
Approach, appear
Daddy, I'm alone
'Cause this house don't feel like home
If you love me, don't let go
Whoa, if you love me, don't let go
Hold, hold on, hold onto me
'Cause I'm a little unsteady
A little unsteady
Hold, hold on, hold onto me
'Cause I'm a little unsteady
A little unsteady
Mother, I know
That you're tired of being alone
Dad, I know you're trying
To fight when you feel like flying
But if you love me, don't let go
Whoa, if you love me, don't let go
Hold, hold on, hold onto me
'Cause I'm a little unsteady
A little unsteady
Hold, hold on, hold onto me
'Cause I'm a little unsteady
A little unsteady
Hold, hold on, hold onto me
'Cause I'm a little unsteady
A little unsteady
Thank you
Many thanks 😊
Que música, que Letraaaaaaa 😍❤
🙏🏾
what is this rubbish
Lost so many people I love because of my addiction 😞 thank God I am 4 years clean today and I'll never look back again!
Congratulations! Proud of you
Congratulations !! The view is always better looking Ahead then backwards.fight for you and reach out to those who care.and remember we're all just passing thru make it count.
Congrats dude.
Star Zombie congratulations! I hope you can go forever sober, but know it's hard. Good on you man!
Congratulations mate, one day at a time.
It’s crazy how this song has so many different meanings to people but it brings us together, it brings us peace, and it helps us through some tough times in life. This song will always hit hard.
Its a song you can view from every main character depending on your own experiences. That’s the magic of music, every genre & era has its songs of pain, lust, loss, and love.
Mozart even performed music specifically for house parties, and also about missing his (big bottomed) lover, that would be chart toppers today.
Underrated comment!
I love you for this comment
❤❤❤❤❤❤
For me, it reminds me of God. I have been sick 25 years chronically. I want to fly, can't wait for when I get.
My brother 27 overdosed and was put on life support, my dad later committed suicide. My mom scrubs toilets for a living. I feel every bit of this song. My mom's alone, my dad couldn't let go of the alcohol .
May God put peace and comfort in the hearts of those who have been dealt pain and grief.
Mitch Cve stay strong if u need someone to talk im here :(
Stay strong, you've made it this far so don't give up. :(
I'm so sorry.. stay strong
hand in there you can make it and if you you need to talk i'm here
Jeremiah 29:11
"Dad, I know you're trying to fight when you feel like flying"
Those words run SO DEEP. R.I.P Dad
sorry for your loss
Im so sorry hes in a better place
Sorry for your loss
Thanks guys ♥️🙏🏻
Kourttneex3 those same lyrics get me too 😢
This is my 'calm down' and 'recharge' song. Being ADHD, Chronic Depressive and Anxiety disorder warrior with an addiction to numb the pain, stuck in a dysfunctional marriage it gives me the strength to carry on daily.
This is the bond between my baby girl and I, and we love to sing this song. Sadly she doesn't know the meaning like I do.
X Ambassadors has this wonderful ability to make me actually watch and care about what goes on in their music videos, rather than just listening to it alone.
What is this video about?
+Timed Escape try and figure it out, its not too deep
I get confused easily and tend to think into it too much
check out kodaline there the same way
check out kodaline there the same way
Crazy how in a world full of people you can still feel so alone and unheard
Exactly 💜😔
@@kyledortch7726 thong
Sad but sometimes only u get u if u know what I mean
Realizing you aren't enough sucks.
❤️
It's crazy how many people come back to this everyday. This song is legendary 💕
2022 anyone??
Yup right here✊👊👍it’s on my playlist 4eva…
I listen to this when I feel depressed
Listening to this right now in my feels
Right here!
Yes ma'am 🙏🙏
I lost my momma yesterday. This song hurts so much more.
I am so so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine the pain you are going through. Please just know that you will make it out of this in the end.
My deepest sympathy to you
I’m so sorry 😔 May she rest in peace stay strong 🙂
ohh im sorry for your lost.. i know it hurts so much....
I feel u girl
Imagine how many people are listening at the same time.
😟
@@anthonytomlin904 23 minutes apart
It’s a little unsteady to think about
@@golden7392 👏
anthony tomlin Lol
this song broke me to tears after listening it again in a show. it reminded me of the battles I had to face this year with cancer. not me, but the battle both my parents have been fighting. my dad had been in the hospital since january of this year and battles through stress, anxiety, and suicidal ideations because of the harsh surgeries. my whole family suffered from this and every day became one more day I thought I was gonna lose him. “if you love me, don’t let go.” those are the words that got me. I am unsteady. I want them to hold onto me because im unsteady. I love you dad, I love you mom. thank you for fighting.
Wow I did that and it was a great depression for 2 years
not reliable I’m sorry about your dad I hope that your parents are alright now...!!!
I can understand you a little cause my dad had a surgery for his heart few weeks ago but now he’s still tired and his heart hurts him too i hate that I can’t do anything to help him and I feel so powerless.... when I’m with him I pretend like everything is going to be okay but when I leave I cry cause I can’t take it...!!!
And I can’t lose him now I want him to be in my 18 birthday I’m still young and the problem he’s the only one who truly love me so I can’t lose him 💔💔
i feel for you whent through the same kinda things i cryed to this song but so true
I know your life will never be the same, but I hope it's moving back on track. I'm not the most religious, but I'm a firm believer of god giving every person a plan.
I know this might not mean a lot but keep fighting i don’t know u but u seem tough pray brotha god is there for you
I lost my dad march of this year, he is the best fsther in the world, everytime i'm with my dad i feel the safest, i have anxiety but never had anxiety or panic attacks when my dad is around because i know he got my back im so lucky to have that kind of love from my father. I miss him everyday and i have been unsteady and never been the same since he was gone.i love you dad someday we will see each other again.
I’m sorry x
My condolences. Sounds like your father is and was a great man. I truly hope I can leave the same effect on my kids when I pass. But you must know, your father is always there for you, just got to a place you have the best of memories with him, close your eyes and talk to him. Think those beautiful memories you both had and never let those memories go. Someday we will all meet at those pearly gates of heaven. God bless you Dani. ❤
When I was 6 years old, my dad was killed in a car wreck, 2 weeks before my kindergarten graduation. I will never forget sitting on the stage at the graduation, watching the double doors on the side of the gymnasium and praying for God to let my daddy walk thru those doors. That was in 1986 and it still hurts. Some wounds never fully heal, you just learn to live with them.
God loves you and your dad is watching over you in heaven. Know that you are loved and you are perfect.
Amen ❤❤❤❤
Oh my I’m so so sorry 😭😭😭💜💜 I’m gutted. I have a kindergartner and I couldn’t imagine that happening right now to her. Love you friend
My dad died in a car crash too. He went over a 40 foot embankment because he was drinking. Lost my brother to alcoholism 11 years ago. My son is in his 30’s and also is alcoholic! My fair everyday is that the same fate will happen to my son and it brings back all the trauma from childhood. I will never fully heal. I could never heal until my son stops drinking.
You spoke the truth are my child
The pain in his voice broke my heart..
This song brings me to my knees
me too it just hurts
Me too😭
The life is a dream and dreams are dreams
No, the life is a nightmare
Who’s still listening in July 2024?? 🌹🎶
❤
My never give in song😢😢😢
I am
Me!🥰
Me❤
"Mother, I know that you're tired of being alone" so odd how so many of our mothers are alone and lonely. It hurts to see them yearning for love from a husband and a father to her children for proper leadership and care.
Sometimes when I discuss with my mother and she hurts me with her words I tried to remember this. She has been trough hell with my father when I was a child and somehow she make it until today. She made so many mistakes and she knows but also we are here today thanks to her so ... it's difficult because somes I'm so mad with her but at the end I know she is trying her best.
There is no excuse for abuse or toxicity. You can't blame you doing it to somebody on someone else. Also Fathers too tbh. You have no idea how many Husbands/father's have to deal with that abuse not only as a child but as a boyfriend or husband from their girlfriend or wife, only difference is it goes far more unnoticed. Nevertheless I hate that it happens to anyone because it's truly unnecessary, and it's usually a cycle til someone breaks it.
Thank you for posting that. Your thoughts are absolutely right. That was my mom her whole life. Mom's are so strong as they take on more than anyone will ever know. They hurt deeply yet they raise their heads up and take care of that family all alone if need be. I am so proud of my momma who carried scars and did her best.
Iamzoila_devine .... I love u baby ..dont let go
You are ABSOLUTELY right after 12yrs I'm done trying
Hey ❤
It's okay to cry. It's okay to experience deep pain and sadness.
Let it out. Let the tears roll down your face.
But don't stay there for too long beautiful. When you're ready take a deep breath. Wipe those pretty eyes.
You're going to be okay. Things will get better soon I promise. Whatever you're going through, it is only for a season. This too shall pass.
I hope you know what a beautiful soul you are. I hope you know your worth, your value, your beauty. You're such a lovely human that no one else in this world can replace.
You are important.
You are needed.
You are loved.
So hold on a bit longer, okay? There is hope. There is purpose. You're going to make it through I promise. The light is just up ahead❤
That just brought me to tears. Thank you so much for those kind words to this stranger.
it really is
The only thing that got me to get rid of my tears, thanks dude.
@@bulletprooffiend5920 same
Thanks for holding on to me, i was a little unsteady :)
X ambassadors have that gift to take you to another place, another mood for 3 or 4 minutes and that is somethings rare and beautiful
This song is not that old
So? I wasn't talking about that
I agree. I was work crying 😢
+Jess Mcwhirter not anymore time for radio spam
+Gabby williams same here, the lyrics of this song have a really personal effect on me and just makes me cry.
I have listened to this song for a few years now but have never taken the time to read the comment section as I just listen at work. Your post hit me very hard! I will always remember this feeling. You and your family are in my prayers. I will light a candle for John in my church this weekend. God Bless you and your family!
When your heart is in a million pieces; and music becomes your escape from the world!!
I'm a little unsteady!
Keeping you in my prayers 🙏
Hold on, hold on to me
Hope you’re ok 💜
@@joannasaadati8810 Each day has a different challenge. I'm keeping a positive mind; as they say: the battle starts in the mind!! Thank YOU
@@precioustorres2649 Thank You so much #LoveAndLightToYou
I lost my dad to suicide 5 years ago this week. he would have been 54 today. This song killed me when I heard it for the first time yesterday. I sobbed for an hour. So beautiful and so much truth in a few short lyrics.
I'm so sorry for your loss 💜
+Kiona Paul-Dedam thank you. 💛
I'm so sorry❤ god bless you
+Amanda Hoffman (zombiesnbacon) Its ok to cry
Sometimes it's not the people it just being unforgiving of themselves
Depression sucks... But being a mom with depression is something I can’t even describe 😢😢😢
I literally cry for help in silence when my child is sleep .. it’s sooooo hard but I try everyday! I just wish I had someone to unconditionally be there for me
@@UnapologeticallyBM keep your head up your so worth everything your a great mother ❤️your doing amazing love your so worthy
your amazing keep your head up your an amazing mother. your worth everything you can do it❤️
@@UnapologeticallyBM it’s not easy being a mom we have feelings too and that’s okay! I know exactly what ur going through . Ur child and god loves u soo much girll message me if You ever need someone to talk to cause I care 💗
God you have NO Idea how much this hit me. I'm a mom and it's so hard and now my 14yr old daughter is fighting Depression. Its soooo Hard. God Bless you an know you are not alone. Love you
Omg this guy's voice how have I managed not finding them for so long I've been deprived
This hit harder when you are going through the worst and no one is there to keep u steady 😢
You have yourself. ❤
Sometimes, yourself is everyone you have.
When you come out the other side stronger having learned to embrace the unsteadiness
@@georgegalvan9066 And if the light at the end of the tunnel is getting dim?
@@erika6651
Yeah I have myself till I lose my freakin mind, great freakin support really, like I didn't know that
My husband who passed two years ago listened to this song over and over before he passed. He would grab my hand and say, " I'm unsteady". Broke my heart. I love this song even though it makes me cry.
❣️❣️🫂🤝
@@Emma-re6vb so sorry
I truly feel the pain my husband passed away as well,i got alone with twin daughters i would never let him go😢
Into thine hand I commit my spirit: thou hast redeemed me, O LORD God of truth.” Psalms 31:5 🕯
This song still brings tears to my eyes!! Reminds me of the struggle I went through for years 😢😭
Great song, probably the most underrated band in music right now.
+W Lee underrated they will play with Muse! xD
Compared to Imagine Dragons "somewhat similar sound" who just about everyone knows they are relatively unknown and underrated. To my knowledge none of their songs or videos have won any awards even though they have a host of great songs like this one. Thats what I meant by my comment.
+W Lee I agree that more people should know of them, but they really haven't been a band for a really long period of time. I mean, there are still some really great bands out there who have been around for a little longer and they still don't have awards. I saw them live when I saw them with Panic! at the Disco and that's pretty cool to say. They'll get there eventually! (:
+whackedout101 Agree with you 100% on great bands not being heard and getting awards. Its kind of strange to think that if it wasn't for a Jeep commercial "and a advertising person with an ear for good music" this band might have never gotten to that next level like it has. Its like if you don't hear these artist songs in TV commercials, shows or movies then they may never make it big. Kinda of weird don't you think?
W Lee Yeah, it makes me sad when really great bands don't get enough representation in the music industry. I didn't really know who X Ambassadors was when I saw them live, BUT when I heard Renegades on the radio and I heard it live I was like "Whaaat?! That's the same band?!" I was kind of angry with myself for not knowing the name of the band that sang the song. The dude has some AMAZING pipes on him.
It is really hard for artists to make it big which is kind of stupid, if you ask me. But then I look at those fans who say they hated when their favorite artist/band got super big because then it was nearly impossible to see them live without their concert tickets selling out in a couple of days and the venues are HUGE. I just FINALLY decided to give Twenty One Pilots a try a month ago or so and finally decided they grew on me a ton and when I found out they were performing at Red Rocks like X Ambassadors did this summer I had to get tickets. They are playing 2 shows and they sold out the first night in a day and the 2nd had probably half of the tickets left to sell. So when I saw that I had a strange feeling that I wish I had listened to them back in 2011 when they weren't so big.
It's kind of weird--the music industry.
As far as X Ambassadors, their music is pretty amazing as far as vocals, lyrics, and just overall sound. It is a shame that they aren't as big as Miley Cyrus or whatever because they definitely deserve it more. I totally agree with you. Just request their music on your local station and maybe you'll hear 'em more. (:
This song holds SO MUCH POWER that it enables a person to finally have the much-needed breakdown of all the things that they kept inside them while also empowering a person to fight everything and to believe JUST ONCE MORE, JUST ONCE MORE...
Facts I always cry Wawa discovered this for me cried at ATM listening to this literally buying drugs it saved me
im crying rn while listening to it
“dad, i know your trying to fight when you feel flying” ... that hit hard ngl. depression sucks.
When you find another Morgan that can relate😢
@@morganramirez510 hi fellow morgan
@@morgansyt do you have a phone number or socials i already wanna be freinds and get to know you
Except he stopped fighting and let go
The video is beautiful it depicts how easily it is to let yourself fall for the wrong person by making their flaws not bother you and where that leads. They always show us who they are we just don’t want to see it.
But it also shows the unwillingness of the problem person to evolve, adapt to new situations and challenges and grow with their partner.
To everyone dealing with hard times I love you all, be strong
Jose sotelo thnx bro
Thank you
Thank you 🙏
Thank you :(
Thanks, I feel like I’m drifting away from my best friend and the only comfort in my life and it’s all my fault just because I have blooming anxiety and no one gives one even when I say I need to get homeschooled etc, and my life is just always so shitty! :(
You know ...this song has a special place in my heart my and my husband would listen to this all the time I’d see the tears full up in his eyes he lost his battle with depression on January 21 2022..I’m hurt I’m broken I’m shattered we have two kids together but this song ...this song he held my hand and the pain in this mans voice I saw in my husbands eyes I tried my best to save him ...a part of me wants to blame people because of how he grew up because of the shit he went threw a part of me blames myself because I wasn’t always happy with him he struggled with a lot of things but this song brought a memory to my mind of when he was in the shower and sitting on the floor I took off my clothes got in the shower with him picked up his face and kissed him while crying saying I love baby keep fighting 🥺and now I have tears strolling down my face cause that’s one of the many times I did that I would wash his body when he didn’t have the strength ..I miss him I miss every part of him I have shirts with his smell I have his kids I have pictures and videos but ..I don’t have him and right now I don’t wanna believe this shit actually happened ...that he’s gone our son is 2 and a half and our daughter is 7 mo 💔and he loved them so much our son says his name ...my birthday just passed Valentine’s Day too and man it was hard but I did everything we would have done I love and miss him every second of the day ... his depression was like a cancer ...who loves you more then anybody ...I do 😔to those who are battling depression keep going you only pass the pain to the people that love you ..your not alone keep fighting live for your family anyone can die for them ...live for them too my husband wanted to be here I know it was a instant regret...he wanted to see us grow old and see our kids grow up ..fight ..fight to live
Ma'am I know you don't know me but stories and experiences such as yours are inspiring to young people such as my self and hope you get to enjoy the rest of your life with loved ones around you before you head over to meet your lover in the next life....lessons such as the one you wrote makes me realize anything can happen so don't take things for granted
I'm still 16 but I'm so sorry for your loss I can't imagine how hard that is.. I lost a few family members these last 2 months and it definitely took a toll on me. I'm so sorry.
Your comment was touching I’m currently battling with depression really bad but I try to keep going for my 2 & 1 year old baby boys but it’s just so hard so thank you so much for this comment
@@jaimewalker8921 I know it’s hard I honestly for five years we were together since we were 17 years old we met in high school our senior year and I loved him since the first time I’ve ever laid my eyes on him since our first date I have his kids and I know how hard he fought to be here for them and I know he was not in the right state of mind I know he wasn’t thinking straight he would talk about seeing her son grow up and talk about walking our daughter Down the aisle he would talk about what kind of house we wanted and how we would want to build it it hurts my soul that I don’t have my person here With me with our kids our son wakes up and cries for him and when goes to sleep he misses him to our daughter knew him by his smell our son knows him by a picture his voice .. his smell and now I have to explain things I never thought that I would explain things that I have to learn and I never thought I would have to learn your kids they love you believe it or not you’re their superhero your sons look forward to seeing you come home every day look forward for that look on their face when you walk through that door I love that like the look on my son’s face when he saw his daddy come home from work they look up just pure excitement and pure joy and just wanting to melt in his arms it’s worth it to live you have so much to live for we were just starting out our lives together the way we wanted to the way we worked so hard to have it He was young he was only 23 I am hurt but I’m not angry I understand I want to be angry but I can’t I know What he went through I know what ate him up inside and I’m sorry that you even feel an inch of that but please keep fighting your kids deserve a daddy/mommy and you deserve to be here you deserve to give them a family don’t ever forget that my husband wanted that...you have that don’t give up And no matter what you’re feeling no matter how much you’re fighting you do not deserve to die You deserve to live
@@izzybaba5230 thank you ❤️
We are lucky to have songs like this to help heal. Everyone is going through something you know nothing of, tread lightly and treat people with kindness. You are blessed
"Dont be sad that it ended, be happy that it happened
I needed this today. I'm seriously struggling. Thank you.
i’m in love with this comment section. i’m not suicidal but i really don’t find a point in living. i am happy not depressed but nothing makes sense but this comment section really made me smile.
ps: i’ve never come cross a video like this. i don’t know what it means. it’s my first time and made my heart full
"this house don't feel like home"
that line got me
edit: I've never gotten this many likes
me too
Same
you should listen "home" by three days grace, the lyrics is about this
i can relate to that as well. Stay strong my friend, there's a good place for everyone in this world
Me too😢
"I'm alone, cause this house don't feel like home" is when I started crying bc it really doesn't...
I started to break down upon hearing that same line. Beautiful yet sorrowful. Many of the words resonate with me due to some of the experiences I've had
Don't give up
Home is where u make it dont ever let yourself feel lonly cause ur alone abuse is a nasty nasty thing and can really distroy ur life dont let it keep ur head learn ur own worth dont let someone tell u what it is
Same. Every time.
Home is where the heart is.. for that is your treasure.. for what you treasure is where your heart is. YOU GOTTA KEEP ON KEEPING ON. ;)
For anyone that needs to know, just know we are all broken so you don't need to be in a hurry to be perfect. If you feel like you have alot built up inside just sing to songs like this and let your emotions go. It's ok not to be ok 👍
Thanks man
Thank you man
You both are welcome, keep y'all's heads up 👍👍
Thank you it means a lot ❤️
I needed more then ever to read this.. thank you
My father spent his entire life trying to make a better life for us. When he passed in the icu , it tore my family apart but we have to keep going no matter the pain. Others deserve to be happy and that’s what I know he would want for our family. This song really hits home for me. Prayers for the ones that’s lost their way. It does get better!
May he rest in peace ! Amen
My little sister just sent this song to me and told me i needed to hear it.
We went through a lot of terrible things in our life but this song just crushed me. My parents split when I was about 7 and i didnt see my dad again until i was 16 because my mom kept me from him. She had her reasons, she was scared for herself, they got violent with each other. But , 7 years later after i finally got to be with my dad and love him when my other sisters never got the chance, he just passed a month ago. my heart is completely broken, ive never felt so much pain. this song just broke me down into a million pieces
It will get better I promise even though I don't know you I love u and hope all goes well
😭😭😭
thank you ♡♡
thank you ♡♡
who tf cares?
First time listening to this song and I can't stop crying... I miss my mom so much I wish I could hold her hand just one more time
Princess Gere I know that feeling
Princess Gere Fucking prefect by pink made me cry
I know how you feel :(
Princess Gere lost my mom at 10 brother 2 years ago and father 1 year ago sow hold on
Princess Gere its okay you'll be fine we all lose people at one point its okay cause I know how you feel because my dad is gone and I can feel what you do I hope you feel better .
Gotta say they nailed the older and younger actors, they actually look versions of the same people, makes the video hit that much harder
You are not kidding. The scenes are so relevant too. Leaving the diner when theyre youngerr...compared to them leaving the house..spilling the salt and pepper and then the legos breaking..the necklace in the car on the rearview seems like the only thing that had to hold onto at one point. A moment that brough them together...but its hanging between them in the end. Such a great video and an even harder one to watch.
They probably are the same actors, these people have impeccable makeup artists behind their videos
@Beans MAYBE the woman, but the man is a totally different human lol
This song still brings tears to my eyes! Bless yall and thank yall for bringing this record to the masses! I’m 33 years old standing on my back porch right now tearing up to this track. All these years later it holds so much weight
I just got out of rehab this week. I was at Desert Hope for 28 days in Las Vegas. This was the song that helped me through the tough times when I finally admitted that I am an alcoholic. My husband is my rock. Being away from him and our beautiful daughter for that long was hell but I feel so much better now.
This will be the first weekend without binge drinking, I'm ready to experience life without being numb all the time. Song/video is very personal.
This is indeed a good and beautiful song, just like you. You are so strong! You're an example for your family. I bet they are proud of you. Stay strong, good luck and God bless you. You can do it!
how bitches
awd111980 I love your story! very insprational
waaa
Angel Williams ur gay
I am crying haven't heard this in years and it just hits different now that I am older and can relate.
Man same 💯
same :/
dude hard same
Same
Hits way different now... it was kool back then but now I lost my fiancé in May to Addiction at only 27... the words mean so much now. Me and the kids miss her everyday ...its hard to get thur tbh
Lost my dad to bone cancer, tried to convince my self he was gonna be ok but we all know I was lying to myself! Dad passed away in front of me. Rest in eternal piece dad, fly like an angel!
Frankie DaKilla sorry about your lost. I lost my friend in ATV accident
I lost my brother
Sorry for your lose
james mckirdy sorry for your loss, must've been difficult
Aidan Hosein I'm sorry for your loss
This song is amazing and so cathartic. It really hits home for anyone who's been through tough times. The way it blends the lyrics and melody is just so powerful, making you feel understood and less alone. It's a great reminder that music can help us heal and connect with others.
The pain in the mom’s face,
The ignorance of the dad who doesn’t care
The happiest kid in the world, unknowing
Sam Van Lonkhuyzen 👌
That child will know soon enough.
The guy could have trauma of his own, maybe even be trying to mask it with alcohol. I know alot of great guys in the marine corps that turned to alcohol to fix their issues most of it to do with ptsd. Its sad and heart breaking but alot of internal pain masked with alcohol could make even a great guy seem bad. I myself have issues with ptsd and turned alcohol for awhile and it was to the point that if i wasnt drinking i wasnt able to enjoy anything. The guy is wrong and needs help but alot of those issues could be coming from trauma and an inablitiy to get by without using alcohol as a crutch. This song really hits home to me for this reason as well
Ignorance is strenght - George Orwell
Brenden H
I can get by for a long time without alcohol and do just fine, but god do I only feel happy when I’m inebriated.
This song keeps me sober and non-suicidal. It reminds me there are people actually straining themselves to hold on to me.
That's so true. They're so grateful you realize how much you mean to them. Keep fighting for them.
This is the comment.
It mirrors my almost 10 year addiction to me. I remember it when I was still using. I'm so grateful I'm clean now and I'm sure my family is too... but i never thought i would make it
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🙏💪💛✝️
I wonder what that feels like?
When you've been through childhood trauma and you're fighting to just be a normal adult..But so many don't understand
i felt this. it’s so hard to just be normal.
@@ashleypettus7750 So true..Wishing you all the best in life - Hugs-
@@datruth9813 thank you. wishing you the best as well. ❤️
This!! 💔
this hurts....bless u
I lost my 23 month old niece. June 2nd 2023. She was literally my pride and joy. She will be deeply missed. But im glad shes watching over me.
I'm in a rough part of life right now and this song kind of helps me, I replay it and instead of things being rough it makes it go smooth...and empty. I don't like the empty feeling but it's better than being sad I guess. For every one feeling the same or even worse, heads up things will be alright, Bless you all😔❤️
HannahThe SadBanana same:/ life sucks. Hope you feel better, if you wanna talk I'm a good listener
HannahThe SadBanana stay strong
HannahThe SadBanana me to it's hard
HannahThe SadBanana I will pray for you & everyone else going through a hard time. Jesus will fill the feeling😐
If your reading this , just hold on please i know your hurting ,so am i , that means someone else understands what ur going through, and i wont let go even when u insist on pushing me away
thanks..
@Tiffany Peyton I'd like to be friends?
@Tiffany Peyton what do you have to chat on? I'll add you
Im here because of the meme so yeah this comment section gives water to my eyes
@Tiffany Peyton how do I contact you on there?
I recently lost my mother, she was my mentor, my friend, my world. I came across this song; tried to hold back tears, but as soon as I heard "Mother I know your tired of being alone" the flood gates burst open, and it felt good to cry and get it out, Thank you X Ambassadors....Thank You!
I lost my 8 month old son last year and this song gave me so much hope. I felt like I was losing grip and didn’t think I could make it out. Then one day my husband and I were in the car and this song came on. We both broke down and held each other. This song will forever be part of my life.
Slllaaaay 🔥
sorry for your loss. rip little one x
I'm very sorry. 😢
We lost our 4 month old son to SIDS in 2019. It's a horrible club to belong to, but you're not alone. We're forever changed, but so far somehow we've survived. When there's nothing else, there's music to help me personally cope.
I’m so very sorry for your loss. I lost a grandchild last year and didn’t think I’d make it. I grieved for my daughter, her husband and myself. Losing a child is an unbearable pain. I was gravely ill months afterward and had a near death experience. Our consciousness, your baby’s consciousness, continues on without a single second of a break. I no longer fear death, and I know with 100% certainty that you and your child will be together again. I wish you peace and healing 🫂❤