X Ambassadors - Unsteady

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  • @heatherspencer6503
    @heatherspencer6503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36012

    My husband who I had been with for 20 years got very sick and spent months in ICU on breathing machines. I lived at Grant hospital in the ICU wtg room for 37 days at one point. This was one of the last songs he sent me from the hospital. He passed away one month before our 20 year anniversary on March 30th 2019. My house will never feel like home without him. We had 5 children together and our 16 year old son looks like him. Ppl say that it gets easier as time goes on, but for me, it's not any easier today than it was the night I watched him take his last breath. Idk if ppl actually read these comments or not. But if you did thanks for taking time out of your day to read this. John I love you and I miss you and I hope you're the 1st face I get to see when it's my time to go.

    • @chrish.6588
      @chrish.6588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +888

      God bless you and your family. You have my sincerest condolences.
      Close your eyes and breathe deep, as now spiritually your husband is more by your side than ever before.

    • @breanneberry1277
      @breanneberry1277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +493

      So sorry for your loss, I usually never read comments on songs I listen to but I clicked yours and read the whole thing and it put tears in my eyes, I couldn’t imagine what your going through and nobody should expect something like that to get easier but I no what you mean when they say it gets easier but I don’t think it would.

    • @breanneberry1277
      @breanneberry1277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +171

      You should listen to staind-something to remind you, it is a really good song

    • @CarlosMorales-hr4mt
      @CarlosMorales-hr4mt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +171

      Just stay strong I miss my daughter every day so I understand how u feel every room in your house is a memory he would want you to just remember the good times

    • @anthonydavis4581
      @anthonydavis4581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +171

      it’s all love sweetheart 💓 john hears you

  • @nelajnaebnit799
    @nelajnaebnit799 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22107

    My dad abused me for ten years. I was four years old when it first happened.
    He beat, tortured and humiliated me. He nearly killed me three times. I was bullied because I had to wear the clothes of my sisters. Three years ago my Mum committed suicide. Sometimes I don’t know how to breathe. But, I am here. I survived hell. To all those out there undergoing the same: never give up! You are not alone! There are so many of us. We are warriors! Please stay strong!

    • @eris5688
      @eris5688 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1412

      Nela Jnaebnit I Don’t know you but I Fucking love you and wish the best for u

    • @fafablog6152
      @fafablog6152 5 ปีที่แล้ว +744

      we love you and you are a hero

    • @A1xh4
      @A1xh4 5 ปีที่แล้ว +553

      You’re so strong!!! I love you.

    • @MammaBean0617
      @MammaBean0617 4 ปีที่แล้ว +224

      Thank you and your a rock star

    • @yenanne6190
      @yenanne6190 4 ปีที่แล้ว +198

      Godbless you. Stand for yourself. I'm praying for you

  • @kaylarose1081
    @kaylarose1081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +636

    "It ran in the family, until it ran into me."
    To everyone out there struggling with generational trauma: YOU CAN BREAK THE CYCLE. It doesn't have to continue through you. Find a therapist, find support, find books, find God, find friends who can help. Surround yourself with people who can push you out of the circumstances you were raised in. I grew up in an abusive house that left me with psychological and emotional scars, but I fought tooth and nail to recover from the crap that went on. I'm now married to a wonderful guy and we're expecting our first baby. This baby will be raised in a peaceful, nonviolent home, one where they are cherished and loved every day of their life. I know I won't be a perfect parent, but I determined years ago that I would be the link in the chain that would allow itself to be broken. The chain stopped with me. It can stop with you, too. I'm praying for you.

    • @andreaduncan3845
      @andreaduncan3845 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Kiki thank you..i pray the curse is broken !

    • @tiaramcneal316
      @tiaramcneal316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for your post! Stay mighty.

    • @heatherhigman1132
      @heatherhigman1132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I was raised in an abusive home with alcohol n drugs n although im not in a household with alcohol n drugs I do find myself in a domestic violence situation that I cant seem to get out of cuz of financial n no support unfortunately from outside fam n friends, mean they say leave but where r they to help... n we r pregnant with our first his 4th but my first lol n hes already out his hands on me pregnant so I feel as though he doesn't deserve to b a father he swears he will change but his anger isn't only problem hes controlling possessive aggressive n a liar n a cheater not physically but through social media n I wanna leave n ive tried but he won't let me n he won't keave either. I never thought id find myself in this situation ever but here I am lol. I use to volunteer n help families n women in my situation now n I never try understood why they would stay never understood why my mom did but now I get it n I hate it. But I still care n love him n I feel guilty for tryin to leave... I know its crazy but I feel psychologically fucked in a sense. But bless u that u got away from it all n dealt with it. I thought I had to until I found myself with this one n he was so perfect too perfect to b true n I kept thinking that but we have known eachother from highschool n he had anger issues but never laid hand on his ex wife so I never thought he would me but he says he love sme so much I drive him crazy... once again flipping the blame on me. Im just so tired feeling bad n if I leave he threatens his own life and what not. Like its a psychological roller coaster that ive been drawn into like a maze n cant find my way out of. But so happy for u n urs. Best wishes n many blessings for u n ur lil one.

    • @itscoryduh575
      @itscoryduh575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That first sentence man, that’s my mission right now

    • @kaylarose1081
      @kaylarose1081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@heatherhigman1132 I was in a domestically abusive relationship too. Girl, you deserve to get out. You're trapped right now in a cycle of dependency and control and I am PRAYING you get out of there. You and your baby deserve SO MUCH BETTER. There is a man out there just waiting to treat you like the queen that you are, who won't manipulate you or make you feel crazy and who will NEVER make you feel unsafe. I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. But please know that finances are no reason to stay trapped there. Is there a women's shelter somewhere nearby? You don't have to pay to use one and they can help you figure out how to get on your feet and take care of your baby free of this guy. Please, please, please take that leap of faith. You have such a beautiful future ahead of you but you have to start running for it.

  • @thandomkhonza3346
    @thandomkhonza3346 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +344

    This hit harder when you are going through the worst and no one is there to keep u steady 😢

    • @erika6651
      @erika6651 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      You have yourself. ❤

    • @theresawilliams1257
      @theresawilliams1257 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Sometimes, yourself is everyone you have.

    • @georgegalvan9066
      @georgegalvan9066 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      When you come out the other side stronger having learned to embrace the unsteadiness

    • @theresawilliams1257
      @theresawilliams1257 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@georgegalvan9066 And if the light at the end of the tunnel is getting dim?

    • @lukascisar6740
      @lukascisar6740 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@erika6651
      Yeah I have myself till I lose my freakin mind, great freakin support really, like I didn't know that

  • @jssalazar00
    @jssalazar00 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2706

    My son passed on February 11, 2021. I miss him with all my heart. Life will never be the same without him. I love you son. I will meet you soon.

    • @gabbymitchell5690
      @gabbymitchell5690 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Wow, I'm sooo sorry for your loss I'm praying for you.! Just hold on and as much as you want to be alone and push people away don't you need them just as much as they need you.
      You got this just keep holding on

    • @meljosephusmolijon9707
      @meljosephusmolijon9707 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Be strong. ❤️

    • @amyclaire6002
      @amyclaire6002 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      My heart dropped reading this I’m so sorry for your lose I just came back from my nans funeral and this song is helping me I hope it helps u stay strong

    • @kristinac5824
      @kristinac5824 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I'm so sorry for your loss. Always here for you if you ever want to talk 💗 keep your head up

    • @Camishamaria
      @Camishamaria 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I'm soooo sorry for your loss. This made my heart ache :( Keep your head up.

  • @tashakann2
    @tashakann2 ปีที่แล้ว +815

    I’m in the fight for my life with brain cancer. Doctors said I should have been dead a month ago.. I’m still going praise Jesus. This song is helping me through some dark times

    • @ayahajslema
      @ayahajslema ปีที่แล้ว +13

      may God heal you

    • @jaylenabk
      @jaylenabk ปีที่แล้ว +8

      God gots ya ! ❤ be strong i hope you beat the s*** out that cancer stay blessed

    • @lifewithladya8481
      @lifewithladya8481 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Praying for you❤

    • @JozietheTexasLegend
      @JozietheTexasLegend ปีที่แล้ว +6

      How are you doing?

    • @kevinruese9365
      @kevinruese9365 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You are a miracle , doctors are human and make mistakes , God is everything

  • @jaded5789
    @jaded5789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2020

    The pain in his voice as he sings every line, got me in my feelings..
    It's heartbreaking, yet therapeutic..

    • @latriciaholloway3228
      @latriciaholloway3228 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      You tube is just taking me through a musical therapy session

    • @kaseybodenmann3601
      @kaseybodenmann3601 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The best and worst song after you lose a parent/loved one

    • @mackenzieleigh6568
      @mackenzieleigh6568 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too 😌

    • @zoeyziva7164
      @zoeyziva7164 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I feel everything... It's so disheartening.

    • @edwincabrera2362
      @edwincabrera2362 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I told my ex if four years I cheated couldn’t lie to her no more lost the best thing in my life currently I feel so lost but I know I did the right thing idc how ya feel I shouldn’t be hurting but I am I love you Andrea

  • @foxxyraldin
    @foxxyraldin 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +121

    It's 2024, and this is the first song that has touched my soul since I lost my dad 4 months ago. Some pain never goes away.

    • @whodafukisthis
      @whodafukisthis 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm so sorry for loss may you find strength to never let go but heal 💓 I don't know you but that doesn't matter with compassion

    • @gemalbest1
      @gemalbest1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Pain is sumthing that’s doesn’t goes away cuz it sumthing that u learn from grow from n eventually heal from.! Choosing to hold on to the pain is a choice as well.! Your dad isn’t gone truly, he with u everywhere u go, he’s in ur heart n wherever also whenever u need him he’ll be there for u.! Cherish n hold on to the good times n keep him close to u that’s how he will live forever.! Grieve n take ur time just don’t stay gone too long cuz ur father wouldn’t want u sad n lost over the pain of him being physically gone.! My condolences, it’s always tough losing sum1 very close I know the thing is tho in the end God calls us back cause our time is up n we served the purpose we was on earth for.! When we our done earth our true happiness is brought back to n all the suffering ends when we return back to God.!

    • @Khalessixtiffany
      @Khalessixtiffany 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me too. My dad passed on December 11th. This was our song.

    • @eshcadaba
      @eshcadaba หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So true. I learned recently that pain is proof of the love in equal proportions.

    • @dandra19911
      @dandra19911 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I also lost my dad 5 years ago after a life long battle with addiction. It never gets easier but you learn how to be stronger. Whoever said time heals all wounds is a liar. Keep pushing on make your dad proud

  • @god_chose_me24-7
    @god_chose_me24-7 ปีที่แล้ว +664

    I used to play this song while in active addiction and now on May 26, 2024 I will be 2 years clean 🙌🏽🙏🏽❤️ I was crying out to God to please keep holding on to me and not let me die I was definitely UNSTEADY at the time I will forever love this song

    • @angelagibson1096
      @angelagibson1096 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Keep it up wish I was in that place well done addiction is hard to crack I just need to work out how to crack it lol

    • @god_chose_me24-7
      @god_chose_me24-7 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@angelagibson1096 The only way to do that is to say no to crack!! 😉

    • @14Daysin
      @14Daysin 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@god_chose_me24-7 crack is wack

    • @leenamohammed6437
      @leenamohammed6437 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      My children and I just lost their father (my ex husband / best friend) so drugs. I had to ID him today. Now listening to this is all I can think to do

    • @mistylosh1895
      @mistylosh1895 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Quitting is for quitters

  • @estevanromero363
    @estevanromero363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7898

    My mother was my whole heart. She passed away on December 25th, 2020. Now I am as unsteady as I’ll ever be. I love you mom, r.i.p💔

    • @unrelentingf0x804
      @unrelentingf0x804 3 ปีที่แล้ว +158

      I'm sorry I know that's hard try to keep your head up

    • @HeavanlyValentine
      @HeavanlyValentine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      I'm so sorry. I love you. Stay strong .

    • @rufarotalicjabangwe3761
      @rufarotalicjabangwe3761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      I'm so sorry
      You will get through this
      Stay strong xx

    • @stephanialee4645
      @stephanialee4645 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      I'm so sorry I feel that way too it hurts, my dad passed away in the same date. Stay strong

    • @yadiracaruso9630
      @yadiracaruso9630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @ehopkins3114
    @ehopkins3114 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    This song has me in tears. I'm literally watching my father slowly die, from cancer. It's so hard, pretending that everything is ok. I try so hard to be strong for him. I'm his only daughter/child. So I'm all he has, and vice versa. Idk how I'm gonna survive without him. Lord, I ask you to wrap your healing arms around him. Let him stay with me, just a little while longer. Amen! I don't want to be selfish. But man, does this hurt! I just want to tell him "I love you Daddy!" I'm just afraid he won't say it back, or will say "me too". God, help me!

    • @willhuffman5256
      @willhuffman5256 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Sending prayers and positive vibes yall's way🙏

  • @kyliewaiomio6816
    @kyliewaiomio6816 3 ปีที่แล้ว +565

    Hold, hold on, hold onto me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Hold, hold on, hold onto me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Mama, come here
    Approach, appear
    Daddy, I'm alone
    'Cause this house don't feel like home
    If you love me, don't let go
    Whoa, if you love me, don't let go
    Hold, hold on, hold onto me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Hold, hold on, hold onto me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Mother, I know
    That you're tired of being alone
    Dad, I know you're trying
    To fight when you feel like flying
    But if you love me, don't let go
    Whoa, if you love me, don't let go
    Hold, hold on, hold onto me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Hold, hold on, hold onto me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Hold, hold on, hold onto me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady

    • @vistics
      @vistics 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you ♥️

    • @chevykelly8998
      @chevykelly8998 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @your.girl.Avarie
      @your.girl.Avarie 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Imma copyright you until I can’t no more

    • @mangekyosharingan5626
      @mangekyosharingan5626 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thankx

    • @maguiotazuag2566
      @maguiotazuag2566 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      X Ambassadors - Inseguro
      Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí,
      porque soy un poco inseguro, (unsteady)
      un poco inseguro.
      Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí,
      porque soy un poco inseguro,
      un poco inseguro.
      Mamá, ven aquí,
      acércate, aparece.
      Papá, estoy solo,
      porque esta casa no parece un hogar.
      Si me quieres, no te sueltes.
      Oh, si me quieres, no te sueltes.
      Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí,
      porque soy un poco inseguro,
      un poco inseguro.
      Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí,
      porque soy un poco inseguro,
      un poco inseguro.
      Madre, sé
      que estás cansada de estar sola.
      Padre, sé que estás intentando luchar
      cuando lo que te apetece es volar (feel like)
      Pero si me quieres, no te sueltes.
      Oh, si me quieres, no te sueltes.
      Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí,
      porque soy un poco inseguro,
      un poco inseguro.
      Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí,
      porque soy un poco inseguro,
      un poco inseguro.
      Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí,
      porque soy un poco inseguro,
      un poco inseguro.

  • @ginuenmiller
    @ginuenmiller 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2859

    We are just all broken children in adult lives trying to make it okay.. I see you. You are doing a great job.

  • @sharleneandrews227
    @sharleneandrews227 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I grew up in a horrible home.
    This song helped me let out my sorrow, hurt, anger, and helplessness..
    I know what not to do 😊
    Can we all reach for a better way ..
    Children need a stable HOME

  • @izzywhitby8994
    @izzywhitby8994 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7496

    The pain in his voice just makes the song

    • @paigedodd1949
      @paigedodd1949 8 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      This song made me cry cause it remind me if when my parents were fighting and they devorced when I was 4

    • @erinrowe4338
      @erinrowe4338 8 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I feel you. The exact same thing happened to me.

    • @nadiagpadilla
      @nadiagpadilla 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      +Paige Dodd same here. My parents divorced when j was 4 and this brought back the terrible memories so I feel ya

    • @beetsuri178
      @beetsuri178 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      The divorce papers were final on my birthday...

    • @erinrowe4338
      @erinrowe4338 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      My parents got divorced one day after my dad's birthday... and my dog died one month before that...

  • @ineslironfarre9044
    @ineslironfarre9044 3 ปีที่แล้ว +605

    LYRICS
    Hold, hold on, hold onto me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Hold, hold on, hold onto me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Mama, come here
    Approach, appear
    Daddy, I'm alone
    'Cause this house don't feel like home
    If you love me, don't let go
    Whoa, if you love me, don't let go
    Hold, hold on, hold onto me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Hold, hold on, hold onto me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Mother, I know
    That you're tired of being alone
    Dad, I know you're trying
    To fight when you feel like flying
    But if you love me, don't let go
    Whoa, if you love me, don't let go
    Hold, hold on, hold onto me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Hold, hold on, hold onto me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Hold, hold on, hold onto me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady

  • @dylanwalford11
    @dylanwalford11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3113

    This song is the lyrical definition of that feeling where your chest hurts and it's just emptiness

    • @therealdoll3469
      @therealdoll3469 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      omg ik this feeling and i havent had it in so long but now i feel so broken

    • @therealdoll3469
      @therealdoll3469 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@sentinelrevolutionist9798 yesss i have so been their

    • @hopedrake898
      @hopedrake898 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true.

    • @foxyrhi7398
      @foxyrhi7398 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      For me its a reminder of my child abuse.

    • @foxyrhi7398
      @foxyrhi7398 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@sentinelrevolutionist9798 i hate that feeling ur throat hurt chest tight ur eyes are on the brink of tears im a childhood abuse survivor but its left its scars i now have cptsd and my life hasnt been easy since

  • @scorpiomomandwife8407
    @scorpiomomandwife8407 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

    2024 and this song still brings me to tears. I've never had a song dig into my soul quite like this one does 😭😭😭

    • @smithamy22578
      @smithamy22578 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You and me both.

  • @WendyAG
    @WendyAG 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3814

    Reading the comments in this video while listening to the song was truly heartbreaking. To anyone reading this, please stay strong! we don't know each other, but in case you need this: I believe in you. You can do it. You can get through it. You're strong enough. You're worthy.

    • @kierasaddleback4507
      @kierasaddleback4507 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      this means soooo much.. idk what to do anymore. i'm sooo tired of life, and everything, and i can't believe i'm typing this.

    • @rac0586
      @rac0586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I hope you are doing okay.. Let me know what's going on? I care about you..

    • @mackiedon8300
      @mackiedon8300 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thanks for believing in me, i jus want u to know that u are an amazing person 🤗

    • @lukacolovic572
      @lukacolovic572 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Love and support to all!!!

    • @latoyawinter3396
      @latoyawinter3396 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aww

  • @ariannacleveland
    @ariannacleveland 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2296

    The part “Im alone. Cause this house don’t feel like home”. Really, really hit hard for me because of personal reasons.

    • @peartdahurt
      @peartdahurt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I don't know what you're going through but what I do know is you WILL get through it. Stay strong and stay safe and know that you are Loved.

    • @sadgedoge7819
      @sadgedoge7819 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same bro :/

    • @5ive4thelabel47
      @5ive4thelabel47 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      NAW FOR REAL SAME REASONS

    • @5ive4thelabel47
      @5ive4thelabel47 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Naw for real same reasons

    • @brittanytully739
      @brittanytully739 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Here, here... I’m just finding things out with my marriage, I was already dealing with depression and things going on in my life, myself. We never fought, we laughed and always got along. I feel so weak but have to bring strong for my three babies.

  • @annamoore8922
    @annamoore8922 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8118

    it hurts when someone is your reason to live but youre not theirs

    • @beno4936
      @beno4936 4 ปีที่แล้ว +188

      Can't you be your own reason to live?

    • @squelch6573
      @squelch6573 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Weak !

    • @lalafun1666
      @lalafun1666 4 ปีที่แล้ว +160

      Squelch
      We have all been there don’t pretend you have never felt pain before.

    • @waseemzafar4344
      @waseemzafar4344 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      @@squelch6573 shut up

    • @skywasmaroon
      @skywasmaroon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      you only have yourself, be your own reason to live.

  • @prittypandasmom6309
    @prittypandasmom6309 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Reading these comments 2 days after the second year of my mom’s passing 😢there’s so many of us sharing our pain, receiving love and encouragement… I’m just in awe that in all of our differences and not knowing one another, we’ll not just scroll by those feeling alone, we stop and relate and love on the heartbroken. It truly restores my heart and faith in this cold world that as a collective of strangers, we can still show love to one another when needing it.
    God’s richest blessings ❤

  • @NicoleRandall-dg9cv
    @NicoleRandall-dg9cv ปีที่แล้ว +157

    My beautiful husband played this song over and over before he died. He was beautiful, amazing, my true love. He wasn't unsteady, just sick, in pain. I never let go until now. I'm healed and ready. He would want that. God bless to all of you who have lost someone who felt unsteady.

  • @raqllrz
    @raqllrz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3795

    how a family has the power to destroy a person’s psychological, fuck

    • @berolaluoch9524
      @berolaluoch9524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Very true

    • @mimiparker4776
      @mimiparker4776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Im crying right now

    • @kevonfiguera4997
      @kevonfiguera4997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Felt this one...

    • @davidgrimes4210
      @davidgrimes4210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @@mimiparker4776 I love you. Regardless of your political preference, gender, sexual orientation, religious beliefs, I love you.

    • @julianiedziela4642
      @julianiedziela4642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True...

  • @keissafespace6912
    @keissafespace6912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +703

    i feel like this really hits when your parents hurt you so much but you know that they've been through so much trauma and have their own things to work out and they don't know any better

    • @justingreen3557
      @justingreen3557 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Wish I could tell my kids how sorry I am

    • @devanxhi
      @devanxhi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      mhm

    • @paulazapata4187
      @paulazapata4187 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      My dad has being through a lot when he was a child, he practically raised himself, and he never did anything to hurt us, he doesn't smoke, drink or do drugs. When people do that it's bc they want to, there are no excuses.

    • @Angel_shawty_official
      @Angel_shawty_official 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Fuck this comment is everything ☹

    • @flortonizzo3651
      @flortonizzo3651 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      you dont have to justify abuse, not even if they have trauma or they have benn abused or when they were little that was okay because that is wrong, abuse can never be justified

  • @PwnzuCS
    @PwnzuCS 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    This song hits deeper every time I hear it.

  • @annaafonso8686
    @annaafonso8686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4547

    anyone else feel so broken that no matter how good your life is going you still feel like nothing can fullfill that empy space in your heart and your chest just never stops hurting?

    • @Kaylas2003
      @Kaylas2003 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      All the time i mostly try going to my room and when I go to my room I just cry and act like I'm ok when I am around my family

    • @avatar5811
      @avatar5811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yeah

    • @monicaarlenealvarez2089
      @monicaarlenealvarez2089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yup!! :(

    • @tonyascheckel6621
      @tonyascheckel6621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      I filled mine with Jesus.

    • @annaafonso8686
      @annaafonso8686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@tonyascheckel6621 oh Ive tried so many times

  • @LiveLove4Amjad
    @LiveLove4Amjad 4 ปีที่แล้ว +534

    “If you love me, Don’t let go” I was saying this 1000x in the back of my mind .. waiting outside my Dad’s ICU room .. hoping that My father hears my appeals and stay alive.. he couldn’t . .. RIP my hero. See you in heaven inshallah.. Love you more than anything

    • @saleembassadien7144
      @saleembassadien7144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Inna Lilla hi wa Inna ilayhi rajeoon. Insha Allah brother, may the path ahead be made eay for you.

    • @zkatt1959
      @zkatt1959 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This song also takes me back to when my mom was dying from Alzheimers

    • @longestname817
      @longestname817 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Inshallah he pulls through. Just remember that everything is Allahs plan :)

    • @LiveLove4Amjad
      @LiveLove4Amjad 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Saleem Bassadien Jazak Allah khaira 🤍🙏🏻many thanks for your kind words

    • @LiveLove4Amjad
      @LiveLove4Amjad 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kathleen Yorke may her soul Rest In Peace 🤍 we shall find strength in this life.. god will help us all

  • @hannahlynn175
    @hannahlynn175 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1586

    Hey ❤
    It's okay to cry. It's okay to experience deep pain and sadness.
    Let it out. Let the tears roll down your face.
    But don't stay there for too long beautiful. When you're ready take a deep breath. Wipe those pretty eyes.
    You're going to be okay. Things will get better soon I promise. Whatever you're going through, it is only for a season. This too shall pass.
    I hope you know what a beautiful soul you are. I hope you know your worth, your value, your beauty. You're such a lovely human that no one else in this world can replace.
    You are important.
    You are needed.
    You are loved.
    So hold on a bit longer, okay? There is hope. There is purpose. You're going to make it through I promise. The light is just up ahead❤

    • @bulletprooffiend5920
      @bulletprooffiend5920 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      That just brought me to tears. Thank you so much for those kind words to this stranger.

    • @brandonkelley4096
      @brandonkelley4096 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      it really is

    • @sundunefeather9448
      @sundunefeather9448 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      The only thing that got me to get rid of my tears, thanks dude.

    • @hoytm9172
      @hoytm9172 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@bulletprooffiend5920 same

    • @Dear_Neptune
      @Dear_Neptune 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thanks for holding on to me, i was a little unsteady :)

  • @TheKingYnot
    @TheKingYnot 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I just lost my sister. 38 years in life as adopted siblings. Ups. Downs. Both our families let us go, but we always had each other. I miss her. Life got to be to much for her. I couldn't be there. Pay attention to those you love and hold on close.

  • @Carterbluestang
    @Carterbluestang 2 ปีที่แล้ว +475

    This was my husband's favorite song. He passed away 5 days ago at 6:24pm on 12-12-2021 unexpectedly. At the hospital, he took his last breath with 3 seconds left on this song. My heart is shattered. We were married for 26 years and we were high school sweethearts.

    • @jeremiahgigler4683
      @jeremiahgigler4683 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I'm sorry for your loss

    • @DG-wf2br
      @DG-wf2br 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm so sorry.

    • @tessav7553
      @tessav7553 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      My deepest condolences to you, such a beautiful moment yet so heartbreaking at the same time. Wishing you much strength to keep fighting and love!

    • @heatherspencer6503
      @heatherspencer6503 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I'm so sorry for your loss. My husband also loved this song. This was one of the last songs he sent me from the hospital. He passed away on March 30th 2019 one month before our 20th anniversary. I will always cherish this song. I never left his side. Not even for one night. I slept) lived in the ICU wtg room for 37 days. I feel so lost without him. I'm not sure if I even know who I am without him. I spent my entire adult life with him. We were definitely soul mates so I know if there is life after death I will see him again one day. Until then I can see him in our 4 boys and daughter. I hope you can find your peace too. Thank you for sharing

    • @jthreefingers8445
      @jthreefingers8445 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@heatherspencer6503
      P

  • @Mochikappa
    @Mochikappa 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1888

    The pain in his voice broke my heart..

    • @luciportugal1548
      @luciportugal1548 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      This song brings me to my knees

    • @lyxiennetromp4429
      @lyxiennetromp4429 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      me too it just hurts

    • @mariamelody384
      @mariamelody384 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too😭

    • @anasosa6703
      @anasosa6703 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The life is a dream and dreams are dreams

    • @Mochikappa
      @Mochikappa 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      No, the life is a nightmare

  • @danifermin2273
    @danifermin2273 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I lost my dad march of this year, he is the best fsther in the world, everytime i'm with my dad i feel the safest, i have anxiety but never had anxiety or panic attacks when my dad is around because i know he got my back im so lucky to have that kind of love from my father. I miss him everyday and i have been unsteady and never been the same since he was gone.i love you dad someday we will see each other again.

  • @mitchcve4336
    @mitchcve4336 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5236

    My brother 27 overdosed and was put on life support, my dad later committed suicide. My mom scrubs toilets for a living. I feel every bit of this song. My mom's alone, my dad couldn't let go of the alcohol .
    May God put peace and comfort in the hearts of those who have been dealt pain and grief.

    • @leoflores3839
      @leoflores3839 5 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      Mitch Cve stay strong if u need someone to talk im here :(

    • @annab.7428
      @annab.7428 5 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Stay strong, you've made it this far so don't give up. :(

    • @bluebebleu
      @bluebebleu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      I'm so sorry.. stay strong

    • @deagindraws5779
      @deagindraws5779 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      hand in there you can make it and if you you need to talk i'm here

    • @xyumixx1775
      @xyumixx1775 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Jeremiah 29:11

  • @jinji2784
    @jinji2784 ปีที่แล้ว +587

    This song feels like sitting and processing your emotions, and healing from the hurt at the same.. I'm in awe.

    • @lorep2535
      @lorep2535 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙌🏻 Totalmente 🤝🏻👌🏻😌

    • @fourway9072
      @fourway9072 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      tell me about it

    • @lainejohnson9094
      @lainejohnson9094 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true

    • @GaryRussell-dh7se
      @GaryRussell-dh7se ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fourway9072eas 1:08 1:09

    • @Lulustime
      @Lulustime ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes it is like thinking about what just happened it’s hard

  • @beyourself9468
    @beyourself9468 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3238

    Crazy how in a world full of people you can still feel so alone and unheard

    • @uniqueone8159
      @uniqueone8159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Exactly 💜😔

    • @Cookie_kuttr
      @Cookie_kuttr 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kyledortch7726 thong

    • @westbank1158
      @westbank1158 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Sad but sometimes only u get u if u know what I mean

    • @teiagaw7663
      @teiagaw7663 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Realizing you aren't enough sucks.

    • @jourybasamed1763
      @jourybasamed1763 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ❤️

  • @kirstenklein5822
    @kirstenklein5822 วันที่ผ่านมา

    After watching my son pour his heart out for and do everything to make this girl happy, she broke his heart. This song is the best way to make him realize he does deserve the “right one” will come along and make him happy 🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @juic3884
    @juic3884 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3402

    gut wrenching feeling when your falling apart and realize you have no one to comfort you or at least hold you. my heart goes out to all those out there going through a tough time and feeling/dealing with it alone.

    • @davidgraff3254
      @davidgraff3254 7 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Same feeling. I know there are worst situations than mine..So I continue to pray for those. I'm having a hard time right now...Friends and family are everything.

    • @crystalgrimm409
      @crystalgrimm409 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      thanks, that was so nice to post

    • @kristaward9022
      @kristaward9022 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      juic388 I falling apart to. so much going on and the one that promised to be there forever, left! it hurts!

    • @rachelldaugherty
      @rachelldaugherty 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      juic388 just lost a friend very dear to my heart. sad way to go but he has peace and that's all I'd ever ask for him. reach out in your darkest hour there are so many admiring you and love you. keep your head up and your heart open. lv & respect. takes one to know one. we hear you. I hear you. 💜💔

    • @kylieb803
      @kylieb803 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      juic388 me.

  • @tshepangnondula1185
    @tshepangnondula1185 3 ปีที่แล้ว +571

    "Mother, I know that you're tired of being alone" so odd how so many of our mothers are alone and lonely. It hurts to see them yearning for love from a husband and a father to her children for proper leadership and care.

    • @inanotherworld17
      @inanotherworld17 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Sometimes when I discuss with my mother and she hurts me with her words I tried to remember this. She has been trough hell with my father when I was a child and somehow she make it until today. She made so many mistakes and she knows but also we are here today thanks to her so ... it's difficult because somes I'm so mad with her but at the end I know she is trying her best.

    • @JST03
      @JST03 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      There is no excuse for abuse or toxicity. You can't blame you doing it to somebody on someone else. Also Fathers too tbh. You have no idea how many Husbands/father's have to deal with that abuse not only as a child but as a boyfriend or husband from their girlfriend or wife, only difference is it goes far more unnoticed. Nevertheless I hate that it happens to anyone because it's truly unnecessary, and it's usually a cycle til someone breaks it.

    • @tomikab2124
      @tomikab2124 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you for posting that. Your thoughts are absolutely right. That was my mom her whole life. Mom's are so strong as they take on more than anyone will ever know. They hurt deeply yet they raise their heads up and take care of that family all alone if need be. I am so proud of my momma who carried scars and did her best.

    • @jamesestrada6992
      @jamesestrada6992 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Iamzoila_devine .... I love u baby ..dont let go

    • @celesteross2474
      @celesteross2474 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You are ABSOLUTELY right after 12yrs I'm done trying

  • @connornicholas8628
    @connornicholas8628 9 ปีที่แล้ว +385

    X Ambassadors has this wonderful ability to make me actually watch and care about what goes on in their music videos, rather than just listening to it alone.

    • @tristenhamill7557
      @tristenhamill7557 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What is this video about?

    • @chrishalliwellmusic
      @chrishalliwellmusic 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Timed Escape try and figure it out, its not too deep

    • @tristenhamill7557
      @tristenhamill7557 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I get confused easily and tend to think into it too much

    • @matthewjenkins8013
      @matthewjenkins8013 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      check out kodaline there the same way

    • @matthewjenkins8013
      @matthewjenkins8013 9 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      check out kodaline there the same way

  • @dianacmireles5903
    @dianacmireles5903 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1540

    Depression sucks... But being a mom with depression is something I can’t even describe 😢😢😢

    • @Breeology_
      @Breeology_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      I literally cry for help in silence when my child is sleep .. it’s sooooo hard but I try everyday! I just wish I had someone to unconditionally be there for me

    • @aubrimartinez5373
      @aubrimartinez5373 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@Breeology_ keep your head up your so worth everything your a great mother ❤️your doing amazing love your so worthy

    • @aubrimartinez5373
      @aubrimartinez5373 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      your amazing keep your head up your an amazing mother. your worth everything you can do it❤️

    • @dianacmireles5903
      @dianacmireles5903 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@Breeology_ it’s not easy being a mom we have feelings too and that’s okay! I know exactly what ur going through . Ur child and god loves u soo much girll message me if You ever need someone to talk to cause I care 💗

    • @sparklelicious598
      @sparklelicious598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      God you have NO Idea how much this hit me. I'm a mom and it's so hard and now my 14yr old daughter is fighting Depression. Its soooo Hard. God Bless you an know you are not alone. Love you

  • @mattthewbruce844
    @mattthewbruce844 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2164

    Lost so many people I love because of my addiction 😞 thank God I am 4 years clean today and I'll never look back again!

    • @prettysmile86
      @prettysmile86 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Congratulations! Proud of you

    • @humanconnectionflores
      @humanconnectionflores 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Congratulations !! The view is always better looking Ahead then backwards.fight for you and reach out to those who care.and remember we're all just passing thru make it count.

    • @mernaraouf5967
      @mernaraouf5967 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Congrats dude.

    • @ross5763
      @ross5763 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Star Zombie congratulations! I hope you can go forever sober, but know it's hard. Good on you man!

    • @jstandish90
      @jstandish90 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Congratulations mate, one day at a time.

  • @creepycannoli
    @creepycannoli ปีที่แล้ว +1160

    It’s crazy how this song has so many different meanings to people but it brings us together, it brings us peace, and it helps us through some tough times in life. This song will always hit hard.

    • @cjwrench07
      @cjwrench07 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Its a song you can view from every main character depending on your own experiences. That’s the magic of music, every genre & era has its songs of pain, lust, loss, and love.
      Mozart even performed music specifically for house parties, and also about missing his (big bottomed) lover, that would be chart toppers today.

    • @gamer4l1f34
      @gamer4l1f34 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Underrated comment!

    • @s0waveyy-_-338
      @s0waveyy-_-338 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I love you for this comment

    • @christineallan1136
      @christineallan1136 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @lisadinardo4640
      @lisadinardo4640 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      For me, it reminds me of God. I have been sick 25 years chronically. I want to fly, can't wait for when I get.

  • @blackrooster8334
    @blackrooster8334 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Lost my two sisters last year and my momma this year, the sadness in my dads eyes, the house don’t feel the same

  • @keatonardoin4547
    @keatonardoin4547 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1531

    This song just hits on so many different levels. You're the real MVP if you're still listening in 2021. And remember always. You're never alone! Stay strong

    • @queenny4739
      @queenny4739 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thats me ong

    • @thelostadventurer4684
      @thelostadventurer4684 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dsmmm why this comentó make me feel so good .

    • @nicolesiege819
      @nicolesiege819 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@queenny4739 to/aa

    • @tally9166
      @tally9166 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just been to the DC concert on Saturday. The played Unsteady. I cried through the whole performance. It broke and healded something inside me at the same time.

    • @Santiag0217
      @Santiag0217 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thx bro I Appreciate that

  • @halevalen8768
    @halevalen8768 8 ปีที่แล้ว +282

    emotion incarnate!
    i lost my dad 5 years ago and this song brings out so much emotion in me...
    "mother i know... your tired of being alone... daddy i know your tryin... to fight when you feel like flyin"
    this line hits me hard, losing my father to cancer was hard...

    • @aulia7909
      @aulia7909 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He is in a better place now... :')

    • @Isa1ahL33
      @Isa1ahL33 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hale Valen I feel your pain, man. I lost my father 5 years ago, as well. It was from a work related accident. I didn't grieved much for him, but only because I wanted to be strong. For him, and my mom and sister.

    • @halevalen8768
      @halevalen8768 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jonathan i did the same, i became the rock that everyone could depend on, i distanced my emotions so i could be their support. same deal... looking back i should have let myself fall apart too

    • @myrun112
      @myrun112 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      *FUCK YOU CANCER!!!!*

    • @teamsladam845
      @teamsladam845 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I feel yaa cause My dad died too

  • @LiskeDreyer
    @LiskeDreyer 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This is my 'calm down' and 'recharge' song. Being ADHD, Chronic Depressive and Anxiety disorder warrior with an addiction to numb the pain, stuck in a dysfunctional marriage it gives me the strength to carry on daily.
    This is the bond between my baby girl and I, and we love to sing this song. Sadly she doesn't know the meaning like I do.

  • @itsyourgirlamanda1624
    @itsyourgirlamanda1624 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3047

    It's crazy how many people come back to this everyday. This song is legendary 💕
    2022 anyone??

  • @bethschaad228
    @bethschaad228 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1381

    Myself and my husband both struggled with addiction for years. This song still reminds me of standing in the kitchen when he was at his worst. I thought I lost him forever. Today we are years sober with 2 beautiful girls 2 cars and a beautiful house. I’ll never take a day for granted.

  • @0.0dots
    @0.0dots 3 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    Growing up in a dysfunctional family with abuse and rape...this song hits too hard. For anyone reading. I want you to know that you can grow and become what you want most. You can do anything you want with your life, you do not have to be that person they make you. This is your life, and as hard as it hurts you can do it no matter what

    • @constitutionalwrites5963
      @constitutionalwrites5963 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Feeling your pain was doing so good need to learn to think with the mind not my heart. Never get over what happened but the episodes do lessen as time passes. still healing the wounded mind 17 years later . Earliest memory's try to gorget. Forgiving was so hard. Thought at age 30 and being my own man would make it a distant memory. Still weaves through cracks and spills out from time to time

    • @marjorietesch4543
      @marjorietesch4543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would add it's ok to let go of the toxic people

    • @denidinmak8189
      @denidinmak8189 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i hope you find peace. may your soul find light again.

    • @lexislife4771
      @lexislife4771 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      i relate with the Growing up in a dysfunctional family with abuse and rape.. its painful and has scarred me

  • @SusanAraniecke
    @SusanAraniecke 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This song and especially the video was so relatable with my first marriage. I had 2 sons under 2 when my ex was at his worst. So grateful my current husband is wonderful and responsible and doesn't drink.

  • @southerngirl6398
    @southerngirl6398 ปีที่แล้ว +389

    When I was 6 years old, my dad was killed in a car wreck, 2 weeks before my kindergarten graduation. I will never forget sitting on the stage at the graduation, watching the double doors on the side of the gymnasium and praying for God to let my daddy walk thru those doors. That was in 1986 and it still hurts. Some wounds never fully heal, you just learn to live with them.

    • @zillowzillow6044
      @zillowzillow6044 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      God loves you and your dad is watching over you in heaven. Know that you are loved and you are perfect.

    • @christineallan1136
      @christineallan1136 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Amen ❤❤❤❤

    • @tashiavanpelt
      @tashiavanpelt ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Oh my I’m so so sorry 😭😭😭💜💜 I’m gutted. I have a kindergartner and I couldn’t imagine that happening right now to her. Love you friend

    • @anitaenslow5020
      @anitaenslow5020 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My dad died in a car crash too. He went over a 40 foot embankment because he was drinking. Lost my brother to alcoholism 11 years ago. My son is in his 30’s and also is alcoholic! My fair everyday is that the same fate will happen to my son and it brings back all the trauma from childhood. I will never fully heal. I could never heal until my son stops drinking.

    • @amandaporter2458
      @amandaporter2458 ปีที่แล้ว

      You spoke the truth are my child

  • @abbychugden6125
    @abbychugden6125 3 ปีที่แล้ว +268

    I'm a mom. I just want to give you all a hug, tell you that you matter even though we don't know each other, and lift you up. You matter. Please remember that. There's evil in this world, but you are the light that shines through and makes it a better place.

    • @triciawalker3572
      @triciawalker3572 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      If I could love this a million infinity times.

    • @abbychugden6125
      @abbychugden6125 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@triciawalker3572 Love & good vibes to you too! Remember, a small flame, when joined by another, makes a bigger fire to light the darkness. ❤️

    • @triciawalker3572
      @triciawalker3572 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Abby can we be friends?! I'm constantly singing this little light of mine to my kids. I truly believe we all have light in ours souls meant to shine for ourselves and to help others find their way thru the darkness or shadows.

    • @florencegosselin1924
      @florencegosselin1924 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      that touched me. thank you so much.

    • @juneburke20
      @juneburke20 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Heard that!!!

  • @rnwks2008
    @rnwks2008 8 ปีที่แล้ว +464

    This song means many things to me... I had some really dark years with deaths, lots of drugs, suicidal depression etc. I turned to God and got sober and know I wouldn't be here today if I hadn't. The chorus really reminds me of God's unending love for me, even through all of the bad times and when I was unlovable. He sent me a loving wife that I didn't deserve who has shown me unconditional love and grace that I have never known. We just welcomed our 1st child last year (our son, Ian, which means "gift from God") and I am so thankful for the opportunity to become a husband and father. So, I hear the chorus from the perspective of my son as well - telling me he needs me to teach him about life, show him the right ways and never give up on him. I haven't had a song affect me so personally in a long time. Amazing!

    • @loganbloomfield7265
      @loganbloomfield7265 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Good for you man!

    • @grantjones6952
      @grantjones6952 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm sorry for everything that happened. But I'm glad you're happy now! :) I really love this song too.

    • @JM-gz9re
      @JM-gz9re 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wow same meaning to me too..

    • @TheOrihuela7
      @TheOrihuela7 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      amazing brother! im a veteran with so many stories i can relate too military friends, own and family, its such a heartfelt song, definitely good music. God Bless!

    • @heyheyltsaa1107
      @heyheyltsaa1107 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen!💕

  • @NeyMessiFCB
    @NeyMessiFCB 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Just saw them perform this live last night. I cried. Absolutely beautiful experience. This is hands down my favourite song.

  • @Bri059
    @Bri059 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1049

    I lost my momma yesterday. This song hurts so much more.

    • @OfficialRobloxGaming
      @OfficialRobloxGaming 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I am so so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine the pain you are going through. Please just know that you will make it out of this in the end.

    • @shepherdgrey1656
      @shepherdgrey1656 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      My deepest sympathy to you

    • @tiaislam645
      @tiaislam645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I’m so sorry 😔 May she rest in peace stay strong 🙂

    • @RainielPalacio
      @RainielPalacio 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      ohh im sorry for your lost.. i know it hurts so much....

    • @lakarrawilliams8783
      @lakarrawilliams8783 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I feel u girl

  • @elliecampbell1697
    @elliecampbell1697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +516

    If you are reading this, I don't know who you are, but when you feel like you haven't achieved anything this year, I think that saying that you have survived 2020 is a big enough reward for all the blood, sweat and tears that you have put into it. And when you feel like no one lives you, I'm here for you xxx

    • @JoseRamirez-js7no
      @JoseRamirez-js7no 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Damn 🥺thank you really helped

    • @drewneutral389
      @drewneutral389 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen 😤🙏🏼

    • @mkmllrc
      @mkmllrc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      this means so much to me, thank you :)

    • @cyndygough4107
      @cyndygough4107 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      2020 was nothing. But on January 24, 2021 I lost my precious son. He was only 48. I really feel like I am being punished for being a sorry bitch. But my 2 sons were my life & now I only have 1. Yes, oh yes, I am paying my dues. Please forgive me, Lord.

    • @elliecampbell1697
      @elliecampbell1697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cyndygough4107 I'm so sorry, I know that the physical and mental pain is unbearable when you have lost someone, but just keep taking one step at a time. I believe in you xx

  • @brandonclark15
    @brandonclark15 8 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    My grandfather recently passed. To be clear, I grew up living on the streets since I was 10. My grandfather couldn't afford to care for me, but did whatever he could to assist in raising me; went out of his way many times to be there for me. After getting off the streets, I followed his footsteps and joined the army, deployed, and have issues on top of issues, however, this song cultivates... feelings, and I sorely miss my grandfather. R.I.P. Howard "Buck" Clark, 1929-2016. May you and my grandmother live forever in the light and happiness!

    • @Nottoday1084
      @Nottoday1084 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Brandon Clark may you find the light you need in your life.

    • @theminecraftbros2279
      @theminecraftbros2279 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Brandon Clark nothing but respect coming from me

    • @The85F0X
      @The85F0X 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Brandon Clark as a vet, if you're ever in a bad place reach out and I will talk with you, no one gets left behind.

    • @brandonclark15
      @brandonclark15 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks foxtrot. I REALLY appreciate that!

    • @sensgal12
      @sensgal12 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am so sorry for your pain and loss. Thank you and to all vets, every sacrifice you do and are making. I was able to see these guys in September at City Folk in Ottawa ON. If you ever get the chance to hear and see them live, do it. and when he sings this one, remember its ok to feel, its ok to cry, its ok to laugh, its ok to feel good.. and its ok to reach out to anyone healthy to keep moving forward. Music saves me. I had never heard of X ambassadors until Sept, but fell in love with them right away.

  • @Cooperelaa01
    @Cooperelaa01 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Omg this guy's voice how have I managed not finding them for so long I've been deprived

  • @allenreed2389
    @allenreed2389 ปีที่แล้ว +230

    As an alcoholic, this hits home. Thank you for making this video. It truly shows our struggle. Much love people. Addicts and non.

    • @khatipeytonsplayclub7379
      @khatipeytonsplayclub7379 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts

    • @EmilyLloyd-v1r
      @EmilyLloyd-v1r ปีที่แล้ว

      love to u :)

    • @deepsouthlife8216
      @deepsouthlife8216 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Drinkin is the one think i cant kick, i dont let it get the best of me but sometimes the outcome aint so good but i have to keep moving forward

    • @lalyzachocolat8463
      @lalyzachocolat8463 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😘

    • @grease_monkey9044
      @grease_monkey9044 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@deepsouthlife8216 i get that....unfortunately...

  • @alinregmi
    @alinregmi ปีที่แล้ว +141

    [Chorus]
    Hold, hold on, hold on to me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady, a little unsteady
    Hold, hold on, hold on to me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady, a little unsteady
    [Verse 1]
    Mama, come here
    Approach, appear
    And Daddy, I'm alone
    'Cause this house don't feel like home
    [Pre-Chorus]
    If you love me, don't let go (Hold) Woah
    If you love me, don't let go (Hold)
    [Chorus]
    Hold, hold on, hold on to me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady, a little unsteady
    Hold, hold on, hold on to me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady, a little unsteady
    [Verse 2]
    Mother, I know
    That you're tired of bein' alone
    Dad, I know you're tryin'
    To fight when ya feel like flyin'
    [Pre-Chorus]
    But if you love me, don't let go (Hold) Woah
    If you love me, don't let go (Hold)
    [Chorus]
    Hold, hold on, hold on to me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady, a little unsteady
    Hold, hold on, hold on to me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady, a little unsteady
    Hold, hold on, hold on to me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady, a little unsteady

    • @malia695
      @malia695 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      "Dad, i know your trying
      to fight when you feel like flying" till the last breath 😢

  • @all.in.theory
    @all.in.theory 8 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    I lost my dad to suicide 5 years ago this week. he would have been 54 today. This song killed me when I heard it for the first time yesterday. I sobbed for an hour. So beautiful and so much truth in a few short lyrics.

    • @kiona91
      @kiona91 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm so sorry for your loss 💜

    • @all.in.theory
      @all.in.theory 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Kiona Paul-Dedam thank you. 💛

    • @merle5892
      @merle5892 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so sorry❤ god bless you

    • @sophiaherleyy7382
      @sophiaherleyy7382 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Amanda Hoffman (zombiesnbacon) Its ok to cry

    • @shaunmxky9552
      @shaunmxky9552 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sometimes it's not the people it just being unforgiving of themselves

  • @iced5033
    @iced5033 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Lost my mom when I was eight years old wasn’t the same in and out of psych wards since I was a kid got addicted to drugs but now I’ve been two years sober and I hope she’s proud of me

  • @wlee6685
    @wlee6685 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1514

    Great song, probably the most underrated band in music right now.

    • @menteur4444
      @menteur4444 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +W Lee underrated they will play with Muse! xD

    • @wlee6685
      @wlee6685 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Compared to Imagine Dragons "somewhat similar sound" who just about everyone knows they are relatively unknown and underrated. To my knowledge none of their songs or videos have won any awards even though they have a host of great songs like this one. Thats what I meant by my comment.

    • @whackedout101
      @whackedout101 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +W Lee I agree that more people should know of them, but they really haven't been a band for a really long period of time. I mean, there are still some really great bands out there who have been around for a little longer and they still don't have awards. I saw them live when I saw them with Panic! at the Disco and that's pretty cool to say. They'll get there eventually! (:

    • @wlee6685
      @wlee6685 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +whackedout101 Agree with you 100% on great bands not being heard and getting awards. Its kind of strange to think that if it wasn't for a Jeep commercial "and a advertising person with an ear for good music" this band might have never gotten to that next level like it has. Its like if you don't hear these artist songs in TV commercials, shows or movies then they may never make it big. Kinda of weird don't you think?

    • @whackedout101
      @whackedout101 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      W Lee Yeah, it makes me sad when really great bands don't get enough representation in the music industry. I didn't really know who X Ambassadors was when I saw them live, BUT when I heard Renegades on the radio and I heard it live I was like "Whaaat?! That's the same band?!" I was kind of angry with myself for not knowing the name of the band that sang the song. The dude has some AMAZING pipes on him.
      It is really hard for artists to make it big which is kind of stupid, if you ask me. But then I look at those fans who say they hated when their favorite artist/band got super big because then it was nearly impossible to see them live without their concert tickets selling out in a couple of days and the venues are HUGE. I just FINALLY decided to give Twenty One Pilots a try a month ago or so and finally decided they grew on me a ton and when I found out they were performing at Red Rocks like X Ambassadors did this summer I had to get tickets. They are playing 2 shows and they sold out the first night in a day and the 2nd had probably half of the tickets left to sell. So when I saw that I had a strange feeling that I wish I had listened to them back in 2011 when they weren't so big.
      It's kind of weird--the music industry.
      As far as X Ambassadors, their music is pretty amazing as far as vocals, lyrics, and just overall sound. It is a shame that they aren't as big as Miley Cyrus or whatever because they definitely deserve it more. I totally agree with you. Just request their music on your local station and maybe you'll hear 'em more. (:

  • @angietumanyan
    @angietumanyan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +402

    the whole lyrics of Unsteady
    Hold
    Hold on
    Hold on to me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Hold
    Hold on
    Hold on to me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Mama, come here
    Approach, appear
    Daddy, I'm alone
    'Cause this house don't feel like home
    If you love me, don't let go
    If you love me, don't let go
    Hold
    Hold on
    Hold on to me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Hold
    Hold on
    Hold on to me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Mother, I know
    That you're tired of being alone
    Dad, I know you're trying
    To fight when you feel like flying
    If you love me, don't let go
    If you love me, don't let go
    Hold
    Hold on
    Hold on to me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Hold
    Hold on
    Hold on to me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Hold
    Hold on
    Hold on to me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    please don't ask why i did this i just wanted to.

    • @giullianarampinelli2936
      @giullianarampinelli2936 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      My hero

    • @koffeekae1594
      @koffeekae1594 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why did you do this?

    • @koffeekae1594
      @koffeekae1594 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ok jokes aside, I'm not a native so I'm curious about the meaning of the line "father, I know you're trying to fight when you feel like flying"

    • @Jee_Kay
      @Jee_Kay 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@koffeekae1594 search it on genius.com is a website with lyrics explanation

    • @apps3454
      @apps3454 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      coz u r little unstedy😋

  • @patrickbuckanaga4882
    @patrickbuckanaga4882 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is one of those songs that makes you really sit back and think of how amazing we all are as humans ❤🎉

  • @scopelynx5170
    @scopelynx5170 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1688

    Lost my dad to bone cancer, tried to convince my self he was gonna be ok but we all know I was lying to myself! Dad passed away in front of me. Rest in eternal piece dad, fly like an angel!

    • @jamesmckirdy4167
      @jamesmckirdy4167 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Frankie DaKilla sorry about your lost. I lost my friend in ATV accident

    • @aidanhosein9864
      @aidanhosein9864 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I lost my brother

    • @damianherrera1040
      @damianherrera1040 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sorry for your lose

    • @scopelynx5170
      @scopelynx5170 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      james mckirdy sorry for your loss, must've been difficult

    • @scopelynx5170
      @scopelynx5170 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Aidan Hosein I'm sorry for your loss

  • @SuperPhantom1990
    @SuperPhantom1990 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1499

    To everyone dealing with hard times I love you all, be strong

    • @nikolaibeliski1309
      @nikolaibeliski1309 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jose sotelo thnx bro

    • @bellswhistles3777
      @bellswhistles3777 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you

    • @kingzach7081
      @kingzach7081 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you 🙏

    • @punzalanmariefers.1788
      @punzalanmariefers.1788 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you :(

    • @kathrynanderson7667
      @kathrynanderson7667 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thanks, I feel like I’m drifting away from my best friend and the only comfort in my life and it’s all my fault just because I have blooming anxiety and no one gives one even when I say I need to get homeschooled etc, and my life is just always so shitty! :(

  • @mrsollyette
    @mrsollyette 9 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    X ambassadors have that gift to take you to another place, another mood for 3 or 4 minutes and that is somethings rare and beautiful

    • @andrewvenzon9523
      @andrewvenzon9523 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      This song is not that old

    • @mrsollyette
      @mrsollyette 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So? I wasn't talking about that

    • @dwilliams171
      @dwilliams171 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree. I was work crying 😢

    • @maloubernal9277
      @maloubernal9277 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Jess Mcwhirter not anymore time for radio spam

    • @briannasmith3948
      @briannasmith3948 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Gabby williams same here, the lyrics of this song have a really personal effect on me and just makes me cry.

  • @martynkaa6450
    @martynkaa6450 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    The video is beautiful it depicts how easily it is to let yourself fall for the wrong person by making their flaws not bother you and where that leads. They always show us who they are we just don’t want to see it.

    • @martynkaa6450
      @martynkaa6450 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      But it also shows the unwillingness of the problem person to evolve, adapt to new situations and challenges and grow with their partner.

  • @Nini-oh2ux
    @Nini-oh2ux 5 ปีที่แล้ว +919

    When your heart is in a million pieces; and music becomes your escape from the world!!
    I'm a little unsteady!

    • @precioustorres2649
      @precioustorres2649 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Keeping you in my prayers 🙏

    • @michaelgalaviz5098
      @michaelgalaviz5098 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hold on, hold on to me

    • @joannasaadati8810
      @joannasaadati8810 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hope you’re ok 💜

    • @Nini-oh2ux
      @Nini-oh2ux 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@joannasaadati8810 Each day has a different challenge. I'm keeping a positive mind; as they say: the battle starts in the mind!! Thank YOU

    • @Nini-oh2ux
      @Nini-oh2ux 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@precioustorres2649 Thank You so much #LoveAndLightToYou

  • @KourttneyL
    @KourttneyL 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1676

    "Dad, I know you're trying to fight when you feel like flying"
    Those words run SO DEEP. R.I.P Dad

    • @evasimmons2423
      @evasimmons2423 6 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      sorry for your loss

    • @DKHurricane14
      @DKHurricane14 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Im so sorry hes in a better place

    • @tanakota4937
      @tanakota4937 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Sorry for your loss

    • @KourttneyL
      @KourttneyL 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Thanks guys ♥️🙏🏻

    • @MrSkatebait
      @MrSkatebait 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Kourttneex3 those same lyrics get me too 😢

  • @saturnsystem3167
    @saturnsystem3167 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3890

    "this house don't feel like home"
    that line got me
    edit: I've never gotten this many likes

    • @ilana5456
      @ilana5456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      me too

    • @6.2_nightmare
      @6.2_nightmare 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same

    • @princessbrazilian
      @princessbrazilian 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      you should listen "home" by three days grace, the lyrics is about this

    • @sarmaua1
      @sarmaua1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i can relate to that as well. Stay strong my friend, there's a good place for everyone in this world

    • @lavernesimpson9027
      @lavernesimpson9027 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too😢

  • @meloneeprose
    @meloneeprose 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Brought tears to my eyes....I'm so glad you got to experience that type of love❤

  • @mitchellthompson465
    @mitchellthompson465 2 ปีที่แล้ว +606

    This reminds me of my dad growing up. Was always taught to view him as the villain not understanding at the time that this is a sickness. He always worked and provided for the family, but drank himself into a depressive state until he took his own life when I was 13. True he could have made better choices early on, but once alcoholism gets a hold, it’s hard to shake off. Though people act crazy when they get drunk and determinate mentally over time, they are still people in the end. Any time I see someone struggling with any addiction I feel that sadness for my father. I always want to help, but ultimately they have to be willing to help themselves.

    • @Miranda-bq4ii
      @Miranda-bq4ii 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Sometimes even when we want to help ourselves, we can’t. I don’t understand why.

    • @WhistlinDixie
      @WhistlinDixie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I'm so very sorry for your loss. It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders with a sweet soul. Don't change...the world needs more people like that. ❤

    • @maemeraki5005
      @maemeraki5005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😭💔

    • @xxchloejohnsonxx4148
      @xxchloejohnsonxx4148 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m so sorry :(

    • @ninamazzei8660
      @ninamazzei8660 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Im so sorry for your loss and your right it never gets easier and never will prayers for you god bless you

  • @nightmeds3339
    @nightmeds3339 5 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    this song broke me to tears after listening it again in a show. it reminded me of the battles I had to face this year with cancer. not me, but the battle both my parents have been fighting. my dad had been in the hospital since january of this year and battles through stress, anxiety, and suicidal ideations because of the harsh surgeries. my whole family suffered from this and every day became one more day I thought I was gonna lose him. “if you love me, don’t let go.” those are the words that got me. I am unsteady. I want them to hold onto me because im unsteady. I love you dad, I love you mom. thank you for fighting.

    • @lizbethvargas6921
      @lizbethvargas6921 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow I did that and it was a great depression for 2 years

    • @itdoesntmatteranymore3550
      @itdoesntmatteranymore3550 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      not reliable I’m sorry about your dad I hope that your parents are alright now...!!!
      I can understand you a little cause my dad had a surgery for his heart few weeks ago but now he’s still tired and his heart hurts him too i hate that I can’t do anything to help him and I feel so powerless.... when I’m with him I pretend like everything is going to be okay but when I leave I cry cause I can’t take it...!!!
      And I can’t lose him now I want him to be in my 18 birthday I’m still young and the problem he’s the only one who truly love me so I can’t lose him 💔💔

    • @loiseden3555
      @loiseden3555 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i feel for you whent through the same kinda things i cryed to this song but so true

    • @grubisfunny
      @grubisfunny 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know your life will never be the same, but I hope it's moving back on track. I'm not the most religious, but I'm a firm believer of god giving every person a plan.

    • @bigboi6538
      @bigboi6538 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know this might not mean a lot but keep fighting i don’t know u but u seem tough pray brotha god is there for you

  • @sophiapiper4978
    @sophiapiper4978 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2407

    I'm in a rough place right now, and this hit me really hard.

    • @Airline_Food
      @Airline_Food 9 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Agreed, this too shall pass! keep your head up

    • @mozsanimates8930
      @mozsanimates8930 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Sophia Piper not as hard as my parents jk its so good though!

    • @Mr02sunfire
      @Mr02sunfire 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +Sophia Piper hit ye right in the dink?

    • @MelissaNiv
      @MelissaNiv 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Sophia Piper *hug*

    • @wickedgrrly1
      @wickedgrrly1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Sophia Piper Hang in there, girl.

  • @KatRiveria
    @KatRiveria 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Oh yea we are still here 😊this song will always be remembered and played ☺️it helps us get through some tough times we had or have in our lives,,,,,,,words can’t express how much we thank you 😌

  • @marshmallow7746
    @marshmallow7746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2404

    "I'm alone, cause this house don't feel like home" is when I started crying bc it really doesn't...

    • @Fiercewarriorwithin
      @Fiercewarriorwithin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I started to break down upon hearing that same line. Beautiful yet sorrowful. Many of the words resonate with me due to some of the experiences I've had

    • @wendiraley3783
      @wendiraley3783 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Don't give up

    • @casandrawood4068
      @casandrawood4068 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Home is where u make it dont ever let yourself feel lonly cause ur alone abuse is a nasty nasty thing and can really distroy ur life dont let it keep ur head learn ur own worth dont let someone tell u what it is

    • @katrinabonfiglio1333
      @katrinabonfiglio1333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same. Every time.

    • @nameless5548
      @nameless5548 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Home is where the heart is.. for that is your treasure.. for what you treasure is where your heart is. YOU GOTTA KEEP ON KEEPING ON. ;)

  • @batmanfanizationreborn6055
    @batmanfanizationreborn6055 8 ปีที่แล้ว +340

    as soon as i heard this song i felt myself attached to it so hard. it hit me right in the heart, so moving, heart ripping...i experience a roller coaster of emotions when i hear this song, of everything good and bad i've experienced and ultimately i see the vision of what kind of person i wanna become

    • @2xZoomer
      @2xZoomer 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      omg this comment alone made me think... deep af

    • @anglassang
      @anglassang 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      right an I play this song so many times a day

    • @grainnedaly7023
      @grainnedaly7023 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I love it but I cry every time I hear it

    • @iainredman8272
      @iainredman8272 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      awwww you're so cute

    • @shaynafrench5774
      @shaynafrench5774 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Towtow

  • @angelinevaldez9023
    @angelinevaldez9023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +386

    You know ...this song has a special place in my heart my and my husband would listen to this all the time I’d see the tears full up in his eyes he lost his battle with depression on January 21 2022..I’m hurt I’m broken I’m shattered we have two kids together but this song ...this song he held my hand and the pain in this mans voice I saw in my husbands eyes I tried my best to save him ...a part of me wants to blame people because of how he grew up because of the shit he went threw a part of me blames myself because I wasn’t always happy with him he struggled with a lot of things but this song brought a memory to my mind of when he was in the shower and sitting on the floor I took off my clothes got in the shower with him picked up his face and kissed him while crying saying I love baby keep fighting 🥺and now I have tears strolling down my face cause that’s one of the many times I did that I would wash his body when he didn’t have the strength ..I miss him I miss every part of him I have shirts with his smell I have his kids I have pictures and videos but ..I don’t have him and right now I don’t wanna believe this shit actually happened ...that he’s gone our son is 2 and a half and our daughter is 7 mo 💔and he loved them so much our son says his name ...my birthday just passed Valentine’s Day too and man it was hard but I did everything we would have done I love and miss him every second of the day ... his depression was like a cancer ...who loves you more then anybody ...I do 😔to those who are battling depression keep going you only pass the pain to the people that love you ..your not alone keep fighting live for your family anyone can die for them ...live for them too my husband wanted to be here I know it was a instant regret...he wanted to see us grow old and see our kids grow up ..fight ..fight to live

    • @izzybaba5230
      @izzybaba5230 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Ma'am I know you don't know me but stories and experiences such as yours are inspiring to young people such as my self and hope you get to enjoy the rest of your life with loved ones around you before you head over to meet your lover in the next life....lessons such as the one you wrote makes me realize anything can happen so don't take things for granted

    • @heavenstone139
      @heavenstone139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I'm still 16 but I'm so sorry for your loss I can't imagine how hard that is.. I lost a few family members these last 2 months and it definitely took a toll on me. I'm so sorry.

    • @jaimewalker8921
      @jaimewalker8921 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Your comment was touching I’m currently battling with depression really bad but I try to keep going for my 2 & 1 year old baby boys but it’s just so hard so thank you so much for this comment

    • @angelinevaldez9023
      @angelinevaldez9023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@jaimewalker8921 I know it’s hard I honestly for five years we were together since we were 17 years old we met in high school our senior year and I loved him since the first time I’ve ever laid my eyes on him since our first date I have his kids and I know how hard he fought to be here for them and I know he was not in the right state of mind I know he wasn’t thinking straight he would talk about seeing her son grow up and talk about walking our daughter Down the aisle he would talk about what kind of house we wanted and how we would want to build it it hurts my soul that I don’t have my person here With me with our kids our son wakes up and cries for him and when goes to sleep he misses him to our daughter knew him by his smell our son knows him by a picture his voice .. his smell and now I have to explain things I never thought that I would explain things that I have to learn and I never thought I would have to learn your kids they love you believe it or not you’re their superhero your sons look forward to seeing you come home every day look forward for that look on their face when you walk through that door I love that like the look on my son’s face when he saw his daddy come home from work they look up just pure excitement and pure joy and just wanting to melt in his arms it’s worth it to live you have so much to live for we were just starting out our lives together the way we wanted to the way we worked so hard to have it He was young he was only 23 I am hurt but I’m not angry I understand I want to be angry but I can’t I know What he went through I know what ate him up inside and I’m sorry that you even feel an inch of that but please keep fighting your kids deserve a daddy/mommy and you deserve to be here you deserve to give them a family don’t ever forget that my husband wanted that...you have that don’t give up And no matter what you’re feeling no matter how much you’re fighting you do not deserve to die You deserve to live

    • @angelinevaldez9023
      @angelinevaldez9023 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@izzybaba5230 thank you ❤️

  • @ChrisEasley-h6z
    @ChrisEasley-h6z หลายเดือนก่อน

    Justin!! Not a heavy fan of yours. But seriously dude, if you happen to read this comment....please keep writing to inspire, as someone currently going through his sobriety, your song seriously speaks volumes. Your chorus of the way you say lonely truly captures the feeling of being alone. Your song shows feeling and depth like none other. And the courage to sing about yourself like that to the world... You started out rough and got lost in the fame. You are waking up, becoming the man God needed you to truthfully. Be. You are going to save lives and help so many people. Don't stop being you.

  • @Foxtechcodydunn
    @Foxtechcodydunn 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I use to listen to this song full of those dark thoughts wondering when I’ll break how much longer will I continue why I still chose to not act on my thoughts… today I’m over 8 months clean n sober and I’m sooo grateful I’m still here. Even if drugs &/or alcohol isn’t apart of your story there is light at the end of the tunnel, it may take a long time and a lot of hard work but don’t give up❤ someday you may look back and be so happy you didn’t give up 🥹

    • @LiskeDreyer
      @LiskeDreyer 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Well done! I am so proud of you❤ It's a hard, rocky road to get to the point where you resist those dark thoughts. Glad you chose the positive. It's a hard road to follow, but it is doable.

  • @nickyr7786
    @nickyr7786 2 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    My husband who passed two years ago listened to this song over and over before he passed. He would grab my hand and say, " I'm unsteady". Broke my heart. I love this song even though it makes me cry.

    • @sharonfuentes679
      @sharonfuentes679 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❣️❣️🫂🤝

    • @douglasharris
      @douglasharris ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@Emma-re6vb so sorry

    • @timeababits1363
      @timeababits1363 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I truly feel the pain my husband passed away as well,i got alone with twin daughters i would never let him go😢

    • @siboneypeltier2307
      @siboneypeltier2307 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Into thine hand I commit my spirit: thou hast redeemed me, O LORD God of truth.” Psalms 31:5 🕯

  • @morgansyt
    @morgansyt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +288

    “dad, i know your trying to fight when you feel flying” ... that hit hard ngl. depression sucks.

    • @morganramirez510
      @morganramirez510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      When you find another Morgan that can relate😢

    • @morgansyt
      @morgansyt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@morganramirez510 hi fellow morgan

    • @morganramirez510
      @morganramirez510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@morgansyt do you have a phone number or socials i already wanna be freinds and get to know you

    • @btstae6859
      @btstae6859 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Except he stopped fighting and let go

  • @MarcoDPolo
    @MarcoDPolo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Just the thought that the person reading this is someone I will never see doesn’t sit right with me. Because I know damn near everyone listening to this right now is going something in their lives whether it’s big or small, and I want to be there to let you know, even though we’ve never met, I love you with every last breath left in me❤️ If you’re beautiful soul left this earth, it’d be the worst most traumatic day of my life. Keep going friend, you’ll make it through this! Be strong, for me🥺

    • @gabbymitchell5690
      @gabbymitchell5690 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yess I'm holding on I'm not going anywhere anytime soon I promise and you saying that means soo much thank you and you stay strong for me too you got this never give up! I'm praying for you.

    • @kellyanderson9105
      @kellyanderson9105 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    • @kellyanderson9105
      @kellyanderson9105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The World needs more of you, who ever you are❤

    • @sabrinabrauneis6214
      @sabrinabrauneis6214 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    • @lennoxgillespie2374
      @lennoxgillespie2374 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m not going through anything right now, but I can tell u edgy cause of your sad Bart pic.

  • @AstroKnowThyself
    @AstroKnowThyself หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I stumbled upon this song in my iTunes library in 2024, and I hadn't listened to it in years. This song is a true gem, a diamond! 💎 ❤🔥

    • @CrystalHill-m3w
      @CrystalHill-m3w หลายเดือนก่อน

      I listen to this one alot when coming out of depressions ugly ass

  • @princessgere2740
    @princessgere2740 7 ปีที่แล้ว +726

    First time listening to this song and I can't stop crying... I miss my mom so much I wish I could hold her hand just one more time

    • @jodysmith3904
      @jodysmith3904 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Princess Gere I know that feeling

    • @AnimalLover-wm8zs
      @AnimalLover-wm8zs 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Princess Gere Fucking prefect by pink made me cry

    • @xSuuussable
      @xSuuussable 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I know how you feel :(

    • @lenieflecha9414
      @lenieflecha9414 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Princess Gere lost my mom at 10 brother 2 years ago and father 1 year ago sow hold on

    • @larissafernandez6571
      @larissafernandez6571 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Princess Gere its okay you'll be fine we all lose people at one point its okay cause I know how you feel because my dad is gone and I can feel what you do I hope you feel better .

  • @LOOTSNEK
    @LOOTSNEK 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1658

    For anyone that needs to know, just know we are all broken so you don't need to be in a hurry to be perfect. If you feel like you have alot built up inside just sing to songs like this and let your emotions go. It's ok not to be ok 👍

    • @watenallace663
      @watenallace663 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Thanks man

    • @austin__ruhter740
      @austin__ruhter740 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thank you man

    • @LOOTSNEK
      @LOOTSNEK 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You both are welcome, keep y'all's heads up 👍👍

    • @angelanichole7204
      @angelanichole7204 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you it means a lot ❤️

    • @effyou3578
      @effyou3578 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I needed more then ever to read this.. thank you

  • @heavenpeck1506
    @heavenpeck1506 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1827

    For my mom who died last year from stage five lung cancer 😢💔 miss you and love you Mom fly high r.i.p.

    • @marls6741
      @marls6741 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Heaven Peck In a better place now, RIP

    • @jayluurssen2151
      @jayluurssen2151 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    • @frankcowan6975
      @frankcowan6975 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Im sorry for ur loss god bless u

    • @ushoys
      @ushoys 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      There is no such thing as stage 5 cancer of any kind. The scale ends at 4.

    • @okno1849
      @okno1849 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ushoys lmao

  • @desmondbrown7732
    @desmondbrown7732 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I recently lost my mother, she was my mentor, my friend, my world. I came across this song; tried to hold back tears, but as soon as I heard "Mother I know your tired of being alone" the flood gates burst open, and it felt good to cry and get it out, Thank you X Ambassadors....Thank You!

  • @roberttremblay2291
    @roberttremblay2291 4 ปีที่แล้ว +401

    If your reading this , just hold on please i know your hurting ,so am i , that means someone else understands what ur going through, and i wont let go even when u insist on pushing me away

    • @math6153
      @math6153 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      thanks..

    • @awesomegamer2072
      @awesomegamer2072 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Tiffany Peyton I'd like to be friends?

    • @awesomegamer2072
      @awesomegamer2072 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Tiffany Peyton what do you have to chat on? I'll add you

    • @dioramsay1337
      @dioramsay1337 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Im here because of the meme so yeah this comment section gives water to my eyes

    • @awesomegamer2072
      @awesomegamer2072 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Tiffany Peyton how do I contact you on there?

  • @jordannoelmachnick7823
    @jordannoelmachnick7823 3 ปีที่แล้ว +231

    I am crying haven't heard this in years and it just hits different now that I am older and can relate.

    • @enigmaclipz
      @enigmaclipz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Man same 💯

    • @amaris594
      @amaris594 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      same :/

    • @HealthySelfNThrive
      @HealthySelfNThrive 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      dude hard same

    • @joedw2412
      @joedw2412 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @tuelzalt
      @tuelzalt 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hits way different now... it was kool back then but now I lost my fiancé in May to Addiction at only 27... the words mean so much now. Me and the kids miss her everyday ...its hard to get thur tbh

  • @bolt492
    @bolt492 8 ปีที่แล้ว +296

    Anyone else One Republic vibes? I so glad powerful music like this is coming back not like the nonsense that is called music nowadays.

    • @dillpickle8778
      @dillpickle8778 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ya i do

    • @iv3178
      @iv3178 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I know right

    • @Janetdomoawesomeness
      @Janetdomoawesomeness 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm a huge fan of one republic and I do not see how this song reminds you of them.... besides from the fact that they are both emotional songs/singers ...

    • @bolt492
      @bolt492 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      A perfect example is Apologize by One Republic and this song!
      The songs emotion and beat are very similar which is not saying they copied, they are just both amazing pieces of music that hit you hard with the FEELS!

    • @Janetdomoawesomeness
      @Janetdomoawesomeness 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I totally see it now, I haven't listen to Apologize in forever!

  • @famelio1235
    @famelio1235 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have listened to this song for a few years now but have never taken the time to read the comment section as I just listen at work. Your post hit me very hard! I will always remember this feeling. You and your family are in my prayers. I will light a candle for John in my church this weekend. God Bless you and your family!

  • @jonathantiburcio8898
    @jonathantiburcio8898 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10567

    Dear person that’s reading this, we don’t know each-other but i wish you all the best in life.

    • @bongibalfour1553
      @bongibalfour1553 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      Right back at ya Sir. May the universe lay on your table all that you deserve and more.

    • @yonatanrevah5323
      @yonatanrevah5323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Hope you have a great life dude. Love people like this

    • @audreyhogan8285
      @audreyhogan8285 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Thank you

    • @jessi_jn
      @jessi_jn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thank you🤍

    • @Littlelegswanderer
      @Littlelegswanderer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I love you Jonathan ❤

  • @FORTCOMMUNICATIONS
    @FORTCOMMUNICATIONS 2 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    We are lucky to have songs like this to help heal. Everyone is going through something you know nothing of, tread lightly and treat people with kindness. You are blessed

    • @ladyhandleradamsandler69
      @ladyhandleradamsandler69 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "Dont be sad that it ended, be happy that it happened

    • @MizzKaitlin13
      @MizzKaitlin13 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I needed this today. I'm seriously struggling. Thank you.

  • @aviaibb3681
    @aviaibb3681 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1078

    i am so sorry for everyone's pain down here in the comments.. hope everything's gonna be okay one day and you all gonna be happy :)

    • @revben
      @revben 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks

    • @powellmessiah1
      @powellmessiah1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks you so much

    • @jasavage7017
      @jasavage7017 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      appreciate very much fam, all love to you❤️

    • @williamallen3323
      @williamallen3323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Truth bro

  • @kimbyrne9547
    @kimbyrne9547 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This song hits me every time as I’m guardian of a lil boy who iv had since he was just turning 2. He’s mummy past away when he was 1 through alcohol and was placed with he’s dad who would often take flight when it got to much for him and the little one would come stay with us for a while but now with us full time an I always think the words would mean so much to him if he was of age to understand 😢😢

  • @MisterWhatWhat
    @MisterWhatWhat 8 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    I just got out of rehab this week. I was at Desert Hope for 28 days in Las Vegas. This was the song that helped me through the tough times when I finally admitted that I am an alcoholic. My husband is my rock. Being away from him and our beautiful daughter for that long was hell but I feel so much better now.
    This will be the first weekend without binge drinking, I'm ready to experience life without being numb all the time. Song/video is very personal.

    • @danielle.araujo
      @danielle.araujo 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is indeed a good and beautiful song, just like you. You are so strong! You're an example for your family. I bet they are proud of you. Stay strong, good luck and God bless you. You can do it!

    • @cobblestoneman2ebowden309
      @cobblestoneman2ebowden309 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      how bitches

    • @doinithard79
      @doinithard79 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      awd111980 I love your story! very insprational

    • @cobblestoneman2ebowden309
      @cobblestoneman2ebowden309 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      waaa

    • @andrewnikolatos1891
      @andrewnikolatos1891 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Angel Williams ur gay