How Self Doubt Almost Ruined My Music-Here's What Happened!

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  • @ShreddingFinn
    @ShreddingFinn 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Self doubt has no place in a pro musicians head, its literally the thing that kept me from going hard for a music career. I think unbridled if not obnoxious confidence will serve you way faster than some dose of humility in music.

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Ala David Lee Roth!

    • @Nik.No.K
      @Nik.No.K 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      That’s me baby, obnoxious confidence! I’m the best song writer in world, just nobody knows it yet

  • @shaneshrimp6519
    @shaneshrimp6519 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Great advice man . A lot of people struggle with this including myself . Sometimes you got to just do something and not be too much of a perfectionist .

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      It's a struggle but worth it.

  • @bodragon4582
    @bodragon4582 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    The smarter a person is, the more they calculate how many things can go wrong which creates self doubt, whereas a dum dum thinks they are amazing and perform with no doubt at all. Its the Dunning Kruger effect, In sports they call it paralysis by analysis. The cure for the self doubt is confidence in KNOWING you are good at what you do, trying your best, and just living with the result and moving on. Great Video as usual.

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks Bo!!!

  • @acepalacio8223
    @acepalacio8223 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Always someone better than you,put all your efforts on yourself and be the best you can be

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      So true.

  • @yournaturalfather
    @yournaturalfather 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Bravo! Keep up the good work. I remember reading that Frank Zappa said the first thing people do when they buy a record, is put it on and talk over it. I am a big believer in maintaining a sense of humor and knowing that I do “me” better than anyone else in the world.

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I like your attitude!

  • @pattonroad6305
    @pattonroad6305 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Wise words

  • @ZacharyJewell-w5t
    @ZacharyJewell-w5t 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Needed this video bro, thank you

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Glad I could help

  • @carterjayhovland9575
    @carterjayhovland9575 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You are a good teacher Brad. I always wondered why the Stones, Fleetwood Mac, et al would do 40 takes of their songs in the studio.

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      There is a method to the madness

    • @GaZonk100
      @GaZonk100 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Beatles especially

  • @xjbomb4463
    @xjbomb4463 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great video Brad I agree with this .thank you

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Appreciate you watching!

  • @TedTalksGuitars
    @TedTalksGuitars 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Right on! I need some post-it-notes in all areas of my life with this written on it. Thanks for sharing. Rock on!

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Dude, you got this!

    • @TedTalksGuitars
      @TedTalksGuitars 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@badbrad Thanks, bro.

  • @NeuroplasticityReprogram
    @NeuroplasticityReprogram 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Brilliant! Divine timing is incredible. So thankful you share so much of your energy & wisdom with us. - All the Best

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thanks! I appreciate you saying that.

  • @chrisalexander1661
    @chrisalexander1661 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Great video. Hopefully you will crack 10k this weekend.

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Very close...we shall see.....

  • @outsidetheflow9454
    @outsidetheflow9454 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Brad, you are an excellent coach! Thanks man. Great channel. Keep up the good work.

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks, man! I’m glad it helps.

  • @TheFeelButton
    @TheFeelButton 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'm ruled by self doubt. I play for audiences so I can feel the truth. Cheers Brad!

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Right on brother!

  • @brandonessick775
    @brandonessick775 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thanks Brad.

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Sure thing!

  • @dwaynejones1146
    @dwaynejones1146 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Our most soulful recordings back in the day were live rythem section, where it was not perfect and might speed up at times....like jello wobbling a bit but holding the form of feel.....that imperfection made it perfect.

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Man you said it all right there.

    • @dwaynejones1146
      @dwaynejones1146 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @badbrad ,playing to a click has it's place....but it removes a certain feel that our art uses to speak to the heart....old Rufus and Chaka Khan records had the perfect feel....Marcus Miller told me while recording the song Superstar with Luther Vandross, there is a part where Luther is saying "keep it right there " and he was talking to the band, reminding them to not rush and f"up this perfect take....I dig that they left it in the final mix,and Luther cared enough to be at the session singing to keep the feel.

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@dwaynejones1146 I love those moments like that where they kept it real and left it in the take.

  • @Dana-b2v7q
    @Dana-b2v7q 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thanks!

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much!

  • @Rson66
    @Rson66 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    The greater the artist, the greater the doubt. Perfect confidence is granted to the less talented as a consolation prize" Robert Hughes.

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Great quote!

    • @NikosKatsikanis
      @NikosKatsikanis 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      wow

  • @bobmoloney
    @bobmoloney หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    As an improvising musician I put my faith in the purity of the expression of the moment. I do not seek perfection but honest expression.I find it best (although not so easy) not to be too critical as I am creating. I let a day pass in order to render judgement as to its worth. Mistakes are what make us unique. How we recover from mistakes is how we can break new ground in our playing. Preparation is paramount but when the time comes to engage in the creative process I find it best to cease critical thinking and let the process take control. In many ways the less involvement in reason and the more acceptance of the moment and groove will allow for a more complete, unfiltered expression from the soul. I am a jazz musician and I realize this method is not accepted across all types of music but it works best for me.

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I dig your way of thinking!

  • @gearjmr
    @gearjmr 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    There is always someone that plays better or is better at deferent technique or styles. Truth is there is only 1 of you so that makes us unique and specialized in what we do best. We always critique looking back but that snapshot in time is exactly what it is.

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It is indeed!

  • @ColtonJohnsonBrice09
    @ColtonJohnsonBrice09 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I saw Allan Holdsworrh at the Josephine Theater in San antonio in 1984 and he looked so humbling and was shocked when the encode everyone stood up and rushed up front, he had a face like a little boy surprise not really knowing how we all adored him. He was not aware of his greatness it looked like. Special moment ❤

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      So very true.

  • @jimmyhunter2799
    @jimmyhunter2799 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    in this day and age... the competition is so rigid and "perfect" out there i believe we need to make it as best as we can... a good player can imply that the session all went down at the same time when in fact it was not... that is the musical art of a real player using a DAW and not intimidated by it - i'm gonne revisit my mixes whenever i am disturbed and that's not "over thinking" that's using my gift and my tools to my creative level of the moment.

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I hear you Jimmy.

  • @Nik.No.K
    @Nik.No.K 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Congratulations on 10k Brad!

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      🙏

  • @irishwarhammer9388
    @irishwarhammer9388 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My first producer was Don Evan’s, Billy Joel’s gtr player way back, Cold Springs Harbor days. The first trks I cut with him he said, after we played back, was “you won’t believe me, but it’ll never sound this good again.” I didn’t get the joke till I was five years into Hollywood 😂 I’ve played on so many records that got shelved in town. I’m 63, keep spilling the facts brother🤘🤘🎸🤘

  • @slowfinger2
    @slowfinger2 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Fake it until you make it. Just keep stumbling forward, using will, expectation, and faith. When folk see someone winging it so smoothly, they know it's genuine, and the real stuff. Mastering the tech is the easy part, and perhaps not a necessary priority. Got to figure out our acts first, and then apply the most helpful tech.

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It's all about the heart.

  • @rharan1
    @rharan1 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Congratulations on 10,000

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you!

  • @MelodyMaker
    @MelodyMaker 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    That's right Brad. Doesn't help that those conceiving a new production do so in the context of imagining what it will take to produce something monetarily successful on the Spotify platform. The dysfunction of the industry in and of itself will have musicians second guessing the value of their work. It's really quite remarkable to watch the music industry evolve with the disincentives in place.

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Man you know it.

  • @paulie_g_
    @paulie_g_ 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Spot on man. Perfection is the enemy of progress.

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It is indeed.

  • @JoeTreffiletti
    @JoeTreffiletti 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Awesome video. I remember years ago reading articles where Randy Rhoads said he wasn't that good. I thought to myself " What? Are you kidding me?!" haha! Happy Saturday to you and family Brad!

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thanks for sharing!

  • @keithmartin1067
    @keithmartin1067 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Good advice, Brad! Great encouragement. All based on your personal, and professional , experience. Rock on! Tempus fugit.

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I appreciate that!

  • @miamichristine
    @miamichristine 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wonderful message 🎸🎸🎸❤️❤️🎼🎼

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you!

  • @teoortega4749
    @teoortega4749 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The first nervous energy is the take , low tech take

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I tend to agree if the band has their parts down

  • @YJG-57
    @YJG-57 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Keep it direct, keep it real, keep up the good work.

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks, will do!

  • @NelsonRiverosMusic
    @NelsonRiverosMusic 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you for this video Brad. This is great for us all. It made me think of my own projects. Off subject, may I ask what you uses to add all the graphics/fonts/titles on your videos? They are really attractive and colorful. And what you use for editing.

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Some different stuff depending on the video. Most of the time it’s just Final Cut Pro. That is the main ap I use to edit.

  • @randyg2803
    @randyg2803 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    as the saying goes art is never finished only abandoned

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Perhaps 🤔

  • @teddywoodward7789
    @teddywoodward7789 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    After listening to this I HAD to put this up- it's from 1997 with Johnny Neel, who unfortunately passed away in Occtober- this was the first take at the end of a session with Johnny and Kenny Malone- it went around the world on its own- got me invited to play legalization festivals-

  • @1969Donovan
    @1969Donovan 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    John Lennon said life is what happens while you're making other plans.

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Oh yeah

  • @GaZonk100
    @GaZonk100 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    always wondered how anyone can be so lacking in doubt, they start a band and name it AFTER THEMSELVES

  • @jimmyhunter2799
    @jimmyhunter2799 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    what YOU need to learn man, is, "there is more than one way to get to Jerusalem!"

  • @claudefox2882
    @claudefox2882 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It doesn’t mean a thing, if you haven’t got the ability to swing. Thomas Dolby on the ‚Aliens ate my Buick‘ album. Have a great weekend, duuuude 😅

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you! You as well.

  • @disiostudio1559
    @disiostudio1559 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great advice! Believe in yourself. However, if you can't play more than the same handful of riffs, setting your ego aside and some woodshedding might be helpful to your success. Oversized egos can end careers. We've all met arrogant musicians with oversized egos.

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Totally agreed.

  • @stink204
    @stink204 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Well said.

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you!

  • @Dana-b2v7q
    @Dana-b2v7q 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Bernard Purdie said they did Kid Charlemagne 75 times Steely Dan went with second take

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Wow!!!😮

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Love that song!

  • @jerryhatrick5860
    @jerryhatrick5860 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Yah, I'm the way too busy non practicing musician.
    And tomorrow's jam one of the local greats from a very high end killer band is gonna be at jam.
    Im having some self don't last few days about it.
    I generally do pretty damn good. I'm sure once thysic starts ill be fine..
    But I'm nervous as all hell and I don't get nervous but I am in my older age lately.
    Because I don't practice.
    But end of the night at home my nephew and I wrote a dn cool song in about a half hour just before we went to be.

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      You’re a pro don’t be nervous!

  • @giblespaul2001
    @giblespaul2001 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Truth! BB

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you!

  • @t.g.remixed
    @t.g.remixed 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I really doubt I can overcome it

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      You can....the mind is a powerful thing and you can figure out a way to do it.

  • @postworld1185
    @postworld1185 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Judging by the mega ton of crappy music being put out every day - I think more musicians should have self doubt. Not about their playing or production ability - which matter very little, but about their ability to write brilliant songs. We're saturated w great players and producers, but they suck at writing. We have a severe shortage of brilliant songs.

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I agree

  • @teddywoodward7789
    @teddywoodward7789 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We have a LOT in common- I lived in Nashville from late '89- I was LUCKY and worked for Cowboy Jack Clement and got to know EVERYBODY!!! The MONEY ruined everything- TW

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wow man.

  • @Dana-b2v7q
    @Dana-b2v7q 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    👋👏👏💯💯❤️🩷💜🩵💙🤍🩶🖤

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Very much appreciated!

  • @NikosKatsikanis
    @NikosKatsikanis 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    10kkkkkkkk

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Dude like super fast......I was chilling in the other room and it's zoomed up....

    • @NikosKatsikanis
      @NikosKatsikanis 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@badbrad fun times!

    • @NikosKatsikanis
      @NikosKatsikanis 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@badbrad 10k is history bro - now 100k is the target

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@NikosKatsikanis You are absolutely right. I want that 100k plaque.

    • @sv-yh3mq
      @sv-yh3mq 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's on the way

  • @afh0831
    @afh0831 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    💯🤙🏻

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Right on!

  • @DrErnieGibson
    @DrErnieGibson 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Just act like you know what you’re doing…
    Joe Walsh

    • @badbrad
      @badbrad  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      H ha yes

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  • @jimmer1047
    @jimmer1047 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Absolutely 💯 percent. Union ironwork is another career where confidence is a must. Putting steel frames on high rises, bridges, etc. Picking massive loads. Just overall you have to be confident in your knowledge and ability. Ive seen cats that question themselves. Is this ok? Will that fly? No bueno Brad.

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