It’s not weakness and the use of prayers, it’s that prayers are a figment. A construct. Man made. Non believers just have the freedom to think. There is no one listening to prayers. The Rabi here is making a generalization that is mostly true about human beings but that have nothing to do with manliness. Just look at the religious zealots that treat women like second class citizens. That is not manliness.
well said Rabbi, you nailed it today, you left no stone unturned, well done, so wise and deep, because you are very loving, its your gift, you really act from a place of loving kindness, loving kindness for others, and loving kindness for you.
When you lose someone you love the amount of joy they gave you is the same amount of sorrow when they leave you. He didnt have time to get too attached.or his sorrow would have been greater.
True manhood is rare in modern society. People with character are the exception. Beta males are rewarded for being well betas. “Courage cannot be counterfeited. It is one virtue that escapes hypocrisy” Napoleon Bonaparte “Courage is contagious. When a brave man takes a stand, the spines of others are stiffened” Billy Graham People with Courage and Character always seem sinister to the rest. Hermann Hesse “Courage is grace under pressure” Hemingway
@@sugarsnap1000 He is a very spiritual man ! Great chatting with you mate from lovely Ireland. I live in Chicago USA the center of the country. We have tons of generations of Irish in Chicago ! I had a very good gal pal, Lucille, whose husband, Jimmy Shields, an orphan, was from County Cork or County Tipperary, I forget which one? He was an American war hero in the Great War. He received the distinguished French, Croix De Guerre medal.
I believe you got this wrong - vulnerability is masochistic and results in not being able to recognise boundaries - sensitivity is manly but you can still hold boundaries
It's okay to cry, just don't be a crybaby like we now encourage in our societies through social media. Especially as a man it's not okay to cry in front of people who depend on you, cry a little but don't be the vulnerable kind that will make them lose interest on relying on you (like your own family as a husband).
being a man has nothing to do with any of that... being a man means standing by your convictions, your morals and ideals, and being man enough to admit when you are wrong and change... whether you fight or run or cry or not has nothing to do with it...
An example of bittul: deflating conflict by realizing the person who seeks the conflict actually is in pain. No amount of logic or righteousness works with somebody who is mentally ill, or tremendously traumatized. To save both the soul of this chained person and your own soul, you (on the surface) ‘give in.’ Not because you actually do. But because the illusion of you giving in, calms this person and tranquilizes the irrational anger. The conflict ends and the person calms down. You’ve actually performed a medicinal act to a fellow soul.
Some people don't talk (or talk as little as possible) because there is an higher knowledge. Very few seem to understand so there is a natural disconnect. It's not about being "bottled up". Once you know it there seems to be a disinterest in things so you tend to talk less.
My job is to purify the deep, to recycle the garbage pile. All these games that men play are distracting from purpose. Anger is a strong emotion but love is stronger. The job is not to break the heart but to repair it, to restore what is lost. Every time I generate colour men get freaked out. Who wants to be like these terrible examples of what men could be?
Men of violence don't like it. Some mouth off to look big because they actually are... Some are little but they have friends who fight the devil for and with them. Some warn because they don't piddle or box, or play slap ass. They are as patient and forgiving as God and permit the encroachment over and over, not because they can't protect themselves, it's that they let God fight their battles. Other times it is because they are men of honor who protect the weak even if they are ignorant of the abuse they hurtle blindly. Other times they are still willing to stand up in the appropriate manner for the situation at hand. Never to prove oneself but to further what is right and just... Good guys do exist... They don't need groups, approval or to compete. They are too busy minding their own business and prospering in the abundance of God's blessings for them...
It sounds all good in theory however all that goodness that you ascribe to didn't do anything for the state of Israel or Jews in general for the last couple thousand years That's why we're oppressed kicked out viewed as weak and so forth If what you're saying was true and valid October 7th wouldn't have happened.
Obvious and truthful. Whilst wishing not to be in any way racist the American (USA) emphasis on work/life culture and its spreading influence feeds into this unhappy and problematic status.
Sorry Rabbi I have to disagree with ya! Why don’t you go, and read up on the History if Hyam Solomon, the Greatest Sephardic America Jew that actually rescued America. Humble yourself Rabbi.
I know man who once showed his tears The next day showed his entitlement to control his wife's choices and already regretted vulnerable tears of prior day😮 That's how insecure men are wired
To which religious community do you refer? Orthodox Jewish communities have the lowest divorce rate among the global population. But I bet you know more about a successful marriage than they do, you smart superior human being.
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Excellent teaching Rabbi Jacobson about the ego, self-centeredness, and sharing about the self.
Indeed... PRAYERS are often seen as weakness by non/believers......but prayers are Majestic and Powerful and serene.😊
It’s not weakness and the use of prayers, it’s that prayers are a figment. A construct. Man made. Non believers just have the freedom to think. There is no one listening to prayers. The Rabi here is making a generalization that is mostly true about human beings but that have nothing to do with manliness. Just look at the religious zealots that treat women like second class citizens. That is not manliness.
I am a vulnerable, but brave person. I saved three women and a couple from criminals. 🙏
Its truly a honor too be alive today and learning from these wise Elders, teachers and Rabbi's
Indeed, Hallelujah !!
rabbi simon is literally the best
@MelchizedeckPriest
U have no business being here and criticizing our Fab Rabbi Jacobson ! 🥶
Indeed, its a strong man, that can show Mercy. 😊
well said Rabbi, you nailed it today, you left no stone unturned, well done, so wise and deep, because you are very loving, its your gift, you really act from a place of loving kindness, loving kindness for others, and loving kindness for you.
This holding in of emotions haplend to women too. Everyone things only men have a hard time crying but women do as well.
I appreciate your wisdom. It will never be out of style!
Thank you Rabbi. And also to everyone else who shares their thoughts, I hope this is comforting and it helps you in your personal relationships.
Humanity above profits will prevail!
this is a very good idea and i’m glad you posted this ❤
Powerful and deep understanding! Very well explained Rabbi! Thank you always for sharing your portion to the world! Much love for all that you do!
When you lose someone you love the amount of joy they gave you is the same amount of sorrow when they leave you. He didnt have time to get too attached.or his sorrow would have been greater.
GOD Bless You.
Amen and beautifully said! Moshiach now!
Thanks Rabbi
True manhood is rare in modern society. People with character are the exception.
Beta males are rewarded for being well betas.
“Courage cannot be counterfeited. It is one virtue that escapes hypocrisy”
Napoleon Bonaparte
“Courage is contagious. When a brave man takes a stand, the spines of others are stiffened”
Billy Graham
People with Courage and Character always seem sinister to the rest.
Hermann Hesse
“Courage is grace under pressure”
Hemingway
I like this guy. True philosopher.
BRAVO
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THE LAST
FRANCIS🇲🇨
I'm vulnerable, but brave. I saved 5 people, three women and a couple, from criminals !
Thank you Rabbi Jacobson!!💪✡️🙏♥️🔥
Wow very interesting conversation gentlemen.
I do not feel like recalling
I would like to sit in that room, it looks relaxing, calming, comfortable and would wake the senses ☺️
Come to Brooklyn and visit the meaningful Life Center room yourself & be delighted !
@@SweetChicagoGator next time I travel across the pond, I’ll drop in for sure 👍
@@sugarsnap1000
I assumed you were in the states and not in the UK; yet, Rabbi Simon would Love to have you when you do come !
@@SweetChicagoGator Ireland 🇮🇪 hope to get there soon ☺️ I love listening to the Rabbi, he’s a lovely man
@@sugarsnap1000
He is a very spiritual man !
Great chatting with you mate from lovely Ireland. I live in Chicago USA the center of the country. We have tons of generations of Irish in Chicago !
I had a very good gal pal, Lucille, whose husband, Jimmy Shields, an orphan, was from County Cork or County Tipperary, I forget which one? He was an American war hero in the Great War. He received the distinguished French, Croix De Guerre medal.
Shalom sir Israel and children's 🇮🇳💪🇮🇱🙏👑
Toda Raba
Wow, sad story.
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I agree about death, in Ireland we wake our loved ones it’s similar to Shiva,
Amen
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I believe you got this wrong - vulnerability is masochistic and results in not being able to recognise boundaries - sensitivity is manly but you can still hold boundaries
It's okay to cry, just don't be a crybaby like we now encourage in our societies through social media. Especially as a man it's not okay to cry in front of people who depend on you, cry a little but don't be the vulnerable kind that will make them lose interest on relying on you (like your own family as a husband).
I like sitting back and enjoying the view, That's alot of what I do and how I do it
Again, good morning Rabbi, Charles sounds like you or you sound like " Charles " sometimes.. same area or same school?
I’m food for birds, I’m bait for fish, ואנכי תולעת ולא איש. תהילים כב,ז.
being a man has nothing to do with any of that... being a man means standing by your convictions, your morals and ideals, and being man enough to admit when you are wrong and change... whether you fight or run or cry or not has nothing to do with it...
✌️
An example of bittul: deflating conflict by realizing the person who seeks the conflict actually is in pain.
No amount of logic or righteousness works with somebody who is mentally ill, or tremendously traumatized. To save both the soul of this chained person and your own soul, you (on the surface) ‘give in.’ Not because you actually do. But because the illusion of you giving in, calms this person and tranquilizes the irrational anger.
The conflict ends and the person calms down. You’ve actually performed a medicinal act to a fellow soul.
Some people don't talk (or talk as little as possible) because there is an higher knowledge. Very few seem to understand so there is a natural disconnect. It's not about being "bottled up". Once you know it there seems to be a disinterest in things so you tend to talk less.
Consider THE HOME WE BUILD TOGETHER by the late great UK Head Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks
Or origin.
My job is to purify the deep, to recycle the garbage pile. All these games that men play are distracting from purpose. Anger is a strong emotion but love is stronger. The job is not to break the heart but to repair it, to restore what is lost. Every time I generate colour men get freaked out. Who wants to be like these terrible examples of what men could be?
What meaning of fargo
Well yeah, are all cultures ultimately the same? :)) just in the virtue of our biological sameness... interesting point
Rabbi I'm leaving with my enemie she's fooled me a long time
are you saying Andrew Tate is manliness?
Men of violence don't like it. Some mouth off to look big because they actually are... Some are little but they have friends who fight the devil for and with them. Some warn because they don't piddle or box, or play slap ass.
They are as patient and forgiving as God and permit the encroachment over and over, not because they can't protect themselves, it's that they let God fight their battles. Other times it is because they are men of honor who protect the weak even if they are ignorant of the abuse they hurtle blindly. Other times they are still willing to stand up in the appropriate manner for the situation at hand. Never to prove oneself but to further what is right and just...
Good guys do exist... They don't need groups, approval or to compete. They are too busy minding their own business and prospering in the abundance of God's blessings for them...
It sounds all good in theory however all that goodness that you ascribe to didn't do anything for the state of Israel or Jews in general for the last couple thousand years That's why we're oppressed kicked out viewed as weak and so forth If what you're saying was true and valid October 7th wouldn't have happened.
To be primitive
Obvious and truthful. Whilst wishing not to be in any way racist the American (USA) emphasis on work/life culture and its spreading influence feeds into this unhappy and problematic status.
I’ve nothing to do with Andrew Tate. He came through Patrick Bet David. I don’t trust them.
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Sorry Rabbi I have to disagree with ya! Why don’t you go, and read up on the History if Hyam Solomon, the Greatest Sephardic America Jew that actually rescued America. Humble yourself Rabbi.
Why should a rabbi listen to someone who approaches him with such disrespect? Why would a wise man waste his time on a fool?
@@maydavies888no one is beyond learning. Or difference of opinion. Doesn’t make someone a fool.
I know man who once showed his tears
The next day showed his entitlement to control his wife's choices and already regretted vulnerable tears of prior day😮
That's how insecure men are wired
Ridiculous assertion about wife and husband when you don't even know the details?! 🥶
I cry for people I do not even know, especially the starving, homeless, Refugees and Migrants 😢
Crying for them won't feed them !! 🤪
Why does the religious community have so much contempt for the women? That’s not manliness.
To which religious community do you refer?
Orthodox Jewish communities have the lowest divorce rate among the global population. But I bet you know more about a successful marriage than they do, you smart superior human being.
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