The Hardest Part of Van Life (story 7)
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- I have been a full time nomad for over two years now. This week, I share the hardest part of Van life / Bus life. Please answer the question prompted in the video below. I'd love to know.
Talk Soon.
Lyss
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"The beautiful and difficult honor of facing yourself." -thank you
i'm nomadic with my tent and motorcycle and the world is my home as i love nature, adventure and meeting new people and trying different kinds of food in all the states..life is great!!!!!!
Hats of.
That must be much harder than living nomadic in a van. - Less safe and more uncomfortable both on the road and in camp, and probably more labour intensive and expensive too.
I can not live like that for more than a few weeks in the summer, until I again need the comfort of a home with infrastructure and a hard roof.
- Ride safe!
@@Animalignis the hardest part is the ride itself from point a to point b once i,m at my destination it is total relaxation and enjoyment.....
You have become an excellent “story teller” ... a person who can convey thoughts and feelings with video and music. 👍
I am honored by this comment. Thank you for watching and being a part of my journey.
You have the heart of a writer. And your dialogue is indicative of that.
I so get this.
There is a point of no return. I can never go back to a "normal " life
Ironically enough, my favorite part of vanlife is that space. For me it's never been a negative. But I think that has to do with having been a shut-in for ten years. All that deep soul searching and moving forward in terms of my soul's journey happened in my last apartment.
It also helps that I'm autistic and need plenty of time away from all that (for me) completely overwhelming sensory input you spoke of in the video. For me, that really is toxic, so I need long periods of time alone to try to balance myself.
So stocking up on provisions and heading out into wide open spaces away from everyone else is such a necessary gift.
Between the pandemic, and family matters, the last two years I've been trapped in one place, dealing with other people's problems and trying not to lose my mind. I'm finally back on the road, but helping a family member get his toes wet in Nomadic life, and get him up to Seattle. Once I safely get him there, I'll be able to go back to solitary travel again. And I'll finally get to explore the Pacific Northwest!!! Alone.
Dont give up...i gecounterd helping others all my life completely lost myself.
Now living in my tiny house in nature i am at
My best ......
Welcome to Virginia, Alyssa and Rio. I live in Roanoke...approximately two hours from the Skyline Drive and the Shenandoah National Park. I have driven the Skyline Drive many times over the years. But now, I am recuperating from a paralyzing stroke that has left me mostly house bound. So THANKS for your uplifting travel videos. I love watching them. Please do continue your travels and THANKS for sharing. You are appreciated more than you know. Safe travels, my friend! Chet R, Roanoke, Virginia
Watching you sitting on your steps, releasing and sharing such a personal moment, tears streaming down your cheeks, owning your emotions...thank you for sharing this. Bless your brave, beautiful heart. I have not given myself this space, yet.
You are such a beautiful soul. I wish I could give you a hug, you're doing wonderful. Love watching your journey.
Hugging you back Deleah! Thank you, I can feel your light in this world. Thank you for being a part of this journey with me.
WoW!!! Girl....u r doing it all right!!! U r def an old soul n u have SO much inside u 2 help others n u certainly r spreading hope, joy n love (2 name a few!) This journey in2 growing in love w urself n life is amazing 2 watch n all of ur wisdom n eagerness 2 just be is contagious!! I have binged almost all of ur vids now n u have re~lit my spark!!!! Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!
Not sure of ur age but u seem wise beyond ur yrs n u seem as tho u would b such an amazing role model 4 younger grls. They need a young woman as urself 2 look up 2 n it would better this world drastically!! I could go on n on but dont wanna write a short novel here lol. Pat urself on the back...u have found the right road n r crushing it!!! Ur mom must b so proud, she raised an amazing daughter n it is clear where u got it from!!!! Many blessings!!! ✌&💖
love that moment when you are crying on camera, always wanted to film something like that because thats how I feel inside all the time. enjoy the calm vibes of this video
You remind me of blessings that I take for granted. Not are you beautiful on the outside but in the inside too! God Bless and keep safe.
Loved this. Just found your channel for the first time, new sub ❤️
Truly appreciate that Christian. You've been an inspiration. Sending love ♥️
I know it has only been a week since your last video but it has felt like an eternity. The last my spirit had true space was watching sunrises at sea whilst I was on watch navigating, but I feel most alive when I am scuba diving exploring the underwater world. It is one of the few times that I get lost in the moment. Safe travels Lyss, X
Honey, I think you are ONE BRAVE lady... If only I had your strength when I was your age! Be PROUD of yourself! 💙
I'm so glad episode 33 (why I live alone off grid) popped up on recommended and I clicked, it was the living alone that made me click. I'm now 61 years old with a wife and two grown kids but I miss the solitude of being alone. I travelled alone from 2018 till 19 from NJ to Ushuaia, Argentina on my motorcycle, 11 months alone and it was the best time of my life. I also rode to Prudhoe Bay, Alaska and back alone on an earlier trip. The time I spent in Patagonia by myself was a dream come true. I already watched the last 5 episodes but have now started watching all from the beginning. You are stunningly beautiful and have a amazing soul, you are free spirited, you are my kind of person. I love your channel ❤️
Huge thank you to you and Dan!!!
You are actually living the life that I have been procrastinating for about five years now!! Thank you for the inspiration I am now moving into my planning mode.
I was in Shenandoah last year and I felt so alive there.. the beauty, the calmness.. your words and music made me cry reminding me of happier times. Stay well.
You’ve been able to find the right words lately. It’s inspirational.
Use situational awareness at all times--stay well..
First video I’ve seen of yours. I deeply respect your courage of facing yourself honestly and your inner journey, as well as your desire to be free within yourself. This, I believe, is an integral part of a satisfying foundation for a life well lived. Thank you for sharing part of yourself with us in such a personal way...not to mention in such a beautifully produced video. And yes indeed....without tears there is no healing.
Beautiful ...intelligent young woman who has so much to offer this world and to someone if you choose. Your channel is amazing and while in its early stages of developing, you can impact many.....this channel will become much bigger soon and can’t wait to see your journey. We love you.
I really loved this park. I camped there for a week. The deer would come out to graze about 4 PM everyday. I was so relaxed watching them, sitting and reading or taking walks.
Good for you young lady, God is showing you the beauty of his creations and you are one of them.
Oh my goodness! I am working my way through every episode, and they're all speaking directly to me, but this one....this one is screaming to me! Thank you for sharing your journey with us!
I appreciate you showing us vulnerability. Many people don’t allow themselves to cry, but tears heal the soul. ❤
Wow,your honesty,the views,Rios silly eyes,your youth,is soooo fucking magical,plus the back ground music is so hypnotic. Cheers !!
9:30 that tunnel… I’m proud of it. My grandfather was a member of the CCC who help create the tunnel, the stone walls, and he camped at Big meadows at the time. It’s one of my favorite places to camp. It’s home.
Well done! It's in your words and the upward tilt of your face, you've broken the shell of uncertainty and are allowing joy to overcome the fear. Those overlooks are beautiful, they're similar vistas I've stopped at along the Blue Ridge Parkway in North Carolina. But it looks like you and your doggo companion are heading north and I'm exited to see what you discover.
The way you kiss and love on your fur baby reminds me of myself so much. “Something to love when you feel like giving up!” Lyric; Jason Isbell.
It's awesome how honest you are on your channel. You bring alot of good points that are a true to everyone journeying through this life. Thanks for sharing some of your journey.
Oh my, I had a very similar experience many years ago when staying out in the middle of the country on a farm. I did the same thing, only I yelled "I'M FREEEEEEEEE!!!!!!" while spinning around with my arms in the air in front of my old single wide. You have many adventures still ahead of you. Go Girl!
I admire your way of life.... so freeing, I hope I can do it one day !!!
I am loving your videos. I don't know if you have any idea how many people you're helping with your videos I've watched them all in the last couple hours, I wish you had more. I could watch your videos all day. You're so positive and you have a way of making me fee positive about making changes in my life. Thank you 😊
You're going to be ok. Your life right now reminds me of the movie Eat Pray Love.....its hard but you're going to have an amazing story to tell one day! God Bless.
After having a long sort of day it was nice to see that your video was just posted and listen to your voice and the things you had to say the beauty down there in Virginia is awesome and hopefully I will be on the road within the next month with my vehicle redoing what I can always be safe out there my friend take care of that puppy of yours as I do mine be safe ✌️
Keep going! Continue to find yourself and the space you need to discover your answers. Love your vulnerability and honesty in your experiences. Been watching for this channel for many months. You inspire all of us, your subscribers. There is hope in the solitude and your commentary of the emotion and discovery is awe inspiring. Press on...we are with you...you are not alone!
I can't tell you how much I enjoy your videos. These videos are so moving and so thought provoking.I admire your courage for being so honest and authentic.
I biked that trail back in '19, before moving to Palm Bay, FL in Jan '22. The tunnel brought back wonderful memories :)
To answer your question, When did your spirit last have true space? Well...
In Oct '22, I made a trip from my home in Florida, up to Charlotte, NC to help my youngest son and his GF move into their new apt; In addition to visiting my battle-best friend and his wife. After a few days of leaving my son's home and getting on the Hwy, I asked myself, why am I rushing home when I'm semi-retired? Not just semi-retired, but also retired military-Army-28 years... All of a sudden it hit me...why not just hit the open road- head out west with no end destination, just drive. So, I pulled over, got on my Waze app, and entered Santa Monica Pier, for starters. Taking the most scenic routes was the most magical month trip I've ever done in a long time, stopping along the way to visit various museums, jazz clubs, wineries, hilltops, mom-and-pop places, and most importantly getting to finally visit The Grand Canyon- Magical!
Now before this trip, I've driven cross country 8 times, by myself, in my Dodge Charger; not driving a bus or a van LOL. Yeah I know, driving a car isn't the same but the roads and beauty surrounding them are. Those drives were military-related as well as working for the DOD as a contractor post-Army life; I lived and worked in the Seattle area 4 times, and loved each time! Can't get enough of the mountains. I've stayed at hotels, camped under the stars, and at various places, just soaking it all in, being me being free, I missed that, a lot. I've taken the northern, central, and southern routes. My best, I have to say by far has been the northern route, hands down, as I always love to stop at two of my favorite places, Devil's Tower and Mount Rushmore. I've never missed a beat visiting these two places going or coming back, just pure love for the beauty they both resemble.
Anyway, this coming weekend once again this time on Sep 8th, '23, a day before my eldest son's Bday, I'm heading up to Charlotte and then heading out west to tackle more of my bucket list and just be me and free, and yes still in my '20 Dodge Charger, LMAO!
That all said, I definitely can relate with you on the tranquility of being on the open road, driving, sometimes no music, most times blaring it loud and singing along at the top of my lungs, cause I can, because I'm me and free ;) And oh yes, I too have danced at sunrises and sunsets, shed tears-cried at just watching the beauty of nature and what the almighty has given us. My mental health is very important to me as well, so driving, listening to music, and being quiet on the open road, enjoying life and beauty has been therapeutic in its own self-conscious kind of way.
Well Lyss, I think I just about bored you to death with this bibliography LOL. No, I do hope you see this sometime and know it comes from the heart. Until next, I pray you and Rio are safe. Adios chica.
Your videos always seem to come at the perfect time and always seems to be fitting for whats going on with my inner battle ! To get up and to be able to see the sunrise and sunset with the mountains and cotton candy clouds oh makes everything right in the world! It warms my heart that you are finding your peace within and Rio looks so in heaven and in her element just running the open road! Much love❤🐾🐾
This one brought tears to my eyes. You are wise beyond your years. I’m 55 and I look at you in awe. Awe of your courage, strength, and that you SEE far beyond what is directly in front of you. Your journey is helping me to realize my journey.. ahead… in my retirement years. I have a plan. Watching you and Rio is strengthening my commitment to realizing my plan is achievable… it’s up to me to follow through. You may not realize this - but you are providing Rio with the absolutely best life a dog could ever imagine. Safety.. comfort… and wide open spaces to explore, sniff, run, and roll around in… complete and utter perfection 😎🙏🏼
Your videos are so raw, so beautiful. You have a gift 💜
Wow, thank you friends. Such a compliment coming from you. 🤍
Your words show wisdom beyond your years. Enjoy you thoughts and message, a breath of fresh air. Will be watching more of yours journey.
I know I get those moments when I am thinking of something, but I have accepted that I am going to be alone again but it is all good. I have not been in such a great relationship, and I think it is for the best that I am moving forward. It would of not worked any way being with this individual so it is for the best that I move on.
you're an old soul...continue to shine light on what matters...whether it be in your adventures or your writing....continue to tell the story we all love
Hi Lyss. The sound of moving water is therapy for me too.
I am new to your channel, but love it and have subscribed! It is honest and raw, but beautiful. Thank you fro sharing your life and your story/stories with us. You are very brave!
You feel and think very deeply like me. I am an HSP with many traumas that I have been and will probably always be healing from, but the World needs more people like you (and me) in it!
I am about to start an urban van life because I live in Austin TX and I am being priced out of any affordable housing. But, because I have a decent job that just barely pays a living wage, there is no housing assistance for me... so, it will be the van life for me and a new (kind of scary, but exciting) new chapter of my life!
Send good vibes my way as I am very scared since I have to figure out how to stay in Austin and stealth camp (in the sweltering Texas heat) because this is where my job is.
You are a great momma to Rio. You are clearing some past life experiences which will open you to be receptive to some new ideas and some very old ideas. Bless you.
WoW. You really got me all kinds of choked up here. The scenes on the overlook were magic and that moment when Rio looked to be in reflection staring out into the valley vista was priceless. Great work
We think you are so much more than a pretty face, you have a beautiful soul! We loved the questions at the end. Nature’s space provides so much of everything that one needs. You are wise beyond your years to have already found this out. 👏
I used to live in Fredericksburg/Spotsylvania Virginia a few years ago before relocating to Eastern North Carolina. Skyline Drive is beautiful. I used to go up there all the time and walk the trails and camp. They offer primitive camping and it'll truly test your skills. It's definitely a place to go to to unwind in nature and explore the inner you. I highly recommend going to Luray Caverns. It's beautiful there!
“No matter where we go, there we are. We take ourselves with us always” -Bob P.
You can tell how amazingly behaved Rio is all around; especially from moments of her waiting for permission to eat the food right in front of her @3:36 . She is such a good girl 🐕💕
Your determination and fortitude are amazing! Keep living the life your desire and change only as your desires change. Most of us, including myself, don't have the guts to do what you are doing. Rio is awesome and you're wonderful! Be safe and keep smiling 😃
When did your spirit last have true space?
It's been too long ago to remember. My spirit is on a search for its true space now, its very muddled with complicating factors that seem to creep in just as I think I'm almost there.
When do you feel most alive?
When i'm out on long walks alone, slightly cool breeze on my face, or laying on the grass as I stare up at the clouds and remind myself just how beautiful of a world it is that I live in.
I just found your channel and i'm excited to see the journey this universe has in store for you and Rio.
Soooooo calming and peaceful to see the free spirit in you and Rio 😌😊. Such a therapeutic episode and can see your inner being blossoming into a new flower 🌺 🌸.
5:05 Your puppy! So cute! ❤️
I love watching your soul journey. You are so strong and beautiful. Thank you for sharing your light with the world :)
It is so ironic. You mention being so far from home and not having access to internet and I find myself on the internet for hours at a time watching you living life. I wish I could do this adventure too.
Nice sharing your inner thoughts and feelings. We all do contemplate our purpose...hope you find yours!
Thanks so much George! You too :)
I hope Virginia was good to you, Lyss. At one point you were only about five miles from where I live. I wish I had been a subscriber at the time, but I just discovered your channel a few weeks ago. Thank you for sharing your journey with us; you bring me such peace. Love and safe travels always.
Great videos! You know, you could really be an author or a poet or something to that point. The way you tell your story and describe your life is so colorful. Hope you find what you're looking for. Keep up the good work. You and Rio be safe out there!
I am so happy I found your channel last week you are a stunning young lady with amazing outlook on life and, it's challenges. Look forward to following along on your journey. Stay safe out there and, lock those doors!!
Welcome to Virginia! Afton and the Shenandoah are beautiful parts of our amazing Commonwealth. It was awesome seeing Rio sitting and watching the skyline! Your questions are good ones.
That Tunnel is so cool.
I think we can all reflect on the things you go through in life at some point. It is awesome that you get to share this with the world. Accepting what you are its the key to move forward. I've seen you in on this road for quite some time now. And its beautiful how you continue to live life as it goes. Keep going beautiful....!!!!! it's a long road and everything its in front of you. ♥️😇
I love your bus and the beautiful sights. I’m glad you’ve numbered your videos!
I just discovered your channel. I’m so impressed with how insightful you are for such a young person. You really seem to know yourself. Such worthwhile videos. Thanks and keep thinking and smiling. 🙂
Just recently came across your videos and am watching your journey from video #1. Your dog Rio is so beautiful and unique looking. You have such a warm and loving spirit. Can’t wait to watch all of your adventures up to current, safe travels
I have subbed this morning and watched all of your videos! Enjoy your sharing of your healing journey with all of us. I hope that you will put up many more videos. Love the way you capture nature and it’s beauty and peace. Safe Travels to you and Rio ♥️🌞🐕
I must tell you, I love this video. Something that I fight myself everyday to truly find me. Lose the fear of the unknown. Thank you for expressing and showing the world of reality of being Human. Pray you always safe.
Hello again , its good to see you and enjoying your travels , nice thing i see is you can pull off road or park and see world comes to you , from one heart to another again xxoo RC
Love Love Love your vlog! Thanks so much for sharing your journey! 🙂
In this video you are really close to my home town. I've visited that overlook many times. Not as much in my adult life. I have to go back there soon.
I did see light at the end of the tunnel twice in this video. Times when my soul feel absolutely free is on a motor bike at 200Mph or standing in a river fly fishing or just sitting by a river or the sea enjoying being overwhelmed by it all. I am enjoying your videos so keep the good content coming.
You have some very impactful images and are making some really beautiful videos. You can see progression in your editing skills. And all that on top if an inspiring core. Wonderful job.. wonderful journey. Continued happiness and success to you!
Watching your channel has made me really start to think about my spirit and well being. I'm the type that puts others needs ahead of my own and I have been doing it for so long that idk if I even really know who I was, let alone who I am. As far as feeling alive, I mostly feel alive when I'm close to nature. For example, when I plant my garden, tend to my succulents, or harvest the food I cared for all summer. My best accomplishment would have to be the trust, loyalty and loving devotion i share with my dog. He truely is my best and most trusted friend.
As for you young lady. You are talented, kind, strong, smart, thoughtful and beauty all wrapped in one cute little package. I wish I would've had my shit together as well as you do at such a vibrant age. You will go far in this life and be successful, because you love yourself and your life! Best wishes to you and Rio!
Wow, beautiful and well-made video's. You are an interesting young person on another dimension, what a vibration, what a nice life. God bless you...
Found your videos recently. Your journey is so inspiring. Thank you.
The juxtaposition of van life and "space" was brilliant! You have touched a nerve and a heartstring. Happy trails to you.
You are doing so good I am very happy for you. Keep enjoying life and what it offers. I have all the faith in you. See you next time. My love to you and your dog.
I love your channel... im a nomad too and you help me think of what you speak ... it’s all true and you help me feel not so alone. I have no family or friends because they are all fake and hateful people and i need my space. Cheer up pretty lady time is what helps heel so free your soul like what i do because noone can take that away from us. Stay safe and be careful
Nature is so beautiful and relaxing. Thank you for showing your travels my anxiety lessened while watching this ☺️
I find I feel alive when I have my backpack and my dogs and freedom to go where I please. Just found your channel and I'm glad I did. Such inspiration.
Wow! Justt found your channel and Ive been binging your videos! So inspired by you. Every video so far has brought tears to my eyes:) haha, in a good way:)
Thanks for the feel well, narrated travel log. Very nice scene composition. Your pup is quite photogenic, aw that whisker coat!
Glad that your spirit is improving, mingling with your soul, and expanding visions for future opportunities of growth and success.
So many folks do not realize that they suffer from Nature Deficit Disorder. Hopefully some viewers will gain insight,and bravery to move into the natural world for true healing. As you seem to be doing.
I always feel intense recharging and healing when encompassed at my favorite mountain temple. The temperature, humidity, clear air, memorable aromas, talking streams, wildlife encounters, no clocks, variable sunshine, listening to nature, reasonable meals, affirming sleep, and waking to the bird songs. And of course, the fine fishing walks. Chance encounters with wonderful happy kind people like yourself are always appreciated too! Life is good when our vision is clear!
Waking up to the Sun of God is the best way to feel alive during our quiet times. Love the editing, pacing and narration combined with the music.
Oh the pink blooms on the trees look so pretty going in the park! WoW that tunnel looks spooky. Virginia is a beautiful state, but watchout for bears!!!... Being alone in open space is good for clearing out your mind & making room for new things😉✌
The world needs more people like you - beautiful on the inside as well as the outside. Following your journey of self discovery, healing and happiness is a true inspiration. Please keep safe. please keep on with your stories 🤗💘💖🥰😍 from Broadstairs, Kent, England
I am so happy I ran across your channel. I am 54 years old and we all eventually go through something watching your videos though is like seeing light. Thank you! (HUGS)❤️❤️🦋
These videos are artwork and I'm obsessed.
I have to say, I was so happy to see my area in one of your videos. Isn't our area just beautiful? I never get tired of the views. The Blue Ridge Tunnel just reopened not too long ago; I'm glad you were able to experience it. I'm so happy that you are happy. I could really sense your happiness in this one. Sending you positive vibes as you continue your journey. Hope to meet up with you on the road one day in my own home on wheels.
You are helping me get THERE!!! 💕💕💕 thank you!!!
Wow! Thank you! You are like a modern acetic. I appreciate and admire you.
Awe I want to just give you a virtual hug and say "its going to be okay". Looking back on these videos I wonder if you longed for the east coast bc closure hadn't fully set in yet. And he was heading up the AT during this same time you were driving along or near it's route and maybe you didn't even realize it... I'm currently going through a breakup and find myself doing things and then stopping myself. I could be projecting but I feel like sometimes those internal impulses to chase comfort can turn into Adventures of a self discovery and realization which is so much more beautiful, I cant wait to continue to watch your evolution.
I just drove through there coming from Maine and headed to Tennessee. I could not believe the beauty of this place. Virginia is definitely one of the most beautiful places I've been. The farms of Montpelier are breathtaking and the Sunrise over the Shenandoah would make my cup spontaneously overflow and spill from my eyes...the beauty of this life is being able to see the beauty around us. I stopped at the Afton Inn and caught a couple of pictures of the sunrise but they could never do the real thing justice. Have safe and happy travels. Thank you for sharing your life with us.
Its all so beautiful up in those mountain areas i lived in hickory nc in the foothills of the blue ridge ... loved it
Also…. I get the healing power of space…. It has healed me all of my life and will continue to do so. #speakupforlee
Same for me...
Speakupforlee
This was easily the most peaceful and inspiring video I have seen in a long while. Could probably just listen to the audio alone and feel just as much at peace. Looking forward to more stories from your travels!
This comment means more than I can express. Thank you Justin. I'm so glad you're here.
As always. simply beautiful!