Yaay to longer videos because the topics you are discussing surely need more time!👌🏾 On society telling us what to do, I know it's hard to listen to our inner voice, especially when we are young(er). Like Fiona said, it took her a while to finally embrace what she wanted to pursue. While you might have to do a course you loathe to appease the parent/guardian, or stay in a job that stresses you, normalize making your exit plan in whatever way you can, however small. If it means staying up watching TH-cam tutorials, taking a free online class, apprenticeship - do that. Feeding your soul will make the journey more bearable and the transition (if/when it happens) easier. Closely related are normalizing change and letting go/walking away. You can change your mind about a person or thing. Just because you spoke 'badly' about plantain today, doesn't mean you can't leave the dark side tomorrow. No one will beat you 😅 You have posted your person on every platform, multiple times a month for years and now it's no longer working. You are ready to leave but "what will the internet in laws say?" Please, you can't postpone your peace of mind because of this. Let us normalize walking out of friendships/relationships/jobs which no longer serve us. It is hard and in many cases there is a lot of background chaos to deal with ( like right now getting a job is arguably more difficult) . However, when we start to realise that we are losing ourselves, possibly turning to harmful coping mechanisms getting depressed (amongst other things), we should allow ourselves the chance at freedom which will (eventually) come after the initial discomfort. We deserve joy in this life of sin. For the things we can control - we should do our best to choose what gives us the most joy/peace. I don't quite know how to phrase this last one but we should normalize giving and receiving constructive feedback. In the service industry for example, we can count on one hand, how many businesses have treated us like we are worthy. [If you are reading this, in Kampala, I have a pretty good idea which establishments you're thinking about😉] Abalala batulisa bubi sente zaffe. Since we have been dealt with delays, incompetence, corruption etc, we have grown to expect this. You will be shocked how things can change when you share feedback in a civil way (unfortunately some people only react when called out loudly/ on social media- if at all) Sitting quietly when you're charged extra or as someone jumps the queue in a hospital/bank/supermarket, after you've waited for hours - won't help you or the next person. I have seen so many people's faces change instantly when they are told what they are called out on their behavior because they aren't accustomed to being told the truth. Let people know that doing better will yield results for them. Everyone wins. On the other hand, if someone tells you that your communication is lacking, a product you gave them got torn/broken immediately after purchase or that your customer relations person was rude to them - listen and learn instead of yelling, defending self or blocking them. Some people are malicious, yes but sometimes the criticism is for our own good. But bambi, in general, let us mind our business. If each time we wanted to start unsolicited conversations about another person's weight, relationship status, job..., we instead focused on improving an aspect of our own lives, we would be FAR. As always, thumbs up to the wonderful trio. We are hooked 😍.
SIS! Where to start. "We deserve joy in this life of sin" It's a lowkey summary of all the things we hope to normalise one day. Choose you daily even though it isnt (almost always) easy, it is a long term investment in your peace and joy. Got to agree on constructive criticism as well. And a big cheers to minding our business and staying hydrated. Thank you so much for watching and for always sharing your thoughts so generously. We stay learning from you, ma'am. :)
The day I normalized being myself without fear of judgment (self confessed people pleaser), it was my real Independence Day. The things I have been able to do and achieve since - I start to wish I was this way during my 20s and early thirties… Today is the first time I am hearing of Toxic Christianity because indeed that’s what it is. Goodness and geez… sometimes I even think God stands at the sidelines and wonders what’s going on with his toddlers …
People will be sorry for you in these streets even when you're happy simply because you do not have children. We need to release women from these expectations bambi.
40 something year old and no kids. My God they make it feel like it's a crucifix. I stumbled upon your channel and I am relating to everything. More divine Grace for what you do.
To add to Claire's point, normalize people leaving relationships/marriages THEY DON'T FEEL HAPPY in. We talk so much about cheating but there is way more suffering that can happen in relationships that don't get talked about.
That thing Fiona said about being "reduced" by society.. I had to ask my dad, how I was as a child, and he told me I was carefree, independent, said what I said with my whole chest and really showed up so fearlessly.. after that I purposed to slowly find that little girl and show up as her..
Prim sprinkling holy water 😂 😂 😂 with a serious face 😂Fiona spitting facts, the bar for men is in hell, suffering Olympics 😂.I’m with Claire, i can stepmom kids i found, but not additions after we got together.
Claire, thank you for raising the issue of leaving adulterous partners, l watched my mother stay with my cheating and condescending father for more than 10 years all in the name of fulfilling societal expectations and she died for that. Its so 😢 sad. Ladies, thank you 🎉🎉 Am officially addicted
Kenyan living in Germany, enjoying ur content. Finally someone who hits the nail on the head! on issues affecting our society 1. over thirty n single, over 30 and childfree . This is normal and enjoyable :-)
I have always prided myself in choosing to think & live unconventionally... thank you for making me feel soo validated - in a society that wants to shove mediocrity & judgement down our throats for choosing to make decisions that honor one's peace of mind. 😇
This really moved us, sis. It is so gratifying knowing that our conversations can genuinely have impact and be place where women can feel seen. :) cheers to being precisely who you are
This conversation came at the right time...people have made us very very uncomfortable coz of our body images. When ur slim its a problem when ur fat its also a problem..prim u keep inspiring me everyday to love my body n be proud.
This episode was brilliant. It ended when I was still watching banange. Loved it! I think people should normalize not insisting on asking beyond what someone is willing to tell you. I feel like follow up questions to some topics are unnecessary and may be uncomfortable for example if someone told you they were at the hospital and that's all they are willing to tell you at that point, normalize not asking 'for what' because it could be uncomfortable for them to say. It's better you simply say, oh, I hope you feel better, or i hope it's not bad or something and if they go ahead to tell you why they were at the hospital, then that's the decision they've made. If they don't it should also be okay.
Definitely agree, Cynthia. Pushing simply isn't the way. We should let others share what they're comfortable with and if we want to help, work within those parameters
Yaaaaaasssss ladies…..I loved this….I resonated with almost each normalize…..allow me to add…we need to normalize being a single moms regardless of how u got there….thanks😍😍
Phiona instantly dived right into it, thank you for beginning with that issue. Am only 27 years old, l decided not to have any kids with or without marriage but already being judged by my family and friends, l love children but the societal expectations are draining us. Funny opinion got from a friend who said,“what are you going to do with your womb?" It really hurt me😢
I love that this episode is longer😍. All these points are so accurate and relatable. You ladies are doing great, speaking our minds 😂and i'm here for it🤗😍
Fiona!!!! The point on kids - you have my heart. Am that happy chic with no children. 9years married and happy with no kids. I love my nephews and can take care of them when their parents allow but am okay without any of my own. Access not ownership is a great option.
I like this part at 0:50 when Nyonyozi started to sprinkle holly water on us the audience to take in the message with no judgment 🤣🤣🤣. imagine having one child and they start asking when you will have another these people have no chill I swear 🤣🤣
On the body image issues , my youngest sister has been underweight most of her life and people would look at her weirdly , so she would stay indoors most of the time , it got to a point people would ask me what is your sister suffering from ? Is she having any chronic disease ? HIV ? Its bad. Until today my young sister is at a healthy weight but she does everything including supplements to gain weight. Lets be mindful of what we say to people about their body size, color etc Normalize keeping your thoughts to yourself , actually learn to think better
Gosh, we're so sorry she has had to experience that. People can be cruel. Mindfulness, kindness...these are things we really must normalise. May she find the right people to surround herself with and blossom in spite of anything this world throws at her.
I feel quitting one's job should be normalized..Sis,you don't know what i endured while at that job,u were not in my shoes to know the stress and everything i had to go thru because of that job...Mbu u left the job saying the money is little but now u won't even find that little you despised...and they want you to feel like you did something wrong by quitting that job which was draining you,in some way you have to withstand suffering...Guys normalize letting go of anything that brings u no good... Suffering brings u no award AT ALL.
I love each one of you. Glad I came across this channel. All your varied personalities and opinions are so welcome. Subscribed and the notification bell turned on. Watching from Kenya💛💙❤️
Spin off from Fiona's point. Normalize out of the box jobs but also normalise people who are not interested in being entrepreneurs. I feel like there is this entrepreneurship boob with millennials that they make it seem like if you are not starting a business or creating something, you are not winning. Some people are happy to do a traditional 9-5 for the rest of their lives and that's ok.
True having kids should not be a qualifying factor for people's happiness. I've always told people that i will have kids when i want to and not because am married or.
At this point u guys first point hit home. With people asking me all the time ozaala di. When are u having kids blah blah. They don't know that people have struggles and issues they don't talk about. Thanks ladies for these topics. Very interesting.
On the body image issues , my youngest sister has been underweight most of her life and people would look at her weirdly , so she would stay indoors most of the time , it got to a point people would ask me what is your sister suffering from ? Is she having any chronic disease ? HIV ? Its bad. Until today my young sister is at a healthy weight but she does everything including supplements to gain weight. Lets be mindful of what we say to people about their body size, color etc Normalize keeping your thoughts to yourself , actually learn to think better
Exactly Fiona grown women should leave alone even though u ain’t married dat is my best point too it should be normalized we work out to stay healthy don’t judge people because they are fat claiming they are fat that should be normalized
My hope and greatest wish is to normalize talking about mental health, especially in this country and as Africans. We think it's a "white people thing" but no,let's normalize mental health and spread awareness. Thank you for existing ladies.
Oh yeah! Try having your first and suddenly the world goes to the dogs thanks to Covid! Oh I am with your mom Claire on one hand. On the other hand I realized that the world has never been perfect and get our parents had us anyway.. I find peace in praying for my lo always
Let's normalise not giving unsolicited advice. Who asked you? I usually get skin pimple advice from people that meet me randomly. It's so harsh! "Why don't you try this product?" "You should try this cream" "You should visit this dermatologist" etc. I'm aware that my skin is suffering and has been for a while and for sure I am doing something about it
I swear I love kids but as a 25 year old woman who feels like am still 19 and i have ambitions, having children is not something I would want now may be lster
I completely failed to fit into the Ugandan educational system. I moved to Uganda when I was 16 from Southern Africa. The memorizing of subjects failed me. I was not able to critically think without a teacher telling me off. That system was horrible. I failed high school and didn't make it to Makerere. However, I got employment because of the way I presented myself. Any way, when I moved to the west, I went back to school and guess what. I fit in like a glove. No memorizing, instead it's presentations , asking questions, group work, quizzes, proper assignments. I loved it. Those nurses should know that there are children born with diabetes and skinny people who also have diabetes. They need to educate themselves.
Thank u Fiona ..true I have a child from my first relationship.. But am happy in my relationship right now.. Happy living 100000% life ..with no children But the world won't let boo rest ...of they make it seem like he is impotent.. But we have decided to live our lives.. Minus having mini us s
girrrrrl I hear you. People will feel sorry for you for no reason :D yet we are just living like everyone else. May you continue to live happily my dear. In spite of the jazz :)
Omg Prim...the number of times I have received subpar treatment in the hospital because the Dr chooses to focus on my weight and not the actual symptoms...weeuuhhh
Speaking of people judging, i disagree, the Bible says that we shall judge Agels and also, there is positive criticism which is mistaken for judgement and this is very important for growth and development.
I wish our people back home normalize to let us be whatever we are not averyone travels it's a must to become rich 😠I hate being judged by people who have been working for over thirty years and they're are still poor back home and they expect you to become rich who just traveled to a stranger county within few years.please and please you're killing us the worst part you don't know what we go through after reaching in these countries instead you go around yap yapp yap...
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Yaay to longer videos because the topics you are discussing surely need more time!👌🏾
On society telling us what to do, I know it's hard to listen to our inner voice, especially when we are young(er).
Like Fiona said, it took her a while to finally embrace what she wanted to pursue.
While you might have to do a course you loathe to appease the parent/guardian, or stay in a job that stresses you, normalize making your exit plan in whatever way you can, however small.
If it means staying up watching TH-cam tutorials, taking a free online class, apprenticeship - do that. Feeding your soul will make the journey more bearable and the transition (if/when it happens) easier.
Closely related are normalizing change and letting go/walking away.
You can change your mind about a person or thing. Just because you spoke 'badly' about plantain today, doesn't mean you can't leave the dark side tomorrow. No one will beat you 😅
You have posted your person on every platform, multiple times a month for years and now it's no longer working.
You are ready to leave but "what will the internet in laws say?"
Please, you can't postpone your peace of mind because of this.
Let us normalize walking out of friendships/relationships/jobs which no longer serve us. It is hard and in many cases there is a lot of background chaos to deal with ( like right now getting a job is arguably more difficult) . However, when we start to realise that we are losing ourselves, possibly turning to harmful coping mechanisms getting depressed (amongst other things), we should allow ourselves the chance at freedom which will (eventually) come after the initial discomfort.
We deserve joy in this life of sin. For the things we can control - we should do our best to choose what gives us the most joy/peace.
I don't quite know how to phrase this last one but we should normalize giving and receiving constructive feedback.
In the service industry for example, we can count on one hand, how many businesses have treated us like we are worthy.
[If you are reading this, in Kampala, I have a pretty good idea which establishments you're thinking about😉]
Abalala batulisa bubi sente zaffe.
Since we have been dealt with delays, incompetence, corruption etc, we have grown to expect this. You will be shocked how things can change when you share feedback in a civil way (unfortunately some people only react when called out loudly/ on social media- if at all)
Sitting quietly when you're charged extra or as someone jumps the queue in a hospital/bank/supermarket, after you've waited for hours - won't help you or the next person.
I have seen so many people's faces change instantly when they are told what they are called out on their behavior because they aren't accustomed to being told the truth.
Let people know that doing better will yield results for them. Everyone wins.
On the other hand, if someone tells you that your communication is lacking, a product you gave them got torn/broken immediately after purchase or that your customer relations person was rude to them - listen and learn instead of yelling, defending self or blocking them.
Some people are malicious, yes but sometimes the criticism is for our own good.
But bambi, in general, let us mind our business.
If each time we wanted to start unsolicited conversations about another person's weight, relationship status, job..., we instead focused on improving an aspect of our own lives, we would be FAR.
As always, thumbs up to the wonderful trio. We are hooked 😍.
SIS! Where to start. "We deserve joy in this life of sin" It's a lowkey summary of all the things we hope to normalise one day. Choose you daily even though it isnt (almost always) easy, it is a long term investment in your peace and joy.
Got to agree on constructive criticism as well. And a big cheers to minding our business and staying hydrated.
Thank you so much for watching and for always sharing your thoughts so generously. We stay learning from you, ma'am. :)
Esther…. Yet again spitting wisdom. But you must visit the show 🙈🙈🙈
The day I normalized being myself without fear of judgment (self confessed people pleaser), it was my real Independence Day. The things I have been able to do and achieve since - I start to wish I was this way during my 20s and early thirties…
Today is the first time I am hearing of Toxic Christianity because indeed that’s what it is. Goodness and geez… sometimes I even think God stands at the sidelines and wonders what’s going on with his toddlers …
@@anitakomukama We agree!
@@anitakomukama People pleasing shall surely be the death of us. Kudos to you for powering through💪🏾
"Why is it a qualifying factor for my happiness" - fiona! Love it!!!!
People will be sorry for you in these streets even when you're happy simply because you do not have children. We need to release women from these expectations bambi.
40 something year old and no kids. My God they make it feel like it's a crucifix. I stumbled upon your channel and I am relating to everything. More divine Grace for what you do.
To add to Claire's point, normalize people leaving relationships/marriages THEY DON'T FEEL HAPPY in. We talk so much about cheating but there is way more suffering that can happen in relationships that don't get talked about.
This is so true. A lot of people are suffering behind closed doors. Both men and women are holding it together for the public
That thing Fiona said about being "reduced" by society.. I had to ask my dad, how I was as a child, and he told me I was carefree, independent, said what I said with my whole chest and really showed up so fearlessly.. after that I purposed to slowly find that little girl and show up as her..
And to be honest you did. You really really did. I admire that about you
“Fear of judgment is where potential goes to die”🙏🏾
Prim sprinkling holy water 😂 😂 😂 with a serious face 😂Fiona spitting facts, the bar for men is in hell, suffering Olympics 😂.I’m with Claire, i can stepmom kids i found, but not additions after we got together.
Saaaaaaame
Claire, thank you for raising the issue of leaving adulterous partners, l watched my mother stay with my cheating and condescending father for more than 10 years all in the name of fulfilling societal expectations and she died for that. Its so 😢 sad.
Ladies, thank you 🎉🎉
Am officially addicted
Kenyan living in Germany, enjoying ur content. Finally someone who hits the nail on the head! on issues affecting our society 1. over thirty n single, over 30 and childfree . This is normal and enjoyable :-)
I have always prided myself in choosing to think & live unconventionally... thank you for making me feel soo validated - in a society that wants to shove mediocrity & judgement down our throats for choosing to make decisions that honor one's peace of mind. 😇
This really moved us, sis. It is so gratifying knowing that our conversations can genuinely have impact and be place where women can feel seen. :) cheers to being precisely who you are
Prim is accurate with the Weight thing😂. Its like everyone who Works out has one asthetic. This is a dynamic trio😍😍
This conversation came at the right time...people have made us very very uncomfortable coz of our body images. When ur slim its a problem when ur fat its also a problem..prim u keep inspiring me everyday to love my body n be proud.
Love to hear it. Prim surely keeps us all heavy on the self love in this life! :)
A shot for each time Claire says "do you understand?".. haha.. Lovely episode tho
😄 we hadn't even noticed
She's a teacher. Teachers are used to educating and getting feedback. Hence the question "do you understand?"
This episode was brilliant. It ended when I was still watching banange. Loved it! I think people should normalize not insisting on asking beyond what someone is willing to tell you. I feel like follow up questions to some topics are unnecessary and may be uncomfortable for example if someone told you they were at the hospital and that's all they are willing to tell you at that point, normalize not asking 'for what' because it could be uncomfortable for them to say. It's better you simply say, oh, I hope you feel better, or i hope it's not bad or something and if they go ahead to tell you why they were at the hospital, then that's the decision they've made. If they don't it should also be okay.
Definitely agree, Cynthia. Pushing simply isn't the way. We should let others share what they're comfortable with and if we want to help, work within those parameters
Yaaaaaasssss ladies…..I loved this….I resonated with almost each normalize…..allow me to add…we need to normalize being a single moms regardless of how u got there….thanks😍😍
People need to normalize respecting boundaries and privacy of individuals. Like learning to concentrate on themselves. Like minding personal business!
Minding our own business is definitely a top tier way to live
Prim you make this conversation very diverse and super interesting . Love you!!
She really does :)
Phiona instantly dived right into it, thank you for beginning with that issue. Am only 27 years old, l decided not to have any kids with or without marriage but already being judged by my family and friends, l love children but the societal expectations are draining us.
Funny opinion got from a friend who said,“what are you going to do with your womb?"
It really hurt me😢
The topic of women not wanting/having children is a whole topic of it's own. The pressure especially in our African culture is reallllllllll
so Real
I love that this episode is longer😍. All these points are so accurate and relatable. You ladies are doing great, speaking our minds 😂and i'm here for it🤗😍
Thanks hun! SO glad the length of the video is being received this way. Some topics be heavy.
Fiona!!!! The point on kids - you have my heart. Am that happy chic with no children. 9years married and happy with no kids. I love my nephews and can take care of them when their parents allow but am okay without any of my own. Access not ownership is a great option.
Thank you so much for sharing this, sis. Biological children are not a qualification for happiness. You're one of the many examples of this
-Fiona-
Access not ownership 🙌
I just found this channel but I'm obsessed with you 3 ❤️ 💙 I'm hooked ❤️ 💙 💜
Me too am obsessed😃😚the reality and the honesty these three super ladies are talking about are just amazinggg
We're obsessed with you too, sis ❤️
I like this part at 0:50 when Nyonyozi started to sprinkle holly water on us the audience to take in the message with no judgment 🤣🤣🤣. imagine having one child and they start asking when you will have another these people have no chill I swear 🤣🤣
imagine !!😂
Tables were shaken and houses toppled over with these facts 👏🏾
The drama n controversy that comes wth Prims opinions....I dig 100%.am glued like dead glued.
Prim you really really make my day!! lol great job ladies!!
Me the length of the episode excited me. I liked before I watched because you ladies are our Sato plot.
yayy we we'ren't sure about the length so we're glad it works for some :)
Not Claire talking about a Nose every after one second 😂😂😂am here for this 😂😂
On the body image issues , my youngest sister has been underweight most of her life and people would look at her weirdly , so she would stay indoors most of the time , it got to a point people would ask me what is your sister suffering from ? Is she having any chronic disease ? HIV ? Its bad.
Until today my young sister is at a healthy weight but she does everything including supplements to gain weight.
Lets be mindful of what we say to people about their body size, color etc
Normalize keeping your thoughts to yourself , actually learn to think better
Gosh, we're so sorry she has had to experience that. People can be cruel. Mindfulness, kindness...these are things we really must normalise. May she find the right people to surround herself with and blossom in spite of anything this world throws at her.
Nyonyo sprinkled holy water on us my God 😄 🤣 😂
😄
Listening to all these wordful opinions make my heart feel at Peace, Thanks so very much
I love how you all have diverse views on everything
Honestly that’s the core of our friendship. It’s why this becomes easy.
And hard at the same time.
We love it too :) it's the spice of life, no?
Fiona's first point is the true gospel!
We have allllll gone through that one. People start asking you at about 22🤣🤣🤣
Gospel truth, sis
I feel quitting one's job should be normalized..Sis,you don't know what i endured while at that job,u were not in my shoes to know the stress and everything i had to go thru because of that job...Mbu u left the job saying the money is little but now u won't even find that little you despised...and they want you to feel like you did something wrong by quitting that job which was draining you,in some way you have to withstand suffering...Guys normalize letting go of anything that brings u no good... Suffering brings u no award AT ALL.
amen, sis. Amen
claire you didn't waste your potential ,now you're here making us smile and laugh, i really like your character 🥰🥰
Claire so Real and honest 👌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
We agree 💗
I love each one of you. Glad I came across this channel. All your varied personalities and opinions are so welcome. Subscribed and the notification bell turned on. Watching from Kenya💛💙❤️
Spin off from Fiona's point. Normalize out of the box jobs but also normalise people who are not interested in being entrepreneurs. I feel like there is this entrepreneurship boob with millennials that they make it seem like if you are not starting a business or creating something, you are not winning. Some people are happy to do a traditional 9-5 for the rest of their lives and that's ok.
High five to this Linda…
@@anitakomukama I see you Anita❤
Period,nobody not all of us want to go home and checking files and folders
You ladies always make my day! 💖💖💖
So glad! You make our day too :)
True having kids should not be a qualifying factor for people's happiness.
I've always told people that i will have kids when i want to and not because am married or.
Couldnt agree more
Living alone while single comes with a different kind of independence, freedom and peace. I really don't see why it ain't normal and advocated for❤😊
I'm so glad that it's a longer episode!
At this point u guys first point hit home. With people asking me all the time ozaala di. When are u having kids blah blah. They don't know that people have struggles and issues they don't talk about. Thanks ladies for these topics. Very interesting.
I hear you, sis. Those questions are exhausting. We should really allow others to just live. Thanks for watching :)
Love love love these conversations 😊
I’m glad you decided to start this channel
us too :) and thank you for the support
The assumption that "being called small / losing weight" is a complement 🚮🚮
Please don’t get me started on this
Normalise that there are awesome Fathers and good men out there.
On the body image issues , my youngest sister has been underweight most of her life and people would look at her weirdly , so she would stay indoors most of the time , it got to a point people would ask me what is your sister suffering from ? Is she having any chronic disease ? HIV ? Its bad.
Until today my young sister is at a healthy weight but she does everything including supplements to gain weight.
Lets be mindful of what we say to people about their body size, color etc
Normalize keeping your thoughts to yourself , actually learn to think better
True
True
Did Prim just say "in my hoe days😂" ladies these episodes are so life related and breath taking♥️
You ladies deserve an award, wooooo❤️👏👏👏👏🥳🙌👌
And somehow, women are meant to believe that when a man cheats, it's their fault. Statements like " teyefaako" blabla should end. W
Every person has deal-breakers thats soo true...
Daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaamn so someone understands why i dont want kids😍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ wooooow alot of maturity and exposure with these babes
😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 @fionakemi that Somali refugee jazz was so funny... Like how??!!
Exactly Fiona grown women should leave alone even though u ain’t married dat is my best point too it should be normalized we work out to stay healthy don’t judge people because they are fat claiming they are fat that should be normalized
And motherhood is overrated. It's like you lose your life, dreams and sanity for a certain number of years.
Amazing conversation. Very well coordinated and full of wisdom
Thank you for watching doreen
Thanks Doreen. We appreciate your support
Love you ladies..yr changing lives for sure..God bless you❤️🙏🏼
In my ho days........................Prim you are the winner🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hahahah. Pity sex. SMH. God really saved me banange.
@@nyonyoziprim Amen kubanga pity sex nedda. Let's be happy we have Bubuna now🤣🤣
I wish I could like this episode a million times...Thank you ladies
Guyyyy!!!! someone give me an extra dose of Prim :-)
🤣🤣🤣
Not Nyonyo sprinkling holy water on us 😂😂😂🙏🏿
Y’all need a cleanse
😂😂😂
For women living alone...honestly the only concern people should have is our safety.....that other crammed life should release us
I love you gals so much...you rock !! !!! hello from the UK :)
Ladies..I must say..This is one of the most liberating shows.Its ok to be big as Iam and be ok..and be brilliant.normalize bieng you.wow
My hope and greatest wish is to normalize talking about mental health, especially in this country and as Africans. We think it's a "white people thing" but no,let's normalize mental health and spread awareness. Thank you for existing ladies.
Normalize letting people be- Prim🥰💪🏽
Learning alot from dz organized ladies , thanks guys 🤗
Oh yeah! Try having your first and suddenly the world goes to the dogs thanks to Covid! Oh I am with your mom Claire on one hand. On the other hand I realized that the world has never been perfect and get our parents had us anyway.. I find peace in praying for my lo always
Let's normalise not giving unsolicited advice. Who asked you? I usually get skin pimple advice from people that meet me randomly. It's so harsh! "Why don't you try this product?" "You should try this cream" "You should visit this dermatologist" etc. I'm aware that my skin is suffering and has been for a while and for sure I am doing something about it
We hear you, sis. We have to be mindful of how we approach, if at all
Great episode guys💃 thank you
Thank you mercy
I swear I love kids but as a 25 year old woman who feels like am still 19 and i have ambitions, having children is not something I would want now may be lster
Great episode as usual!!
Thanks Sheila. We appreciate you always coming here to watch and comment :)
Primmmmmmmmm trust me I wd hurry to add fire wood at the instruction of the most High🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lolz 😂 the step mom point ....oh lord.it did cross my mind too
I completely failed to fit into the Ugandan educational system. I moved to Uganda when I was 16 from Southern Africa.
The memorizing of subjects failed me. I was not able to critically think without a teacher telling me off. That system was horrible. I failed high school and didn't make it to Makerere. However, I got employment because of the way I presented myself. Any way, when I moved to the west, I went back to school and guess what. I fit in like a glove. No memorizing, instead it's presentations , asking questions, group work, quizzes, proper assignments. I loved it.
Those nurses should know that there are children born with diabetes and skinny people who also have diabetes. They need to educate themselves.
can't even add to this. Periodt. There are a lot of loopholes in our systems that are paralysing our progress.
I couldn't fit in this system too
I couldn't fit in this system too
Please shoot part 2 for this episode. 🙏
Love this idea. I think we'll probably do a follow up later this year
My sister found you! she made a refference! am so glad to subscribe!!!
Prim 👏👏👏👏 thankyou
Learning alot from dz organized ladies , thanks guys 🤗
Prim "bambing" someone 🤣🤣
Talk about being suffocated into tiny little boxes!!😅
Eeeeh nga ogeze olya biki😅😅😅😅......nosense
Nice discussion ❤️Prim is a vibe
Love the diversity in opinions
It’s one of the things that brings us together for this channel. The difference in opinions
She really is :) Thanks Mireille
Thank u Fiona ..true I have a child from my first relationship..
But am happy in my relationship right now..
Happy living 100000% life ..with no children
But the world won't let boo rest ...of they make it seem like he is impotent..
But we have decided to live our lives..
Minus having mini us s
girrrrrl I hear you. People will feel sorry for you for no reason :D yet we are just living like everyone else. May you continue to live happily my dear. In spite of the jazz :)
Omg Prim...the number of times I have received subpar treatment in the hospital because the Dr chooses to focus on my weight and not the actual symptoms...weeuuhhh
Sis you and me both. I hate going to hospitals because I dread the whole “lose weight” oh I got the flue we’ll lose weight
Love Love Love you guys
😂😂😂😂ohh my God prim 😂😂ur a whole vibe
Prim isn't alone because my fellow Christians judge a lot because they forget it's a personal relationship with God
Prim ur a gem 💎
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😭😭😭😭am 21 and and already exhausted with the law course am pursuing just to fulfill my father's dream 😭
The season will end. Try and pursue it, get the bare minimum as you are pursuing your other interests.
I would say try and speak to your father. You just never know. What if he supports you decision to pursue something else
Speaking of people judging, i disagree, the Bible says that we shall judge Agels and also, there is positive criticism which is mistaken for judgement and this is very important for growth and development.
Thank you Prim our Christian friends can be too much
I wish our people back home normalize to let us be whatever we are not averyone travels it's a must to become rich 😠I hate being judged by people who have been working for over thirty years and they're are still poor back home and they expect you to become rich who just traveled to a stranger county within few years.please and please you're killing us the worst part you don't know what we go through after reaching in these countries instead you go around yap yapp yap...
Aaaw I hear you on this, totally. The black tax. My God
Lool Prim .. breaking news.."local man finds out that he's been having sex with women"🤣
Claire u hv reminded of one gentleman who really shouted on my weight addition. And i had finished my materrnity leave back to office. I felt bad.
Ypu ladies are hilarious. Fiona your reactions are so funny
LOL. Fiona here. My facial expressions also confuse me. I am glad they're at least entertaining :D
Mi i always tell dem am pregnant 🤣🤣🤣
Totally agree with you prim the judgement amongst Christians 😏😏is extreme
Don’t get me started sis.
true , when we keep quiet about pipos bad comments of pipos bodies we enable them.
Let's offend each other 🤣🤣
Am a huge fan. Well Done.