SOFT POWER: The 10 Hypergamous Commandments!

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  • @cocoarie3448
    @cocoarie3448 4 ปีที่แล้ว +954

    My favorite feminine icon is Ciara. I love how she level up and not let her past mistakes define her.

    • @god1st551
      @god1st551 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Same! The vlog that Chloe did bck in 2020 on Ciara “Ciara’s Prayer” is also one of my faves!

    • @stopthelightskinguilt.3775
      @stopthelightskinguilt.3775 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Now let's not make those mistakes to begin with👍👍

    • @LateshaRenee
      @LateshaRenee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @T M I always felt like she was forcing it. You can just see certain things

    • @triciadenice5702
      @triciadenice5702 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @PhotoJeticPoet
      @PhotoJeticPoet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      When you're rich and beautiful you can do that.

  • @kathyalex778
    @kathyalex778 4 ปีที่แล้ว +497

    "Thou shall not give away thy WAP or thy slice of Heaven away for Free99" PUT THIS ON A BILLBOARD IN EVERY MAJOR CITY! 😂❤️❤️❤️

    • @EduardoOliveira-zx9ju
      @EduardoOliveira-zx9ju 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Evilkitty64 Unattractive women have a "lower expectation" because their demand is low. Unattractive women are NOT in high demand

    • @inaices2002
      @inaices2002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 For real!

    • @QueenAmour8888
      @QueenAmour8888 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmao!!!!

  • @LindsayAmelia
    @LindsayAmelia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +617

    #3 is so real. Fearing money is a scarcity mindset that blocks abundance. The scarcity mentality transfers to every area of your life! Avoid it. I know some women who are cheap with themselves out of fear of going without. They don’t believe the resources exist because they aren’t currently present. Faith, gratitude and expectation will attract abundance. Believe You are abundant.

    • @m.lowery
      @m.lowery 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wonderfully said. Thank u.

    • @robinmahan101
      @robinmahan101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thank you ❣️ your comment blessed me.

    • @EduardoOliveira-zx9ju
      @EduardoOliveira-zx9ju 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Without super-model beauty, a woman's "Expectation" will result in misery

    • @Nita265
      @Nita265 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm really going to work on this, this year.

    • @AyeishaN0Curry
      @AyeishaN0Curry 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true :)

  • @darkprincess2365
    @darkprincess2365 4 ปีที่แล้ว +417

    I love Ryan Destiny. To me, she's secretive. I love that she doesn't put all areas of her life out there for the world to see especially her love life.

    • @nm-mh4rt
      @nm-mh4rt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Yes I love it you never see her on social media with anything.

    • @shetrieseverything2206
      @shetrieseverything2206 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      She’s so pretty!!! She looks like a doll!!!

  • @vcp365
    @vcp365 4 ปีที่แล้ว +442

    My feminine icon of all time is Elizabeth Taylor. Just her jewelry collection alone speaks volumes of how she valued herself. When Barbara Walters asked her what she did when a new man was upset at her wearing jewels from a previous husband or lover she said “I encourage him to buy me more”. Lolllll 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾

    • @CommunicatingPodcast
      @CommunicatingPodcast 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      I love her! My all-time favorite quote from her is, “Pour a glass wine, put on some lipstick and pull yourself together”

    • @karens9492
      @karens9492 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I love Elizabeth Taylor as well!

    • @ACleverFinesse
      @ACleverFinesse 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Purrr

    • @mermaidtingzzz
      @mermaidtingzzz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

    • @10frenchtoast
      @10frenchtoast 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      dizzy365lol

  • @DONT4GET_SUNSCREEN
    @DONT4GET_SUNSCREEN 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    The last commandment!
    Move in silence.
    All your enemies and haters come out the woodwork when you share any of your goals.
    Especially the ones in your close circle.

    • @CommunicatingPodcast
      @CommunicatingPodcast 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      PREACH! I had to be 44 to learn this lesson. Move quietly, watch Chloe and listen to your instincts. It will change your life for the better!

  • @dr.phaty_bee
    @dr.phaty_bee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    My favorite icon is myself . On how I have leveled up mentally and grown from being a bob the builder to a serious high value woman that attracts providers

    • @Geneicee8697
      @Geneicee8697 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      💕💕💕

  • @987kdm
    @987kdm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +270

    Rihanna is my feminine icon. I buy her makeup products and lingerie. She just has a energy about her that is unique and savvy.

    • @SM-ws5ub
      @SM-ws5ub 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      I liked it better when she was with the billionaire. Pray she shakes off this Dusty!!🙏🏿

    • @987kdm
      @987kdm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I know but we shall see what happens. I think she just wants to have kids now at this point. So she is settling for whoever, but the relationship will be over and she will move to someone better (I hope and pray). Only God knows.

    • @lis5708
      @lis5708 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SM-ws5ub right?? I'm kinda disappointed

    • @honeybdiamonds5217
      @honeybdiamonds5217 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Alllllll my under clothing is Savage Fenty…I’ve never seen her sex appeal like others do though..but I think it’s amazing she found love..she’s already a billionaire…having a solid and supportive partner is more important than we think..

    • @leamontoweh715
      @leamontoweh715 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ASAP is not out earning Rihanna.

  • @jnp9755
    @jnp9755 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Lori Harvey is my feminine icon. She's young, mysterious, and confident in herself.

  • @sashad1076
    @sashad1076 4 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    My mom is my feminine icon, I love our girlie Sephora and coffee dates during this pandemic.

  • @FreeBorn5683
    @FreeBorn5683 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    My sister’s, I humbly add Commandment 11: Thou shalt not marry your mistake! Just because he proposes when you were on your way out means nothing but the fact that he panicked...HE HAS NOT CHANGED; and just like Chloe_ alluded to just because you’ve been “Through it all,” with him doesn’t mean you’ve got to keep going through it.

    • @sophieb777
      @sophieb777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm always completely baffled when I hear about situations like that 😯🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @MsCoconutconjurer
    @MsCoconutconjurer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    I didn’t know any of these things until last year after my 26 year divorce - I negotiated a better alimony settlement and I send these videos to my daughters so we can stop the curse! Beyoncé is very good at keeping her mouth shut she is very mysterious with her life- good choice. I love Diahnne Carrol.

    • @EduardoOliveira-zx9ju
      @EduardoOliveira-zx9ju 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      If your daughters look ANYTHING like you, the curse will continue

    • @zolelamaholwana
      @zolelamaholwana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@EduardoOliveira-zx9ju omfg you are absolutely disgusting and rude !!!

    • @hannahpocock4152
      @hannahpocock4152 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@EduardoOliveira-zx9ju EWWWWW look a lurker. Go play xbox or something and complain about capitalism as your type usually do.

    • @shetrieseverything2206
      @shetrieseverything2206 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love Beyoncé, but Diahnne Carol was breathtaking grace!!!

  • @Htownhoodoo
    @Htownhoodoo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    I made more than both husbands and both ended in divorce Chile is speaking the truth please listen ladies we set the bar.

    • @youarebeautiful3191
      @youarebeautiful3191 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How many men approve her message for you to look up to her. And who takes you off the market, her and her ladies crew? or men

    • @yxiiiu
      @yxiiiu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Do you think that if they still provided regardless that it would have still been an issue?

  • @texasrose31
    @texasrose31 4 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Love Sade’s gracefulness and quiet confidence. I love Ciera’s determination and resolve to move beyond her circumstances and towards what she wanted in a life partner

  • @CharmaineCharmant
    @CharmaineCharmant 4 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    Leaving behind a dusty in 2020 and it feels so good 😊

    • @AdeolaAdebamowo
      @AdeolaAdebamowo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂😂😂

    • @sophieb777
      @sophieb777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Leave 'em ALL behind, sis!

  • @jddouet5192
    @jddouet5192 4 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    I just realized i dnt have a feminine icon...but one thing i took away from this vid is to mke my anger expensive

    • @sophieb777
      @sophieb777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @ and it's so much fun 😈

  • @AshWarm
    @AshWarm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    Lori Harvey, Marjorie Harvey, Selma Hayek, Kris Jenner, and Mariah Carey.

    • @EduardoOliveira-zx9ju
      @EduardoOliveira-zx9ju 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ALL of those women have talents, status and beauty to qualify for high earning men. What do you have?

    • @jupitired777
      @jupitired777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@EduardoOliveira-zx9ju almost 400 hate comments on this channel alone lol. get a life dusty. oh wait LOL

  • @illybdlkdr4200
    @illybdlkdr4200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    2021 LETS GO LADIES!!! 🏃🏾‍♀️

    • @kathyalex778
      @kathyalex778 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I hope that running emoji means running away from past mistakes and towards our hypergamous goals!

    • @CommunicatingPodcast
      @CommunicatingPodcast 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kathyalex778 Even more so, running away from dusties 😂

  • @questionresearch8721
    @questionresearch8721 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    Diana Ross is a feminine icon.

  • @TheGynoTakeOver
    @TheGynoTakeOver 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Definitely not afraid to walk away. I think I'm almost there lol 😍😍😍

    • @kismetbeautybrandscom
      @kismetbeautybrandscom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We are cheering you on

    • @cocot9414
      @cocot9414 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Learn to move despite the fear. The fear becomes less when you experience the 1st post break up. Ex the 1st full day you don't hear from him, the 1st full week, the first holiday etc. Be patient and loving towards yourself. Speak kindly to yourself. Comfort hugs from NYC

  • @pop8612
    @pop8612 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    My icons are Kerry Washington, Jennifer Aniston, Lily Collins, Lupita Nyong’o and Iman

  • @nboogii
    @nboogii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    My feminine icon is Eartha Kitt, I relate to her sensitivity and passion

    • @avawilliams5827
      @avawilliams5827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not to mention her inimitable confidence. She is a self love icon!

  • @MelaninGold
    @MelaninGold 4 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    Feminine Icons: Josephine Baker, Sade, Marilyn Monroe, Lupita Nyongo, Lauren Bacall, Lena Horne, Audrey Hepburn, Elizabeth Taylor
    EDIT: Also want to add Princess Diana and Vanity 😀

    • @Naija4K
      @Naija4K 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well Sade had a son with a Jamaican man and moved to Jamaica! She then later married a common soldier and lives in a historic cottage in countryside. She was with men who were lower than her according to these stupid rules....

    • @taylorstep1413
      @taylorstep1413 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Naija4K why are you here then?

    • @Naija4K
      @Naija4K 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      To show how crazy all of you are and don’t realize how full of contradictions even with your idols yet you can’t see it!

    • @MelaninGold
      @MelaninGold 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Naija4K It's more for me how they carry and conduct themselves in public (movies, tv shows, going to special events). Not with their personal lives. 🙄

    • @jubernardi23
      @jubernardi23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jaqueline Kennedy, Chanel. Grace Kelly

  • @sarasoda7442
    @sarasoda7442 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    My feminine icon would have to be Lupita Nyong'o, classy and beautiful 🥰

  • @Onlyrideforeign
    @Onlyrideforeign 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    My feminine icon is The beautiful I only date up Lori Harvey!

    • @CommunicatingPodcast
      @CommunicatingPodcast 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Can we get Lori to have coaching sessions for us or something?

    • @sophieb777
      @sophieb777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@CommunicatingPodcast I would ❤ coaching sessions from Lori Harvey!

  • @QueenJuliana89
    @QueenJuliana89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I’m crying because I’m finally figuring out how to make my life work 🌸 You’re a strong influence. God bless you ❤️

  • @faviolafikir2181
    @faviolafikir2181 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Class has begun 💖💖💖

  • @eternitysafro1083
    @eternitysafro1083 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I love Beyoncé and Lupita Nyong’o! Both silent movers, but so feminine and beautiful. Both go getters, but also rest in their femininity. And so much more.❤️

  • @AichaBKande
    @AichaBKande 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sofia Loren, Diahann Caroll, Marylin Monroe, Beyonce, Rihanna, Sade and Angela Basset

  • @MiraJames
    @MiraJames 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I become more in love with Chloe's channel from time to time. This channel really encouraging women to upgrade themselves and become the best version of themselves. Besides that, the channel also encourage us to do self-reflection n order to view our mistakes and to correct them. Furthermore, the channel is also helping women and men to be more cautious about getting trapped in a toxic environment with toxic people .

  • @shaser6714
    @shaser6714 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My ultimate feminine icon from the entertainment world is Phylicia Rashad. She has always carried herself in such a womanly way. Such class, elegance, beauty, and poise. I love the way she talks and carries herself. Even to this day in her 70’s, she has a radiant glow and is still very feminine and beautiful. 💕

  • @t.l.349
    @t.l.349 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Grace Kelly, Audrey Hepburn, 90s Halle Berry, Lupita N'yongo, and Sade.
    BTW: I think everyone should look up French street fashion and makeup. France has a very feminine culture.

  • @sunnydaze80
    @sunnydaze80 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I have trouble with walking away. I can physically cut of contact and walk away, but I will mull over it forever. I can't turn my brain off sometimes.

    • @sophieb777
      @sophieb777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Whatever you do, don't go back! Distract yourself by 1) focusing on your level up and 2) finding a deserving man to switch your attention to. I hope you find it easier next time. Better yet, I hope you don't need to cut anyone off ever again!

  • @ummzahra9196
    @ummzahra9196 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    My favorite feminine icon is Megan Good she is just so sweet and kind.

  • @oohno1000
    @oohno1000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    I am the prize 😍🥰🥰😘

    • @popculturedetective7707
      @popculturedetective7707 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      My son see himself as a prize and would rather be an incel then . 90/ 10 relationship

    • @EduardoOliveira-zx9ju
      @EduardoOliveira-zx9ju 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      To poor and average earning men, you are the prize. To higher earning men, you are another option

    • @kismetbeautybrandscom
      @kismetbeautybrandscom 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen

  • @maristahuddleston6213
    @maristahuddleston6213 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    The late Dorthy Dandrige And Nina Simone in their boldness. My late Grandmother and Mother,Beyonce. Chloe you are on list learned a great deal from you. Happy New 2021 Everyone

  • @pscih7149
    @pscih7149 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    People just don't realize how much more successful they'd be if they'd follow that last rule of moving in silence, in whatever you're trying to achieve. Love your content

  • @Wonderer888
    @Wonderer888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    My favourite female icons:
    Diana Ross, Monica Bellucci, Tracee Ellis Ross, Dita Von Tees, Beyoncé, Naomi Campbell, Ava Gardner, Zendaya, Rihanna.
    Here on TH-cam:
    Class by Deb and Lisa hart.
    Thank you for your service to humanity Chloe. A lot of us have evolved since finding you. Wishing you exponential growth and success going forward.

  • @MrsJones252
    @MrsJones252 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Janet Jackson and Angela Bassett immediately come to my mind when I think of feminine icons for me.

  • @namastenaptural6134
    @namastenaptural6134 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Ciara, Lori Harvey, Marjorie Harvey, Rihanna, Beyonce

  • @blackbohemiangoddesss1531
    @blackbohemiangoddesss1531 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I was magically unsubscribed from you...not this year TH-cam!

  • @gdisprint2928
    @gdisprint2928 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My feminine heroine is Condoleeza Rice, Iman and the late Dianne Carroll. Older, classy, elusive, exclusive, elegant, poised and dignified

  • @summerd2756
    @summerd2756 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Spoken like a woman who’s been here for2000 years! Thank you for sharing your gifts. My feminine icons are my mother, Jackie Kennedy Onassis, Naomi Campbell, Tyra Banks, Lauren Bacall, Phyllis Hyman, Beverly Johnson.

    • @EduardoOliveira-zx9ju
      @EduardoOliveira-zx9ju 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your mother was a remarkable mom

    • @CommunicatingPodcast
      @CommunicatingPodcast 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Phyllis Hyman, even the way she spoke!

    • @summerd2756
      @summerd2756 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@EduardoOliveira-zx9ju Yes she was!! Do I know you?

  • @jenniferwade7861
    @jenniferwade7861 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    My feminine icons besides my mama are Phylicia Rashad, Debbie Allen, Diahann Carroll, Diana Ross, and Nancy Wilson.

    • @jenniferwade7861
      @jenniferwade7861 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@swimdownx6365 Who's a crackhead?

    • @kathyalex778
      @kathyalex778 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That’s lovely that your mom is a feminine icon for you!

    • @jenniferwade7861
      @jenniferwade7861 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@kathyalex778 Thank You! We get along better ever since I started resting in my feminine 🤗

    • @jenniferwade7861
      @jenniferwade7861 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@swimdownx6365 which one? Diahann Carroll or Nancy Wilson? Diahann Carroll had cancer and I think Nancy Wilson, natural causes since she was in her 80's🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @jenniferwade7861
      @jenniferwade7861 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@swimdownx6365 Are you mistaken these ladies for Billie Holiday?🤔, because I looked them up and none of these ladies were crackheads🤨

  • @Tralalalalagal
    @Tralalalalagal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Sofia Lauren! I love her unique beauty and character.

  • @jozannsimmons7259
    @jozannsimmons7259 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thanks chloe for sharing your knowledge from the caribbean Trinidad and Tobago

    • @hannahpocock4152
      @hannahpocock4152 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yessss a fellow Trinidadian ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @jozannsimmons7259
      @jozannsimmons7259 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Evilkitty64 thanks I have learnt so much from her

    • @jozannsimmons7259
      @jozannsimmons7259 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hannahpocock4152 thank you she is really amazing

  • @DavineShift
    @DavineShift 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Happy New Year Chloe!
    My feminine icons are:
    Sade, Rihanna, Josephine Baker, Jacqueline Kennedy, Elizabeth Taylor ♥

  • @leese-anngordon4704
    @leese-anngordon4704 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I love Kate Middleton and grace Kelly for their elegance and ladylike manerism..I also admire Michelle Obama and lupita because they prove that being educated doesn't equate to being manly as a woman

  • @thembimogala9704
    @thembimogala9704 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "Unfortunately in the Black culture, black women are not taught to have standards beyond being an ‘Independent’ woman.
    This idea of walking around the rest of your natural life to pretend that you never need anyone, especially from the opposite sex goes against our feminine nurture nature.".....ditching this false narrative, starting to embrace hypergamy as it it incredibly rewarding to my well being.

  • @IAMGROOT4EVA
    @IAMGROOT4EVA 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    My feminine icon is Pam Grier. She's so beautiful and classy. 🥰

  • @sherrita8582
    @sherrita8582 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Mine is Diana Ross,she has grace,class and practiced hypergamy with the husbands she chose. Thank Chloe, Happy New year!❤️

    • @popculturedetective7707
      @popculturedetective7707 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      What man rich men who choose women.was the point of metoo movement to end male choice

  • @lightsalt581
    @lightsalt581 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Michelle Obama, Jennifer Hudson. Ciara.

  • @Briistunner
    @Briistunner 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So glad I subscribed to this channel over a year ago. Just 23 and already learned alot. I love it here.

  • @Mondayzz
    @Mondayzz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Minnie Riperton is a lovely lady with gentle energy may she Rest In Peace. She truly is a perfect angel.

    • @pamelasbutterflylife1312
      @pamelasbutterflylife1312 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree! I did a TH-cam video dedicated to Minnie Riperton🌸🩷💫!

  • @sarasoda7442
    @sarasoda7442 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Love your channel! Glad I gave up taking care of a “man” 7 years ago 😘

  • @mani-ksb
    @mani-ksb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Happy to see Megan Markle valued herself and took the Prince to USA. From a UK lawyer that has changed her ways. Xxxx

  • @airbmikal
    @airbmikal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Meghan Markle! Watching her in interviews, she does a phenomenal job off holding the audiences attention with her poise and the way she speaks.

  • @latariewilliams6426
    @latariewilliams6426 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    My feminine icons are Sheryl Lee Ralph, Ayesha Curry, Omarosa Manigault Newman, Debbie Allen (her sister is cool too, but I feel I relate to Debbie more), and B. Smith. (RIP)

    • @popculturedetective7707
      @popculturedetective7707 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      What about scientist writters investors lawyers. Is it because they out earn their husband's who don't cheat

    • @EduardoOliveira-zx9ju
      @EduardoOliveira-zx9ju 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@popculturedetective7707 She gathered her list based on, relatability and a emotional attachment to those women.

    • @CT-yz9nx
      @CT-yz9nx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I love that you put Omarosa! She is so underrated but I love her style and intelligence. She’s the queen of the classy clap back which I’ve been working on

    • @latariewilliams6426
      @latariewilliams6426 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@popculturedetective7707 I have various female scientists I admire and respect. I was a STEM major (architectural engineering) in college myself. I first noticed Omarosa as a teen on The Apprentice, and pardon my French, but I thought she was badass, intelligent, and powerful. She gets so much hate for her personality, but I love how she expects to be respected. She's also well educated as is both Debbie Allen and Sheryl Lee Ralph who are also elegant and refined. Omarosa was a political aide before she was ever a celebrity. She also is an author. I grew up watching Martha Stewart Living, Rebecca's Garden, and B. Smith with Style. My creative and logical sides live in perfect harmony. I love Martha, but B. showed me proof that black women can prepare nice dishes, decorate a lovely home, and have dinner parties with nice china too. Ayesha Curry and I almost have the same birthday which is why I feel I we have similar personalities and mindsets, but she seems to be on a path to be my generation's B. Smith . All women thus far maintain careers of their own interests while being feminine and married. Three of the women are even business women. Also, don't knock other fields outside of stem. It takes just as much tenacity, vision, and intelligence to run a business, be an artist, or become a lawyer as it does to be scientist, mathematician, or engineer.

    • @CallMeStedman
      @CallMeStedman 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omarosa is a Trump supporter.

  • @glafiix_
    @glafiix_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Gut chakra is the womb btw and #6 my personal favorite is Our Lady of Guadalupe who blessed Latin America as a pregnant divine feminine icon🥰 I really think she’s UNDERRATED🙏🏼✨

  • @aminah761
    @aminah761 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Yass chole if they not paying bills 💵 what they think don’t matter PERIOD

  • @marleeshore1387
    @marleeshore1387 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mya, Lisa Bonet, Princess Jasmine, Winnie Harlowe, Ashley Graham

  • @angelicamendoza2806
    @angelicamendoza2806 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for your videos. I discovered you a few months ago. You have helped me lean into my femininity. My partner is enjoying the benefits. On days I am not in the correct mindset I watch a video. Doesn't take long to get straightened out.

  • @MeshelleSeaShelle
    @MeshelleSeaShelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's you Chole! You are such beauty and grace. I am so proud of all your accomplishments and share your videos all the time. I keep learning more and more. I think I am ready to read your book now. ❤ 😊

  • @JozieMaXine
    @JozieMaXine 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I've always loved Marilyn Monroe and Dorothy Dandridge, but Beyonce is a really good example to look up to too. Thank you, Chloe, Happy New Year!

  • @heyjenny_shorts
    @heyjenny_shorts 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Chloe, your website is so aesthetically pleasing, I love it!!

  • @SOFTcTV
    @SOFTcTV 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Happy New Year! My feminine icons are Chloe, of course, my grandmothers although we aren't the same archetypes and Dorothy Dandridge (my birthday twin!!!).

  • @jesusislord3656
    @jesusislord3656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Maya Angelou is my feminine role model. She made the poem phenomenal woman'

  • @CommunicatingPodcast
    @CommunicatingPodcast 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Happy New Year, Chloe. My feminine icons are Diahann Carroll, Phyllis Hyman, Iman, Lena Horne, Dorothy Dandridge, Beverly Johnson, Angela Bassett, Phylicia Rashad. Ladies, please listen to Chloe regarding the importance of moving in stealth.

  • @alliekat1577
    @alliekat1577 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My feminine icon is Grace Jones. Her confidence is out of this world. I love watching her interviews.

  • @Cosmeticjunkee
    @Cosmeticjunkee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Megan Markel, Elizabeth Taylor and Princess Diana. Thanks to Chole , a few other YT channels and my consistency on my feminine journey I brought in my 2021 with my whale boyfriend of the last 6 months! Ladies OBEY these commandments especially the mindset and you will see the results. Best wishes! 💕 ✨

    • @byEclecticA
      @byEclecticA 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@swimdownx6365 And then she rose up from the ashes, forged a life for herself on her terms, and never looked back. Icon.

  • @MultiChiedza
    @MultiChiedza 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My feminine icon are Majorie and Lori Harvey,Beyoncé and Zendaya.

  • @DaddysGrl463
    @DaddysGrl463 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I watch this video over and over. It works. Life changing.

  • @monicaivy2497
    @monicaivy2497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your channel. Some of my favs are Diahann Carroll, Eartha Kitt, Josaphine Baker, Angela Bassett, Lynda Carter and Jayne Kennedy!!

  • @carolallstar3317
    @carolallstar3317 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Toni Braxton, Whitney Houston/early era and Rihanna are my feminine icons.

  • @ninawestlake5005
    @ninawestlake5005 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The main characters of The Women of Brewster Place, Dark Aunt Viv from Fresh Prince, Julianne Moore, Meryl Streep, Diane Lane, Kerry Washington, Lupita Nyongo, Genevieve Nnaji. Happy new year, ladies😘🤗😇

  • @wildcard924
    @wildcard924 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Feminine Icon- Lori Harvey - she’s my age and I feel I can relate more with her, she’s like 2 years older than me. The way she carries herself is really good. I take notes from her lol

    • @wildcard924
      @wildcard924 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Goliath Jones Shut tf up😂😂

  • @likedying73
    @likedying73 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just purchased your book and I'm reading it now! 📖

  • @loveniabutler3594
    @loveniabutler3594 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have to go. I take care of him. Like a caregiver. I no longer see him as my man now. I have to tell him about paying bills. If don't he won't . The light came on when he said to me" I need you to take care of yourself so you can take care of me" I injured my knee while on my job. I'm good now.
    I do feel bad because he's not as mobile.
    I would really feel gulity if I leave him...I do love him. But my needs are not meet.
    He knows what's wrong but he won't go to hospital and fix it. Now, its gotten worse. And he will not go! Now he needs some to take of him. I work in a nursing home. I'm drained..

  • @rosette1997
    @rosette1997 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Rihanna and all that she is. That’s my icon ☺️

    • @MachineGunKali
      @MachineGunKali 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeeees!!! Mine too!!!

    • @rosette1997
      @rosette1997 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @American Oil yes chef!!!

  • @fatimacurry5844
    @fatimacurry5844 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    My feminine icons are: My elegant mother-may God rest her soul, Coretta Scott King, and Claire Huxtable!!!
    Honorable Mentions go to: Beyoncé and Mary J. Blige.

    • @mermaidchannel
      @mermaidchannel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Claire Huxtable had me mesmerized!

  • @HEALINGHEARTS_HERTZ_MUSIC
    @HEALINGHEARTS_HERTZ_MUSIC 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    one of my favorite feminine icons: First my southern Great-Grandmother who raised me & who was 94 y/o when she passed then @Chloe_ !! This channel helped me awaken to the calling of my feminine journey. Add my spiritual journey & constantly and consistently practicing both I can't express my level of elevation within one year. I am so grateful❤️❤️❤️

  • @melissam6037
    @melissam6037 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Since I have been getting clear on my minimum requirements for a partner, when I come across men who are below my standards, I find I can just ignore them & not be bothered by what they might be thinking or doing. It’s like they aren’t even in my same species, they just don’t matter to me.
    I have wasted time before crying & worrying about what someone is doing, who has nothing to bring to the table in terms of financial or emotional security. No more.
    Thanks to Chloe & other content creators and empowering women to raise their standards 💕💕💕

  • @amri198
    @amri198 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I always find myself rewatching videos and taking notes! Looking forward to more gems in your feminine school videos, Chloe!

  • @r.w.395
    @r.w.395 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for this ❣️My feminine icon is Marjorie Harvey.

  • @coreliap5385
    @coreliap5385 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My favourite icons are : Aaliyah, Lori Harvey, Sade and the beautiful Chloe Bailey. 💞

  • @kathernandez1108
    @kathernandez1108 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My fave feminine icon is a fictional character: Margarey Tyrell. Shakira is also a good one!

  • @MontemorA-eb1ypy
    @MontemorA-eb1ypy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My favorite feminine icon is Riri 😻

  • @SincerelyxGabby
    @SincerelyxGabby 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Back because I needed a reminder 🙏🏽

  • @ajohonly3721
    @ajohonly3721 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mines are my grandma,Kerry Washington ,Michelle Obama I love how they take care of themselves.
    I just get the energy of not settling for less than the best.

  • @itsMarvyBaby
    @itsMarvyBaby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My hypergamous "icons" are my Nana, and Sophia Loren.

  • @NaimahLaNae
    @NaimahLaNae 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Claire Huxtable! My fave Icon because she models how to balance the Alpha/Creative/Princess Archetypes

  • @lashondarochell7584
    @lashondarochell7584 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My Feminine Icon is none other than The Gracious and Beautiful Marilyn Monroe she had an alluring spirit very soft spoken, and her mere presence just captivated those around her.❤️❤️❤️

  • @taylorstep1413
    @taylorstep1413 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Walking away when the game is rigged, makes you the winner.

  • @SagRising19
    @SagRising19 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My favorite feminine icons: My mom, Princess Diana, Marilyn Monroe, Coco Chanel, Billy Holiday, Dorothy Dandridge, and Eartha Kitt. Happy New Year!!

  • @michelleellis453
    @michelleellis453 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Mrs. Chole...Happy New Year!!
    Feminine Icons: Taraji Henson, Beyonce, Kerry Washington.

  • @purposedpatience6597
    @purposedpatience6597 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Each time it’s like Music to my ears when you share the wisdom on femininity❤️ Happy New Year Chloe_ 🥰🙏🏽👑

  • @Honestly_Sisi
    @Honestly_Sisi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My favorite feminine icons are:
    Rihanna
    Nia Long
    Chaka Khan

  • @apolloreed4972
    @apolloreed4972 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My feminine archetype is Princess Grace of Monaco. I only need one!

  • @meelahlowrey
    @meelahlowrey 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The two that come to mind for me at Kerry Washington and Zoe Saldana.

  • @bread079
    @bread079 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m so happy you made this. I read these on your website in your voice lol. Thank You Chole 🙏🏽❤️