Hi Naomi! I’m 16 and I feel like I’m in a really similar situation. I feel like we have the same vibe and aesthetic, daydreaming about other worlds, etc. I’m really introverted and often think about living lives I most likely won’t get to live or with lifestyles that probably don’t even exist anymore really, like fantasy worlds. I have a lot of anxiety, so I really related to this video and it made me glad someone else feels this way. We’re all trying our best to get through it! And I love your channels. Thanks!
I am only 12 and I don't have anxiety, but I really hate talking to people, my voice will shake and my hands get sweaty as well, you are so brave and so amazing! I binged watched all of your youtube videos and I love them so much! You will get through this.
you are so brave for opening up, and i hope u know ur making a huge impact on many people. it’s not easy to deal with the pressure, and it sucks to feel like ur slowly falling apart again after doing so well. But like you said, we are not alone and we can get through it, it gets better eventually. stay strong girl, u got this! we love ur channel and wish u the best :)💗
when u said it felt like a relief when the call ended, i never related sm and i started to get a little emotional when i saw how u just released all that pent up energy. i’ve dealt with social anxiety for a long time, im 17 now and i sometimes still deal with episodes. i’m sm better at my communication and my social anxiety over the years but it’s always a journey bc life is never linear. thank you for sharing ur experience. i remember feeling alone thru social anxiety bc ppl never rlly showed that side of them. social media is a place where ppl show the best versions of themselves and to see someone go thru the same experience as i did with the same energy is so impactful. you’re doing amazing even if ur anxiety say’s ur not. ik what it feels like sm to feel like ur lost in ur life, not knowing the unknown ahead of u and it makes u so anxious. but do what makes u happiest and do what makes u feel fulfilled. i think that will get u somewhere and help u grow :) continue making videos! they’re so comforting
Thank you so much for making this video Sometimes it feels like I'm the only one in the world with these struggles even though there are so many people struggling with the same things, thanks for reminding me that I'm not alone and that it'll get better💛
I really hope that you will get over it soon💕 your channel is my absolute favorite channel, and you seem like a really cool person. And even though I'm only 13 I could relate to the phone call thing. Love you🧡🦊
Hello Naomi! I am going through the exactly same thing and I am so grateful I found this video I don’t have any goal or interest and I am also turning 19 in November and it is also my time to make a decision I hope we can get through it 💕 btw your channel is amazing 😍THANK YOU once again for making me feel better 💕
firstly, i just want to say you are amazing. even if you don't feel like it sometimes, you are. just remember that. also, you are enough - u shouldn't feel any pressure to be more or to do more - even just getting out of bed should be an achievement. im so proud of you for making that phone call! i hope you feel ok. you're doing great. just keep on doing what you're doing now. have a wonderful day :)
Hey, ik that i am only 13 but i kinda understand you… You really sound how i felt before i got diagnosed with depression (not the phone call but the other things you said). (no i am not attention seeking ik that i am young but i am not one of ,,these 13 yo girls on tiktok or sth ´´ and there are young people out there who really suffer and keep it inside) you are so brave for opening up and ik from myself that that takes a lot of courage. from when you made this video until i write this comment is quite a long time and i hope you feel better now 💕
This is exactly what I’m going through, so basically it’s my summer holidays and I want to learn a lot of stuff this summer but the first 2 weeks have been a bummer, I can’t learn anything all I do is keep scrolling on TH-cam and social media! I can’t relate to you exactly but I’m on the topic of stress, I feel muddled up and I’m only 11 so it’s hard for me
I feel you ! I’m already half thru my holidays but I’ve not done a single thing I planned to. I wanted to improve in so many things but I’ve been so sad and I have no friends to talk to, so I just scroll on TikTok. :( I Hope we’ll get through this
@@ph1losofia I’m so glad that some can relate, now I’m on holiday and I’m just with my family now but even when I get back to my home I’m prob gonna stroll on TH-cam cuz I don’t have TikTok
You know I feel pretty mutch the same way now. I'm 17 and it always feels like there is a lot of pressure from outside. Becose of all the things I need to do I also started to feel that I am loosing myself and am becoming a person that I actually don't want to be... So this days I just took a stap back and rememberd how I was when I was younger: how I thought about myself, others, etc. And I realised that all I cared about then was pretty much just to have fun, enjoy life and be who I am. I just always knew that the most important thing for me was always my own well-being and my own happiness. So it is not worth it to care about what other people thinking, or what they want from you, all you need to know is that it is your life and not their. In fact you are the only one who can actually decide about your life. That was the mindset that halped me a lot through my life, and is still halping me now. And I also wanted to say that, Naomy, you doing great. You really are, and it doesn't matters what the others thinking/acspecting from you becose you have the freedom to be who you are and do what you want. You also really don't always need to be productive or be productive at all (I personally don't enjoy being productive so most of the time I isn't, and just do what feels good to me). Just ceep in mind that all that really metters in the and is you, and your fillings❤️ Lots of support from Nederlands🌻
I came across your channel and found this video and it brought me to tears because I feel the exact same way. This is so comforting to know I’m not the only one🤎
I relate to you in this a lot. It’s really hard to find the one thing that you’re truly passionate about and not lose your interest after a while. I also try to force myself to do things that would make me feel better and feel like I’m doing atleast something and I do like to be at home but sometimes I just feel like I want to experiment life more but not in the way that most teenagers want to like going to parties and drinking so it’s also hard to find people who you can do those things that you really want to. I’ve also tried to do some of those things alone like I went to movies alone and climbing in a place and I did have a lot of anxiety going there but when I had been there for a while it wasn’t so bad anymore. I’m also trying to go tomorrow to a cafe alone which scares me but I want to do it. I think going out of your comfortzone is one of the most important things in changing your life but I’m definitely struggling with the same thing I wish we’ll get better🤍
Hi Naomi I’m 15 I don’t have anxiety but when I was younger I remember every time I was in school and the teacher was just talking to me and not the whole class I felt singled out and it was a lot of attention I didn’t want and my eyes would tear up and I would try not to and my hands would shake and my voice I am better at not getting so worked up abt it now but I understand what ur going through deep down I am an introvert i like to stay in my room and read and I’m drained after I hang out with most people but I push my self to be more extroverted and hang out with ppl bc when I’m quiet i get rlly insecure and nervous but I appreciate u making this video for all the and wish u well🥰
Love you!!! 💖💖 I'm sure it will all get better because that's the way the universe make it happen and that's the way it should happen. These things will make you realise a lot that not all people understand and will make you get stronger thru days even tho some ar bad or good. Stop thinking negative cause it never helps and always think about how happy and nice it would be to do that thing or think that you already made it and it was SO good! Stay strong i love you 💖💖
hello naomi!! i am in love w u & ur aesthetic and i just wanted to remind u what a beautiful, sweet and kind being u are! ur videos always makes me relax and feel like home and that is something pretty hard to find,yk! i understand what ur going thru!! my social anxiety also gets a lil bad sometimes and i keep thinking that everyone hates me, what everyone is thinking about me and stuff. its hard to handle what the heck is going on in my lil stupid mind... anyways, i want u to know that you are going to figure all this out soon!! sometimes we might be in a bad place for a while but that doesn't last forever!! love, maria xx
hii, namoni! watching your video, especially the phone call, I realized that I feel the same way. if I had watched it a few years ago I would definitely have been crying because it was so much stronger then. i'm seventeen btw. now I can mask some things and feel more comfortable in the situations I hated to go through the most. making a call is still the thing I try to avoid. With the pandemic, I discovered how much I hate being isolated despite the irony of social anxiety. It's still hard to take care of myself though, I seem to be afraid. It was great to have found your channel. ❦★
I feel like this too, I'm still young but I know my time will be wasted and before I know it I'll be an adult and I'll have to find something I'm passionate about :(
Hi Naomi... I'm 13 and I'm lost in life my parents took my childhood with 5 and now I am something in between. Their expectations are too high but I don't get enough freedom as a teenager. Too much rules make me weak and not old enough to live my life. My biggest dream is to run away from home and start my life the way I want it because my parents (mostly my mom) are really abiusive...idk what should I do?
I‘m so sorry than you were feeling that way! ❤️ I can’t imagine what you’re going trough but I want you to know that i see you and that I believe you! Sometimes it can be so hard to see the good things when you feel really depressed and you get these dark thoughts. But i‘m sure that it will get better for you!
@@naomiileah thank you so much for this,I can't explain in wodrs how much it helps,not an attention seeker,but after watching your video I just wanted to share my inner feelings with someone,but i don't have any such friends,so I wrote on the comment section,coz you felt like a close friend...but after reading your reply, specially that my future self is rooting for me,made me feel kindda happy and motivated me to go on:))) thank you thank you thank you sooooooo muchhhhh💗
Hi Naomi! I’m 16 and I feel like I’m in a really similar situation. I feel like we have the same vibe and aesthetic, daydreaming about other worlds, etc. I’m really introverted and often think about living lives I most likely won’t get to live or with lifestyles that probably don’t even exist anymore really, like fantasy worlds. I have a lot of anxiety, so I really related to this video and it made me glad someone else feels this way. We’re all trying our best to get through it! And I love your channels. Thanks!
Thank you Ava :)
I know it’s so hard being an introvert and having a lot of anxiety but we can do it!
social anxiety is a bitch, especially with phone calls, i feel you
yess!
I am only 12 and I don't have anxiety, but I really hate talking to people, my voice will shake and my hands get sweaty as well, you are so brave and so amazing! I binged watched all of your youtube videos and I love them so much! You will get through this.
Thank you so much that’s really sweet! :)♡
Ikr my chin starts shaking when I talk to people, then my voice gets shaky
you are so brave for opening up, and i hope u know ur making a huge impact on many people. it’s not easy to deal with the pressure, and it sucks to feel like ur slowly falling apart again after doing so well. But like you said, we are not alone and we can get through it, it gets better eventually. stay strong girl, u got this! we love ur channel and wish u the best :)💗
you‘re so sweet thank you so much!!! :))💓💗
I don’t know why i cried... Thank u sweety
when u said it felt like a relief when the call ended, i never related sm and i started to get a little emotional when i saw how u just released all that pent up energy. i’ve dealt with social anxiety for a long time, im 17 now and i sometimes still deal with episodes. i’m sm better at my communication and my social anxiety over the years but it’s always a journey bc life is never linear. thank you for sharing ur experience. i remember feeling alone thru social anxiety bc ppl never rlly showed that side of them.
social media is a place where ppl show the best versions of themselves and to see someone go thru the same experience as i did with the same energy is so impactful. you’re doing amazing even if ur anxiety say’s ur not. ik what it feels like sm to feel like ur lost in ur life, not knowing the unknown ahead of u and it makes u so anxious. but do what makes u happiest and do what makes u feel fulfilled. i think that will get u somewhere and help u grow :) continue making videos! they’re so comforting
Thank you so much for making this video
Sometimes it feels like I'm the only one in the world with these struggles even though there are so many people struggling with the same things, thanks for reminding me that I'm not alone and that it'll get better💛
I really hope that you will get over it soon💕 your channel is my absolute favorite channel, and you seem like a really cool person. And even though I'm only 13 I could relate to the phone call thing. Love you🧡🦊
aw thank you so much that’s so kind!! ☺️💗
Hello Naomi! I am going through the exactly same thing and I am so grateful I found this video I don’t have any goal or interest and I am also turning 19 in November and it is also my time to make a decision I hope we can get through it 💕 btw your channel is amazing 😍THANK YOU once again for making me feel better 💕
Aw i‘m glad it made you feel better :)💗 We‘ll get through this!🤞🏼💗
thanks for the video, you're a really sweet small youtuber and I hope your channel grows and your troubles go away
thank you so muchhh!! :)) ♡
firstly, i just want to say you are amazing. even if you don't feel like it sometimes, you are. just remember that. also, you are enough - u shouldn't feel any pressure to be more or to do more - even just getting out of bed should be an achievement. im so proud of you for making that phone call! i hope you feel ok. you're doing great. just keep on doing what you're doing now. have a wonderful day :)
Thank you so much!!
So relatable…
Thank you for this video! It must have been really hard to post it🤎
it was hard but I just hope that it can help others so it’s definitely worth it :)🤎
Hey, ik that i am only 13 but i kinda understand you… You really sound how i felt before i got diagnosed with depression (not the phone call but the other things you said). (no i am not attention seeking ik that i am young but i am not one of ,,these 13 yo girls on tiktok or sth ´´ and there are young people out there who really suffer and keep it inside) you are so brave for opening up and ik from myself that that takes a lot of courage. from when you made this video until i write this comment is quite a long time and i hope you feel better now 💕
you are so strong
This is exactly what I’m going through, so basically it’s my summer holidays and I want to learn a lot of stuff this summer but the first 2 weeks have been a bummer, I can’t learn anything all I do is keep scrolling on TH-cam and social media! I can’t relate to you exactly but I’m on the topic of stress, I feel muddled up and I’m only 11 so it’s hard for me
I feel you ! I’m already half thru my holidays but I’ve not done a single thing I planned to. I wanted to improve in so many things but I’ve been so sad and I have no friends to talk to, so I just scroll on TikTok. :( I Hope we’ll get through this
@@ph1losofia I’m so glad that some can relate, now I’m on holiday and I’m just with my family now but even when I get back to my home I’m prob gonna stroll on TH-cam cuz I don’t have TikTok
@@ph1losofia good luck hopefully we both can learn the stuff we want and get through this (:
You know I feel pretty mutch the same way now. I'm 17 and it always feels like there is a lot of pressure from outside. Becose of all the things I need to do I also started to feel that I am loosing myself and am becoming a person that I actually don't want to be...
So this days I just took a stap back and rememberd how I was when I was younger: how I thought about myself, others, etc.
And I realised that all I cared about then was pretty much just to have fun, enjoy life and be who I am.
I just always knew that the most important thing for me was always my own well-being and my own happiness. So it is not worth it to care about what other people thinking, or what they want from you, all you need to know is that it is your life and not their. In fact you are the only one who can actually decide about your life. That was the mindset that halped me a lot through my life, and is still halping me now.
And I also wanted to say that, Naomy, you doing great. You really are, and it doesn't matters what the others thinking/acspecting from you becose you have the freedom to be who you are and do what you want. You also really don't always need to be productive or be productive at all (I personally don't enjoy being productive so most of the time I isn't, and just do what feels good to me).
Just ceep in mind that all that really metters in the and is you, and your fillings❤️
Lots of support from Nederlands🌻
I came across your channel and found this video and it brought me to tears because I feel the exact same way. This is so comforting to know I’m not the only one🤎
you are so brave to post this video! I have been having a wonky mental health week too, and this video really helped me. we can do it!!
thank you that means a lot to me! I’m glad that the video helped you :)
I'm SO proud of you
omg i feel what your feeling i hope the best for you like its 2 am and looking at your videos help me so much
I relate to you in this a lot. It’s really hard to find the one thing that you’re truly passionate about and not lose your interest after a while. I also try to force myself to do things that would make me feel better and feel like I’m doing atleast something and I do like to be at home but sometimes I just feel like I want to experiment life more but not in the way that most teenagers want to like going to parties and drinking so it’s also hard to find people who you can do those things that you really want to. I’ve also tried to do some of those things alone like I went to movies alone and climbing in a place and I did have a lot of anxiety going there but when I had been there for a while it wasn’t so bad anymore. I’m also trying to go tomorrow to a cafe alone which scares me but I want to do it. I think going out of your comfortzone is one of the most important things in changing your life but I’m definitely struggling with the same thing I wish we’ll get better🤍
Hi Naomi I’m 15 I don’t have anxiety but when I was younger I remember every time I was in school and the teacher was just talking to me and not the whole class I felt singled out and it was a lot of attention I didn’t want and my eyes would tear up and I would try not to and my hands would shake and my voice I am better at not getting so worked up abt it now but I understand what ur going through deep down I am an introvert i like to stay in my room and read and I’m drained after I hang out with most people but I push my self to be more extroverted and hang out with ppl bc when I’m quiet i get rlly insecure and nervous but I appreciate u making this video for all the and wish u well🥰
I want you to know that you did such a great job! This made me feel less alone!
Love you!!! 💖💖 I'm sure it will all get better because that's the way the universe make it happen and that's the way it should happen. These things will make you realise a lot that not all people understand and will make you get stronger thru days even tho some ar bad or good. Stop thinking negative cause it never helps and always think about how happy and nice it would be to do that thing or think that you already made it and it was SO good! Stay strong i love you 💖💖
Thank you so much!! 💖 that’s really sweet and you’re right with everything you said
hello naomi!! i am in love w u & ur aesthetic and i just wanted to remind u what a beautiful, sweet and kind being u are! ur videos always makes me relax and feel like home and that is something pretty hard to find,yk! i understand what ur going thru!! my social anxiety also gets a lil bad sometimes and i keep thinking that everyone hates me, what everyone is thinking about me and stuff. its hard to handle what the heck is going on in my lil stupid mind... anyways, i want u to know that you are going to figure all this out soon!! sometimes we might be in a bad place for a while but that doesn't last forever!!
love, maria xx
I love you girl ❤️🦋
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hii, namoni! watching your video, especially the phone call, I realized that I feel the same way. if I had watched it a few years ago I would definitely have been crying because it was so much stronger then. i'm seventeen btw. now I can mask some things and feel more comfortable in the situations I hated to go through the most. making a call is still the thing I try to avoid. With the pandemic, I discovered how much I hate being isolated despite the irony of social anxiety. It's still hard to take care of myself though, I seem to be afraid. It was great to have found your channel. ❦★
Your videos make me so happy:)
i‘m very happy to hear that! :)
I’m really really proud of you!🧡🧡
thank you :)🧡🧡
All I have to say is that I love you ❣️
And God! I'm so relate to that 😔
Such a good message. Thank you
It helped me so much
Like acknowledge myself
Happy Birthday I wish you the best ,you doing so well and I promise you it will get better . Your so beautiful I love you 🤍
Thank you so so much! 🤍 reading that made me really happy :) ly
I feel like this too, I'm still young but I know my time will be wasted and before I know it I'll be an adult and I'll have to find something I'm passionate about :(
I just came across the channel and I like it so much ❤
Your not alone girl❤️
thank u❤️
I love your content so much
Thank you
hi from Argentina, love you're videos, hope you feel better. sorry if i wrote something wrong.
Hi Naomi... I'm 13 and I'm lost in life my parents took my childhood with 5 and now I am something in between. Their expectations are too high but I don't get enough freedom as a teenager. Too much rules make me weak and not old enough to live my life. My biggest dream is to run away from home and start my life the way I want it because my parents (mostly my mom) are really abiusive...idk what should I do?
I was feeling very sad and depressed today, almost felt like killing myself:"(( I want to live happily...idk when that will happen 🥺
I‘m so sorry than you were feeling that way! ❤️ I can’t imagine what you’re going trough but I want you to know that i see you and that I believe you! Sometimes it can be so hard to see the good things when you feel really depressed and you get these dark thoughts. But i‘m sure that it will get better for you!
@@naomiileah thank you so much for this,I can't explain in wodrs how much it helps,not an attention seeker,but after watching your video I just wanted to share my inner feelings with someone,but i don't have any such friends,so I wrote on the comment section,coz you felt like a close friend...but after reading your reply, specially that my future self is rooting for me,made me feel kindda happy and motivated me to go on:))) thank you thank you thank you sooooooo muchhhhh💗
@@nafisaazmin8650 :))💗
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