Some of us R fortunate to have significant others that iron their own clothes!! U train your dog the way u want him to be. The problem with traditional hmoob wife is she baby the husband too much to the point where the husband become depend like a child who needs mama to cook n clean n dress them!! Sorry but the world has change, modern hmoob wife stand your grounds, don’t settle for less, test your man, if he’s a baby, kick to the curve! Time for real man. It’s no wonder hmoob women rather date out of race. If u don’t raise your hmoob son right, he will never find a hmoob wife now-in-days.
@@mountainvang6148 lol not in this family, we cook n clean together n eat out together…we hav the best chef n bbq king dad in this family! We teach our sons to do household chores like the daughters. Be fair. Teach young.
@@flryprn745 being a family is being a team. No gender role. Some hmong men still live backwards. They think that women belong in the kitchen. Well damn go be the bread winner and provide for the family and pay ALL the bills. There are some good ones who help their spouse. Glad you have a good one.
I'm glad you found yourself, and I'm glad you guys work it out, sometime victory does not mean leave your wife or husband but being able to save your marriage.
koj. hais yob lawm o peb cov poj niam hmoo feem coob tsi nco hlu yus tus kheej thiab tag li ntawv lo hạuj lwm hauv tsev . ưa liaj ua teb .tu mi tub mi nyuam yob peb ntau xw peb cov poj niam thia laus dua txiv neej
Tu siab kuv tau hlub koj tom qab, koj twb muab kev hlub nrog rau lwm tus ua ntej kuv lawm os. Tu siab kuv tsis yog tus qhib muab thawj teg kev hlub rau koj os me koj niam.
Ntawm ib tug ntxiv neej , yog yuav tau lawv los nrog U nyob lawm yuav tsum hlub kom tsi nyog thiaj li os , yog yuav los e tsis hlub ce tsi txhob yuav lawv zoo duas os cov kwv tij hmoob.
Niam tshuab teev koj cov neej neeg kuv noog mas kuv quaj heev vim kuv lub neej kuv tug txiv yeej tsis xam kuv ua niam tsev li kuv hnub nyoog 26 xyoo os xyov kuv lub neej yuav zoo li cas kuv tu siab heev li koj sim qhia kuv thiab com kuv twb kev lawm os
Muaj tseeb li tu niam tsev no hai kuv lub neej quaj rau tu txiv ua hlua tau 15lub xyoo qhov muag muaj teeb meem tag lub plawv muaj teeb meem tag thaum kuv mam ho tig lo hlub kuv tu kheej kuv lub neej kuj zoo raw nraim li tu niam tsev no lub lawm thiab. Peb ua neeg nyob nco ntsoov hlub yu tu kheej yu thiaj muaj nqi
It's true for what you've said but she have her own reasons. If she go, she'd either have the one that really her or it could be worst then her husband.
Peb ua neeg nyob kj tau lub neej zoo los kj tss txhob rawm zoo2 Siab tss txhob maj mu ntxub lwm tus ua lawv lub neej tss zoo ho Cov tau lub neej tss zoo los tss txhob tus Siab tas2 thiab os nauwj Peb ua neeg nyob 1 leeg yeej muaj 1 ntu phem 1 leeg yeej muaj 1 ntu zoo os mog hmong aw
Uacas pheej yuav tos thaum yus tus txiv dev ua phem masli hlub yus tus kheej mas? If you take care of him you should always take care of yourself too, to even out. How can you know how to treat someone when you have not treated yourself, please! I don’t get why some women chose to behavior like this to compensate what one’s husband does wrong to her. It just seems like one doesn’t have any conference of oneself.
Sister, kuv mloog txhua leej txhua tus Nyob hauv TH-cam no lawv hais neej neeg, koj tus ua sister hais tau zoo tshaj txhua tus li os. Keep it up, hais ntxiv rau peb tau mloog nawb. We’re here to support you.
Not sure if it’s May’s voice, but this lady sounds too cocky. Just remember your husband left you when you haven’t done anything with another man. Now the thought of you being with another man at the night club will eat at him and he will get his revenge. He won’t do anything now, but wait and see.
Me too. She said after they got back together , she didn’t want share toothbrush with her husband anymore because she felt grossed but she is not grossed with the rest of her body with him?.. SMH. This story should be “how to win your husband back instead love yourself first before loving someone else.”
I hate men like this one You should keep all his cassettes and gave him back to listen when he was behind and cry like a fools and say how much he love you. Peoples that say all those things are the one that will cheat on their wife 😂
Us women we always go out of our way even if husband ask or not. It’s called love! Us women love way too deep. We’re always afraid of them wanting or needing anything. We want to give them the whole world. But remember husband don’t care they don’t ever think back to what you have done for him. Leave some room for yourself ladies 💕
Cas twb nyob USA tseem koom 1 tug toothbrush? Coob tus pojniam tsis kam ua zoo nkauj, tsis nyiam dance, tsis tawm rooj nrog tus txiv ces thaum kawg yeej muaj teebmeem 1 yam li koj.
1) Gross. Toothbrushes are so cheap. Please use your own. 2) always take care of yourself and know your worth. If you don’t, others won’t either. 3) ladies, please change the mindset that relationships have to be controlling in order for it to = love and care. A man that controls and threatened to kill you if you leave is not loving. He’s selfish, insecure, abusive and manipulative.
Let’s get this right, it’s not chim2 but khib2. Txhob tuaj khav2 vim koj ruam dhau , tsis muaj neeg yuav lawm Ua li koj . Tuaj muab yus niag txiv dev rhuav tag tiamsis tseem rov yuav los txhob dag2 tias Tim ub tim no.
Ua cas yuav muab yus tus txiv tu haib ua luaj li es yus ho tsis tu yus na? Kuv li kuv tsis ua li ko. Nws tej khaub ncaws suit nws yuav nws thaum wb mus taj laj xwb. Nws yog tus hais tias nws tsis muaj es xav yuav 1 los 2 cev tau hnav tej lub sijhawm tawm rooj. Kuv yeej tsis nco txog tias yuav tu nws. Nws tu nws xwb. Ib txwm wb yeej sib yuav hluas menyuam tub menyuam ntxhais tabsis kuv yeej ib txwm tsis tu nws li koj hais koj ua rau koj tus. Kuv tu kuv tus kheej kom kuv txhob laus sai2 xwb.
Cas ruam ua luaj. Leej twg kom yus tu luag xwb es tsis tu tus kheej no maj. Yus tsis tu yus tus kheej kom phim luag ces kawg mag lub maib no xwb tiag laub. Ua neeg mas yuav tau ntse thiab siv hlwb txhob awb awb vawb mas thiaj li yuav compatible nrog yus tus partner nawb. Lub tswv yim ruam ruam es xav tias txiv neej tsis nyiam kom poj iam ua sexy mas qub dhau lawm. Ua neeg ces leej twg los yeej xav noj qhov qab yuav tus zoo xwb los sav.
What's the point of telling your story if you're just gonna stay with the jerk and cheater? No one is gonna applause you for that. Nothing good to learn here.
You first have to prove why adultery is wrong. Your religion should give you your ethical and moral values….However, shamanism don’t have any. Why do you think when the man brings home another women, no one can straight up say “stop it, that is wrong” instead they only say something like “it’s not easy to control two wives” and “you have to be patient to be able to take on this challenge” etc if another shaman person says “it’s wrong” that’s just his or her opinion. (Someone else who has multiple wives can say it’s fine). Obviously that person saying it is wrong is “wrong” bc a man can legally have more than one wife in the Hmong culture. If you’re mad or upset at what’s happening to this lady in the story and is a shaman, you are borrowing from other religions including Christianity.
I don’t agree with you. If what you say is true, EVERY Hmong man should have a second wife. Therefore, what you have said is wrong. Second wives is a decision made by three people, the husband and his two wives. Plus, funny that you mention Christianity. I hope you know that Jacob actually had two wives. Don’t try to shame another religion.
@@yahookv15 well duh, Jacob was also wrong for doing that. David commit had an affair with a married women, Abraham had a children with another women, Peter denied Jesus etc you can go on and on. God never said they were sinless people. Why are you so upset just from the mention of Christianity? Why would what I said mean all Hmong me have to have more than one wives? Ofcourse they don’t bc they have a conscience that God gave them. Even though they act like it’s ok or make a religion to say there’s nothing wrong with it, in their heart they know it’s not right. I’m not bashing other religions, I’m only stating what the facts are. If we all lived in a world where shamanism was true and the ultimate religion, we wouldn’t be hearing about these cheating stories. These stories in itself only proves shamanism is a false religion.
@amazing grace, I’m not upset at all. Just making a reference because you said that if we’re mad at this lady’s situation we’re borrowing from other religions including Christianity. Now I’m kind of confused about your comment. You referenced one religion being wrong by referring to another religion that now you say is also wrong. Not sure what you’re saying, that’s all. According to you I guess if everyone was Christian we wouldn’t be hearing these cheating stories and everyone would have great morals? It sounds like you think cheating stories only happen in the shamanism religion. Sounded like you were saying that one religion was better than another, only to now say both are wrong. Sorry I got you so worked up that you had to use words like “duh”. 😁
Good reminder, love yourself ladies. ❤
Yog lawm os yuav tau hlub yus tus kheej ua ntej
Hahahahahaha zoo kawg txiv neej liam aw......😄😃😀😄😃😀😛😃😀
I'm so glad you found yourself and started loving yourself.
Some of us R fortunate to have significant others that iron their own clothes!! U train your dog the way u want him to be. The problem with traditional hmoob wife is she baby the husband too much to the point where the husband become depend like a child who needs mama to cook n clean n dress them!! Sorry but the world has change, modern hmoob wife stand your grounds, don’t settle for less, test your man, if he’s a baby, kick to the curve! Time for real man. It’s no wonder hmoob women rather date out of race. If u don’t raise your hmoob son right, he will never find a hmoob wife now-in-days.
💯💯
World have change but the wife still belongs in the kitchen
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@@mountainvang6148 lol not in this family, we cook n clean together n eat out together…we hav the best chef n bbq king dad in this family! We teach our sons to do household chores like the daughters. Be fair. Teach young.
@@flryprn745 being a family is being a team. No gender role. Some hmong men still live backwards. They think that women belong in the kitchen. Well damn go be the bread winner and provide for the family and pay ALL the bills. There are some good ones who help their spouse. Glad you have a good one.
I'm glad you found yourself, and I'm glad you guys work it out, sometime victory does not mean leave your wife or husband but being able to save your marriage.
Zaj no mas zoo tshaj plaws li os 😍😍😍
koj. hais yob lawm o peb cov poj niam hmoo feem coob tsi nco hlu yus tus kheej thiab tag li ntawv lo hạuj lwm hauv tsev . ưa liaj ua teb .tu mi tub mi nyuam yob peb ntau xw peb cov poj niam thia laus dua txiv neej
Tu siab kuv tau hlub koj tom qab, koj twb muab kev hlub nrog rau lwm tus ua ntej kuv lawm os. Tu siab kuv tsis yog tus qhib muab thawj teg kev hlub rau koj os me koj niam.
I rather move on than going back to a cheater like that. You made a wrong choice.
Yeej zoo li tug niam tsev no zajneej neeg no lawm os
Neb ob niam Txiv xu siab tshaj plaws. Tsis qhuas ib tug kiag
Whoop whoop! The son is amazing! Lol!
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Ntawm ib tug ntxiv neej , yog yuav tau lawv los nrog U nyob lawm yuav tsum hlub kom tsi nyog thiaj li os , yog yuav los e tsis hlub ce tsi txhob yuav lawv zoo duas os cov kwv tij hmoob.
Niag txiv dev ko es ua cas yuav ua rau peb cov txiv neej hmoob no poob ntsej muag loj ua luaj li no.
Thov qhuas Koj thiab os tus niam tsev yus Yuav tau Hlub yus tus khees hos...
Hlubkoj tus kheej.txiv neej ntshaw poj laib xwb lawb zoo dua cia nws ua yawg nrauj nyob qab choj
Mloog be za dag neeg mas Niam los khaus txiv los khaus sib phim kawg
Niam tshuab teev koj cov neej neeg kuv noog mas kuv quaj heev vim kuv lub neej kuv tug txiv yeej tsis xam kuv ua niam tsev li kuv hnub nyoog 26 xyoo os xyov kuv lub neej yuav zoo li cas kuv tu siab heev li koj sim qhia kuv thiab com kuv twb kev lawm os
Haib tiag li kuv nyiam kawg
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Muaj tseeb li tu niam tsev no hai kuv lub neej quaj rau tu txiv ua hlua tau 15lub xyoo qhov muag muaj teeb meem tag lub plawv muaj teeb meem tag thaum kuv mam ho tig lo hlub kuv tu kheej kuv lub neej kuj zoo raw nraim li tu niam tsev no lub lawm thiab. Peb ua neeg nyob nco ntsoov hlub yu tu kheej yu thiaj muaj nqi
Love your kids, yus txoj kev kaj siab yog yus tej me nyuam xwb.
Lady, if you love yourself you wouldn't take your toxic husband back -_- And he didn't need to degrade the other lady he was with.
It's true for what you've said but she have her own reasons. If she go, she'd either have the one that really her or it could be worst then her husband.
Nothing to do with dressing nice for ur husband or your wife
Love is love lady
Cheater will be cheater
Tus niam tsev koj cov neej tsa yeej hais yog lawm..koj mus tom ntej cov yawg nrauj muaj hluas nkauj coob poj nrauj muaj hluas nraug ntau..tej zaum yuav tsis piv tau lub neej qub lawm os
Peb ua neeg nyob kj tau lub neej zoo los kj tss txhob rawm zoo2 Siab tss txhob maj mu ntxub lwm tus ua lawv lub neej tss zoo ho Cov tau lub neej tss zoo los tss txhob tus Siab tas2 thiab os nauwj
Peb ua neeg nyob 1 leeg yeej muaj 1 ntu phem 1 leeg yeej muaj 1 ntu zoo os mog hmong aw
Tawm rooj tu yus tus kheej kom zoo nkauj phim yus tus txiv thiaj xav nrog yus ua ke
ua tau li koj thiaj li tsis mob2 siab os
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣good for you! You baby too him too much!
Sounds like me.
Ua tsaus os vibncaus as
Self-love is great, but such a weak disappointed ending.
I was rooting for her when she showed her woman power.....until the end. I was like, eh. All that power for nothing.
Cov neej tsas hai yg lm o
Hi
Niam ntshuab teev kuv mam hluag tsis tau zoo kawg li
ua raug koj muab koj lub neej tuaj tham ua kev kawm rau swv dawg zoo heev li
We Hmong women always love our self after our husbands cheated on us.
Viv caus Rov tuaj saib koj dua lawm zoo kawg li o
Yog lawm poj niam hmoob yus yuav tau hlub yus tus kheej thiab saib yus muaj nqi ua ntej.
You took him back just so he can control you. That is not love…
Good for u !! Hais Yog kawg
I wouldn't care what my side says, I won't take him back. If you get sick and become disabled he'll cheat on you again.
Lam muab kua muag los luv kom yeej xwb os tus mi Viv ncaus aw txhob ntseeg kiag li os ❤️💝
ยินดีกับความรักอีกครั้งนะค่ะ
Ntxeev siab ib zaug lawm ces siab yeej tsis sov li qub lawm os
agree
Yes
That it so nasty 🤢 to share toothbrush together
Im
txiv neej tsis sawm zoo
Uacas pheej yuav tos thaum yus tus txiv dev ua phem masli hlub yus tus kheej mas? If you take care of him you should always take care of yourself too, to even out. How can you know how to treat someone when you have not treated yourself, please! I don’t get why some women chose to behavior like this to compensate what one’s husband does wrong to her. It just seems like one doesn’t have any conference of oneself.
Sad life for us Hmong women.
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Sister, kuv mloog txhua leej txhua tus Nyob hauv TH-cam no lawv hais neej neeg, koj tus ua sister hais tau zoo tshaj txhua tus li os. Keep it up, hais ntxiv rau peb tau mloog nawb. We’re here to support you.
Peb cov poj Hmoob mas thaum tus txiv fav siab lawm mas yus mam mus tu yus tus kheej thaum no ces yus twb mob txaus lawm
Not sure if it’s May’s voice, but this lady sounds too cocky. Just remember your husband left you when you haven’t done anything with another man. Now the thought of you being with another man at the night club will eat at him and he will get his revenge. He won’t do anything now, but wait and see.
Txiv neej tsis sawm zoo ces zoo li no ntag mas nws twb ua mob yus lawm yus yuav tau ua kom mob nws thiab thiaj li sib haum ho
You are an amazing story teller.
Vuag sib hlub npaum twg los ntshe yuav tsis koom 1 tug txhuam hniav pob? Tabsis cov niam txiv uas yog Tus txiv tham hluas Nkauj es mob2 Tus niam ua plawv yuav nres vim yeej sib2 hub tabsis yog ib sim niam txiv yeej tsis sib hlub ces tsis mob siab li os.
Koj tug txiv siab phem tshaj plwas li lawm os mi viv n 😭😭😭😭
Thanks for the good laugh this morning 😂🤣
Wow...., tus txiv neej es tsis txawj tus nws tus kheej ces tub nkees dlhau hwv lawm. Txawm tau tus tshiab los mus tsis txog twg.
Sister, kuv ua neej laus li no ntshaw kev hlub los laus li no. Ua cas yuav ntshaw koj txoj kev hlub ua luaj.
I don't get this story's title. Loving yourself does not mean go back to the useless piece of sh** husband.
Me too. She said after they got back together , she didn’t want share toothbrush with her husband anymore because she felt grossed but she is not grossed with the rest of her body with him?.. SMH. This story should be “how to win your husband back instead love yourself first before loving someone else.”
Good story.
Sharing a tooth brush is nasty! Don’t do that.
🤣😂😂
Agreed! Self-love is the best medicine.
Blah blah blah 3 days straight same stories different ppl
👎👎👎👎👎👏👏💏
Your husband chose you again now because of your beauty. One day he will choose the beauty of youth over you. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
Bingo
Sad 😭😭😭😭
Thaj kaus Laus nees !! Koj hmoov tsis tau tag Poj niam Sony thiaj li rov hlub koj, koj hmoov tag zaum no lhaub hlab kiag koj os !!! Hahahahahaha
I hate men like this one
You should keep all his cassettes and gave him back to listen when he was behind and cry like a fools and say how much he love you. Peoples that say all those things are the one that will cheat on their wife 😂
Lol the rubberband effect. Ugh men... rembr your wives are your backbone. Why does it have to extend this far for men to love their wives?
Us women we always go out of our way even if husband ask or not. It’s called love! Us women love way too deep. We’re always afraid of them wanting or needing anything. We want to give them the whole world. But remember husband don’t care they don’t ever think back to what you have done for him. Leave some room for yourself ladies 💕
Cas twb nyob USA tseem koom 1 tug toothbrush? Coob tus pojniam tsis kam ua zoo nkauj, tsis nyiam dance, tsis tawm rooj nrog tus txiv ces thaum kawg yeej muaj teebmeem 1 yam li koj.
Ne !!!! Ne !!!! Thaj kaus Laus nees, cas tau Poj niam Sony ho tsis hlub? Hahahahahaha muaj ib cov neej lub hlwb mix ice lawm Hahahahahaha.
Yg kg
Eww, I love my husband but I will never use his toothbrush. I don’t share my toothbrush with him either.
You not share your husband toothbrush but you kiss his mouth
@@touathao3397 That’s different.
Lol. Same
And you do other oral things too so it’s the same
I don’t share his either.
Haha... Hmoob wives / Niam tsev tended to love themselves last! Marriages = Mutual respect! 👎😇
1) Gross. Toothbrushes are so cheap. Please use your own.
2) always take care of yourself and know your worth. If you don’t, others won’t either.
3) ladies, please change the mindset that relationships have to be controlling in order for it to = love and care. A man that controls and threatened to kill you if you leave is not loving. He’s selfish, insecure, abusive and manipulative.
Let’s get this right, it’s not chim2 but khib2. Txhob tuaj khav2 vim koj ruam dhau , tsis muaj neeg yuav lawm Ua li koj . Tuaj muab yus niag txiv dev rhuav tag tiamsis tseem rov yuav los txhob dag2 tias Tim ub tim no.
Chimzz siab thiaj muab coj lo hai mas
Ua cas yuav muab yus tus txiv tu haib ua luaj li es yus ho tsis tu yus na? Kuv li kuv tsis ua li ko. Nws tej khaub ncaws suit nws yuav nws thaum wb mus taj laj xwb. Nws yog tus hais tias nws tsis muaj es xav yuav 1 los 2 cev tau hnav tej lub sijhawm tawm rooj. Kuv yeej tsis nco txog tias yuav tu nws. Nws tu nws xwb. Ib txwm wb yeej sib yuav hluas menyuam tub menyuam ntxhais tabsis kuv yeej ib txwm tsis tu nws li koj hais koj ua rau koj tus. Kuv tu kuv tus kheej kom kuv txhob laus sai2 xwb.
Neb ces ruam sib xws...
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If you're a grown a$$ man and u can't even iron your own clothes then idk what to say.
Yea why share tooth brush. Nasty sick
Hmmm...this story doesn’t make sense.
Doesn't matter how much I love you. You need your own toothbrush! 😆🤮
Cas ruam ua luaj. Leej twg kom yus tu luag xwb es tsis tu tus kheej no maj. Yus tsis tu yus tus kheej kom phim luag ces kawg mag lub maib no xwb tiag laub. Ua neeg mas yuav tau ntse thiab siv hlwb txhob awb awb vawb mas thiaj li yuav compatible nrog yus tus partner nawb. Lub tswv yim ruam ruam es xav tias txiv neej tsis nyiam kom poj iam ua sexy mas qub dhau lawm. Ua neeg ces leej twg los yeej xav noj qhov qab yuav tus zoo xwb los sav.
What's the point of telling your story if you're just gonna stay with the jerk and cheater? No one is gonna applause you for that. Nothing good to learn here.
U took the words right outta my mouth, stupid woman still boasting.
The little thing I learned is that if your husband cheated you, you love yourself and cheated against him. It’s that right?Lol 😂😂Omg.
@@baothao1728 apparently that's the message these stories are sending. Or he cheats on u, u love yourself, and u go back to him.
You first have to prove why adultery is wrong. Your religion should give you your ethical and moral values….However, shamanism don’t have any. Why do you think when the man brings home another women, no one can straight up say “stop it, that is wrong” instead they only say something like “it’s not easy to control two wives” and “you have to be patient to be able to take on this challenge” etc if another shaman person says “it’s wrong” that’s just his or her opinion. (Someone else who has multiple wives can say it’s fine). Obviously that person saying it is wrong is “wrong” bc a man can legally have more than one wife in the Hmong culture. If you’re mad or upset at what’s happening to this lady in the story and is a shaman, you are borrowing from other religions including Christianity.
I disagree. You could say the same about the Mormons, a religion that embraces and accepts multiple wives.
@@heysoniher what do you disagree with exactly? The Mormons are wrong as well.
I don’t agree with you. If what you say is true, EVERY Hmong man should have a second wife. Therefore, what you have said is wrong. Second wives is a decision made by three people, the husband and his two wives. Plus, funny that you mention Christianity. I hope you know that Jacob actually had two wives. Don’t try to shame another religion.
@@yahookv15 well duh, Jacob was also wrong for doing that. David commit had an affair with a married women, Abraham had a children with another women, Peter denied Jesus etc you can go on and on. God never said they were sinless people. Why are you so upset just from the mention of Christianity?
Why would what I said mean all Hmong me have to have more than one wives? Ofcourse they don’t bc they have a conscience that God gave them. Even though they act like it’s ok or make a religion to say there’s nothing wrong with it, in their heart they know it’s not right.
I’m not bashing other religions, I’m only stating what the facts are. If we all lived in a world where shamanism was true and the ultimate religion, we wouldn’t be hearing about these cheating stories. These stories in itself only proves shamanism is a false religion.
@amazing grace, I’m not upset at all. Just making a reference because you said that if we’re mad at this lady’s situation we’re borrowing from other religions including Christianity. Now I’m kind of confused about your comment. You referenced one religion being wrong by referring to another religion that now you say is also wrong. Not sure what you’re saying, that’s all. According to you I guess if everyone was Christian we wouldn’t be hearing these cheating stories and everyone would have great morals? It sounds like you think cheating stories only happen in the shamanism religion. Sounded like you were saying that one religion was better than another, only to now say both are wrong. Sorry I got you so worked up that you had to use words like “duh”. 😁
Cov niag ntsej muag txiv neej khib nyiab quav dev ntawd Mas ntxim ntxub tshaj