Dear Black People, Holding another Black person accountable isn't a form of hate, jealousy, putting on blast, wrongdoing, etc. It's actually a form of love to help one self correct and mature. We can't get better, as a people, if we can never hold each other accountable. Thanks, A black person
Women think they have more options. Just because a man will sleep with you, take you out and buy you bags doesn’t mean he will marry you. …. God bless these young girls out here. Hopefully more women and men get back to being connected with God. ❤
Ole girl in the middle said she need a man to bring the woman out of her. 🤢. So what is out before the woman comes out of her? Her man Representative? So men gotta learn how to negotiate with men to get to women now-a-days? smh 🤢
I agree with what Dru said most try to change ppl because they are scared to start over. They feel like they’ve built the person up and don’t want them to be the person they wanted for the next one. But I also think ppl try to change others so if it don’t work out they can be the victim
I think the sad truth is unfortunately due to social media and music women see that being smart, moral and having a good head on their shoulders isn’t necessary as long as they can make money. While on the other hand men are still expected of these things. I think the entertainment has left a strong adverse on both men and women and we’re seeing the consequences of it
Eli, the women's age should be given automatically like other podcasts. Knowing their age helps people understand their perspective better. Ana said an oxymoron, she's an aggressive sweetheart, smh
Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
“Our roles depend on who we choose to mesh with” is the main point. If a woman is with a man who stands in his role that was ordained from the creation of mankind, the woman doesn’t have to enact any form of masculinity (i.e. she won’t HAVE to work outside the home, figure out how to provide for herself, lead him bcuz he doesn’t have a sense of direction etc)….. this is the missing piece- many of the men who want submissive women are subpar men. They didn’t do the work to uphold and maintain manhood and won’t earn a woman who understands and lives in submission to her partner 🤷🏽♀️
They don't want a man to have an opjon on how they conduct themselves, but expects that man to put his life on the line to provide for and protect them.
I don’t understand the idea that thinking what you are doing is right when it’s not working every time. You’re always single, but all your exes seem to work with their new woman.
He seemed upset about the lady saying she weeding certain men out based on her criteria. Isn't that what men do? When they decide to not mess with single mom's etc that's him weeding out certain females based on his standards. It's his right to not date a woman for whatever reason and vice versa for women.
On the topic of paying for the babysitter, offering to pay for a sitter is nice, but not expected (it is a good way to apply pressure). If you give her enough notice of the date (i.e. two weeks in advance) that should give her enough time to find a family member or a neighbor she can trust to watch her kid for "the free". Then you won't need to pay extra for a sitter. In my opinion, there is no expectations until we are married. I don't expect my current boyfriend to pay my bills (if he offers, "thank you baby"). We are not married, he is not responsible for me and if I got hurt, my emergency contact is my mom, not him. We forget THERE ARE LEVELS FOR EVERYTHING. That changes when we are engaged. It changes again when we are married.
The difference between a young lady and a young man being abandoned at a young age and having to raise themselves is what survival looks like on each. When a man doesn’t have the father but enters life aggressively it’s expected, when your a woman and you behave the same due to the same circumstances it’s viewed differently. Both need their aggression for survival however it’s only respected when it’s coming for a man so learning to be soft as a woman is hard especially in a world that doesn’t want us to be soft submissive etc.
having narcissistic traits and having narcissism personality disorder are two different things. narcissism and gaslight are buzzwords these days. but what women that use it loosely don’t understand, is they are actually undermining their own pain when they refer to someone who is not a narcissist as one. so stick w me. NPD or narcissistic personality disorder is a mental health issue you need therapy for. in which you will do anything to get what YOU want and you only see the people around you as pawns. narcissists lack empathy. even for their immediate family or their own children. gaslighting is a common abuse tactic used by narcissists in which they cause cause you to question your own reality. example- you see me eat your leftovers and ask me why, and i respond that i have no clue what you’re even talking about and that you’re acting crazy to minimize your feelings and make you question if i even did eat your food. so calling your ex a narcissist, who was not, is invalidating your experience because narcissism would be an actual diagnosis that explains, (not justifies but is the cause) of that persons actions. so say what it really is, if he was physically, mentally, sexually abusive then say that. those are major character flaws. not diagnoses. i hope that made sense!
@@DailyRapUpCrew no it’s not a problem. It just won’t happen if I don’t have a baby sitter. I’m also not going out my way to get a baby sitter. And no they not obligated. We just won’t meet
GOD is missing from the world 🌎 PRAYERS bring LOGIC 🙏🏼 ❤️ Thank you for these debates guys - i dont agree with everyone or everything said (even from the hosts) but its a great listening amd learning class. Mens feelings are truly VALID and I'm a woman ❤
Regardless if you weren't raised to learn your role, it's still expected and as an adult the onus is on you to learn. Regardless if men were taught to provide/protect it is expected of us.
@@MariyahBrown-fi4hmthe reason of that man providing for, protecting and leading you. No self respecting man of substance and quality is willing to do all these things for a woman who can't submit and is nothing but abrasive and combative. I'm sure you submit to your boss at the office, because you know the consequences are real.
I always ask myself tis question, why so many black American women have this slight native American look, especially when they have little like Asian eyes. They look like a mix of black and native..
A lot of y’all don’t want a good man. Y’all want a trick or a simp!! Y’all want a yes man. A man whose only purpose is to serve you and not himself or goals!! Y’all couldn’t handle a “real good man.” Y’all can’t handle a man correcting you. or calling you out on yo bs and habits and holding you accountable. Y’all want a sponsor. A real man is going to lead and not be led. A real man isn’t going to allow you to have those same habits you been having. A real man is going to stand up for himself and know his worth. A lot of y’all definitions of a good man is a man that y’all can control.
I see a future of angry lonely men. Alot of yall absorbing manosphere/redpill bs that says any man doing anything a woman likes is a simp. Thats weirdo talk and guys who repeat this stuff are obviously incels. Us men can tell. Its good women out here but if your level is low then you gonna have to settle.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Stay away from her and don't contact her again, she's probably with another guy already because that's typically how it goes. Based on how you speak, it sounds like this was your first relationship and probably was too clingy to the point she lost attraction and decided to end it. Self reflect, learn what you could've done better, think of red flags you ignored, and move on.
He took everything from you your gold your women your manhood. We don't deserve no respect. To the winner go the spoils. We not waging a war or doing anything to make them pay or take our stuff back. That's why we are ignored and disrespected and we don't deserve no better. He gets the best of all women for free now
These conversations are frivolous, because they would have you thinking that men have no expectations of women and are out here being loved unconditionally. Both men and women have expectations of each other. Neither sex is really been given any grace. The black woman have always been the most undervalued, under protected, under loved etc woman on planet earth. That is a fact historically. We need to all heal, and stop dating until we do. Bring back the marriage and family mindset, because this shit we been doing for the past 50 years is b.s
The reason why people try to change people is because they meet someone that they like visually and then find out the person isn't quite compatible but they don't know how to disconnect. They try to make it work anyway, either because of attraction or whatever else. People gotta learn to let things go if it's obvious there is no compatability.
So what's a "B*tc*" made "Ni**a"? Like I hear thrown around all the time, let's break that down 🤔. Also lol this conversation "although good 👍🏾" is NOT about Femininity and Masculinity lol I mean the definition of the terms aren't even defined, but again still a good convo ovwrall
I like the panel of women on this episode, even the aggressive one. Each one of them were actually listening and I understand their point of view this time.
If you're waiting til 40, you don't want a family. It's called "the 15-year fertility window" for a reason (ages 19 to 34 years). You might not even survive pregnancy in your 40's (especially as women of color). But to be honest, @ 20, I didn't know shit about having a family. I didn't know that was the best time to find a husband. I was still naive and having fun being untethered from my parents. So, I can't blame their ignorance.
I completely disagree. My closest friend I've known since gradeschool and we speak regularly about everything. If you feel like you need to gain something beyond "friendship" with your "friends" that means you were never really friends to begin with.
Never believe a woman who says she is submissive. To be completely honest, I don't see the appeal of submissive women. I'd rather have a functional adult than a submissive person I have to "lead" .
@@bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 Yeah, I get what it means, but I'm not into it. I'd rather have a sensible adult who doesn't need to be led. Someone who is also capable of making decisions for a family. I don't know everything, and won't always be right. That's why children need more than one parent.
@@ems6321 She does have sense. She can offer counsil and advice. She just leaves the final decision to you. Being willing to follow a competent, effective leader. Does not mean a person isn't a functioning adult capable of their own decisions my guy.
@@bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 Then why? Men aren't inherently more intelligent than women, so why does she need to follow a mans lead? Unless she happens to be less competent, in which case, why date someone beneath you just so they have to submit to you?
@ems6321 It's similar to being in the military. Everyone can have their jobs defined duties. You're even able to question or advise to some extent, but there's only one leader. Another example, there's only one head chef.
13:50 - NOT a Nixxa telling you what to do. That's the Man that your Dealing you with. See when we make Sense or Speak with *_VALUE_* In the Future till I'm 40, she want to Buss it open with NO RECOURSES.... Blaxk Men, Young, DON'T Be the Next Package Back Up Man. That's why I'm 40 & Single, I DON'T want to Be a Backup Plan to No More Blaxk Women. Blaxk Men BEing #1 in Step Daddy is OVER❗❗❗❗
I am 40 and just had a new baby last year. Her older sister is 3. If I had unprotected sex today I would have another, soo. If you were fertile at 20 it doesn't usually change unless you get your tubes tied. You can get pregnant up until menopause. I'm glad more and more young women are choosing to wait. I enjoy parenthood a lot more now then I did with my first 3 that I had in my early twenties. They need an old head on the show to balance them out. No one on this panel have been on this earth long enough for me to take to seriously. Interesting commentary for entertainment purposes though.
Question#1 It is not his responsibility to pay for your child's babysitter. As mature people, if you talk to him and he states he'll do it with no strings attached then that's fine. Mature conversations are one of the issues with today's"relationships". You can't base what type of guy he is based on him paying or not for your babysitter. A lot of today's immature men will be looking for that booty call if they pay for your babysitter.
So she had a good man but realized that she didn't want a good man years down the road....after she got money. Check. Women get money and say I don't need a man. Period.
The fact that she said Ouu is annoying…cuz ik she’s bouta be like “daaamn I never thought about that, well these ngas be outside sooo…women have more options “
The roles have definitely changed. The man needs the woman to go out and work now, he cannot provide it on his own. They also expect the woman to come home after a hard day at work and still handle 100 percent of her wife duties. If we are all being honest, it is not fair.
I disagree with the part of 100% of wife duties. It’s not true anymore. More men are active in household aspects now than ever before. To the point where I honestly think women just use it as a excuse now
@@isaywhatyouafraidto you know you’re wrong in your opinion. Statistics and history are two different meanings. Stats are based on experience which became the history of the progress that has been achieved or ignored by the entire population. I know guys like you rely heavily on statistics, but ask yourself, is stats the true history or people use their opinions to create stats? It’s know in American culture and other culture, women are seen as nurturers, caretakers and suppose to raise children and cook. True only thing the world expect of men are provide and protect. Because many men abandon their kids no matter the circumstances , it’s safe to say that men’s expectations when it comes to marriage is different from their expectations in relationships while women’s expectations for men are the same in both relationships and marriage. Provide and protect those you want respect from.
A lot of these men who expect traditional wives aren't traditional men themselves. If your wife works, you aren't a traditional man and there's no reason why your wife should be handling household duties on her own. You both work.
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Enjoyed this episode I really like esmerlin she the mature woman I look for to build with
Dear Black People,
Holding another Black person accountable isn't a form of hate, jealousy, putting on blast, wrongdoing, etc. It's actually a form of love to help one self correct and mature. We can't get better, as a people, if we can never hold each other accountable.
Thanks,
A black person
💯💯💯💯
❤❤
Thank you for saying this 🤎🤎🤎🤎
💯 say that !!!
Well said family!
Women want a male leader that will let the woman lead 😂
NOT TRUE! We definitely want our men to lead because we are tired of doing it, in general.
@@misunderstoodkjin theory women want a leader but will have a list of things men better not tell them to do😂
Many woman don't want to listen or trust a man so they cannot follow
@@misunderstoodkjyall don't lead tho
Because both people should be able to lead.
The lady with the feathers is smart & wise. She's morally grounded💯
She sounds like she has low self-esteem
And thick af. Perfect
The difference in mentality hit different once that age gap comes into play
Scary part is the older woman probably found out the hard way in her youth and now trying to be the type men want to marry.
Women think they have more options. Just because a man will sleep with you, take you out and buy you bags doesn’t mean he will marry you. …. God bless these young girls out here. Hopefully more women and men get back to being connected with God. ❤
I'm still shocked at how many women still act like they can't tell the difference. Short bus riders😮.😂😂😂
@@biggmixxo Yes it is shocking. But social media adds to people ego. People think all them people sliding in their DMs are serious options.
Marriage is not every woman's end goal. Innerstand that
@@kaneshamorgan9635 k.
Women DO have more options. Especially desirable women...🫠
Ya'll were aggravating me with the use of the N-word! We gotta expand our vocabulary. Let's replace that word with "king" or "my man".
Facts!!
Agree. We probabaly all grew up with it but it makes us look bad on public platforms
Brother wasnt a bad replacement either.
I say “uncircumcised Philistine” 😂
Ole girl in the middle said she need a man to bring the woman out of her. 🤢. So what is out before the woman comes out of her? Her man Representative? So men gotta learn how to negotiate with men to get to women now-a-days? smh 🤢
I agree with what Dru said most try to change ppl because they are scared to start over. They feel like they’ve built the person up and don’t want them to be the person they wanted for the next one. But I also think ppl try to change others so if it don’t work out they can be the victim
Appreciate that it’s Jeuu btw
Preach too these young women
BOY BLACK MEN LACK MASCULINITY IDK WHY YA KEEP TRYING TO CHANGE
Women need to stop saying they can get anybody they won’t because if you can get anybody you want then you would have the person you want
You don’t like something, now you’re a Narcissist
I think the sad truth is unfortunately due to social media and music women see that being smart, moral and having a good head on their shoulders isn’t necessary as long as they can make money. While on the other hand men are still expected of these things. I think the entertainment has left a strong adverse on both men and women and we’re seeing the consequences of it
You need to get offline and into the real world
@@jas1565 you got the wrong guy buddy. I’m not some social media crazed fool I just gave my opinion
@@jas1565What dude said was facts. Women don't live in the same world we do but want all the benefits of said world.
@@wolflordbradley7353 you're right.. I don't live in your world. I live in the real world.
@@jas1565 Good way to prove your an idiot.Thanks
Shorty said "was I being a good woman to myself" hahahahahahah WTF
I’m so glad y’all had a woman with sense up here and spoke with some logic.
Dang, Eli had to put himself twice on the thumbnail😂
Im just gonna keep it all the way funky with you.. The chicks on this panel in this episode is all birds bro..
I’m sooo over these conversations!! Do what’s best for ur relationship!…
stop watching
Damn women can even take accountability in the comments…it’s hurts your souls don’t it🤡😂
You most definitely can not watch the content! You came here and watched it so deal with it
Eli, the women's age should be given automatically like other podcasts. Knowing their age helps people understand their perspective better. Ana said an oxymoron, she's an aggressive sweetheart, smh
💯💯 can't have your own cake and eat it too.
I’m sorry but that 21yr old is very naive,aggressive & confused…she wasn’t mature enough for this conversation
Aye look at this. A mostly sensible woman
Lol
She sounds like she has low self esteem
Took 37yrs … by 47 she’ll talking like Kevin Samuels
Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
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I like how they always have a quick back and forth coitizing bars before the show. lol
Keep it up. I look forward to it. lol
A Woman with Wisdom will always be Undefeated✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾
“Our roles depend on who we choose to mesh with” is the main point. If a woman is with a man who stands in his role that was ordained from the creation of mankind, the woman doesn’t have to enact any form of masculinity (i.e. she won’t HAVE to work outside the home, figure out how to provide for herself, lead him bcuz he doesn’t have a sense of direction etc)….. this is the missing piece- many of the men who want submissive women are subpar men. They didn’t do the work to uphold and maintain manhood and won’t earn a woman who understands and lives in submission to her partner 🤷🏽♀️
That "cook" shii is IRRITATING 😂 WTF you people do when you by yourself? Do yall starve to you find someone to replace ya momma or McDonalds smh
NY just aggressive. It's a point of pride for them. It works in NY but nowhere else. It's very off putting 😅
Mfs aggressive everywhere
They don't want a man to have an opjon on how they conduct themselves, but expects that man to put his life on the line to provide for and protect them.
I don’t understand the idea that thinking what you are doing is right when it’s not working every time. You’re always single, but all your exes seem to work with their new woman.
Yo if she wanted to be with you she would go out of her way to be with you
😂😂😂😂
It seems like hip hop music has made women more aggressive and masculine….
Who pays for the babysitter when she goes out with her girls?
He seemed upset about the lady saying she weeding certain men out based on her criteria. Isn't that what men do? When they decide to not mess with single mom's etc that's him weeding out certain females based on his standards. It's his right to not date a woman for whatever reason and vice versa for women.
On the topic of paying for the babysitter, offering to pay for a sitter is nice, but not expected (it is a good way to apply pressure). If you give her enough notice of the date (i.e. two weeks in advance) that should give her enough time to find a family member or a neighbor she can trust to watch her kid for "the free". Then you won't need to pay extra for a sitter.
In my opinion, there is no expectations until we are married. I don't expect my current boyfriend to pay my bills (if he offers, "thank you baby"). We are not married, he is not responsible for me and if I got hurt, my emergency contact is my mom, not him.
We forget THERE ARE LEVELS FOR EVERYTHING. That changes when we are engaged. It changes again when we are married.
Women mature faster physically not mentally
Sadly
The difference between a young lady and a young man being abandoned at a young age and having to raise themselves is what survival looks like on each. When a man doesn’t have the father but enters life aggressively it’s expected, when your a woman and you behave the same due to the same circumstances it’s viewed differently. Both need their aggression for survival however it’s only respected when it’s coming for a man so learning to be soft as a woman is hard especially in a world that doesn’t want us to be soft submissive etc.
THANK YOU for the Time Stamps!!!!!
having narcissistic traits and having narcissism personality disorder are two different things. narcissism and gaslight are buzzwords these days. but what women that use it loosely don’t understand, is they are actually undermining their own pain when they refer to someone who is not a narcissist as one. so stick w me. NPD or narcissistic personality disorder is a mental health issue you need therapy for. in which you will do anything to get what YOU want and you only see the people around you as pawns. narcissists lack empathy. even for their immediate family or their own children. gaslighting is a common abuse tactic used by narcissists in which they cause cause you to question your own reality. example- you see me eat your leftovers and ask me why, and i respond that i have no clue what you’re even talking about and that you’re acting crazy to minimize your feelings and make you question if i even did eat your food. so calling your ex a narcissist, who was not, is invalidating your experience because narcissism would be an actual diagnosis that explains, (not justifies but is the cause) of that persons actions. so say what it really is, if he was physically, mentally, sexually abusive then say that. those are major character flaws. not diagnoses. i hope that made sense!
My husband is definitely a narcissist but he's never been diagnosed
Great show... Much love from Detroit.
Ima be honest if I don’t have a babysitter I’m just not going out or meeting up. 🤷🏾♀️
That’s the decision that should be made and if the man decides to ask you isn’t a problem just shouldn’t be obligated
@@DailyRapUpCrew no it’s not a problem. It just won’t happen if I don’t have a baby sitter. I’m also not going out my way to get a baby sitter. And no they not obligated. We just won’t meet
GOD is missing from the world 🌎 PRAYERS bring LOGIC 🙏🏼 ❤️ Thank you for these debates guys - i dont agree with everyone or everything said (even from the hosts) but its a great listening amd learning class.
Mens feelings are truly VALID and I'm a woman ❤
Regardless if you weren't raised to learn your role, it's still expected and as an adult the onus is on you to learn. Regardless if men were taught to provide/protect it is expected of us.
And what's expected of women?
@@MariyahBrown-fi4hm submissive, homemaker, respectful, demure
@@negrodamus67 submit for what reason?
@@MariyahBrown-fi4hmthe reason of that man providing for, protecting and leading you. No self respecting man of substance and quality is willing to do all these things for a woman who can't submit and is nothing but abrasive and combative. I'm sure you submit to your boss at the office, because you know the consequences are real.
@@negrodamus67 I don't have a job precisely because I don't want to submit to folks.
I always ask myself tis question, why so many black American women have this slight native American look, especially when they have little like Asian eyes. They look like a mix of black and native..
Jeuu the shower rod? 🤣🤣
Lmaooo some ladies be creative out here
I hate when a woman that's 5'3 120 pounds say I'm aggressive.. Oneeeeeee smack an shes a girl again lol
I love the shorty holding them females accountable
A lot of y’all don’t want a good man. Y’all want a trick or a simp!! Y’all want a yes man. A man whose only purpose is to serve you and not himself or goals!! Y’all couldn’t handle a “real good man.” Y’all can’t handle a man correcting you. or calling you out on yo bs and habits and holding you accountable. Y’all want a sponsor. A real man is going to lead and not be led. A real man isn’t going to allow you to have those same habits you been having. A real man is going to stand up for himself and know his worth. A lot of y’all definitions of a good man is a man that y’all can control.
I see a future of angry lonely men. Alot of yall absorbing manosphere/redpill bs that says any man doing anything a woman likes is a simp. Thats weirdo talk and guys who repeat this stuff are obviously incels. Us men can tell. Its good women out here but if your level is low then you gonna have to settle.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counsellor, and how do i reach her?
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.
I know nothing. ❤But Everything happens for a reason or not. This touched me. I can relate. Take care
Bro, there is more to life trust me😂
Stay away from her and don't contact her again, she's probably with another guy already because that's typically how it goes. Based on how you speak, it sounds like this was your first relationship and probably was too clingy to the point she lost attraction and decided to end it. Self reflect, learn what you could've done better, think of red flags you ignored, and move on.
He took everything from you your gold your women your manhood. We don't deserve no respect. To the winner go the spoils. We not waging a war or doing anything to make them pay or take our stuff back. That's why we are ignored and disrespected and we don't deserve no better. He gets the best of all women for free now
Yooooo!! The opening scene was pure wisdom
Is no one behind the scenes paying attention?? Mics way messed up & 1 woman you can't hear at all!!
Love you all stuff, just damn
13:31 this woman wants 50/50 then will probably complain about 50/50 later
Women have more options but I can gaureentee 90 percent of the guys they don't want.
I’M SO GLAD I’M NOT IN 2023. NO I’M JUS VISITIN I DON’T LIVE HERE ✌🏿
These conversations are frivolous, because they would have you thinking that men have no expectations of women and are out here being loved unconditionally. Both men and women have expectations of each other. Neither sex is really been given any grace. The black woman have always been the most undervalued, under protected, under loved etc woman on planet earth. That is a fact historically. We need to all heal, and stop dating until we do. Bring back the marriage and family mindset, because this shit we been doing for the past 50 years is b.s
The exact reason why brothas travel abroad to find a wife.
Someone should tell the 21yr old most of her eggs are gone by 30 and geriatric pregnancy starts at 35
With her muturity bless her she should wait till 40
How they make the question about them ???
Does that make sense if a man has custody of his kids and he expects a woman to pay for bbysitter in order for him to take her out??
That man ace said "40?!?!" 🤣😂🤣😂
Dope discussion
Poor black women ,I truly hope God help them one day 🤦🏿♂️
Eli he was right he knew that shit was trash
5:16 best way to avoid a woman asking you to pay for a baby sitter is to leave single moms alone
The reason why people try to change people is because they meet someone that they like visually and then find out the person isn't quite compatible but they don't know how to disconnect. They try to make it work anyway, either because of attraction or whatever else. People gotta learn to let things go if it's obvious there is no compatability.
Well needed conversation
Y'all boys do a great job doing what y'all do but y'all definitely gotta get females that's not from NY
So what's a "B*tc*" made "Ni**a"? Like I hear thrown around all the time, let's break that down 🤔. Also lol this conversation "although good 👍🏾" is NOT about Femininity and Masculinity lol I mean the definition of the terms aren't even defined, but again still a good convo ovwrall
I like the panel of women on this episode, even the aggressive one. Each one of them were actually listening and I understand their point of view this time.
If you're waiting til 40, you don't want a family. It's called "the 15-year fertility window" for a reason (ages 19 to 34 years). You might not even survive pregnancy in your 40's (especially as women of color).
But to be honest, @ 20, I didn't know shit about having a family. I didn't know that was the best time to find a husband. I was still naive and having fun being untethered from my parents. So, I can't blame their ignorance.
Where did they find those young girls from? They aren’t emotionally intelligent to handle the questions being asked.
Exactly.
Eli on his narcissist ish with the thumbnail lmbao😂😂
I don't think yall using the right pictures in that thumbnail 😂😂😂... cause I see no femininity!!!
I want my woman to be my equal. That’s just me. If we can contribute together then we should be Content.
Eli my guy you need to do something about that Charlie Chaplin mustache. Cmon bro I’m sayin it outta love.
Nga in the lakers hat on point
Ace is FINE FINE
You can’t save these hyenas 😂😂😂😂 just use them throw them back into the trash
No one expects you to save them, you don't even know how to treat people
@@areyourhandsbroke 🦎🦎🦎🦎🦎🦎
Nah we don’t use it loosely … ppl are narcs… we just have a word for it now
I completely disagree. My closest friend I've known since gradeschool and we speak regularly about everything. If you feel like you need to gain something beyond "friendship" with your "friends" that means you were never really friends to begin with.
I didn't like that the guys put an age on when a women decides when she wants to be in a relationship or have kids.
Never believe a woman who says she is submissive. To be completely honest, I don't see the appeal of submissive women. I'd rather have a functional adult than a submissive person I have to "lead" .
Submissive just means she's willing to defer to your leadership, If you choose to make a decision on something for the family. That's all.
@@bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 Yeah, I get what it means, but I'm not into it. I'd rather have a sensible adult who doesn't need to be led. Someone who is also capable of making decisions for a family. I don't know everything, and won't always be right. That's why children need more than one parent.
@@ems6321 She does have sense. She can offer counsil and advice. She just leaves the final decision to you. Being willing to follow a competent, effective leader. Does not mean a person isn't a functioning adult capable of their own decisions my guy.
@@bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 Then why? Men aren't inherently more intelligent than women, so why does she need to follow a mans lead? Unless she happens to be less competent, in which case, why date someone beneath you just so they have to submit to you?
@ems6321 It's similar to being in the military. Everyone can have their jobs defined duties. You're even able to question or advise to some extent, but there's only one leader. Another example, there's only one head chef.
Listen how the lady in the middle of the couch always saying "me, me, me"
It’s her life…
They will never have a man up there
This BETTER go #Viral
With *FINALLY* a _Woman(ESMY) on the show❗❗👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Tinue watching🍿
13:50 - NOT a Nixxa telling you what to do. That's the Man that your Dealing you with.
See when we make Sense or Speak with *_VALUE_*
In the Future till I'm 40, she want to Buss it open with NO RECOURSES....
Blaxk Men, Young,
DON'T Be the Next Package Back Up Man.
That's why I'm 40 & Single, I DON'T want to Be a Backup Plan to No More Blaxk Women. Blaxk Men BEing #1 in Step Daddy is OVER❗❗❗❗
20:53 - Women DON'T have Competition
Men have BEEN thy same since Forever
Women think her Degree Attract Men💣💇🏾♀🤦🏾♂🤯
I am 40 and just had a new baby last year. Her older sister is 3. If I had unprotected sex today I would have another, soo. If you were fertile at 20 it doesn't usually change unless you get your tubes tied. You can get pregnant up until menopause. I'm glad more and more young women are choosing to wait. I enjoy parenthood a lot more now then I did with my first 3 that I had in my early twenties. They need an old head on the show to balance them out. No one on this panel have been on this earth long enough for me to take to seriously. Interesting commentary for entertainment purposes though.
And more children are being born with medical issues because of this selfishness. More ladies dying too.
This is great guys !!!
everybody has more options because of social media. Remember there are more women on this earth than men, so options are in our favor.
Damn every girl an artist??
Yhoohoo.. I got a question, why do men treat their boys better than they treat their woman??
Beginning was deep old girl said I mess with men not ni99as
How successful is the last lady that's a business woman? Is she actually creating cash flow from her business!
Question#1 It is not his responsibility to pay for your child's babysitter. As mature people, if you talk to him and he states he'll do it with no strings attached then that's fine. Mature conversations are one of the issues with today's"relationships". You can't base what type of guy he is based on him paying or not for your babysitter. A lot of today's immature men will be looking for that booty call if they pay for your babysitter.
Raptor Claws is a dead giveaway.
So she had a good man but realized that she didn't want a good man years down the road....after she got money. Check. Women get money and say I don't need a man. Period.
@DailyRapUpCrew yoooooooooo bring chicka next to Ju back as a special guest star she spitn!!!
The fact that she said Ouu is annoying…cuz ik she’s bouta be like “daaamn I never thought about that, well these ngas be outside sooo…women have more options “
The roles have definitely changed. The man needs the woman to go out and work now, he cannot provide it on his own. They also expect the woman to come home after a hard day at work and still handle 100 percent of her wife duties. If we are all being honest, it is not fair.
I disagree with the part of 100% of wife duties. It’s not true anymore. More men are active in household aspects now than ever before. To the point where I honestly think women just use it as a excuse now
@@isaywhatyouafraidto you know you’re wrong in your opinion. Statistics and history are two different meanings. Stats are based on experience which became the history of the progress that has been achieved or ignored by the entire population. I know guys like you rely heavily on statistics, but ask yourself, is stats the true history or people use their opinions to create stats? It’s know in American culture and other culture, women are seen as nurturers, caretakers and suppose to raise children and cook. True only thing the world expect of men are provide and protect. Because many men abandon their kids no matter the circumstances , it’s safe to say that men’s expectations when it comes to marriage is different from their expectations in relationships while women’s expectations for men are the same in both relationships and marriage. Provide and protect those you want respect from.
A lot of these men who expect traditional wives aren't traditional men themselves. If your wife works, you aren't a traditional man and there's no reason why your wife should be handling household duties on her own. You both work.
@@jadamills3243 I haven’t provided a stat but ok
Duties in the household are shared if we’re both working hard and coming home tired.
Having these young airheads on the show no bueno smh