Peb cov poj niam hmoob yeej coj li no tus me niam laus txhob tu siab rau koj lub neej os thov vaj tswv pab foom koob hmoov kom koj tsuas muaj ntsib kev noj qab nyob zoo
Tu Siab tshaj li o hmoob e.cas koj thiab kuv peb yog poj Niam es txawm peb yuav UA zoo npaum li twg Los yus Laus lawm ces tus txiv Siab dub no thiaj coj txoj Kev tsaus ntuj Los rau yus xwb o.
I agreed. His parent's hates me. They are bad parent's to do that. Just do what you do sis. Those people will never change. Also, I wouldn't go get plastics surgery for him. No, I love myself too much. I will not do it for a man.
My husband's family didn't like or approved him to marry me because I am a divorcee. He married me anyways. After a couple of years of marriage, his two sisters got divorced. One cheated on her husband and the other left her husband. Never judge someone based on their past because you never know when it's your turn.
Kraziek Kraykray Funny how some of them elders/siblings disapprove their son/daughter to marry a widow/divorce/family etc. buutttt didn’t realize this could be you or your own child one day. Hmong people are so quick to judge bc of your background. SMH
Hmoob yog ib cov neeg phem tshaj paws li, u ua rxhaum npaum twg los yeej tsi paub qhov txhaum li, thov hlej nej lub ntsej hmoov pov tseg thiab os lawv aw, ua zoo tau zoo ua phem yuav tau qhov phem
Tus viv ncaus koj ua yog lawm cov txiv neej ua ntsia nws tus poj niam tsis nuj nqi li koj tus .nyob nkuaj tsim nyog kawg nws thiaj nco txog thaum ub nws txeeb npaum li cas thiaj tau yus los ntawm lwm tus hluas nraug
This story should hit those that disapprove/dislike of their child/siblings to be with divorces ladies/men’s. Trust some of us, we didn’t want that path to be divorce or known to be one in our community. Some of us want, what you also wanted, is to be an a happy everlasting marriage. It just so happen to be some of us whom had to endure that path or name, b/c either our spouse is abusive/cheater/mama-boy, etc. so please stop the judging & hating. One day it could be you, your own child and your closet family member, or better yet it could be your own parents. The sky is very low, so think before you criticize and hate on someone because of their status.
Hearing about all these types of cosmetic surgeries make my body hurt already. Scary.😩. I'm glad that you were strong to leave your ex-husband. Thank you for not supporting a pervert. I would do what you did, but not the surgeries. LOL.
Peb cov txiv neej tsis xaiv ntsej muag, peb xaiv tus pojniam lub pob tw loj chom cees thiab mis loj oo chom cees ua ke nrog lub plab quav tsawg xwb ces peb sov siab nrog nws ua neeg lawm nawb. Nej pojniam tsis tas yuav mus xaws paum, chais plaub paum, txiav ple, ua caj ntswm, ua plaub muag thiab ua phlu li os..
Your ex mother in law is crazy. Good thing you didnt lied to protect your bastard ex husband or else you'll end up in jail too. He deserved it. Dont let their words get to you. They dont care about what will happen to you if you lied, they only care about their son.
Neb lub neej no mloog zoo li neb ob leeg koom ua rau lawv tus poj niam thiab zoo li neb sib khav neb txog neb tej kev muaj nyiaj.neb sib tw ntiab lawv tus poj niam tawm kom neb txhob raug txim. Neb zaj no twb tsis qhia kom tau ib qhov zoo rau peb khaws kawm ua neej li
Tus viv ncaus aw txog leej twg es leej twg thiaj li paub os mog. Koj tus qub txiv nws ua rau nws ev xwb lub txim mos thiab deev me nyuam ntxhais ces tsis muaj leej twg pab tau kiag li os. Koj yeej ua yog lawm, koj tus qub niam pog yuav foom npaum li cas los tej zaum yuav tsis noj koj vim lawv tus tub twb yog tus nchuav neb lub neej ua ntej. Hos koj tus txiv tshiab nws cov neeg los lawv tsis txawj xav es lawv thiaj li ntxub koj xwb os, txawm li cas los koj tus txiv twb hlub koj ces yog qhov zoo lawm os.
Sister you made the right decision by leaving your ex husband and leaving him. He deserved what he got. Sister, love yourself. Let others do what they want to do. You cannot control what others do or say. Cov niam tij niam ntxawm thiab muam uas ntxub ntxub cem cem yus ua poj nrauj phem ntawd cia txog nws zeeg tso.. Hlub koj tus kheej thiab cov neeg hlub koj xwb. Zoo siab rau koj tus kheej.
Tus mi niam tsev aw yog kj mu sab laj tej teeb meem no rau niam pog txiv yawg ce lawv kawg kaws kiag kj qhov ncauj xb los ma vim tus txhau yog lawv tus tub na ho yog kj txhau ce niam pog txiv yawg twb yuav ntiab kj tawm ua ntej ntag lo ma
Yog nej mus ntseeg vajtswv xwb es nej niam nej txiv foom mas tsis raug nej abtsi kiag li os. Vim tus nej mus ntseeg ntawv yog tus tswv tsim ntuj tsim teb tsim txhua yam thiab yog tus puab (form) nej hauv nej niam lub plab. Lawv yog tus tsis hwm tus tswv es nej mus hwm mas tseev lawv foom. Peb cov no cov laus twb foom2 txog thaum kawg lawv twb los ntseeg tus tswv tag lawm lawv mam paub tias qhov lawv teev yog qhov yuamkev. Mas lawv haj yam ntseeg tshaj.
Why do you care what others say about you? If I make a decision to do something to myself I don't think I care what others say. Like, it wouldn't even be an issue at all if ppl stare me down for a decision I made for myself. If you don't care about it... it won't bother you.
Tus sister yus ua li yus ua tau nyiaj yog yus nyiaj kev ua zoo nkauj yog yus ib niam txiv txaus siab lawm leej twg yuav hais li cas Los tsis k .cov hais hais yus twb ua tsis tau li yus ua khib khib lawv heev kav tsij ua li yus IB niam txiv zoo ua xwb
I hate Hmong people for almost always don't have the courage to stand up for themselves. Please don't live a life of sorrow all the time. Love yourself and defend yourself. People who verbally abuse you deserve no love/respect from you so I suggest you start barking back. Or else, you will be a victim all your life.
Why do you people still care about your husband or wife side to like you guys? Just be happy and care for your spouse, relatives ain’t gonna make you happy.
Vivncaus, koj tus txiv cov teeb meem ntawd koj pab tsis tau nws. Nws tsev neeg yeej paub tias koj pab tsis tau lawv tus tub tiam sis lawv xav siv koj los pab nws xwb. Thaum koj thiab koj tus txiv neb tsis sib hlub tsis sib yuav lawm luag yuav hais li cas rau koj los yeej tau. You made the right decision by walking away.
cas tus niam tsev no yuav muab peb cov yawg nrauj muaj zoo hauj lwm no saib qis ua luaj ne... nej pab tsa tes rau kuv seb yog nej nyiam kuv qhov comment nas
Hais r tus niam tsev ntawv txawm lawv tsi nyiam yus lo tsi k lawm o vim yus twb tsi tos lawv tes noj os ua neeg nyob tsi muaj leej twg yv pom tom neej os neej cov ua pheej ces nyiam cem luag tej thb nyiam mloo lus saib na vim li cs nej ho nyiaj tej tsi zoo los ua ng xb no
Old people don’t understand the lives of their children. No worries about what anyone thinks or said about you as long as you can live with your decisions you are good. No need to try to be the good nyab. Just be yourself.
yog ua cas es cov laus no yuav nyiam foom neeg ua luaj li na.yog luag us txhaum lawm ces tsis tas foom los yeej yuav npam os. hos yog luag tsis tau ua phem ces cov lus yus hais ntawv yuav nphau los rau yus no na.ua ntej yuav hais lus phem rau ib leej tus twg nco ntsoov hais tias tias ntuj muaj 2 qhov muag kawg nawb
Nyias ua nyias ris nyias xwb tsis muaj leej twg yuav hla dhau txoj cai li kuv xav ntshe koj muaj ib lub khuj thiab no es lawv hais koj tsis zoo los muab xav tias yog lawv pab keb koj lub hkuj xwb no
Thats right. You gotta love yourself wome. Do something for you. People's opinions don't pay your bills so do what makes you happy.
Peb cov poj niam hmoob yeej coj li no tus me niam laus txhob tu siab rau koj lub neej os thov vaj tswv pab foom koob hmoov kom koj tsuas muaj ntsib kev noj qab nyob zoo
Koj ua yog lawm nawb
Koj yeej ua yog kawg li lawm
Niam laus aw kuv nyiam mloog heev li os
Koj hais yog kawg lawm os tus niam txiv aws 👍👍
Niam ntsuab teev aw koj zoo kawg li kuv xav kom zoo nkauj li os
Tsis kk leej twg hlub yus ces hlub tus ntawv leej twg ntxub yus Txav deb xwb
Kj hai yog lawm o leej twg lo yeej nyiam zoo nkauj xwb
Hmoob lub qhov ncauj mas dhuav tshaj plaws sim neej no
Don’t get addicted to plastic only the necessary & learn to eat, learn to exercise & strength training to shape your body back
Cov txiv liam2 li ntawv ces ua li koj ua ces yog kawg li lawm os
Kho paum tag los txiv neej twb tsis tawv lawm ces zoo dabtsi naj. Tseg cov Nyiaj mus ncig teb chaw zoo dua lawm.
peb zoo li cas. txaus siab rau peb tus kheej. dhau qhov no peb tsuas ua mob nkees rau peb tus kheej xwb.
Zoo kawg
May you find peace in your life. Glad you moved on and found love and family again. Those elders are never satisfy.
Tus sister aw koj ua yeej yog kawg li lawm os. I am very happy for you.
Tu Siab tshaj li o hmoob e.cas koj thiab kuv peb yog poj Niam es txawm peb yuav UA zoo npaum li twg Los yus Laus lawm ces tus txiv Siab dub no thiaj coj txoj Kev tsaus ntuj Los rau yus xwb o.
I agreed. His parent's hates me. They are bad parent's to do that. Just do what you do sis. Those people will never change. Also, I wouldn't go get plastics surgery for him. No, I love myself too much. I will not do it for a man.
Ua neej txhob cem thiab txhob thuam lwm tus tsam ntuj tig ko diav ces yog yus os nawb.
May tus me sister aw koj mas zoo nkauj heev li os.
Hmoob yeej nyiam hais qhov tsis yog hmoob yeej tsis pom qhov yog pom qhov phem xwb tsuas xav hais qhov tsis zoo xwb tsuas pom qhov phem xwb tab lam hais tej lus tsis muaj tiag .
My husband's family didn't like or approved him to marry me because I am a divorcee. He married me anyways. After a couple of years of marriage, his two sisters got divorced. One cheated on her husband and the other left her husband. Never judge someone based on their past because you never know when it's your turn.
Kraziek Kraykray Funny how some of them elders/siblings disapprove their son/daughter to marry a widow/divorce/family etc. buutttt didn’t realize this could be you or your own child one day. Hmong people are so quick to judge bc of your background. SMH
L y up p
yog lawm os niam laus
Women,
Men will never change a thing for us women, why sacrifice your life for him.
Peb hmoob ib txwm fwm txiv neej xwb txawm yog nrauj ob peb lwm, tabsis tebchaw yeej ntxub tus poj nrauj uas twb yog tim tus txiv ua hluas. Peb yuav tsum tsis txhob muab cov pojniam labeled phem. Tsis yog txhua txhua tus pojniam phem thiab tsis yog txhua txhua tus txiv neej phem.
Hmoob yog ib cov neeg phem tshaj paws li, u ua rxhaum npaum twg los yeej tsi paub qhov txhaum li, thov hlej nej lub ntsej hmoov pov tseg thiab os lawv aw, ua zoo tau zoo ua phem yuav tau qhov phem
Thaum lub neej zoo lawm ces yeej yuav tsum muaj kev nkauj nraug niam yau xwb xwb li thaum txom nyem mas hlub yus kawg tabsi thaum muaj txhuam yam lawm ces niam yau yeej yuav tswm sim
Tus viv ncaus koj ua yog lawm cov txiv neej ua ntsia nws tus poj niam tsis nuj nqi li koj tus .nyob nkuaj tsim nyog kawg nws thiaj nco txog thaum ub nws txeeb npaum li cas thiaj tau yus los ntawm lwm tus hluas nraug
Our Hmong woman must be taught that they don’t need the Hmong community if the Hmong community is like this
Yog kuv muaj nyiaj txaus mas kuv yeej yuav mus kho thiab nawb vim tsis muaj nyiaj xwb is lawv aw
ub cag nej yuav ua kub ua luaj thiab os yom . tab sis koj hais yeej lawm thiab ov ua txhij ua txhua kom yus lub neej txhob puag ntag
U do good
Kuv pab koj khib kawg li os .tab sis koj ua tau zoo heev li os.
Everyone is 100% in their own way. If you're not happy then change xws. Your decisions.
Yog tshaj
This story should hit those that disapprove/dislike of their child/siblings to be with divorces ladies/men’s. Trust some of us, we didn’t want that path to be divorce or known to be one in our community. Some of us want, what you also wanted, is to be an a happy everlasting marriage. It just so happen to be some of us whom had to endure that path or name, b/c either our spouse is abusive/cheater/mama-boy, etc. so please stop the judging & hating. One day it could be you, your own child and your closet family member, or better yet it could be your own parents. The sky is very low, so think before you criticize and hate on someone because of their status.
People in the modern world and the old world can not be together.
Sister you do what you got to do, life is too short, who cares what people say, they don't live in your house they don't wear are your shoes.
Kav tsij ua thaum lwj los tsis yog yus es leej twg ua los nws ua nws es sawv daws txhob cem cem peb mam saib xwb os hmoob
Koj UA yog lawm vim nws xub ntxeev siab rau koj.lawv room Los yeej tsis npam koj
Hearing about all these types of cosmetic surgeries make my body hurt already. Scary.😩. I'm glad that you were strong to leave your ex-husband. Thank you for not supporting a pervert. I would do what you did, but not the surgeries. LOL.
Peb cov txiv neej tsis xaiv ntsej muag, peb xaiv tus pojniam lub pob tw loj chom cees thiab mis loj oo chom cees ua ke nrog lub plab quav tsawg xwb ces peb sov siab nrog nws ua neeg lawm nawb. Nej pojniam tsis tas yuav mus xaws paum, chais plaub paum, txiav ple, ua caj ntswm, ua plaub muag thiab ua phlu li os..
Tejlaus hais tias nyuj ua nyuj thauj nees ua nees ris leejtwg los mus lees tsis tau leejtwg lub txim od.
Lucky the husband did go jailed for sexual assault period. Look at Mr. Harvey cases.
Peb hmoob yeej coj li no os. Peb Hmong yeej tsis paub respect li. Peb hmoob nyiam nyiam tuam ti neeg li.
Kj ua yg lawm viv ncaus
Ua tsis zoo nyob lawm txhua yam Nyiaj xwb thiaj kho tau
Txiv dev liam ua ntshaw22 ua cov mos22 cia lawv muab kaw rau America ua qhov quav ntag li cov ua raug txim ua muab rau niam Ntsuab teev hais ntag.
Some Hmong parents will never see the faults in their sons and that's the sad ass truth.
Yingya Lauj Facts
Yog kawg
Nyob teb chaw no twb paub luag txoj cai es tseem hla dhau ces kawg nyob nkauj xwb .....
Hate those old ladies who don't understand. No wonder my husband said women has issues and like to talk crap about other people.
Peb cov tsis tsev CES thaum lub neej pib zoo. Estwb pib. Phem lawmos
No one lock no one up.. Her husband lock himself up.. Smmmhhh..
Txhob ntxub2 poj nrauj tsam ho tau ua poj nrauj mog vim ntuj nyob qes2 lawm os
Aub yau. .....tus txiv tsev no nyob nkuaj puv sijhawm ces yuav raug xs rov mus nplog teb tiag-tuag laud.
Xav kom koj tu poj niam ceev ceev ces txhob ntshaw me nyuam xwb tiag....tu tsis muaj me nyuam nej twb tsis yuav thiab ne....neeg lub siab yeej phem
Lawv ua mob lawv nqaij xwb mas ua cas niam mob mob nej siab thiab na
I don't understand why us woman always run to the husband's family. Of course they will side with their own child.
Tej zaum nej tsis paub tej zaum nws tso mam npis rau rab phom lawm ces poj niam txaus2 siab ne.
Your ex mother in law is crazy. Good thing you didnt lied to protect your bastard ex husband or else you'll end up in jail too. He deserved it. Dont let their words get to you. They dont care about what will happen to you if you lied, they only care about their son.
Tsis Tim tus txiv neej xwb os. Yeej Tim tus Poj niam xwb vim tus poj niam no nws ntsaw2 koj lub neej xwb yeej Tim ob leeg
Hmong cov laus yeej coj li thaum kawg thiaj dai tuag mas.
Nyias ua nyias nyias muab nyias nyiaj mus ua. Cov thuam yog cov khib xwb.
Nim no ces ntshe poj muaj tag tug li o
Twb yog koj muaj peev xwm txawj ntse khwv tau nyiaj koj thiaj mus kho tau koj tus kheej. Lawv cem koj vim lawv tsis muaj nyiaj es khib2 lawv na
thaum ub mas hais tias xav zoo nkauj kawg los vim txua tsis tau no ne es tam sim no twb txua tau lawm ne . ntshe tsis muaj nyiaj xwb os
Tamsim no ntuj nyob qes2 lawm leej twg tsa ncauj thaum ib tug pojnrauj tim ntsej tim muag yam tsis muaj kev hlub tshua txog mas npam sai tiag2 li.
Khes ua dab tsi nawj, cov niam pog txiv yawg coj li no. Tsis txhob hlub cov neeg ntawd. Txog thaum kawg cia kom lawv los pe koj tso, mam tham tom qab.
I don’t blame u sis.. I would do the same too
Tshuav ib qho xav kom nej muab ib qho nqaij los puab nej qho chaw ua nerj kom loj thiab vim peb cov txiv neej ntshaw2 loj
Ntuj aws.....txawm yog niam nkauj zag .....niam nkauj qaum ntuj lo yug tau ib cov me nyuam ces yeej tsis zoo nkauj rau txiv neej os
Leej twg yuav hais li cas los xij nyias ua rau nyias xwb tsis quav ntsej os
Neb lub neej no mloog zoo li neb ob leeg koom ua rau lawv tus poj niam thiab zoo li neb sib khav neb txog neb tej kev muaj nyiaj.neb sib tw ntiab lawv tus poj niam tawm kom neb txhob raug txim. Neb zaj no twb tsis qhia kom tau ib qhov zoo rau peb khaws kawm ua neej li
Tus viv ncaus aw txog leej twg es leej twg thiaj li paub os mog. Koj tus qub txiv nws ua rau nws ev xwb lub txim mos thiab deev me nyuam ntxhais ces tsis muaj leej twg pab tau kiag li os. Koj yeej ua yog lawm, koj tus qub niam pog yuav foom npaum li cas los tej zaum yuav tsis noj koj vim lawv tus tub twb yog tus nchuav neb lub neej ua ntej. Hos koj tus txiv tshiab nws cov neeg los lawv tsis txawj xav es lawv thiaj li ntxub koj xwb os, txawm li cas los koj tus txiv twb hlub koj ces yog qhov zoo lawm os.
Txhua tus yeej xav zoo nkauj tus thuam ces yog tsis muaj nyiaj xwb.
Sister you made the right decision by leaving your ex husband and leaving him. He deserved what he got.
Sister, love yourself. Let others do what they want to do. You cannot control what others do or say. Cov niam tij niam ntxawm thiab muam uas ntxub ntxub cem cem yus ua poj nrauj phem ntawd cia txog nws zeeg tso..
Hlub koj tus kheej thiab cov neeg hlub koj xwb. Zoo siab rau koj tus kheej.
Tus mi niam tsev aw yog kj mu sab laj tej teeb meem no rau niam pog txiv yawg ce lawv kawg kaws kiag kj qhov ncauj xb los ma vim tus txhau yog lawv tus tub na ho yog kj txhau ce niam pog txiv yawg twb yuav ntiab kj tawm ua ntej ntag lo ma
Hmoob mas yeej phem thiab khib tshaj plaws!! Ntxim ntxhub dhau! Nrog koj zoo siab koj mus hloov tau koj zoo nkauj os!! Tsuav yog koj tus txiv tseem hlub koj ces zoo os mog..
Kuv twb xav xav mus ua kuv 2 lub mis thiab txiv neej mas nyiam heev
Yog nej mus ntseeg vajtswv xwb es nej niam nej txiv foom mas tsis raug nej abtsi kiag li os. Vim tus nej mus ntseeg ntawv yog tus tswv tsim ntuj tsim teb tsim txhua yam thiab yog tus puab (form) nej hauv nej niam lub plab. Lawv yog tus tsis hwm tus tswv es nej mus hwm mas tseev lawv foom. Peb cov no cov laus twb foom2 txog thaum kawg lawv twb los ntseeg tus tswv tag lawm lawv mam paub tias qhov lawv teev yog qhov yuamkev. Mas lawv haj yam ntseeg tshaj.
These in-laws. Heard too many Hmong in-laws cursing their daughter in-laws but never accept responsibility for their own sons wrongdoing. SMH!!
Maya Lor
That’s why the sons never learn but yet they always expect the DIL to change and always support their son.
Stupid ways of them OGs!
Why do you care what others say about you? If I make a decision to do something to myself I don't think I care what others say. Like, it wouldn't even be an issue at all if ppl stare me down for a decision I made for myself. If you don't care about it... it won't bother you.
Cas peb cov old people no tseem. Nyob lub ntuj qub qab ruam2 nes. Twb nyob USA lawm nas.
😍😍
Nyuj ua nyuj thawj nees ua nees ris xwb os me viv ncaus aw!!
Tus sister yus ua li yus ua tau nyiaj yog yus nyiaj kev ua zoo nkauj yog yus ib niam txiv txaus siab lawm leej twg yuav hais li cas Los tsis k .cov hais hais yus twb ua tsis tau li yus ua khib khib lawv heev kav tsij ua li yus IB niam txiv zoo ua xwb
I hate Hmong people for almost always don't have the courage to stand up for themselves. Please don't live a life of sorrow all the time. Love yourself and defend yourself. People who verbally abuse you deserve no love/respect from you so I suggest you start barking back. Or else, you will be a victim all your life.
Do what ever makes you feel good
Why do you people still care about your husband or wife side to like you guys? Just be happy and care for your spouse, relatives ain’t gonna make you happy.
Txog lawv thib mas liam tshaj koj os me muam. Tej tus tseem yuav dai tuag thiab.
Vivncaus, koj tus txiv cov teeb meem ntawd koj pab tsis tau nws. Nws tsev neeg yeej paub tias koj pab tsis tau lawv tus tub tiam sis lawv xav siv koj los pab nws xwb. Thaum koj thiab koj tus txiv neb tsis sib hlub tsis sib yuav lawm luag yuav hais li cas rau koj los yeej tau. You made the right decision by walking away.
cas tus niam tsev no yuav muab peb cov yawg nrauj muaj zoo hauj lwm no saib qis ua luaj ne... nej pab tsa tes rau kuv seb yog nej nyiam kuv qhov comment nas
Hais r tus niam tsev ntawv txawm lawv tsi nyiam yus lo tsi k lawm o vim yus twb tsi tos lawv tes noj os ua neeg nyob tsi muaj leej twg yv pom tom neej os neej cov ua pheej ces nyiam cem luag tej thb nyiam mloo lus saib na vim li cs nej ho nyiaj tej tsi zoo los ua ng xb no
Old people don’t understand the lives of their children. No worries about what anyone thinks or said about you as long as you can live with your decisions you are good. No need to try to be the good nyab. Just be yourself.
yog ua cas es cov laus no yuav nyiam foom neeg ua luaj li na.yog luag us txhaum lawm ces tsis tas foom los yeej yuav npam os. hos yog luag tsis tau ua phem ces cov lus yus hais ntawv yuav nphau los rau yus no na.ua ntej yuav hais lus phem rau ib leej tus twg nco ntsoov hais tias tias ntuj muaj 2 qhov muag kawg nawb
Free for everyone
Zoo heev li o
Nyias ua nyias ris nyias xwb tsis muaj leej twg yuav hla dhau txoj cai li kuv xav ntshe koj muaj ib lub khuj thiab no es lawv hais koj tsis zoo los muab xav tias yog lawv pab keb koj lub hkuj xwb no
Vidncaus, kuv txhawb koj lub zog, txhob tag kev cia siab. Cov neeg thuam2 koj ntawd mag npam khaum sai2. Koj tus ex qhov teebmeem yog nws cuab vojhlua rov khi nws xwb, vim txoj kev npam 1 yam nkaus.