That scene sure was a choice - The Darkness Outside Us, a book review

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  • @anilexx
    @anilexx 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    “im allowed to say this because im homosexual but a little homophobia is hot.” LMAOOOOO kodiak having some sprinkle of internalized homophobia would fit w his character. just finished this book in one day and i agree, though the characters weren't so relatable the mystery part was really good and made it a page turner. love ur perpetually sarcastic/humorous (?) way of speaking.
    i did only skim and basically ignored the “welcomed” convo bc [vaguely gestures to nothing] i think it was unnecessary and didn't think/interest me much, but i found it interesting what u talked about here and made me think about it more. this was worth the watch (also as a reader and a not-native english speaker i love when you'd use the google voice for the correct pronunciation 😭)

  • @lostshoeinwoods8017
    @lostshoeinwoods8017 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Wow you’re editing is great! So many books are like “we swear it’s not the US! Promise see we changed the name…Nothing to do with the Cold War at all now ” lol

    • @obviouslyqueer
      @obviouslyqueer  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh thank you! That's so sweet!
      Hahaha exactly 💯

  • @daisidixon1419
    @daisidixon1419 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I adore everything about this video! I think you hit the nail on the head here. I wish more readers (and creators) would think about this topic more and realize how intrusive sexual questions are harmful to queer people. I would love for the author to watch this video and hear his comments, because you make such wonderful points!

    • @obviouslyqueer
      @obviouslyqueer  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you a lot for this comment! So glad you enjoyed it. The thing with this book/quote is that I'm sure the author had really good intentions, but still it fell flat, and that's in many ways even more interesting then a simple homophobic passage. These subjects are so complex that even things written by queer people can end up, yeah... heteronormative af

  • @rz5293
    @rz5293 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    What an interesting take! I thought that scene was totally ironic, with Ambrose's dialogue written to sound kind of obnoxious to highlight the that the Federation is kind of stuck up and hoity toity for no reason even though they're hypocritical.

  • @neptunehenriksen
    @neptunehenriksen ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This is so great! As a writer myself, I'm obsessed with hearing people's views on queer desire, and queer sex, as all of my writing has some depiction of sex. Tack så mycket for your video, lots to think about for me.

    • @obviouslyqueer
      @obviouslyqueer  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! I'm so glad you enjoyed it and that it could be of help to you!

  • @buihuy5211
    @buihuy5211 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I think... The book was a "sci-fi" first and then the "romance" come second. You are right that the romance feel rush, but I also think that it only play a part to push the plot forward. Kodiak being a little bit gay closet would be fun, but I don't think it's never the main focal point of the story. And the way they only ever develop a more romantic relationship after they found out about their situation is, I think more than enough reason for me, at least

  • @ioanam2730
    @ioanam2730 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    omg just found your channel and i love your style and vibe
    and also the topics you address

    • @obviouslyqueer
      @obviouslyqueer  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh thank you! I'm so glad, welcome!

  • @SomeoneDD
    @SomeoneDD 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'd love one of these analysis about the subject Top/Bottom but in lesbian fanfiction. It's something that bothers me a lot because it's falling in the same trap of heteronormativity.
    Love your analysis. Subscribed!

    • @obviouslyqueer
      @obviouslyqueer  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Mhm!!! For sure! That would be super interesting!
      Thank you 🙏💞

  • @irene7558
    @irene7558 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Loved this so much! I never see people talking about these topics so openly, but it's so so so needed!! (Also, is that a sagittarius necklace :) ?)

    • @obviouslyqueer
      @obviouslyqueer  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much! ☺️💞
      (And it's either Pieces or Virgo! Can't remember which I wore and I can't really see the difference hahah)

  • @saraferreira7572
    @saraferreira7572 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Don’t be shy, talk abt all for the game this is a safe space🧡😭

    • @obviouslyqueer
      @obviouslyqueer  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you hahaha 😭 I'm actually thinking of rereading them, cannot stop thinking about those mf psychos

    • @saraferreira7572
      @saraferreira7572 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@obviouslyqueer I know right, it’s smt abt them that you can’t let go. The amount of fanfics I’ve read abt them is concerning🫠

  • @tedddybear
    @tedddybear หลายเดือนก่อน

    Seeing the welcoming/donating scene written out makes it so much worse omg. I listened to the audiobook and while I was still cringing a little, the voice actor did a good job of portraying Ambrose as more facetious/understanding the way he was coming off

  • @adhdaniel
    @adhdaniel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Just finished reading the book and I have to agree with every word you said on you video.
    To be honest, I consider that to be the minor [of many] problems of this story, narratively speaking. As I finished it, I went online to try and see what the general opinion was, and unsurprisingly (and sadly) I found out that a lot of people are amazed by It...
    I enjoyed the premise of the story, not a big fan of the characters, though. There was a good portion of depiction of what was happening to them, and too little of their characters being developed/connecting. Therefore, dialogs sounded mostly cringy and somewhat forced. And that's on the author account.
    The story is good, but had serious narrative problems. It felt like the author had a lot of good ideas about where he wanted the story to go, but didn't quite executed them to perfection. Which led to a lackluster finale.
    As Stehpen King says "writing is rewriting", this book could've used a bit of rewriting and editing.

    • @obviouslyqueer
      @obviouslyqueer  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well agree with you back. The more I think about this book the more I feel how underdeveloped the characters where. As said in the video I really liked the idea/the premiss/the story, and I enjoyed the book, but a lot of the emotional effect the book could have had disappeared since the relationship didn't work. We got to be a part of them getting to know each other the first time yeah, but what about the other times? I was just supposed to copy paste those interactions?
      You put it into words very well and I agree the ending was very rushed, anti-climatic and a bit silly tbh. Thanks a lot for your comment!

    • @adhdaniel
      @adhdaniel 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@obviouslyqueer
      When you talked about how he missed the mark on challenging how we think about tops/bottoms, I remembered something I always have in mind when I'm come across a story that could've been better.
      I reckon as readers our minds are a high value real estate... Well written books don't give me the head space to be editing the writing/story/structure. And whenever this happens, it's at the expense of the suspension of disbelief, and the reading tend to be rather less immersive, if at all.
      I wonder, have you gone through something similar while reading it!? Editing the story while reading it.
      That donated/welcomed thing made me shed tears of blood when I read it.
      Thanks a lot for your reply! I really love your content, the editing is superb, the humor, the references. I learn a lot from them.
      Fantastik!

    • @obviouslyqueer
      @obviouslyqueer  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@adhdaniel I missed this comment, thanks so much again for your kind words! It mean the world!
      I really like the way you put it, how a really good book doesn't give you the space needed to start editing it. Cause I do that to, a lot. Sometimes I catch myself starting to create a completely different scene all together, something I would find more fitting or compelling.

  • @SpringboardThought
    @SpringboardThought 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Haha always love your videos and this is no different. Love the cuts to the “states”. Preeettty wild radical inclusion… I agree with you. I assumed it was like a comical translation error when I first heard about this.

    • @SpringboardThought
      @SpringboardThought 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shifted to a much more serious discussion on the topic after the start and I thought it was really thoughtful. Thanks for your thoughts. I thought this was a great essay.

    • @obviouslyqueer
      @obviouslyqueer  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much, I'm glad you liked it. It means a lot.
      The scene do feels comical but the subject is not, so I wanted to make it both comical and quite serious. Have you read the book? Or just heard about the scene?

    • @SpringboardThought
      @SpringboardThought 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@obviouslyqueer I have only heard of the scene, the book sounded faaaamiliar, probably because the “conversation” (on Twitter) was mostly dragging the terms.

  • @CestKevvie
    @CestKevvie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Wow that scene was so awkward...

    • @obviouslyqueer
      @obviouslyqueer  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Just two bros in space having a normal conversation 🤙

  • @JonsefMobuto
    @JonsefMobuto ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I think Diktonomy is more fun for a video 🎉

  • @lindysmagpiereads
    @lindysmagpiereads 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Perks of Being a Wall Bottom 😂👍

  • @jofridmar2844
    @jofridmar2844 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Everything about this video is 💯🔥

  • @hashtagwoke8506
    @hashtagwoke8506 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You mispronouncing words is so charming lol

    • @obviouslyqueer
      @obviouslyqueer  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hahah thanks 💞 it's one of my special talents

  • @KeiraAndGeo
    @KeiraAndGeo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    quality content as always ❤️

    • @obviouslyqueer
      @obviouslyqueer  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      From a quality subscriber!! 😭

    • @KeiraAndGeo
      @KeiraAndGeo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@obviouslyqueer 😊😊

  • @artaquino6388
    @artaquino6388 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gurl you're so funny😂

  • @Maisonbleuedame193
    @Maisonbleuedame193 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was too funny lmfao

  • @altheasussman2770
    @altheasussman2770 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Few details wrong at the beginning there...