"EVERYBODY CANT GO!!!" BENNY TALKS DIVORCE & GIVES HIS EXPERT ADVICE ON KEEPING A WOMAN!!!

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  • @conversationswithzo
    @conversationswithzo ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Benny the Counselor

    • @SirTizzy
      @SirTizzy ปีที่แล้ว

      THE COUNSELOR COMING LOLOLOL!!!

    • @conversationswithzo
      @conversationswithzo ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SirTizzy we need the OG’s to give us these 💎

    • @SystemChannel
      @SystemChannel ปีที่แล้ว

      The counselor coming nigga!

    • @greenmoney5018
      @greenmoney5018 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂

    • @conversationswithzo
      @conversationswithzo ปีที่แล้ว

      Those take the gems great those who don’t it is what it is

  • @NazeemSpencerJoles
    @NazeemSpencerJoles ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Bennys a real one he aint on here gossiping complaining about mumble rap n shit. He's just speaking his truth

    • @youngeli2559
      @youngeli2559 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea he even say ts way easier den actually spitting

  • @cousinchris5851
    @cousinchris5851 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    You can tell Butcher a grown a** man. He's so comfortable in his own skin. He ain't trying to sound NYC or ignorant and standing on his own rhetoric frfr

  • @roboliver1378
    @roboliver1378 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    5 to 50 is one my favorites from Benny

  • @JacksonSiv-sp2wh
    @JacksonSiv-sp2wh ปีที่แล้ว +40

    His advice he's giving is so accurate and is the key to a solid relationship. I have experienced it, and until anyone experiences it, then you will get it!

    • @alfredschnozzenstein1657
      @alfredschnozzenstein1657 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      With all due respect, I disagree. "A smart person learns from their mistakes, a wise person learns from the mistakes of others".

    • @jacksonsiv6203
      @jacksonsiv6203 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alfredschnozzenstein1657 I see! Only the validation of an author by the name of John C. Maxwell that came up with this quote holds more weight than anyhting else. That's what I'm getting. Interesting comment.

  • @Partyof1ne
    @Partyof1ne ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Math's jacket is fire! 🔥

  • @greedigrindin680
    @greedigrindin680 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Thank you math and Benny I needed this because I'm facing divorce

    • @wonwenlost
      @wonwenlost ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Hold strong my brudddda

    • @3xdope418
      @3xdope418 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      been thru it...hold ya head....high...

    • @DM-lj2mn
      @DM-lj2mn ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Been there bro it gets better trust me

    • @koobreeze5034
      @koobreeze5034 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Stay 💪mayne!

    • @TheSstretch68
      @TheSstretch68 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      STAY UP!!!!

  • @fallinstr2098
    @fallinstr2098 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    As a female I can def confirm that 5 to 50 song is the Griselda/Benny love song ❤ That song hit the heart fr

    • @CharlesLeeRayy
      @CharlesLeeRayy ปีที่แล้ว

      Thats all u learned from this interview

    • @xbabu142x
      @xbabu142x ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CharlesLeeRayyRay well that's who he wrote it for, straight women, that's his his ex-wife now but on the song I mean. The song is a feel-good song for the women, it's more like what did you learn?

    • @1DealWitDee
      @1DealWitDee ปีที่แล้ว

      Wasn’t the first song I heard from him but definitely the one that made me a fan!

    • @deandrecrosby1157
      @deandrecrosby1157 ปีที่แล้ว

      You right, Tht India is one of his most heart-felt songs 💪🏾💯

  • @kg6987
    @kg6987 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Shoutout Benny and the whole Griselda crew, keep that real rap shit alive

  • @cutnclearllc
    @cutnclearllc ปีที่แล้ว +5

    More grown men need to dialogue in this way , to share information to help each one grow and learn how to maneuver.

  • @mrdanshote
    @mrdanshote ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Compatibility and communication is key

    • @davidjohnson36st
      @davidjohnson36st ปีที่แล้ว +5

      And "Compromise" the 3 Cs

    • @mrdanshote
      @mrdanshote ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Correct definitely forgot about compromise

    • @zackbrian8012
      @zackbrian8012 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@davidjohnson36st If compatibility is there, there is no need to compromise and it's detrimental anyways. You only compromise when you're not compatible.

    • @coreymccraw8004
      @coreymccraw8004 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Compatibility does not remove the need to compromise, it just makes it easier. It's the grease that allows the gears to turn smoothly with minimal friction. Compromise is necessary in any relationship, especially long term.

    • @zackbrian8012
      @zackbrian8012 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@coreymccraw8004 Compatibility means that both of you in the relationship don't have to change for each other to make it work harmonically. It also means that you naturally support each other on whatever you guys are into. Compatibility = Harmony, so already, if it's harmonious, there is no need for any change (comprimise included) since it's already harmonious... Now ofcourse, nothing is perfect or last forever...

  • @sunwalla77
    @sunwalla77 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Look at the town being represented 💪🏿🐐

    • @Haze-vi6ng
      @Haze-vi6ng ปีที่แล้ว

      Stop acting like y’all always accepted them lame ass niggas

    • @ryanmast1669
      @ryanmast1669 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Transit Road up in here!!! Orchard Park!!! Old school Buffalo… Grandpops was from 1st Ward!!!

    • @bradytomaz
      @bradytomaz ปีที่แล้ว +1

      #BigBSF

    • @yngsportsandhiphopchannel7918
      @yngsportsandhiphopchannel7918 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Easy side buffalo baby Walden ave

    • @PeBo526
      @PeBo526 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      East side Bailey Ave and Doat St all day

  • @yartadee50
    @yartadee50 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You're a soldier and a G, The Most High always got YOUR 🔙. Peace brother Benny

  • @aundraythomas3233
    @aundraythomas3233 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I like this energy and convo, tell these women you cant know everything jus enough...you wont understand everybody cant go to 💯🔥salute the butch and meo

    • @3xdope418
      @3xdope418 ปีที่แล้ว

      when of them lessons i learned as a teen...from my Mother...most people cant handle the truth...

  • @lilchris617
    @lilchris617 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Deep conversation! Dropped mad jewels

  • @donpapito9504
    @donpapito9504 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Math said stop kicking niggaz and kick it with your woman 😂

  • @janelleJWhite1010
    @janelleJWhite1010 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I can't wait for this full episode 🖤🖤🖤

  • @bobd9116
    @bobd9116 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    oh man been waiting on a Benny episode!

  • @thedutchman1302
    @thedutchman1302 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Mecca always tryna come with some “high science” perspective…Mecca you know damn well you ain’t no RELATIONSHIP EXPERT! You ain’t no COUNSELLING😂😂😂😂

    • @oNedrous_oNe
      @oNedrous_oNe ปีที่แล้ว

      ..|| a certified bozo ......

  • @lolsmh3977
    @lolsmh3977 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Great Episode!!! Real wisdom and knowledge. May The LORD bless Yall.

  • @savydayz5835
    @savydayz5835 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    That's the scary thing about life the ups the downs the turn arounds and the failure's the obstacles I agree compatibility is a must or it's just forcing relationships will always be tricky

  • @thraxx1982
    @thraxx1982 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Yo Yo Yo.....
    "India", I always perceived as a love song. NATURALLY..
    "5 to 50" though... I know India is on it... Would've never took it as a love song though..... That put my brain in a whole new space when defining the word "LOVE".
    G TEXT!!!!
    🎙️👑💪🏾💯

  • @dwiggles1
    @dwiggles1 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    He wasn’t lying about shit being thrown in your face during an argument.

    • @dwiggles1
      @dwiggles1 ปีที่แล้ว

      @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart2.05 🤖

  • @furiousrobinson
    @furiousrobinson ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Communication is key!

  • @themiltongroupstudios7943
    @themiltongroupstudios7943 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ahiiite Benny , the comments on relationships was on point …… I dig it Bro …Salute ✊🏿

  • @Sheisty25
    @Sheisty25 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I recently* realized i'm not interested in a women with no drive or hustle in them.

    • @Sheisty25
      @Sheisty25 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Damn purpose vs quality time hit home.

  • @DiceB
    @DiceB ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The jewelry noise is crazy loll

  • @toteknowledge
    @toteknowledge ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Homie in blue jacket trying his best to get his thoughts heard

  • @pragmaticmessenger
    @pragmaticmessenger ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Benny is speaking from a real mature and informed perspective. In regards to quality time, that's why so many women want a man with a giant bag who' can afford to take time off or can make they're own schedules. I had to realign my purpose and vision after this realization. SO to the whole crew on this one.

    • @sontwisted
      @sontwisted ปีที่แล้ว +15

      But thats not how that works to hetvthat big bag requires alot of your time so does maintaining it so you wont have a bunch of free time

    • @qigonglungz
      @qigonglungz ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​​​@@sontwistedFacts...I run my own business... Every now and then I take advantage of being an owner and take a day off... But IT COSTS... Thankfully I'm with someone who came up with me from nothing as opposed to someone who looking for a bag and got they eyes on me and just think I'm handsome. Money and looks get old l, and if this bag seeker ain't on your level, you gonna get hurt.

    • @pragmaticmessenger
      @pragmaticmessenger ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sontwisted I hear you bro, ain't no diminishing the grind or the hustle just break EVEN nowadays and I agree with you %100. I'm just saying that, a lot of women are looking for that dude that can not only adjust schedules or afford them but prioritize them and drop stacks on them. Not saying every woman but a lot of AMERICAN and western women have fallen in to this mindset of looking for that "perfect dude" with 12 figures and 12 inches of you catch my drift. At the end of the day, I look at my hustling different to give more context for what I want out of the future. I know I gotta get a bag that will allow me to invest and get residual and passive income from what I'm doing. I'm trying to work hard AND smart so I don't have to grind the same way when I'm 55-60 ya dig? I want to retire somewhere where the girls take care of you and your money stretch a lot further. That's what I was getting at.

  • @btienterprises9306
    @btienterprises9306 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He said the realist stuff you need someone who is compatible with you first and foremost or it won’t work

  • @nonbeliever4593
    @nonbeliever4593 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Griselda Saved The Game 🦂⚖️🥁🎻

  • @benniejward
    @benniejward ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I need Westside Gunn, Conway or Roc Marciano on this. 🔥

  • @13RevolutionRadio
    @13RevolutionRadio ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That was DOPE!!!

  • @jfraz1992
    @jfraz1992 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He’s definitely right about compatibility, just because u love them doesn’t mean it’s gonna work out, they have to be able to grow with u

  • @AshG000
    @AshG000 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Shoutout to India! She’s A real one

  • @davidlee3148
    @davidlee3148 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I needed this 💯

  • @robinlove2452
    @robinlove2452 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I felt Everything He Said! Cause its Facts.

  • @CLoDubai
    @CLoDubai ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Upstate/Western NY on the map

    • @HoweyJR_
      @HoweyJR_ ปีที่แล้ว

      Buffalo x Rochester on the map foh with that WNY UPSTATE garbage

    • @CLoDubai
      @CLoDubai ปีที่แล้ว

      @@HoweyJR_ fuck you talking about 585 n 716 both western NY aka Upstate

    • @CLoDubai
      @CLoDubai ปีที่แล้ว

      @@HoweyJR_ all Upstate NY ain’t Roc and Buff so we say western NY to be clear.

    • @CLoDubai
      @CLoDubai ปีที่แล้ว

      And I’m C-Lo Dubai Aka Upstate Original one of the best from the Roc…how the fuck you gon tell me what we are up here?

  • @mcook-69don
    @mcook-69don ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mecca mentioned ain't no villains in that certain aspect made me think of the new musiq soulchild album. It's called villains and that jawn🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @Built_on_a_rock
    @Built_on_a_rock ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow. I just looked up at my
    Name lol. Meant to be!!!😂😂

    • @Wghost99
      @Wghost99 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I told Virgil write brick in my brick

    • @MonsieurDePhocas.
      @MonsieurDePhocas. ปีที่แล้ว

      Crack in my crack

  • @YoungAlmighty
    @YoungAlmighty ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Benny is that nigga. Needed to see this to really see how i resonate with his perspective. - YA

  • @poochiecopperskinshawty3039
    @poochiecopperskinshawty3039 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Gotta get outta New York lol how u scared of ya lady 🤣🤣🤣🤣 9:41

  • @Corlene1985
    @Corlene1985 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dude with the dredds on point with it.

  • @denard1878
    @denard1878 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Real facts I don't know how many times people told me I'm acting Hollywood over D.M.'s I never seen because I had other people running my social media page's which made me have to separate myself from people because they would check the messages but never tell me about them. SMH

  • @papadeezopty
    @papadeezopty ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Babygirl got to know it's on a need to know basis...💯🤜🏿🇵🇦🇵🇦🇵🇦🇵🇦🇵🇦

  • @Ggrate89
    @Ggrate89 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mr. Hoffa jacket is fire🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @amani7724
    @amani7724 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Shoutout to India !! 🫡

  • @filaspeaks1094
    @filaspeaks1094 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Benny samuels 😂😂

  • @randybarnes4440
    @randybarnes4440 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jewelz on Jewelz in this Jawn!

  • @JohnNelson-iz5wp
    @JohnNelson-iz5wp ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That hat, crazy math got on shit 🔥

  • @BlOoDr3DxViSiOn
    @BlOoDr3DxViSiOn ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I teach my women,they learn my knowledge is now there’s my wisdom is there power Gods and Goddesses The story

  • @shodland6278
    @shodland6278 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My favorite interview byfar

  • @Ayyeeeooo
    @Ayyeeeooo ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This why Dolph was different. He stayed with his same woman thru all the riches & signed his lil cousins everybody else preach leaving their ppl & have excuses for it Dolph stayed true . Can say the same for nip

  • @BillionDollarPhone1
    @BillionDollarPhone1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you math.

  • @kxngbenjy6278
    @kxngbenjy6278 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    5 Love Languages
    Words of affirmation
    Quality time
    Receiving gifts
    Acts of service
    Physical touch
    Peace amazing Beings

  • @peplu7110
    @peplu7110 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bx in da building.much love family Black Power.bx🏆💜🌎🎬📺🎶📚📰🔥💯💣🎊✨️👑🌹🖤

  • @conversationswithzo
    @conversationswithzo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When you get out each other way it will work

  • @redhoode.n.y.6314
    @redhoode.n.y.6314 ปีที่แล้ว

    Maff😂😂😂😂 "cause your always in the dojo"

  • @yonelyon2607
    @yonelyon2607 ปีที่แล้ว

    Benny spitting facts bro y’all just have to listen. You naming specifics and Benny is giving you the blueprint. Loyalty, support and non interference.

  • @THEREALDEACONFROST
    @THEREALDEACONFROST ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “THE COUNSELOR COMIN N*GGA!” #THEFAMILY x
    #BSF 🤟🏿🦍💯

  • @Zho_Nomics
    @Zho_Nomics ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mecca you don’t want to die alone

  • @jasoncolbert3279
    @jasoncolbert3279 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best interview yet,good build !!

  • @justusshabazz-allah4074
    @justusshabazz-allah4074 ปีที่แล้ว

    I never expected this from a guy named Benny the butcher Dope clip #lefrakcityluv

  • @jabarinewson9699
    @jabarinewson9699 ปีที่แล้ว

    Factz they saying real shit

  • @dav1ll3
    @dav1ll3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another Grieselda love song “Richard Porter”🔥🔥🔥

  • @conversationswithzo
    @conversationswithzo ปีที่แล้ว +9

    No woman comes before your purpose
    Math you got me now my brother
    Phenomenal show

  • @3xdope418
    @3xdope418 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hoffa n them going to another level w expert relationship advice...featuring....Dr. Benny...da butcher nigg@....

  • @filaspeaks1094
    @filaspeaks1094 ปีที่แล้ว

    Math brought the 304s to the studio 😂😂😂

  • @chumajamesnxele106
    @chumajamesnxele106 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "It's hard being genuine, when y'all being feminine/like they picked up the traits of the broads they be chilling with..."
    That bar hit me so deep🔥

  • @Virtualcritic111
    @Virtualcritic111 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Get alchemist on here

  • @theswindler031
    @theswindler031 ปีที่แล้ว

    Benny Talkin 💯💯💯

  • @arkansasceltic
    @arkansasceltic ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Benny need to stop playing and drop that song he got with Drake! I know that shit heat and gone do numbers💯

    • @glory1270able
      @glory1270able ปีที่แล้ว

      they played that joint real quick on IG and scrubbed the net,never heard it again 😢

  • @johnhurd4878
    @johnhurd4878 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That’s a Griselda love song gotta be an actual song title Benny.

  • @GDOLLAS757
    @GDOLLAS757 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    8:06 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @OneBreathAAT
    @OneBreathAAT ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Circle got smaller everybody can’t go

  • @ikehall9513
    @ikehall9513 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great topic

  • @KlassiKemcee
    @KlassiKemcee ปีที่แล้ว +1

    $100 says Math will definitely ask why he allowed J.Cole to say he's the best rapper on his own record 😆 🤣

  • @GASMANGWAP
    @GASMANGWAP ปีที่แล้ว +4

    They needa stop bleeping out da cuss words.

  • @innovatorinternational3688
    @innovatorinternational3688 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    If you can’t teach her, you can’t keep her.

  • @respectthespliff5123
    @respectthespliff5123 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mecca be finding me w/ his gems

  • @victorboone2053
    @victorboone2053 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What you want for a chick ain't what she needs!

  • @davidgogo2841
    @davidgogo2841 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stop kicking ppl for 3 nights a week and kick it with your shorty lol

  • @kcee1286
    @kcee1286 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just gotta have the right one for you

  • @OpenMynd82
    @OpenMynd82 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is a very slippery slope conversation... there are no absolutes..and you cant generalize too much in this relationship conversation wether its love or homies...u gotta treat each relationship accordingly...there are no Specific things to do or be...and there are no right or wrong answers... u basically have to do what makes sense for each individual relationship... no one can tell u what to do nor should u let them.. read the ROOM in your life and make the right choices

  • @kaytwo_oh_three3047
    @kaytwo_oh_three3047 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bigga needa tlk more i like hearen word from the wise

  • @Imaionclarke
    @Imaionclarke ปีที่แล้ว

    This tuff

  • @Thomas-y1c
    @Thomas-y1c 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    5to50 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @chopthefather5355
    @chopthefather5355 ปีที่แล้ว

    India and 5 to 5 Top 5 Benny tracks for me

  • @jerseyscout9566
    @jerseyscout9566 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t like how Hoffa is pushing the narrative that Benny has to make love songs to blow up. He’s a millionaire off staying true to his craft and genre of music. The real gone support the real. If I want to listen to something for the ladies I’m turning on R and B.

  • @kincamell
    @kincamell ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Heavy
    Needs > Wants

  • @jhh997
    @jhh997 ปีที่แล้ว

    So much respect for Benny he’s talking real facts about relationships! Idk wtf dreadlocks talking about you can’t put a women b4 your purpose, y can’t u give a women quality time jus cuz u have a “purpose “ smh with that mentality he’ll be single for a while

  • @IAMVONNO
    @IAMVONNO ปีที่แล้ว

    This definitely real

  • @keisersay3752
    @keisersay3752 ปีที่แล้ว

    💯💯💯

  • @justintime7673
    @justintime7673 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Is mecc still dating Men ?

  • @ishmailirizarry6912
    @ishmailirizarry6912 ปีที่แล้ว

    How we get them Hats that Math be wearing??

  • @johnnyrene5827
    @johnnyrene5827 ปีที่แล้ว

    🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @avngr2suad222
    @avngr2suad222 ปีที่แล้ว

    716 ROAR

  • @mjalex
    @mjalex ปีที่แล้ว

    5 to 50 🔥🔥

  • @r.e.a.lbrand48214
    @r.e.a.lbrand48214 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Salute 🫡 @mathhoffa & the Crew ..this was Grown man conversations good substance ✊🏾💪🏾

  • @robertoblanco8752
    @robertoblanco8752 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lyrical monster 👿👺🧌