Dating, Waiting for the Right Girl, Drinking, and Anxiety -- Ryan Kirby of Fit for A King

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  • Ryan Kirby of Fit For a King shares about the struggle of wanting someone to date, the time when he succumbed to a period of drinking, and what it took to move past his fear being around other people.
    Jake Luhrs of August Burns Red started an online non-profit called HeartSupport to give his fans a place to talk about and overcome their struggles. His vision is to unite the scene--fans and bands alike--so that no one in the music scene has to struggle alone.
    www.heartsupport.com/
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ความคิดเห็น • 49

  • @sportswithluke
    @sportswithluke 9 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    I'm glad there are people like Ryan in the metalcore scene.

  • @ItsaMe94
    @ItsaMe94 9 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Ryan is amazing.
    My friend and I saw Fit For A King play live with August Burns Red 2 weeks ago and we ran into him as he was on his way to the Merch table after his setlist ended. My friend said something because he got all happy to see him. My friend stuck his hand out for a hand shake. Ryan did not shake his hand but instead gave him a hug.

    • @noahdement9271
      @noahdement9271 9 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Iv'e played COD with him on steam, and of course been to FFAK shows. He really is an awesome guy.

    • @DaddyLongLegs44
      @DaddyLongLegs44 9 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I know right. After they got done playing he went down to the merch table here in AZ and I took a picture of him and my little bro then I went to shake his hand and he turned it into a bro hug. I didn't know what else to say but, "I love your guys' music! Thank you!" I'm extremely introverted so I could relate to what Ryan's talking about; that's also why I didn't have anything better to say at the time :(
      Ryan truly is wise and a real nice guy. Straight up.

    • @LispyRaining
      @LispyRaining 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      lucky son of a bitch...

  • @nova1428
    @nova1428 8 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I'm 19, Almost 20 and feel the same way Kirby did about finding a girlfriend (the one) It hurts being rejected and feeling like you're not good looking enough, smart enough, cool enough. It sucks but I'm giving it to God rather than being depressed all the time.

    • @s9sett
      @s9sett 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      you and me are the same age and going through the same thing

    • @DarkVileScream
      @DarkVileScream 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Reported Leek damn are all the 19 yr olds going through the same shit I’m 19 and we all in the same boat. I’m Turning 20 is sept

    • @sandiashvrR
      @sandiashvrR 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Holding on with a
      😄

    • @kevinfrast1754
      @kevinfrast1754 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm not 18 years old but I feel this at some points cause I've grew-up differently, I'm from a really dark place and I'm fucking afraid to do the same things that bring me to my misery at a lot of peoples in particularity for example a girlfriends.

    • @dylan6996
      @dylan6996 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      dang I'm 18 and its litteraly the same thing for me except for you now its 5 years later

  • @wilkinsos
    @wilkinsos 9 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Never heard someone express this kind of struggle that im having, and coming from this dude, wow there truly is hope !

  • @mayhem1216
    @mayhem1216 9 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I can relate too Ryan, feeling alone, having anxiety, looking for that right girl. Just got to leave it up to God.

  • @tani4925
    @tani4925 9 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I felt what Ryan was feeling. Feeling alone. Just leave it to God.

    • @justinw1628
      @justinw1628 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Your never alone when you travel with god

  • @RG_Adapt
    @RG_Adapt 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love Ryan, he's so awesome

  • @MrJiibbo
    @MrJiibbo 9 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Great interview! Just one quick tip, the audio. The background sounds took over some times so think about the location you are shooting the interview in. And also it was really hard to hear your voice so either if you move the mic to you when you are asking a question or that you record over your own voice afterwards. But other vise, great interview :)

  • @Gemlin300
    @Gemlin300 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for the post! It's nice to know there are others who ave faced similar situations to the ones I encounter.

  • @heavymetalfan04
    @heavymetalfan04 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I needed this video. Thank You so much Heart Support 🙏🏻❤️

  • @jakedavis8194
    @jakedavis8194 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This guy is AWEAOME he was a this Merch table at Detroit and wow! Him/WCAR(who I also met) are such chill/DTE ppl

  • @olivermueller7438
    @olivermueller7438 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    When one of my favorite bands (Fit For A King) wears my favorite bands merch (Silent Planet)

    • @jbasti227
      @jbasti227 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Made me so happy too. The SP record is gonna be amazing

    • @GarettChamberlin
      @GarettChamberlin 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jbasti227 it truly is

  • @tristananvilcaster
    @tristananvilcaster 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ryan is a great guy!

  • @toospooked4594
    @toospooked4594 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ryan is so cool and I used to struggle with that when I was in middle school but not anymore.

  • @Mr2andresims
    @Mr2andresims 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    appreciate this talk

  • @BlackVenomPromotions
    @BlackVenomPromotions 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great interview! Crystal is a lucky girl.

  • @SandraD88100
    @SandraD88100 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That's exactly what I'm going through right now and I'm just barely finding my place in God and the only thing I can do is trust HIm in knowing what he's doing to better myself first with HIm and wait for the right guy to come along when its his perfect timing. I don't really want to think too much about it because I may not be alive tomorrow or the next day. I'd rather live like if I were dying.

    • @nicolastub3
      @nicolastub3 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You're beautiful.

    • @SandraD88100
      @SandraD88100 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you :)

    • @tishaunmitchell325
      @tishaunmitchell325 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lol, I was thinking the same thing

    • @SandraD88100
      @SandraD88100 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tishaun Mitchell Lol ^_^

    • @leecrawford6560
      @leecrawford6560 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sandy Larios live life happy and just be happy, we were made to be here, enjoy it here

  • @brianabrown6280
    @brianabrown6280 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aweeeee 😊

  • @justinstewart3248
    @justinstewart3248 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video is awesome minus the volume of the background music lol. Turn it down!!

  • @Logann116
    @Logann116 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why is the a ramp leading to nothing in the background?

  • @georgeantonioandrei8570
    @georgeantonioandrei8570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What’s the song on the background?

    • @maxh4175
      @maxh4175 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Slave to Nothing by Fit For A King

  • @jacindapeters2303
    @jacindapeters2303 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The one doesn't exist it's all lies.

  • @kentuckyfriedbabiestx2199
    @kentuckyfriedbabiestx2199 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Shame, I must be confusing myself with another Ryan and another situation. Or I must have nothing better to do than invent a lie.

  • @kentuckyfriedbabiestx2199
    @kentuckyfriedbabiestx2199 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's funny. In high school, my girlfriend and I were at a church event and she invited him since they became friends earlier in the year. I remember at one point of the evening he and his friend were trying to convince my girlfriend to ditch the church event and sneak off to a party where people were drinking. Clearly had zero concern for the fact she had a boyfriend.

    • @ryankirbz
      @ryankirbz 9 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      KentuckyFriedBabies TX considering i never went to parties and actually detest the whole party scene thing; you should work on a better lie next time.

    • @Funkpocalypse
      @Funkpocalypse 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      But do you understand why no one believes you? Because what you're saying is so fucking inconsistent with the stories of others. So much so that your story breaches absurdity.

    • @kentuckyfriedbabiestx2199
      @kentuckyfriedbabiestx2199 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Atsunijo I made a comment on a video that is obviously going to be more one sided as far as popularity goes. Of course Ryan's fans are going to pick his side, it's a video about him for his fans to check out. It's absurd to think all of these guys in Christian bands are perfect or that they're humble 24/7, that they don't stumble or haven't. Listen to Agraceful and then go listen to Like Moths to Flames and tell me something isn't up. The absurdity here is you thinking you know someone because you're a fan of their music, meet them once on a tour, or lurk a few videos on youtube. There's more to a human being than what is shown on that small face value.

    • @Funkpocalypse
      @Funkpocalypse 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      But at what point did I claim to be a fan of their music? At what point did I specifically defend Mr. Kirby, when I was only explaining why no one believes you? At what point did I claim that he is perfect or humble 24/7? And whatever those things you listed are completely irrelevant. I'm not saying that Mr. Kirby is incapable of doing some wrong or sinister, I'm, instead, telling you that your claim is highly-- here's the word again-- "inconsistent" with the claims of others. It's an easy thing to step back and look at: 10 people claim 1 thing, but 1 person claims 1 thing amidst the other 10. You realize that, even if it were true, and that you had the right person, that you could never convince anyone anyways, correct?

  • @jmksquared11
    @jmksquared11 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lol, he looks blind

  • @maxwelld23
    @maxwelld23 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    He's kinda creepy looking . Nice guy , decent vocalist 👍