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This is definitely a reminder I needed. "It takes an almost an insane level of self-belief, self-confidence to continue doing something when there are no results to speak of" spoke to me so much. The more I'm on this journey, the more I'm realizing that this self-belief may be the most important ingredient of all and the only way to make it through those extremely tough periods.
I really do believe it's a huge component of the "it" factor that people talk about. When you look at high achievers in any domain (not just music) there is that unbelievable tenacity to succeed no matter what. They may falter, they may tire, but they simply refuse to give up.
@@tomdupreeiii I totally agree! And I think something that is so important is what we do when we feel super lost. I used to give up when I felt lost, and now I'm learning to accept it and recognize that feeling lost is inevitable. If we can accept being lost and still move forward, that gives us so much more courage later on.
Well said Tom. It reminds of a great quote I heard recently from the writer Stephen Marche: 'Persistence is the siege you lay on fortune - you have to relish the rejection.' Thanks again for all of your great advice Tom.
Great video, Tom. In our family we refer to this early phase as "the toughening". Every artist that ever made it had to persist, never knowing if they would ever make it. Recognition is rarely there. Friends and family aren't going to get you there, and much of the time they seem uninterested. 'Going viral' is mostly a thing of the past because all social media platforms have figured out how to monetize views. You're lucky if you get a few comments on Instagram posts or TH-cam videos, so it often feels like nobody is watching or listening. But over time, 500 plays on Spotify becomes 1,000,. Eventually a song gets 10,000, then 50,000, etc. It takes a relentless pursuit. There's a famous quote by George Bernard Shaw that fits your point about how you have to be practically crazy to make it: ‘The reasonable man adapts himself to the world; the unreasonable man persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore all progress depends on the unreasonable man.’ Here's to all the unreasonable artists going for it!!!
I absolutely love this. I'm a big fan of that quote too. I think I'll start referring to it as "the toughening" as well. That's a perfect way to put it.
Hey Tom! Long time no talk! You're still one of my favorite drummers I've ever worked with. Hope all is well and would love to reconnect. Great video!!
Tom, thanks so much for sharing your experiences. You uploaded this video at the perfect time (at least for me). I'm also quite a perfectionist and currently try out something new for my upcoming album. This is very motivating to keep going, trying out new things and not overthinking it too much. :)
THIS VIDEO!!!! Man! everything you said here is on point an accurate! Thank you so much for validating everything we as independent artists have to go through before our BIG BREAK(if that comes to fruition)!! Just creating everyday! that will keep you moving in a forward type progress! KEEP AT IT!!!
Appreciate you! I made a full switch at the beginning of the year and have been sort of dialing it in ever since. Thanks for the kind words dude. Little adjustments every time seem to be paying off!
Thanks for the video. I’m on this journey too. I’m a Bass Player & Composer for Grammy Award winning artist but Imy solo career is very slow to take off but I’m not giving up. EVER 😎❤️🎵
It can be really difficult to keep going when it seems like all the works you do amounts to nothing. Gotta just stay consistent folks, and keep believing. Keep posting, You can do it! 🫡💪🏼
Man, this is it. And we also tend to forget we're in it together. It's easy to go "head down, I'll get it done mode" while forgetting we have a community around us.
I spent over a decade touring the world in buses and planes, played arenas and amphitheaters to crowds upwards of 30,000, cut six-figure records with major-label record deals, played for and shared the stage with Grammy-winning, chart-topping, multi-platinum-selling bands and artists, and have played on more sessions than I can count. I started creating content on TH-cam after that because I wanted to build my own business and spend my time with my family rather than being gone all the time.
It’s not being crazy to continue it’s you have to be realistic. You have to be honest. You have to be a good judgment of your self your music where you’re at where you’re going where you’ve been and when do you think you’re gonna get to where you wanna go because you could do that Pretty easily with the person next to you. You can easily figure out his trajectory by getting some data from him. How much he does it how much he practices how long he’s been doing it then you would hear some of his songs and you would analyze some of the songs find out how many songs he has. How many potential hits. Do they all suck . It’s not that difficult to figure out where someone is and for some reason when it comes to yourself, some people have a really hard or delusional time . But if you are honest with yourself to know exactly where you’re at to know if your music is good or sucks or almost there if you know these things, then anything that you do regardless of who shows up who listen to the song how many listens to the song it wouldn’t matter because you know where you are and everything that’s happening right now it’s just preparing you to get to where you want to be. It’s all practice. And marketing. I don’t think matters much , not the key if you don’t have an album full of hits . I mean could you make a crappy song hit by how much you market it. I would like to say no but I’m not sure. And if you think a song that’s out right now that you think passed the checklist suck does not mean it does suck. I’m not sure if anyone just starting out knows what’s the audience want how they wants in and who from. Hardest worked perfect craft they get in touch with the songwriting gods they release songs and they don’t think it’s the best they could do because they will never think that : nobody cares about what your best is people only care about the song that’s good. It moved them. best in the market as a whole and if your best is not comparable to everyone else’s best in your best and if you did the best you could that means either you’re done or you got a long ways ago. If you’re the person that is so good to yourself, and so confident and everything you do just turns into gold, and all that is not completely true. Then depression is in your future because environmental depression, Is gets you good when your vision of yourself or expectations you’ve had do not match reality you’re in for a world of hurt so it’s great to be confident but it’s also good to be honest with yourself otherwise you get better.
too everyone, we are never giving up no matter what, besides music is what we love to do, its in our veins. don't matter how tough it gets how slow it gets we are never giving up. here's to never giving up. wish all y'all the best.
Dude this was so helpful and really speaks to where I’m at as an artist. Artists really don’t have alot of voices telling them to keep going so this video was truly a breath of fresh air. Thank you
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This is definitely a reminder I needed. "It takes an almost an insane level of self-belief, self-confidence to continue doing something when there are no results to speak of" spoke to me so much. The more I'm on this journey, the more I'm realizing that this self-belief may be the most important ingredient of all and the only way to make it through those extremely tough periods.
I really do believe it's a huge component of the "it" factor that people talk about. When you look at high achievers in any domain (not just music) there is that unbelievable tenacity to succeed no matter what. They may falter, they may tire, but they simply refuse to give up.
@@tomdupreeiii I totally agree! And I think something that is so important is what we do when we feel super lost. I used to give up when I felt lost, and now I'm learning to accept it and recognize that feeling lost is inevitable. If we can accept being lost and still move forward, that gives us so much more courage later on.
Well said Tom. It reminds of a great quote I heard recently from the writer Stephen Marche: 'Persistence is the siege you lay on fortune - you have to relish the rejection.' Thanks again for all of your great advice Tom.
Agree heavily with everything you said brother! Well said 🙏🏼
Appreciate you bro!
Great video, Tom. In our family we refer to this early phase as "the toughening". Every artist that ever made it had to persist, never knowing if they would ever make it. Recognition is rarely there. Friends and family aren't going to get you there, and much of the time they seem uninterested. 'Going viral' is mostly a thing of the past because all social media platforms have figured out how to monetize views. You're lucky if you get a few comments on Instagram posts or TH-cam videos, so it often feels like nobody is watching or listening. But over time, 500 plays on Spotify becomes 1,000,. Eventually a song gets 10,000, then 50,000, etc. It takes a relentless pursuit.
There's a famous quote by George Bernard Shaw that fits your point about how you have to be practically crazy to make it: ‘The reasonable man adapts himself to the world; the unreasonable man persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore all progress depends on the unreasonable man.’ Here's to all the unreasonable artists going for it!!!
I absolutely love this. I'm a big fan of that quote too. I think I'll start referring to it as "the toughening" as well. That's a perfect way to put it.
extremely true, its a big battle within myself to keep going no matter what, thank you for reminding me :D
You got this!
Such a good video to watch right before studio time! Thank you for sharing and turning me on to Visualize Value. WOOOHOOOO!
You bet! Thanks for watching!
Creating a strong self belief is such a must, if you don’t believe in yourself, why would somebody else? Let’s go everybody, we got this
I agree with you but it's a bit frustrating more of the time 😢
Hey Tom! Long time no talk! You're still one of my favorite drummers I've ever worked with. Hope all is well and would love to reconnect. Great video!!
Hey dude! Wow, what a compliment! Glad you found me on here.
spot on Tom!
Tom, thanks so much for sharing your experiences. You uploaded this video at the perfect time (at least for me). I'm also quite a perfectionist and currently try out something new for my upcoming album. This is very motivating to keep going, trying out new things and not overthinking it too much. :)
Happy to help. Thanks for watching!
Thanks for the words of encouragement ,we all have to keep going and push through any adversity!!
THIS VIDEO!!!! Man! everything you said here is on point an accurate! Thank you so much for validating everything we as independent artists have to go through before our BIG BREAK(if that comes to fruition)!!
Just creating everyday! that will keep you moving in a forward type progress! KEEP AT IT!!!
Man, so happy to hear this resonated with you so much!
@@tomdupreeiii SOOO MUCH! Everyday I want to give up and quit, but I CANT do that to myself! this was very inspiring! again, Thank you!
The Offspring were around for 10 years before Smash.
A prime example.
4:49 so relateable
Awesome stuff, Tom ! thanks for sharing your journey with us.
My pleasure!
Did you upgrade your production value bro? I dig the new look 🔥
Appreciate you! I made a full switch at the beginning of the year and have been sort of dialing it in ever since. Thanks for the kind words dude. Little adjustments every time seem to be paying off!
This GOLD!!
🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thanks for the video.
I’m on this journey too.
I’m a Bass Player & Composer for Grammy Award winning artist but Imy solo career is very slow to take off but I’m not giving up. EVER 😎❤️🎵
I was a side man for a long time too, but there is nothing quite like creating your own work. Thanks for watching!
Thanks 🙏🏻 ❤
It’s all to do with listeners and the algorithm
Thanks Tom
You bet!
can u plz share ur camera / lighting set up?
Nah you got it
I am definitely a CRAZY person, because I keep making things/Music for going on (5 years) now with LITTLE to NO Results ha.
Crazy is good!
It can be really difficult to keep going when it seems like all the works you do amounts to nothing. Gotta just stay consistent folks, and keep believing. Keep posting, You can do it! 🫡💪🏼
Man, this is it. And we also tend to forget we're in it together. It's easy to go "head down, I'll get it done mode" while forgetting we have a community around us.
@@tomdupreeiii absolutely! Thanks for making these videos man, it really helps! 💪🏼
With respect , if you wanted to be a musician , why did you become a TH-camr ?
I spent over a decade touring the world in buses and planes, played arenas and amphitheaters to crowds upwards of 30,000, cut six-figure records with major-label record deals, played for and shared the stage with Grammy-winning, chart-topping, multi-platinum-selling bands and artists, and have played on more sessions than I can count. I started creating content on TH-cam after that because I wanted to build my own business and spend my time with my family rather than being gone all the time.
this speaks to me on such a deep level ❤🔥❤🔥
Thank you Tom !
Sincere and valuable.
You're so welcome. Happy to hear it connected with you.
It’s not being crazy to continue it’s you have to be realistic. You have to be honest. You have to be a good judgment of your self your music where you’re at where you’re going where you’ve been and when do you think you’re gonna get to where you wanna go because you could do that Pretty easily with the person next to you. You can easily figure out his trajectory by getting some data from him. How much he does it how much he practices how long he’s been doing it then you would hear some of his songs and you would analyze some of the songs find out how many songs he has. How many potential hits. Do they all suck . It’s not that difficult to figure out where someone is and for some reason when it comes to yourself, some people have a really hard or delusional time . But if you are honest with yourself to know exactly where you’re at to know if your music is good or sucks or almost there if you know these things, then anything that you do regardless of who shows up who listen to the song how many listens to the song it wouldn’t matter because you know where you are and everything that’s happening right now it’s just preparing you to get to where you want to be. It’s all practice.
And marketing. I don’t think matters much , not the key if you don’t have an album full of hits . I mean could you make a crappy song hit by how much you market it. I would like to say no but I’m not sure. And if you think a song that’s out right now that you think passed the checklist suck does not mean it does suck. I’m not sure if anyone just starting out knows what’s the audience want how they wants in and who from. Hardest worked perfect craft they get in touch with the songwriting gods they release songs and they don’t think it’s the best they could do because they will never think that : nobody cares about what your best is people only care about the song that’s good. It moved them. best in the market as a whole and if your best is not comparable to everyone else’s best in your best and if you did the best you could that means either you’re done or you got a long ways ago. If you’re the person that is so good to yourself, and so confident and everything you do just turns into gold, and all that is not completely true. Then depression is in your future because environmental depression,
Is gets you good when your vision of yourself or expectations you’ve had do not match reality you’re in for a world of hurt so it’s great to be confident but it’s also good to be honest with yourself otherwise you get better.
too everyone, we are never giving up no matter what, besides music is what we love to do, its in our veins. don't matter how tough it gets how slow it gets we are never giving up. here's to never giving up. wish all y'all the best.
Been at it for 15 years. Still working on the hockey stick growth moment. Wrote five albums in the meantime.
Dude this was so helpful and really speaks to where I’m at as an artist. Artists really don’t have alot of voices telling them to keep going so this video was truly a breath of fresh air. Thank you
Glad I could help!
Really needed this reminder, thanks family 🙏
Thank you so much for this video, it really helped me
You're very welcome. I'm so happy to hear that.
crazy quality man, you’ll blow up someday fs
Man. Thank you.
25k
All true! Thanks 🙏
Thanks for watching!