As a woman, I agree with what sheikh said about self-reflecting and never to be too quick to point finger at husbands. Sometimes it’s us wives. Alhamdhulillah. Jazakallah sheikh
The shiekh's words about looking at yourself are GOLDEN! The sad thing is, many sisters equate being physically out of shape and letting yourselves go with PIETY, which is totally WRONG!!! Obviously, my comment is gonna enrage a lot of sisters.... men are visual, visual, visual! That's how Allaah created us. The sooner they understand that, the sooner a lot of problems related to that will get sorted إن شاء الله
Men who are visual, visual, visual ONLY are shallow, selfish and ungrateful. Admitiedly, these are hard times for men with technology spreading unattainable and artificially beautified women, and many liberal women abdandoning the home and making themselves adorned and available outside the home. In older generations this was not the case, and so the men would know what is realistic and normal for their wives as they age and would be appreciative of her, giving him children and a sense of family and home..now days their wives maybe going through menopause (or single handedly raising a brood of young children, neither of which men understand the exhaustion involved or hormonal imbalances she is experiencing) and its almost impossible for many women to keep herself adorned and fit as before. Yet men see the free, childless women and think its just their wife that is lazy, defective and worthless and demand what is her sacrifice for the relationship! SubhanAllah! Lower your gaze and be grateful to your wife who has sacrificed all of herself, her mind, dreams and hobbies to build and raise you a family and still looks after her husband with affection even after he has gone gray and chubby himself and starts to be cold and cruel to her!
after having talked to many female colleagues and acquaintances in the west, I came upon a horrible truth. There are women who used to be fit/good looking, but they gained weight.....so that they would no longer be sexually harassed/assaulted. Walahi I hear the story so much it crushes me.
@@sammyjahanmunshi3555Haha yeah we are also humans 😅 I know it's hard i have to keep reminding myself that i should lower my gaze 😢 And yeah i too feel exactly same about marrying attractive man with average income. Glad to know that i am not alone in this 😊 May Allah bless us with pious and desired partners Aameen ❤
Well they had a "good time" because they had the honeymoon period before the marriage. Also if they didn't live together it avoids a lot of problems and arguments. Don't forget you will never really know a person before living with him/her and sharing responsibilities. So don't get trapped by shaytan into doing haram stuff in the name of "getting to know each other".
This woman reminds me of Bani Israel when they missed Egypt and everything there including life of bandage and humiliation when Allah rescued them from Phiroun. They seemed to miss the life in Egypt compared to what Allah blessed them with in the form of freedom from Phiroun and Mon w Sulva (halal and tayiab food) in the desert of Sanai. And of course they are thankless to Allah even to this day so don’t be like Bani Israel and say Alhamdulillah that Allah saves you from haram.
Lower your gaze from which Allah has made haram for you. To spice up the marriage-ensure your husband eats good masculine foods which increases sperm counts, ensure he plays some sport, and have communication with him. When a man is more masculine and a woman is more feminine they will naturally be attracted to each other
She isn't sinful cuz she is a girl. Everywhere you go, girls get that extra advantage, Allah isn't an exception fs. He will forgive her fs. She is not sinful even if she doesn't ask for forgiveness or cheat on her husband.
What is this kind of statement. You do not have the mental capacity nor the knowledge to talk about such issues. Fear Allah and ask for forgiveness since you are spreading fitnah
That feeling of 'nostalgia' is a trap. DO NOT FALL FOR IT. These waswas are a trick to make you fall into sin.
As a woman, I agree with what sheikh said about self-reflecting and never to be too quick to point finger at husbands. Sometimes it’s us wives. Alhamdhulillah. Jazakallah sheikh
The shiekh's words about looking at yourself are GOLDEN! The sad thing is, many sisters equate being physically out of shape and letting yourselves go with PIETY, which is totally WRONG!!! Obviously, my comment is gonna enrage a lot of sisters.... men are visual, visual, visual! That's how Allaah created us. The sooner they understand that, the sooner a lot of problems related to that will get sorted
إن شاء الله
@@sammyjahanmunshi3555same
Men who are visual, visual, visual ONLY are shallow, selfish and ungrateful. Admitiedly, these are hard times for men with technology spreading unattainable and artificially beautified women, and many liberal women abdandoning the home and making themselves adorned and available outside the home. In older generations this was not the case, and so the men would know what is realistic and normal for their wives as they age and would be appreciative of her, giving him children and a sense of family and home..now days their wives maybe going through menopause (or single handedly raising a brood of young children, neither of which men understand the exhaustion involved or hormonal imbalances she is experiencing) and its almost impossible for many women to keep herself adorned and fit as before. Yet men see the free, childless women and think its just their wife that is lazy, defective and worthless and demand what is her sacrifice for the relationship! SubhanAllah! Lower your gaze and be grateful to your wife who has sacrificed all of herself, her mind, dreams and hobbies to build and raise you a family and still looks after her husband with affection even after he has gone gray and chubby himself and starts to be cold and cruel to her!
@@sammyjahanmunshi3555i can relate to you sis.. same here
after having talked to many female colleagues and acquaintances in the west, I came upon a horrible truth.
There are women who used to be fit/good looking, but they gained weight.....so that they would no longer be sexually harassed/assaulted.
Walahi I hear the story so much it crushes me.
@@sammyjahanmunshi3555Haha yeah we are also humans 😅
I know it's hard i have to keep reminding myself that i should lower my gaze 😢
And yeah i too feel exactly same about marrying attractive man with average income. Glad to know that i am not alone in this 😊
May Allah bless us with pious and desired partners Aameen ❤
lahaulawalaquwataillabillah.. dont give up!! istighfar all the time!
Well they had a "good time" because they had the honeymoon period before the marriage. Also if they didn't live together it avoids a lot of problems and arguments. Don't forget you will never really know a person before living with him/her and sharing responsibilities. So don't get trapped by shaytan into doing haram stuff in the name of "getting to know each other".
This woman reminds me of Bani Israel when they missed Egypt and everything there including life of bandage and humiliation when Allah rescued them from Phiroun. They seemed to miss the life in Egypt compared to what Allah blessed them with in the form of freedom from Phiroun and Mon w Sulva (halal and tayiab food) in the desert of Sanai. And of course they are thankless to Allah even to this day so don’t be like Bani Israel and say Alhamdulillah that Allah saves you from haram.
she doesnt miss the fact she commited a huge sin,she just misses the love she had before.
Lower your gaze from which Allah has made haram for you.
To spice up the marriage-ensure your husband eats good masculine foods which increases sperm counts, ensure he plays some sport, and have communication with him. When a man is more masculine and a woman is more feminine they will naturally be attracted to each other
Are you a Muslim?
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You Come and dictate WHO Allah Will punish and show SHAME you assim
STOP lying!he never said that,he simply warned her and told her to be mindful of it
She isn't sinful cuz she is a girl. Everywhere you go, girls get that extra advantage, Allah isn't an exception fs. He will forgive her fs. She is not sinful even if she doesn't ask for forgiveness or cheat on her husband.
What is this kind of statement. You do not have the mental capacity nor the knowledge to talk about such issues. Fear Allah and ask for forgiveness since you are spreading fitnah
@@younesazzouz241 What's a bigger Fitnah than women?
>She is not sinful even if she doesn't ask for forgiveness or cheat on her husband.
show me the proof in the quran or sunnah
lol
@@amerkiller1995 prove that she is sinful lol
No. Give a reference for what you said, otherwise, your words are invalid.