This was an incredibly tough conversation, but I am beyond proud of this man. He is checked into rehab now and is getting the help he needs. When he gets out, we are going to be in constant communication to help him along the way and make sure he's safe, healthy, and happy. He wanted EVERYTHING out there and pushed back on us for wanting to cut things down that may have hurt him out in the real world. We could not honor that request though. We wanted to protect his safety and life, so if some parts seem choppy- that's why. We wanted to make sure we cut anything that would make life for him hard when he gets back. Protecting our guests is our number one priority. I respect TF out of him for wanting to put everything out there though. He has taken major steps in life just these past few days to turn his life around. Let's all give him the love and support he deserves!
Some people want it to happen, some people wish it would happen, others make it happen. Travis- you are a smart dude, you can make this happen. I pray you get that help you need to become happy without a substance. It’s not worth living in chains. ❤ wish you the best ❤
I find it amazing that we're seeing all types of situations in life and I am so proud of him for getting the help he needs. It's incredibly difficult making steps to better yourself and you can tell he really cares for his gf/and his cats because he wants to make the necessary changes. I hope he realizes that making changes for himself matters too! I hope he finds amazing things within himself he loves and finds hobbies/things of enjoyment that is not addiction. I know a lot of friends and family members that have lost their lives to addiction it's incredibly sad. Keep going dude!!! We are proud of you and rooting for your success. ❤️🙏🏼
Not surprising at all, the whole finance district is literally hopped up in methamphetamines. Idk why people still believe drug addicts are unintelligent 😂
Caleb, you sweet summer child. If the girl he’s dating is 24 and has a curfew, she’s living in a halfway house, which is one step away from jail and/or rehab (often both).
@@Thefluffytutubecause some of us didn’t catch that and I’m glad he commented this because I found it suspicious at first and had a different idea. But thanks anyways Karen
I know it's been six months and this will get lost in the comments but I was a massive heroin addict in my teens and early 20s, now I've been off it for over a decade. I totally believe in this guy and mad respect to him for taking this first step 👏
@CalebHammer That honey butter biscuit is pretty good! You can actually order the honey BBQ chicken sandwich, ask them to sub the honey BBQ for honey butter. Ez delicious sandwich acquired
@@Chessdude4Dude is talking about drug addiction. Do you not understand the context of the word "heavy" means negatively deeply emotional in this situation?
Both these men have such incredibly kind souls. I was fine throughout the entire episode, but Travis ending with “tell your friends you’re proud of them” legit made me tear up in the middle of the gym. I hope everyone genuinely listens to that beautiful gem of raw, emotional insight.
This just highlights the level of comfort and trust that Caleb has with his viewers. "I came for therapy, not an audit" speaks volumes. I hope he sticks with sobriety.
I know it's a financial audit. The guest came because he wanted life counseling instead. Caleb has a stern fatherly demeanor that folks gravitate to for not only financial advice
Does anyone else now go through their checking account transactions and yell them out like Caleb? “Starbucks, Amazon, Sephora, Starbucks, McDonald’s, bullshit, bullshit, bullshit!” and it helps them realize how ridiculous their spending is? Very useful. I highly recommend. Edited to add: Made this comment before they got to the addiction part and dang, that was heavy. I appreciate how Caleb handled it and I’m rooting for this guy!
Ive been doing that since last year my most common purchase s are joe snyder mens thongs tropical thongs meundies and sex shops. Totaling 2k or more a year in purchases.
@@nicktrageser5662Congratulations? I don’t live beyond my means either. The only debt I have is the mortgage on my house. But I could be spending a bit less and saving more. Always improving.
I've been hearing Caleb yell at me every time I review my statements. It's certainly helped me rein in my spending. I've always lived within my means, but it's helping me turn some temporary indulgences into more savings.
I only keep watching so that I remember to yell at myself when the statement comes. I don't carry debt, but I still see too many stupid purchases. It's kinda fun
Thank you for protecting the quest with the choppy edits. I worry about your guests revealing too much. Just because a person is bad at personal finances does not mean they are not excellent at work or in relationships. Staying ethical with these vulnerable folks is a source of pride and will only bring you good.
I think he may have wanted to reveal it all so that way he had more social pressure to get clean. I'm glad that Caleb pushed back on it just to protect his job but I also respect the hell out of this guy for doing the most he can to get out of his addiction.
This episode hit me hard. I just hit 6 years clean (I was an IV her0in user). I’m rebuilding my life and learning how to “adult” and manage money. I hope he takes recovery seriously. ❤ Thank you Caleb for being such a caring and empathetic human.
@@badtxtrThe first is weed. They said it on camera and the lip movement matches. From context clues, I'm assuming the other is meth, but they cut the camera so I'm not sure.
Just accept that he has an addiction you don’t need the prurient details. Can you please delete the comments above as may impact his recovery and future later.
Been on a daily binge of audits as my background noise while I work. This episode got my FULL attention and made me pretty emotional. I’m praying for him to heal and overcome his addiction. He seems like such a genuinely sweet, smart and funny person and deserves all the best in life. I’m rooting for you!
If Travis was involved in a car wreck just 24 hours prior and mentioned being under the influence within that timeframe, insurance company investigators may use this information to scrutinize his involvement in the accident.
@@user-vi5vd3ty9dhe’s repeatedly said he’s on drugs and has no regard for the safety of other people as he drives around. He crashed his car, but he could have easily taken someone out with him in the accident. He needs help, but this type of behavior is neither acceptable nor should it be compensated by insurance companies. Your insurance rate is not based on inebriated driving, it is based on sober driving.
@@user-vi5vd3ty9dthat might be necessary. He basically admitted to being high during it. Depending the time of the crash that could easily be figured out
As someone with a whole lot of addiction in my family including myself, I have a bunch of respect for the both of you in how this conversation played out. He’s taking 100% accountability and the fact Caleb expressively told him he has full control of what gets aired, is exactly how that should go. Well done.
@@darylannmanson3240 you’re correct but that’s transparency which leads to getting better. He’s on here because he knows what he’s doing isn’t working. He’s explaining his thought process and what lead him to that point. He’ll be okay if he can continue to process things in that way combined with getting professional help.
I come from a similar situation. Totaled my car, ended up in a wheelchair with nothing to my name, 0 assets and over 300k in medical debt for spending 3 weeks or so in the hospital. 5yrs later I have my own company, living on my own, walking again AND I got sober. It was one of the hardest things I've ever done..
Caleb’s show just entered into a different realm. Wow. It’s apparent this dude is intelligent and will be successful if he can get this drug addiction behind him. He knows what he needs to do, has the tools and the support and I wish him the absolute best of luck. I hope he knows how many of us are pulling for him to completely recover and have a great life.
100% agree. The only part that kind of worries me is when he said he wants to get on a schedule of use where he's maybe only getting high on the weekends. With the weed that's one thing but if the other one is what I assume it is then he needs to cut that one out 100%. Coming from a family with a lot of addiction issues if he can get away from that one he needs to steer clear of anybody who even thinks about touching the stuff. It is so god-damn easy to get back into it. One bad night, one fun party, all you need is to have that available and it's game over. Not to mention the first time going back after getting sober it's we're the vast majority of overdoses come from because your body has lost the tolerance for it that it had built up over that daily use cycle. I wish this young man the best of luck.
@@star-1814 they're talking about two separate drugs throughout the course of the episode. One is weed and the other one sounds a lot more like he's probably talking about heroin...
@luxuriousgreen9714 the dude in the video stated that he was using two separate drugs. One being something that Caleb tried in college and wasn't a big fan of most likely we'd the other something that Caleb is extremely worried about him using.
I remember that mentality… it’s exactly why they say you need a relapse to truly recover. The addict in you still pushes you into jumping through hoops mentally to avoid fully letting go.
Greetings Caleb and company, I’ve been watching your channel for some time, episodes new and old, and your show has been immensely helpful when it comes to facing my own situation. Today’s episode landed a lot closer to home than I expected; practically a bullseye considering I live in the Midwest. I wanted to tell you I greatly appreciate your words regardless of who you were directly speaking to. The fact that you saw his plea for encouragement and support was something I needed to see is possible in a way. I have been struggling with substance abuse since a very young age and I connected with your guest being able to see that it is possible to regain control of your life and self discipline, as well as knowing that people are willing and able to see someone who is stuck and feels invisible at times. Please know that you and your team are doing something good and correct in all that you are doing. I ask that you continue your work and continue doing good in the world, the ripples from a pebble thrown in a lake can travel much farther than you think. Your actions and reputation have traveled far and I appreciate you immensely Yours truly, A lifelong subscriber
Oh boy... anyone with experience with addiction can tell you this man is at a crossroads. Early in his addiction. Him saying he wants to be on a schedule with drugs is a huge red flag. Any addict will tell you this is how it starts... you try and try to control it and it NEVER EVER WORKS OUT. Thankfully he does acknowledge that he cannot control it, step one. He's looking at 2 paths right now, one to recovery and a happy fullfulling life. The other path ALWAYS will end with jails, institutions, or death. I am praying he chooses the right path and gets out of the spiral before he completely loses everything.
I’ve been there. Done everything this guy has done. Homie looks high right now, has a girlfriend in sober living, and he is using every day. Going to get worse before it gets better….
They should have dropped every single bit if the finances conversation, and just said "OK, how can we get you to detox, on a plane, and to rehab ASAP?" Fuck your finances at that point.
Been there, went to treatment, OD’d days after leaving. I wish I could say I see him staying clean, but the minimizing and rationalizing is something I see having to be worked out through rough experiences. honestly I haven’t seen many people who stayed clean after there first attempt at recovery. It took me multiple times on probations, countless attempts at recovery, and son being born to finally snap out of it. I am wishing him all the best though, hope he can beat the odds.
I won't be able to watch this episode due to losing a loved one to addiction. It hurts too much to see. Thank you, Caleb for being respectful to this guest. I wish the best for Travis and his future.
It’s refreshing to see a guest take responsibility for their situation! He’s my favorite guest ever and I’m truly hoping for a positive update in 6 months ❤
This video is like 7 months old, but I REALLY hope this dude is on the right track now. If you read this, Travis, PLEASE get it together right now (while you are young). You’re only 25. I just turned 37 and finally got clean and started getting my life together around 34 or 35. Im okay, but I can’t get that time back and I’m behind financially while pushing 40. PLEASE DO NOT LET IT GET OUT OF CONTROL!
I don't think I have EVER watched an episode that I so desperately hope we get updates on. I would LOVE to see Travis multiple times a year for as long as Caleb is going on TH-cam. Hopefully it is a story of triumph and getting himself to an amazing place that others can take points from and follow in the footsteps of. Props to Travis, you got this man!
This episode really hits hard. It's easy to lie to yourself, and to everyone else, until you see someone brave enough to put it all out there for everyone to see. Thank you for the inspiration.
This is by far my favorite guest Caleb has had. I am so beyond proud of this guy. Even the graduating college with a BIOLOGY degree. He has show through this audit that he is intelligent, calm, and easy-going. I see such a bright future for him as he gets the help he needs. It was also so refreshing to not hear Caleb yelling at all for an entire episode. He was so so so empathetic and sweet, kudos to you!
A crossover I’d pay to see is he auditing people from reality tv shows. Seeing 90 day fiancé Angela flipping his table would be entertainment for a lifetime
Those types of 'celebrities' would never want to give up the illusion they are successful. It's why most people even pay attention to them. For what reason I can't comprehend? Some people have nothing positive to look forward to and thrive on drama and conflict.
@@anonymity2882 Lead poisoning typically lessens empathy. Gen Z is first gen where the majority of people (USA) weren't exposed to lead. You're the abnormal one here.
I’ve been on a Caleb binge lately and I stumbled across Travis’s follow up so I had to come back to the original. This really hits home for me and I really hope the best for this guy. I was in a similar situation back in 2019. I was able to get help, got accepted into nursing school, bought a house with my husband and now my husband and I are paying off all our debt….aggressively. But it all started with me getting sober. I really wish you the best my dude. ❤❤❤
@@peartfaldoyou’re a gross person. He’s saying he’s trying to rectify his situation. Life is heavy sometimes, and you do dumb things. It should be celebrated
@@peartfaldoforsure. We can easily judge someone for what they do until we are in there shoes. Addicts still have to get to work they’re always high so they don’t think they’re really fucked up. Especially opiates and Xanax can be a mother fucker when it comes to that. I’d imagine it’s meth or Xanax that he uses which no one really feels fucked up on. I say we should call someone “pathetic” when we are all fairly pathetic at the core.
@@icedawggg Whatever. I will NEVER be in the shoes of a drug addict. Been around enough of them. They are the most whiny..defensive..blame everyone else...manipulative...dishonest...victim mentality A holes I have ever met. Oh did I mention. they're all pussy's. Waaa waa poor me. Pathetic douchebags that are nothing but a burden to society.
I am a CPA in Texas and truly enjoy your content. This was by far the most touching episode. Your kindness and compassion was unwavering. Well done Caleb. You could have spun this and thumb nailed this so much worse. You stayed respectful and genuine. well done.
Functioning addiction is super scary. You appear to be doing well on the outside but you're falling apart on the inside. I hope Travis gets exactly what he needs at the facility in Cali and I hope he can beat his addictions. It must take a lot of courage to come on this show and be so open and willing to accept help/advice. Props to Caleb for offering to help him after the show. You can tell he genuinely cares about Travis and his recovery. Thanks for making these videos Caleb, they help so many people - not just the ones on the show, but also all of us watching!
Amen. It becomes bearable enough to keep up most days (usually for some years like my earlier self) cuz you’re not ODing, you’re working steady, you have a decent apartment or house, you might even have a gf who is (semi) ignorant to your personal reality but it wears you so much. You feel so disconnected from every other normal person. Some part of your immediate family almost certainly is aware though. I felt like I was living a double or triple life at points for 80% of it. It’s very lonely and hopeless feeling. I spent 12 or so years on opioids as well. Blessed to have worked my way off them almost 19 months ago now.
I disagree that it's better than nonfunctioning addiction. Nonfunctioning addiction forces you to deal with it or spiral into homelessness. Functioning addiction can last decades, eroding your relationships, leaving you a basic shell of a human that might look successful on the outside but on the inside it's a living hell.
This episode went full on Soft White Underbelly and I loved it! I'm always glad to see people brave enough to put their life on display in the interest of helping themselves and others
This one hit hard… please provide us updates on Travis. Really rooting for him. The fact that he’s leaving a living situation that’s bad, dating someone in sober living, heading to rehab, and really trying is so inspiring.
Here’s the first update. 31 days sober and counting. I decided to stay in rehab for an additional 12 days. And will be going into an IOP program immediately after amd I’ll do that for as long as they will have me!
@@travisreed6978Good to see an update from you. Hope everything is still going well two months out from your post. Looking forward to seeing you back on this show at the six month sober mark.
@travisreed6978 I just watched your episode yesterday. Sending you all the positive love, energy and support. I hope you are doing well and can update us again when you're ready. Also, please be kind and patient with your journey. Often relapse is part of the recovery journey and it's nothing to be ashamed of.
I never comment on youtube videos, but it's impressive how you interact with people without having had any training to provide counseling or therapy. A lot of actual trained therapists could learn from this, honestly - you're a natural at the conversational skills that balance understanding and bonding with the push that people often need to start getting better. Maybe it stems partly from your own experiences with mental health, but know that you help so many people far beyond just their finances. I genuinely wish Travis the best. I and many others are rooting for him to get clean and live a long and fulfilling life. I have immense respect for his wish to be completely open and honest about everything and the steps he's taking to improve his life. Good luck dude!
He dropped his girlfriend off at her sober living house and immediately crashed his car because he was high. If he doesn't get sober NOW she needs to leave him.
I wonder what the odds are of someone coming on the show that works at Panda Express making 90k a year with a fully funded emergency fund sitting in a high yield savings account following the 50/30/20 rule that is maxing out their Roth IRA. I think Caleb would just died and go to heaven at that point.
30+ years daily and I quit for my kids. Noticed a huge mood improvement, saved tons of money, less tired all the time, less anxious all the time. I don't even miss it. It's tough to start, the nightmares are terrible but once you're a few months in you'll be much happier.
30+ years daily g? How much a day? A single joint? I have no issues in life myself, im ripping easy a qp a month, in bong tokes lmao. My vehicle is paid off, i pay 950/lb, making a qp cost me 237.50.. 237.50 is far less then many peoples car payments 🤣 Can spend more on coffee if you buy 2-3 times a day, even cheap coffee lmao I stated the car payment as a difference as, the money could have been spent elsewhere, but isn't. Sure if it effects your life and stops you from getting what you need/want, of course you have a problem. But smoking a joint at night to go to bed? What kinda problems could you even have 🤣 You wouldn't even have the mental addiction as you can go multiple hours without using the substance 🤣 Thats called having an outlet. Many play a video game, watch tv, etc. Nobody sells their fridge over bud. They will when it comes to a physically addicting drug. Dont need a fridge, i need heroin type situation.
I have several friends who are sober addicts, and I can not begin to tell you how much strength it takes to win that battle. No one can do it alone, but this guy has a damned good start already. Hes taking responsibility, hes taking action, he's a man to take a bet on. I really want to see him back in 6 months, sober and in control.
Caleb grilling him for whataburger getting rid of the mushroom Swiss is definitely something I can get behind! I’ve never agreed more on one of these episodes 😂
Caleb’s balance between having a solid stance on certain scenarios, and forgiving/understanding on others, down to a perfection imo. Almost makes me want to improve my own life lol, but I’ll just enjoy that vicariously for now
It's a beautiful combination of selfless empathy and rational thinking. It's surprisingly rare to find people who are able to juggle both to such a high standard, our boy is something special alright.
As a person who has struggled with addiction I really appreciate this video. Ur a good dude Caleb need more people like you. This guys a trooper as well wishing him the best!
I actually went to high school with Travis and I wouldn’t say we were friends more acquaintances. And we worked together at Little Caesars where he was the assistant manager. I will say he always was a leader and grinding for high school jobs,but some of our mutual friends got him doing all these drugs. Sounds like his making better money than our other friends who are job hopping. But he’s smart, graduated and works hard just unfortunate how much drugs can drain you.
@@MtnDewWarriorCoke is not that bad ffs, it’s bad if you do to much of it he doesn’t have the money to do to much coke. He’s more implying meth or fentanyl.
Let’s hope that Travis can look back on this conversation and it’s a turning point to the rest of his life, I’m wishing him a future full of health, wellbeing and financial security.
This episode makes me realize how great of a guy Caleb is. So much empathy! Good luck to this young man. It breaks my heart to see someone like him struggle. We believe in you !!! Cannot wait to see the follow up episode.
I started watching this channel bc my dude and I got sober together after addiction thoroughly wrecked our lives in every aspect including financial. 3 yrs clean and rebuilt everything from scratch, realized that we suck at finances as we never put the time in to learn/practice good habits. We just paid off my engagement ring (not an expensive one--we just financed it bc we got engaged like 3 months sober and broke af). This channel is how I learned what a realistic budget is and strategy for paying off debt. So I relate to this guy and I hope he gets it together. He sounds like he's in a good head space and I wish him and his lady the best.
congrats! you truly are building your life together. 3 years is a HUGE accomplishment. thank you for sharing. I was so sad to see Travis leave into the cruel cruel world but it's nice to read that people do get out. Wishing you the best!
Caleb you ALMOST had me tearing up in the first half of this. I jus got hip to your channel maybe a week ago and have watched so many videos. You're the tuff older brother that some of us need
Caleb is one of the kindest, most genuine and generous guys out there. I’m so glad I stumbled across this channel. Keep doing you, Caleb! You’re doing an amazing thing here for all of us!
Addiction is a horrible disease. As someone who has a family member who battles with addiction, it's horrible to see what it does to people. With a disease like this, you really can't just do it every once in a while. It's a chemical dependency that your brain has rewired to need. I'm glad he is choosing to go to a rehab facility and starting the process of sobriety. I really wish him the best on his recovery and a bright future ahead.
@@joesmith3590now compare that to the bonuses of CEOs. Inflating the value of your stocks with buybacks isn’t labor. Those who do the work or assembling the cars are the ones that drive actual revenue.
@@Amanda-xx7sjno they don’t the workers in Detroit have destroyed the city 2 times and the companies 2 times. You are thinking about Toyota where good products are made by good employees
@@andrew8168$60k is a great salary considering it can be achieved so quickly (6 months or so). That’s around $32/hr. Many people would be happy with that.
This young man is so smart for doing this now. I’m glad he gets to talk to you, Caleb. You are helping so many young people in so many ways! I wish I had avenues like this to help me in my young adult years. Hang in there and know that there are a lot of people pulling for you. You can do this!!!!
When I heard Travis’ final thoughts, “Tell your friends you’re proud of them.” I just lost it emotionally 😭 This intelligent young man has such incredible potential and he just wants to be seen and acknowledged and recognized in life. I wish him all the best and I look forward to seeing him come out on the other side stronger than ever.
Man I really hope he recovers and turns his life around. Broke my heart when he said "Tell your friends you're proud of them." He deserves to live an amazing life and I hope he takes the opportunity to do so.
Mad respect to Travis. Putting issues like his out for the world to see especially while they are on going is incredibly brave. Wishing the best for him, I really hope we get a positive update down the road.
This is one of the smarter people that Caleb has had on the show. I feel for the guy, I've been in his spot and I wouldn't wish it on anyone. I hope he's able to get a fresh start and be happy!
You did a great job Caleb. And, I would recommend doing something like Mental Health First Aid to be equipped with skills for handling situations like this, and being able to decompress afterwards bc convos like this are intense, esp when you’re not a mental health professional by trade. Really enjoyed this episode.
I know people rag on it, but restaurant/fast food managers can make an INCREDIBLE living. It is insanely difficult work, but financially it can be so worth it. I was a general manager at a fast food restaurant for 2.5-3 years and that is the main reason I was able to save up and buy a home at 20! More people should genuinely consider the position. Looking forward to this video, as always, Caleb!
Wife and I were managers at fast food and a coffee shop. Both went to school for pharmacy and now both make 150k+ a year. If we stayed managing fast food/coffee we would be in the same spot mathematically. College is sooooo expensive. These jobs can be awesome but time consuming.
Almost 4 years sober I can't believe how much recovery has become such an intricate part of my life. I immediately knew every reference and code he was talking about but Caleb was so confused. Like I knew without him saying that his girlfriend is in sober living. Im so proud of him for making this first step. Good luck to you my brother we do recover.
This video is a hard one. But SUCH an important discussion all around that many people struggle with on the daily and can incredibly affect their finances. This audit was a hard one but thank you Caleb for following through and allowing him to be clear and have an open discussion. I hope he’s doing okay and we get an amazing follow up.
So thrilled to see a mental health sponsor that Caleb deemed worthy of partnering with. ❤ I am so so looking forward to see this young man excel! He will do great!
As an ex addict, I’m so happy about the way you handled this Caleb, and I’d love to donate if you were willing to set something up for him and get hair testing. It’ll clean out of blood and urine in a matter of a few short days depending on which one, but hair tests show everything for the length of the hair that is there if that makes sense. The transparency he’s showing here is very admirable and really has me thinking he’ll actually commit to being sober. Which is very exciting! I absolutely love being sober now, and I wish more people could experience it. I was a stoner from the age of 12 and up and then other things from there, so now that I’m mid-30’s and clean from everything but nicotine and caffeine, it’s honestly so addictive being in my right mind. Anyway, like I said, I’d love it if you set up a donation method for us to help him, controlled by test outcomes. Thanks for what you do Caleb🫶
Caleb, would love for you to keep delving into more complicated situations like these. Last episode you were asked about how youre going to keep your videos "fresh" without falling into a formula and i think if youre up to it focusing on guests with more complicated struggles is this. Personal spending and finances do not live in a vacuum, theres so much grey area with mental health, addiction, eating disorders, self harm, financial abuse, insecurity, unhealthy relationships, etc that i think can be totally ignored by most of the personal finance community. Theres always a deeper root of the issue when it comes to unhealthy spending and purchasing habits. I think if you focused on helping people recognize (not treating) where the root of their unhealthy finances came from you can help even more people who watch your videos and can relate to your guests
I love this show and to see Caleb truly care about people is amazing. This audit primary focus isn’t on finance but I like to see the empathy from Caleb. I also like that he’s supporting him get clean in helping pay off the 401k loan. Way to go!
Incredible episode. I hope he really gets the help he needs! He has so much potential and is only 25! You're empathy was palpable and I'm so glad I stumbled upon your channel. I am so so so lucky that I have a very good paying job, married a very very frugal man, and we are in a really incredible financial situation but I can still learn a lot about priorities, investments, and other people's struggles to allow myself to be more empathetic others in a less favorable financial position than myself in my own life.
You must not have watched the whole video prior to this comment. He's arguably one of the most self-aware and intelligent people Caleb has had on the show
@@langs089 he may be those things but he was not in his right mind here as the example I listed shows. And it makes sense as he admitted to taking drugs "18 hours ago" which led to him crashing his car "12 hours ago". He may be self aware and intelligent but he was not in his right mind at this moment. Hopefully he finds his way.
@@chrishayes4166I think he said 18 hrs before the crash. He was definitely driving intoxicated though so his insurance will probably be cancelled if they find this vid
Way to fucking go on getting help! I can't wait to see him back on the show and see how far he's come! I hope he gets all the help he needs and a great support system. From one addict to another YOU REALLY CAN DO THIS! I believe in you and so do a lot of people here. One day at a time!
Caleb. Your superpower is hard to define. But you are a hero. I hope you recognize a fraction of what your viewers see in you. I honestly believe you helped this person. That is something to be proud of
"Am I just a sheltered little boy", yes Caleb, you are, and so am I! bassoonist here and I value my lungs and air too! I wish this chap the best...people can turn it around!
No. I don't see how not doing drugs or being well-versed in the drug life makes someone sheltered. I would say that most people are not doing drugs, or maybe doing only light stuff. But...not being up on the hard-drug lifestyle I think is the normal default position. Not sheltered.
For some reason, this episode hit me hard like a ton of bricks. It's crazy, I just finished watching Painkillers on Netflix yesterday night and I got nothing but respect for this dude on the show. Get well bro! And Caleb we need more ppl like yourself. I like how respectful you treated him on your show and super passionate towards his situation. Respect to both of ya'll.
Don't ever comment on videos. I actually haven't watched your videos in awhile but I'm glad I watched this one in full length. Had to stop to comment when you offered to pay his 401k loan if he stayed sober. Much respect to you Caleb for reaching down and trying to pull someone up who' struggling.
Caleb is such a kind soul. I love when he yells at people that are thick and need to be yelled at. This guest was obviously intelligent but in a tough spot in life and just needed some kindness. Loved this ep and wish him all the luck with his future and mental health ❤
I work nights and Tuesdays are my Friday's so Wednesday morning Caleb Hammer videos are my "Saturday morning cartoons" that I look forward to. Keep up the great work Caleb!
I cannot wait to see a follow-up in 6months!!! Youve got this!! We are so incredibly proud of you for taking the hard steps and wanting to put in the work. I cant wait to see how proud you are of YOURSELF in 6months at how far youve come and the work you did because youre worth it.❤
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This was an incredibly tough conversation, but I am beyond proud of this man. He is checked into rehab now and is getting the help he needs. When he gets out, we are going to be in constant communication to help him along the way and make sure he's safe, healthy, and happy.
He wanted EVERYTHING out there and pushed back on us for wanting to cut things down that may have hurt him out in the real world. We could not honor that request though. We wanted to protect his safety and life, so if some parts seem choppy- that's why. We wanted to make sure we cut anything that would make life for him hard when he gets back. Protecting our guests is our number one priority. I respect TF out of him for wanting to put everything out there though.
He has taken major steps in life just these past few days to turn his life around. Let's all give him the love and support he deserves!
There’s a lot of real ones here in Texas! We speak our truths regardless
Some people want it to happen, some people wish it would happen, others make it happen. Travis- you are a smart dude, you can make this happen. I pray you get that help you need to become happy without a substance. It’s not worth living in chains. ❤ wish you the best ❤
I find it amazing that we're seeing all types of situations in life and I am so proud of him for getting the help he needs. It's incredibly difficult making steps to better yourself and you can tell he really cares for his gf/and his cats because he wants to make the necessary changes. I hope he realizes that making changes for himself matters too! I hope he finds amazing things within himself he loves and finds hobbies/things of enjoyment that is not addiction. I know a lot of friends and family members that have lost their lives to addiction it's incredibly sad. Keep going dude!!! We are proud of you and rooting for your success. ❤️🙏🏼
I hope Travis gets the help he needs because he seems like a nice, intelligent guy with a lot of potential. Tell him we are rooting for him
Rooting for him! And, you as well, Caleb!
He’s an active addict and has a better understandings on his finances than 95% of guests
There’s high functioning addicts just like alcoholics!
There are amazing, smart and talented people in AA too. Addiction is just one aspect of life.
Intelligence has little to do with addiction. Anyone can addicted.
people have a hilarious misconception that all drug users are brain dead, they're just trying to run away from something
Not surprising at all, the whole finance district is literally hopped up in methamphetamines. Idk why people still believe drug addicts are unintelligent 😂
This is the LETS GO TRAVIS button 👏🏻
We’re rooting for you man!
I pushed it. Put it on a shirt
Still rooting for you travis 🫶🏼
TRAVIS! TRAVIS!
Huh?
He got sober and came back on their follow up channel. Pretty cool
Caleb, you sweet summer child. If the girl he’s dating is 24 and has a curfew, she’s living in a halfway house, which is one step away from jail and/or rehab (often both).
lol @ sweet summer child 😅
Or a sober living facility.
He said she’s in a facility… why are you repeating it?
@@Thefluffytutubecause some of us didn’t catch that and I’m glad he commented this because I found it suspicious at first and had a different idea. But thanks anyways Karen
Oh, I did NOT know that.
Thanks for the info bro.
I know it's been six months and this will get lost in the comments but I was a massive heroin addict in my teens and early 20s, now I've been off it for over a decade. I totally believe in this guy and mad respect to him for taking this first step 👏
Currently addicted to keeping those opioid receptors full, and it’s expensive.
That's awesome man, congratulations!
congrats
❤great work keep it up
I’m clean from heroin /fentanyl for like 2 years, on methadone treatment
Caleb making sure to request his favorite menu item back during this heavy episode, not once but TWICE is so on brand lol
😅😅😅
@CalebHammer That honey butter biscuit is pretty good! You can actually order the honey BBQ chicken sandwich, ask them to sub the honey BBQ for honey butter. Ez delicious sandwich acquired
What do you mean “heavy” episode? Terrible pun
@@Chessdude4Dude is talking about drug addiction. Do you not understand the context of the word "heavy" means negatively deeply emotional in this situation?
@@WilC379 i was joking bruh haha
"I'm addicted to drugs"
*cuts to ad read*
Thought the same thing 😂😂😂
Jesus loves you so so very much!
Both these men have such incredibly kind souls. I was fine throughout the entire episode, but Travis ending with “tell your friends you’re proud of them” legit made me tear up in the middle of the gym.
I hope everyone genuinely listens to that beautiful gem of raw, emotional insight.
calrb iosd a losr
Jesus loves ya!
This just highlights the level of comfort and trust that Caleb has with his viewers. "I came for therapy, not an audit" speaks volumes. I hope he sticks with sobriety.
It is a financial audit that’s the main objective
I know it's a financial audit. The guest came because he wanted life counseling instead. Caleb has a stern fatherly demeanor that folks gravitate to for not only financial advice
@@SmallWorldColumbusexactly! He went to Caleb looking for role model and he got it ❤
@@SmallWorldColumbus this is so accurate.
Does anyone else now go through their checking account transactions and yell them out like Caleb? “Starbucks, Amazon, Sephora, Starbucks, McDonald’s, bullshit, bullshit, bullshit!” and it helps them realize how ridiculous their spending is? Very useful. I highly recommend.
Edited to add: Made this comment before they got to the addiction part and dang, that was heavy. I appreciate how Caleb handled it and I’m rooting for this guy!
Ive been doing that since last year my most common purchase s are joe snyder mens thongs tropical thongs meundies and sex shops. Totaling 2k or more a year in purchases.
No, I just manage my finances and don’t live beyond my means.
@@nicktrageser5662Congratulations? I don’t live beyond my means either. The only debt I have is the mortgage on my house. But I could be spending a bit less and saving more. Always improving.
I've been hearing Caleb yell at me every time I review my statements. It's certainly helped me rein in my spending.
I've always lived within my means, but it's helping me turn some temporary indulgences into more savings.
I only keep watching so that I remember to yell at myself when the statement comes. I don't carry debt, but I still see too many stupid purchases. It's kinda fun
Thank you for protecting the quest with the choppy edits. I worry about your guests revealing too much. Just because a person is bad at personal finances does not mean they are not excellent at work or in relationships. Staying ethical with these vulnerable folks is a source of pride and will only bring you good.
I think he may have wanted to reveal it all so that way he had more social pressure to get clean. I'm glad that Caleb pushed back on it just to protect his job but I also respect the hell out of this guy for doing the most he can to get out of his addiction.
This episode hit me hard. I just hit 6 years clean (I was an IV her0in user). I’m rebuilding my life and learning how to “adult” and manage money. I hope he takes recovery seriously. ❤
Thank you Caleb for being such a caring and empathetic human.
Congrats on 6 years, it’s incredible. Best of luck on your journey.
@@katiebrazil2305 thank you so much! Same to you 😊
That's awesome! Welcome back!
Same man but IV meth and coke drove me into 40k of debt :/
Respect for everybody putting in the work and turning their life around!
I came for the financial advice and stayed for this guys bravery and strength. Wishing him the best on his recovery.
I was kinda hoping to get the financial advice too but you get what you need not what you want.
We need an update. He's actually not in the worst financial situation, but this will be a rough road. I'm rooting for him!💜
💜
Do you know what pug he was on? I was having trouble understanding?
@@badtxtrThe first is weed. They said it on camera and the lip movement matches. From context clues, I'm assuming the other is meth, but they cut the camera so I'm not sure.
Just accept that he has an addiction you don’t need the prurient details. Can you please delete the comments above as may impact his recovery and future later.
@@dn8015 Are you a moderator on this channel? If so, feel free to delete any comments that you feel are inappropriate. 💜
Been on a daily binge of audits as my background noise while I work. This episode got my FULL attention and made me pretty emotional. I’m praying for him to heal and overcome his addiction. He seems like such a genuinely sweet, smart and funny person and deserves all the best in life. I’m rooting for you!
If Travis was involved in a car wreck just 24 hours prior and mentioned being under the influence within that timeframe, insurance company investigators may use this information to scrutinize his involvement in the accident.
@@user-vi5vd3ty9dhe’s repeatedly said he’s on drugs and has no regard for the safety of other people as he drives around. He crashed his car, but he could have easily taken someone out with him in the accident.
He needs help, but this type of behavior is neither acceptable nor should it be compensated by insurance companies. Your insurance rate is not based on inebriated driving, it is based on sober driving.
Was about to comment the same.
As they honestly should
@@user-vi5vd3ty9dthat might be necessary. He basically admitted to being high during it. Depending the time of the crash that could easily be figured out
@jacskonboland2941typical addict narcissism.
the mythical "whataburger manager"
😂😂😂😂
He thic
He Old
Hahahahha
This is the second Whataburger manager that's been on the show. There was another one a little bit back.
As someone with a whole lot of addiction in my family including myself, I have a bunch of respect for the both of you in how this conversation played out. He’s taking 100% accountability and the fact Caleb expressively told him he has full control of what gets aired, is exactly how that should go. Well done.
He's talking about using on the weekends. That's not a good sign.
@@darylannmanson3240 you’re correct but that’s transparency which leads to getting better. He’s on here because he knows what he’s doing isn’t working. He’s explaining his thought process and what lead him to that point. He’ll be okay if he can continue to process things in that way combined with getting professional help.
I’m pretty naïve also, I’m just curious what drugs he’s talking about..
@b_ford72 hes talking about pot.
@@darylannmanson3240Just using on the weekends is not an addiction. Not even daily. If it doesn't disrupt your life.
Caleb may not be license therapist but he sure did a good job talking to this brave man. I hope he gets sober and stays sober
I think he did well holding his boundary and not crossing the line. He pushed him and challenged him but he didn't try to cross the line.
I appreciate that Caleb understands that addiction is so much bigger than finances. That has to come first before you can succeed with money
Ain’t that the truth!
I come from a similar situation. Totaled my car, ended up in a wheelchair with nothing to my name, 0 assets and over 300k in medical debt for spending 3 weeks or so in the hospital. 5yrs later I have my own company, living on my own, walking again AND I got sober. It was one of the hardest things I've ever done..
That's amazing! Congratulations on getting clean and being successful
Hell ya dude
What kind of company
Well done.
@@RyanJandercar accident repair
Caleb’s show just entered into a different realm. Wow. It’s apparent this dude is intelligent and will be successful if he can get this drug addiction behind him. He knows what he needs to do, has the tools and the support and I wish him the absolute best of luck. I hope he knows how many of us are pulling for him to completely recover and have a great life.
100% agree. The only part that kind of worries me is when he said he wants to get on a schedule of use where he's maybe only getting high on the weekends. With the weed that's one thing but if the other one is what I assume it is then he needs to cut that one out 100%. Coming from a family with a lot of addiction issues if he can get away from that one he needs to steer clear of anybody who even thinks about touching the stuff. It is so god-damn easy to get back into it. One bad night, one fun party, all you need is to have that available and it's game over.
Not to mention the first time going back after getting sober it's we're the vast majority of overdoses come from because your body has lost the tolerance for it that it had built up over that daily use cycle.
I wish this young man the best of luck.
@@nubbyfresh5623it’s definitely weed they’re talking abt unless u think Caleb smoked meth a couple times
@@star-1814 they're talking about two separate drugs throughout the course of the episode. One is weed and the other one sounds a lot more like he's probably talking about heroin...
@luxuriousgreen9714 the dude in the video stated that he was using two separate drugs. One being something that Caleb tried in college and wasn't a big fan of most likely we'd the other something that Caleb is extremely worried about him using.
I remember that mentality… it’s exactly why they say you need a relapse to truly recover. The addict in you still pushes you into jumping through hoops mentally to avoid fully letting go.
Greetings Caleb and company,
I’ve been watching your channel for some time, episodes new and old, and your show has been immensely helpful when it comes to facing my own situation.
Today’s episode landed a lot closer to home than I expected; practically a bullseye considering I live in the Midwest. I wanted to tell you I greatly appreciate your words regardless of who you were directly speaking to. The fact that you saw his plea for encouragement and support was something I needed to see is possible in a way. I have been struggling with substance abuse since a very young age and I connected with your guest being able to see that it is possible to regain control of your life and self discipline, as well as knowing that people are willing and able to see someone who is stuck and feels invisible at times.
Please know that you and your team are doing something good and correct in all that you are doing. I ask that you continue your work and continue doing good in the world, the ripples from a pebble thrown in a lake can travel much farther than you think. Your actions and reputation have traveled far and I appreciate you immensely
Yours truly,
A lifelong subscriber
❤️❤️❤️
The fact that he made the call to get into a recovery program for himself. Bravo. All the best!
Wouldn’t have done it if people in my life I care about didn’t persuade me to do so
It was actually so he could see his girlfriend. Still, any reason is a good reason.
@@travisreed6978I hope you’re doing well & I hope your support system is strong. You’re worth it!
He more or less was given an ultimatum from his girlfriend
Oh boy... anyone with experience with addiction can tell you this man is at a crossroads. Early in his addiction. Him saying he wants to be on a schedule with drugs is a huge red flag. Any addict will tell you this is how it starts... you try and try to control it and it NEVER EVER WORKS OUT. Thankfully he does acknowledge that he cannot control it, step one. He's looking at 2 paths right now, one to recovery and a happy fullfulling life. The other path ALWAYS will end with jails, institutions, or death. I am praying he chooses the right path and gets out of the spiral before he completely loses everything.
I’ve been there. Done everything this guy has done. Homie looks high right now, has a girlfriend in sober living, and he is using every day. Going to get worse before it gets better….
They should have dropped every single bit if the finances conversation, and just said "OK, how can we get you to detox, on a plane, and to rehab ASAP?" Fuck your finances at that point.
Been there, went to treatment, OD’d days after leaving. I wish I could say I see him staying clean, but the minimizing and rationalizing is something I see having to be worked out through rough experiences. honestly I haven’t seen many people who stayed clean after there first attempt at recovery.
It took me multiple times on probations, countless attempts at recovery, and son being born to finally snap out of it.
I am wishing him all the best though, hope he can beat the odds.
Your terminology of jails, institutions and death is telling, sounds like 12 steps talk :-)
@@blufluffya_496 shhh people get freaked out 😉
I won't be able to watch this episode due to losing a loved one to addiction. It hurts too much to see. Thank you, Caleb for being respectful to this guest. I wish the best for Travis and his future.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you for your kind words ❤
This society is chock full of addicted and depressed people. It's high time that we do something about it!
@@KS0102yeah the sad part we can't do anything.
Prayer sent to you and your heart 💞 #8/28/22 #ripbbgirl 😢
@KS0102 Can't really do kuch about it, they have to want it.
It’s refreshing to see a guest take responsibility for their situation! He’s my favorite guest ever and I’m truly hoping for a positive update in 6 months ❤
Now that’s a comment! ❤
This video is like 7 months old, but I REALLY hope this dude is on the right track now.
If you read this, Travis, PLEASE get it together right now (while you are young). You’re only 25. I just turned 37 and finally got clean and started getting my life together around 34 or 35. Im okay, but I can’t get that time back and I’m behind financially while pushing 40. PLEASE DO NOT LET IT GET OUT OF CONTROL!
There’s an update now!
@@tanjcal oh good!! I’ll have to check it out.
@@tanjcal where! can you post the link?
@@bryngarrity5548 on his other channel, financial audits follow ups
th-cam.com/video/jX_xQiz9IEg/w-d-xo.html
I don't think I have EVER watched an episode that I so desperately hope we get updates on.
I would LOVE to see Travis multiple times a year for as long as Caleb is going on TH-cam.
Hopefully it is a story of triumph and getting himself to an amazing place that others can take points from and follow in the footsteps of.
Props to Travis, you got this man!
Yes, yes, yes!
I literally subscribed so I could get notified for updates!!!
@@redraidercpa 👍
Sheesh I had a blast!! Caleb listen to this comment. Speaking facts
@@redraidercpaI’ll be back as soon as I get the invite 😊
This episode really hits hard. It's easy to lie to yourself, and to everyone else, until you see someone brave enough to put it all out there for everyone to see. Thank you for the inspiration.
Good luck on your journey
Everyday of the week!
He is so mellow and sweet omg I love him. And Caleb is being so cool to him>!< ❤
This is by far my favorite guest Caleb has had. I am so beyond proud of this guy. Even the graduating college with a BIOLOGY degree. He has show through this audit that he is intelligent, calm, and easy-going. I see such a bright future for him as he gets the help he needs. It was also so refreshing to not hear Caleb yelling at all for an entire episode. He was so so so empathetic and sweet, kudos to you!
A crossover I’d pay to see is he auditing people from reality tv shows. Seeing 90 day fiancé Angela flipping his table would be entertainment for a lifetime
Yesss
Those types of 'celebrities' would never want to give up the illusion they are successful. It's why most people even pay attention to them. For what reason I can't comprehend? Some people have nothing positive to look forward to and thrive on drama and conflict.
Only if Mykal gets to come too! Haha
😂
Angela is a monster lol
I thought the title was referring to debt not someone battling for their life. This addiction episode got me right in the feels 😢.
Yeah it’s a hard one :/
What doesn't hit this generation in the feels?
@@anonymity2882probably a nugget slip
@@anonymity2882😂😂
@@anonymity2882 Lead poisoning typically lessens empathy. Gen Z is first gen where the majority of people (USA) weren't exposed to lead. You're the abnormal one here.
I love that you never react in a judgmental way. It makes such a difference
I’ve been on a Caleb binge lately and I stumbled across Travis’s follow up so I had to come back to the original. This really hits home for me and I really hope the best for this guy. I was in a similar situation back in 2019. I was able to get help, got accepted into nursing school, bought a house with my husband and now my husband and I are paying off all our debt….aggressively. But it all started with me getting sober. I really wish you the best my dude. ❤❤❤
Where did you find the follow up?
"Who you hang around with is who you become." Wise words 🔥
Man I would kill to be 6 months in the future and seeing this guy doing well.
Well. Hopefully he doesn't KILL anyone driving around high on whatever. Pathetic
@@peartfaldoyou’re a gross person. He’s saying he’s trying to rectify his situation. Life is heavy sometimes, and you do dumb things. It should be celebrated
@@peartfaldoforsure. We can easily judge someone for what they do until we are in there shoes. Addicts still have to get to work they’re always high so they don’t think they’re really fucked up. Especially opiates and Xanax can be a mother fucker when it comes to that. I’d imagine it’s meth or Xanax that he uses which no one really feels fucked up on. I say we should call someone “pathetic” when we are all fairly pathetic at the core.
@@icedawggg Whatever. I will NEVER be in the shoes of a drug addict. Been around enough of them. They are the most whiny..defensive..blame everyone else...manipulative...dishonest...victim mentality A holes I have ever met. Oh did I mention. they're all pussy's. Waaa waa poor me. Pathetic douchebags that are nothing but a burden to society.
@@icedawggg👏👏👏 well said
I don’t watch this show for advice; I watch it to humble myself. Thankful for people like Caleb.
You can tell how much he respects you and I can see the sincerity in him. You did an incredible thing here. Thank you for being there for him ❤
I am a CPA in Texas and truly enjoy your content. This was by far the most touching episode. Your kindness and compassion was unwavering. Well done Caleb. You could have spun this and thumb nailed this so much worse. You stayed respectful and genuine. well done.
Also CPA in Texas
I need a good cpa so bad up in NC though.
Wish I had the qualifications to become a CPA
@@nxp22 not really that great pay
Functioning addiction is super scary. You appear to be doing well on the outside but you're falling apart on the inside. I hope Travis gets exactly what he needs at the facility in Cali and I hope he can beat his addictions. It must take a lot of courage to come on this show and be so open and willing to accept help/advice. Props to Caleb for offering to help him after the show. You can tell he genuinely cares about Travis and his recovery. Thanks for making these videos Caleb, they help so many people - not just the ones on the show, but also all of us watching!
Amen. It becomes bearable enough to keep up most days (usually for some years like my earlier self) cuz you’re not ODing, you’re working steady, you have a decent apartment or house, you might even have a gf who is (semi) ignorant to your personal reality but it wears you so much. You feel so disconnected from every other normal person. Some part of your immediate family almost certainly is aware though. I felt like I was living a double or triple life at points for 80% of it. It’s very lonely and hopeless feeling.
I spent 12 or so years on opioids as well. Blessed to have worked my way off them almost 19 months ago now.
I disagree that it's better than nonfunctioning addiction. Nonfunctioning addiction forces you to deal with it or spiral into homelessness. Functioning addiction can last decades, eroding your relationships, leaving you a basic shell of a human that might look successful on the outside but on the inside it's a living hell.
Caleb was so nice to me. A pleasure to be apart of the show. 31 days and counting. Sober
This episode went full on Soft White Underbelly and I loved it! I'm always glad to see people brave enough to put their life on display in the interest of helping themselves and others
Miata addiction is a serious issue
Which SWU episode was it?
Who would’ve thunk I’d see Craig here
Ya except Caleb is actually helpful
@@NO-IDENTITY 😂
This one hit hard… please provide us updates on Travis. Really rooting for him. The fact that he’s leaving a living situation that’s bad, dating someone in sober living, heading to rehab, and really trying is so inspiring.
Here’s the first update. 31 days sober and counting. I decided to stay in rehab for an additional 12 days. And will be going into an IOP program immediately after amd I’ll do that for as long as they will have me!
@@travisreed6978Good to see an update from you. Hope everything is still going well two months out from your post. Looking forward to seeing you back on this show at the six month sober mark.
@@travisreed6978 good on ya bud. Hope things are still going well for you. We're pulling for ya man!
@travisreed6978 I just watched your episode yesterday. Sending you all the positive love, energy and support. I hope you are doing well and can update us again when you're ready.
Also, please be kind and patient with your journey. Often relapse is part of the recovery journey and it's nothing to be ashamed of.
Search Caleb Hammer Travis 5.23.24 update.
I never comment on youtube videos, but it's impressive how you interact with people without having had any training to provide counseling or therapy. A lot of actual trained therapists could learn from this, honestly - you're a natural at the conversational skills that balance understanding and bonding with the push that people often need to start getting better. Maybe it stems partly from your own experiences with mental health, but know that you help so many people far beyond just their finances.
I genuinely wish Travis the best. I and many others are rooting for him to get clean and live a long and fulfilling life. I have immense respect for his wish to be completely open and honest about everything and the steps he's taking to improve his life. Good luck dude!
In active addiction we lie to ourselves everyday. Being honest is so freeing
He dropped his girlfriend off at her sober living house and immediately crashed his car because he was high. If he doesn't get sober NOW she needs to leave him.
If he's doing dope there is no way he is going to get his finances straight.
Caleb said he’s not doing opiates.
It's weed right?
@@shaniaandrews8782 I haven't watched it all, but I'm not sure what
@@shaniaandrews8782yeah probably benzos
This was incredibly brave of him to put his story out there. I’m so proud of him for taking the steps to get help.
Thanks. It didn’t feel like I was being brave. I look a wreck tho tbh. I’ll look better in the 6 month follow up. Promise
Right on my man
Your an amazing soul Caleb, from someone who was in his position, who has now recovered, I wish the best for him and am rooting for his success.
Whoop whoop. Congrats on recovery. I’m 31 days rn and pushing
I wonder what the odds are of someone coming on the show that works at Panda Express making 90k a year with a fully funded emergency fund sitting in a high yield savings account following the 50/30/20 rule that is maxing out their Roth IRA. I think Caleb would just died and go to heaven at that point.
Especially if it was a single woman also looking to cancel her Hinge subscription.
Especially if he brings him some! Orange chicken ftw!
@@gidgetgetscraftyand if she asked him why he’s on the app, he’dprobably go out and buy a ring.
Can’t hurt if they have the $15 a month phone company he pushes 😝
c@@gidgetgetscrafty LOOOL
30+ years daily and I quit for my kids. Noticed a huge mood improvement, saved tons of money, less tired all the time, less anxious all the time. I don't even miss it. It's tough to start, the nightmares are terrible but once you're a few months in you'll be much happier.
Congrats!
Really happy for you and your kids
30+ years daily g? How much a day? A single joint?
I have no issues in life myself, im ripping easy a qp a month, in bong tokes lmao.
My vehicle is paid off, i pay 950/lb, making a qp cost me 237.50..
237.50 is far less then many peoples car payments 🤣
Can spend more on coffee if you buy 2-3 times a day, even cheap coffee lmao
I stated the car payment as a difference as, the money could have been spent elsewhere, but isn't. Sure if it effects your life and stops you from getting what you need/want, of course you have a problem.
But smoking a joint at night to go to bed?
What kinda problems could you even have 🤣
You wouldn't even have the mental addiction as you can go multiple hours without using the substance 🤣
Thats called having an outlet.
Many play a video game, watch tv, etc.
Nobody sells their fridge over bud.
They will when it comes to a physically addicting drug. Dont need a fridge, i need heroin type situation.
Thank you for doing it for yourself, but especially for your kids.
My best buddy from high school is very successful he was still smoking pot daily at age 50 and started when 15. I am not sure of the message here…
@@joycef8443it is texas
Caleb, finances may be your talent and passion, but your empathy and encouragement are your gift!!!!
It’s a lot to handle in person tbh. I almost cried. And I definitely did in the car on the way to the airport.
I have several friends who are sober addicts, and I can not begin to tell you how much strength it takes to win that battle. No one can do it alone, but this guy has a damned good start already. Hes taking responsibility, hes taking action, he's a man to take a bet on. I really want to see him back in 6 months, sober and in control.
Hell Yeah 31 days sober rn and counting. That’s already 1/6th the way! A day clean is a day won
Caleb grilling him for whataburger getting rid of the mushroom Swiss is definitely something I can get behind! I’ve never agreed more on one of these episodes 😂
Caleb’s balance between having a solid stance on certain scenarios, and forgiving/understanding on others, down to a perfection imo. Almost makes me want to improve my own life lol, but I’ll just enjoy that vicariously for now
It's a beautiful combination of selfless empathy and rational thinking. It's surprisingly rare to find people who are able to juggle both to such a high standard, our boy is something special alright.
Caleb telling him to mix tea at home because Arizona is too expensive is the most annoyingly Caleb thing
As a person who has struggled with addiction I really appreciate this video. Ur a good dude Caleb need more people like you. This guys a trooper as well wishing him the best!
I actually went to high school with Travis and I wouldn’t say we were friends more acquaintances. And we worked together at Little Caesars where he was the assistant manager.
I will say he always was a leader and grinding for high school jobs,but some of our mutual friends got him doing all these drugs. Sounds like his making better money than our other friends who are job hopping. But he’s smart, graduated and works hard just unfortunate how much drugs can drain you.
yea thats probably why he could explain how the crash happened very well. High or drunk from the "thing" with the girl
what drugs is he on? i thought they were talking about weed tbh
@y.w.9925 probably weed also, however he said he started doing something regularly in the past like few months. I would guess coke
@@MtnDewWarrioryeah true i got to the part with the skis and thought coke as well
@@MtnDewWarriorCoke is not that bad ffs, it’s bad if you do to much of it he doesn’t have the money to do to much coke. He’s more implying meth or fentanyl.
kudos to caleb and the editing team for protecting this guest. very good audits.
In what way did they protect him
@@carialvthe cash register noises to avoid legal jeopardy
I’ll say a prayer for you tonight Travis. I really hope you find the way brother!
The path has been laid and the roads lit my man! I’m walking it
@@travisreed6978 good to hear man!
@@travisreed6978mad respect brother. Keep it up!
Let’s hope that Travis can look back on this conversation and it’s a turning point to the rest of his life, I’m wishing him a future full of health, wellbeing and financial security.
Amen!
This episode makes me realize how great of a guy Caleb is. So much empathy! Good luck to this young man. It breaks my heart to see someone like him struggle. We believe in you !!! Cannot wait to see the follow up episode.
I started watching this channel bc my dude and I got sober together after addiction thoroughly wrecked our lives in every aspect including financial. 3 yrs clean and rebuilt everything from scratch, realized that we suck at finances as we never put the time in to learn/practice good habits. We just paid off my engagement ring (not an expensive one--we just financed it bc we got engaged like 3 months sober and broke af). This channel is how I learned what a realistic budget is and strategy for paying off debt. So I relate to this guy and I hope he gets it together. He sounds like he's in a good head space and I wish him and his lady the best.
congratulations on your sobriety and your engagement 💜
congrats! you truly are building your life together. 3 years is a HUGE accomplishment. thank you for sharing. I was so sad to see Travis leave into the cruel cruel world but it's nice to read that people do get out. Wishing you the best!
Get it girl! Proud of where you are and where you're going. 👏
Caleb you ALMOST had me tearing up in the first half of this. I jus got hip to your channel maybe a week ago and have watched so many videos. You're the tuff older brother that some of us need
Caleb is one of the kindest, most genuine and generous guys out there. I’m so glad I stumbled across this channel. Keep doing you, Caleb! You’re doing an amazing thing here for all of us!
Addiction is a horrible disease. As someone who has a family member who battles with addiction, it's horrible to see what it does to people. With a disease like this, you really can't just do it every once in a while. It's a chemical dependency that your brain has rewired to need. I'm glad he is choosing to go to a rehab facility and starting the process of sobriety. I really wish him the best on his recovery and a bright future ahead.
Ya he just fell on a needle. Whoops.
@@James-qi6ziyou must have a room temperature IQ with that reading comprehension
A needle? Who said anything about a needle
No more bonuses? Let us not question why the UAW is on strike. Let us not question why companies/fast food struggle to hire/retain
$60k isn't a great salary for that job.
UAW got 10-20k bonuses lol.
@@joesmith3590now compare that to the bonuses of CEOs. Inflating the value of your stocks with buybacks isn’t labor. Those who do the work or assembling the cars are the ones that drive actual revenue.
@@Amanda-xx7sjno they don’t the workers in Detroit have destroyed the city 2 times and the companies 2 times. You are thinking about Toyota where good products are made by good employees
@@andrew8168$60k is a great salary considering it can be achieved so quickly (6 months or so). That’s around $32/hr. Many people would be happy with that.
You handled this very well Caleb. You truly care for your guests and others around you. Thank you.
This young man is so smart for doing this now. I’m glad he gets to talk to you, Caleb. You are helping so many young people in so many ways! I wish I had avenues like this to help me in my young adult years. Hang in there and know that there are a lot of people pulling for you. You can do this!!!!
The REALEST episode ever! Shout out to this young man and his new better future 💚💚💚💚💚💚💚
When I heard Travis’ final thoughts, “Tell your friends you’re proud of them.” I just lost it emotionally 😭
This intelligent young man has such incredible potential and he just wants to be seen and acknowledged and recognized in life. I wish him all the best and I look forward to seeing him come out on the other side stronger than ever.
Thanks! I’m trying. Just got my phone back from rehab. I’m 31 days sober now. Still got 11 more days to go. I decided to stay longer
@@travisreed6978Travis, that’s amazing!! I am so proud of you. It will all be worth it in the end!
@@travisreed6978That’s awesome! Cheering you on, Travis! You got this!
Stick with it Travis. I’m rooting for you.
Caleb was a stand out dude this episode. No judgements and only trying to help. Love it
He just seems like such a good dude. Really want him to succeed!
Man I really hope he recovers and turns his life around. Broke my heart when he said "Tell your friends you're proud of them." He deserves to live an amazing life and I hope he takes the opportunity to do so.
Mad respect to Travis. Putting issues like his out for the world to see especially while they are on going is incredibly brave. Wishing the best for him, I really hope we get a positive update down the road.
Me too!
This is one of the smarter people that Caleb has had on the show. I feel for the guy, I've been in his spot and I wouldn't wish it on anyone. I hope he's able to get a fresh start and be happy!
You did a great job Caleb. And, I would recommend doing something like Mental Health First Aid to be equipped with skills for handling situations like this, and being able to decompress afterwards bc convos like this are intense, esp when you’re not a mental health professional by trade. Really enjoyed this episode.
I know people rag on it, but restaurant/fast food managers can make an INCREDIBLE living. It is insanely difficult work, but financially it can be so worth it. I was a general manager at a fast food restaurant for 2.5-3 years and that is the main reason I was able to save up and buy a home at 20! More people should genuinely consider the position. Looking forward to this video, as always, Caleb!
Absolutely
It’s very hard work, very few can do it.
Just saw another video on YT talking about how Middle Management is probably one of the best places to be right now
Wife and I were managers at fast food and a coffee shop. Both went to school for pharmacy and now both make 150k+ a year. If we stayed managing fast food/coffee we would be in the same spot mathematically. College is sooooo expensive. These jobs can be awesome but time consuming.
I agree! My brother was making 80k+ as a manager at bill millers at 20. You just have to be able to handle all that comes with it.
Almost 4 years sober I can't believe how much recovery has become such an intricate part of my life. I immediately knew every reference and code he was talking about but Caleb was so confused. Like I knew without him saying that his girlfriend is in sober living. Im so proud of him for making this first step. Good luck to you my brother we do recover.
Yeah. When he said she had a curfew and had to be inside at a certain time, I figured that, too.
😅😅 you know your stuff huh 😅
@@travisreed6978 the drug world fascinates me lol. I watch and read alot of stuff pertaining to it. Its a wild world
Travis is the best guest that’s ever been on this show ❤
Loved Caleb’s handling of this guy’s situation. It’s so good he’s self correcting early on. Best of luck to him coming back stronger.
I’m so thankful to be in recovery so early. So many addicts suffer in isolation for years before seeking help.
This video is a hard one. But SUCH an important discussion all around that many people struggle with on the daily and can incredibly affect their finances. This audit was a hard one but thank you Caleb for following through and allowing him to be clear and have an open discussion. I hope he’s doing okay and we get an amazing follow up.
So thrilled to see a mental health sponsor that Caleb deemed worthy of partnering with. ❤ I am so so looking forward to see this young man excel! He will do great!
As an ex addict, I’m so happy about the way you handled this Caleb, and I’d love to donate if you were willing to set something up for him and get hair testing. It’ll clean out of blood and urine in a matter of a few short days depending on which one, but hair tests show everything for the length of the hair that is there if that makes sense. The transparency he’s showing here is very admirable and really has me thinking he’ll actually commit to being sober. Which is very exciting! I absolutely love being sober now, and I wish more people could experience it. I was a stoner from the age of 12 and up and then other things from there, so now that I’m mid-30’s and clean from everything but nicotine and caffeine, it’s honestly so addictive being in my right mind.
Anyway, like I said, I’d love it if you set up a donation method for us to help him, controlled by test outcomes. Thanks for what you do Caleb🫶
This guy is AWESOME!!! Keep on your sober life journey man!! ❤❤ Kudos to you for acknowledging you have a problem ❤️
Caleb, would love for you to keep delving into more complicated situations like these. Last episode you were asked about how youre going to keep your videos "fresh" without falling into a formula and i think if youre up to it focusing on guests with more complicated struggles is this. Personal spending and finances do not live in a vacuum, theres so much grey area with mental health, addiction, eating disorders, self harm, financial abuse, insecurity, unhealthy relationships, etc that i think can be totally ignored by most of the personal finance community. Theres always a deeper root of the issue when it comes to unhealthy spending and purchasing habits. I think if you focused on helping people recognize (not treating) where the root of their unhealthy finances came from you can help even more people who watch your videos and can relate to your guests
Caleb's not a professional rehab or drug counselor. This guest has issues Caleb can't address beyond giving encouragement.
I love this show and to see Caleb truly care about people is amazing. This audit primary focus isn’t on finance but I like to see the empathy from Caleb. I also like that he’s supporting him get clean in helping pay off the 401k loan. Way to go!
I wish I could give your comment 50 likes 👍
Incredible episode. I hope he really gets the help he needs! He has so much potential and is only 25! You're empathy was palpable and I'm so glad I stumbled upon your channel. I am so so so lucky that I have a very good paying job, married a very very frugal man, and we are in a really incredible financial situation but I can still learn a lot about priorities, investments, and other people's struggles to allow myself to be more empathetic others in a less favorable financial position than myself in my own life.
As tough as this episode and situation was, it was really refreshing to watch an episode where Caleb doesn’t need to absolutely tear into them.
As someone who watches these videos baked, I might take a break from the devils lettuce soon. I appreciate this episode!
same!
I was wondering what he was talking about.
@@ses-ei7oc I don’t think the guy in the vid smokes pot
What is he referring too?
He aint talkin about weed.
He is prolly talkin about meth.
After his struggle understanding the "60k before any bonus?" question I was like whoa somethings wrong here. Annnddd then we find out.
Yeah this dude is out the lunch. Could barely understand a straight forward question.
And he's driving on the road and crashing his car.
You must not have watched the whole video prior to this comment. He's arguably one of the most self-aware and intelligent people Caleb has had on the show
@@langs089 he may be those things but he was not in his right mind here as the example I listed shows. And it makes sense as he admitted to taking drugs "18 hours ago" which led to him crashing his car "12 hours ago". He may be self aware and intelligent but he was not in his right mind at this moment. Hopefully he finds his way.
@@chrishayes4166I think he said 18 hrs before the crash. He was definitely driving intoxicated though so his insurance will probably be cancelled if they find this vid
Way to fucking go on getting help! I can't wait to see him back on the show and see how far he's come! I hope he gets all the help he needs and a great support system. From one addict to another YOU REALLY CAN DO THIS! I believe in you and so do a lot of people here. One day at a time!
Caleb. Your superpower is hard to define. But you are a hero. I hope you recognize a fraction of what your viewers see in you. I honestly believe you helped this person. That is something to be proud of
I believe he helped me too. I’m proud of Caleb he does awesome
"Am I just a sheltered little boy", yes Caleb, you are, and so am I! bassoonist here and I value my lungs and air too! I wish this chap the best...people can turn it around!
No. I don't see how not doing drugs or being well-versed in the drug life makes someone sheltered. I would say that most people are not doing drugs, or maybe doing only light stuff. But...not being up on the hard-drug lifestyle I think is the normal default position. Not sheltered.
Hey fellow bassoonist!
Bassoon!!🎉
For some reason, this episode hit me hard like a ton of bricks. It's crazy, I just finished watching Painkillers on Netflix yesterday night and I got nothing but respect for this dude on the show. Get well bro! And Caleb we need more ppl like yourself. I like how respectful you treated him on your show and super passionate towards his situation. Respect to both of ya'll.
Don't ever comment on videos. I actually haven't watched your videos in awhile but I'm glad I watched this one in full length. Had to stop to comment when you offered to pay his 401k loan if he stayed sober. Much respect to you Caleb for reaching down and trying to pull someone up who' struggling.
Caleb is such a kind soul. I love when he yells at people that are thick and need to be yelled at. This guest was obviously intelligent but in a tough spot in life and just needed some kindness. Loved this ep and wish him all the luck with his future and mental health ❤
I work nights and Tuesdays are my Friday's so Wednesday morning Caleb Hammer videos are my "Saturday morning cartoons" that I look forward to. Keep up the great work Caleb!
Great job Caleb and Travis! Stay with it. I am rooting and praying for you to be successful.
❤️❤️❤️
This is the one person I want an update on so much.
I cannot wait to see a follow-up in 6months!!! Youve got this!! We are so incredibly proud of you for taking the hard steps and wanting to put in the work. I cant wait to see how proud you are of YOURSELF in 6months at how far youve come and the work you did because youre worth it.❤
Ah shucks. I’m blushing