Loved how honest and real Matt was. He was funny but yet serious about the topics. I’m so glad you found someone that values you as a wife and as a mother.
Hi Matt great video i think you and Emily are amazing not only as parents but as people I've never met two more caring and kind people in my life before xx
I love that you guys always point out how lucky you are to be parents. I'm one of those people that would give anything to be one, I appreciate your sensitivity.
This was sooo beautiful. Not to sounds so corny but it’s beautiful when fathers are so involved and hands on and it’s easy to see why bc the couple (you two) are a healthy supportive relationship that you WANT to be there for each other. And that in turn spills over into the relationship with your children 😭😭😭
This was so useful to know what the other half would go through because sometimes we don't actually think about how the men are feeling, because the mums are so over whelmed with looking after the children. Great video!
Really enjoyed Matt's cheeky manner but most of all I loved how much he appreciates what it takes to be a loving partner and father! You guys are so sweet together
My partner is almost due and by now I’m used to being told everything’s my fault.. The honesty and presentation in this video gives me confidence to believe we can do it..
@Geoff Harper No it's having a very hard time, crazy hormones and being scared. In a loving relationship it's normal to then show your feelings opnely to your partner and wanting him to participate in your feelings. And in such a time it's frustration, sadness, anger... Geofry just try to be the better part. Take her seriously but don't fight on all the things she is fighting on. Stay calm, tell her you love her. Just remember what she is going through is probably a lot harder than what you are going through with her mood.
#3 is true, after my wife gave birth she had complications and was on bed rest for almost two weeks. During those two weeks I took the “night shift” and became an expert at changing diapers. I was able to take two months off from work with accumulated vacation days and that was the best thing I could have done not only to spend time with my newborn but also to help my wife. I have never been more tired in my life during that first month and I could only imagine those women who stay at home alone with a newborn.
I have my first son on the way. Nice to get a guys perspective on our side of things. So many videos are for women. Please tell your Husband it helped me to hear from him.
My gf just had first ultrasound today and the baby is a little peanut with nubs stickin out.. when I heard that heartbeat.. I got goosebumps and it REALLY hit me.. thank you for the advice.. I am going to make this child my entire World. My Father was Never there for me, so I will *Never Leave.*
Oh my gosh, this was so lovely 🥰, I’m just approaching 16 weeks of our first pregnancy and my partner doesn’t seem all that excited (cause for him it doesn’t seem real yet but we’ve been wanting this for a while), so I’ll show him this video. Thank you for sharing this xxxxx
It's so nice to have a relaxed husband. My husband is very stressed and easily irritated these days, we are waiting our first child and I think he is scared about how it's going to be, plus all the financial pressure, not having enough time to bond etc... Poor men... Some take it so hard. I hope he's gonna men-up, have more patience and relax more with the time.
Me and my husband are having trouble conceiving a baby and seeing you two so bound together and having such a sweet family I envy you(in the good way) and I wish that soon me and my hubby could experience all the beautiful things that come along with a baby! You are an example of a strong and loving family for me!
Hope soon to have a little baby in your arms from the bottom of my heart!!don't be anxious and never give up!think positive and stay hopeful!good things come to our life when we don't even expect.. them!!my best wishes and my greetings from Greece!🧚♀️🧚♀️🧚♀️
@@ΕλευθερίαΤ-φ9ψ Thank you so much! In these situations encouragments are the things that help me most to be positive and grateful no matter what happens and every month that I get a negative test to continue and be thankful to God for everything! Best wishes for you to and all the happiness in the world to fullfill your heart!
@@ralucasavi3574 thank you so much..you seem to be a nice and good person with good vibes and a good heart..I truly wish you the best in your life!!and I am sure you are going to have soon whatever you wish and you want!little things in our life are what really matter and bring joy and laugh to our heart!appreciate every minute and the good will return back to you!⭐⭐⭐🌟🌟🌟🍀🍀🍀🌹🥀⚘🌷God bless your heart your mind and your life!
I just love the way you bounce off each other and the chemistry between you both. The way you look at Matt is just gorgeous! He’s so naturally funny too xx
16 weeks until my first! Can't wait! I think about the baby to be every single day and I have 2 strong emotions come through. Absolute panic (because we're moving house and timing is terrible) and absolute love for my baby and fiancé!
@@mrsemilynorris ahhhh hi Matt!! Love Emily's channel! I've told my hubby I want to move to Essex! He works out of Rayleigh but we live in County Durham. I've said he has to go see your salon too!! :)
Poor Matt....verbally abused, sexually deprived, and NO coffee! I love these videos with Matt!! He is absolutely hilarious! Y'all are such a sweet couple with a beautiful family. LOVED THIS!!💓
Great advice Matt! It's so lovely to hear from a man's perspective. It's so lovely to see the love between the two of you it's so cute! The way you giggle Emily when he says something funny it's so lovely to see. Xx
I am a father of Four children two girls two boys all fit and healthy. I never seemed to get over the helplessness of seeing your wife in so much pain when giving birth . Men make good friends with your midwifes theses girls know there stuff they never panic , never shout at them or think you know more this will just stress everyone out . Don’t over study the birth and labor to much. As long as you know basically what’s going to happen everything takes care of it’s self . First births generally take the longest be prepared for this .
Love the house cleaner point!! Got 4 ages 5months to 6yrs. Hard to keep it clean around here! You guys are so cute!! Such a blessing to have a good marriage these days.
Matts so likeable! Reminds me of my partner, we’re so lucky to have such supportive and loving partners and daddys! All these points are so true and I don’t think enough dads speak up about their true feelings! X
Matt is awesome! He seems reserved and introverted but it definitely shows how much he loves you and the kids. I wish you two many decades of love, laughter and joy together. :)
Spot on Matt! People know it’s hard work for mums (cause we do go on about it!) but dads I think can really find it tough “being there” for a brand new life and a hormonal exhausted mum. But you’ve made excellent points for dads to really come to terms with. You got a good one Emily 👍🏻
As a new mom I really enjoyed watching this video on tips. Thank you for taking the time to create such awesome content. I like the insight of what my husband may be going through as a new dad. Could you maybe in the future create a video on your husbands style/outfits.
Thanks Matt and Emily, we will be having are first born in a couple months and the reality of becoming a father is starting to set in. i just want you to know that this video helps alot. this is my first video i have watched but you guys have a new subscriber and i will be watching alot of your videos. thank you again.
Hey! Loved that video! I’m only 22 and have a son 3months old, I’ve been following your channel ever since I’ve fallen pregnant and honestly I was so panic about being a mum until I watched your videos! It really allowed me to have a direction to my new Mum life ♥️ I even got my partner to watch all your videos and his defo watching this one! Just wanted to know u really do have an effect on people’s lives like mine :) xxxx
There aren’t enough videos from men’s perspectives, I found Matt’s very insightful and honest. More please. How about what hubby could do to support wife’s pregnancy struggles?
Hi. Matt here, Emily has let me loose on her comments! The idea was all Emilys, but am glad she got me to do it, and hopefully my advice helps. Thanks for watching Emily's channel x
I love this video! Matt is great and you two complement each other so well! I'm also so glad that the comments are so positive and that nobody seems to have taken Matt too seriously! He is very funny!
Such beautiful couple! Matts very funny and Emily is so sweet, love adoring she is of Matt and their boys! “Some call it under the thumb I call it wisdom” 👏🏼😂😂😂 i strongly feel Matt needs to educate many men, I shall defo make my other half watch this video 💕😘
I think it is very good of Matt, to come on and actually give an honest perspective. I often get upset with my husband because of certain dad duty related things but its interesting to see: ok other men feel this too! I really love this channel because it makes you feel good, positive and inspired. Please do more videos with Matt, things from a dad perspective, or how to manage a relationship with more children, less time. Another suggestion maybe Matt could do a video about what he thinks keeps the relationship alive after kids, what a wife or partner could do, from the male perspective it would be super interesting! Thanks guys :)
I saw a post from a woman who has a husband that does nothing for her, the kids or the family. He works. Thats it. She goes on to say how this is normal, men don't think like we do, and now that she's accepted it she's at peace and they don't fight anymore. Im going to share this with her, so she can see that men can be present and carry half the skye right alongside their partner. Thanx for being such a rad dad and human Matt!
I’m having my first baby with my wife and I’m not sure what to expect at all but I’m glad this video was recommended for me tell your husband thank you for his perspective
What a lovely video ❤ I've just had my second child 6 days ago and I agree with everything Matt has said. You make such a lovely couple and wonderful parents xx
Some women rarely think about the fact that it’s hard on men too. They’re going through a life changing experience too, and often they work full time and even though they aren’t breastfeeding, they’re still getting woken up with bub the same as the woman. Then they deal with our hormones, lack of intimacy, and often additional chores. My hubby was incredible and worked himself to the ground to make me feel supported. High five to you guys, and you so are right on all of it Matt
For those who can't afford a cleaner, practice my mantra..."good enough is good enough." I am an all-or-nothing kinda person, and after kids got frustrated I didn't have time to keep up. Just do what you can when can when you feel like it. Spending time with the babies is most important. Soon they'll be old enough to help with chores. THEN they'll be gone and you can spend all day cleaning.
My dad left my mom after I was conceived at a party. At age 8, I naively asked her if my older sister's dad (who lived hours away) could be my dad. He agreed and I started calling him dad, but stopped at 16. It's been handshakes and casual chats since (when I _very rarely_ saw him). At my sister's wedding, I feel he interacted with me a bit too much: seeing who's taller when I casually mentioned my height, fist-bumping me because of something I said, remarking how good the food looked, praising my heart and apologetic anxiety about possibly hurting someone (when I referenced my lack of filter). At some point, he said I doubted myself--though I don't remember why/how--and when I denied it and said I just don't like to sound conceited, I prefer to be modest, he said I should see it as confidence and that I was amazing. I'm kinda awkward now. Maybe he was "forcing" himself to see my good qualities, since I'd "forced" him to be my "dad" as a kid? Just being nice? Condescending me? What do you think? If that's the case, I feel I would want to see him less (I complicatedly say loosely). I'm not a kid anymore and I don't need pity kindness. Not that I don't want to impress him any more, of course. It's a confusing mix of feelings.
Lol! This made me laugh quite a bit. I love how honest he was and how true it must be for many guys. I could definitely see my husband saying a lot of the same stuff.
Love this! Love the honesty and commitment to parenting you both share. So important to be on the same page! Hubby and I are navigating this crazy ride too, we have 3 boys also! 😆
Your so cute together. All of Matts points were valid I wish all men would take these comments on board and utilise them. Matt comes across quite shy. His facial expressions are so funny. #Marriagegoals
By the way really great video! All the topics are very close to every couple's hearts, and after watching it i feel like i understand my husband more. Great job Matt!
What a Dad should know? Be patient. Be willing to ask questions. It is ok to admit you are stressed and seeing wife / partner stressed or tired makes you stressed too. Your partner really wants an hour to herself. Daily. She will be so much happier. Help make that happen. Diapers are not that big a deal. Life changes when you have kids. But it is amazing. And a lot (a lot of changes.) And loud. And messy. But amazing. Give yourself grace. Give your partner grace. The messes and pre-baby routine will be better soon. Just take it a day at a time at first. No matter how many ive had, the first few weeks can be bumpy. And messy. And truth is an hour of rest is so much more wanted than most anything else when baby is content.
I love love loved this video! You guys are the cutest couple ever ❤️. And I love that Matt is so genuine, truthful, thoughtful but still funny with it. He gave loads of good tips for new dads. Xx
First of all, you two are one of the most adorable couples. Love the transparency, because seriously that is exactly real talk! My hubby and I are having our 1st baby. I'm at 32 weeks. Great tips in this video! We both love it! Amazing how so much with parenting and preparation can be so universal. TFS!
Number 5. Yep!! My husband gets it in the ear too and he has also come to accept responsibility for everything that goes wrong. HAPPY WIFE, HAPPY LIFE! 😂😉
Hi. Matt here, Emily has let me loose on her comments! Indeed, happy wife happy life is so true and I am not afraid to say it! Thanks for watching Emily's channel x
I really like seeing you around your husband, you have three kids and you still look in love genuinely with each other! You are an awesome family! My husband and I have a 11 mo gorgeous girl and we are planning to have 2 more children, the five of you give me such a good vibe and a "I cannot wait for that too" feeling!
Hi. Matt here, Emily has let me loose on her comments! Glad I made you laugh, hopefully laughing with me and not at me! Thanks for watching her channel x
Loved how honest and real Matt was. He was funny but yet serious about the topics. I’m so glad you found someone that values you as a wife and as a mother.
Hi. Matt here, Emily has let me loose on her comments! I am glad to have found Emily, literally hit the jackpot! Thanks for watching Emily's channel x
Hi Matt great video i think you and Emily are amazing not only as parents but as people I've never met two more caring and kind people in my life before xx
I love that you guys always point out how lucky you are to be parents. I'm one of those people that would give anything to be one, I appreciate your sensitivity.
Yes thank you for that! My husband and I are also one of those people
Thinking of you and your wishes/prayers.
Great video ❤️
Yes, same here it took us a long time to get here and we didn’t even think it was possible! ❤️🙏
Lisa hang in there! Don’t give up hope just yet. My prayers/wishes are with you! ❤️🙏
It's always interesting to hear a husband's perspective -- thanks!
Hi Aidan. Matt here, Emily has let me loose on her comments! Thanks for watching her channel x
This was sooo beautiful. Not to sounds so corny but it’s beautiful when fathers are so involved and hands on and it’s easy to see why bc the couple (you two) are a healthy supportive relationship that you WANT to be there for each other. And that in turn spills over into the relationship with your children 😭😭😭
Hi. Matt here, Emily has let me loose on her comments! Not corny at all, my kids are my everything! Thanks for watching Emily's channel x
Veeron21 I know! so sweet!!
I bloody loved this!!! More Matt videos please! 👏🏻😂
Hi Lauren. Matt here, Emily has let me loose on her comments! Ha she's working on the more videos! Thanks for watching her channel! x
“...that ball of flesh comes out of your wife!!” 😂😂
Hi. Matt here, Emily has let me loose on her comments! Haha. That was such blokey comment wasn't it. Thanks for watching Emily's channel x
This was so useful to know what the other half would go through because sometimes we don't actually think about how the men are feeling, because the mums are so over whelmed with looking after the children. Great video!
Really enjoyed Matt's cheeky manner but most of all I loved how much he appreciates what it takes to be a loving partner and father! You guys are so sweet together
My partner is almost due and by now I’m used to being told everything’s my fault..
The honesty and presentation in this video gives me confidence to believe we can do it..
@Geoff Harper No it's having a very hard time, crazy hormones and being scared. In a loving relationship it's normal to then show your feelings opnely to your partner and wanting him to participate in your feelings. And in such a time it's frustration, sadness, anger...
Geofry just try to be the better part. Take her seriously but don't fight on all the things she is fighting on. Stay calm, tell her you love her. Just remember what she is going through is probably a lot harder than what you are going through with her mood.
Sucks your wife is like that. Mine isnt
This was amazing! “No one actually cares how tired you are.” Great tips, we just had our first and my husband agrees with all of them.
Matt is soooo right, - so many people dream about being parents so just cherish what you have
#3 is true, after my wife gave birth she had complications and was on bed rest for almost two weeks. During those two weeks I took the “night shift” and became an expert at changing diapers. I was able to take two months off from work with accumulated vacation days and that was the best thing I could have done not only to spend time with my newborn but also to help my wife. I have never been more tired in my life during that first month and I could only imagine those women who stay at home alone with a newborn.
Awww clearly the perspective of a wonderful loving dad .... your boys are lucky to have two wonderful parents like you and Matt
Hi. Matt here, Emily has let me loose on her comments! You're too kind, thanks. And thanks for watching Emily's channel x
I have my first son on the way. Nice to get a guys perspective on our side of things. So many videos are for women. Please tell your Husband it helped me to hear from him.
Hi. Matt here, Emily has let me loose on her comments! Glad it helped and enjoy the newborn! Thanks for watching her channel x
My gf just had first ultrasound today and the baby is a little peanut with nubs stickin out.. when I heard that heartbeat.. I got goosebumps and it REALLY hit me.. thank you for the advice.. I am going to make this child my entire World. My Father was Never there for me, so I will *Never Leave.*
“Some call it under the thumb, I call it wisdom” “don’t give your wife ammunition” 👏🏽🙌🏽
Oh my gosh, this was so lovely 🥰, I’m just approaching 16 weeks of our first pregnancy and my partner doesn’t seem all that excited (cause for him it doesn’t seem real yet but we’ve been wanting this for a while), so I’ll show him this video.
Thank you for sharing this xxxxx
Omg this was amazing! I loved Matt's honesty and how you work as a team. You boys are very lucky to have you two as parents xx
raymay 90 They really seem to be awesome parents! I loved the video too!
It's so nice to have a relaxed husband. My husband is very stressed and easily irritated these days, we are waiting our first child and I think he is scared about how it's going to be, plus all the financial pressure, not having enough time to bond etc... Poor men... Some take it so hard. I hope he's gonna men-up, have more patience and relax more with the time.
So refreshing to have the dads point of view, thanks for sharing Matt!
Me and my husband are having trouble conceiving a baby and seeing you two so bound together and having such a sweet family I envy you(in the good way) and I wish that soon me and my hubby could experience all the beautiful things that come along with a baby! You are an example of a strong and loving family for me!
Hope soon to have a little baby in your arms from the bottom of my heart!!don't be anxious and never give up!think positive and stay hopeful!good things come to our life when we don't even expect.. them!!my best wishes and my greetings from Greece!🧚♀️🧚♀️🧚♀️
@@ΕλευθερίαΤ-φ9ψ Thank you so much! In these situations encouragments are the things that help me most to be positive and grateful no matter what happens and every month that I get a negative test to continue and be thankful to God for everything! Best wishes for you to and all the happiness in the world to fullfill your heart!
@@ralucasavi3574 thank you so much..you seem to be a nice and good person with good vibes and a good heart..I truly wish you the best in your life!!and I am sure you are going to have soon whatever you wish and you want!little things in our life are what really matter and bring joy and laugh to our heart!appreciate every minute and the good will return back to you!⭐⭐⭐🌟🌟🌟🍀🍀🍀🌹🥀⚘🌷God bless your heart your mind and your life!
@@ΕλευθερίαΤ-φ9ψ Thank you so so much for everything you said! God bless you to! 🤗🇹🇩
Good luck sweetie! Wr are trying too. Not very long but still when you want it now. I'm sure you understand.
I just love the way you bounce off each other and the chemistry between you both. The way you look at Matt is just gorgeous! He’s so naturally funny too xx
16 weeks until my first! Can't wait! I think about the baby to be every single day and I have 2 strong emotions come through. Absolute panic (because we're moving house and timing is terrible) and absolute love for my baby and fiancé!
I've sent this to my husband!! I'm 28 weeks today ... let's hope he watches and takes note! 😂xx
Hi. Matt here, Emily has let me loose on her comments! Yes take note Claire's hubby. Thanks for watching her channel! x
@@mrsemilynorris ahhhh hi Matt!! Love Emily's channel! I've told my hubby I want to move to Essex! He works out of Rayleigh but we live in County Durham. I've said he has to go see your salon too!! :)
Me too, 33 weeks here. Love from France
Poor Matt....verbally abused, sexually deprived, and NO coffee! I love these videos with Matt!! He is absolutely hilarious!
Y'all are such a sweet couple with a beautiful family. LOVED THIS!!💓
Great advice Matt! It's so lovely to hear from a man's perspective. It's so lovely to see the love between the two of you it's so cute! The way you giggle Emily when he says something funny it's so lovely to see. Xx
Hi. Matt here, Emily has let me loose on her comments! There is definitely love between us. I have lucked out! Thanks for watching Emily's channel x
Tare Bless Yes they are too cute!!
I am a father of Four children two girls two boys all fit and healthy. I never seemed to get over the helplessness of seeing your wife in so much pain when giving birth .
Men make good friends with your midwifes theses girls know there stuff they never panic , never shout at them or think you know more this will just stress everyone out . Don’t over study the birth and labor to much. As long as you know basically what’s going to happen everything takes care of it’s self . First births generally take the longest be prepared for this .
Matt and Emily , thank you for taking the time to help everyone with this tips...
Love the house cleaner point!! Got 4 ages 5months to 6yrs. Hard to keep it clean around here! You guys are so cute!! Such a blessing to have a good marriage these days.
Matts so likeable! Reminds me of my partner, we’re so lucky to have such supportive and loving partners and daddys! All these points are so true and I don’t think enough dads speak up about their true feelings! X
What an awesome Dad you are Matt :) it's so cool seeing your perspective ... one of the most amazing families ever right here 😊
Matt is awesome! He seems reserved and introverted but it definitely shows how much he loves you and the kids. I wish you two many decades of love, laughter and joy together. :)
Spot on Matt! People know it’s hard work for mums (cause we do go on about it!) but dads I think can really find it tough “being there” for a brand new life and a hormonal exhausted mum. But you’ve made excellent points for dads to really come to terms with. You got a good one Emily 👍🏻
This is literally a public service. Bravo. Sensitive, practical and very funny and sweet.
A hilarious video after a tired long day with the kids! 😅
Nearly every tip and advice Matt gave was absolutely true!!! God bless your family ❤️
As a new mom I really enjoyed watching this video on tips. Thank you for taking the time to create such awesome content. I like the insight of what my husband may be going through as a new dad. Could you maybe in the future create a video on your husbands style/outfits.
Matt is so funny in all your videos but sounds so genuine when he is talking serious business, bless him!
Lmao Matt’s salty ass 😂😂 “coffee” 😂😂🧡
Thanks Matt and Emily,
we will be having are first born in a couple months and the reality of becoming a father is starting to set in. i just want you to know that this video helps alot. this is my first video i have watched but you guys have a new subscriber and i will be watching alot of your videos. thank you again.
This was so lovely to see you and Matt together chatting about your experience. Loved all the tips. Matt is great on the channel xx
Hey! Loved that video! I’m only 22 and have a son 3months old, I’ve been following your channel ever since I’ve fallen pregnant and honestly I was so panic about being a mum until I watched your videos! It really allowed me to have a direction to my new Mum life ♥️ I even got my partner to watch all your videos and his defo watching this one! Just wanted to know u really do have an effect on people’s lives like mine :) xxxx
Honestly need to make my husband watch this he might actually learn something ❤️
Love you and Matt in videos! You guys are such the power couple! 💕 Your channel is my fave.
Glad I came across this video! I'm due next week and will pass this onto the hubby.
It's so lovely to see a couple that have each other's back x
very useful, honest and sincere tips for father. thanks Matt.
There aren’t enough videos from men’s perspectives, I found Matt’s very insightful and honest. More please. How about what hubby could do to support wife’s pregnancy struggles?
What a great idea for a video! You never see this kind of video from the guys perspective and it was so interesting to hear.
Hi. Matt here, Emily has let me loose on her comments! The idea was all Emilys, but am glad she got me to do it, and hopefully my advice helps. Thanks for watching Emily's channel x
I love this video! Matt is great and you two complement each other so well!
I'm also so glad that the comments are so positive and that nobody seems to have taken Matt too seriously! He is very funny!
Loved this video Emily. Especially number 9 really hit home to appreciate how lucky we are to of had children xx
This definitely was my favourite video! I just love seeing you guys together, can’t wait to show this to my husband! Xx
Such beautiful couple!
Matts very funny and Emily is so sweet, love adoring she is of Matt and their boys!
“Some call it under the thumb I call it wisdom” 👏🏼😂😂😂 i strongly feel Matt needs to educate many men, I shall defo make my other half watch this video 💕😘
Awww this was so nice to watch! Matt did a great job. I can already see what Caleb’s going to look like when he’s older.
Such a sweet and funny video. Real and honest. Sending to my husband!
I think it is very good of Matt, to come on and actually give an honest perspective. I often get upset with my husband because of certain dad duty related things but its interesting to see: ok other men feel this too! I really love this channel because it makes you feel good, positive and inspired. Please do more videos with Matt, things from a dad perspective, or how to manage a relationship with more children, less time. Another suggestion maybe Matt could do a video about what he thinks keeps the relationship alive after kids, what a wife or partner could do, from the male perspective it would be super interesting! Thanks guys :)
"You just need to accept that everything is going to be your fault" ... SING IT BROTHER :D
Your husband is such a funny and wise person ! Thumbs up!
My favourite TH-cam couple, always real to the people, bless you.
I saw a post from a woman who has a husband that does nothing for her, the kids or the family. He works. Thats it. She goes on to say how this is normal, men don't think like we do, and now that she's accepted it she's at peace and they don't fight anymore. Im going to share this with her, so she can see that men can be present and carry half the skye right alongside their partner. Thanx for being such a rad dad and human Matt!
I’m having my first baby with my wife and I’m not sure what to expect at all but I’m glad this video was recommended for me tell your husband thank you for his perspective
Thank you - both made laugh as my kids are in their 30’s you brought back some happy moments MAtt your a treasure ❤️
Really spontaneous, and so real! This is exactly what my husband would say from start to the end!! 🤦🏻♀️
😂😂😂😂 now I very much enjoy all videos with matt. But this video I laughed so oooo hard. 😂😂😂
What a lovely video ❤ I've just had my second child 6 days ago and I agree with everything Matt has said. You make such a lovely couple and wonderful parents xx
Some women rarely think about the fact that it’s hard on men too. They’re going through a life changing experience too, and often they work full time and even though they aren’t breastfeeding, they’re still getting woken up with bub the same as the woman. Then they deal with our hormones, lack of intimacy, and often additional chores. My hubby was incredible and worked himself to the ground to make me feel supported. High five to you guys, and you so are right on all of it Matt
You and Matt are a gorgeous couple. And he’s hilarious! I’ve watched you for years, I’m a boy mom too. You have a beautiful family.
Absolutely adored Matt's honesty! One to watch with hubby - I think he'll relate all the way x
For those who can't afford a cleaner, practice my mantra..."good enough is good enough." I am an all-or-nothing kinda person, and after kids got frustrated I didn't have time to keep up. Just do what you can when can when you feel like it. Spending time with the babies is most important. Soon they'll be old enough to help with chores. THEN they'll be gone and you can spend all day cleaning.
My dad left my mom after I was conceived at a party. At age 8, I naively asked her if my older sister's dad (who lived hours away) could be my dad. He agreed and I started calling him dad, but stopped at 16. It's been handshakes and casual chats since (when I _very rarely_ saw him). At my sister's wedding, I feel he interacted with me a bit too much: seeing who's taller when I casually mentioned my height, fist-bumping me because of something I said, remarking how good the food looked, praising my heart and apologetic anxiety about possibly hurting someone (when I referenced my lack of filter). At some point, he said I doubted myself--though I don't remember why/how--and when I denied it and said I just don't like to sound conceited, I prefer to be modest, he said I should see it as confidence and that I was amazing. I'm kinda awkward now. Maybe he was "forcing" himself to see my good qualities, since I'd "forced" him to be my "dad" as a kid? Just being nice? Condescending me? What do you think? If that's the case, I feel I would want to see him less (I complicatedly say loosely). I'm not a kid anymore and I don't need pity kindness. Not that I don't want to impress him any more, of course. It's a confusing mix of feelings.
Lol! This made me laugh quite a bit. I love how honest he was and how true it must be for many guys. I could definitely see my husband saying a lot of the same stuff.
He’s an Awesome dad 💫
B E S T video ever! Watched with my husband, loved it! Thanks Matt for sharing!
Lol "ball of flesh." I can't wait to make videos with my hubby, too! He totally cried. Having babies is the most massive life change.
Love this! I'm going to make my husband watch this:)
Hi Eugenia. Matt here, Emily has let me loose on her comments! Yes get him to watch it! Thanks for watching Emily's channel x
Really sweet video. Thank you for sharing your experience Matt. Gave me a bit of a laugh as well.
Yes!!! Its your fault! My dear husband must watch this!
Belinda Lavin haha I am making him watch it tomorrow 🤣
Wow .. I'm very emotional hearing it from a dad's perspective. Thank you so much for this video. It means alot
Love this! Love the honesty and commitment to parenting you both share. So important to be on the same page! Hubby and I are navigating this crazy ride too, we have 3 boys also! 😆
You are such a great couple. You guys are blessed.
Hi Brittany. Matt here, Emily has let me loose on her comments! Thanks for watching Emily's channel x
Wow I really love u as a couple. Everything you said was so realistic and I hope u grow stronger together and enjoy the journey!! Love from the Sudan!
Excellent advice, eloquently put.
I didn’t know what to expect but you nailed it!
Your so cute together. All of Matts points were valid I wish all men would take these comments on board and utilise them. Matt comes across quite shy. His facial expressions are so funny. #Marriagegoals
By the way really great video! All the topics are very close to every couple's hearts, and after watching it i feel like i understand my husband more. Great job Matt!
Matt is hilarious, loved all the tips. Gonna share with my hubby. Love from Ghana
What a Dad should know?
Be patient. Be willing to ask questions. It is ok to admit you are stressed and seeing wife / partner stressed or tired makes you stressed too.
Your partner really wants an hour to herself. Daily. She will be so much happier. Help make that happen.
Diapers are not that big a deal.
Life changes when you have kids. But it is amazing. And a lot (a lot of changes.) And loud. And messy. But amazing.
Give yourself grace. Give your partner grace. The messes and pre-baby routine will be better soon. Just take it a day at a time at first. No matter how many ive had, the first few weeks can be bumpy. And messy. And truth is an hour of rest is so much more wanted than most anything else when baby is content.
hi emily, now you have a reliever when you're tired vlogging...congrats matt...more matt vids please..
That video was so good!! One of the best videos- we need to see more of Matt!
Great to hear from matt hes so brave being on your channel. Well done both x
Hi. Matt here, Emily has let me loose on her comments! I think Emily is the brave one, its the least I can do! Thanks for watching Emily's channel x
This was bloooomin marvellous. My partner and I just watched it and he nodded the whole time haha xx
I love love loved this video! You guys are the cutest couple ever ❤️. And I love that Matt is so genuine, truthful, thoughtful but still funny with it. He gave loads of good tips for new dads. Xx
First of all, you two are one of the most adorable couples. Love the transparency, because seriously that is exactly real talk! My hubby and I are having our 1st baby. I'm at 32 weeks. Great tips in this video! We both love it! Amazing how so much with parenting and preparation can be so universal. TFS!
Hahaha! I love this!!! My husband was listening in the background and nodding away. Our little boy is nearly 9 months now 😊 x
Number 5. Yep!!
My husband gets it in the ear too and he has also come to accept responsibility for everything that goes wrong.
HAPPY WIFE, HAPPY LIFE! 😂😉
Hi. Matt here, Emily has let me loose on her comments! Indeed, happy wife happy life is so true and I am not afraid to say it! Thanks for watching Emily's channel x
I really like seeing you around your husband, you have three kids and you still look in love genuinely with each other! You are an awesome family! My husband and I have a 11 mo gorgeous girl and we are planning to have 2 more children, the five of you give me such a good vibe and a "I cannot wait for that too" feeling!
Thank you Matt for a male perspective! This is great video!
You and Matt are a gorgeous couple! It’s lovely to see how you two can laugh about all the hard bits together
This is great. Why isn’t this trending!?!
Guys you were fantastic! Matt always cracks me up 😂😂😂
Hi. Matt here, Emily has let me loose on her comments! Glad I made you laugh, hopefully laughing with me and not at me! Thanks for watching her channel x
That was so refreshing and damn right honest. Have just giggled my way through this video. Your both fab and I love all your updates 👌💕
Very realistic and honest people. So much respect for you guys. Love your cute little family. Stay blessed xxxx
I looooooooove this vid ! Sent it to my husband before I watched half.
"No One actually cares that you are tired so man up!" :D preach! Though i think that applies to mommy's too :D