My grandmother always says live a holy life then U will see God if you need a husband he can send you even if his from America because his for you. There's a verse that I love from Proverbs 3:5-6Trust in the Lord With all your heart and not lean on your own understanding In all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. ♥️♥️♥️
I turned 24 last month. I've currently been single for 5 months now, (6 in 3 days). It's the first time I am single since I was 16. I went from a 2 year r/ship and (kinda) went straight into an almost 4 year r/ship. March has been the WORST time being single. I miss being in a r/ship. I love being able to call my partner while walking back from campus until I get home. I miss being held, being kissed. Tbh, in March I've been the horniest, which is funny because I'm not really into sex like that. But I'm so grateful to God that I am by myself. I have LOTS of school work that needs my full attention. I NEED to be single, at this point. I NEED to be productive, I need to save, I need to give love to other people. It's not nice being single, tbh. But I'm so grateful that I made this choice. I'd like to commit myself to staying single until I at least finish my degree. Thank you for this video.
Alot of people don't believe me when I say I'm inlove with being single and how I dont even want to date anymore because of how great its been.. when you've mastered it it can really be a dangerous level of selfishness as others may see it as
Thank you so much for making this video mama. I have been single for a year and 9 months now and I am enjoying being in this season. I have gotten to pour into myself alot more than before. Working on myself and also my relationship with God has truly made things so much more joyous. I am in no rush to get into a relationship anytime soon, getting to rediscover new things about myself and taking more strides into improving the person I am is just bliss at the moment 💕
I’m not single but I can relate so much to the points you made. Thoroughly enjoyed this video as a whole, I enjoy watching & listening to you speak 🤞🏽☺️😍
This was such a insightful video Sba,I agree being single is an option.Unfortunately we still have to change the current mindset.Therapy is so important I’m going back to therapy also
Love to all my black sisters out there! Good point, being single is an option! You speak with great sights, and as always you’re dangerously beautiful. Surely, the lucky guy will come along, just enjoy this period of your life.
Thank you so much for this and for reminding us that singleness is an option. I love this and think there should be more videos like this that encourage seasons of singleness and self discovery. I could totally relate when you spoke because I find myself in the same space and it's refreshing and empowering to find other women like you who are embracing every moment.
Agh 🥺😍 this!!!! This comment made me smile so much. 😁😁 I 💯 agree! We need more content around embracing the season of singleness and pouring into ourselves ❤️ Thank you for engaging 🤗
What a beautiful and impactful video, Sbahle. Being content in my singleness is one of the best favours I have done for myself. There's something so special about falling in love with yourself and knowing that you are enough. Thank you for sharing about your journey to wholeness and being content in singleness🌻
You are so wise 🥺❤️ being content and embracing a season like singleness is really life changing. I’m so happy you’ve experienced that. Sending you love and light sissy ❤️✨
Wow 🤩 wow 🤩 wow 🤩 girlllll🎀👌🏻 you are not alone in this part of singleness 🥺, I’ve just healed without any Therapy 💗that’s why I’m working on something to get through where are if it’s possible 😒 but I’ll DM you soon to ask something! Thank you girl, @ walk tall everyday! You are beautiful always 🎀
Coming through with the content honey. One can definitely use those lessons, they make sense and can change one’s perspective on relationships or being single. Really enjoyed this, thank you 😊❤️
Thank you for sharing sis❤️ long distance relationships can be very challenging 🤍 I really hope you and your partner have started having the conversation about your move to China what that will require from both of you 🥺
This was so good. So good. Appreciate the depth. In a past video you quoted, bloom where you are planted and it came through in this chat too. My question is, how do you fight against the temptation to skip to the next life season? (Thinking out loud, some of the things you mentioned on this video I can imagine are transferable to any life situation where we are in a hurry to get on to next stage/season).
Thank you for watching Lesley ❤️ What a great question. I’ve noticed that the minute I chose to stop looking at other people’s lives with envy my need to skip seasons in my life decreased. Now, I choose to keep my eyes / focus on my life and if I do see others around me flourish in seasons “ahead” of me, I genuinely celebrate them and their blessing because I know my blessings will come in their way, when the time is right. What about you?❤️
Touché! This is a constant battle for me but as I was reflecting again this morning, I reminded myself that my path is unique. God has a specific mission for me and how wonderful would it be to get to the end of my time and say that I've truly lived out the unique path which God set out for me. When I embrace this truth, I end up genuinely being happy for others but like you say, staying focused on my path.
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This was such a insightful video Sba,I agree being single is an option.Unfortunately we still have to change the current mindset.Therapy is so important I’m going back to therapy also
My grandmother always says live a holy life then U will see God if you need a husband he can send you even if his from America because his for you. There's a verse that I love from Proverbs 3:5-6Trust in the Lord With all your heart and not lean on your own understanding
In all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. ♥️♥️♥️
Amen 🙏🏽🥰❤️🥺
Thank you for sharing Shirley 🤍
I turned 24 last month. I've currently been single for 5 months now, (6 in 3 days). It's the first time I am single since I was 16. I went from a 2 year r/ship and (kinda) went straight into an almost 4 year r/ship. March has been the WORST time being single. I miss being in a r/ship. I love being able to call my partner while walking back from campus until I get home. I miss being held, being kissed. Tbh, in March I've been the horniest, which is funny because I'm not really into sex like that.
But I'm so grateful to God that I am by myself. I have LOTS of school work that needs my full attention. I NEED to be single, at this point. I NEED to be productive, I need to save, I need to give love to other people. It's not nice being single, tbh. But I'm so grateful that I made this choice. I'd like to commit myself to staying single until I at least finish my degree. Thank you for this video.
A beautiful reflection. Thank you for sharing babe. I pray you keep God at the center of it ALL 🙏🏾❤️
“Give your singleness to God” 🙏🏽
I love this, I really do believe that being single is Godly.
Awesome video mama. Love this ❤️🤍
💯! That one is my favorite too! God at the center of everything 🙏🏽
Thank you mama ❤️🥰
Alot of people don't believe me when I say I'm inlove with being single and how I dont even want to date anymore because of how great its been.. when you've mastered it it can really be a dangerous level of selfishness as others may see it as
I agree, people comment on your life “ why are you single? What’s wrong with you” and I feel like they are projecting hey🥺
2 videos in such a short period , why do I feel so blessed? 🥺♥️
Because I love to spoil my regular dzegulars once in a while 😉❤️😘
I already love your channel but when I found out you're a Sagittarius too? Gurrrrrl!
Girrrrl YASSS💃🏽💃🏽❤️🔥❤️🔥 love you my fellow Sagittarius queen ❤️
Thank you so much for making this video mama. I have been single for a year and 9 months now and I am enjoying being in this season. I have gotten to pour into myself alot more than before. Working on myself and also my relationship with God has truly made things so much more joyous. I am in no rush to get into a relationship anytime soon, getting to rediscover new things about myself and taking more strides into improving the person I am is just bliss at the moment 💕
💯 embracing every moment and working on yourself and your relationship with God is so wise 🥺
thnk you for engaging Anele 💕
I keep coming back. I love your content and your energy (aura). I’m staying!!
So happy you decided to stay🥺😍 I appreciate the consistent viewing so much ❤️❤️😭
I’m not single but I can relate so much to the points you made. Thoroughly enjoyed this video as a whole, I enjoy watching & listening to you speak 🤞🏽☺️😍
I feel like this video was made for me. Thank you so much, I really enjoyed it. ❤️❤️
It’s my pleasure 🥺❤️
Sending you love and light ✨❤️
This was such a insightful video Sba,I agree being single is an option.Unfortunately we still have to change the current mindset.Therapy is so important I’m going back to therapy also
So happy you found this insightful 🤍 sending you love and light for your therapy ✨❤️
Love to all my black sisters out there!
Good point, being single is an option! You speak with great sights, and as always you’re dangerously beautiful. Surely, the lucky guy will come along, just enjoy this period of your life.
Hey brother! Love that you watched this and agree with singleness being an option 🙏🏽
Thank you for the lovely feedback 🤗🥺
And the well wishes 🥰😉
@@SbahleMkhize no worries 😊 if you ever need a video editor just ask, I will edit for free no strings attached. I want you to keep creating contents!
Wow I'm so inspired by the singleness message I'm glad I'm part of the fam to get this beautiful wisdom ❤🌻🌻
Thank you babe 💕 love that you are inspired
Thank you so much for this and for reminding us that singleness is an option. I love this and think there should be more videos like this that encourage seasons of singleness and self discovery. I could totally relate when you spoke because I find myself in the same space and it's refreshing and empowering to find other women like you who are embracing every moment.
Agh 🥺😍 this!!!! This comment made me smile so much. 😁😁
I 💯 agree! We need more content around embracing the season of singleness and pouring into ourselves ❤️
Thank you for engaging 🤗
Wholesome as always ❤️ loved this!! I can relate! This topic is sooooo important!!
What a beautiful and impactful video, Sbahle. Being content in my singleness is one of the best favours I have done for myself. There's something so special about falling in love with yourself and knowing that you are enough. Thank you for sharing about your journey to wholeness and being content in singleness🌻
You are so wise 🥺❤️ being content and embracing a season like singleness is really life changing. I’m so happy you’ve experienced that. Sending you love and light sissy ❤️✨
We are loved!!! Thank you Mommy😍❤
It’s my pleasure 💃🏽❤️
There is so much peace and glory in singleton.♥️ 🥂.... look at the works of the LIGHTS 🔥🔥🔥🔥
I know that’s right 🥂
The lights have been GLORIOUS! To God be the glory 🙏🏽❤️😭
The background sis☄️☄️☄️
Thank you sis 🥰❤️
2 videos on 2 consecutive days... its the consistency for me 🤗🤗🤗 Love it!
Thank you ❤️😘 one thing about me…I will spoil my regular dzegulars 💃🏽
Please share
I love this topic
We are also in the road to unpacking and discovering ourselves.
❤️thanks for the feedback love. Will definitely do a follow up video soon!
Let’s watch the ads so that our consistent queen can get her coins💃🏽📌👏🏽
I love to see it!
Thank you so much babe ❤️🥺
Appreciate you and your consistent support ❤️
The video quality the back ground top notch❤️❤️
Thank you fav ❤️
Thank you for always being so open with us and vulnerable it's so wholesome ❤
Thank you holding space for me ❤️ you guys make it easy to do it😍
Wow 🤩 wow 🤩 wow 🤩 girlllll🎀👌🏻 you are not alone in this part of singleness 🥺, I’ve just healed without any Therapy 💗that’s why I’m working on something to get through where are if it’s possible 😒 but I’ll DM you soon to ask something! Thank you girl, @ walk tall everyday! You are beautiful always 🎀
Thank you so much sis Nomnikelo❤️ your support and love so appreciated 🥺🤍
That lighting 👌🏽👌🏽
😍😍 I’m so grateful! God is good!
I’m loving the consistency🥰🥰🥰🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳😁😁😁😁😁😁
Thank you mama ❤️
Coming through with the content honey. One can definitely use those lessons, they make sense and can change one’s perspective on relationships or being single. Really enjoyed this, thank you 😊❤️
It’s my pleasure sis ❤️ so happy you could take something away from this video 🥺❤️
My favorite notification🎉🥳❤. The Regular Dzegular 💃❤
Thank you my regular dzegular ❤️🥰 your consistent support motivates me 🥺😘
Sila 📌😍❤️ Sophenduka ama Spoilt brats another video futhi 🎉❤️❤️❤️Syaboonga
😂😂 it’s my pleasure 💕
Wholesome. So bloody Wholesome.
❤️🥺THANK U!!!
Sazesaba blessed 😍😍. Video after video 💃🏽💃🏽
Ngaze ngani-spoila nibancane 🥰😂❤️
Regular,dzegular queen mother is back at it again ❤
One thing about me…I will spoil my regular dzegulars chile ❤️😘
I really love that you're talking about this❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for watching Zuzile ❤️
Haibo did I get two notifications today 🤔❤️
2 videos in less than 24 hours chilleee 💃🏽❤️
🌸we getting spoiled this week🌸
I know that’s right ❤️💃🏽
One thing that I subscribed for is your informativeness ❤😚 I learn alot in here
Love to hear it ❤️
Great video Sba.
Thank you Nico ❤️
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Your regular dzegular came running 🥺😂 face card never declines ❤️❤️ umuhle as always 🌹🥀
Thank you fav 🥰🥺 one thing about my regular dzegulars…they are consistent❤️😘
Yoh I'm currently in a long distance relationship here in SA and want to work in China 🇨🇳. I wonder if my relationship will survive that 😭
Thank you for sharing sis❤️ long distance relationships can be very challenging 🤍 I really hope you and your partner have started having the conversation about your move to China what that will require from both of you 🥺
This was so good. So good. Appreciate the depth. In a past video you quoted, bloom where you are planted and it came through in this chat too. My question is, how do you fight against the temptation to skip to the next life season? (Thinking out loud, some of the things you mentioned on this video I can imagine are transferable to any life situation where we are in a hurry to get on to next stage/season).
Thank you for watching Lesley ❤️
What a great question. I’ve noticed that the minute I chose to stop looking at other people’s lives with envy my need to skip seasons in my life decreased. Now, I choose to keep my eyes / focus on my life and if I do see others around me flourish in seasons “ahead” of me, I genuinely celebrate them and their blessing because I know my blessings will come in their way, when the time is right.
What about you?❤️
Touché! This is a constant battle for me but as I was reflecting again this morning, I reminded myself that my path is unique. God has a specific mission for me and how wonderful would it be to get to the end of my time and say that I've truly lived out the unique path which God set out for me. When I embrace this truth, I end up genuinely being happy for others but like you say, staying focused on my path.
💯💯 thank you for sharing. ❤️ blessed weekend to you and your family ✨❤️
I love you and everything about you...your personality makes it easy for me to can relate
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Dzegular 🌼🌸 inner healing 🤺
Exactly 🧘🏾♀️!🤍 inner healing in 🔑
Thank you for watching ❤️
You look amazing an beautiful and i will surpport your ytube channel 😊😊❤❤👑👑
Thank you so much Phehello 🥺❤️this means so much!
Its my pleasure queen 👑👑
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Hello am Vince from south Africa
From UNIVERISTY VIBE CREATES we would like to work with you on video quality editing because we see potential in your TH-cam channel
Hello Vince. This sounds interesting. Dm me or email me more information
Hey SBA I hope you good. I've been trying to get home of you via Instagram DM. It's quite important. When you find time pls respond. Thank you 💗
Hey Rose ❤️ I got you! I just replied.
This was such a insightful video Sba,I agree being single is an option.Unfortunately we still have to change the current mindset.Therapy is so important I’m going back to therapy also
Thank you so much for watching sis❤️ I totally agree, it takes time and to unlearn things is a process that needs patience and therapy 🤗✨
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