My husband and I have 21 years age difference, and we feel the same way! I’m an old soul and he’s a kid at heart. We’ve been together for 4 years now, and expecting both of our first child. I just want to say I love this, and keep spreading the word. I hate how negative people can be, and love changing people’s minds about age gaps!
This is SO CRINGY for me (being a 24 yr old female) 3/4 of her step kids are older than her...😖 I feel bad saying it, but dang...I just can’t handle the idea of that 😆😆
She’s 19...I’m like speechless... 🤦🏽♀️i mean, if they’re happy that’s all that matters i guess but she legit said “it’s a business arrangement but we really care about each other”’ I’m sorry, what?????
Christina Elizabeth "Live and let live", right? "To each their own", right? "As long as they are consenting adults and not hurting anyone", right? "Love is love", right? Sound familiar?
I have no problem with their relationship...what got me is they're trying to start a gofundme for their youtube channel? Umm youtube pays you? Why are you trying to get money from strangers it doesnt take much to start a channel...how much money did u spend making this video???...please dont ask people to financially support you for no reason.
I don’t know if you know how much Go Pros cost... but that was the plan. And believe it or not, I married his for his looks and charm, not his overflowing music teacher salary.
Tawna Yrigoyen Ever heard of the "adpocalypse"? Somehow I doubt they are letting them monetize much of their content. TH-cam has almost no money gaining power through just adroll anymore. Educate yourself. To the channel I would suggest a patreon instead of gofundme. Alot of creators use Patreon.
Lol people will donate to what ever they want, it’s their money BUT I do agree. Why would they make a gofundme when there’s absolutely no proof that their content is good or that they’ll even continue to make content? Most people save up their money and buy their own shit.
I think the only thing that would weird me out is if a woman was the same age as her husband's kids. I think that could be really difficult for the kids. If both are consenting adults then I really don't care.
Sam I Am ... All my step kids are older than me... You know what they call me?... Mama... That's right... Age only defines a relationship if you allow it. 32 yrs difference between me and mine... And his kids are simply happy he is happy and loved. Why does that shock and repulse people... It truly is simple at the root of it.
I really don’t understand all the hate from people. You guys are happy together and both are consent adults, what’s the problem? Wish you guys all the best! 🧡
I don't think I could judge someone for loving someone. As long as they respect each other, love each other, and are in a healthy relationship I say go for it. Only very few people are lucky enough to experience true love.
Please PLEASE continue making these! Recently found myself in similar relationship with my best friend, (I’m 30, he is 57), and would love the advice, support and knowledge from you guys! 😃
I wont lie, when I first starting watching this I was a bit taken back and grossed out,, yeah I judged and now I feel bad,,, I honestly can say you seem like a cute couple,, your personalities seem to match perfectly and you can see you do care for one another and not for the reasons we all think at first (he wants a young girl to feel younger, she wants a sugar daddy). I wish you both many years of happiness. You both are adults and the bottom line your business and glad you two seem extremely happy together
Dawn's New Light mr vann Thornton was actually my band teacher last year!he actually is really funny and he acts totally normal!hes really good at music too.
She's way too cute to be settling for an elderly guy. Do you really want to waste your 30s and 40s driving grandpa back and forth from his near daily doctors' appointments? You've got your whole life ahead of you, don't waste it!
When I first started this video I was skeptical about the whole relationship. Things that are different and taboo can make us feel weird, which is why people react badly. Watching this video, I definitely have a different view on marriage with age difference. Y’all seem like a healthy couple and I wish the best for you!
Be careful, you're showing your age honey 😉🤣 also, a bridge is missing you, troll. There isn't anything wrong with this Queen. Bye! Someone's jealous cause THEY are really the problem. Go back to your mom's basement and finish your Fortnite without your girlfriend 😆
I'm 52 and date women in thier 20's. It's not awkward at all. I do look a lot younger than my age so when we take pics together it dont look very weird. But. I love younger women cause they are so full of energy. Love life. Dont hate men. And just want to have a good time and not have all the bullshit involved. Women my age are negative and all about trends and being with thier girlfriends and worried what they think all the time. And by the time they got 40 to 50 they seem to really hate men. Lol. Give me a hot sexy 22 yr. Old anyday. BOOM.
I have a 6 year age difference with my huni. He’s younger. I even have a hard time with that due to maturity level and lack of life experience. I personally could never do this. I do feel bad for how his kids must feel. If I was them I would feel upset with my dad and just uncomfortable. To each their own, no hate meant. Just not for me.
I LOOOOOOOOVVVVEE THIS! 🙌🏻 I’m in an the same “type” of relationship/situation (we have 14 years between us) and seeing you guys come out to the world and put your foot down sooooo proudly is AWESOME! 🌼💛🌼
I'm glad that you guys made this video! I remember reading about this a couple months ago and it's hard to gauge a relationship off of text - so it's great to be able to see your connection in person, or video lol. Honestly, this kind of relationship is not for everybody!! Obviously age gaps like this aren't super common, but they are still prevalent. And I think its awesome that you guys are helping show the world that it's okay to love someone regardless of societal norms. My last partner was 18 years older than me, it's an interesting dynamic! It doesn't feel weird to me at all because we just clicked intellectually; even though our life experiences were so different, and he's a part of a different generation than I am, we had more in common beyond that so it just worked! So, kudos to y'all for not giving a damn what people think. I feel like so many people are scared to love openly when it is perceived as "weird" by the masses, but honestly you guys are so in sync and you are just clearly so happy. I think you guys will help a lot of people and couples live more authentically by being so open :) F the haters!
You Guys Are So Cool. My Fiancé And I Are 30 Years Apart And Together For 6 Years. This Is Just So Cool To See. Thank You. Really. You Guys Rock. #OwnIt #HusbandNotDad
I have no problem with this relationship. And I’m 21 and my fiancé is 24. I love seeing people in love. I caught myself smiling at you guys a few times throughout this. To me there’s nothing gross about it. She’s of age, she’s an adult. There’s nothing wrong about it. I also love how she proposed to you. You guys are just breaking all the rules !!!!! Lol. 😂😂 I think you guys are awesome and I hope this works out for a very long time. 💜💜
Um, I'm like 100% sure he taught my middle school band class. How the hell this ended up in my recommended I will never know. But, I got a really thorough laugh from it.
It was so weird coming across someone i actually know on a trending video. There were about 5 minutes of me thinking, "god, he sounds/looks familiar" and then seeing your last name--it all clicked. I'm glad y'all are doing well!
Honestly I support their relationship as long as they are BOTH happy then that's all that matters. This couple is making a change making everyone's crude comments and replying with positive and funny remarks. And all of the comments they get that are positive is soooo good. I hope you guys have an amazing Halloween
Thank you so much for making this video! I promised myself to keep it short so I will try... yes there are aging concerns, but the growth of a soul is based on the experience of the body. Since I was extremely young I always believed love was ageless and I am so happy to see others living it out as well. I attract those in my twenties because that's where my energy in mentality are. After my 19 year abusive marriage, I have had relationships, that even though we didn't work out, we agreed that we could be married at one point. I take great care of my health and most assume I am 15 to 20 years younger than my actual age, but as most are understandingly concerned, eventually this soul-suit is going to wear out and my younger partner will watch as I phase from this existence. If she is willing to do that, then that is her call. Connecting on attributes is primary, but there are plenty who are amazing lives/souls who are attractive and want to enjoy existence with me. Thank you for following your hearts and dismissing all the fear-based criticisms I am probably going to receive as well. Be blessed.
My husband and I are only 11 years apart and we struggle so much with our differences because he is long past my age group and he has already known, lost interest or doesn’t understand things I like. I think its great for you if you’re happy and you have it figured out.
Kayla22 Wow lol its really good to know someone understands. Lucky for you, you’re past the 7 year itch, I’m approaching it and it has been a lot tougher than usual. Can you give me any advice on how to get through this next year with minimal arguments?
Captcha Neon what is the biggest problems in your relationship? I can take a guess on possibly you want to do things and he doesn't. Mine seems to be tired all the time LOL it's definitely not easy having an age Gap at times. You can add me on social media if you want. We can vent 😂😂😂
Kayla22 LOL cool yeah lets add each other, I have all platforms except Snapchat. One of the main problems we have is that I am very much into what teens like, you know viral videos, video games etc... my husband on the otherhand is obsessed with sports and also, he doesnt get my Disney Movie obsession lol. Let me know where you want me to add you
I believe you went to my college, I asked you about your sweet puppy one day. And you were so sweet, so this is so crazy I just stumbled on your channel. People need to learn to keep rude comments to themselves. No one else is involved in your relationship, so why does it matter? You both seem so genuinely happy, and that makes me happy. Best of luck to you both!
I’ll be 27 this year, my husband 45. We met when i was 20, he was 38. We did have a hard time at first with family and friends, also looking out for our best interest. He has 3 teenage sons. One is only 7 years younger than me so of course we get a lot of questions when we are all 6 together! (We do have a 2 year old boy together!) I’m glad this showed up in my suggested videos. I love knowing other people genuinely just love each other no matter age. I don’t know what went “viral” but I’m surprised none of my hilarious friends sent it to me 🤣 we are happily married for 3 1/2 years now. We forget about the age difference 99% of the time. It doesn’t have anything to do with our daily lives. It just is what it is. We are happy and i can definitely tell you two are as well! Also loved The Office reference! 💕
My bf is 14 yrs older and i get he is my dad lol. Im 37 but i look 20.Im so happy that you have found ur happy ending and have a beautiful family no matter what that looks like ...His kids are your kids no matter what the age..Happy for
I actually love this video SO much. I support you guys & hope you keep going with your channel!!! I’ll totally keep watching. My boyfriend is also a father & is 13 years older than me, so you guys are really relatable. You rock
My aunt (my dad's sister) and her husband, my uncle are ~30 years apart (she's in her 50s and he's in his 80s) and they couldn't be happier. They've been together since before i was born so it's never been weird for me. They have a son together, they travel, cook together, go camping; they are perfect for each other. When i stay over, it always ends up my uncle and I staying up late talking about life and whatever over gin and tonics lol
I am 37 and have 8 grandkids, thanks to my husband. He is actually closer to my parents age than my own (we are both school teachers in Texas). He cooks and I clean up... we are pretty much polar opposites lol but we love each other very much!!!
Love love LOVE this!!! My husband and I are 25 years apart. Happiness is what is important!! People will criticise things that they don't know much about.
I love you two so much. I don't know why this came up in my news feed but I'm so glad it did. I am 42 and my husband is 30. I actually use to babysit him when he was a baby haha. You two are just so awesome. It doesn't matter age, color, sex anything. If you love someone, you just love them. Can't wait to watch more of you
It's great to see you guys are so happy together :) I am also in an age-gap relationship. We were together for six years and then broke up but remained friends; I dated other people and it helped me appreciate how well he treated me and what a good person he is, and we got back together about a year ago, after four years of not being in a relationship together. Thank you for sharing your relationship and being willing to answer people's questions.
My boyfriend is 22 years older then me (his kids are not much younger then me) so this video made me so happy. This is more common then a lot of people think and it's so nice to see people talk about this so comfortably and openly. You both seem like a lot of fun and it's easy to see that you are very much in love.
No idea why TH-cam recommended this to me. But that reaction when he made that awful comment about that awful team was enough to make me subscribe then and there 😂 WAR EAGLE!!
Abby Decker We actually knew of each other in a less than casual way years before we dated because we lived in the same small town. She contacted me for my experience in music and event planning as she was in charge of events at her college. The relationship grew out of that interaction.
Ashley Spencer the second sentence doesn't really mean anything. You can have a teacher and contact him or her a couple years later soooo... my comprehension is just fine. But thanks for your concern.
Pizza is forever I think the lack of response says a lot. Wow. If I found out my child's teacher was dating a year no former student, I would raise hell
My gf and I have a 22-year age gap and have been dating for three years. Honestly, we forget that the age discrepancy even exists, and have enough mutual friends that no one else thinks it's odd either. We share so many interests that it's just a perfectly natural fit.
Geoff Trowbridge my parents were 22 years apart and stayed married for nearly 30 years. They've just recently divorced (for reasons that probably wouldn't apply to you, my dad has severe schizophrenia) but I wanted to say that I loved having a young mother and older father. It was such a blessing in my life. Much love and many blessings!
Donia Ecker because she looks very young. i understand she’s in her mid twenties but she still looks like a young teenager, knowing that my child’s teacher was attracted to someone who looked so young would make me uncomfortable. men are not known to control themselves very well.
I’m so happy for you guys. My boyfriend and I keep breaking up because his daughter can not handle our age difference. It makes me so sad. It’s nice to see I’m not the only person who dates age gap.
He looks like he really actually loves her and that’s super cute. I personally like older men myself and I don’t look or act like a teen and neither does she, adults are adults he’s not a pervert and she’s not a gold digger.
The only thing that shocked me about this video was him mentioning that his oldest son is 37, Van was quite a young first-time dad!! But you guys seem really happy together and that you have a solid foundation. All the hateful comments are so freaking rude but you’re right, comment sections are just populated by trolls mostly so that’s good you just let it roll off your back. Life is f-ing hard and if any of us can find someone we love and who makes us happy to go through it with, people should be happy for them.
You two remind me a lot of me and my fiance (he's also older than me!). I love that y'all play and goof around a lot. It's super obvious that you love each other. I can't wait to see more episodes! PS - Train is rad. I'm so glad they're still around. 😍
Ok but what we REALLY wanna know is how much grandpa enjoyed that first dip into your fountain of youth after all those years of puttin it in people his own age for so long
i think what is comes down to is the body is the body and the soul is the soul... sometimes we fall in love with someones soul no matter WHAT is going on with the body... (and for all the crazies... love is for adults obviously these two are.. so love who you want) awesome video! keeping society open minded :)
If you love each other, then what is the problem? I've asked so many people what is exactly "wrong" in an age-gap-relationship. No one can give a truly, logical and well-founded answer. Many say "he will get too older and she too young" and I say "Ok, but that is their problem and not yours". It doesn't hurt anyone, you're not breaking any law, there is absolute nothing wrong! I still don't understand why is people so against that. I wish you the best guys! And i hope to see another episode soon :D
I just stumbled upon this somehow it popped up in my feed. My husband and I have a 25 year age gap....and he is older than my father as well. I think most people have been supportive but we have had several stares, people trying to figure out the dynamics. He is absolutely the heat thing that has ever happened to me. I am happier now than I have ever been and it shows in my job and everyday life. I also had a lot of friends who jumped to gold digger, which again not the motivation here. We support each other and both work full time jobs. When I introduced him to my family my father didn’t get it and didn’t speak to me much didn’t even come around until the wedding when he saw us together and how happy we were. I think this channel is a great idea! Makes me wanna make a video lol.
You’re married and you just said you’re not soulmates bc you don’t believe there is one person for you and that you take each day by day. just sounds like y’all are not serious about each other or see a future with each other or somethingggg. I am not married but I see a future with my bf and I think that’s what keeps the relationship alive (and if it’s God centered obvi) but you’re saying “hmmm idk. We don’t think about that. We don’t believe we are meant to be/soulmates” like WHAT lol. Makes no sense.
Chicago -I love my fiancé more than anything but I don’t believe in soul mates either, I think I could live happy with multiple different people. I truly do, I think if my fiancé and I never met I would have been perfectly happy with someone else. I am very happy with our relationship, I wouldn’t trade him for anyone. But if I didn’t have him for some reason, I am sure I could find someone else.
Maura Sieber well I think that goes for everyone. If you go through a break up there’s no doubt you can find someone else. but this is my belief, that if you are with someone you care about and everything but don’t see as a soulmate, then that person isn’t bc what would make them stand out from the others if you could just leave at any moment and move on? The person who you’re meant to be will not make you think like that and you will be together for the rest of your lives bc it is meant to be. It’s not about what could be and “if I wasn’t with them I could happily live without them” that’s great but that isn’t the point. You’re with this person to either teach you a lesson or to build a future with, and if you can’t see a future with them what are you even doing.
Chicago I don’t believe in soul mates. Period. For anyone. Look up the math behind “soulmates.” I believe he makes me happy and he’s the person I want to spend my life with.
Courtney Thornton from what I believe, the person I marry is my soulmate. I don’t think we just cross paths for nothing. I think we are guided by our souls each day, and they guide us to people as well and that, as I said earlier, is either to teach us a lesson or grow a future with. I believe my bf is my soulmate bc he came when it was least expected, and I feel that there is a reason for everything. I guess too each his own, it’s not that serious. It just doesn’t make sense to ME, but if it makes sense to you by all means live ya life lol.
Chicago “Soulmate” doesn’t mean they don’t care about if they last together. “Soulmate” means that there is only one person roaming around this earth out there for someone and somehow they found them. Some people don’t believe that. It doesn’t make logical sense that on a planet of 7.6 billion people that you are only capable of being in love with ONE of them. That’s why it’s called “commitment.” You find someone and you “commit” to them. Because sure, better people might come along, or other people might come along, but you’ve committed to this person. And I think that’s more powerful than the idea of a soul.
As an older lady, I would be self conscious dating a younger guy. But if it works for them. Must be wierd for the son & how she finds a way older man attractive when she could date someone a lot younger is beyond my understanding. Each to his own I guess....
After reading so many rude and mean comments, I just wanted to say I support you guys! My parents had a 15 year age gap and my SO and I have a 15 year age gap. Nothing wrong with it if you're in love!
I think you guys are great. My husband is a generation younger than me❤️. We’ve been together 15 years and still going strong. Have a twelve year old daughter and he’s the one that’s raised my boys to adult hood. I told him he could be a boy toy but that’s it. He said “tell me that in 15 years.” Lol He still teases me about it.
My ex was 18 years my senior. We used to get the most obnoxious stares and comments. I'll never forget being at Walgreens one night and this woman flirting with my guy throughout the entire store. We ended up buying my daughter a ball and at checkout, this woman looked at him and said "I bet you're really good with your balls.." YES. SHE. SAID. THAT. Anyway, he answered that she'd have to ask me, his girlfriend. She turned Fire engine Red and left the line to "grab something she forgot!" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Just as they mentioned, we never noticed the difference in age until it was pointed out. Even then, we just laughed about it. Keep being awesome you two!!!
I just came across this on Facebook and it really makes me sick how many stupid, narrow-minded people are in this world. You guys don't just look incredibly cute together, in my eyes you also seem like a perfect match. People tend to think that everything needs to be "normal". And normal means, it can't go further than their own horizon. "I couldn't do this, so nobody else can do this either". That's the mindset I can probably never get into my own head. But I'm not trying either tbh. You two know what's best for you. Haters gonna hate. Your response to it is just the best. Since this is Ep 1, I hope there's more to come!
Every person has different point of view. But stay strong as long as you don't hurt anyone. It's your choice not them. Take care and stay strong as couples.
Saw you perform at I believe Espresso 41 once and you were so great and he was super supportive, crazy this vid popped up on trending page. Love that you made this vid.
My husband and I read the article on your tweet together the other day. He is 20.5 years older than I (28 and 48) and honestly, I swear I’ve got one of the few good ones left! We get the dad/daughter comment a lot, but it never has or will bother us. Like you said, we would rather have 20 minutes of happiness together than 20 years of anything or anyone else. At least we are 1%ers in some way! 😂
I love the comment about you being a grandma! My husband and I are 21 years apart and I also have 2 grandbabies that call me Gigi! And as long as yall happy that's all that matters all these negative comments shouldn't phase y'all no one else is living y'alls life I wish you both many more happy years😘
You guys are too cute and definitely put the age topic to rest by just being you ! My boyfriend and I have a 28 year age difference and we couldn’t have explained it any better than you guys did :) God is good and love is love . Many positive vibes your way and thank you for being an inspiration and an encouragement!
In my 20's and my boyfriend is in his 60's and we started the same way! lol I was SO into him and he would be so hesitant, never made a move on me and still three years later of being together is mind blown that I chose him. But when you know, you know. We don't believe in soulmates either but gosh, id choose my boyfriend in every lifetime, hes my person.
Thanks for sharing your story to help normalize this and shed some light on the reality of being in a relationship with a large age gap like this. I'm 30 and my bf is 52; the perceived ulterior motive thing is hard to deal with. So much of what you folks say really rings true for us. I hope someday my mom can understand our relationship....thank you again and keep going strong :)
Its all lies he has to be a creep to come up to a girl that young... its not about what they look like its about there maturity... they litterally were in highschool asking there parent for money a few months ago...
I'm 23 yrs old now and I've been in relationships with men mostly over their 50s, even when I was...younger. They never knew how old I actually was, because I've always been very mature and when asked, I often refused to tell or simply lied about my age, which I'm not very proud of, but I had to because I thought they would change their minds about me if they would know how old I am, how old I was, which unfortunately was the case some times when they found out, they felt "guilty" for falling in love with me or they felt themselves "dirty".. They never had relationships wit younger girls before, so I know for a fact they were not "that type" of men as most people would assume. For me it just never felt right to be with people my age, they seemed too shallow and closed minded (not that older people can't be shallow, narrow minded, they can, of course, everyone can be regardless of age, and the truth is there are so many people like that especially nowadays) but the thing is, I always felt much more comfortable with older men; deep conversations are the most important things for me and I don't care about the looks or the age - having an open minded, conscious, mature, intelligent man by my side with a great wit and sense of humour is what I like. Now excuse me but f*ck people who say "daddy issues" and stuff like that, I've heard that so many times but look, if two intelligent, conscious human being falls in love with each other, if they both are aware of what they want and well aware of themselves and they can talk without manipulating one another any ways or forcing the other one or anything nasty like that, I think love is love, and if there's a deep connection, it's there, and if there's a mental and spiritual bond, it's there and you can't do anything about it other than accept it, embrace it, live it fully. I wish you all the best!
I am the offspring of parents with a 39 year age gap. My Mum is 43 and my Dad was 82 (unfortuntely he passed away January of this year). Both my parents had been married for 24 years and were supposed to be celebrating ther 25th anniversary this year. They married because they loved each other! They got 2 children out of it (im almost 21 and my brother is 23). My dad was so so healthy and needed absolutely no care at all-- the idea of the younger partner being a carer isn't always the case, and wasn't in my parents relationship. The thing is, these relationships work! They are like all relationships-- highs and lows. It comes with its own set of unique challenges just like every relationship. And for the record, its not apporpriate for people to call this man a peadophile. He is NOT attracted to children-- this lady is a WOMAN. So before you jump to conclusions that this will NEVER work, please just actually listen to this couple. I wish you guys all the best x
So glad you're happy girl! You're an amazing person and deserve the best and Vann makes sure you have the best. It's obvious he adores you and the feeling is mutual. The age gap doesn't mean crap! As long as y'all love each other and he treats you right that's all that matters. Love ya girl and keep doing what you're doing!
Why is this in my recommended.
RoadRat because you are their #1 fan
Same😂😂😂
Lmfao same....
Me too!
RoadRat me too
The awkward part is the 20-year-old son (who lives with them) is playing video games in the background while they are filming this...
Lmao!!!!
they explained this in the video. nothing wrong with being 20 and playing video games ? most 20 yr olds these days are still in college
I just noticed him loooool
The son seems very mature. He cares more about his dad being happy then controlling him.
My husband and I have 21 years age difference, and we feel the same way! I’m an old soul and he’s a kid at heart. We’ve been together for 4 years now, and expecting both of our first child. I just want to say I love this, and keep spreading the word. I hate how negative people can be, and love changing people’s minds about age gaps!
This is SO CRINGY for me (being a 24 yr old female)
3/4 of her step kids are older than her...😖
I feel bad saying it, but dang...I just can’t handle the idea of that 😆😆
Her husband is OLDER THAN HER DAD!!!! 😱🤢
I’m sorry, I just...whyyyyyy 😖😖😖
She’s 19...I’m like speechless... 🤦🏽♀️i mean, if they’re happy that’s all that matters i guess but she legit said “it’s a business arrangement but we really care about each other”’ I’m sorry, what?????
Alexis Trilla she's 25.
Christina Elizabeth "Live and let live", right? "To each their own", right? "As long as they are consenting adults and not hurting anyone", right? "Love is love", right? Sound familiar?
FML do you even understand what you’re saying? This man was an adult with kids when this girl was born. Do you even comprehend that?!
I have no problem with their relationship...what got me is they're trying to start a gofundme for their youtube channel? Umm youtube pays you? Why are you trying to get money from strangers it doesnt take much to start a channel...how much money did u spend making this video???...please dont ask people to financially support you for no reason.
I don’t know if you know how much Go Pros cost... but that was the plan. And believe it or not, I married his for his looks and charm, not his overflowing music teacher salary.
Diana Jara I doubt there is any TH-cam money.
Diana Jara right they make all kinds of money
Tawna Yrigoyen Ever heard of the "adpocalypse"? Somehow I doubt they are letting them monetize much of their content. TH-cam has almost no money gaining power through just adroll anymore. Educate yourself. To the channel I would suggest a patreon instead of gofundme. Alot of creators use Patreon.
Lol people will donate to what ever they want, it’s their money BUT I do agree. Why would they make a gofundme when there’s absolutely no proof that their content is good or that they’ll even continue to make content? Most people save up their money and buy their own shit.
I think the only thing that would weird me out is if a woman was the same age as her husband's kids. I think that could be really difficult for the kids. If both are consenting adults then I really don't care.
Sam I Am his kids are her age she’s so young it’s gross
It’s always perverted old men who do these relationships who have a daddy daughter fetish as she’s the age she could be his child
Sam I Am I give it about a year before she hooks up w the son
Sam I Am ... All my step kids are older than me... You know what they call me?... Mama... That's right... Age only defines a relationship if you allow it. 32 yrs difference between me and mine... And his kids are simply happy he is happy and loved. Why does that shock and repulse people... It truly is simple at the root of it.
I really don’t understand all the hate from people. You guys are happy together and both are consent adults, what’s the problem? Wish you guys all the best! 🧡
Who the hell plays Skyrim in third person :(
Shiny Vaporeon I do lol
Shiny Vaporeon 😂😂😂 this made me laugh but legit I do. I tried in first person and shit hit the fan.
Finally, a comment I can get on board with.
Haha at least he has good taste in video games
It's blasphemous to play Skyrim in the third person 😂
I don't think I could judge someone for loving someone. As long as they respect each other, love each other, and are in a healthy relationship I say go for it. Only very few people are lucky enough to experience true love.
Please PLEASE continue making these! Recently found myself in similar relationship with my best friend, (I’m 30, he is 57), and would love the advice, support and knowledge from you guys! 😃
I wont lie, when I first starting watching this I was a bit taken back and grossed out,, yeah I judged and now I feel bad,,, I honestly can say you seem like a cute couple,, your personalities seem to match perfectly and you can see you do care for one another and not for the reasons we all think at first (he wants a young girl to feel younger, she wants a sugar daddy). I wish you both many years of happiness. You both are adults and the bottom line your business and glad you two seem extremely happy together
Dawn's New Light mr vann Thornton was actually my band teacher last year!he actually is really funny and he acts totally normal!hes really good at music too.
She's way too cute to be settling for an elderly guy. Do you really want to waste your 30s and 40s driving grandpa back and forth from his near daily doctors' appointments? You've got your whole life ahead of you, don't waste it!
*I had to laugh when you said he is a minivan, I thought for a minute you were referring to the vehicle*
The connection you and your grandpa have is adorable! I love seeing the youth interact with the elders😊 warms my heart!
My mans 15 years older and people are finally being supportive after 2 years!
Thank you for speaking up for people like us
Elysa Elmore That’s pretty cute. My partner is two years older than my mum and she loves to call him her son-in-law and then cackle at us both.
When I first started this video I was skeptical about the whole relationship. Things that are different and taboo can make us feel weird, which is why people react badly. Watching this video, I definitely have a different view on marriage with age difference. Y’all seem like a healthy couple and I wish the best for you!
I have dated guys my age...not for me at all. Older men have it together. 😉
Be careful, you're showing your age honey 😉🤣 also, a bridge is missing you, troll. There isn't anything wrong with this Queen. Bye! Someone's jealous cause THEY are really the problem. Go back to your mom's basement and finish your Fortnite without your girlfriend 😆
I'm 52 and date women in thier 20's. It's not awkward at all. I do look a lot younger than my age so when we take pics together it dont look very weird. But. I love younger women cause they are so full of energy. Love life. Dont hate men. And just want to have a good time and not have all the bullshit involved. Women my age are negative and all about trends and being with thier girlfriends and worried what they think all the time. And by the time they got 40 to 50 they seem to really hate men. Lol. Give me a hot sexy 22 yr. Old anyday. BOOM.
I have a 6 year age difference with my huni. He’s younger. I even have a hard time with that due to maturity level and lack of life experience. I personally could never do this. I do feel bad for how his kids must feel. If I was them I would feel upset with my dad and just uncomfortable. To each their own, no hate meant. Just not for me.
Why did Jude think you were 19 when you were 24?
I LOOOOOOOOVVVVEE THIS! 🙌🏻 I’m in an the same “type” of relationship/situation (we have 14 years between us) and seeing you guys come out to the world and put your foot down sooooo proudly is AWESOME! 🌼💛🌼
My husband is 22 yrs older than me. He was the best thing that ever happened to me. I know my heart will never be broken again. Yay for you both!!!
I'm glad that you guys made this video! I remember reading about this a couple months ago and it's hard to gauge a relationship off of text - so it's great to be able to see your connection in person, or video lol. Honestly, this kind of relationship is not for everybody!! Obviously age gaps like this aren't super common, but they are still prevalent. And I think its awesome that you guys are helping show the world that it's okay to love someone regardless of societal norms. My last partner was 18 years older than me, it's an interesting dynamic! It doesn't feel weird to me at all because we just clicked intellectually; even though our life experiences were so different, and he's a part of a different generation than I am, we had more in common beyond that so it just worked! So, kudos to y'all for not giving a damn what people think. I feel like so many people are scared to love openly when it is perceived as "weird" by the masses, but honestly you guys are so in sync and you are just clearly so happy. I think you guys will help a lot of people and couples live more authentically by being so open :) F the haters!
She doesn't even look like she likes him.
Kelly momma3 I don’t look like I like anything. Unfortunately, I have RBF. I’m crazy about my boy, though.
Courtney Thornton man* that is a grown man.
Alejandra Guzmán 😂😂
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What? You want them snogging their faces off? Grow up
You Guys Are So Cool.
My Fiancé And I Are 30 Years Apart And Together For 6 Years.
This Is Just So Cool To See.
Thank You.
Really.
You Guys Rock.
#OwnIt
#HusbandNotDad
I have no problem with this relationship. And I’m 21 and my fiancé is 24. I love seeing people in love. I caught myself smiling at you guys a few times throughout this. To me there’s nothing gross about it. She’s of age, she’s an adult. There’s nothing wrong about it. I also love how she proposed to you. You guys are just breaking all the rules !!!!! Lol. 😂😂 I think you guys are awesome and I hope this works out for a very long time. 💜💜
More like #husbandnotgrandpa
Um, I'm like 100% sure he taught my middle school band class. How the hell this ended up in my recommended I will never know. But, I got a really thorough laugh from it.
Elena Lynn This is definitely him and I’m so glad you got a good laugh from this! 😂
It was so weird coming across someone i actually know on a trending video. There were about 5 minutes of me thinking, "god, he sounds/looks familiar" and then seeing your last name--it all clicked. I'm glad y'all are doing well!
Honestly I support their relationship as long as they are BOTH happy then that's all that matters. This couple is making a change making everyone's crude comments and replying with positive and funny remarks. And all of the comments they get that are positive is soooo good. I hope you guys have an amazing Halloween
Thank you so much for making this video! I promised myself to keep it short so I will try... yes there are aging concerns, but the growth of a soul is based on the experience of the body. Since I was extremely young I always believed love was ageless and I am so happy to see others living it out as well. I attract those in my twenties because that's where my energy in mentality are. After my 19 year abusive marriage, I have had relationships, that even though we didn't work out, we agreed that we could be married at one point.
I take great care of my health and most assume I am 15 to 20 years younger than my actual age, but as most are understandingly concerned, eventually this soul-suit is going to wear out and my younger partner will watch as I phase from this existence. If she is willing to do that, then that is her call. Connecting on attributes is primary, but there are plenty who are amazing lives/souls who are attractive and want to enjoy existence with me. Thank you for following your hearts and dismissing all the fear-based criticisms I am probably going to receive as well. Be blessed.
My husband and I are only 11 years apart and we struggle so much with our differences because he is long past my age group and he has already known, lost interest or doesn’t understand things I like. I think its great for you if you’re happy and you have it figured out.
Captcha Neon yeah me and mine are 14 years apart. Been together going on 11 years. Its not easy some days. He's tired a lot LOL
Kayla22 Wow lol its really good to know someone understands. Lucky for you, you’re past the 7 year itch, I’m approaching it and it has been a lot tougher than usual. Can you give me any advice on how to get through this next year with minimal arguments?
Captcha Neon what is the biggest problems in your relationship? I can take a guess on possibly you want to do things and he doesn't. Mine seems to be tired all the time LOL it's definitely not easy having an age Gap at times. You can add me on social media if you want. We can vent 😂😂😂
Kayla22 LOL cool yeah lets add each other, I have all platforms except Snapchat. One of the main problems we have is that I am very much into what teens like, you know viral videos, video games etc... my husband on the otherhand is obsessed with sports and also, he doesnt get my Disney Movie obsession lol. Let me know where you want me to add you
Its proven, big age gap couples break up more
OMG!!!! Y'all are awesome I couldn't stop laughing hahaha. Had to subscribe :)
Wtf did this end up in my recommended videos?
I believe you went to my college, I asked you about your sweet puppy one day. And you were so sweet, so this is so crazy I just stumbled on your channel. People need to learn to keep rude comments to themselves. No one else is involved in your relationship, so why does it matter? You both seem so genuinely happy, and that makes me happy. Best of luck to you both!
I have said this a ton of times! I am a ER Doctor in the Southwest, tomorrow is not guaranteed so make the best of today! Good luck and. God Bless!
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Your confidence in yourselves and each other is brilliant! Hope to see more from you two!
I’ll be 27 this year, my husband 45. We met when i was 20, he was 38. We did have a hard time at first with family and friends, also looking out for our best interest. He has 3 teenage sons. One is only 7 years younger than me so of course we get a lot of questions when we are all 6 together! (We do have a 2 year old boy together!) I’m glad this showed up in my suggested videos. I love knowing other people genuinely just love each other no matter age. I don’t know what went “viral” but I’m surprised none of my hilarious friends sent it to me 🤣 we are happily married for 3 1/2 years now. We forget about the age difference 99% of the time. It doesn’t have anything to do with our daily lives. It just is what it is. We are happy and i can definitely tell you two are as well! Also loved The Office reference! 💕
My bf is 14 yrs older and i get he is my dad lol. Im 37 but i look 20.Im so happy that you have found ur happy ending and have a beautiful family no matter what that looks like ...His kids are your kids no matter what the age..Happy for
I love my teacher lol
I actually love this video SO much. I support you guys & hope you keep going with your channel!!! I’ll totally keep watching. My boyfriend is also a father & is 13 years older than me, so you guys are really relatable. You rock
I’m sorry, but this is just creepy and weird.
My aunt (my dad's sister) and her husband, my uncle are ~30 years apart (she's in her 50s and he's in his 80s) and they couldn't be happier. They've been together since before i was born so it's never been weird for me. They have a son together, they travel, cook together, go camping; they are perfect for each other. When i stay over, it always ends up my uncle and I staying up late talking about life and whatever over gin and tonics lol
I am 37 and have 8 grandkids, thanks to my husband. He is actually closer to my parents age than my own (we are both school teachers in Texas). He cooks and I clean up... we are pretty much polar opposites lol but we love each other very much!!!
Love love LOVE this!!! My husband and I are 25 years apart. Happiness is what is important!! People will criticise things that they don't know much about.
I love you two so much. I don't know why this came up in my news feed but I'm so glad it did. I am 42 and my husband is 30. I actually use to babysit him when he was a baby haha. You two are just so awesome. It doesn't matter age, color, sex anything. If you love someone, you just love them. Can't wait to watch more of you
that's fucked up.
Christa Buckler lol
It's great to see you guys are so happy together :) I am also in an age-gap relationship. We were together for six years and then broke up but remained friends; I dated other people and it helped me appreciate how well he treated me and what a good person he is, and we got back together about a year ago, after four years of not being in a relationship together. Thank you for sharing your relationship and being willing to answer people's questions.
My boyfriend is 22 years older then me (his kids are not much younger then me) so this video made me so happy. This is more common then a lot of people think and it's so nice to see people talk about this so comfortably and openly. You both seem like a lot of fun and it's easy to see that you are very much in love.
Good for u guys as long as u guys r happy that's all that matters!!!! ~one love~
I’m 23 and my boyfriend of 6 years is 55! and I love him sooo much!!
Ray C i'm 23 and mine is 51 :)
Just curious, but what is it about older men that you like?
You were 17 dating a 49 year old at the start? (No judgement) just curious.
NatKittens its statutory rape at that age
Luisa Martina Not here to argue whether it’s right or not, but it’s not statutory rape in some states. Age of consent is 16 in a lot of states.
No idea why TH-cam recommended this to me. But that reaction when he made that awful comment about that awful team was enough to make me subscribe then and there 😂 WAR EAGLE!!
Not sure if you answered this or not, I could have missed it... sorry if I did! But how did you guys originally first meet?
Abby Decker We actually knew of each other in a less than casual way years before we dated because we lived in the same small town. She contacted me for my experience in music and event planning as she was in charge of events at her college. The relationship grew out of that interaction.
Vann Thornton less than casual... Like you were her teacher?
Ashley Spencer the second sentence doesn't really mean anything. You can have a teacher and contact him or her a couple years later soooo... my comprehension is just fine. But thanks for your concern.
Pizza is forever I think the lack of response says a lot. Wow. If I found out my child's teacher was dating a year no former student, I would raise hell
My gf and I have a 22-year age gap and have been dating for three years. Honestly, we forget that the age discrepancy even exists, and have enough mutual friends that no one else thinks it's odd either. We share so many interests that it's just a perfectly natural fit.
Geoff Trowbridge my parents were 22 years apart and stayed married for nearly 30 years. They've just recently divorced (for reasons that probably wouldn't apply to you, my dad has severe schizophrenia) but I wanted to say that I loved having a young mother and older father. It was such a blessing in my life. Much love and many blessings!
i cannot believe he is a teacher! I would not feel comfortable with him as my childs teacher no matter the kids age.
James Jensen I don't ask this question in a critical way, but why is that?
Donia Ecker because she looks very young. i understand she’s in her mid twenties but she still looks like a young teenager, knowing that my child’s teacher was attracted to someone who looked so young would make me uncomfortable. men are not known to control themselves very well.
You're joking, right???? He IS my teacher. And a darn good one too.
I can't believe how stale you people can be.
Hello There isn't it a lil inappropriate that you are watching this then lol
I’m so happy for you guys. My boyfriend and I keep breaking up because his daughter can not handle our age difference. It makes me so sad. It’s nice to see I’m not the only person who dates age gap.
He looks like he really actually loves her and that’s super cute. I personally like older men myself and I don’t look or act like a teen and neither does she, adults are adults he’s not a pervert and she’s not a gold digger.
The only thing that shocked me about this video was him mentioning that his oldest son is 37, Van was quite a young first-time dad!! But you guys seem really happy together and that you have a solid foundation. All the hateful comments are so freaking rude but you’re right, comment sections are just populated by trolls mostly so that’s good you just let it roll off your back. Life is f-ing hard and if any of us can find someone we love and who makes us happy to go through it with, people should be happy for them.
People that don’t understand will never understand. Age doesn’t matter at all, it’s all about a persons soul which has no age at all.
You two remind me a lot of me and my fiance (he's also older than me!). I love that y'all play and goof around a lot. It's super obvious that you love each other. I can't wait to see more episodes!
PS - Train is rad. I'm so glad they're still around. 😍
This is just great!! Congrats!!
Go Dawgs! I am from Newnan, GA. I wish you both much love and happiness for years to come!
Ok but what we REALLY wanna know is how much grandpa enjoyed that first dip into your fountain of youth after all those years of puttin it in people his own age for so long
Disgusting comment.
Brandy Dishner 😂 I’m sorry the truth is so upsetting to you
You can't possibly think you both don't have issues that brought you together at such an age gap
i think what is comes down to is the body is the body and the soul is the soul... sometimes we fall in love with someones soul no matter WHAT is going on with the body... (and for all the crazies... love is for adults obviously these two are.. so love who you want) awesome video! keeping society open minded :)
If you love each other, then what is the problem? I've asked so many people what is exactly "wrong" in an age-gap-relationship. No one can give a truly, logical and well-founded answer. Many say "he will get too older and she too young" and I say "Ok, but that is their problem and not yours". It doesn't hurt anyone, you're not breaking any law, there is absolute nothing wrong! I still don't understand why is people so against that.
I wish you the best guys!
And i hope to see another episode soon :D
Totally get it! Love it! Enjoy y’all!
You guys are absolutely fabulous!!!
GO DAWGS🏈🏈🏈🏈🏈🏈🏈🏈🏈
Love to see Georgians on TH-cam.. I’m live in North Georgia (Rome). I love u guys and I’m glad I ran up on u guys.
I really don't understand how anyone would have a problem with a loving relationship
I just stumbled upon this somehow it popped up in my feed. My husband and I have a 25 year age gap....and he is older than my father as well. I think most people have been supportive but we have had several stares, people trying to figure out the dynamics. He is absolutely the heat thing that has ever happened to me. I am happier now than I have ever been and it shows in my job and everyday life. I also had a lot of friends who jumped to gold digger, which again not the motivation here. We support each other and both work full time jobs. When I introduced him to my family my father didn’t get it and didn’t speak to me much didn’t even come around until the wedding when he saw us together and how happy we were. I think this channel is a great idea! Makes me wanna make a video lol.
What ever and where ever your heart leads you...go with it! It's meant to be. ❤😍
My husband is 49 I'm 31 so this video makes me happy ♡
You’re married and you just said you’re not soulmates bc you don’t believe there is one person for you and that you take each day by day. just sounds like y’all are not serious about each other or see a future with each other or somethingggg. I am not married but I see a future with my bf and I think that’s what keeps the relationship alive (and if it’s God centered obvi) but you’re saying “hmmm idk. We don’t think about that. We don’t believe we are meant to be/soulmates” like WHAT lol. Makes no sense.
Chicago -I love my fiancé more than anything but I don’t believe in soul mates either, I think I could live happy with multiple different people. I truly do, I think if my fiancé and I never met I would have been perfectly happy with someone else. I am very happy with our relationship, I wouldn’t trade him for anyone. But if I didn’t have him for some reason, I am sure I could find someone else.
Maura Sieber well I think that goes for everyone. If you go through a break up there’s no doubt you can find someone else. but this is my belief, that if you are with someone you care about and everything but don’t see as a soulmate, then that person isn’t bc what would make them stand out from the others if you could just leave at any moment and move on? The person who you’re meant to be will not make you think like that and you will be together for the rest of your lives bc it is meant to be. It’s not about what could be and “if I wasn’t with them I could happily live without them” that’s great but that isn’t the point. You’re with this person to either teach you a lesson or to build a future with, and if you can’t see a future with them what are you even doing.
Chicago I don’t believe in soul mates. Period. For anyone. Look up the math behind “soulmates.” I believe he makes me happy and he’s the person I want to spend my life with.
Courtney Thornton from what I believe, the person I marry is my soulmate. I don’t think we just cross paths for nothing. I think we are guided by our souls each day, and they guide us to people as well and that, as I said earlier, is either to teach us a lesson or grow a future with. I believe my bf is my soulmate bc he came when it was least expected, and I feel that there is a reason for everything. I guess too each his own, it’s not that serious. It just doesn’t make sense to ME, but if it makes sense to you by all means live ya life lol.
Chicago “Soulmate” doesn’t mean they don’t care about if they last together. “Soulmate” means that there is only one person roaming around this earth out there for someone and somehow they found them. Some people don’t believe that. It doesn’t make logical sense that on a planet of 7.6 billion people that you are only capable of being in love with ONE of them.
That’s why it’s called “commitment.” You find someone and you “commit” to them. Because sure, better people might come along, or other people might come along, but you’ve committed to this person. And I think that’s more powerful than the idea of a soul.
As an older lady, I would be self conscious dating a younger guy. But if it works for them. Must be wierd for the son & how she finds a way older man attractive when she could date someone a lot younger is beyond my understanding. Each to his own I guess....
Christy bernal younger men aren’t that great. Most men just wanna play games..actual video games and games with your heart😂
Older men are worse. They are the bad qualities combined with jaded.
After reading so many rude and mean comments, I just wanted to say I support you guys! My parents had a 15 year age gap and my SO and I have a 15 year age gap. Nothing wrong with it if you're in love!
Please do more, I actually found this quite interesting.
I think you guys are great. My husband is a generation younger than me❤️. We’ve been together 15 years and still going strong. Have a twelve year old daughter and he’s the one that’s raised my boys to adult hood. I told him he could be a boy toy but that’s it. He said “tell me that in 15 years.” Lol He still teases me about it.
Yes!!! Thank you!! We get grief constantly. War Eagle y'all!!
My ex was 18 years my senior. We used to get the most obnoxious stares and comments. I'll never forget being at Walgreens one night and this woman flirting with my guy throughout the entire store. We ended up buying my daughter a ball and at checkout, this woman looked at him and said "I bet you're really good with your balls.." YES. SHE. SAID. THAT. Anyway, he answered that she'd have to ask me, his girlfriend. She turned Fire engine Red and left the line to "grab something she forgot!" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Just as they mentioned, we never noticed the difference in age until it was pointed out. Even then, we just laughed about it. Keep being awesome you two!!!
You guys are awesome and inspiring! So young, both, and so wise. Thanks for this breath of fresh air!
I just came across this on Facebook and it really makes me sick how many stupid, narrow-minded people are in this world. You guys don't just look incredibly cute together, in my eyes you also seem like a perfect match. People tend to think that everything needs to be "normal". And normal means, it can't go further than their own horizon. "I couldn't do this, so nobody else can do this either". That's the mindset I can probably never get into my own head. But I'm not trying either tbh. You two know what's best for you. Haters gonna hate. Your response to it is just the best. Since this is Ep 1, I hope there's more to come!
This is my old band teacher
Every person has different point of view. But stay strong as long as you don't hurt anyone. It's your choice not them. Take care and stay strong as couples.
Very cute. Glad I watched. Very good sports about the criticism from people.
You two seem to have excellent chemistry and you seem very funny. ♥️✌️
This is so cute. Not about age but plenty of people question why my fiance and I are together. Your stories are just better :)
Saw you perform at I believe Espresso 41 once and you were so great and he was super supportive, crazy this vid popped up on trending page. Love that you made this vid.
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Why does anyone care? They’re happy!!! Doesn’t affect you. Move on if you have nothing positive to say. Y’all are beautiful!
My husband and I read the article on your tweet together the other day. He is 20.5 years older than I (28 and 48) and honestly, I swear I’ve got one of the few good ones left! We get the dad/daughter comment a lot, but it never has or will bother us. Like you said, we would rather have 20 minutes of happiness together than 20 years of anything or anyone else.
At least we are 1%ers in some way! 😂
I love the comment about you being a grandma! My husband and I are 21 years apart and I also have 2 grandbabies that call me Gigi! And as long as yall happy that's all that matters all these negative comments shouldn't phase y'all no one else is living y'alls life I wish you both many more happy years😘
Nothing surprises me lmao she wiped her nose and cleaned it on her pants lol in a video
Endina Taylor least she didn’t lick it...I mean could be worse lol
Geez, I have allergies. Relax.
Endina Taylor Lol....I caught that too!! 😜
doesn't matter if you have allergies...tissues exist, buy them lol.
😊❤️❤️ awwwh love is love and two people who fall in love like this should embrace it 😘 no matter what people say , if ur happy that all that matters 😊
You guys are too cute and definitely put the age topic to rest by just being you ! My boyfriend and I have a 28 year age difference and we couldn’t have explained it any better than you guys did :) God is good and love is love . Many positive vibes your way and thank you for being an inspiration and an encouragement!
In my 20's and my boyfriend is in his 60's and we started the same way! lol I was SO into him and he would be so hesitant, never made a move on me and still three years later of being together is mind blown that I chose him. But when you know, you know. We don't believe in soulmates either but gosh, id choose my boyfriend in every lifetime, hes my person.
I make just as much as him, I don't need him to live the lifestyle I live so no, I'm not with him for money if that's what you're implying
Love at first sight is real for us who have experienced it.
Thanks for sharing your story to help normalize this and shed some light on the reality of being in a relationship with a large age gap like this. I'm 30 and my bf is 52; the perceived ulterior motive thing is hard to deal with. So much of what you folks say really rings true for us. I hope someday my mom can understand our relationship....thank you again and keep going strong :)
Its all lies he has to be a creep to come up to a girl that young... its not about what they look like its about there maturity... they litterally were in highschool asking there parent for money a few months ago...
I'm 23 yrs old now and I've been in relationships with men mostly over their 50s, even when I was...younger. They never knew how old I actually was, because I've always been very mature and when asked, I often refused to tell or simply lied about my age, which I'm not very proud of, but I had to because I thought they would change their minds about me if they would know how old I am, how old I was, which unfortunately was the case some times when they found out, they felt "guilty" for falling in love with me or they felt themselves "dirty".. They never had relationships wit younger girls before, so I know for a fact they were not "that type" of men as most people would assume. For me it just never felt right to be with people my age, they seemed too shallow and closed minded (not that older people can't be shallow, narrow minded, they can, of course, everyone can be regardless of age, and the truth is there are so many people like that especially nowadays) but the thing is, I always felt much more comfortable with older men; deep conversations are the most important things for me and I don't care about the looks or the age - having an open minded, conscious, mature, intelligent man by my side with a great wit and sense of humour is what I like.
Now excuse me but f*ck people who say "daddy issues" and stuff like that, I've heard that so many times but look, if two intelligent, conscious human being falls in love with each other, if they both are aware of what they want and well aware of themselves and they can talk without manipulating one another any ways or forcing the other one or anything nasty like that, I think love is love, and if there's a deep connection, it's there, and if there's a mental and spiritual bond, it's there and you can't do anything about it other than accept it, embrace it, live it fully.
I wish you all the best!
Being happy is beautiful! Thank you for sharing your story!
I am the offspring of parents with a 39 year age gap. My Mum is 43 and my Dad was 82 (unfortuntely he passed away January of this year). Both my parents had been married for 24 years and were supposed to be celebrating ther 25th anniversary this year. They married because they loved each other! They got 2 children out of it (im almost 21 and my brother is 23). My dad was so so healthy and needed absolutely no care at all-- the idea of the younger partner being a carer isn't always the case, and wasn't in my parents relationship. The thing is, these relationships work! They are like all relationships-- highs and lows. It comes with its own set of unique challenges just like every relationship. And for the record, its not apporpriate for people to call this man a peadophile. He is NOT attracted to children-- this lady is a WOMAN. So before you jump to conclusions that this will NEVER work, please just actually listen to this couple. I wish you guys all the best x
I was skeptical at first and I still feel like I’m watching a dad and his daughter tbh but you guys seem pretty cool.
What a fun, cool couple! Enjoyed the video love your fur babies 😊
So glad you're happy girl! You're an amazing person and deserve the best and Vann makes sure you have the best. It's obvious he adores you and the feeling is mutual. The age gap doesn't mean crap! As long as y'all love each other and he treats you right that's all that matters. Love ya girl and keep doing what you're doing!