Report him don’t let him get away with it. If it was one package I feel like they wouldn’t care but this is literally burglary since it was this many packages. Just like when you steal one little thing from the store it’s a slap on the wrist but when you steal over a certain amount it’s a felony
Stealing mail is a federal offense so you need to report it.. also identify theft as well.. even if they dnt find him its important to report it because you can protect yourself in the future if someone happens to use your identity
Remember babe gentle parenting doesn’t mean permissive parenting and allowing the child to do whatever the heck they want. He needs to be taught respect and boundaries. Parents confuse gentle parenting with no punishments or no consequences. That kid will run YOU, not the other way around. I have a 16 year old and a 8 year old. I taught them boundaries from the start and now it’s just part of their daily lives. It works ❤ you got this
Sorry this happened this to you 💔 When I go on vacation I put a hold on my mail, they hold my mail and packages at the post office. I recommend you do this next time.
Alo, karate and martial arts is perfect. It teaches kids discipline, self love, love of others, confidence and teaches them self defense and when it is appropriate to use it. He will know not to turn on you and Benny. That would be so awesome for your son! My daughter did it for years! It’s not what you think!
Maybe get a PO Box so that way u can have everything shipped there and don’t have to worry about ur packages getting stolen when you’re away from home. ❤
I’d post photos of him on the Nextdoor app, Facebook pages for the county/neighborhood, and a police report. When I’m out of town, I have my next door neighbor put packages in my garage so they’re not sitting on my front porch. Sorry that happened to you! Ugh I have a 2 year old boy and my son is going to start soccer in the spring. They have soccer leagues for toddlers and it’s so cute. I also put him in gym/music class. It’s called Little Gym.
YESSSS POST HIM ALLL OVER YOUR NEIGHBORHOOD AND SOCIAL MEDIA. I would be furious it doesn’t matter if it’s just packages, that’s your hard earned money
Sorry this happened. So upsetting! You should definitely put his picture so people can be on the lookout! He will definitely get his karma, but people around the neighborhood need to be on the lookout. He'll be back since he saw u had so many packages. Hopefully not, but he might send someone else? Idk I'm paranoid with that stuff. I'm from Chicago lol
My resolutions were •read my Bible more •no more cursing •no more drinking alcohol •be more positive •workout •be more talkative/outgoing •smile more Love you Alondra ❣️
Gurrrl I feel you the toddler life is not for the weak! I’m in the same boat. But someone told me a messy home is a happy home that really stuck with me , obviously we’re going to keep cleaning but our babies are happy.
Girl I think raising an only child is so much harder then having two kids because siblings keep each other company while we get things done in the house. When it's one you need to be the play buddy at all time 😢
Thisss. I was gonna say it’s time for baby #2 so he can have a buddy. It’s the best gift she can ever give him. I have 2 boys and they have each other and play all day ❤
It would be smart to do a police report just in case he makes it a habit and comes back! Also if he has done it to your neighbors definitely report them just tell them it exceeds $5-10k to make it a theft worth their while they want felonies lol 😂❤❤❤❤
Alo! I used to work at a day care and we would read a book called “hands are not for hitting” and it really sticks with the kids especially if you read it daily and keep reminding them!
Girl get one of those safe boxes that have a passcode and you're able to give it to your delivery drivers so they can place them inside. You can have it placed somewhere or bury in the ground by your front porch just leave the door facing up
Please pray over your image and family for protection against evil eye and jealousy!! Cover yourself with God cause if things continue to get worse, its an attack but Ill pray for you and your family 🩷🩷🩷
Hope your okay alo stay safe make a report don’t let him get away from it hoe things go well for you this year and hope you reach your goals and many more blessings and success and happiness
You guys are wonderful parents. Martial arts teaches them discipline and control.
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I can definitely relate! It’s hard balancing life while also trying to work on yourself. I’m going through the same the patience and anger issues. Having kids I feel like at times we loose ourselves and it’s sometimes hard to adjust and become your own person again. But thank you for sharing that with us 🫶 Love these types of videos!
If it's more than $1,000 stolen in CA the police can definitely put his a** in jail. I am sorry this happened to you. Keep your head up and don't give up ❤
I wanted to add that there was a neighborhood theif that literally stole from everyone with yards (with unlocked gates), including cars that were packed with work tools..in all the neighborhoods near by and he was getting out of control and no one was doing anything about it. My sister started posting him on nextdoor (app) and ppl in the communities near by started posting him too!! And so we ended up chasing him one time and the cops got him, but did not arrested him because at that time he didn't stole anything and we had to gather around evidence from neighbors of what he stole. He had to have stolen more the $1000 in CA to be arrested that day/night. (Can u believe it?!?) But yeah anyway the word got out there and he eventually stopped. We ended up finding out that he lived in the same street as us but he was homeless on and off because he stayed with his mom.
@AlondraDessy You should throw him a Birthday Party in Stockton with his Family but just say you need to drop off the baby.🎉🎉🎉 He would love that .❤❤❤❤ I love you guys
You should definitely do something about it so you could prevent it from happening again!!! Also Amazon u can request for them to put ur packages in ur garage !!! I know because I was a delivery driver for them for about 2 months and I learned a lot !!! The associate isn’t allowed to leave till it’s closed
I think it’s a Scorpio ♏️ trait maybe because I can be soo socially awkward and I hate it! especially because I think my personality can be bubbly if I’m comfortable with you, It’s more of like an anxiety feeling like I can feel so many different energies and I freak out lol! Keep your vibe high w/ nothing but positive thoughts no matter what and I’m super glad the gym is helping! Love u and your channel Alo🤍
Please get a cleaner and spend all the time you can with ur baby it's the best Time does fly take advantage please❤ I want to spend more time with my abuelita and mom and brothers this year And plan a Tripp San Diego is very expensive but taxes is coming up hopefully we can I love ur channel thank you for sharing 😊❤
My Goal this year is to take better care of my mother, after losing my father on the 7th of this month it hurts so bad. I saw him pass away it hurts so bad.😢 he's in heaven now. Hug your parents don't hold grudges be there for your family no matter what. Life's too precious and too short to not have your family around.
You guys are the cutest family! Love when you vlog, hope the guy who stoled your packages gets in trouble girl that’s messed up that it got stolen. For this new year i just want focus on slowing down, and focus on being a better me also try getting better grades in my college courses❤
Keep putting him he will get used to it that’s how my daughter before she used to not listen to what we said and fighting me when she’s mad but now she’s 4 years old and she’s such a good girl always listen to me . And don’t worry bout cleaning everyday because it’s hard with a baby and also let him learn to pick up his toys he will help u with that .
Girl i can relate, i get bad headaches with no caffeine & same with the non social part , but once i get a few drinks in me i am social to everyone lmao ! So glad i am not the only one who struggles with that ..
Take him to the library I heard they have groups plus he'll learn to read at an early age my parents did that for me and when I was in 5th grade I was taking 8th grade classes still to the day I'm a good reader😊
Maybe this is the teacher side of me but I find social stories for my preschoolers when they hit! And it works well🥰 My 2024 goal is to travel to Greece 🇬🇷💕
Put him in a Montessori school. He’ll be in school for a couple hours, participating in class activities and socializing with children his own age. It’ll also get him used to being away for when he starts kindergarten
He keeps hitting bc you didn’t stop him from doing it when he was younger. And the comments would tell yall back then to make him stop and not laugh when he does it
Ma'am, read your bible and take back your home! In Jesus' name, ALL unclean spirits MUST flee. Dont let those spirits put fear in you and dont let them live in YOUR home. Sending you lots of love and prayers 🙏🩷.
Girl,you better blast his photo all over! Make a report,who knows he might have done this to others and you said you seen his car in the camera video so are you able to zoom in on his license plates? Don't let him get away with this.! People are so PATHETIC anymore! Im sorry this happened to you and I hope you catch this guy. Good luck and best wishes for the remainder of the year.
As a teacher I recommend showing emotions more. For example for hitting pretend it really hurts and be sad and tell him no thank you. He’s really little still but he will understand after a while he has to understand emotions because trust me !! Pre k is rough wth teaching emotions a lot of kids don’t recognize how they make others feel obviously. For pre k we don’t do “punishments” because it’s up to us to teach them how to deal with emotions. And when he’s a little older and begins to understand and still doing it then that’s when you can explain more and tell him tj walk away if he feels like hitting punch a pillow or count to ten take a break things like that. There’s so much you could do and different ways tj approach it
You should put signs up in the neighbourhood so others are aware and he learns his lesson. But he will get his karma. Also your chin breakout since you waxed and said your skin is itchy it could be a rash then or reaction to the wax.
Que feo que te pasó eso alo 😞 I’m sorry you had to go through all that. Wishing you nothing but the best this year! Your snap has the cutest stories with the baby! Lo amo 🥹😂🫶🏻💖
So rude, post his ass everywhere, girl and make a police report. Something could happen you have to protect yourself. You gotta think of your baby yourself and Benny.
With everything going on girl please seek God that's weird about that light turning on &' off 😭 &' bad things happening love you girl stay positive 🩷🤗 Report it don't post your house for your safety
Hey girl, glad ur gonna try n b more consistent on here I love ur vlogs. Also put that thief on blast cause u never know one of ur viewers might know him lol If u give legend a sibling he won’t want u to play with him no more. U act like Benny won’t help girl he’s a good daddy. Stop being bogus n give the man a bebe.
Alo why don’t you post him on social media your fans will find him right away
I think because maybe he’d threaten to like post her address or something
He could also turn around and sue her for defamation or any little thing he can 🤦🏽♀️
@@vanesssa0117defamation??? He’s ON CAMERA STEALING 😂😂😂 HOW IS THAT DEFAMATION?
Yes for real, she should!! Tiktok finds ppl less than 24hrs.
@@jasheboo you’d be surprised how the law works. It’s one thing to do it around the neighborhood but all over social media is a different story
Girl you need to post it all over your neighborhood and on your platform also make a report don’t let this slide. Blessings
Really tho he can keep going back
Yes make a report in case he comes back
Press charges!!! Don’t let him get away with it! Tell all your neighbors 🙏🏽
That ain't gonna work... I don't see the point in rings if the cops won't do anything about it
Check the cameras if they caught his car model and license plates to make the police report. It’ll make the process faster and a lot more helpful .
The police will handle it if you have the car make, license plate and footage
Report him don’t let him get away with it. If it was one package I feel like they wouldn’t care but this is literally burglary since it was this many packages. Just like when you steal one little thing from the store it’s a slap on the wrist but when you steal over a certain amount it’s a felony
It’s grand larceny. When someone steals over $250 worth of stuff. Or if someone steals something that’s over $250
You should file a police report because it's getting to the point to where they need to be punished for stealing, no matter what packages or not.
Sadly the police do not gaf though… since it’s not considered serious
Seriously, once upon a time .. people would get their hands cut off if they stole a piece of bread.
You are meeee ignoring my problems with that freaking light!!!😂
Wait it’s not automatic? 🫣
Girll that’s exactly how I was thinking
So we not gonna talk about her light turning on by itself lol😭😂
Time?
20:45 yes I saw that😳
Make a police report, or he will keep doing it to other people stay safe 💘
She can report his license plates if the cameras caught good angles of the car!
Stealing mail is a federal offense so you need to report it.. also identify theft as well.. even if they dnt find him its important to report it because you can protect yourself in the future if someone happens to use your identity
not alo just continuing getting ready as her some paranormal activity goin on in the back 😹
Remember babe gentle parenting doesn’t mean permissive parenting and allowing the child to do whatever the heck they want. He needs to be taught respect and boundaries. Parents confuse gentle parenting with no punishments or no consequences. That kid will run YOU, not the other way around. I have a 16 year old and a 8 year old. I taught them boundaries from the start and now it’s just part of their daily lives. It works ❤ you got this
Sorry this happened this to you 💔 When I go on vacation I put a hold on my mail, they hold my mail and packages at the post office. I recommend you do this next time.
Alo, karate and martial arts is perfect. It teaches kids discipline, self love, love of others, confidence and teaches them self defense and when it is appropriate to use it. He will know not to turn on you and Benny. That would be so awesome for your son! My daughter did it for years! It’s not what you think!
Maybe get a PO Box so that way u can have everything shipped there and don’t have to worry about ur packages getting stolen when you’re away from home. ❤
Put the pictures up! It'll be so embarrassing for his family and friends to see him! He must be local enough if he was making fucking trips!
Post him on your social medias people need to learn one way or another!
Noooooo sis say sike rn! The light turning on and off 😭😭 I’m cryingggggg. The way you stayed so calm. lol my ass would have ran tf out 💀😭
I’d post photos of him on the Nextdoor app, Facebook pages for the county/neighborhood, and a police report. When I’m out of town, I have my next door neighbor put packages in my garage so they’re not sitting on my front porch. Sorry that happened to you! Ugh
I have a 2 year old boy and my son is going to start soccer in the spring. They have soccer leagues for toddlers and it’s so cute. I also put him in gym/music class. It’s called Little Gym.
Girl dont drink any pre-workouts or energy drinks. Those are horrible for your health!!!
Girl take care of your heart. That caffeine is gonna run you into a heart attack real quick!!
YESSSS POST HIM ALLL OVER YOUR NEIGHBORHOOD AND SOCIAL MEDIA. I would be furious it doesn’t matter if it’s just packages, that’s your hard earned money
Sorry this happened. So upsetting! You should definitely put his picture so people can be on the lookout! He will definitely get his karma, but people around the neighborhood need to be on the lookout. He'll be back since he saw u had so many packages. Hopefully not, but he might send someone else? Idk I'm paranoid with that stuff. I'm from Chicago lol
As a mom I can relate 100 percent mama 😭❤ being a mom is hard none of us know what we’re doing ❤
Alondra why can’t you just post him on your social media? He’ll be recognized and found asap
i think she doesn’t want her address to be exposed if things escalate
Girl we need a story time about your paranormal activity in your home 🏡
Paranormal activity!???? When did she say that
@@jaime5095 @4:39 she mentions it cause the light turned on by itself
I’m sorry that happened to you I hope I would be pissed but I hope this new year is filled with blessing every day.
My resolutions were
•read my Bible more
•no more cursing
•no more drinking alcohol
•be more positive
•workout
•be more talkative/outgoing
•smile more
Love you Alondra ❣️
Great job girl! Keep it up Jesus loves you! Pray with faith 🙏🏼🩷🙂
Litterally same. 3 days going on reading my bible. You got this!! At least 30 min !
@@lucerosvlog5748 thank you ❣️
@@vanessacabrera6202 Yass ❣️
Gurrrl I feel you the toddler life is not for the weak! I’m in the same boat. But someone told me a messy home is a happy home that really stuck with me , obviously we’re going to keep cleaning but our babies are happy.
Girl I think raising an only child is so much harder then having two kids because siblings keep each other company while we get things done in the house. When it's one you need to be the play buddy at all time 😢
Thisss. I was gonna say it’s time for baby #2 so he can have a buddy. It’s the best gift she can ever give him. I have 2 boys and they have each other and play all day ❤
Maybe he can clean with her that way he’s next to her & entertained that’s what I do with my 3 babies because after 2 minutes it’s a tornado 😂
The light turning on and off and the music and you continuing the convo like nothing made me die😂😂
😭😭😭 fr
I can never hate Alondra im sorry ,love her and her videos they have been making me happy for years
It would be smart to do a police report just in case he makes it a habit and comes back! Also if he has done it to your neighbors definitely report them just tell them it exceeds $5-10k to make it a theft worth their while they want felonies lol 😂❤❤❤❤
Alo! I used to work at a day care and we would read a book called “hands are not for hitting” and it really sticks with the kids especially if you read it daily and keep reminding them!
Not the light turning on & off 😩 get a limpia girl! & bless your house💜
Girl get one of those safe boxes that have a passcode and you're able to give it to your delivery drivers so they can place them inside. You can have it placed somewhere or bury in the ground by your front porch just leave the door facing up
Please pray over your image and family for protection against evil eye and jealousy!! Cover yourself with God cause if things continue to get worse, its an attack but Ill pray for you and your family 🩷🩷🩷
Amen !
expose him girl. if you don't do anything, he's getting away without any consequences. You have a big platform, use it
Yes! Let the internet find this guy!
You have a whole ass platform use that shit, report, post and his going to keep doing it to others. Plus give you content.
Hope your okay alo stay safe make a report don’t let him get away from it hoe things go well for you this year and hope you reach your goals and many more blessings and success and happiness
You guys are wonderful parents. Martial arts teaches them discipline and control.
I can definitely relate! It’s hard balancing life while also trying to work on yourself. I’m going through the same the patience and anger issues. Having kids I feel like at times we loose ourselves and it’s sometimes hard to adjust and become your own person again. But thank you for sharing that with us 🫶 Love these types of videos!
If it's more than $1,000 stolen in CA the police can definitely put his a** in jail. I am sorry this happened to you. Keep your head up and don't give up ❤
I wanted to add that there was a neighborhood theif that literally stole from everyone with yards (with unlocked gates), including cars that were packed with work tools..in all the neighborhoods near by and he was getting out of control and no one was doing anything about it. My sister started posting him on nextdoor (app) and ppl in the communities near by started posting him too!! And so we ended up chasing him one time and the cops got him, but did not arrested him because at that time he didn't stole anything and we had to gather around evidence from neighbors of what he stole. He had to have stolen more the $1000 in CA to be arrested that day/night. (Can u believe it?!?) But yeah anyway the word got out there and he eventually stopped.
We ended up finding out that he lived in the same street as us but he was homeless on and off because he stayed with his mom.
Take him to Gymboree classes! They have all ages, it’s like a little class for 45 min. They also have preschool steps for 2 hrs my son loved it!
I’d say file a police report still! What if he comes back/ continues. At least it will be on record for “his first time.”
Put those pictures up allll over the neighborhood. That would be his karma!!
Leave him with grandma for two days while you clean the whole house you and Benny maybe that will help❤
@AlondraDessy You should throw him a Birthday Party in Stockton with his Family but just say you need to drop off the baby.🎉🎉🎉
He would love that .❤❤❤❤
I love you guys
You should definitely do something about it so you could prevent it from happening again!!! Also Amazon u can request for them to put ur packages in ur garage !!! I know because I was a delivery driver for them for about 2 months and I learned a lot !!! The associate isn’t allowed to leave till it’s closed
I’m sorry but I’m still stuck on the fact your light turned on and off😭😭😭 how is nobody mentioning it 😳
Please make a police report. These idiots have to be stopped. So sorry this happened to you 😢
I lost brain cells watching her yelp 😅😂😂 over senseless things
I think it’s a Scorpio ♏️ trait maybe because I can be soo socially awkward and I hate it! especially because I think my personality can be bubbly if I’m comfortable with you, It’s more of like an anxiety feeling like I can feel so many different energies and I freak out lol! Keep your vibe high w/ nothing but positive thoughts no matter what and I’m super glad the gym is helping! Love u and your channel Alo🤍
Please get a cleaner and spend all the time you can with ur baby it's the best
Time does fly take advantage please❤
I want to spend more time with my abuelita and mom and brothers this year
And plan a Tripp San Diego is very expensive but taxes is coming up hopefully we can
I love ur channel thank you for sharing 😊❤
Omg how scarey 😲😳😲😳 you should of reported him. And post him online .
Post him on social media 🤷🏻♀️ let everyone know who he is. Hopefully like that he feel embarrassed
You should check at your local library for activities to do with young ones they sometimes have music& dance groups or storytelling ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I need to make that my goal! Being social without the alcohol 🥺
We got this!❤
Same
Also so u could prevent ur neighbors getting robbed as well
My Goal this year is to take better care of my mother, after losing my father on the 7th of this month it hurts so bad. I saw him pass away it hurts so bad.😢 he's in heaven now. Hug your parents don't hold grudges be there for your family no matter what. Life's too precious and too short to not have your family around.
Saludos desde Houston Tx 😊😊😊 post him everywhere tiktok fb instagram and youtube expose him pa que le de vergüenza.
Police report! Mail theft is a felony which carries a sentence of up to 5 years in prison and fines up to $250,000.
You guys are the cutest family! Love when you vlog, hope the guy who stoled your packages gets in trouble girl that’s messed up that it got stolen. For this new year i just want focus on slowing down, and focus on being a better me also try getting better grades in my college courses❤
I HOPE THAT YOU'RE OKAY 🙏🏻
Girl if you have a picture and plates you should definitely place a police report and put him on blast in the neighborhood and online
Keep putting him he will get used to it that’s how my daughter before she used to not listen to what we said and fighting me when she’s mad but now she’s 4 years old and she’s such a good girl always listen to me . And don’t worry bout cleaning everyday because it’s hard with a baby and also let him learn to pick up his toys he will help u with that .
It was Tre that stole the packages 🤣
Stooooppp 😂💀 i forgot all about tre lmaoo
girl you're already talking to us so confidently just pretend we're there when you talk to someone :)
Girl put up pictures of the klepto around the neighborhood 4:18
Girl i can relate, i get bad headaches with no caffeine & same with the non social part , but once i get a few drinks in me i am social to everyone lmao ! So glad i am not the only one who struggles with that ..
Post him on your social medias 😗😗
Gurrrl were so done hearing about better help LOL
Aloooo Yur so freaking pretty !!!❤
Take him to the library I heard they have groups plus he'll learn to read at an early age my parents did that for me and when I was in 5th grade I was taking 8th grade classes still to the day I'm a good reader😊
Omg 😂😂alo ignoring the light going on n off . 😅so happy to hear your going to post more 😊 $cadiq
Get a PO Box so your packages dont just sit there. He will probably come back of he sees more. Expose him every where
Maybe this is the teacher side of me but I find social stories for my preschoolers when they hit! And it works well🥰 My 2024 goal is to travel to Greece 🇬🇷💕
Yea make a report you have the picture of him
He has his eyes on your house now… j/s
Girl post him in everything and make the report!
Press charges, the police will do something about it, especially if you can clearly see him. If you don’t he’s going to do it again . That’s scary
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I hope you filed a police report, you should post the thieves picture! Glad you are staying positive.
$Avina1983
The music when the lights turned off and on 🤣🤣🤣 & my goals are less social media and spend more time doing things
Damn, I thought I was the only one that lacks water but super caffeinated 😱😱
Put him in a Montessori school. He’ll be in school for a couple hours, participating in class activities and socializing with children his own age. It’ll also get him used to being away for when he starts kindergarten
it was funny how you just kept talking like nothing after your lights were going on and off lol you’re so gorgeous ❤️
Bigger the house, bigger the mess!! Remember that.
Woman are built to care for our homes!!!
He keeps hitting bc you didn’t stop him from doing it when he was younger. And the comments would tell yall back then to make him stop and not laugh when he does it
Ma'am, read your bible and take back your home! In Jesus' name, ALL unclean spirits MUST flee. Dont let those spirits put fear in you and dont let them live in YOUR home. Sending you lots of love and prayers 🙏🩷.
The way you stayed when the lights went off n on lmao😂
When he gets violent ask him if he needs a hug. It usually works with my child❤️
I can relate to you on all these topics let me not even start writing paragraphs. Lol You seem more open in these video and I like to see it. ❤
Alo no caffeine it can trigger your anxiety
Girl,you better blast his photo all over! Make a report,who knows he might have done this to others and you said you seen his car in the camera video so are you able to zoom in on his license plates? Don't let him get away with this.! People are so PATHETIC anymore! Im sorry this happened to you and I hope you catch this guy. Good luck and best wishes for the remainder of the year.
As a teacher I recommend showing emotions more. For example for hitting pretend it really hurts and be sad and tell him no thank you. He’s really little still but he will understand after a while he has to understand emotions because trust me !! Pre k is rough wth teaching emotions a lot of kids don’t recognize how they make others feel obviously. For pre k we don’t do “punishments” because it’s up to us to teach them how to deal with emotions. And when he’s a little older and begins to understand and still doing it then that’s when you can explain more and tell him tj walk away if he feels like hitting punch a pillow or count to ten take a break things like that. There’s so much you could do and different ways tj approach it
You should put signs up in the neighbourhood so others are aware and he learns his lesson. But he will get his karma. Also your chin breakout since you waxed and said your skin is itchy it could be a rash then or reaction to the wax.
Que feo que te pasó eso alo 😞 I’m sorry you had to go through all that. Wishing you nothing but the best this year! Your snap has the cutest stories with the baby! Lo amo 🥹😂🫶🏻💖
So rude, post his ass everywhere, girl and make a police report. Something could happen you have to protect yourself. You gotta think of your baby yourself and Benny.
The light turning on and off 😭😭😭 but girl yes make a police report don’t let him get away with it
With everything going on girl please seek God that's weird about that light turning on &' off 😭 &' bad things happening love you girl stay positive 🩷🤗 Report it don't post your house for your safety
Hey girl, glad ur gonna try n b more consistent on here I love ur vlogs. Also put that thief on blast cause u never know one of ur viewers might know him lol If u give legend a sibling he won’t want u to play with him no more. U act like Benny won’t help girl he’s a good daddy. Stop being bogus n give the man a bebe.