Pakistani Wives Deserve RESPECT Not Maid Treatment!

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  • Pakistani Wives Deserve RESPECT Not Maid Treatment!
    The Harsh Truth About Marriage & In-Laws in Pakistan 💔
    #Inlawsdynamics #pakistanimothers #pakistanihusbands #wifeorhousemaid
    In this podcast, with Manahil Awan to expose the deep-rooted toxic expectations, cultural hypocrisy, and generational traumas that Pakistani brides face after marriage.
    🔴 What We Discussed:
    ✔️ Why in-laws throw lavish receptions for 800 guests but do nothing for the bride
    ✔️ How Pakistani mothers spoil their sons & expect wives to handle all house chores
    ✔️ The class difference shock-how women suffer when they move from a good background to a poor household
    ✔️ The obsession of mother-in-laws with their sons & how they emotionally manipulate daughters-in-law
    ✔️ Body shaming in rishta culture-why grooms’ flaws are ignored, but brides are scrutinized
    ✔️ The pressure on women for pregnancy while men face zero accountability
    ✔️ How Pakistani brides are forced to stay in toxic marriages due to parental pressure
    ✔️ The heartbreaking moment when a husband says: “You do nothing” despite a wife handling everything
    👰 Do you relate to this? Have you faced similar experiences? Let us know in the comments!
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    #MarriageInPakistan #ToxicInLaws #PakistaniCulture #RukhsatMatchmaking #GenerationalTrauma #ManahilAwan #MarriageExpectations

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  • @AliImran-jf1oh
    @AliImran-jf1oh 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I m a man but i must say that ...Little sister u r so right

  • @abdulhai1894
    @abdulhai1894 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    She is right 💯

  • @WayezK
    @WayezK 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    If the wife is working but not helping out with bills or if she is not working but considers household chores as maid treatment, then what value or contribution the wife is bringing to the marriage?

    • @uzr720
      @uzr720 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Girls will say, "We are giving you emotional support." #PapaKiPariyaan
      As men, we don't need your emotional support. Either you must earn or do house chores. Marriage is 50/50
      If house chores are not your responsibility, then earning money is also not our responsibility. Now they will get fire. 😂

    • @imaanhussain1996
      @imaanhussain1996 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Go n learn islam properly

  • @amnaanees6524
    @amnaanees6524 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Actually she is right.......

  • @Just_feel_nature
    @Just_feel_nature 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    So called influencers

  • @Borntobeahero-2k
    @Borntobeahero-2k 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Please invite mature guests

  • @TalyaAkhtar
    @TalyaAkhtar 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Isky husbnd ka kya hota hoga haal... Bht khatarnaak guest lanay lagy hainn.... Har koi respect ka haqdaar hai,,

    • @ridakhan1749
      @ridakhan1749 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I guess any guy who has a typical patriarchal mindset will find her threatening, apna right jo mang rahi hy….

    • @TalyaAkhtar
      @TalyaAkhtar 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ridakhan1749 sis me ek housewife hun, mujhy bhi lgraha hy k thra zada jogya,, insan male ho female ho khwahishaat Allah nay insan mai daali hai magr is wajah se kisi k shakal ko bura bolna,, its not rite,, mashre mai ghalat baaton k upar awaz uthanay k liye zaroori tou nahi k kisi ki shakal ko bura kaha jaye,, agr ek kaali larki acha husbnd chahy tou kya usko yeh bola jaye k khud kali ho aur husbnd pyara chhaye?

    • @ridakhan1749
      @ridakhan1749 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@TalyaAkhtar exactly that is what she is highlighting “her insan respect ka haqdar hy”. Kia apne dekha nai ke kese rishta auntiyan larkiyon ki self respect kharab karti hen unk andar khamiyan nikal kar k kali hy, moti hy ya etc. jub k khud k betay alien (jadoo) jese hi q na hon..

    • @TalyaAkhtar
      @TalyaAkhtar 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ridakhan1749 magr isko higlight is trha se karna k khud bhi dusron ki shakal ko bura kehna? Awareness esi honi chahye k baat dono taraf se insaf pay mubni ho,, isko itni simple langugue mai bhi tou kehskty hain k larko walon ko chhaye k larki ki shakal ka mazak na uraye, khwahish rakhna alag baat hai magr khuahish puri jab tak nahi horahi tab tak keep searching but reject ahsan tareeqy se karen k kisi ki dil aazari na ho,, istrha bhi smjhaya jaskta haina dear :)

    • @ridakhan1749
      @ridakhan1749 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ on that part, I completely agree k kisi ki shakal or self respect kharab nai karni chahea kisi bhi conditions me chahe wo larka ho ya larki …

  • @sanji546
    @sanji546 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Q k wo khus aisa waqt guzar kay arahi thyn

  • @rahawk9to9
    @rahawk9to9 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I've seen her 1st podcast on this channel she was talking well matured and neutral. But this time she's so biased and playing women card.

  • @Adam-xh3pq
    @Adam-xh3pq 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Pakistan me housemaid saree pehenti hai kya thumbnail to pakistani laga lete 😅

  • @saimaahmed8759
    @saimaahmed8759 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Shaadi na karo na phir... Aur AISH karo jaisa karna chahtee ho. Parho likho, Job karo, Travel karo, Apni boorhi Maan say khana pakwaatee raho.....kis nay roka hai

    • @ridakhan1749
      @ridakhan1749 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Don’t worry brother ap jaison se kisi ne mukammal hosh o hawas mein shadi karni bhi nai hy…

  • @SAAD92ification
    @SAAD92ification วันที่ผ่านมา

    😂😂😂

  • @abdallahmahjid283
    @abdallahmahjid283 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Kia hyoicritical auratain hain ye sab, Mard is not financially responsible for the house then, please treat men like human beings not atm machines! This is 2025 women can run the house themselves now.

    • @mahamalibutt
      @mahamalibutt 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      naan nafqa mard ki zimmaydari hai samjhay hadhraam

    • @ridakhan1749
      @ridakhan1749 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Dude nowhere she says that women should not do the household work. All she asks for is a little acknowledgment and credit for that work which women in our society rarely get. Just have a neutral look around yourself and see that how many women are appreciated for giving birth, raising kids and doing household chores from morning till night. The real problem is that the guys in this comment section are feeing threatened because she is asking for the rights……

    • @abdallahmahjid283
      @abdallahmahjid283 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ridakhan1749 nobody is feeling threatened but the one sidedness is getting irritating by calling normal housework as maid's work. Women's issues are always magnified and highlighted disproportionately. Women seem to think they're the only ones with problems. There are issues in marriage for men too but they're not going on podcasts always fretting over it. When men speak about their issues women minimize it by saying they feel threatened or it's their obligation.

    • @ridakhan1749
      @ridakhan1749 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ she nowhere said that housework is the maid work. She says that housewives are treated like a main despite being a family member and their contributions are never appreciated or cared about which is true in the most cases (if not all). Women’s suffering are magnified because women have actually suffered because of patriarchy. Despite working the whole day, they don’t have financial means to sustain themselves and husband/in-laws can abuse them the way they want. No one denied men’s issues here (which by the way are also a result of patriarchy) but if you are so keen about them, you can go, research and start your own podcast to highlight the voice. You are clearly feeling insecure here because you assume that discussing women’s issues will result in men’s issues being ignored/minimized because rather than empathising with someone suffering, you have that typical men vs. Women mindset.

    • @abdallahmahjid283
      @abdallahmahjid283 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​​@@ridakhan1749 I think this is a trope that is too often pushed and also too often untrue. Even if it is true, what do you think is the cause of it? Patriarchy? Just because men are inherently insecure and misogynistic? Isn't that a sexist and reductive view? How do you know all women (or a lot of women) do the housework like a "maid"? If it is anecdotal, I've seen quite a few examples where women had no contribution to the marriage and just abused there husband emotionally and financially. These were the same women who are the loudest to cry abuse from their husband. So who is true(r)?

  • @dailydeeds-dd289
    @dailydeeds-dd289 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    250 million population 🇵🇰 and only 1000 views as of now, which is around 0.0005% of the entire population. I hope this channel achieves over 10% mark and people actually learn and enlighten themselves. This is good content/information that relates to reality.
    But I'm sure many people are just watching as a source of entertainment to pass their time.
    Ps. I left Pak a long time ago, and my girlfriend isn't a pak woman. 😅
    So record some of your content in English please so that you can target an international audience.
    Everyone needs some free advice now a days.

  • @AliRaza-o8l2v
    @AliRaza-o8l2v 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Bachari moti ko lgta ha kafi rejections hui hn

    • @ridakhan1749
      @ridakhan1749 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      You are projecting your own life experiences on her too much bro.