bullying happens anywhere . I was raised in China and was bullied at school until I moved to Australia . Surprisingly I wasn’t bullied anymore through my time in Australia. If I was to teach my children, I prob would mention less about the races but focus more on how to handle with situation. Providing them with that circle of security .
parents' sharing and vice versa, children being happy to tell mum and dad about their day whether it's happy or not, is very important. what we're gradually finding out is that we're all so different and what works for Sarah doesn't necessarily work for Jason, and how we encourage Damon and later Jamie will depend on their personality.
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多謝 Winny你分享 講到呢個話題最終結論係乜嘢都唔知 想分享以前喺外國嘅體驗好自然會諗起將來點樣教導兩個小朋友 好自然會諗起點樣保護佢哋 父母同老師都好大責任 當然唔係淨係去安撫被欺凌嘅，更加需要阻止呢啲行為 我哋同好多其他朋友分享完之後，其中一個諗到嘅就係要教啲稍為霸道啲、可能有機會欺凌嘅小朋友唔好咁做 欺凌呢樣嘢根本唔應該發生， 要佢完全消失都應該冇乜可能， 我哋只可以做好自己保護自己小朋友，見到唔啱嘅情況就企出嚟講 thx, Sarah and Jason
Thanks for starting to tackle with such a difficult topic. Been thinking about this myself a lot lately with not a lot of concrete solutions. Thanks for sharing.
it's a little sensitive, the topic but it's worth talking about and it is something we have to prepare for when Damon and Jamie grow up we've moved our English stuff over to here th-cam.com/channels/GOhpm3ZA5vpWKvrmH2nBhg.html come by and have a look when you free AND all our friends are here th-cam.com/channels/vE6fAAhEiEymdWcdNBqlrg.html thx thx for liking our stuff❤️
I remembered in my form 3 year, I went study in New Zealand from HK & I got the highest exam mark in Math at the new NZ school; the classmate sat in front of me turned back to me, looking at my exam paper said, '100 mark, oh DISGUSTING!' with her mean tone & face. I considered her racism and told the Math teacher & he thought that classmate wasn't appropriate too & talked to her & made her apologized to me. I also had 2 -3 more times similar experience that involved some racism in NZ & Canada; these bully, racism incidents weren't 'big' matters, they were kind of small argument but I think most important is to VOICE OUT when one come across these unfair treatments.
we'd never experience severe bullying, but like you say it's important to speak out and tell the teacher when something happens, and when you do the matter us usually resolved very quickly. Jason: I didn't have a problem with racism or bullying much, I was much confused about religion. we're some kind of taoist/buddhist mix, so I had no idea... awkward🤣🤣🤣
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Nice earrings 💐happy Mother’s Day! Happy each day. Live each day as last day. God bless u 🙏 to me life is difficult. Good luck to u! I think u look cute
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thx Jessie, we've wanted to do this kind of sharing for some time now, but didn't know how it would be received because it's rather serious🤣🤣🤣 We're so happy you like it, thanks !
I remember that story you did on that program. Me being in Sydney Australia, I think race wise it is not too bad at all. In my 20 years back here I only experienced that 3 times tops. Most people especially in our generation are pretty friendly and easy going.
both England and Australia are relatively civilised, COVID has put everyone on edge and we've seen the worst in in people in the last year, all the more reason to remind ourselves and each other to show respect and not forget our manners (something kids are othenb reminded of)
Having grown up in the north of England, I have experienced racism and bullying here and there throughout my primary and secondary school life. The worst ones are chavs and drunk people, they have no remorse and have that "don't care" attitude. On social media platforms, the sheer amount of racial slurs and jokes I see in the comments section is shocking.
Racism will never disappear, need to learn and stand up and protect ourselves. I teach both my daughters, access situation and fight back, do not hold back when fighting back.
It's like we say in the video, bullying online is scarier than name-calling in person, you can pick up momentum so quickly, and before you know it you're looking at 100 messages which can't be answered... it sounds super cheesy but you've got to learn to love each other
@@peterluk7946 protecting yourself is the most, how? That something that can't be answered in one sentence. Each child is different in character, each situation is very different to, how we teach our kids to deal with the situations depends very much on all of the above...
it's sad, we haven't shared out experience in hk, not everyone welcomes you with open arms.... it's tough, but of course as adult we deal with it more comfortably, we have to look after our kids☺️
hey Noel, bullying is so common place, we're not making it more dramatic than it actually is, but a lot of people ask us about our education abroad so here it it. You have to admit, of all your friends, chinese or not, some of them must have had these experiences, even if it's just verbal, no? if not, it's not big problem either, some people grow stronger from the experience, so it's not necessarily a negative influence on your life
it's part of growing up, sometimes we argue and fight with our friends, sometimes with strangers, the severity matters, being silly is part of growing up
I dunno why hk ppl wanna immigrate to foreign countries and if you dun speak english or fluent english, u will experience racism. So many times white ppl told me to go back to china and i am not even from China! And there was a time i felt like a minority at work becos i was the only asian there.
it's especially hard when you don't speak the language fluently, but once you settle, make new friends who aren't necessarily chinese... thing smooth themselves out and you find that things that seemed so difficult are in fact so straightforward❤️ thx Cindy
Ummmm 🧐 agree largely with your parenting style (as said positive thinking and more encouragement is beneficial to kids), but have hesitation to your example of allowing your kid not to wear school uniform if he doesn’t wish to. I think not only to kids but also adults, uniforms mean nothing at all. But at the end of the day we still choose to wear it because it’s a symbol of conformity. I’m not saying blindly conforming is good but instead our behaviours tend to conform to social norms to ensure stability and discipline. Therefore, I would rather suggest if kids really don’t want to wear school uniform, I would tell them to think about the underlying meaning of wearing uniform and let them make their decisions on their own afterwards. Just share my thoughts 💭🤣🤣🤣
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hey F we agree kids need to understand rules and they can't be allowed to have their way but Damon is only 2🤣🤣🤣 he'll be wearing his uniform when he eventually goes to school, thx thx F
@@sarahjasonchan just share my thought ... completely no offence and not meant to take it too serious 😅😅 but anyways enjoy watching your TH-cam videos and keep it up 👍🏼 hv been your TH-cam page fans for years 🤣🤣
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bullying happens anywhere . I was raised in China and was bullied at school until I moved to Australia . Surprisingly I wasn’t bullied anymore through my time in Australia. If I was to teach my children, I prob would mention less about the races but focus more on how to handle with situation. Providing them with that circle of security .
parents' sharing and vice versa, children being happy to tell mum and dad about their day whether it's happy or not, is very important.
what we're gradually finding out is that we're all so different and what works for Sarah doesn't necessarily work for Jason, and how we encourage Damon and later Jamie will depend on their personality.
Love this video 💕 Parenting is not easy and bullying is indeed an issue. Keep posting this type of videos please 😃
thx Jennifer❤️ parenting has never been easy, and now with all these social media platforms it's even more difficult, can only do our best!
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即使住在原出生地，都會有欺凌，問題係點處理
right! 欺凌太常見，hk，uk， 澳洲，邊度都有
@@sarahjasonchan 在本地弱落的人才会被欺负 在国外歧视不管你是什么人 亚洲人特别受不公平对待很多
覺得好奇妙嘅係 啱啱又遇到欺凌事件
無意間 俾我睇到哩段youtube分享
令我好大感觸 雖然自我十歲開始
直至到出到嚟社會做嘢咁多年
都成日遇到唔同程度嘅霸凌、欺凌
習慣一次由一次 築起圍牆保護自己
但至少改變咗嘅係
細個時會覺得好唔鐘意自己 傷害自己
更諗過自殺過
大個咗更會學識要鐘意自己 要愛自己
一次由一次鼓勵自己 守護自己
要做幫助別人的人 不要做加害者
我沒有sarah嘅勇氣被打會還手
還可以跟對方做朋友 我選擇點頭之交
已經係我嘅底線 再嚴重嘅就不要再相見
最後 想講嘅係
希望唔好再有人以為傷害到別人
會特顯自己是強者 其實欺凌者才是真正弱者
多謝 Winny你分享
講到呢個話題最終結論係乜嘢都唔知
想分享以前喺外國嘅體驗好自然會諗起將來點樣教導兩個小朋友
好自然會諗起點樣保護佢哋
父母同老師都好大責任
當然唔係淨係去安撫被欺凌嘅，更加需要阻止呢啲行為
我哋同好多其他朋友分享完之後，其中一個諗到嘅就係要教啲稍為霸道啲、可能有機會欺凌嘅小朋友唔好咁做
欺凌呢樣嘢根本唔應該發生， 要佢完全消失都應該冇乜可能， 我哋只可以做好自己保護自己小朋友，見到唔啱嘅情況就企出嚟講
thx, Sarah and Jason
@@sarahjasonchan 嗯 認同 以前個一代個個父母往往都掛住工作忽略屋企 而學校老師要睇住咁多個學生 可能都會忽略咗啲小朋友有啲咩問題
做家長嘅只可以多多留意同小朋友傾下計 睇下有冇啲咩異樣 也可以從小教育佢哋 要做個好榜樣 誘導其他身邊嘅同學朋友 要做個乖孩子 也要好好識得保護自己
Sarah Jason 加油呀 你哋有咁嘅諗法已經好好啦 祝福你哋一家人 幸福美滿😉
Thanks for starting to tackle with such a difficult topic. Been thinking about this myself a lot lately with not a lot of concrete solutions. Thanks for sharing.
we've been wanting to do talk about this for so long, we're no experts, but it's relevant and it make us all more aware of this problem
Dear Thank you so much for sharing this topic. Sarah I like your hair style!
it's a little sensitive, the topic but it's worth talking about and it is something we have to prepare for when Damon and Jamie grow up
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有人欺凌我三年，經常叫人不好跟我玩，滋擾，嘲笑我，以為不理會他就解決，但是他變本加厲，開始非禮我，他排斥及滋擾我的事有跟老師反映，但沒用，令我被非禮的事都不敢說。有一次他再欺凌我，因為之前班主任要我們分享一件事是令人耿耿於懷，我分享被他欺凌的事，他知道後對我愛護有加，令我信任他，於是將多年來他如何欺凌我的事和盤托出，他幫我解決三年難題，求助是揮別欺凌的好方法
Hope you guys put subtitles in the future ❤️
there's an English version if you prefer
I remembered in my form 3 year, I went study in New Zealand from HK & I got the highest exam mark in Math at the new NZ school; the classmate sat in front of me turned back to me, looking at my exam paper said, '100 mark, oh DISGUSTING!' with her mean tone & face. I considered her racism and told the Math teacher & he thought that classmate wasn't appropriate too & talked to her & made her apologized to me. I also had 2 -3 more times similar experience that involved some racism in NZ & Canada; these bully, racism incidents weren't 'big' matters, they were kind of small argument but I think most important is to VOICE OUT when one come across these unfair treatments.
we'd never experience severe bullying, but like you say it's important to speak out and tell the teacher when something happens, and when you do the matter us usually resolved very quickly.
Jason: I didn't have a problem with racism or bullying much, I was much confused about religion. we're some kind of taoist/buddhist mix, so I had no idea... awkward🤣🤣🤣
If I were experienced the same situation, I would just have a laugh and replied “ very disgusting “
多謝分享，對日後移民既家庭教育好有幫助同啟發👍🏻
其實欺凌全球都有，反而文化差異會影響大d，生活節奏都係個需要適應，下次再講☺️
對小孩來說，如果父母和學校可以從小教育他們尊重和愛護(自己和別人)是最好的。切勿做欺凌者，被欺凌後也要學會如何理智反擊。
其實除了小孩，父母小孩老師同學，都應該要被強制學習心這些成長相關的內容。因為通常施虐者的人，就是他們啊，小孩也不知道找誰幫助啊，試想想，如果他被父母霸凌虐待，學校會先聯絡父母還是警察呢？
同意你講法呀☺️以前太多老一輩教既野未必好正確。
中國文化既保守，有問題唔敢講，孩子會好幸苦，點處理呢？父母老師好大責任
我由細到大都比人排斥 同Bully, 所以無咩朋友， 個時又細個無人教我應該點樣面對同點樣處理 ，係學校 同老師講，老師吾但止吾幫我，重話我專登搞事，所以我成日比老師罰， 所以成日反到屋企就對住屋企人發脾氣， 將自己係學校既吾開心發“舌” 落佢地到。 到左而加2X 歲，我到好怕同人相處 同吾識控制情緒。。 小小事都會起晒鋼。。
唔知係咪因為中國人太保守，老師們面對着敏感問題都唔識處理， 就算你咁企出嚟講你嘅問題都冇人理， 我哋問過好多朋友佢哋都話寧願唔講，驚麻煩，驚被杯葛，寧願自己受， 但係去到最後都係冇人理，又唔見會俾人欺凌少咗，又唔見多咗朋友 。
真係唔知點樣去解答呢個問題， 只可以做好自己，覺得啱就做，覺得啱就講，其他學生、 啲老師點樣處理，佢哋做得好唔好根本控制唔到。
我哋之前拍咗一个讲坐月嘅片，咁就讲咗好多关于养生嘅小贴士，去到最后嘅时候可能最关键嘅一樣野就係放鬆自己， 講係好易， 但係個大道理都冇錯嘅，加油！
讀書時代,根本沒有想過同家長老師講出,因為覺得欺凌行為只會愈嚴重。。。
同輩欺凌可以影響好大😢
比任何人欺凌都可以好大傷害，好似片裡面講職場上欺凌都會發生... 一樣唔可以接受，嚴重既性騷擾外國常常見到
Jason are you alright? Your eyes seems to be blinking a lot ... hope ure well. 🙏🏻
hey jess I'm good, it was filmed outdoors and it was very sunny🙈
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Thank you Sarah and Jason
no at all Tiffany❤️
Nice earrings 💐happy Mother’s Day! Happy each day. Live each day as last day. God bless u 🙏 to me life is difficult. Good luck to u! I think u look cute
happy mothers day❤️ look after yourself and your family
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兩個d中文都好好，屋企人一定放唔少心機,遇到一d中文差嘅人,通常父母都只掛住搵食冇時間溝通
😂😂😂 你講中咗，後面嗰part🤣🤣🤣
I living in Melbourne since 1997. Aus 無嘢。 England 有
過去呢一年全球都好嚴重，澳洲可能少d，但係一樣有
香港冇咩?
Good topic to share....🥰
we should all pay more attention to this☺️
我本身覺得澳洲大既細路冇咁容易俾人bully，sarah就好typical澳洲大既細路 ：）會出聲，必要時出手 ：）澳洲發生種族歧視事件好多人都會企出黎幫你出聲。如果返工歧視人哋可以好大件事，分分鐘會被人炒魷魚冇工。總之澳洲反種族歧視方面做得好好👍🏻我同我老公都傾過點保護細路呢個話題，最後結論：教細路分辨是非，同細路保持好朋友關係好緊要，咁佢哋先會同你傾佢發生既事，從中知道點教佢幫佢，你哋加油啦💪🏻
外國政治正確好重要，性別、宗族歧視都唔得，同意你講法，孩子會做自己決定，只要我地陪著佢地，當佢地需要時教導同照顧
我係香港讀女校比好多同學bullied到暈。唔係physically ，而係mentally 。反而去到美國讀high school 比較自在。Never subscribe to同文同種。
同意你嘅講法 Letitia☺️
言語上嘅欺凌傷害性一樣好大， 甚至乎再嚴重
我哋喺香港都俾人睇唔起、欺凌
欺凌世界各地都有
同種族歧視係可以分開講
唔好擔心人哋點諗，遇到唔公平待遇要企出嚟講
Dare to be different and stay confident. Good sharing. It’s rare for artists to do such a nutritious and resourceful video.
thx Jessie, we've wanted to do this kind of sharing for some time now, but didn't know how it would be received because it's rather serious🤣🤣🤣
We're so happy you like it, thanks !
任何人 / 種族都會蝦人, 還手不能示弱, 起碼等對方知道要蝦你就要付出代價... 正如李小龍去到外國也曾遇過欺凌, 但不長久, 因為佢會還手...
所以陳生老豆唔教子女功夫我肯定係錯誤嘅決定, 因為所有人都有責任保護自己, 特別係男仔起碼要有保護自己嘅能力, 功夫或體能好比一支槍, 你有權用嚟救人或殺人, 甚至有權唔用, 但唔可以無
j：其實唔學功夫都可以換手既🤣🤣🤣唔講太多暴力lu始終教大家打交唔係咁好
Jason最後用口型偷偷地講咩？好想知😂😂😂
"you love me too"🙈
据我观察，说出来明面上的歧视是不太常见的，特别是在美国，因为社会最基础的规则都是需要政治正确，歧视是不对的。明面说出来的都是一些非常不理智的做法，因为会被别人侧目和谴责。歧视其实很多时候是一种很subtle的形式存在，比如工作是白人上司或同事会对一个华人的工作反复检查，可是如果被检查的是白人的工作，这个流程会快很多。又比如当你在公园那安静近距离观察天鹅在湖里游的时候，有多事的外国大妈会走过来和你说不要喂天鹅或叫你不要大声讲话，因为会吓到天鹅。这些都算是歧视，是他们在内心里对外国人的一种stereotype而形成的。另外一个就是，当遇到真真正正明面的歧视时，我们不能害怕和退缩，至少要从语言上反击和告诉他们这样是不对的，不能害怕逃跑，因为只有自己反击，才能让别的明事理的人对你产生尊敬，同时才能让施暴者害怕，羞愧和受到谴责。
多謝你建議，每個孩子都唔一樣，可能要因應佢哋性格去教、諗拆解呢d問題既方案，適合Damon既做法可能未必適合Jamie，Jason同佢哥哥亦係好好例子，一個外向一個內向，處事對人都唔一樣。我地當然同意面對欺凌唔可以唔理，要正視，同學校講同老師講，你講既大部分都同意，但係要再分析真係需要慢慢諗同小心處理。 thx thx ZJX☺️
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I remember that story you did on that program. Me being in Sydney Australia, I think race wise it is not too bad at all. In my 20 years back here I only experienced that 3 times tops. Most people especially in our generation are pretty friendly and easy going.
both England and Australia are relatively civilised, COVID has put everyone on edge and we've seen the worst in in people in the last year, all the more reason to remind ourselves and each other to show respect and not forget our manners (something kids are othenb reminded of)
Thanks a lot👍🏼
no worries！
关于小孩能否自己handle到“歧视”，例如刚才提到的吃饭例子，我觉得我们作为父母可以从小有意无意给他们灌输人是不同的，人会有不一样的肤色，习惯，种族，饮食，文化，观点….让小孩从小有一个思想是人人不一样是非常正常的一件事。所以假如从小自己带唐餐饭学校吃，自己内心是真正能接受自己的文化，当外国同学好奇或者质疑自己的时候，自己也可以自己消化，不至于产生一种观念是，我们要和大部分的人一样我们才能合群的想法。
同意！自己背景、文化、種族都係非常重要，都係代表自己，無需太怕醜☺️ 但係小時點都會有自己唔肯定既位置，未必十分自信，所已覺得尷尬都好自然
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Having grown up in the north of England, I have experienced racism and bullying here and there throughout my primary and secondary school life. The worst ones are chavs and drunk people, they have no remorse and have that "don't care" attitude. On social media platforms, the sheer amount of racial slurs and jokes I see in the comments section is shocking.
Racism will never disappear, need to learn and stand up and protect ourselves. I teach both my daughters, access situation and fight back, do not hold back when fighting back.
It's like we say in the video, bullying online is scarier than name-calling in person, you can pick up momentum so quickly, and before you know it you're looking at 100 messages which can't be answered... it sounds super cheesy but you've got to learn to love each other
@@peterluk7946 protecting yourself is the most, how? That something that can't be answered in one sentence. Each child is different in character, each situation is very different to, how we teach our kids to deal with the situations depends very much on all of the above...
還好我們的中小學60%是亞洲人，30％是本地白人！本地白人都對我們華人態度很友善！學校老師對華人也非常好，因為華人成績好拿了很多獎學金幫學校提升了地位！
🤣🤣🤣你講到現實
SARAH & JASON 華人還把那區的學區房價提升！
@@sandychung4415 666
香港老師講還手記缺點
sarah同父母關係好好?
好好你點知架
@@sarahjasonchan 原生家庭如何，婚後如何。你睇下阿S a阿嬌容祖兒😂
@@sarahjasonchan 父母不和，好多手足常吵架，仔女長大婚姻不好。如果同父母不和，反映在婚姻中或人際關係。
@@ninatakkakalee88 原來係咁
Yes, same here in Canada I have been bullied by Canadian born Chinese. It’s usually the Asians that bully Asians, Caucasians just kind of ignore us.
depends on the person, can't generalise altho we do.
but like you say, chinese, like English, like Australians can be just as bad
When my family lived overseas, the problem kids who bullied my kid (half Chinese ), were Chinese kids.
it's sad, we haven't shared out experience in hk, not everyone welcomes you with open arms.... it's tough, but of course as adult we deal with it more comfortably, we have to look after our kids☺️
呢d滋擾行為多半是父母根本無教小朋友何為對何為錯，自己小朋友都不下一次受到隔離一齊上學的小朋友滋擾，佢唔係全心打你但個行為令自己小朋友好困擾，攪笑係呢個小朋友好無知咁問你係咪唔鐘意打交㗎……
好多小朋友都係貪玩，唔係十分有惡意，但係宜家社交平台影響力太大，如果父母唔教導學壞係必然，我地只好做好自己，教好自己孩子
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@@sarahjasonchan唔係怪小朋友，個小朋友感覺係真心問，反而覺得呢d基本嘢大人無教佢？
Jason Chan其實個人無乜自信，性格，際遇，心理質素都係好影響你點面對。眼神就見到
惡人、醉酒佬、精神有問題嘅人或者 chavs 之類會有啲 harassment 嘅行為, 但其他人都好好，有時喺街上俾人騷擾，都會有其他人見義勇為，代我鬧走嗰啲騷擾人嘅人。
之前聽啲朋友講英國北部，或者係啲小城市會遇到種族歧視多啲，倫敦好似冇咁嚴重
my husband and i have lives in australia and canada before and never experienced bullying, i think you experience cannot be generalized
hey Noel, bullying is so common place, we're not making it more dramatic than it actually is, but a lot of people ask us about our education abroad so here it it.
You have to admit, of all your friends, chinese or not, some of them must have had these experiences, even if it's just verbal, no?
if not, it's not big problem either, some people grow stronger from the experience, so it's not necessarily a negative influence on your life
年年咁可愛都恰，果個人真係唔識個死字點寫（可能佢真係唔識個中文死字）
🤣🤣🤣 5歲人仔唔識字都正常🤣🤣🤣
I grown up fine in uk near London.....never been bullied....
it's part of growing up, sometimes we argue and fight with our friends, sometimes with strangers, the severity matters, being silly is part of growing up
估唔到SARAH 細個成日打交
😂細細粒麻🤣🤣🤣
我個囡有個同學笑佢食既午餐鹵水蛋係rotten egg。同你話外國人講飯係水果一樣，吾知好嬲定好笑 🤭我解釋吾同國家飲食文化，佢可能未見過，咁好味未食過好慘😬我囡好鍾意我整午餐送去學校，一來學校D lunch 難食，二來，鍋貼丶云吞丶熱狗丶粥、炒飯，同學超羨慕😊
🤣🤣🤣鍋貼我嘴鐘意，正😂😂😂
我囡同學都好羡慕又好奇佢嘅lunch…冇覺得同人唔同就唔好嘅事，可能都睇小朋友本身性格同外在環境係唔係友善…
英國校園欺凌係一個傳統，特別係public school！Jason 係啱嘅，學校都係未來社會的縮影！點樣都要去面對！
同意Arthur你講法，英國澳洲都比較注重政治正確， 所以就算有欺凌或者種族歧視啲老師都會識得去處理
12:21 果個打交係唔係好似你係巨輪同田蕊妮咁打架？果時有無比人夾住隻手狂摑呀？
🤣🤣🤣 澳洲人好溫和，自己未試過打交
I dunno why hk ppl wanna immigrate to foreign countries and if you dun speak english or fluent english, u will experience racism. So many times white ppl told me to go back to china and i am not even from China! And there was a time i felt like a minority at work becos i was the only asian there.
it's especially hard when you don't speak the language fluently, but once you settle, make new friends who aren't necessarily chinese... thing smooth themselves out and you find that things that seemed so difficult are in fact so straightforward❤️
thx Cindy
Ummmm 🧐 agree largely with your parenting style (as said positive thinking and more encouragement is beneficial to kids), but have hesitation to your example of allowing your kid not to wear school uniform if he doesn’t wish to. I think not only to kids but also adults, uniforms mean nothing at all. But at the end of the day we still choose to wear it because it’s a symbol of conformity. I’m not saying blindly conforming is good but instead our behaviours tend to conform to social norms to ensure stability and discipline. Therefore, I would rather suggest if kids really don’t want to wear school uniform, I would tell them to think about the underlying meaning of wearing uniform and let them make their decisions on their own afterwards. Just share my thoughts 💭🤣🤣🤣
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social media real toxic
it's very hard to manage, even as adults🙈
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人不范我，我不范人。他范我就打到他怕，要不然他天天bully 你
好難講，每個人嘅性格都好唔一樣，處理每件事都可能唔一樣，只可以睇情況決定
性格內向d人 好難反手
華人比較儒 欺凌在香港很少 有也是外夷 但國外比較普遍 外面的做法是打回去
其實欺凌世界各地都有，中國人，英國人，澳洲人一樣有，無一個標準處理方法，因應個人性格...
因為澳洲本身係移民國家，人種有好多，種族歧視比較少
都唔一定嘅，睇吓地區，睇吓際遇
英國以前係歐盟國家之一，法國、西班牙、德國、意大利乜嘢國家嘅人都有，一樣係有種族歧視
睇你兩個好過睇什麼coco哥，
果條友幾十歲先黎用bno移民，
其實用bno移民的人都真係發緊夢
我哋都係希望可以答到大家問嘅問題，多謝Mannie你留言❤️
之後發展一句，頃時呆左🤣🤣
thx Thomas☺️
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我信阿年，的說話🤣 我也是被冤枉 的人,真無奈我會一笑置之哈哈😂
多謝MMso❤️
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被欺凌首要別把自己飾演可憐的受害者
欺凌可以好複雜，網上更複雜
受傷害既小朋友需要我地關心
如果你有槍仲邊有人敢蝦你？
美國做法好難處理既，持槍國家係少數
鴕鳥，自欺欺人。明明當時好唔舒服，明明知道人哋嘅意思，明明而家仲記住……懦夫，而家仲唔想面對真實感受