When I was in my 20's I wrote my grandfather a letter just letting him know how wonderful he was and how much he meant to me. A few years after he passed away his wife sent that letter back to me. It is one of my prized possessions.
Wow what a perfect beautiful thing to receive. Let's give it up to good families that truly stick together ❤. Good God all i ever wanted was a close family that loves with their whole entire hearts. Have a beautiful blessed season stay safe❤💖💕
The first year I was married, my sister made me a cookbook and included all of my Mom's and Mother-in-law's favorite recipes so I could make my childhood favorites and also my husband's. It was so sweet of her to reach out to both of them and put it all together. She also asked for family photos from both sides to add to it and I have to say...I use it ALL the time!
I love your channel so much Jen! And that was such a sweet idea of your sister, I'm going to steal that idea as my sister is also getting married next summer.
I literally started crying when I saw you crying as well. It’s been a tough year for everyone and I pray more people are like you! You’re such a beautiful soul and I love your little corner of the internet. You are so reliable, easy going and down to earth person on TH-cam. Have a lovely Christmas Jessica! I hope one day I can meet you and give you a big hug. 🧸❤️ lost of love from London ❤️❤️❤️
You are right on. Thanks for stating that so beautifully for all of us. Jess is a truly special person, and I’m grateful that she creates this space where we can all be “together“. Happy holidays to all of my soul sisters out there!
Me too... I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my grandmother in May from covid 19. We never got to say goodbye or see her since the lock down. It was hard and I miss her a lot.
A few years ago I wanted to give my dad the gift of paying for him to adopt me. But my state (Michigan) doesn’t allow adult adoptions. So I wrote him a letter saying everything I felt. I’m 39 now and he is the man that raised me. I’ve only called him “my dad”. So the letter was explaining everything. And if you want to see a grown man cry that’s the letter to do it. It made us all cry. ♥️
I released the flood gates today with my first real fed up with COVID crying breakdown. I finally calmed down and turned on this video. I loved the end but, of course, now I have to figure out how to stop crying again. I agree. This time of year can be so wonderful and painful all at the same time. My love and prayers to everyone that is struggling.
I definitely cried when you started crying. This year has been tough but somehow a lot of us have pulled through. I’m thankful to be ending this year in good health and with my loved ones. The holidays have been hard for me since last year when my dad passed away in June, but I’m grateful to have those memories with me now. I hope whoever reads this has a good and joyful holiday season, and I’ll be praying for those who need it ❤️
Totally have a huge lump in my throat and fighting back the tears from watching this video. You have such a good heart it literally transcends through your videos. 🥰
My brother died last year in a car wreck on December 22nd and he was only 25. It’s been ripping me apart to relive the holidays, but I’m trying to make them brighter again. Thank you so much for such a thoughtful video.
I'm doing my makeup and teared up when you did! ahhh I lost my dad 5 years ago and the holidays have been weird ever since. My heart is with anyone having a hard time, anytime but, around this time especially. ❤
My husband and I one year for Christmas made a list for each of our parents of 10 things we loved and appreciated about them, then we chose an inexpensive box to put them in that was suited to their personalities...they were so moved and touched by it...my mother in law passed away this last June and when we were going through her things, we found the letter and she still had it saved in a special place...
Your little speech at the end about how hard the holidays can be for some people seriously made me cry. It’s so nice to know that I am not alone in feeling this way. I lost my cousin in August, my grandma in November, and my uncle a couple weeks ago. This holiday season is proving to be a tough one. But it helps to hear others talking about it. ❤️
I just wanted to get on here and comment about how everyone has very rough seasons like Jessie said, I myself have been through some very tough seasons in my life. There is a way put of that and it will come when you least expect it. I went from moving from Alabama to St. Louis to try and form a relationship with my mother only to find myself homeless with just what I could pack in a little 99 ford Taurus with a 2 year old daughter that was luckily with her dad. I had just enough money to get back home to Alabama, but i made it and now i own my own home and have an awesome job! I do not make a lot of money at it but the people actually care about us. That is worth way more then the big pay check. I'm not telling this story to brag, but to let someone that may read this know that seasons change and you WILL get through it and never look down on yourself for the mistakes you made to get where you are now. Lord knows i made plenty of them and will continue to make them. Keep your heads up and keep pushing forward.
Omg. What a wonderful story. Perseverance is so much about appreciating that you got through the rough times and not putting yourself down because of them. And I personally think that when you have struggled like that it makes you not need the finest things in life. It helps you treasure the finest moments and people instead. Thanks for sharing your comment. Wish I could give you a big hug right now. 💓
@@Shay2theT Yes just keep pushing, because you WILL get to the other side. Thank you so much for your sweet reply! The struggle really does make you look at things much different, we all as young adults trying to figure out this thing called life. and life is hard sometimes, but it never last.
Felt your heart when you started crying! Thank you Jessica for thinking of everyone! My family had such a tragic loss this year. My cousin had triplets 7 years ago (all three girls) and we lost one of them in May (nothing COVID related) but it was so heart breaking seeing my cousin hurt, and still hurt. Losing a child is not easy and this season makes it hard. But we all love on my cousin, her husband, and the remaining sisters so hard that it helps. We cry at the thought of their loss, but the Lord is their strength and comfort.
My husband recently wrote me a letter and hid it in my laptop so I would see it when I sat down for work (working from home with a toddler and no childcare is HARD and he knows how much I’ve struggled recently). It was a full page of reasons he loves me and it will be something I keep forever... even after nearly 12 years married he still keeps finding things he loves and it makes my heart melt all over again and didn’t cost a cent ❤️❤️❤️
Oh Jessica, I’m soon to be 67 and I always watch your videos, you crying and getting emotional had me crying right along with you, you are such a special sweet, kind big hearted young lady and I know your parents are so proud of you. I love you as if you were my daughter, bless you and all of your family, Merry Christmas. I just found a box full of cards my mom would send me for my birthday, Xmas, anniversary, etc, we lost her 7 years ago, I miss getting her cards, that was the best gift I could ever get.❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻
Letters are so underrated. My mom wrote her grandmother, my great grandmother, a letter when I was just a few weeks old. It was a general life update which was mostly about her newborn (me!) My mother passed when I was 17 and my great grandmother passed a few years later. The letter was sent to me and it was the best gift I ever got! Being able to read something from my mom and hear her voice in every word was was precious and meaningful.
I love this gift guide! Every year for Christmas I gift my grandfather a letter and let him know I’ll be making him soup for the year. Once a month or so, I’ll make a big pot of soup and freeze the leftovers in individual portions for him. After my grandma passed away, he’s struggled cooking for himself as she cooked him every meal. It’s the best gift because it costs very little but shows a huge amount of love and care. It means so much to him to know he’ll have an easy hot meal a few times a week. And it doubles as a gift for my mother who does so much to care for him. Knowing that he has these meals covered offers her a break and some peace of mind.
My Dearest Jessica, What a light you shine in this divisive, angry, cold world we are experiencing! I love your compassion, your empathy, and your babyheartedness. I’m in the San Francisco Bay Area where not only is California leading the country in Covid awfulness, but we had horrifying fires that destroyed much of the northern part of the state leaving destitution in its path. People are leaving California in droves. Over 300 restaurants, people’s life and livelihood, have closed. No one I know has the funds, the desire, or the will to celebrate the holidays this year. With that in mind, I am so utterly tired and just disgusted with certain TH-camrs whose suggestions for gifts this year are things like a $325 bottle of perfume or a $75 candle or some sort of luxe sweater for $250. And then there’s you. You with your extraordinary list of wondrous ideas that is meant to lift up the lives of both people in the equation. You make me light up inside and you and your wonderful family give me joy...and hope. Emily Dickinson wrote, “Hope is the thing with feathers That perches in the soul, And sings the tune without the words, And never stops at all.” Thank you Jessica, for everything. A Subscriber
This video was released on the perfect day. I lost my brother 3 years ago on this date and you’re right the holidays are rough even three years later. They are bitter sweet now. This was gods way of sending me a message today no doubt. Thank you for your prayers and content. I love your channel. ❤️
I love the internet so much for being a place where videos like this can exist. Thank you, Jessica, for being a source of positivity in our lives. You are so special to all of us ❤
As soon as you got emotional, I was right there with you. I have lost two loved ones during this time of year, and although the ache lessens as time passes, this year the pain and sadness seems to be coming back. This year, not being able to be near the loved ones that ARE still alive, makes the reminders of the ones passed more noticeable and more painful. Thank you for pointing that out at the end. There are a lot of people that have never experienced loss during the holidays, and they don't realize that there is pain during this season for some and its not always cheer. You're definitely a kind and thoughtful soul. We're lucky to have you on this platform to watch and enjoy!
I’m so thankful for this whole video but especially the end.❤️ just lost my dad about two weeks ago and really needed to hear the positivity. I love all your videos for good reason, you’re amazing!
You are so right about a heartfelt letter. My dad left our family of 6 children when I was 14. He eventually wrote me a letter before he died and apologized and said he wished he could go back and make better decisions. I am now 66 and have kept that letter for 25 years. You are a sweetheart and this was a very authentic video. Merry Christmas to you and your family.❤️🎄✌🏻
I often wish for a letter from my Dad. I was 2 and half when he left my Mom, sister and me. Was killed on a work accident when I was 9. But I only remember seeing him once in my life at 2 year old. If we could only turn back time, what would he say to me?
@@susanfrenette3400 My heart breaks for you not having closure. No matter how old we are we want to think our parents did love and missed us. We are only human and sometimes when we realize that about our parents it helps. Merry Christmas 🎄!
My gosh Jessica, when you cry, I cry. I watch every video. Each video touches my heart in some way. Weather it's laughter or tears, I hope you know how special you are to all of us. ❤
I love that you said you would pray for others. I wish more of us would share and speak from a place of faith. That is what gets us through hard times like the ones we are all enduring! Thanks for shining bright.
Wow. You touched my heart, what a wonderful list of gifts to share your love. I was quite moved when you talked of writing a letter to tell someone what they mean to you. I decided after 43+ yrs married, I am going to write a letter to my mom-in-law. I do love her, we have had special times together. She just turned 90 last August, and is a hero to me. I can't wait to write that letter, because I will mean every word. We've shared memories that were priceless, while living all over the US and when she visited us when we lived abroad for 3 years and our son was 5mths old (to 3-1/2yrs), who is now 40. Thank you so much for the inspiration...
Of course I cried right there with you Jessie. This year has been a very hard year. More than I expected. Lost my father to cancer after a brief but fierce battle, he gave everything he had because he wanted to be with us longer. God needed him more... Your letter idea is genius! I found my father's journal, where he wrote his thoughts, dreams and hopes, where he bared his heart and soul and wrote about his children with so much love and so much pride and it broke my heart but at the same time it comforted me. I feel like giving people letters would be indeed very special. Thank you for the ideas, they're all amazing, meaningful and priceless! Love you ❤️
God bless you Jessica. I realized today of all the people I subscribe to, you are the only one I watch that it seems like we’re pals and understand eachother and that you have a knack for understanding your subscribers show your life as simple as possible. Hope you have a wonderful Christmas!
I also started to cry when I saw you crying. It’s so true that this time of year is so very difficult. I have a family member that hates holidays because he thinks he is alone. His wife left him 10 yrs ago and got the house and 90% of everything including the kids. He was suicidal for a few years. Now he just exists and does not enjoy life at all. Recently we lost our mum and dad which makes things even more difficult. So while some families/people love the holidays we must remember that not everyone does. It can be a very hard time of year. My best friend lost her dad to Covid in the Spring so this is her 1st Christmas without her dad. There are a million reasons why Christmas can be sad. Let’s all be aware and just be grateful for what we do have. Merry Christmas to everyone and Thank You, Jessica!!
We just lost my grandpa last month right before Thanksgiving, he loved the holidays and having the whole family together, we had our first Thanksgiving without him and this will be our first Christmas without him, Christmas was his favorite, thank you for your kind words.
I got all emotional at the end... this past week I’ve been like “OMG ITS CHRISTMAS NEXT WEEK” and honestly all I want it’s a beautiful day... I lost my cousin to COVID and realized this my first Christmas and New Years that I won’t receive a call from him and it’s hard. If anyone here in the comments have lost someone to this pandemic it’s ok to be sad, it’s ok not be ok... but just know you are not alone. Merry Christmas guys🥰🎄
In addition to ANY of these ideas, it is really special to record yourself as youre putting together the gift. One year my brother made us a craft and the coolest part was watching him make them and put in the time before giving them to us. It helps to show that you didnt just throw this together but you were really thinking of the person for hours etc while you made it 🤗
Seeing you cry, made me start crying. I lost my Dad in a motorcycle accident in July and 3 months later, my 4 year old son completed his 16 month cancer treatment. I typically love Christmas but, this year it is just so overwhelming for me. Thank you for having a huge heart, that's my favorite thing about you.
i could go on for a while about how much the holidays aren’t a happy time for me, but seeing someone with such a large platform posting a video like this warms my heart ❤️i wish we put more emphasis on time together, simpler gifts and nice gestures over buying stuff (i mean of course who doesn’t enjoy opening a present). but i’ve been asking friends and family lately what they need whether it’s an experience together, help with a bill, a book they’ve had their eye on. possibilities are endless and it’s gone so well!
You have the most kind heart Jessica,this time of the year is very difficult for a lot of us that lost a loved one amd still has to show a happy face so you don't ruin your kids special date
You are just the sweetest, most kind hearted person. You say a lot that you watch youtubers and you think of them as “friends” or how you’d love to be their friend in real life and that is you for me. You see a lot of people that can say things and you dont fully believe them or that they genuinely feel the way they are acting.. but I have never thought that about you. I truly hope you and your family have an amazing holiday. Thank you for keeping myself and probably many others going this year with your positivity and caring.
This is the BEST gift video I’ve ever seen. I love these ideas so much! It’s been nice to remind myself this year: “Don’t buy the holidays. Do them!” Instead of getting stressed about buying, wrapping, planning, and mailing, I remind myself who I am doing those things for and remind myself how wonderful it is to have them in my life...and if that means the presents don’t get bought because we are busy visiting with each other, that is GOOD.
I love this video & it reminded me of the poem I wrote my mum about 20yrs ago & she still has it, in a frame on her wall & I do believe it's the only gift she has kept over the years, we didn't talk for 4yrs & this poem gave her strength that things would be ok again between us & now we are best friends , my dad passed away 18mths ago & this is the hardest time of year as Christmas is all about family to us & he loved xmas, I got emotional watching this video too x
1:10 and Im crying already!! You are clearly not needing to apologize for being emotional, it shows you are a kind, thoughtful, sentimental individual..we need more people like you in this world.
I literally started crying when you did. So many ppl going through tough time this yr. I love all your gidt ideas you mention. These are gifts that are truly meaningful from the heart. Great video. Thank you.
Jessica I love that you acknowledged how difficult this time of year can be for people. I lost my mum when I was 16 and my dad when I was 23. I still love Christmas but it’s a family time and every year it hits me that I don’t have a family. It means a lot when people acknowledge other people’s struggles and make them feel seen
You’re heart is so pure and so thoughtful! We need more people like you in the world. Your love and kindness is contagious and I’m so grateful for all of the work you out into your videos to make the works a better place. Prayers, hugs and love to you snd your sweet family
I actually painted my husband a couple of pictures on a couple of canvas and wrote him a letter for Christmas he loved it! He told me it was worth more then going out and buying anything cause it was unique and it was special to him! We actually always write each other letters every month!
Thank you for being you❤️I’m decorating for the first time since losing my son and his beautiful little family in February of 2018-I know my granddaughter is looking down from heaven and smiling-and that my son and his beautiful wife are, too❣️ Life is so short, may we never take family for granted 💕🙏🏼💕Life is so beautiful and yet so fragile ❤️❤️❤️Always look for the good in others and hold them close 🥰
Hard not to cry when Jessie starts crying!!!!! ugh! but seriously you have the most kindest heart in the whole world! We need more Jessica's on this earth. And also did anyone else get a snuggle ad at the end that is Jessica's? how cool is that!?
My daughter writes me a beautiful letter every year and it is truly the BEST gift I have ever gotten! I use them as art and have one framed and hanging in my bathroom. It's such a beautiful reminder of the live we have for each other and reminds me that I AM BECAUSE SHE IS !!Thank you for this video Jessica.....it is perfect!
Bless your heart...you are such a wonderful precious soul. My sister died on April 3 of this year. She was my only sibling. She had a 12 year old son. This is our first Christmas without her. The pain takes my breath away, but your kind words have touched my heart more than you know. You are truly an angel❤️ I live in West Virginia and I watch you and Tyler daily. Thank you for being an important part of my life❤️🙏 God bless you and Merry Christmas 🎄
Oh boy, this hit me hard. I just lost my Grandpa and Grandma 41 days apart. This was already going to be a tough Christmas but now it's just pure sadness. Times like these are when you realize what really matters in life 💗
My grandma made us kids and grandkids recipe books with all of our favorite recipes. It is literally one of my most treasured possessions. I look forward to the day that I can pass it on to my kids, they always look forward to bringing the recipe book out. It has a picture of my grandma and we always sit and admire her and remember how much we love her every time we use it❤️
I am literally crying with you. The holidays have always been hard for my family. My parents struggled financially and had a hard time with that. On top of that in January of 2016 we lost my little brother unexpectedly. I dread the holidays because it just means getting closer to another year finished without him. Thank you for sharing this video and your thoughts. Praying everyone has a a safe holiday. Thank you for posting your videos that are a nice distraction from everything. ❤️❤️❤️
The recipe binder will be the greatest gift you can ever leave your kids and grandkids. My mom passed away 2 1/2 years ago and it is amazing how many memories are tied to food. I have her recipes as well as my grandmothers. Having a few in their handwriting is always special too. I have asked my aunts for ones in their handwriting too. I have 3 binders for my boys significant others, Thanksgiving, Christmas & Family Favorites. Just irreplaceable things to have! Tyler with his little spider plant clippings reminded me of my mom. She always had jars of those in water setting around to give to everyone. I got emotional with you!!
I am so privileged to be a part of your little corner of the internet , it broke my heart to see you crying I just wanted to reach through the screen and hug you and say thanks, thanks for helping us through 2020 with you laughter, your fun and your honesty you are very much a shining light in our world, keep that light shining bright we love you 🥰
This was such a good idea. I think we spend so much time (and money) trying to find the perfect gift, and really, the most perfect gift is the gift from the heart.
Definitely agree with the letter idea. I’m terrible at writing to people or sending Christmas cards but, a few years ago I decided to write a letter to my Granny who lived in the UK. I hadn’t been able to visit her for years and due to Alzheimer’s she wasn’t really able to communicate much. But I wrote her a letter. It was so simple, just an update on how I was doing and my family. My brother told me that it meant so much to her because she could read it at her pace, read it as many times as she needed to understand and kept it on her mantle. I actually never got the chance to see her again before she passed but I know that letter brought her joy and it means so much to me to know that we had that little interaction.
You really made me tear up when you were about to cry. I'm in one of those tough phases in life since may 2019 and hearing you say that everything in life changes and that there will be better times coming genuinely made me hopeful. The best gift for me would be my friends surprising me at my doorstep as I struggle to leave the house since I had panic attacks in may 2019. And them driving to me and spending time with me would make me feel loved and give me new motivation to fight against the fear.
Love these! My parents decided a few years ago that gift giving was no longer what felt right in their hearts. Now we draw names and you write a letter to that family member. Can be just what makes them special and how they contribute to the family. Its been so honoured and we dont miss all the shopping at all!
Really started crying the second you said I didn’t mean to get emotional. You and your family are my favorite thing to watch. Your soul shines so bright and always brightens up my day🤍
A few years ago my incredibly talented best friend took all of my family VHS home movies and put together a video of everything. It was shortly after my cousin (my age) passed away, and it had so many beautiful memories brought to life again. Didnt cost her anything but time, and my mom and aunt still say its the coolest thing anyone has done for them. These are such great ideas Jessica! Merry Christmas!
You are most thoughtful.. So kind of you to remember those who are less fortunate.. Not everyone is EVER in that head space... Classy, gracious Jessica
I'm blessed to have kept my job this year. All of my family has stayed safe and healthy. I know there are so many that have lost so much. These are great ideas and do mean so much. Happy holidays to everyone.
Those final thoughts almost put me in tears. I found out my dad was in a coma Christmas Day and lost my dad the day after Christmas in high school, so this time of year is always hard. The fact you are recognizing and acknowledging that this year can be really hard for some people is incredibly appreciated. I sometimes get painted as a grinch bc I try to do my best to stay in the Christmas spirit, but I fall short sometimes. So thank you for that. I appreciate you 💕
My aunt made a video for my wedding of me growing up and my husband growing up and then pictures of us together with sweet love songs playing in the background. Such a sweet sweet memory and cherished gift!
I completely understand the emotion .. I have felt guilty for being happy this year because we had our first baby on July 4th 2020. So I feel guilty for being happy for all her firsts when others are struggling or suffering or sad.. but when I give in to that guilt I feel guilty for feeling like I’m shafting my daughter. She deserves for me to celebrate the little things. Man mom guilt! Lol. But we just have to pray for those struggling and do our best to not let covid get us down as well as just the day to day struggles. Stay positive and try to make the best of what we have. It’s been so hard to do that with the gloom of covid. The birth of my daughter and all her first holidays have def been so different that what I ever imagined but I am so grateful to have her for each holiday! We feel so blessed. Sending love and hugs to everyone this season! Thank you Jess and Tyler for all you do and for sharing GiGi with us.
This has to be said out loud: we all need more Jess in our life, the world needs more Jess and I bet it would be a better place for all of us. It would be kinder, more thoughtful, honest and bright, just like you Jess. THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart. Hugs from Toronto Canada ❤
One year, my husband had just lost his job and I was the only one working. I had been diagnosed with pneumonia twice and continued to work through my sickness. We had little money for our Christmas so we did what we could for the kids and didn't buy for each other. I lost my last chapstick that morning somewhere and was offhand talking to my husband about how that was my last chapstick. He knew how much I loved chapstick so he went to Walmart and bought five or six as a gift for me. It wasn't much but it's still one of my most favorite memories because he simply listened to me, solved the one problem he could and knew it would make me happy.
Dear Jess, I always watch but almost never comment. I lost my dad suddently this january (I'm in my 20's) and what you said and your emotions seriously touched me. Thank you so much. I'm crying but in the best way. you're a special soul
I lost my dad 17 years ago tomorrow. Hardest time of year, every single year! I feel guilty not feeling the greatest during these times bc my kids deserve my happiness but they are getting older and they know why I get emotional this Time of the year. ❤ I truly enjoyed this video. You are a beautiful 💎 gem, Jessica. Happy Holidays💟
Getting teary over here! Just to expand on the letter idea...its wasnt for Christmas but every year when I was young my mom would write me a letter and tuck it away and then showed them all to me when I was older. They make me cry everytime I read them because they're all about what she was proud of me for that year and different memories that I may not have because I was too young to remember etc.
My Dad wrote me a letter on my 16th birthday telling me why I was special to him...I kept it until my family home was burned down....I'm 53 now...but I still remember every word in that letter! ⚘🎅🤶💌
My grandpa passed away a week ago from COVID & pneumonia... so the end of this got me. I'm watching your vlogmas videos everyday, it's one of the only things that feels reliable and consistent right now. Thank you to your sweet family for helping my heart feel better this Christmas. Love to all of you!!!!
My in-laws live many many hours away. So my kids don’t get to see their grandparents very often. She has always sent those hallmark books, the ones you record your voice reading the story. This year my kids decided that they would record a reading for her, the book is called “Under The Same Christmas Star”, it’s about love. She opened up her Christmas package on FaceTime with us all and flipped through the book listening to each one of my children reading a page. She said it was the best gift she has ever gotten! Best 35$ spent! Tears, so many happy tears! ❤️ Sometimes just a simple gift will brighten the spirit!
You are such a genuine person and that is why I love watching your videos, even though it might take me 3 months later from when you post them 😉 to watch it. I wish there were more people sending love into this world like you do. Keep being you!!!
There are only a handful of people on TH-cam who truly have a heart of gold, you are one of them. You had me tearing up because you genuinely care and that seems so hard to find these days. Thank you for sharing this with us. As a special needs mom, your content somehow always seems to be what I need at the moment. I enjoy escaping and spending time with you and your family. ❤️
All great ideas Jessica. The letter one does pull at the heart strings. I did just that for my husband for our anniversary. Snuck into his lunch bag. He called me at 6 am ( he never calls me from work) sniffling and crying. He loved it, and keeps it in his bag.
I love that your never fake!! Your so authentic and mot afraid of your emotions, you embrace them and it’s inspiring. Never change. This is why we all follow you
I love this idea for a video!! Especially with how difficult this year has been for a lot of people financially. It's not free as it involves money, but since high school, my family has always donated in honor of our other family members for Christmas. For example, in previous years I've done angel tree names for my aunts and uncles. I've donated money to shelters (homeless, women and children, and animal shelters in honor of my mother, sister, aunts and uncles. This year I took the money I would have donated to give to my friend's family to help pay medical bills and medication fees. Our family still does actual gifts for birthdays, but we really like giving to others in need for Christmas to spread the love of Jesus. And I've been telling my family for years that if I really need or want it, I am so very blessed and fortunate to be able to buy it on my own while others are not. It makes me happy knowing I made a difference in a person or animal's life by providing a meal, clothes, linens, etc..
The bit about letters is so good. I have a valentine that my mother wrote me when I was a kid & a graduation letter from my godmother. Both are framed and I reread them when I need to remember that I am loved and have such amazing people in my life. Words truly do make such a long lasting impact I love this video so much. You've nailed the concept and follow through on this one. I really love these for christmas, but also for ways to gift around the year. Idk, I'm just feeling so optimistic about the upcoming year and love this kind of mindset
Last year I gave my grandpa a photo album for Christmas. My maternal grandma sadly passed away late last October and so I wanted to give him something extra meaningful. He is also 89 years old and so it is difficult to get him something that he actually needs. I included older pictures with people who have passed away and newer ones that I took myself. My mom and I also sat down and wrote a bit of text to each picture. So nice to know that he has that and that he can look at it when he wants to. Cost a bit to do it, but it is quite inexpensive if you can get pictures printed at a good price. Such a lovely video and so many good ideas I will save away. Lots of love from Norway❤️
This is a beautiful idea Jessica. Thanks for sharing it. This is the first time in 16 years I'm going to "celebrate" Christmas and New Years' without Coco. He was my furbaby and I can't even explain how hard it's been since I lost him this past June. For all of you who lost loved ones this year, sending strength and prayers.
This is my top favorite video you've ever done. Great ideas. Heart-felt gifts are so needed in this buy everything world. I love that you mentioned the emotion to the days and that they are a kind of an odd time to the year. I lost my brother to suicide right before the first lock downs. We luckily got his funeral arranged and done before everything changed and we had guests be able to come in a "normal" way. While I've had most the year to grieve all my emotions are 180 again its going to be a long winter until next February where we completed the first year without him 💔 its been the most painful year of my life and all those gifts would mean so much to me to receive from anyone💜.
One Christmas my family and I all wrote 5 things we loved about my grandmother or our favorite memories we had with her. I decorated a jar and placed them in it as a Christmas gift. That way if she ever felt lonely or down or just wanted to read something nice she always had it. She still has it next to her bed. ❤ Great reminder that what matters the most in this world is family, love and memories.
When I was in my 20's I wrote my grandfather a letter just letting him know how wonderful he was and how much he meant to me. A few years after he passed away his wife sent that letter back to me. It is one of my prized possessions.
This is so sweet and heart warming. ❤️
Wow what a perfect beautiful thing to receive. Let's give it up to good families that truly stick together ❤.
Good God all i ever wanted was a close family that loves with their whole entire hearts. Have a beautiful blessed season stay safe❤💖💕
This made me tear up. How beautiful ❤️
@@MichelleRauKlimas739501 Amen 🙏
Aw this made me cry. So sweet. 🥺
The first year I was married, my sister made me a cookbook and included all of my Mom's and Mother-in-law's favorite recipes so I could make my childhood favorites and also my husband's. It was so sweet of her to reach out to both of them and put it all together. She also asked for family photos from both sides to add to it and I have to say...I use it ALL the time!
Wow!! That’s amazing!!
Omg. I love this so much. What a sweet idea.
Awww! 🥰🥺 that's so sweet! Between the video and this, I'm tearing up a little 😥
I love your channel so much Jen! And that was such a sweet idea of your sister, I'm going to steal that idea as my sister is also getting married next summer.
I literally started crying when I saw you crying as well. It’s been a tough year for everyone and I pray more people are like you! You’re such a beautiful soul and I love your little corner of the internet. You are so reliable, easy going and down to earth person on TH-cam. Have a lovely Christmas Jessica! I hope one day I can meet you and give you a big hug. 🧸❤️ lost of love from London ❤️❤️❤️
Omg I got all choked up too.
Same 😔
Me too
You are right on. Thanks for stating that so beautifully for all of us. Jess is a truly special person, and I’m grateful that she creates this space where we can all be “together“. Happy holidays to all of my soul sisters out there!
Well said!
This is the first Christmas celebrating without my grandma. I miss her dearly every single day.
For our family as well. We lost her to Covid 4 days ago. I miss her already. It definitely reminds you not to take your family for granted.
For our family it’s my grandfather . I’m sorry for your loss
Same . Last year we celebrated Christmas with her at hospital , miss her so much
Me too, I have cried several times this week alone!
Me too... I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my grandmother in May from covid 19. We never got to say goodbye or see her since the lock down. It was hard and I miss her a lot.
A few years ago I wanted to give my dad the gift of paying for him to adopt me. But my state (Michigan) doesn’t allow adult adoptions. So I wrote him a letter saying everything I felt. I’m 39 now and he is the man that raised me. I’ve only called him “my dad”. So the letter was explaining everything. And if you want to see a grown man cry that’s the letter to do it. It made us all cry. ♥️
Love this so much. Stories about good step parents touch my heart like no other. ❤
I'm crying reading this 😭
This literally made me cry. That’s amazing 😍
This is so sweet I love that 💕
I love that so much!
I released the flood gates today with my first real fed up with COVID crying breakdown. I finally calmed down and turned on this video. I loved the end but, of course, now I have to figure out how to stop crying again. I agree. This time of year can be so wonderful and painful all at the same time. My love and prayers to everyone that is struggling.
So nice to see a gift guide about giving with your heart, not your wallet ❤️
I definitely cried when you started crying. This year has been tough but somehow a lot of us have pulled through. I’m thankful to be ending this year in good health and with my loved ones. The holidays have been hard for me since last year when my dad passed away in June, but I’m grateful to have those memories with me now. I hope whoever reads this has a good and joyful holiday season, and I’ll be praying for those who need it ❤️
Praying for you on your first Christmas without your dad.
Totally have a huge lump in my throat and fighting back the tears from watching this video. You have such a good heart it literally transcends through your videos. 🥰
My brother died last year in a car wreck on December 22nd and he was only 25. It’s been ripping me apart to relive the holidays, but I’m trying to make them brighter again. Thank you so much for such a thoughtful video.
I’m so sorry, sending you prayers.🙏🏻❤️
Sending happiness and I hope for your ♥️ to heal
I'm doing my makeup and teared up when you did! ahhh I lost my dad 5 years ago and the holidays have been weird ever since. My heart is with anyone having a hard time, anytime but, around this time especially. ❤
Your mom really gave you a sense of others growing up. How special 🥰
Ugh I just wish more people in this world had your heart Jessica 🥰❤️
So true
My husband and I one year for Christmas made a list for each of our parents of 10 things we loved and appreciated about them, then we chose an inexpensive box to put them in that was suited to their personalities...they were so moved and touched by it...my mother in law passed away this last June and when we were going through her things, we found the letter and she still had it saved in a special place...
You and your family are literally the happiest little corner of the internet and one of the best parts of my day ❤️
If someone gave me a houseplant, made me dinner or cookies...like DAMN that's the way to my heart and much better than a gift card.
For real, that's my love language!
Your little speech at the end about how hard the holidays can be for some people seriously made me cry. It’s so nice to know that I am not alone in feeling this way. I lost my cousin in August, my grandma in November, and my uncle a couple weeks ago. This holiday season is proving to be a tough one. But it helps to hear others talking about it. ❤️
I just wanted to get on here and comment about how everyone has very rough seasons like Jessie said, I myself have been through some very tough seasons in my life. There is a way put of that and it will come when you least expect it. I went from moving from Alabama to St. Louis to try and form a relationship with my mother only to find myself homeless with just what I could pack in a little 99 ford Taurus with a 2 year old daughter that was luckily with her dad. I had just enough money to get back home to Alabama, but i made it and now i own my own home and have an awesome job! I do not make a lot of money at it but the people actually care about us. That is worth way more then the big pay check. I'm not telling this story to brag, but to let someone that may read this know that seasons change and you WILL get through it and never look down on yourself for the mistakes you made to get where you are now. Lord knows i made plenty of them and will continue to make them. Keep your heads up and keep pushing forward.
Omg. What a wonderful story. Perseverance is so much about appreciating that you got through the rough times and not putting yourself down because of them. And I personally think that when you have struggled like that it makes you not need the finest things in life. It helps you treasure the finest moments and people instead. Thanks for sharing your comment. Wish I could give you a big hug right now. 💓
@@Shay2theT Yes just keep pushing, because you WILL get to the other side. Thank you so much for your sweet reply! The struggle really does make you look at things much different, we all as young adults trying to figure out this thing called life. and life is hard sometimes, but it never last.
I needed to read this today. Thank you so much for sharing💕
Felt your heart when you started crying! Thank you Jessica for thinking of everyone! My family had such a tragic loss this year. My cousin had triplets 7 years ago (all three girls) and we lost one of them in May (nothing COVID related) but it was so heart breaking seeing my cousin hurt, and still hurt. Losing a child is not easy and this season makes it hard. But we all love on my cousin, her husband, and the remaining sisters so hard that it helps. We cry at the thought of their loss, but the Lord is their strength and comfort.
You look stunning! Your makeup and that sweater...wow
My husband recently wrote me a letter and hid it in my laptop so I would see it when I sat down for work (working from home with a toddler and no childcare is HARD and he knows how much I’ve struggled recently). It was a full page of reasons he loves me and it will be something I keep forever... even after nearly 12 years married he still keeps finding things he loves and it makes my heart melt all over again and didn’t cost a cent ❤️❤️❤️
Oh Jessica, I’m soon to be 67 and I always watch your videos, you crying and getting emotional had me crying right along with you, you are such a special sweet, kind big hearted young lady and I know your parents are so proud of you. I love you as if you were my daughter, bless you and all of your family, Merry Christmas. I just found a box full of cards my mom would send me for my birthday, Xmas, anniversary, etc, we lost her 7 years ago, I miss getting her cards, that was the best gift I could ever get.❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻
Letters are so underrated. My mom wrote her grandmother, my great grandmother, a letter when I was just a few weeks old. It was a general life update which was mostly about her newborn (me!) My mother passed when I was 17 and my great grandmother passed a few years later. The letter was sent to me and it was the best gift I ever got! Being able to read something from my mom and hear her voice in every word was was precious and meaningful.
I love this gift guide! Every year for Christmas I gift my grandfather a letter and let him know I’ll be making him soup for the year. Once a month or so, I’ll make a big pot of soup and freeze the leftovers in individual portions for him. After my grandma passed away, he’s struggled cooking for himself as she cooked him every meal. It’s the best gift because it costs very little but shows a huge amount of love and care. It means so much to him to know he’ll have an easy hot meal a few times a week. And it doubles as a gift for my mother who does so much to care for him. Knowing that he has these meals covered offers her a break and some peace of mind.
My Dearest Jessica,
What a light you shine in this divisive, angry, cold world we are experiencing! I love your compassion, your empathy, and your babyheartedness.
I’m in the San Francisco Bay Area where not only is California leading the country in Covid awfulness, but we had horrifying fires that destroyed much of the northern part of the state leaving destitution in its path. People are leaving California in droves. Over 300 restaurants, people’s life and livelihood, have closed. No one I know has the funds, the desire, or the will to celebrate the holidays this year. With that in mind, I am so utterly tired and just disgusted with certain TH-camrs whose suggestions for gifts this year are things like a $325 bottle of perfume or a $75 candle or some sort of luxe sweater for $250.
And then there’s you. You with your extraordinary list of wondrous ideas that is meant to lift up the lives of both people in the equation.
You make me light up inside and you and your wonderful family give me joy...and hope. Emily Dickinson wrote, “Hope is the thing with feathers
That perches in the soul,
And sings the tune without the words,
And never stops at all.”
Thank you Jessica, for everything.
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This video was released on the perfect day. I lost my brother 3 years ago on this date and you’re right the holidays are rough even three years later. They are bitter sweet now. This was gods way of sending me a message today no doubt. Thank you for your prayers and content. I love your channel. ❤️
I love the internet so much for being a place where videos like this can exist. Thank you, Jessica, for being a source of positivity in our lives. You are so special to all of us ❤
As soon as you got emotional, I was right there with you. I have lost two loved ones during this time of year, and although the ache lessens as time passes, this year the pain and sadness seems to be coming back. This year, not being able to be near the loved ones that ARE still alive, makes the reminders of the ones passed more noticeable and more painful.
Thank you for pointing that out at the end. There are a lot of people that have never experienced loss during the holidays, and they don't realize that there is pain during this season for some and its not always cheer.
You're definitely a kind and thoughtful soul. We're lucky to have you on this platform to watch and enjoy!
I’m so thankful for this whole video but especially the end.❤️ just lost my dad about two weeks ago and really needed to hear the positivity. I love all your videos for good reason, you’re amazing!
I’m so sorry .
I’m so sorry for your loss. sending you lots of love ♥️
I’m sorry Katie. Sending you and your loved ones love x
You are so right about a heartfelt letter. My dad left our family of 6 children when I was 14. He eventually wrote me a letter before he died and apologized and said he wished he could go back and make better decisions. I am now 66 and have kept that letter for 25 years. You are a sweetheart and this was a very authentic video. Merry Christmas to you and your family.❤️🎄✌🏻
I often wish for a letter from my Dad. I was 2 and half when he left my Mom, sister and me. Was killed on a work accident when I was 9. But I only remember seeing him once in my life at 2 year old. If we could only turn back time, what would he say to me?
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My heart breaks for you not having closure. No matter how old we are we want to think our parents did love and missed us. We are only human and sometimes when we realize that about our parents it helps. Merry Christmas 🎄!
My gosh Jessica, when you cry, I cry.
I watch every video. Each video touches my heart in some way. Weather it's laughter or tears, I hope you know how special you are to all of us. ❤
I love that you said you would pray for others. I wish more of us would share and speak from a place of faith. That is what gets us through hard times like the ones we are all enduring! Thanks for shining bright.
Wow. You touched my heart, what a wonderful list of gifts to share your love. I was quite moved when you talked of writing a letter to tell someone what they mean to you. I decided after 43+ yrs married, I am going to write a letter to my mom-in-law. I do love her, we have had special times together. She just turned 90 last August, and is a hero to me. I can't wait to write that letter, because I will mean every word. We've shared memories that were priceless, while living all over the US and when she visited us when we lived abroad for 3 years and our son was 5mths old (to 3-1/2yrs), who is now 40. Thank you so much for the inspiration...
Of course I cried right there with you Jessie. This year has been a very hard year. More than I expected. Lost my father to cancer after a brief but fierce battle, he gave everything he had because he wanted to be with us longer. God needed him more...
Your letter idea is genius! I found my father's journal, where he wrote his thoughts, dreams and hopes, where he bared his heart and soul and wrote about his children with so much love and so much pride and it broke my heart but at the same time it comforted me.
I feel like giving people letters would be indeed very special. Thank you for the ideas, they're all amazing, meaningful and priceless! Love you ❤️
God bless you Jessica. I realized today of all the people I subscribe to, you are the only one I watch that it seems like we’re pals and understand eachother and that you have a knack for understanding your subscribers show your life as simple as possible. Hope you have a wonderful Christmas!
Tears. I lost my mom and sister in law this year. The whole year was rough. But it's up to us to try to find love in it all
I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤️
When you got emotional you made me cry you have a beautiful heart God bless you Jessica and all your family!🙏
I also started to cry when I saw you crying. It’s so true that this time of year is so very difficult. I have a family member that hates holidays because he thinks he is alone. His wife left him 10 yrs ago and got the house and 90% of everything including the kids. He was suicidal for a few years. Now he just exists and does not enjoy life at all. Recently we lost our mum and dad which makes things even more difficult. So while some families/people love the holidays we must remember that not everyone does. It can be a very hard time of year. My best friend lost her dad to Covid in the Spring so this is her 1st Christmas without her dad. There are a million reasons why Christmas can be sad. Let’s all be aware and just be grateful for what we do have. Merry Christmas to everyone and Thank You, Jessica!!
I do the book thing a lot! Knowing that someone you care about had it before you is such a great feeling!
We just lost my grandpa last month right before Thanksgiving, he loved the holidays and having the whole family together, we had our first Thanksgiving without him and this will be our first Christmas without him, Christmas was his favorite, thank you for your kind words.
I got all emotional at the end... this past week I’ve been like “OMG ITS CHRISTMAS NEXT WEEK” and honestly all I want it’s a beautiful day... I lost my cousin to COVID and realized this my first Christmas and New Years that I won’t receive a call from him and it’s hard. If anyone here in the comments have lost someone to this pandemic it’s ok to be sad, it’s ok not be ok... but just know you are not alone.
Merry Christmas guys🥰🎄
We need more people like you on the internet 💕
In addition to ANY of these ideas, it is really special to record yourself as youre putting together the gift. One year my brother made us a craft and the coolest part was watching him make them and put in the time before giving them to us. It helps to show that you didnt just throw this together but you were really thinking of the person for hours etc while you made it 🤗
Seeing you cry, made me start crying. I lost my Dad in a motorcycle accident in July and 3 months later, my 4 year old son completed his 16 month cancer treatment. I typically love Christmas but, this year it is just so overwhelming for me. Thank you for having a huge heart, that's my favorite thing about you.
i could go on for a while about how much the holidays aren’t a happy time for me, but seeing someone with such a large platform posting a video like this warms my heart ❤️i wish we put more emphasis on time together, simpler gifts and nice gestures over buying stuff (i mean of course who doesn’t enjoy opening a present). but i’ve been asking friends and family lately what they need whether it’s an experience together, help with a bill, a book they’ve had their eye on. possibilities are endless and it’s gone so well!
You have the most kind heart Jessica,this time of the year is very difficult for a lot of us that lost a loved one amd still has to show a happy face so you don't ruin your kids special date
I just want to give you a hug at this point you are so amazing and spot on about emotional happiness and down falls at Christmas IMISS MY FAMILY
You are just the sweetest, most kind hearted person. You say a lot that you watch youtubers and you think of them as “friends” or how you’d love to be their friend in real life and that is you for me. You see a lot of people that can say things and you dont fully believe them or that they genuinely feel the way they are acting.. but I have never thought that about you. I truly hope you and your family have an amazing holiday. Thank you for keeping myself and probably many others going this year with your positivity and caring.
My husband made me a video once for Mother’s Day. It was and still is the best gift I’ve ever gotten.
This is the BEST gift video I’ve ever seen. I love these ideas so much! It’s been nice to remind myself this year: “Don’t buy the holidays. Do them!” Instead of getting stressed about buying, wrapping, planning, and mailing, I remind myself who I am doing those things for and remind myself how wonderful it is to have them in my life...and if that means the presents don’t get bought because we are busy visiting with each other, that is GOOD.
I love this video & it reminded me of the poem I wrote my mum about 20yrs ago & she still has it, in a frame on her wall & I do believe it's the only gift she has kept over the years, we didn't talk for 4yrs & this poem gave her strength that things would be ok again between us & now we are best friends , my dad passed away 18mths ago & this is the hardest time of year as Christmas is all about family to us & he loved xmas, I got emotional watching this video too x
1:10 and Im crying already!! You are clearly not needing to apologize for being emotional, it shows you are a kind, thoughtful, sentimental individual..we need more people like you in this world.
I literally started crying when you did. So many ppl going through tough time this yr. I love all your gidt ideas you mention. These are gifts that are truly meaningful from the heart. Great video. Thank you.
Jessica I love that you acknowledged how difficult this time of year can be for people. I lost my mum when I was 16 and my dad when I was 23. I still love Christmas but it’s a family time and every year it hits me that I don’t have a family. It means a lot when people acknowledge other people’s struggles and make them feel seen
You’re heart is so pure and so thoughtful! We need more people like you in the world. Your love and kindness is contagious and I’m so grateful for all of the work you out into your videos to make the works a better place. Prayers, hugs and love to you snd your sweet family
I actually painted my husband a couple of pictures on a couple of canvas and wrote him a letter for Christmas he loved it! He told me it was worth more then going out and buying anything cause it was unique and it was special to him! We actually always write each other letters every month!
Thank you for being you❤️I’m decorating for the first time since losing my son and his beautiful little family in February of 2018-I know my granddaughter is looking down from heaven and smiling-and that my son and his beautiful wife are, too❣️
Life is so short, may we never take family for granted 💕🙏🏼💕Life is so beautiful and yet so fragile ❤️❤️❤️Always look for the good in others and hold them close 🥰
Hard not to cry when Jessie starts crying!!!!! ugh! but seriously you have the most kindest heart in the whole world! We need more Jessica's on this earth. And also did anyone else get a snuggle ad at the end that is Jessica's? how cool is that!?
My daughter writes me a beautiful letter every year and it is truly the BEST gift I have ever gotten! I use them as art and have one framed and hanging in my bathroom. It's such a beautiful reminder of the live we have for each other and reminds me that I AM BECAUSE SHE IS !!Thank you for this video Jessica.....it is perfect!
Bless your heart...you are such a wonderful precious soul. My sister died on April 3 of this year. She was my only sibling. She had a 12 year old son. This is our first Christmas without her. The pain takes my breath away, but your kind words have touched my heart more than you know. You are truly an angel❤️ I live in West Virginia and I watch you and Tyler daily. Thank you for being an important part of my life❤️🙏 God bless you and Merry Christmas 🎄
Oh boy, this hit me hard. I just lost my Grandpa and Grandma 41 days apart. This was already going to be a tough Christmas but now it's just pure sadness. Times like these are when you realize what really matters in life 💗
My grandma made us kids and grandkids recipe books with all of our favorite recipes. It is literally one of my most treasured possessions. I look forward to the day that I can pass it on to my kids, they always look forward to bringing the recipe book out. It has a picture of my grandma and we always sit and admire her and remember how much we love her every time we use it❤️
I am literally crying with you. The holidays have always been hard for my family. My parents struggled financially and had a hard time with that. On top of that in January of 2016 we lost my little brother unexpectedly. I dread the holidays because it just means getting closer to another year finished without him. Thank you for sharing this video and your thoughts. Praying everyone has a a safe holiday. Thank you for posting your videos that are a nice distraction from everything. ❤️❤️❤️
that blue is such a beautiful color on u 🥺
The recipe binder will be the greatest gift you can ever leave your kids and grandkids. My mom passed away 2 1/2 years ago and it is amazing how many memories are tied to food. I have her recipes as well as my grandmothers. Having a few in their handwriting is always special too. I have asked my aunts for ones in their handwriting too. I have 3 binders for my boys significant others, Thanksgiving, Christmas & Family Favorites. Just irreplaceable things to have! Tyler with his little spider plant clippings reminded me of my mom. She always had jars of those in water setting around to give to everyone. I got emotional with you!!
I am so privileged to be a part of your little corner of the internet , it broke my heart to see you crying I just wanted to reach through the screen and hug you and say thanks, thanks for helping us through 2020 with you laughter, your fun and your honesty you are very much a shining light in our world, keep that light shining bright we love you 🥰
This was such a good idea. I think we spend so much time (and money) trying to find the perfect gift, and really, the most perfect gift is the gift from the heart.
Definitely agree with the letter idea. I’m terrible at writing to people or sending Christmas cards but, a few years ago I decided to write a letter to my Granny who lived in the UK. I hadn’t been able to visit her for years and due to Alzheimer’s she wasn’t really able to communicate much. But I wrote her a letter. It was so simple, just an update on how I was doing and my family. My brother told me that it meant so much to her because she could read it at her pace, read it as many times as she needed to understand and kept it on her mantle. I actually never got the chance to see her again before she passed but I know that letter brought her joy and it means so much to me to know that we had that little interaction.
You really made me tear up when you were about to cry. I'm in one of those tough phases in life since may 2019 and hearing you say that everything in life changes and that there will be better times coming genuinely made me hopeful. The best gift for me would be my friends surprising me at my doorstep as I struggle to leave the house since I had panic attacks in may 2019. And them driving to me and spending time with me would make me feel loved and give me new motivation to fight against the fear.
Love these! My parents decided a few years ago that gift giving was no longer what felt right in their hearts. Now we draw names and you write a letter to that family member. Can be just what makes them special and how they contribute to the family. Its been so honoured and we dont miss all the shopping at all!
Really started crying the second you said I didn’t mean to get emotional. You and your family are my favorite thing to watch. Your soul shines so bright and always brightens up my day🤍
These are the best Christmas gift ideas ever and I'm crying with you and everyone else who is suffering right now. Hugs to all ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🤗
A few years ago my incredibly talented best friend took all of my family VHS home movies and put together a video of everything. It was shortly after my cousin (my age) passed away, and it had so many beautiful memories brought to life again. Didnt cost her anything but time, and my mom and aunt still say its the coolest thing anyone has done for them.
These are such great ideas Jessica! Merry Christmas!
Did I just click off of another video to watch this? Yuppers ❤️
Me too
And me.
Same!
Same here!
My notification popped up, and I was like, "Sorry, Buddy the Elf, I'll have to get back you. Jess is on."
You are most thoughtful.. So kind of you to remember those who are less fortunate.. Not everyone is EVER in that head space... Classy, gracious Jessica
I'm blessed to have kept my job this year. All of my family has stayed safe and healthy. I know there are so many that have lost so much. These are great ideas and do mean so much. Happy holidays to everyone.
Those final thoughts almost put me in tears. I found out my dad was in a coma Christmas Day and lost my dad the day after Christmas in high school, so this time of year is always hard. The fact you are recognizing and acknowledging that this year can be really hard for some people is incredibly appreciated.
I sometimes get painted as a grinch bc I try to do my best to stay in the Christmas spirit, but I fall short sometimes. So thank you for that. I appreciate you 💕
My aunt made a video for my wedding of me growing up and my husband growing up and then pictures of us together with sweet love songs playing in the background. Such a sweet sweet memory and cherished gift!
I completely understand the emotion .. I have felt guilty for being happy this year because we had our first baby on July 4th 2020. So I feel guilty for being happy for all her firsts when others are struggling or suffering or sad.. but when I give in to that guilt I feel guilty for feeling like I’m shafting my daughter. She deserves for me to celebrate the little things. Man mom guilt! Lol. But we just have to pray for those struggling and do our best to not let covid get us down as well as just the day to day struggles. Stay positive and try to make the best of what we have. It’s been so hard to do that with the gloom of covid. The birth of my daughter and all her first holidays have def been so different that what I ever imagined but I am so grateful to have her for each holiday! We feel so blessed. Sending love and hugs to everyone this season! Thank you Jess and Tyler for all you do and for sharing GiGi with us.
This has to be said out loud: we all need more Jess in our life, the world needs more Jess and I bet it would be a better place for all of us. It would be kinder, more thoughtful, honest and bright, just like you Jess. THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart. Hugs from Toronto Canada ❤
One year, my husband had just lost his job and I was the only one working. I had been diagnosed with pneumonia twice and continued to work through my sickness. We had little money for our Christmas so we did what we could for the kids and didn't buy for each other. I lost my last chapstick that morning somewhere and was offhand talking to my husband about how that was my last chapstick. He knew how much I loved chapstick so he went to Walmart and bought five or six as a gift for me. It wasn't much but it's still one of my most favorite memories because he simply listened to me, solved the one problem he could and knew it would make me happy.
Dear Jess, I always watch but almost never comment. I lost my dad suddently this january (I'm in my 20's) and what you said and your emotions seriously touched me. Thank you so much. I'm crying but in the best way. you're a special soul
I lost my dad 17 years ago tomorrow. Hardest time of year, every single year! I feel guilty not feeling the greatest during these times bc my kids deserve my happiness but they are getting older and they know why I get emotional this Time of the year. ❤
I truly enjoyed this video. You are a beautiful 💎 gem, Jessica. Happy Holidays💟
Getting teary over here!
Just to expand on the letter idea...its wasnt for Christmas but every year when I was young my mom would write me a letter and tuck it away and then showed them all to me when I was older. They make me cry everytime I read them because they're all about what she was proud of me for that year and different memories that I may not have because I was too young to remember etc.
I lost my sister and mother during December and it is hard every year at this time of year. You bring me so much joy. Thank you for your goodness ❤️
My Dad wrote me a letter on my 16th birthday telling me why I was special to him...I kept it until my family home was burned down....I'm 53 now...but I still remember every word in that letter! ⚘🎅🤶💌
My grandpa passed away a week ago from COVID & pneumonia... so the end of this got me. I'm watching your vlogmas videos everyday, it's one of the only things that feels reliable and consistent right now. Thank you to your sweet family for helping my heart feel better this Christmas. Love to all of you!!!!
love this!!!! i hate how much anxiety people get over something that is supposed to be a special day
My in-laws live many many hours away. So my kids don’t get to see their grandparents very often. She has always sent those hallmark books, the ones you record your voice reading the story. This year my kids decided that they would record a reading for her, the book is called “Under The Same Christmas Star”, it’s about love.
She opened up her Christmas package on FaceTime with us all and flipped through the book listening to each one of my children reading a page.
She said it was the best gift she has ever gotten! Best 35$ spent! Tears, so many happy tears! ❤️
Sometimes just a simple gift will brighten the spirit!
You are such a genuine person and that is why I love watching your videos, even though it might take me 3 months later from when you post them 😉 to watch it. I wish there were more people sending love into this world like you do. Keep being you!!!
There are only a handful of people on TH-cam who truly have a heart of gold, you are one of them. You had me tearing up because you genuinely care and that seems so hard to find these days. Thank you for sharing this with us. As a special needs mom, your content somehow always seems to be what I need at the moment. I enjoy escaping and spending time with you and your family. ❤️
All great ideas Jessica. The letter one does pull at the heart strings. I did just that for my husband for our anniversary. Snuck into his lunch bag. He called me at 6 am ( he never calls me from work) sniffling and crying. He loved it, and keeps it in his bag.
I love that your never fake!! Your so authentic and mot afraid of your emotions, you embrace them and it’s inspiring. Never change. This is why we all follow you
I love this idea for a video!! Especially with how difficult this year has been for a lot of people financially.
It's not free as it involves money, but since high school, my family has always donated in honor of our other family members for Christmas. For example, in previous years I've done angel tree names for my aunts and uncles. I've donated money to shelters (homeless, women and children, and animal shelters in honor of my mother, sister, aunts and uncles. This year I took the money I would have donated to give to my friend's family to help pay medical bills and medication fees. Our family still does actual gifts for birthdays, but we really like giving to others in need for Christmas to spread the love of Jesus. And I've been telling my family for years that if I really need or want it, I am so very blessed and fortunate to be able to buy it on my own while others are not. It makes me happy knowing I made a difference in a person or animal's life by providing a meal, clothes, linens, etc..
The bit about letters is so good. I have a valentine that my mother wrote me when I was a kid & a graduation letter from my godmother. Both are framed and I reread them when I need to remember that I am loved and have such amazing people in my life. Words truly do make such a long lasting impact
I love this video so much. You've nailed the concept and follow through on this one. I really love these for christmas, but also for ways to gift around the year. Idk, I'm just feeling so optimistic about the upcoming year and love this kind of mindset
Last year I gave my grandpa a photo album for Christmas. My maternal grandma sadly passed away late last October and so I wanted to give him something extra meaningful. He is also 89 years old and so it is difficult to get him something that he actually needs. I included older pictures with people who have passed away and newer ones that I took myself. My mom and I also sat down and wrote a bit of text to each picture. So nice to know that he has that and that he can look at it when he wants to. Cost a bit to do it, but it is quite inexpensive if you can get pictures printed at a good price.
Such a lovely video and so many good ideas I will save away. Lots of love from Norway❤️
This is a beautiful idea Jessica. Thanks for sharing it.
This is the first time in 16 years I'm going to "celebrate" Christmas and New Years' without Coco. He was my furbaby and I can't even explain how hard it's been since I lost him this past June. For all of you who lost loved ones this year, sending strength and prayers.
This is my top favorite video you've ever done. Great ideas. Heart-felt gifts are so needed in this buy everything world. I love that you mentioned the emotion to the days and that they are a kind of an odd time to the year. I lost my brother to suicide right before the first lock downs. We luckily got his funeral arranged and done before everything changed and we had guests be able to come in a "normal" way. While I've had most the year to grieve all my emotions are 180 again its going to be a long winter until next February where we completed the first year without him 💔 its been the most painful year of my life and all those gifts would mean so much to me to receive from anyone💜.
One Christmas my family and I all wrote 5 things we loved about my grandmother or our favorite memories we had with her. I decorated a jar and placed them in it as a Christmas gift. That way if she ever felt lonely or down or just wanted to read something nice she always had it. She still has it next to her bed. ❤ Great reminder that what matters the most in this world is family, love and memories.
You made me start crying. Jessica you have the best heart!!! I just love you!! These are such selfless gift idea and thoughtful and I love it!!