WHAT WE WISH WE KNEW BEFORE OUR FIRST JOB - TMI PODCAST KE -EPISODE 11

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  • Work work work!
    One thing we both stand for is the importance of hard work! We have both worked in the corporate world and in the self employment world and along the way we have picked up a lot of lessons from office politics to knowing your value!!! All workplaces are different but the principles are the same. What do you wish you knew before your first job? Thank you for tuning in once again. Let's meet in the comments.
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  • @kassidyngaira4159
    @kassidyngaira4159 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I can't believe I skipped this content the whole of last year 🤦and now I need it more than ever😍, I'm growing 😭

  • @jowams9329
    @jowams9329 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Great episode as usual ladies! My addition would be to always take your leave/vacation days and sick off days and go relax/recharge! You are not doing yourself any favors by overworking thinking that you will be recognized as the most hardworking employee..if anything, you might end up being unproductive and burned out.

  • @michelleesther2021
    @michelleesther2021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Isn't Lydia a gem 💎💖

  • @leezie7321
    @leezie7321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What I'm taking away
    1. Be confident at work...speak up ideas
    2. Interaction with workmates is just as important
    3. Be comfortable only when there's growth..you can be more
    4. People will remember negatives..be very careful
    5. Know your value
    6. Authenticity...be you and stand out
    I pray that this year we have smooth and enjoyable times in our jobs♥️♥️♥️ I proclaim authenticity and confidence 💙

  • @jezthevibe624
    @jezthevibe624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Aki you have no idea how happy I am...watch you two..... nilikua nalia....I had to ✋...so that I can watch this..we will revisit later

  • @lieznyokabi444
    @lieznyokabi444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just to add on this,Know the environment you are going to be working in.
    Before you take the job, make sure it is a place where you want to be. This is somewhere that you are going to be spending a lot of your time. It's important to like and appreciate the atmosphere at work.

  • @sherahmumbitipsvlogs660
    @sherahmumbitipsvlogs660 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I like how you girls are affirming to each other,,, I need such energy,, thanks for the episode,, God bless you.

  • @angelawanyoike5205
    @angelawanyoike5205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The day to day menial tasks, ongeza volume pls... Took me over a year to accept day to day tasks of my current job and if I'm being honest, I'm still getting used to it 3yrs in and one role change later. But, there's joy in the bigger outcomes from projects I exert myself in. Preach sisters, we're here for all of it!!

  • @achieng726
    @achieng726 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Tana and Mukeni already have work experience. Must be nice!

  • @abbiewaabba8619
    @abbiewaabba8619 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This content is too good...wekeni number ya mpesa support
    It's like we are in master class of life skills...thank you !!

    • @faithwakoli2824
      @faithwakoli2824 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maaahn, I'm literally taking notes

  • @bethgitau4240
    @bethgitau4240 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It is soo true Joan .. we women sell ourselves short. I have been told this countless of times by my mentor.

  • @tetyootornado1598
    @tetyootornado1598 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One thing with these great ladies is every topic they pick, wanaizamia kuzamia.... We looooove you soo much.

  • @sashawambui
    @sashawambui 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This has to be one of your best episodes!! ❤️ I thoroughly enjoyed the conversation. It was so informative and timely for me, as I’m just about to graduate and get into the corporate world 🙏🏾😊

  • @paprika7930
    @paprika7930 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sincerely, thank you for creating this podcast. The banter, valuable info, the candor... we appeciate it all.

  • @susanw497
    @susanw497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I have to comment on Murugi's story about her husband negotiating for his new job, it is true that you have to ask for what you are worth, and women should do the same. But I think it is not always easy because men asking for more or being assertive is seen as good. But for women applying the same tactics, you will hear people say "she is bitchy or too demanding" etc. There is even specific advice for women on how to negotiate, I have seen articles on this online. When you add race, it becomes even more complicated for racial minorities. A black person could negotiate or be promoted like Lydia was saying and the reaction from people is negative because some people think you don't deserve it or you should settle for less etc. And in Lydia's case that might have been the issue, a black woman in a majority white working environment.

    • @sashawambui
      @sashawambui 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thankyou for saying this!! I was thinking it as well. Where as in his situation it worked in his favor that might not be the case for others, especially women.

    • @bunmix4549
      @bunmix4549 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      One time I asked for more money (Intact insurance company in Canada) & instead of saying “that is not within our budget but let us know by x date if you accept”, they pulled my job offer. It almost felt like they were telling me “how dare you ask for more money”.
      Context: I’m a 26 year old black woman

  • @muriithimumbi370
    @muriithimumbi370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sooo informative. Someone should have shot this 15 years ago ....never the less, we are always starting something new

  • @HereIsMimmoh
    @HereIsMimmoh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow Ladies you are so informative and relatable and so okay even when the world feels it's not. Ever since I began tmi my thinking has shifted....KuDOS 🥳

  • @sophiekimathi
    @sophiekimathi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Please more of this Lydia and Joan.. I definitely miss your TH-cam channel Joan coz you were dropping such bombs,wisdom without even knowing it.
    I really enjoyed today's episode, God bless you.

  • @paulinewachira8563
    @paulinewachira8563 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I feel like this is just what I needed.... An eye opener. Thanks Ladies

  • @belindarotich9232
    @belindarotich9232 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Learned so much....also I believe knowing your value accounts not only to finance but also in terms of opportunities that avail at work....When an opportunity avails that you feel you could do better go for it ....express why you deserve the opportunity

  • @gladysndunge4592
    @gladysndunge4592 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow...anywhere Murugi is,am in.I've enjoyed all the episodes and this one really caught me especially knowing my value... Am in the legal field and I love it.
    I already have worked in several firms and this is insightful as I work on my career progression.

  • @muzimajoy5617
    @muzimajoy5617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Aki please make alot more .. I'm running out of podcasters to listen to aki.. Put up a video everyday if possible 😂

  • @TheMajestiQFamily
    @TheMajestiQFamily 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Waaah this video is just so informative..some jobs itakupiga character development ushangae but its a learning curve 😎

  • @clarechemos6863
    @clarechemos6863 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Iwas in love with murugi but this Lydia is something else keep shinning gals

  • @michellenyaga5806
    @michellenyaga5806 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is GOLD!!!!!!! This is a must watch for anyone starting off in their career. I've picked alot!

  • @kimonemiller7707
    @kimonemiller7707 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is the best podcast. I am learning so much from you ladies❤. Plus i am able to relate. Thank God i am not alone

  • @_Interior_Designs
    @_Interior_Designs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I loved the conversation. ..Thank you for creating the podcast💯

  • @MtotowaNjuru
    @MtotowaNjuru 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’m I the only one who think these two beautiful ladies look alike?

  • @msnjoroge5729
    @msnjoroge5729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Gosh! This is a whole CV. Great job guys.

  • @hopejune2576
    @hopejune2576 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Weh today we have notebooks Hadi... The wisdom 👌🏾❤️😃

  • @rose_jepchirchir7709
    @rose_jepchirchir7709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amazing content... It was so so informative for such a person like me whose on first job in corporate.
    Definately everything was relatable and good lessons😊.
    Love you guys soo much

  • @Perfectly_Abby
    @Perfectly_Abby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your Content is so informative, relatable yet so fun at the same time. Kuddos Ladies 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @michelleesther2021
    @michelleesther2021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm 21 and not working 😂😂 but I've indeed taken down some notes 😊

  • @oliviahongere
    @oliviahongere 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Enjoyed watching this as usual good discussion ladies

  • @DiA23_
    @DiA23_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great points ladies! Very insightful.

  • @christinaflo3240
    @christinaflo3240 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Waiting

  • @winniekariuki3099
    @winniekariuki3099 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thankyou so much for this guys😭♥

  • @brendaoduor891
    @brendaoduor891 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The communication and people skills has given me a lot of promotion very vital makes people remember you!

  • @missfuraha
    @missfuraha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sure there is no useless job, there is always something to learn, corporate is who** house for sure🤭😂 I relate to all the points, love this podcast 👌

  • @msdiary1885
    @msdiary1885 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this episode, its great you guys sharing your experience on your careers to date😊.

  • @clairengugi
    @clairengugi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    yaaaas! you dont have to feel stuck, its okay to move careers

  • @shirleyzaid9782
    @shirleyzaid9782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of my favourite episodes so far. So timely!! Amazing content.

  • @deborahnjeri1504
    @deborahnjeri1504 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow! Ladies this was such great conversation
    Loved it kabisa and very insightful

  • @arianakinjoh1044
    @arianakinjoh1044 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Don't limit yourself... know your worth ,take home

  • @jenniferkaranja3425
    @jenniferkaranja3425 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great advice guys! Very informative!!!

  • @wangumaina9182
    @wangumaina9182 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a very insightful video especially cause i'm at that point of getting into "working" .. I'm about to graduate

  • @lynnetirungu3021
    @lynnetirungu3021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was really timely for me.

  • @janetkagia3070
    @janetkagia3070 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great informative content guys.
    Thank you ❤❤

  • @tusekonga3030
    @tusekonga3030 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank u so much for the honesty 🙏🥰

  • @wanjiwanji
    @wanjiwanji 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What an amazing episode.. it was sooo comprehensive and a lot of things have stuck with me..

  • @mariemartin593
    @mariemartin593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Always in love with every topic you bring to the table__😍👌

  • @marthamoshy6412
    @marthamoshy6412 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This has jst slapped😍😍😍God bless you ladies

  • @carolmungai1513
    @carolmungai1513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Joan your confidence

  • @carolmungai1513
    @carolmungai1513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gem 💎

  • @shammahnzaana214
    @shammahnzaana214 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello in-betweeners, I am grateful of how much TMI has taught me as a person. However, I am at a point where I feel like I need way more than just one valuable podcast.... Don't get me wrong, I'm still a very loyal in-betweener, I just would want to broaden my knowledge in life and podcasts in general. Could you guys help suggest other podcasts, on TH-cam preferably that are equally as beneficial and fun to watch as TMI ⁉️ thank you♥️ y'all have a wonderful 2023

  • @gracerozinah2411
    @gracerozinah2411 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is Precious👌. Thank you

  • @mwethya
    @mwethya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    During my third year I went for my attachment and I hated the job but could not change courses ...since then I dreded graduating think that manifested because covid came giving me more time to think ....bt I am graduating December and all everyone is talking about is graduate and get a job as if it's that easy ...I still hate that job bt my parents are not for the idea of supporting me to do something else .

    • @sashawambui
      @sashawambui 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Girl I feel you, and I’m somewhat in the same boat.

  • @roselynewanjikuofficial5491
    @roselynewanjikuofficial5491 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Now on TMI talk I think safe hardly gets us anywhere. So yea use some leading questions like Lydiah said

  • @missireneke.8171
    @missireneke.8171 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    20k here we come

  • @olphaonsare6030
    @olphaonsare6030 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Murugi on the game 😂😂😂😂😂😂.
    Lydia rubbing her win on her face😂

  • @risperwamathi1419
    @risperwamathi1419 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was a very informative episode. I loved it

  • @geah6205
    @geah6205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We are all winners in Christ 🤣🤣🤣🤣 says murugi not-the-so-winner

  • @sharonkiptoo9729
    @sharonkiptoo9729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very informative 💯❤️

  • @clairenatasha8112
    @clairenatasha8112 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Waaaoow! l love this kind of content very informative.

  • @risperwamathi1419
    @risperwamathi1419 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hahaha the game was fuuuuun!!!!!Lydia you did it so calmly. Murugi😂😂😂Sorry babe

  • @catemaza8876
    @catemaza8876 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    🤣🤣🤣 29:17 has just reminded me of an incident where my hubby's cousin who's like 50 sent a dick pick to the extended family group, remember everyone is there including the grandparents lol so I think he didn't know how to delete it and so the admin had to dismantle the whole group! 😂😂😂

    • @dr.ohuruc.1511
      @dr.ohuruc.1511 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @lindajeptoo2558
      @lindajeptoo2558 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣, aki this was really messed up🤣🤣🤣

    • @bethbeth7909
      @bethbeth7909 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😆😆😆😆😆

    • @lorrecco
      @lorrecco 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @catemaza8876
      @catemaza8876 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lindajeptoo2558 very the whole group was in chaos! Lol 🤣

  • @superlitfella
    @superlitfella 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    'Do not get comfortable' 👌👌👌

  • @pritipinky4070
    @pritipinky4070 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a good one.👏👏👏

  • @malusisarahmulola
    @malusisarahmulola 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was Awesome..

  • @winniewangui9661
    @winniewangui9661 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very informative I'm enlightened

  • @mrnguitui8490
    @mrnguitui8490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you so much Lydia for addressing that BULLSHIT narrative that 'being loud, rude" = 'strong women'; also being an 'independent Sally' is not an achievement but an expectation for all normal functioning adults 😤😤 Get in line, Sally, like the rest of us 😒

    • @mrnguitui8490
      @mrnguitui8490 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      alafu murugi😂☠️ kwani walikufanyia nini ten years ago inakuuma hivyo⚰️⚰️

    • @mrnguitui8490
      @mrnguitui8490 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      na hizi maswali mnauliza IG pekee mtuwekee kwa community tab bana #inbetweener

  • @peninahkanario3054
    @peninahkanario3054 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for this gals

  • @bethgitau4240
    @bethgitau4240 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Begging energy 😂😂 I have been doing this aky just to get a break through in the industry 😂

  • @monissandungu4601
    @monissandungu4601 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loves🥺🥺❤

  • @Nyangateongeri
    @Nyangateongeri 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This!!

  • @beckybigisa3891
    @beckybigisa3891 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I meann I started working at 19

  • @TheCookingNurse
    @TheCookingNurse 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I actually believe the part of women dont really negotiate enough, my husband will be so calm about a certain deal that my lazy ass would have taken on even for 20%less

  • @TheMajestiQFamily
    @TheMajestiQFamily 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Trust the journey💯

  • @dorablanche7621
    @dorablanche7621 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    aka “... any other assigned tasks.”😫😅

  • @evakimemia1120
    @evakimemia1120 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    P.R.O.F.O.U.N.D.

  • @doreenofuganda
    @doreenofuganda 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please talk about dating married men

    • @_Sharon_J
      @_Sharon_J 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Genuine question: What's there to talk about?

  • @Nzilani-Anne
    @Nzilani-Anne 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    First jobs really suck especially when you meet people who will want to exploit you jobwise 😴😴

  • @doreenonekalit9888
    @doreenonekalit9888 ปีที่แล้ว

    What did you think of each other when you first met. What made you click

  • @ekrahmatu2799
    @ekrahmatu2799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice but that lighting looks off...

  • @periswerimo8
    @periswerimo8 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    😍😍😍

  • @winniesunya6221
    @winniesunya6221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃

  • @inetbutterfly
    @inetbutterfly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What else would you advise to those in their 20s and 30s who are still in that space of finding out what they like, what they are good at and what they can be paid for?
    Would like to hear more about the journey and how to handle yourself, exploit your full potential, and make the most of any opportunity...

  • @-gydeon-
    @-gydeon- ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are wrong am a Kenyan seafarer and seafarers don't pay taxes so is that not a job !!!!😂😂