I'm married 22 years but i dated tones before meeting my husband. What he said is 100% true. When ever i became clingy or trying to please the guy, they would back off. The guys that i kept my distance from, ran after me . Problem is that the guys that ran after me, i was not into. The men that i was running after were the men i really liked. It's very hard but you have to play games. You have to make him feel like he needs to work for your attention.
Alex, you are so right on this. I am being a challenge to him, & I feel so much lighter. He will have to earn a relationship with me. Works like a charm.
I came across Alex's first video 3 years ago. I started implementing Alex's simple advice in my life during dating. I slowly slowly changed my mindset. It's really work! I tested it many times! It resulted in me meeting a man 1.5 years ago who puts me on a pedestal and still wants to do something for me. Thanks to Alex's videos I changed myself, I became stronger and I'm not afraid of losing anyone. Girls, fight and give yourself time to change! Besos!
Very interesting what Alex said about it taking about seven weeks for them to bail out from their pursuit game. In my twenties that's what happened to me again and again until I learned to be harder to get.
Alex, I truly appreciate your honesty and guidance. I've always been the go-getter (I'm a Scorpio, Aries rising). I'm going to give all of your suggestions a try. Thank you!
I'm a 30-year-old women who has never been in a relationship. I liked a single guy (similar age) but never showed it, acting only as a teammate. Someone advised me not to think about him because of his high position, but I liked him as a person. We had similar interests, but I believe it was one-sided. It's been a year since we parted. 😔
Recently, I had a challenging split. The breakup of my five-year relationship a few months ago has been quite difficult. I still harbor a deep affection for my ex-boyfriend, and I can't seem to stop thinking about him. My attempts to win him back have been unsuccessful, and at this point, it seems impossible to be with anybody else. It may seem strange to admit this, but I miss him terribly and can't stop thinking about him.
Alex, I like your channel and the info you give is very good. However, there is a major incompatibility between men and women. If we follow your advice, we give men what they want (a chase, a challenge, a fantasy) while we don't get our needs met. Historically, men get what they want while women don't .The real question is why do we settle for men at all? 👎 It's not a hate on your videos, but a real question of why women would need to stifle their own desires to obtain men's approval
I couldn't agree more. It seems that in order for women to get men interested in them emotionally, they have to stop being... women. And always go against their own emotional needs, pretending to be cold and distant, because God forbid we may appear "needy" or "clingy" or not challenging enough. Sometimes I listen to these coaches (who all repeat the same thing over and over again), and I can't help but think that men and women are just not suited for long-term relationships with each other. Men in general simply do not appreciate the qualities that women have to offer - such as loyalty, affection, tenderness and devotion. Very sad, this state of affairs.
Valid question. I find women making videos on how women can please a man while men make videos on how women can please a man or men make videos on how men can get women to please them. Where are the videos telling men how to please women?
Dear Alex I have a question, he texted me after days that hey, how are you doing? After that responded to him but he didn't text back, what does it mean? Should I text him a simple msg, for example '?' ??
Alex what do i do,i did 69 days of no contact.i reached out but still he is reading my text but no response.I asked him if he is using silent as a break up method he still ddnt answer.I later asked for a favour and he dd it for me quickly. When i thanked him he ddnt reply to my text again.alex respond please
Wow! Wtf, its sound so familiar to my situation. This is crazy. I’m not backing down though, I won’t give in and follow his lead. I’m listening Alex! 💯🤍☺️
I had a guy text call and FaceTime me all day for a year. He lives with another woman and lied to me he was leaving her. I walked away and last night he saw me with a new man.
Il est dangereux ce coach, il est comme les pasteurs BG. Est-ce que les gens meme ils ecoutent ce qu'il dit ? Petit accent qui va bien, belle carrure. Au lieu de faire des stratagemes , prenez le coach, clonez-le et distribuez. Fin...😂
Recently, I had a challenging split. The breakup of my five-year relationship a few months ago has been quite difficult. I still harbor a deep affection for my ex-boyfriend, and I can't seem to stop thinking about him. My attempts to win him back have been unsuccessful, and at this point, it seems impossible to be with anybody else. It may seem strange to admit this, but I miss him terribly and can't stop thinking about him.
Don't worry. Time changes a lot of things. Picture yourself 20 years from now and the new loving relationship you will be in. Focus on that and you will. Move on with your life
I'm married 22 years but i dated tones before meeting my husband. What he said is 100% true. When ever i became clingy or trying to please the guy, they would back off. The guys that i kept my distance from, ran after me . Problem is that the guys that ran after me, i was not into. The men that i was running after were the men i really liked.
It's very hard but you have to play games. You have to make him feel like he needs to work for your attention.
Alex, you are so right on this. I am being a challenge to him, & I feel so much lighter. He will have to earn a relationship with me. Works like a charm.
Thank you so much for watching and for your comment! I hope this video was able to help you!
I came across Alex's first video 3 years ago. I started implementing Alex's simple advice in my life during dating. I slowly slowly changed my mindset. It's really work! I tested it many times! It resulted in me meeting a man 1.5 years ago who puts me on a pedestal and still wants to do something for me. Thanks to Alex's videos I changed myself, I became stronger and I'm not afraid of losing anyone. Girls, fight and give yourself time to change! Besos!
Thank you so much for your comment! I'm so happy that my content was able to help you throughout the years! I appreciate your support.
Thank you!! Just when I needed to hear it🙏🙏
Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate your support!
Very interesting what Alex said about it taking about seven weeks for them to bail out from their pursuit game. In my twenties that's what happened to me again and again until I learned to be harder to get.
Thank you so much for watching! I hope this video is able to help you!
True words
Alex, I truly appreciate your honesty and guidance. I've always been the go-getter (I'm a Scorpio, Aries rising). I'm going to give all of your suggestions a try. Thank you!
Thank you so much for watching! I'm glad this video was able to help you!
These challenges never stop.lessen maybe but never stops even in marriage.
Thank you so much for watching! i appreciate your support!
I'm a 30-year-old women who has never been in a relationship. I liked a single guy (similar age) but never showed it, acting only as a teammate. Someone advised me not to think about him because of his high position, but I liked him as a person. We had similar interests, but I believe it was one-sided. It's been a year since we parted. 😔
If he was intressted he will show it to u dont bother a lot with him. ❤
If you make sure you look Hot and have a great personality and not act too interested but just enough to hook him, then you’ll get whoever you want.
You Forgot to lightly flirt touch smile.... but he must initiate, he saw you only as a bud... and that's ok.
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You should have flirted with him at least.
Recently, I had a challenging split. The breakup of my five-year relationship a few months ago has been quite difficult. I still harbor a deep affection for my ex-boyfriend, and I can't seem to stop thinking about him. My attempts to win him back have been unsuccessful, and at this point, it seems impossible to be with anybody else. It may seem strange to admit this, but I miss him terribly and can't stop thinking about him.
How badly are you thinking about him? Are you depressed from it?
Oh. So glad I found your channel 😊
Thank you so much for watching!
Let each other,be each other and soon you will figure out if it will work or not
Alex I love your video
Thank you ❤
Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate your support!
Alex I will stop being a good girl!
Thank you so much for watching!
What you said- so True! Alex, I'd stop being a good girl ❤🎉
Alex, I like your channel and the info you give is very good. However, there is a major incompatibility between men and women. If we follow your advice, we give men what they want (a chase, a challenge, a fantasy) while we don't get our needs met. Historically, men get what they want while women don't .The real question is why do we settle for men at all? 👎 It's not a hate on your videos, but a real question of why women would need to stifle their own desires to obtain men's approval
I couldn't agree more. It seems that in order for women to get men interested in them emotionally, they have to stop being... women. And always go against their own emotional needs, pretending to be cold and distant, because God forbid we may appear "needy" or "clingy" or not challenging enough. Sometimes I listen to these coaches (who all repeat the same thing over and over again), and I can't help but think that men and women are just not suited for long-term relationships with each other. Men in general simply do not appreciate the qualities that women have to offer - such as loyalty, affection, tenderness and devotion. Very sad, this state of affairs.
Valid question. I find women making videos on how women can please a man while men make videos on how women can please a man or men make videos on how men can get women to please them. Where are the videos telling men how to please women?
love this..❤new subscriber here🎉
Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate your help!
Dear Alex I have a question, he texted me after days that hey, how are you doing?
After that responded to him but he didn't text back, what does it mean? Should I text him a simple msg, for example '?' ??
No that's chasing don't do anything, it's his turn to respond.
No dont
Shut up, No.
Give him distance.
❤❤ Thank you 🙏
Thank you so much for watching!
What do you do if you are with an alpha+sigma male? There would be constant conflict if we don't follow their lead
Happy new year Mr Alex please how can l be an attracting woman
Thank you ❤ Every word is so true!!!!!
Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate your support!
They always want what they can’t have
exactly!
Right. So when he insisted on marriage. I should have said no.
Alex ! Its more than 2 yrs now! Is it enough to response?
No don't. He's gone
7 years LDR. Now this US Supreme Court against Green Cards so I must move to S. Africa? Relationships are hard enough.
Alex what do i do,i did 69 days of no contact.i reached out but still he is reading my text but no response.I asked him if he is using silent as a break up method he still ddnt answer.I later asked for a favour and he dd it for me quickly. When i thanked him he ddnt reply to my text again.alex respond please
Walk away from him; he's being disrespectful. There are better men out there.
Leave him alone. He's playing mind games with you
What does this look like in daily life?
Wow! Wtf, its sound so familiar to my situation. This is crazy. I’m not backing down though, I won’t give in and follow his lead. I’m listening Alex! 💯🤍☺️
Thank you so much for watching! I hope my video was able to help with your situation!
I had a guy text call and FaceTime me all day for a year. He lives with another woman and lied to me he was leaving her. I walked away and last night he saw me with a new man.
ok
Alex, this is gold! Thank you so much! I stopped being a good girl. I kicked him in the butt 😜
haha Thank you so much for watching! I hope this video was able to help you!
I thought you were supposed to follow a man's lead if he leads? That makes no sense.
Follow but don't be needy or clingy. Have a mind of your own and control and schedule your time and life
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Thank you so much for watching!
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Thank you so much for watching!
I didnt ârgeee with you ...not following lead makes a woman disagreeable and difficult
Don't disagree. But at the same time Don't be at their beck and call. Have a mind of your own. Your time and your life. This is not disagreement
Il est dangereux ce coach, il est comme les pasteurs BG. Est-ce que les gens meme ils ecoutent ce qu'il dit ? Petit accent qui va bien, belle carrure. Au lieu de faire des stratagemes , prenez le coach, clonez-le et distribuez. Fin...😂
Recently, I had a challenging split. The breakup of my five-year relationship a few months ago has been quite difficult. I still harbor a deep affection for my ex-boyfriend, and I can't seem to stop thinking about him. My attempts to win him back have been unsuccessful, and at this point, it seems impossible to be with anybody else. It may seem strange to admit this, but I miss him terribly and can't stop thinking about him.
Don't worry. Time changes a lot of things. Picture yourself 20 years from now and the new loving relationship you will be in. Focus on that and you will. Move on with your life
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Thank you so much for watching!