Thov Koj Dua Ib Zaug Ntxiv. 9/4/22
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Tej yam zoo li no yuav tau nyoo poj niam!!! Yog ua li koj hais txhob ua li koj ua!!!
He thinks he can use her sadness and weakness to take advantage of her, but those weakness and sadness are actually what made her strong. She is a good woman, being everything she never had.
You are just a typical hmong man ... doing what hmong men do best. Great job ...
Your wife supported you and allowed you to do whatever you wished thru your marriage! She only spent her money for her two brothers’ wedding because she is their only hope! You are heartless, you cheat, and decided to take your money to play in another woman’s home. Also, you left your children to be fatherless! STOP the excuses and the guilt-trip on your ex-wife! PLEASE let your ex-wife have peace and independency! You can still love and be there for your kids when they need you!
To the wife and the two brothers. so proud of you all for stand by each other side.
To the husband, you deserve it. Move on
Sister, you did the right thing...I am glad that you are stand on your ground...
I am the oldest of all my siblings. I have always been their second mom.....I do everything for them even though my parents are still here and love & support all of us very much. If I was this niam tsev I would of done the same. It's sad that her husband did not have a big enough heart to help & support her and helping her brothers caused her marriage. I'm heart broken for her😭😭😭.
You don’t deserve a second chance. You’ve gone too far! She deserves someone who truly loves her.
Omg the audacity of this man. You knew her pains and struggles and choose to add to it. You don’t deserve her!
Mens don’t understand … if your wife has a big heart towards ur family than u need too do so too hers too. Marriage is not a one way street. I am glad you are sharing this story as it may open eyes to many other mens and other couples. This goes both ways!!!
To the wife please don’t take your txiv dev back. Your kids will be fine since their big now so love yourself only. Don’t take back spit that’s on dog shit. He’s only begging now bc he have no where to go. It’s all lies don’t believe it!
I totally agree👍 this txiv dev no need to come back
Tuag2!!! You go to school for cheating only…..Hahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👏👏👏👏👏👏
Zoo heev ua peb cov ntxhais niam no
paub hlub yus tus kheej thiab hlub yus tsev neeg li no
cov mi txiv tsev hmoob mekas aw nej mus nyob teb chaws vam meej nej cov poj niam txawj ntse lawv ua tau yog kawg li os rsug peb siab tshaj li hmoob
cov txiv neej no nej ua hluas zoo nej siab kawg tab sis yog poj niam tu siab txaus txaus poj niam mam txiav txim siab los pauv lub neej ces nej quaj tsis nrov li os thov los tsis rov lm
Txaus tu siab tiag2 !!! Mloog npaum twg kua muag poob baum ntawd!!!!
Koj tej lus ma yog kawg li os mog me nus aw
Tu siab tshaj, uas yog niam txiv tuag g muaj ntxa!!
Zoo heev thov sib pab nawj tij 🙋🙋🙋
Lub neej zoo tsis yuav, xav tau lub neej ua txiv dev xwb ces pab tsis tau Thaum poj niam tu siab lawm mas nyuaj nawb
Txob tu siab os vim nws yeej 1 txwm txom2 nyem cas ho tsis hlub2 nws paub tias koj yeej tsis yog 1 tug neeg siab zoo
May's voice is a powerful and a leader voice. A voice that can make people listen. Still more to say but will leave to this for now.
Tus txiv tsev aw txhob tu siab kaj tsij txaus siab rau koj txoj me kev siab me lig lig rau koj lawm
Zoo siab tus ntxhais no kawm ntawv deb es rau siab rau nws lub neej vim nws raug kev txomnyem ntau heev nws thiaj ua tau ibsiab. Pojniam yog cov tau kev txomnyem txhua kis loj rau me hauv lub neej. Tabsi zoo tsis txaus rau tus txij nkawm ces leejtwg Los yuav ua ibsiab ib yam. Vim luag tsuas siv yus thaum xav siv xwb tsis yog tuaj nruabsiab hlub
Hmong women put up with so much pain that no one would ever understand. She only wanted you to love her as much as she loved you. Hmong men are only ok when the time and money is spent on their side. You obviously don’t understand how important family is to her, you don’t deserve this good woman.
Totally agree!!
She’s being under and over. She is hard as rock, nothing can break her than what she has gone through. Hope she learned to forgive you.
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Tsam no koj mam xav tau ces lig lawm os.
Kuv lub neej ces zoo li no os lawv kuv tus txiv rau tus yawj thiab tej nkauj muag thiab nian pog thiab txiv yawg los tsi nyiam kuv ho txoj kev pab ntawm txij nkawm ces tsi txawv koj zaj neej neeg no kuv tus lub siab me koj hais no os me txiv tsev aw thaum tu siab lawm ces zoo li no os
Zoo kawg li os.
Her brothers need to understand that they need need to help their self too. Work and save up for marriage. Not just rely on the sister. No money, not atleast half then don't get marry until save up atleast 5k.
WOW.
after seeing your girlfriend go thru sooooooo much sadness in her life, you married her and can't be "siab loj" enough to love her and her siblings??? And then you cheated on her... and now you want her back??
Dear woman in this story, please don't ever go back to this small-hearted person.
@@souperlao3949 wow! Just because he’s a leader and sought by many women, she should calm him down after she made him angry? That’s what’s wrong here. Honest respectful men in leadership position should not use their position as excuse to cheat and disrespect their partners. They should lead by setting good example. I’m glad the wife finally put herself first and left. She didn’t need to put up with the emotional abuse
Koj yog ib tug neeg paj lhub me ,neeg siab me koj yuam kev ntau tshaj plaws vim koj tsis muaj lub siab lhub neeg.
Txiv neej ces xav kom peb poj niam siab đawb rau nej cov muam niam pog txiv yawg tiam sis peb sab tais dab laug nej lu siab tsi kam phai ib qhob meb meb li 😢
Thanks for sharing your story. However, You deserve every inch of pain you’re going thru right now. Hmong women have put up with hmong men far too long….the table is turning now. Nej Cov txiv tsev Tsis ua neeg zoo ces Yuav zoo li Tus txiv dev no nawb.
Amen...Hmong women they do need to wake up and wise up. Stop being groomed and accepting the Hmong cultural marriages bs. We live in the 21st century and in America. They need to understand that they can absolutely live without a man.
Her brothers should know by now that weddings are very expensive and they should have prepared themselves financially since they know what their family situation is like already. SMH
My thoughts exactly, the brothers should have at the very least come up with half of the cost. The wife should have not put her husband in the position of putting her siblings as priority. This was the cause of their separation. His support at the beginning went unnoticed/under appreciated
She can’t take the full responsibility for her two brothers she put her husband in the spot… sure the two brother / wife will not return her love like she does… she will regret if she loss her husband.
Mloog tau los2 kua muag kawg li zaj no na phim2 yus kawg thiab
W0w this story is very interesting make crying! 😢
I believe this is your testimony brother!
Txhua tus neeg yeej txawj yuam kev. Txoj kev sib hlub yuav tau kawm, Kawm ua lub siab loj ua lub siab zoo.
I believe you have learned and changed to be a better person.
Love is forgiveness, if you wife don’t forgive you then let her follow her own way of life, she need to learn too..one day she will understand you.
Just become someone good for yourself brother.
Txhov rov qab lawm ib tug txiv neej zoo li no. Rov qab los tsis zoo dabtsi lawm vim npua yeem noj xuam dev yeem noj quav. Rov qab los yeej muaj hnub nws rov ua phem mob koj siab dua. Ntsuag niam ntsuag txiv ciaj tsis tas yuav tsim txom koj lub sib mus pob peb zaug.
People make mistakes, forgive and repent.
I bet if he was an orphan and has a younger brother that wants to get married, of course he and his wife will be responsible for the younger brother’s wedding..
Nrog koj tu siab kawg tus niam tsev hauv lub neej nov vim xaiv tsis tau los ua neeg es txais tau daim ntawv nyuajsiab los ua neeg me vivncaus zoo li nej pab nus muag mas tseem2 yog yug los ua ntsuag ciaj os
Txoj kev tu siab ntawm koj cov me nyuam yog Tim koj tib leeg xwb ov
Thom kom koj tus poj niam txhob los yuav koj lawm mog txiv neej siab phem li kom ces yeej tsis ntxhiv qhov twg ntxhim os li koj ces kawg mus nriav tus tshiab os nawb
Pab koj tu siab lau
Tus txiv neej no yog ib tug neeg siab me hlub tsis tau neeg ces txhob tos lawm
If you love her you’ve got to be there for her, stand by her and make her happy just like how you would want her love.
I pray she don’t go back. I pray she find greatness and happiness else where!
I feel so sad for this uncle ex-wife, she went thru so many hardship and became a very strong women at the end. Do your thang girl you’re on the right path.
Cia koj pojniam nws tu nwssiab, Koj yuav tau xavtias yog nws hlub koj tiag2 she won't do that to you. Koj twb ua yam zoo rau nws lubneej dhau Los lawm txhob feel regrets and keep your head up bro! Good luck
It takes a big person to take on the responsibility your ex wife did. You're energy doesn't match to her, let her be. Your kids are in good hands with her
Tus txiv Neej no, nyuam qhuav Ntxim xwb! Txhob tos lawm mog! I am so proud of this lady! Keep it up lady, don’t give in!
Cheating is the ultimate betrayal. Please understand that!
Nrog koj tus pojniam tus siab tshaj, kuv los yog ib tus ntxhais tsis muaj niam. Kuv yeej tsuas nyob uas neej nrog kuv cov menyuam lawv thiab xwb, tus siab txaus lawm txiv neej mas thiaj paub lim hiam tshaj plaws lis?
This is 2022, if you can't do your own wedding don't marry and put the burden on someone else. Hmong people these days still live in 1975. Plus her bros should have paid them back. They're not man enough and ruin their sister's marriage.
To the sister in this story, stand your ground and don't take your cheating ex husband back. You deserve more, love yourself and your children. You don't need a man to complete your life. Best wishes to you.
Koj zaj db neeg tu sipab heev li o😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Nrog koj tu siab vim koj xa tau yuav kev lawm os tu nu...
tus txiv tsev aw lig rau koj lawm lau
Ntawm kuv tus kheej yog koj tus poj niam: kuv hlub koj thiab koj tsev neeg tag kuv lub siab. Kuv muab lawv tso ua ntej tab sis thaum hais txog kuv tsev neeg koj cem kuv. Koj thuam kuv. Txog thaum koj tau kev tws koj mam xam muaj kuv ces lig dhau…pab tsis tau. Koj muab kuv siab ntsws hlawv kub nhyiag tag, kuv txais tos tsis tau koj rov qab lawm. Tus dej tsuas muaj ntws mus xwb, tsis muaj ntws rov.
Thaum us tu siab lawm tsis muaj kev sib lhub lawm tsis xav pw ua ke lawm pw los tsis zoo dab tsi
When you marry someone, you don't just marry that person, you married into the whole family. You knew your wife' situation from the beginning. Why did you make her choose between you and her family? If you had tried harder, she could have come back to you. You passed the point of no return when you cheated on her. Everything is forgivable, but not marital affair, its the ultimately betrayal. Move on and learn from this lesson.
@@souperlao3949 I don't think understand his point or understand how to a good hmong man or house wife. Tus txiv hlub tus poj niamtsev neeg li nws tsev neeg hos tus poj niam hlub tus txiv tsev neeg li nws tsev thiaj li.
Marry the whole family 😂 naw your marry your spouse only lol
Koj kuj yog ib tug txiv neej uas siab phem tsis txawj hlub neeg li
Koj ces twb tss tau txaus koj txoj kev qia qub os mog tss tas yuav los thov kav tsij mus raws koj txoj hmoo koj ntsaw os mog
Vim koj lub siab me ne
Ua cas zaj neej neeg no yuav mus raws nkaus yus lub neej ua luaj li os
Qub neeg ceg qub siab swb qhov koj poj niam ua no yeej yog lawm
Koj yog ib tug txiv neej coj lub siab ti zog lawm thiaj zoo li no mas kab tsij rov mus ua dev pliaj dev phlu zov saib nws puas rov los nrog koj nyob dua lawm mog
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Kuv tsis totaub tias ua cas peb cov txiv neej hmoob es peb lub neej zoo, peb zoo nraug, kwvtij neejtsa hwm yog peb tus pojniam xwb tiamsis thaum peb muaj meejmom tuaj ces peb tsimtxom peb tus niamtsev li koj. Chim no ces tsuas tau lub khuvxim lawm xwb os phoojywg.
Once he cheat, he will always cheat. He only want her back because he need a place to stay. I hope she does not take him back.
Koj lub neej plam vim koj tus kheej xwb tsi tim poj niam nawb
2 late Mr. Leave her alone she needs peace in her life. How dare of you. She's an independent woman she'll survive and stand tall.
Peb ua neeg nyb ce tib neej lub siab yeej pheem thb zoo si txuam peb daw ma
Thov tej niam tej txiv sib zam txim. Ua siab ncaj ncees. Txhob cia niam thiab txiv tuag g muaj ntxa.!!! Zaj no ua tau kua muag poob!!!!
Failure of the Hmong men in this women life. I love this lady she reminds me of myself, and what my siblings and I have endured… but my husband loves my siblings more than me and I couldn’t ask for more. Thank you for this story for I will love my husband more and be grateful that he is not like you.
When your parents are failures, as siblings you have each other only. If you think she shouldn’t be upset then you are still wrong. What her brothers said to you is correct, bc you weren’t able to love them or her.
Cas tus neej hmoob no yuav siab me2 ua luaj koj poj niam muaj kev zoo ua luaj muaj kev txawj ntse khwv nyiaj pab tus txiv zoo npaum no ces tus txiv neej hmoob no yuav siab me2 ua luaj li koj tus poj niam no ntse dua koj lawm koj yuav tau yoog nws nws thiaj pab tau koj.
Tus txiv tsev ntawm zaj neej no nas koj zj lus mas txaus luag kawg Yom thaum peb cov poj niam hais hais nej cov txiv ces peb twb tseem khib khib nej thiab hlub hlub nej hos thaum peb tsi hais tsi khib lawm ces koj twb yuav tsi tau chaws nyob los mas thiab thaum peb hais nej es nej cem peb tias peb phem cuag dab ntxaug thiab Phim nyum yis thiab ntxwg nyoog nas peb yeej tus siab txaus lawm Cia zam nej kev xwb ua Cas hos mus tsi Tom thawj mas
Yog lawm laud thaum no mam xav tau ces rau yus lawm os me nus aw
Some people think it’s so easy! Just because you have a good spouse doesn’t mean all spouse are like yours! Remember not everyone think like you! Not everyone is nice and kind like you and not everyone will love you back! Even if you marry a black, white, brown, or Asian spouse, not everyone is nice and kind!
Very good story. Love it.
Bother she never love u from the beginning. She used you to save her from her darkist days. She moved on, u should 2. Love your kids, keep in touch with them. Better you go find a new on, there's a lot of good women out there. Good luck.
Koj yog ib tug neeg siab me thiab tsis muaj kev hlub tsis tau taub koj tus poj niam koj T hiaj plan nws
Here is what’s wrong with this situation: The wife should know that she came from a broken home and her husband is her life/belonging(kev cia siab), she should consider his opinion and not cross that boundary and though her brothers cannot afford a wife financially they need to find work and marry when they can afford it, don’t burden anyone. This will not implicate both relationship.
I see you fought very hard in the beginning for such a worthy person and later on you fell short and tired to keep working for the best life. Thaum lub neej twb zoo2 lawm es yus tsis tuav khov kho os... Tam sim no pab tsis tau... nyob ntawm koj tus zoo niam tsev txiav txim lawm xwb os. You will have to work even harder to get her now... lesson learned.
If you love her, let her be. She's been wounded and scar too many time that is making her tough and strong. She don't need you anymore. Glad she decided to love herself. You can still love your kids from a distance. Your wife deserves peace and happiness
Koj mas yog ib tug txiv neej siab me qia dub dhau leej twg thiaj xav rov qab los yuav koj ma.
You don’t deserve someone like your wife. You told her kom txhob cia neb cov me nyuam kom zoo li nws but you only cia koj cov me nyuam zoo li ntawd. Your wife didn’t, she still there for your kids. What you did wasn’t a mistake, it was a choice you made. Don’t use your kindness in the past on her. She doesn’t owed you anything, she’s already repay you back with her kindness to you and your family. I hope she doesn’t take you back, if you really loved her, you would never cheat on her.
thov kom koj tus poj niam tsis txhob txais koj mus ntxiv lawm nws ua tau zoo lawm kav tsij nyob koj txoj niag kev qia dub thiab cuaj khaum es puag koj li nyiaj pw nyob nrog koj li nyiaj xwb os
I never understand why hmg men/boys are always wait for someone to pay for their bride...
Uncle, fight tooth and nails for her back. No one is going to love your kids like you. Even if your wife refuses to take you back, give everything to her and your kids. In 20 years, you won't regret it. Screw the haters. You messed up bad but you have the rest of your life to make it up to her and the kids.
Doesn’t sound like he had anything left to give her except his 1 npis 2 kis. 😂
Me nus aw tu222222 siab heev lawm nw tsi los lawm mog koj ua ib siab os mog
Yog kuv lo shev tsi lo lawm os vim tu222 siab txau lawm os .
Koj tu poj niam nws yeej ntse tshaj koj hos vim nws raug kev txom nyem txaus lawm ces thiaj ntse ntag
Why doesn’t this girl work while in college? We all had to support ourselves while attending college.
Brother telling the story, you need to keep moving forward and let the ex-wife find someone who truly loves her since you couldn't!!!
Hmong men! The Moral/lesson to this story is to be a man and Don't go crawling back because it makes you weak and pathetic in her eyes. You need to man up and move on. Leave her alone and accept it. If not, she and the world will just laugh at you.
Vim tus txiv tsev siab me thiaj tu siab yuav tsis muaj hnub tig tau rov qab lawm.
Yog kawg tu me txiv tsev aw
Tseem yog zoo li ko es nej cov niag txiv neej cem222 peb npaum li ca lo lam uv nyob uv nyob lo ma
It goes both ways. I think it’s a lesson learn from both sides. Everyone have their own perspective and both should learn to forgive and move on. If you hold onto anger and resentment then you can’t move on. The sister should also learn that you can only do so much for your family and his family. We need boundaries but unfortunately sometimes through life trauma we lose sight of boundaries and relationships and forgiveness.
No No pab tsis tau koj lawm lau cov niag siab me me hlub tsis tau neej tsa li koj ces pab tsis tau
I think it's too late for you to get her back. She's been through enough and all those pain has made her strong and independent. Move on. You did this to yourself.
Thov kom nwg ua sab tawv txhob rov lug lawm. Zoo sab ib tug nug tsis yuam nwg rov qaab vim Yog le ob tug has. Koj rov qaab lug thov vim koj kev twg koj yeej tsis hlub nwg tag. Thaum ua tshoob koj twb muab nyaj faib nwg xum yoo mov es ob tug nug muaj neej. Cov miv nyuas yuav tsis txom nyem le puab cov nug muag lawm vim twb muaj nwg Nyob tsuaj ntseeg khov Kho nrug ob tug nug lug tsaa yim. Tej zag koj Yog tug tsis muaj chaw Nyob es txha rov qaab thov. Moog le koj ntshaw mog.
The world is empty without your sweetheart. You really miss her, thinking of her constantly, you know now you love her, and she is the most precious person in this world for you. Everyday it hurts and your tear will continue to fall. You left many scars in her life. It can never be erase. She already moved on. It will be a miracle if she comes back to you.