So in her mind they were on a split and she was hoping it would bring him back to her… but he really used that time to rekindle with Ashanti and work things out. Well ladies, this is an important lesson for us all… men will always love who they love and we can never do anything to stop or change it.
Nelly replied to that post in July 2021, the versus hug happened in September 2021, then shantel went for this interview in December 2021….i think the thought of Nelly and Ashanti getting back together made her do this interview because some months before this interview Nelly made it clear on shade room that they had broken up in 2019 not 2021….its very embarrassing how she granted this interview and was saying otherwise that they were on break…women should just place value ok ourselves and accept that not every man will be for us.
He is a grown man he could of broken off with her years ago ! No one can force a man to be in a relationship and no kids !! Come on !! 😂😂😂 I love Ashanti and Nelly together but Shantel had him for 7 years because he wanted to be with her at that time
@Blahblahblah-b2d well according to nelly it was 5 not 7, he accommodated her for the extra 2 to sort herself out, during that 2 he was out there doing him and had a baby with someone else, is it not convenient that she was able to move out right after she got the settlement from Floyd?...,Nelly was covering her up, he covered her up until she could get some reasonable money from floyd and they said goodbye to each other, I'm sorry but that girl was pitiful, she had no backbone, she became nelly's responsibility because of the way the whole Floyd drama panned out in the public, since Floyd was portrayed to be the devil and nelly her savior he had to carry on, he couldn't have dogged her out easily, she was always crying during nellyville that nelly shouldn't betray her like Floyd, if she could cry infront of camera we can only imagine what was going on behind the scenes, he got stuck and I'm glad it happend that way, his fooling was too much, he had to learn some sense.
If kids aren’t involved, there’s no reason to keep holding on to an ex. Some women stop their own future by putting their life on pause for someone that can’t get it right. Life is too short to wait on anybody to get it right. If we can’t grow together then we must grow apart. An ex is an ex for reason. As long as some women hold on to the past that means God can’t bring you to your future. Old keys won’t unlock new doors. 🤷🏽♀️
I agree with you 10000%. God can’t send the right man. Entertaining the past hurts your present and future. I really don’t need to be friends with an ex kids or not.
“ If that boy don’t love you by now, he will never ever never ever love you, he will never ever never ever love you” Ciara 🎵🎤 Ladies, we gotta do better coz we deserve better 🤌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽
She is never going to get the best relationship that God has for her still holding on to Nelly. She is talking ridiculous. Just let it go, especially if his plan is not to marry her
She sued Floyd Mayweather, claiming he was abusive toward her. Allegedly, she was pregnant with Floyd's child, and she aborted the pregnancy, and Floyd broke it off with her.
The relationship between Nelly and Ms. Jackson was rushed right after his split with Ashanti. Ashanti was supposed to benon Nellyville, not Ms Jackson, but they broke up. It was like they were a couple first, then friends. With Ashanti, they took time to be great friends first then a couple. There were external factors, young, and budding careers at the time. Right person, wrong time. Now, right person, right time.
They jumped on the relationship for the show..lol..Nelly needed someone to fill in since Ashanti was out, basically that whole relationship was for show
Nelly been begging for Ashanti to come back when she left his cheating ass. Ashanti has been traveling all around the country filling up stadiums. Shanti better be glad Ashanti was working on healing. because at anytime of the day if Ashanti would have called Nelly, he would have left Shantel in a heart beat
He show did all most knot fat joe down running over there and she need to look at the fight him and her was at and she talking about break from what school😂😂😂
Girl No. NELLY must've put her on hold while he's messing around with other women. That's what Famous men do and the women hold on to that until he's ready to play with them again.
Actually they was saying that Nelly had been wanting to get back with Ashanti a long time ago but he was afraid Fat Joe spilled the beans Nelly called him wanting to know was Ashanti going to be at the versus cuz he wanted In
I think she’s giving him space to miss her but she clearly still wants to be with him. And, to expect a new man in a new relationship to be understanding of her need to be in constant communication with her ex is a red flag. They do not share children together. Sounds like she’s hoping to stick around thinking he will give her a ring but that could be a gamble.
Thank you Jordan cuz I totally agree that is a red flag ain't no man going to deal with that like constant dealing with your ex and then a celebrity and you know what I'm saying so I'm with you that's about to BS. Also you a cutie Susan 😍
@@charlesjohnson2475 I strongly suggest she doesn’t date until she gets closure on the Nelly situation because it’s just not fair to have those kinds of expectations dating someone new. SMH! And THANK YOU! Much appreciated! 💕
@@mjluv1234 yup! I was thinking that throughout her whole conversation😬. She’s waiting on a ring 💍 😩! She gave him all that kitty cat lol for 7yrs and he never proposed smh 🤦🏾♀️. Poor girl…
I guess I’m the only one who feels it’s weird and awkward to still have close connections with an ex like that in a new relationship…that’s a no for me 🙅🏾♀️ you can be friendly/cordial without staying best friends with them IF it ended on decent terms.
Since they didn't end on "bad terms," and she is working to build her brand, she has no reason or room to come on national tv bashing people or trying to paint Nelly in a bad light. Focus on herself and her business, and she'll do great!
You lose em how you get him. I’ll never forget when she went out to dinner with Ashanti, congratulating that woman on her album, and then started dating Nelly right afterwards.
@@sanacole1543 yes lol back when Ashanti Braveheart album came out she was chilling with Ashanti and Nelly’s assistant if you Google miss Jackson hangs out with Ashanti an article comes up back dated from 2014. He started dating miss Jackson that same year. crazy and messy smh.
When she did this show, Nelly had already made contact with Ashanti (the infamous Versuz hug). She was trying to send a message to him but instead Nelly replied to a post that they broke up in 2019. She was trying to block him from going after Ashanti. LOL
Nelly replied to that post in July 2021, the versus hug happened in September 2021, then shantel went for this interview in December 2021….i think the thought of Nelly and Ashanti getting back together made her do this interview because some months before this interview Nelly made it clear on shade room that they had broken up in 2019 not 2021….its very embarrassing how she granted this interview and was saying otherwise that they were on break…women should just place value ok ourselves and accept that not every man will be for us.
The studio had chrismas deco so yea i doubt this interview was before September where the versus happened, no one mount a christmas tree in September so it was definitely around the christmas holidays.
I think with age comes a certain level of… in my opinion… wanting to settle down ! She is 37 & Nelly is 47… if we’ve been dating for 5+ years… there should be a simply conversation within that time frame on what we want ! I don’t have time to be wasting my years cuz I’m not getting any younger for you to find out if u want to be with me or be monogamous or have a family or not ! Save me the heartache and the broken clock
It should not take that long to know if that person is the one for you. I'm saying this with experience of being in a 7 year relationship that didn't work out. It takes two mature individuals wanting the same thing that's on the same page. I met my forever and it didn't even take a year for us to know that we are the one for each other.
That’s the worst response to give omg. If you’re done with him, be DONE. Open up to the prospect of someone new and better. If you still want him back, you need to really go ghost on him and not proclaim your love on national television because he will not feel the consequences of breaking up with you. It looks thirsty. Be happy and live your life without worrying about who left.
My ex-husband and I still have a relationship I have Bible study with his wife now and I love her and I am so happy for him to have found someone that loves him and cares for him
Nelly wanted Ashanti for a long time but Ashanti was busy doing her thing. A part of me feels like Ashanti shouldn't have taken him back but then love is something you can't fight. If she is happy then I am good.
I’ll never understand, if he was so instrumental in her business and their family still love one another and blah blah blah. Egg take a break. She’s lying to save face. Girl, she’s still holding on for dear life. Nelly ain’t checking on you. 7 years together and no marriage. Please.
The fact that she was in her 30s and in that relationship for so long & they never were married or had kids, it’s extremely sad & pathetic to witness. God has so many blessings in store for us if we would just LET GO of what we think we want. She literally is going to base her future relationships on if they can accept her ex. She’s given him too much power over her smh. At this point, it’ll be difficult for her to start having kids. Remaining involved with an ex and you had no kids, Will only hold you back. Do better.
You're so right. Its extremely pathetic to witness. I was thinking the exact same thing. How sad. In the meantime Nelly is out here living his best life.
Chantel, it’s a no for me. You trying to bring your ex that you were with for 7 years into our new relationship as your “buddy” now is not happening. And to say the new mate should just be “secure” 🙄 Ok, as a woman would you have been secure if Nelly told you that his ex of many years Ashanti was still his friend and would be in his life forever? I doubt that. We should not be putting that kind of unfair pressure on a new mate. That’s just uncomfortable.
That time she didn’t bring Floyd whom she was with for 8years in her relationship and engaged to, when she got together with Nelly, but another man must accept Nelly as her friend…… Nelly must be special to her or something😅
I would believe her if she just said she was hoping to get the ring in those 7 years and now she is giving him time to miss her enough to finally put a ring on it. Hopefully this time apart will help her see she deserves better and when better comes along she'll be like Nelly who? Ladies, let's do better. This type of situation only causes a lot of heartache, confusion and low self esteem.
I agree she still waiting for him too comeback. She calls his mother for what talk about. She has one foot in just in case. Nelly wants her back. I guarantee she will take him back.
Nelly didn't have enough money to hold her down. She knows she gotta hurry and be available for the super rich before she gets too old. I know cuz I use to be that chick.
This woman just proved it doesn’t normally work to keep your ex in your life because later in the interview she revealed that she’s still hopeful her and Nelly will reconcile
Nelly left Ashanti and months later was in a whole relationship with Shantel. He left Shantel in 2021 and reconnected with Ashanti that same year. They reconnected in July 2021 at verzus Fat Joe vs JaRule. They just know made their relationship public but they've been together. Nelly has commitment issues and bouces from one relationdhip to the next. It won't last with Ashanti. He cheated on Ashanti and now on Shantel. He's a serial dater that can't be single. I feel bad for women babying and loving a man that played you and you give him another chance to do it again. Seems like 7 years is the cheating mark for him. 2021 he reconnected with Ashanti, so 2028 we will hear cheating rumors and months later he will be in another public relationship. I follow patterns of past behavior.
She looks like a beautiful woman in the picture they posted. But wow... I'm sorry her makeup/ lighting be crazy here. The producers should have told her that she looks wild
I had reunited with my high school sweetheart and crush after 43 years and he knew right then and then that he wanted to marry me he was the same age as Nelly at that time. When a man knows he knows he doesn’t flip flop like a woman does. Nelly is financially stable, older, but emotionally he’s not there with Chantal. Move on.
I learned that from watching my family and friends wait for so long. A man knows when he want a to marry you and a female knows too. After a year, if you're not taking about marriage. This ain't it
@@charlisena i agree within a year or 2 you know if you can live with or without that person if i feel as tho i can live without you than we good love🤷
I believe this as well because Nelly said they broke up in 2019 and they were roommates for 2 years (until 2021). He waited until she was on her feet and could take care of herself before the public became aware of the breakup.
@@iokahhunter194If you can find that interview when Big Tigger asked about the Ashanti hug, the long version Big Tigger ask him about Shantel after. That’s when he said the was more like roommates.
This question felt like a set up for Shantel 😩 she was nervous on top of being put on the spot by being asked specific questions outside of the original topic.
It doesn't matter how many years you always get your karma.. look how she was all laughing and smiling with Ashanti when her and Nelly were together, ...then next thing you know she's dating him. Girl Bye.. he's done with you.
Nelly was atleast 3 years single after Ashanti. And Ashanti got dragged her self for 10 years no ring nothing. Shantel was with Mayweather..for years. But he was controlled her. Nelly is no prize he's ghetto from st louis
@@Toni-id2pvIf him and Ashanti broke up for real in 2014, and they started dating in 2014 because she was on his show that came out that year… when did the 3 years happen?🤔😂
Girl this sounds so sad. You have an opportunity on a daytime talk show and you come and tell all your business 🤣 she could’ve kept it cute and been a little more discreet sheesh I feel bad for her she’s still in love w him
Here's the real. Mr. Haynes money might not be long enough for her anymore. Oh well, on to the next. This woman makes real hard working women look bad.Ashanti was Nelly's better half. She is handling her business without relaying on someone else's fame and money. However, good luck to her and those gummy shoes
longterm relationships always bring life problems , personally never date for fun if you dont have intentions to marry . 7 years and the door is kept open hell no close it.
I think this interview was a gesture for Nelly’s attention. It came 2 months after Nelly stage hugged Ashanti. It was too much to handle so She used the media to send a message to Ashanti. But it back fire.
@@FortunateLadyAshanti said that was the first time they had seen each other since they parted ways, so how does this woman think Ashanti wanted Nelly? She should send the message to Nelly!
I don't know about taking a break, it's either we together or we breaking up, no taking a break. What if he be with someone else while on this break, is that acceptable. That's too much space & time for me, we either in it or we go our separate way....No breaks.
July 2021, she was on an interview on The Real and spoke about they were on a break/split. September 2021, the Verzuz happened. She says they were together for 7 years. Nelly said 5 years, ending in 2019. Ms. Jackson believes they had a chance to come back. That didn't happen. From the Verzuz, It appears Nelly was on a mission to get Ashanti back. Here we are! 💜🔥
So they broke up with the intentions of taking a break. However, if this break proves that they are better apart then they won’t get back together. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that. I’m sure if she finds the right person & they say they’re uncomfortable with her being friends with her ex, she’ll cut him off & realize that Nelly isn’t worth her losing someone who is better for her.
Queen Ashanti, put that respect. Because they have personality than Shantel doesn't make her boring need to get a life a*s "the prize" her recent live she is looking for a sugar daddy, go figure. You'll never hear Ashanti talk tht iesh all these years she snatched nelly from her. Karma is a B
@@Toni-id2pv mayweather engaged her for 4 years, if he wanted to marry her he would have….he didn’t want to, and Nelly also didn’t, she’s no prize, she had no name without mayweather and Nelly, she brings nothing to these men aside sex, she had no career when she met these men, they are high value men, they are the prize not her…a woman who has nothing to her name and get picked by rich men and waste her time for years can’t be the prize, if she was she would have left Nelly’s house after they broke up in 2019, but she stayed and still played as his girlfriend in the public eye because she had no money to get her own place, she had to wait for mayweather’s settlement before she could move out, this type of woman can’t be the prize for mayweather and Nelly….they didn’t wife her…now she’s back to the street.
@@Toni-id2pvWhat makes this prize an Ashanti ghetto? Ashanti is the woman with a successful career in both acting and music. This woman was and still is a professional groupie who lived with her ex because she had a place to live. Be for real!
What real man is gonna be cool with Nelly still being in her life whenever he wants smh she just wants to stay available for Nelly damn shame and Nelly was with Ashanti for 7yrs no ring then Chantel 7yrs no ring seems like he loves to play house until they get fed up and level up on him but those kind of guys always "seem" to look like the good guy but hes a time waister Chantel shouldve known better
When a relationship is over and you have healed then move on. Holding on to baggage will not allow you to move on and find your happiness. Now if you listen too what Shantel said when she was free to travel with Nelly he was good but when she started taking her business seriously the relationship started falling apart. So ladies when you are supporting your man/woman and they are doing well shouldn’t the same thing be happen when you need their support🤔🤔.
Very good point. That’s when Nelly shouldve stepped up and not let her slip away. Seems like he had no intention of marrying her neither. Shantel is doing right for following her dreams she’s found her own happiness. Hope she stays strong and learn her worth.
@@pinkstar9430 it's a lie. Nelly didn't want to commit to marriage. Nelly doesn't believe in marriage, he dated Ashanti for 10 years and it went nowhere. Shantel is desperate at this point. She needs to accept that he doesn't want her and needs to move on.
@@delmarfoTalk about eating your words! Ashanti was a young woman who was chasing a music career. She didn't want to get married then, but now that she had secured her career and finally came back to her he married her
This could work but not if your ex is saying we are on a break to see if comes full circle. No ma’am. That can only work if both of you are done done. What she said don’t sound like done
Wow, she spoke Nelly back into Ashanti's life.😂🤣He circled back to what his heart wanted. 😊 Nelly responded to a post that him and Shantel was together 5 years and it was two years after the breakup that he let the world know. I guess she's adding those 2 years to make it 7 years.🙄
Because it was during COVID & I heard while she was at his house he was spending time in Las Vegas, giving her time to get straightened & move. He has since sold that house & bought a home with Ashanti. I hope Ms. Jackson finds what she is looking for & stop throwing shades at Nelly & Ashanti. Just heal & move on.
@@LishaMccantsshe only wasted her time at the end of it all, never force a thing in life because what will be will be, if you try to insert yourself into situations you don't belong to you will be a fool at the end because it won't work.
And she talking about her and Nelly was friends no hell she was not she was Ashanti friend and play under her to get to Nelly lying B... That y she was betrayed by her A. .
After seeing Nelly lovey Dover with my lovely girl ashanti ,I just had to look up for these videos. I feel a bit sad for Ms Jackson,she was still hopeful. She should be heartbroken coz hey,who would want to see their ex move on and be happy like how Nelly is right with Ashanti. I love Ashanti so much,hope she stays with Nelly forever.
I try to end relationships with no bad terms and still have that respect & friendship because there is history there and dark times we shared from deaths to downfalls to growth. I always respect the new relationships they form and often I end up loving their partner.
I completely disagree with her saying that if she dates someone else, they will have to understand the "bond or friendship " between her and Nelly. No, ma'am, they do not. There were no children as a result of your relationship with Nelly. That is what would be understandable to a certain point. It's foolish to even have that expectation.
With all due respect if she’s been with him for years and they’re still not married or have any kids. She should really consider leaving. There are men out there that will commit.
@@MayISpeak All in all, she wasn't married material even Floyd Mayweather attempted to vet her for marriage, so she's the common denominator to failed relationships with high value men.
Interpreted: The other guy is going to have to accept I may still sleep with him every now and then is basically what she's saying! I mean what is there to talk about?? # Just being real
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It Sounds like Shantel Jackson Trying to Convince herself that it’s a Break. She Knows Deep in her Heart that it’s Truly a Breakup.
So in her mind they were on a split and she was hoping it would bring him back to her… but he really used that time to rekindle with Ashanti and work things out. Well ladies, this is an important lesson for us all… men will always love who they love and we can never do anything to stop or change it.
So true. He never got over Ashanti
Facts❤
Yep 💯
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I totally agree
Sorry, Ms. Jackson. My Girl Ashanti is back for good.
Exactly
Girl look at Cassie, move on and find someone who can give you what you want
Dang look at this
I know that’s right!
That part!! ✋😭
Update: 2 years after this interview, Nelly is back with Ashanti.
😂😂😂👅👅
Exactly
Exactly 💯
And that’s good?
@@Handleisnotavailable1he happy so yes
Nelly replied to that post in July 2021, the versus hug happened in September 2021, then shantel went for this interview in December 2021….i think the thought of Nelly and Ashanti getting back together made her do this interview because some months before this interview Nelly made it clear on shade room that they had broken up in 2019 not 2021….its very embarrassing how she granted this interview and was saying otherwise that they were on break…women should just place value ok ourselves and accept that not every man will be for us.
💯 the truth
She went on a break and Nelly went on a break up!😂 She gave him the open door he’s been wanting so he could reconcile with Ashanti.
Facts his relationship with her always seemed so forced. His true love is and always been Ashanti!
Baby a break yeah right. That man said let me get my ass home with Ashanti lol.
He is a grown man he could of broken off with her years ago ! No one can force a man to be in a relationship and no kids !! Come on !! 😂😂😂 I love Ashanti and Nelly together but Shantel had him for 7 years because he wanted to be with her at that time
@Blahblahblah-b2d well according to nelly it was 5 not 7, he accommodated her for the extra 2 to sort herself out, during that 2 he was out there doing him and had a baby with someone else, is it not convenient that she was able to move out right after she got the settlement from Floyd?...,Nelly was covering her up, he covered her up until she could get some reasonable money from floyd and they said goodbye to each other, I'm sorry but that girl was pitiful, she had no backbone, she became nelly's responsibility because of the way the whole Floyd drama panned out in the public, since Floyd was portrayed to be the devil and nelly her savior he had to carry on, he couldn't have dogged her out easily, she was always crying during nellyville that nelly shouldn't betray her like Floyd, if she could cry infront of camera we can only imagine what was going on behind the scenes, he got stuck and I'm glad it happend that way, his fooling was too much, he had to learn some sense.
@ well 5 or 7 or 3 he was there because he wanted to !!
If kids aren’t involved, there’s no reason to keep holding on to an ex. Some women stop their own future by putting their life on pause for someone that can’t get it right. Life is too short to wait on anybody to get it right. If we can’t grow together then we must grow apart. An ex is an ex for reason. As long as some women hold on to the past that means God can’t bring you to your future. Old keys won’t unlock new doors. 🤷🏽♀️
I agree with you 10000%. God can’t send the right man. Entertaining the past hurts your present and future. I really don’t need to be friends with an ex kids or not.
She still in love
Preach
This woman’s future came from the guys she’s dating..
U so right. I just wasted 6 years. No kids.
If distance makes you grow apart then the relationship wasn't strong enough to begin with. Nor is it meant to be.
Nelly stated the distance apart from Ashanti made him realize he wanted to try again.
@@berniceturner3596😂😂😂😂
@@berniceturner3596yes, he said it gave him clarity to understand where she was coming from all those while….🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
“ If that boy don’t love you by now, he will never ever never ever love you, he will never ever never ever love you” Ciara 🎵🎤 Ladies, we gotta do better coz we deserve better 🤌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽
Ikdr
If u sleep with him as a girlfriend dats wat u always will be. Keep your legs close until he put a ring on it.
Yesss I love that song 😂
No you ladies don't
You were right
That was the longest explanation to “HE CHEATED”
Right!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂
I was thinking the same thing. 😭
Facts!
Yes, I was thinking THE SAME THING! The "we grew apart while he was on the road blah blah blah" = HE CHEATED.
Lol
She is never going to get the best relationship that God has for her still holding on to Nelly. She is talking ridiculous. Just let it go, especially if his plan is not to marry her
She sued Floyd Mayweather, claiming he was abusive toward her. Allegedly, she was pregnant with Floyd's child, and she aborted the pregnancy, and Floyd broke it off with her.
Say it louder and tag her too
@@PHILLIPS8822
Wow
... is Miss Jackson wearing a filter?😯 She looks like a hologram.
I thinl there might be some shimmer in her makeup.
Lol I was looking for this comment 😂 every one else looks more natural
@@enchantingfelzx8490 it looks so ridiculous
Nah I think it’s really over the top lighting.
Has to be the ring light setting and light in the room clashing with her sweater, makeup and wall
Fast forward to 2024. Nelly is back with Ashanti and she is expecting her first child with him !!!!’ Yikes 😬
Let's not forget they got married December 27th...Mr & Mrs Haynes
The relationship between Nelly and Ms. Jackson was rushed right after his split with Ashanti. Ashanti was supposed to benon Nellyville, not Ms Jackson, but they broke up. It was like they were a couple first, then friends. With Ashanti, they took time to be great friends first then a couple. There were external factors, young, and budding careers at the time. Right person, wrong time. Now, right person, right time.
They jumped on the relationship for the show..lol..Nelly needed someone to fill in since Ashanti was out, basically that whole relationship was for show
@@FortunateLadySomeone who knows something lol
@@FortunateLady💯
Nelly always love Ashanti even when he was with Miss Jackson
Nelly been begging for Ashanti to come back when she left his cheating ass. Ashanti has been traveling all around the country filling up stadiums. Shanti better be glad Ashanti was working on healing. because at anytime of the day if Ashanti would have called Nelly, he would have left Shantel in a heart beat
@@Katherine-67011 BINGO
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Well Nelly will not be going back to her, he is back with Ashanti!
U better said and they Happy then ever
It sounds like she's putting her life on hold for Nelly and possibly other suitors after they see this.
Omg,,,that's what I was thinking....YIKES
She embarrassed Nelly almost knocked down fat Joe to hug Ashanti
He show did all most knot fat joe down running over there and she need to look at the fight him and her was at and she talking about break from what school😂😂😂
Yeah they said he wanted her back for a long time
Nelly slid across the stage to get to Ashanti on a national platform
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@BelleaseNelly look like he was floating across the stage😂😂
Girl it's not a break. It's over. Period. Nelly is now married to Ashanti, and they are expecting their first child together.
Already!!
They are not married just having a baby
@@adraineheard943 they ARE Married And they already HAD the baby 😅
@adraineheard943 where have you been ma?..😂..they got married on 27th December 2023.
@@adraineheard943sorry, they are married!!
Girl No. NELLY must've put her on hold while he's messing around with other women. That's what Famous men do and the women hold on to that until he's ready to play with them again.
FACTS 💯
Actually they was saying that Nelly had been wanting to get back with Ashanti a long time ago but he was afraid
Fat Joe spilled the beans Nelly called him wanting to know was Ashanti going to be at the versus cuz he wanted
In
Love how the real make girl chat subjects in connection to something the guest is going through or needs to address. Love the real fam❤️
I think she’s giving him space to miss her but she clearly still wants to be with him. And, to expect a new man in a new relationship to be understanding of her need to be in constant communication with her ex is a red flag. They do not share children together. Sounds like she’s hoping to stick around thinking he will give her a ring but that could be a gamble.
It's the ring 💍 move haha
Thank you Jordan cuz I totally agree that is a red flag ain't no man going to deal with that like constant dealing with your ex and then a celebrity and you know what I'm saying so I'm with you that's about to BS. Also you a cutie Susan 😍
@@charlesjohnson2475 I strongly suggest she doesn’t date until she gets closure on the Nelly situation because it’s just not fair to have those kinds of expectations dating someone new. SMH! And THANK YOU! Much appreciated! 💕
@@mjluv1234 yup! I was thinking that throughout her whole conversation😬. She’s waiting on a ring 💍 😩! She gave him all that kitty cat lol for 7yrs and he never proposed smh 🤦🏾♀️. Poor girl…
It's a stop sign.
I guess I’m the only one who feels it’s weird and awkward to still have close connections with an ex like that in a new relationship…that’s a no for me 🙅🏾♀️ you can be friendly/cordial without staying best friends with them IF it ended on decent terms.
Nope , you’re not the only one .
I feel u, dealing with ish now 😒
Especially if there are no kids involved...
I’m with ya
Since they didn't end on "bad terms," and she is working to build her brand, she has no reason or room to come on national tv bashing people or trying to paint Nelly in a bad light. Focus on herself and her business, and she'll do great!
You lose em how you get him. I’ll never forget when she went out to dinner with Ashanti, congratulating that woman on her album, and then started dating Nelly right afterwards.
Thank you lol I thought I was the only person that remembered that.
Omg...I never knew that...WHAT..😳
@@sanacole1543 yes lol back when Ashanti Braveheart album came out she was chilling with Ashanti and Nelly’s assistant if you Google miss Jackson hangs out with Ashanti an article comes up back dated from 2014. He started dating miss Jackson that same year. crazy and messy smh.
Yup, most people don't know this.
Oh no, I didn’t know that😳
When she did this show, Nelly had already made contact with Ashanti (the infamous Versuz hug). She was trying to send a message to him but instead Nelly replied to a post that they broke up in 2019. She was trying to block him from going after Ashanti. LOL
Nelly replied to that post in July 2021, the versus hug happened in September 2021, then shantel went for this interview in December 2021….i think the thought of Nelly and Ashanti getting back together made her do this interview because some months before this interview Nelly made it clear on shade room that they had broken up in 2019 not 2021….its very embarrassing how she granted this interview and was saying otherwise that they were on break…women should just place value ok ourselves and accept that not every man will be for us.
@@FortunateLady these are pre taped I believe
@@FortunateLadyNelly made it clear because he planned on getting back Ashanti so he let the world know
The studio had chrismas deco so yea i doubt this interview was before September where the versus happened, no one mount a christmas tree in September so it was definitely around the christmas holidays.
I think with age comes a certain level of… in my opinion… wanting to settle down ! She is 37 & Nelly is 47… if we’ve been dating for 5+ years… there should be a simply conversation within that time frame on what we want ! I don’t have time to be wasting my years cuz I’m not getting any younger for you to find out if u want to be with me or be monogamous or have a family or not ! Save me the heartache and the broken clock
Bro it took 7 years from her in the thirties without marriage and kids. That’s a hard price to pay
It should not take that long to know if that person is the one for you. I'm saying this with experience of being in a 7 year relationship that didn't work out. It takes two mature individuals wanting the same thing that's on the same page. I met my forever and it didn't even take a year for us to know that we are the one for each other.
Great answer.
That’s the worst response to give omg. If you’re done with him, be DONE. Open up to the prospect of someone new and better. If you still want him back, you need to really go ghost on him and not proclaim your love on national television because he will not feel the consequences of breaking up with you. It looks thirsty. Be happy and live your life without worrying about who left.
Very hard to get better than nelly
He still has her
@@sharabrooke4911
Ashanti has him😂
💯
My ex-husband and I still have a relationship I have Bible study with his wife now and I love her and I am so happy for him to have found someone that loves him and cares for him
Did you find someone too?? Are you happy 😊
That’s maturity ♥️
Mischief 😂😅🤣
That's so kind, thoughtful, respectful and considerate. I hope you have or will find someone as well that you are happy with.
Hallelujah 😀
Nelly wanted Ashanti for a long time but Ashanti was busy doing her thing. A part of me feels like Ashanti shouldn't have taken him back but then love is something you can't fight. If she is happy then I am good.
I’ll never understand, if he was so instrumental in her business and their family still love one another and blah blah blah. Egg take a break. She’s lying to save face. Girl, she’s still holding on for dear life. Nelly ain’t checking on you. 7 years together and no marriage. Please.
Ouch...you think he cheated while on the road?? I hate when people say "we grew apart"...a cover up for a really bad reason why they broke up
Nelly clarified that they only dated for 5 years not 7
“Holding on for dear life” 😂🤣😂🤣
The fact that she was in her 30s and in that relationship for so long & they never were married or had kids, it’s extremely sad & pathetic to witness. God has so many blessings in store for us if we would just LET GO of what we think we want.
She literally is going to base her future relationships on if they can accept her ex. She’s given him too much power over her smh. At this point, it’ll be difficult for her to start having kids. Remaining involved with an ex and you had no kids, Will only hold you back. Do better.
She had a abortion when she was carrying twins for Floyd mayweather.. this woman is beyond dumb her and business don’t go together..
You're so right. Its extremely pathetic to witness. I was thinking the exact same thing. How sad. In the meantime Nelly is out here living his best life.
Maybe she can't have kids
She still wants him...she sounds ridiculous 🙄. Now Nelly 's moved on and I haven't heard him say whoever he dates must accept Shantell.# smh.
My boo Ashanti he is going to marry Ashanti 🙏🏿❤️
Chantel, it’s a no for me. You trying to bring your ex that you were with for 7 years into our new relationship as your “buddy” now is not happening. And to say the new mate should just be “secure” 🙄 Ok, as a woman would you have been secure if Nelly told you that his ex of many years Ashanti was still his friend and would be in his life forever? I doubt that. We should not be putting that kind of unfair pressure on a new mate. That’s just uncomfortable.
U better said girl
That time she didn’t bring Floyd whom she was with for 8years in her relationship and engaged to, when she got together with Nelly, but another man must accept Nelly as her friend…… Nelly must be special to her or something😅
And Ashanti was with him first for like 10 years
@@Bellease😮really?
That break brought him back full circle with Ashanti, the one who he was really meant to be with.
😂😂🤣And did too full circle
I would believe her if she just said she was hoping to get the ring in those 7 years and now she is giving him time to miss her enough to finally put a ring on it. Hopefully this time apart will help her see she deserves better and when better comes along she'll be like Nelly who?
Ladies, let's do better. This type of situation only causes a lot of heartache, confusion and low self esteem.
Exactly
I agree she still waiting for him too comeback. She calls his mother for what talk about. She has one foot in just in case. Nelly wants her back. I guarantee she will take him back.
I could swear that she got the ring 💍
Nelly didn't have enough money to hold her down. She knows she gotta hurry and be available for the super rich before she gets too old. I know cuz I use to be that chick.
She took a break and Nelly went after his REAL EX, got her pregnant and secretly married her. It was a CLEAR BREAK for Nelly❤
Now seeing this interview but THE MINUTE HE AND ASHANTI WAS ON THE SAME STAGE NELLY MADE A BEEHIVE TOWARDS THAT GIRL SHANTEL MOVE ON GIRL MOVE ON😊
He almost knocked Joe, off the stage lmao
I am not going to be dating you while your ex is still on the side on a "break"
Right. That would make the other person a place holder.
So true! Who’s going for that? 🤷🏾♀️
This woman just proved it doesn’t normally work to keep your ex in your life because later in the interview she revealed that she’s still hopeful her and Nelly will reconcile
Exactly.
Chile he doing shows with Ms. Ashanti now. And she said she don't know if they gonna get back. 😴
Facts
I don't think that's going to happen he's back with Ashanti
Nelly left Ashanti and months later was in a whole relationship with Shantel. He left Shantel in 2021 and reconnected with Ashanti that same year. They reconnected in July 2021 at verzus Fat Joe vs JaRule. They just know made their relationship public but they've been together. Nelly has commitment issues and bouces from one relationdhip to the next. It won't last with Ashanti. He cheated on Ashanti and now on Shantel. He's a serial dater that can't be single. I feel bad for women babying and loving a man that played you and you give him another chance to do it again. Seems like 7 years is the cheating mark for him. 2021 he reconnected with Ashanti, so 2028 we will hear cheating rumors and months later he will be in another public relationship. I follow patterns of past behavior.
watching this after hearing about nelly and ashanti lol
What a long winded response and a boring segment 😴 🙄
He obviously CHEATED but she wanted to dance around it and not come right out and say it!
MY THOUGHTS EXACTLY
BOOORRING...NEXT
Someone should have told her she looks like a highlighter
Shantel ain’t playing she mentioned that business 10x lol
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lol
MOVE ON GIRL....
She looks like a beautiful woman in the picture they posted. But wow... I'm sorry her makeup/ lighting be crazy here. The producers should have told her that she looks wild
🤣😂👍
I had reunited with my high school sweetheart and crush after 43 years and he knew right then and then that he wanted to marry me he was the same age as Nelly at that time. When a man knows he knows he doesn’t flip flop like a woman does. Nelly is financially stable, older, but emotionally he’s not there with Chantal. Move on.
I learned that from watching my family and friends wait for so long. A man knows when he want a to marry you and a female knows too. After a year, if you're not taking about marriage. This ain't it
Exactly
Exactly, these are adult, middle aged men.
@@charlisena i agree within a year or 2 you know if you can live with or without that person if i feel as tho i can live without you than we good love🤷
He didn't marry Ashanti either after 10 years.
You can tell that Nelly has a good heart, regardless of everything I never heard any of the ex's speak anything bad about him
I believe this as well because Nelly said they broke up in 2019 and they were roommates for 2 years (until 2021). He waited until she was on her feet and could take care of herself before the public became aware of the breakup.
@@rnblover11 I didn't know this. Makes me love him even more . No wonder Ashanti decided to give him another chance.
@@rnblover11 can you direct me to the interview where he spoke about this
@@iokahhunter194 he commented on the shaderoom when they reported on their breakup he said together for 5 years broke up in 2019 roommates for 2.
@@iokahhunter194If you can find that interview when Big Tigger asked about the Ashanti hug, the long version Big Tigger ask him about Shantel after. That’s when he said the was more like roommates.
Well he over there happy asf with Ashanti! You definitely see the difference! Ashanti is his soulmate! He's happy with Ashanti!
I think he will get back with Ashanti watching them recently yeah they will be back together.
And they did bro😂... Ashanti and Nelly looking happy and background together ❤
@@isabelkasapo782 hell yeah she had his face on her purse at the vmas! It’s a wrap I hope she moved on and wasn’t waiting for him.
Well you called it
@@gabriellebrooks2065 I did didn’t I? lol I knew it
This question felt like a set up for Shantel 😩 she was nervous on top of being put on the spot by being asked specific questions outside of the original topic.
The show is called the REAL so expect to hear REAL questions even when it’s uncomfortable
She most likely already knew the question
I would have thought that if I hadn't heard that brand name so many times
The topic was if you would be friends with your Ex! Y'all make excuses for pathetic women! Yikes
It doesn't matter how many years you always get your karma.. look how she was all laughing and smiling with Ashanti when her and Nelly were together, ...then next thing you know she's dating him.
Girl Bye.. he's done with you.
Nelly was atleast 3 years single after Ashanti. And Ashanti got dragged her self for 10 years no ring nothing. Shantel was with Mayweather..for years. But he was controlled her. Nelly is no prize he's ghetto from st louis
@@Toni-id2pvIf him and Ashanti broke up for real in 2014, and they started dating in 2014 because she was on his show that came out that year… when did the 3 years happen?🤔😂
@@Toni-id2pv if not, shantel better move on nd let ashanti be happy with him, she was cool until the real one came, nelly's words not mine
NELLY is back with ASHANTI Now and VERY MUCH in ❤
So true ❤❤❤❤
❤
Yes he Is happier than
I ever seen him
Louder😂
She talk so slow like she not tryna say the wrong thing like get it out sis lol
I think that she just talk like that... some people like to take their time. It's not that deep :)
She is not media trained, and she is not quick on her thoughts. She wants to look good but then she sounds boring
Thank you Loni for asking the right questions !
FACTS. She cut straight to it.
TH-cam is messy for popping this up on my timeline lol
Girl this sounds so sad. You have an opportunity on a daytime talk show and you come and tell all your business 🤣 she could’ve kept it cute and been a little more discreet sheesh I feel bad for her she’s still in love w him
Here's the real. Mr. Haynes money might not be long enough for her anymore. Oh well, on to the next. This woman makes real hard working women look bad.Ashanti was Nelly's better half. She is handling her business without relaying on someone else's fame and money. However, good luck to her and those gummy shoes
😂😂😂😂😂
Hahaha
😂😂😂😂
longterm relationships always bring life problems , personally never date for fun if you dont have intentions to marry . 7 years and the door is kept open hell no close it.
100% agree
She sounds like an opportunist
She is!!!
Not a good one!
This is a mess 💀
The fact that she said that they going to have to accept... hell no LOL
Yup
Throwing shade at Ashanti
I think this interview was a gesture for Nelly’s attention. It came 2 months after Nelly stage hugged Ashanti. It was too much to handle so
She used the media to send a message to Ashanti. But it back fire.
This…and people don’t get it…she did this interview to send an indirect message to Ashanti
You know what you're absolutely right
@@FortunateLadyAshanti said that was the first time they had seen each other since they parted ways, so how does this woman think Ashanti wanted Nelly? She should send the message to Nelly!
Sorry Miss Jackson don't nobody new you date gotta accept your relationship with Nelly.
I don't know about taking a break, it's either we together or we breaking up, no taking a break. What if he be with someone else while on this break, is that acceptable.
That's too much space & time for me, we either in it or we go our separate way....No breaks.
Then they show up with a break baby like Dwayne and Gabby
@@ctgal9698 u nailed it. Rumor is he has a 3 yr old son
@@mskfh01💯
I believe Nelly and Ashanti were already back together at this time!!
July 2021, she was on an interview on The Real and spoke about they were on a break/split. September 2021, the Verzuz happened. She says they were together for 7 years. Nelly said 5 years, ending in 2019. Ms. Jackson believes they had a chance to come back. That didn't happen. From the Verzuz, It appears Nelly was on a mission to get Ashanti back. Here we are! 💜🔥
This show was in December 2021, the verzuz had already happened
@@FortunateLady Yes, you are right. In July of 2021, she responded to a public question if she was still with Nelly, by which she replied NO. Thanks!
@@gailtubbs2448 yes, that’s when Nelly corrected shaderoom that they actually broke up in 2019
She is in denial
Delusional
My ex husband is my worst enemy. He's evil and I'm so grateful he's out of my life.
Same here! When it’s over it’s over!
I hear you mine is the same with me.
Damn
😂
Girl life is short. Wait for no one. Nelly is never getting married. Move on.
@Lee Irby 🤣🙊
Unless you have a crystal ball you don't know that to be true you just speculating
@@QueenAnitaSoul1they are married
Getting married doesn’t mean he’s gonna stay or not cheat etc. so why are these females in the comments so hung up on a meaningless ring
Marriages end for whatever reason!
1:38 look how she LIT UP, she STILL IN LOVE ( wow, what a loser)
She’s talking in slow mo or what ???? 😂😂😂😂
So they broke up with the intentions of taking a break. However, if this break proves that they are better apart then they won’t get back together. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that. I’m sure if she finds the right person & they say they’re uncomfortable with her being friends with her ex, she’ll cut him off & realize that Nelly isn’t worth her losing someone who is better for her.
Right she’s only saying that now. But her feelings will change if she finds someone better and falls in love.
Agreed ..I think shantel is the prize. Shitnshe had Mayweather begging her to get married. Nelly is ghetto and childish. And so is Ashanti.
Queen Ashanti, put that respect. Because they have personality than Shantel doesn't make her boring need to get a life a*s "the prize" her recent live she is looking for a sugar daddy, go figure. You'll never hear Ashanti talk tht iesh all these years she snatched nelly from her. Karma is a B
@@Toni-id2pv mayweather engaged her for 4 years, if he wanted to marry her he would have….he didn’t want to, and Nelly also didn’t, she’s no prize, she had no name without mayweather and Nelly, she brings nothing to these men aside sex, she had no career when she met these men, they are high value men, they are the prize not her…a woman who has nothing to her name and get picked by rich men and waste her time for years can’t be the prize, if she was she would have left Nelly’s house after they broke up in 2019, but she stayed and still played as his girlfriend in the public eye because she had no money to get her own place, she had to wait for mayweather’s settlement before she could move out, this type of woman can’t be the prize for mayweather and Nelly….they didn’t wife her…now she’s back to the street.
@@Toni-id2pvWhat makes this prize an Ashanti ghetto? Ashanti is the woman with a successful career in both acting and music. This woman was and still is a professional groupie who lived with her ex because she had a place to live. Be for real!
What real man is gonna be cool with Nelly still being in her life whenever he wants smh she just wants to stay available for Nelly damn shame and Nelly was with Ashanti for 7yrs no ring then Chantel 7yrs no ring seems like he loves to play house until they get fed up and level up on him but those kind of guys always "seem" to look like the good guy but hes a time waister Chantel shouldve known better
For Ashanti it was 10years. Yeah the girl is lost but she still wanna enjoy all the perks of being with Nelly
Yes like Common. Total time wasters
@@haryel5058 dayyyyummmm 10 I thought it was like 7-8 but either way is just ridiculous
@@gierk27 Absolutely!
Wait so is Nelly still with Ashanti?
When a relationship is over and you have healed then move on. Holding on to baggage will not allow you to move on and find your happiness. Now if you listen too what Shantel said when she was free to travel with Nelly he was good but when she started taking her business seriously the relationship started falling apart. So ladies when you are supporting your man/woman and they are doing well shouldn’t the same thing be happen when you need their support🤔🤔.
Very good point. That’s when Nelly shouldve stepped up and not let her slip away. Seems like he had no intention of marrying her neither. Shantel is doing right for following her dreams she’s found her own happiness. Hope she stays strong and learn her worth.
@@pinkstar9430 it's a lie. Nelly didn't want to commit to marriage. Nelly doesn't believe in marriage, he dated Ashanti for 10 years and it went nowhere. Shantel is desperate at this point. She needs to accept that he doesn't want her and needs to move on.
@@delmarfo
That's a lie and you need to do your research because he do believe In marriage and he recently stated that
@@delmarfoTalk about eating your words! Ashanti was a young woman who was chasing a music career. She didn't want to get married then, but now that she had secured her career and finally came back to her he married her
Someone take away Shantels highlighter ...please
This could work but not if your ex is saying we are on a break to see if comes full circle. No ma’am. That can only work if both of you are done done. What she said don’t sound like done
💯
🤔 NO you’re on a BREAK…Nelly is not!!
😂😂😂😂😂
You called it. And she is still on a break
Is she reading her answers?? Goodness
Wow, she spoke Nelly back into Ashanti's life.😂🤣He circled back to what his heart wanted. 😊 Nelly responded to a post that him and Shantel was together 5 years and it was two years after the breakup that he let the world know. I guess she's adding those 2 years to make it 7 years.🙄
Smh she shoulda known
Because it was during COVID & I heard while she was at his house he was spending time in Las Vegas, giving her time to get straightened & move.
He has since sold that house & bought a home with Ashanti. I hope Ms. Jackson finds what she is looking for & stop throwing shades at Nelly & Ashanti. Just heal & move on.
What she get for going to Ashanti party just get with Nelly karma no joke
@@LishaMccantsshe only wasted her time at the end of it all, never force a thing in life because what will be will be, if you try to insert yourself into situations you don't belong to you will be a fool at the end because it won't work.
@@FortunateLady she not admitted that his mind was somewhere else lol
A break? Ashanti is back on the scene 🤷🏾♀️ It’s over‼️ He just told her it’s a “break” sounds like what Common told Tiffany Haddish.
U better said cause this time Ashanti ant going no where she in for the ride boo now put that on hold..😂😂😂
Hahaha
@@Bellease😂😂😂
And she talking about her and Nelly was friends no hell she was not she was Ashanti friend and play under her to get to Nelly lying B... That y she was betrayed by her A. .
@@Belleasetoo soon.💀
Why tf she look gold?
I really think it’s her lighting
😂😂😂😂😂
I bust out lol
@@allmodernmommy8883 😂😂😂😂
2 months later, Nelly posts a video of himself with another woman. There is your answer Shantel. This video is even more embarrassing now.
Basically, Nelly didn't want to commit to marriage and decided they needed 'time apart.' Everyone knows.
Nelly didn't commit because HE LOVED ASHANTI🤷🏽♀️🥰♥️☺️
She sounds like a complete fool. Girl..he is done..and has moved. She is absolutely pitiful.
Sure did he moved on alright right with his ex ashanti I know mrs Jackson was devastated
Be Nice 😂
Yikes! An ex is an ex for a reason. Time to move on.
Facts
After seeing Nelly lovey Dover with my lovely girl ashanti ,I just had to look up for these videos. I feel a bit sad for Ms Jackson,she was still hopeful. She should be heartbroken coz hey,who would want to see their ex move on and be happy like how Nelly is right with Ashanti. I love Ashanti so much,hope she stays with Nelly forever.
I try to end relationships with no bad terms and still have that respect & friendship because there is history there and dark times we shared from deaths to downfalls to growth. I always respect the new relationships they form and often I end up loving their partner.
Nelly and ashanti now married ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊😊
It's BS to let your girlfriend continue being friends with them ex.
Now baby that relationship was over he felt a point to clarify that y’all had been broken up since 2019 not 2021. Like really dude 🙄
I can't tell if it's her camera quality or her makeup just really looks wack lol
Chantel: We were together for 7 years.
Loni: THAT'S A LONG TIME!!!
😂🤣😂🤣 In Hollywood years maybe. Also, 7 years and no ring 💍???
That is a long time... and maybe they don't want to get married yet lol
Dude she was planing on having his babies
@@as19J01 She had been talking about getting married since 2017. She wanted it but he did not
Why she keep saying 7 when it was only 5
Together...it was nothing..
Waste your life waiting on someone to fulfill you if you can’t find someone that makes you happy keep moving.
Loni though😅😂🤣love how straight forward she is. Love her
That was a very short interview, I thought the host cut her off before she finished her sentence.
I completely disagree with her saying that if she dates someone else, they will have to understand the "bond or friendship " between her and Nelly. No, ma'am, they do not. There were no children as a result of your relationship with Nelly. That is what would be understandable to a certain point.
It's foolish to even have that expectation.
She just said anything because it didn't even make sense. She keeps going back to Mayweather. Nelly is not remotely fooling with her.
With all due respect if she’s been with him for years and they’re still not married or have any kids. She should really consider leaving. There are men out there that will commit.
Nelly have been vetting this woman for 6yrs. She now decided to be a businesswoman instead of wife. He knew what he was doing.
@@MayISpeak All in all, she wasn't married material even Floyd Mayweather attempted to vet her for marriage, so she's the common denominator to failed relationships with high value men.
Please
Interpreted: The other guy is going to have to accept I may still sleep with him every now and then is basically what she's saying! I mean what is there to talk about?? # Just being real