Attachments | Knowing when to detach, Friend breakups & Healing anxious attachment
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 มิ.ย. 2024
- A deep dive on attachments! My thoughts from personal experiences and things i've picked up on through life - I hope it can help some of you! Apologies for my nasely voice, I was recovering from a cold!
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yes to a video on adulthood friendships ❤
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I hate that I get so easily attached to men (regarding love). I think it is related to my confidence issue and I am also highly sensitive. I need to work on that in ordre to protect my mental health (my last relationship ended up with me falling into depression, I'm still struggling with it currently, now I'm afraid to fall in love)
Sam this hit me hard. I met this other mom recently, but I noticed she was lying to me quite a lot and I still tried to continue to get to know her. When we have met up with other mother’s she was very different and catty. Long story short I just had enough of the one sided friendship and all the lies she fed me. My husband didn’t understand it all, but for me I fall hard for friendships. I expect things to be reciprocated. The friendship was very one sided. Life is short so I decided to let it go. She denied everything n it’s just a mess. I felt like ghosting her to save her feeling ms but I also thought I owed her at least my reasoning. She would make me feel very insecure. I felt like as friends we should be lifting each other up and just overall happy for each other. I did look inside and realize I need to work on my confidence but I was trying to be her friend so bad I was pushing my well being to the side.
Thank you girl! I can’t wait for the friend edition. This breakup in friendship hurts. Glad to see this post and your content in general ❤
Been there too. Now whenever I feel like the friendship is one-sided only and I'm the only one who put an effort to it I'll just cut them loose. My energy and my time are way too valuable to be wasted on people who can't even appreciate and respect my being. And yes, friendship should make you feel better about yourself and uplift each other. But also, wise enough to put you back on your place when things go south without hurting your feelings.
Absolutely taking this as a sign to sing up for therapy!! Love the self awareness and tidbits you are sharing with us all 🫶🏽
I am loving the conversation around adult friendships 🙏 So important! Thanks for the chat Sammie! xxx
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Love these videos and you! ❤ always gonna tune in 🥰🙏🏽
Thank you Sammi. This really hit home. Love these girly chats ❤️❤️
Love the transparency
I am in a toxic friendship online. I am a gamer (lol), but I play with someone who calls me the most awful names when they get mad and it makes me cry sometimes. They tell me not to get upset and they don't actually mean it when they say it they are just frustrated. I find myself stuck in the friendship cause I don't want to let go or distance myself cause I have no one else :C
I understand what you are going through, I was once in a IRL friendship with someone that was very toxic and call me names then denied it that they didn’t mean it, I stayed because I had no one else but once I finally broke off that relationship I fell so much lighter and eventually ( was alone for a while but that was actually good, made me less anxious about friendships and being alone) found new and much better friends online and IRL.
@@mrsrockbison I don't have any other good friends to talk to though so I am scared to back away from their friendship. Its fun every other time just they say mean shit when gaming and it really bothers me that they can't stop saying these mean things. :( How did you make new better friends irl/online if I may ask? I don't know where to look. Also nice yoongi pic!
@@darlingdior is always best to walk away from people that don’t respect your boundaries. I’m very introverted but I joined irl and online communities with people that like the same things as me. Went to a few events in irl and online. Events are great because everyone is there for the same reason, so is easier to make conversation, met some people that were also alone at the event and eventually Made 2 friends which are still my friends now.
I had to be okay with being alone for a while (was alone for about 3 years) and have faith that one day I’ll find new friends. Those 3 years were just much better than when I had that toxic friend
I know that in gaming things can be very aggressive and people might call each others names but your friend won’t stop even after you asked not and that’s a big red flag.
It will be very tough to walk away and tell them that you don’t want to be friends with them anymore but you will feel much stronger and very proud of yourself like I did. My self esteem shot up. Maybe also try some therapy, it could help with processing all of this and make the right decision for you.
Love Yoongi hehehe 💜
This really hit home for me, thanks Sammie xxx
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I love these videos keep them coming.
Loving this podcast series 💓
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I’m 32 years old now, my relationship is so toxic …. But I can’t seem to leave because I love him but his love is so conditional. I hate myself and I don’t think I’m worthy of love cause I’m different, I’m an introvert and have ADHD ,as a woman it’s very difficult for me to regulate my emotions. I’m told I’m too sensitive or dramatic just for expressing my feelings:/ I want a life with him but I think I’ll break down completely and I can’t afford to do that right now. He’s the first and only person I have truly love, it was very different in the past ( it was so amazing for years) now it’s like he’s just comfortable with me or attached to me. I think he doesn’t love me anymore
I am an introvert, I also have ADHD, I’m also intensely emotional. Those traits are not inherently negative at all.
Would you treat someone you love the way that he treats you? And if not, what does that say about how he feels about you?
Life and time is limited. Is that all the love you want to experience while you’re here?
Wishing you the best ❤
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love ittt
❤❤❤ some hard truths here 😢
So Relatable
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Amazing
0:24 Bienvenido al desierto.
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