Did I come out to my grandfather?

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ก.พ. 2025
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  • @worldtourist2011
    @worldtourist2011 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Zach.. You are looking great. I think you are handling this situation maturely and sensitively. You are a strong soul. I recently have realised that it not important to come out to people.. I think coming out is just a word. What is really important is to live a life the way you want. They all can see you and notice a difference. Just like Cis who do not have to tell anyone their gender unless in document. I think as trans people we also get stuck in a LGBTQ stigma of coming out by words

    • @roadmapzach
      @roadmapzach  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Sherri for your kind words, and what you have said is really sticking with me. They can see and that is all that matters

    • @worldtourist2011
      @worldtourist2011 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am glad you can relate to what I said there. Trust me I had to go through same and I followed this attitude and It seems to be working well. Thank you too and God bless! ;)

    • @roadmapzach
      @roadmapzach  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am so glad things are working out for you Sherri! You too :D Oh I have an appointment at Daventry at the end of Feb, do you have an appointment coming up?

    • @worldtourist2011
      @worldtourist2011 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They have been changing my appointment date 4 times. I still do not know when my appointment will be made finally. But on a plus side I got a response from Leeds Gender Clinic after being on there waiting list from 3 years. My appoint in Leeds is on 27th January. Lets hope if it goes well I will switch it to Leeds.

    • @roadmapzach
      @roadmapzach  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh wow, that is so ridiculous! I hope you get one soon. I went in last week and spoke to them about getting an appointment because I am lucky and live close enough to go there when they don't reply to emails haha. I am happy that you are going to Leeds, that will be so much easier for you, good luck my friend!

  • @jeromeabalone6000
    @jeromeabalone6000 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Don't ever feel pressured by us to do anything! Your opportunity to come out will come. I am just happy to see that you have seen your grandpa for Christmas and had a laugh with him

    • @roadmapzach
      @roadmapzach  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Jerome :) I didn't feel pressured to come out - my wording was wrong - I felt pressured to stay "in the closet" to him, but like you say the time will come. It was lovely thank you. How are you doing?

    • @jeromeabalone6000
      @jeromeabalone6000 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Zach, I am good, thanks! Am now out to pretty much everyone and that feels great!

    • @roadmapzach
      @roadmapzach  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wonderful! I am so pleased for you!! :D

  • @sebsherenow7664
    @sebsherenow7664 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The time may come to tell him, it might not. Whatever the case, I think your handling it well. Good to hear from you again! :)

    • @roadmapzach
      @roadmapzach  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Seb :) Looking forward to getting back into making videos and continuing to follow your updates! :)

  • @EdiSantos13
    @EdiSantos13 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    :/

    • @roadmapzach
      @roadmapzach  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's okay Ed, the time will come. How are you Mr?