Marriage feels like a delusion in this modern society
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ก.พ. 2025
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In this video, I delve into the complexities of modern-day marriage, exploring why it has become increasingly challenging in today's society. Drawing from personal experience, I discuss the crucial role that education plays in shaping our expectations and approaches to relationships. Moreover, I address how family dynamics can often become a major obstacle, as traditional standards may clash with individual choices and values. As a result, navigating halal (permissible) relationships has become an uphill battle, while haram (forbidden) relationships seem like the easier route. Join the conversation and let's explore why this dichotomy exists and how we can overcome it together.
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Dear sister, don't loose your hope because it doesn't mean that all people or men are just that person whom you met. As myself I broke so many times. Even my parents reject to marry the person I wanted to marry. Then after more patience I felt better. I mean don't loose hope you are soo beautiful Maasha'Allah, one day you will get your right type.
continue like this sister
Please Dua For Me.
the sass coming through at the 'are you going to marry this person yourself or me?' 😂I feel youu sis, marriage is sadly so difficult nowadays with certain societal pressures/issues especially surrounding culture etc. though do not lose hope and as long as you try your best to stay on the halal path and don't give up, have sabr, and Allah swt has written something special for you. have tawakkul. sending love from uk
I am your sister and friend Nour , i love you , I have been following you since the beginning of the channel, and today I want to thank you for the excellent content, the legal hijab, and erasing the written lines that were distorting your image.
May God protect you, Shaima, make you happy, and grant you success in your studies, work, and your entire life.
Omg this message is so beautiful 😭😭 May Allah bless you and grant you paradise Nour 🫶🏻
Masha Allah
May Allah make it easy for you and grant you as you wish.
I've accepted that I'll never get married... and I'll never commit Zina, so I'll die as I am. Alllah knows my heart.
JazakhAllah Khair...
But hope u know is half ur Deen though
@@fridawsbamba1641 Wallahi I know with all my past trauma I'll be a terrible husband. Only Allah can calm me that's why I stay away from other people. I would never put these burdens on a woman, that's unfair towards her. I can't show love and affection and that's what a wife deserves.
@@melanchorly7618 never say never ok,just have patience and keep praying to almighty Allah and we all hope Insha Allah everything will be fine in due time
Omg I didn’t read the whole comment😭 I feel so bad. No, don’t say you’ll never be married, we all have someone for us. Just have sabr and work on yourself.
@@melanchorly7618consider doing some healing with a Muslim counsellor. Your past trauma doesn’t define you and is not the blue print for your future success of a marriage for the sake of Allah. Make dua for Allah to heal you and strengthen you and take action to working on yourself, growing, learning and unlearning bad things you picked up from your trauma that don’t serve you. May Allah make it easier for you and strengthen you and uplift you and bless you with a spouse that is the coolness of your eyes. Ameen
Wow my heart goes for you. That was me few years ago and truly my brain don't even wanna think about it.
Habibtiii don't loose hope , Allah has a better plan for you inshaAllah , marriage isn't that easy nowadays I myself I like a guy whom I've never met irl and I can't do anything about it since we're young for marriage(not really) and I can't even talk about it to my family and I feel so sad because it's keeping me away from doing my best in my studies..
Anyway girlie there is still hope you are young and beautiful try to focus on other things (studies ,improve your deen...) until your rizq comes 💗💗May Allah give you sabr and strength 💕
May Allah help you sister, don’t feel embarrassed to tell your family about this person. Try to tell them and see their opinion, you won’t lose anything. And jazakallahu khair for you wonderful message 🫶🏻
Yeah you should tell your family or stop texting him otherwise this will affect you whole life not just your studies
Chaimaa Chaimaa Chaimaa !
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Allahumbarik, you talked a lot of sense here. May Allah bless you
Walaikum Assalam ❤❤
dont cry beautiful :( have faith and stay strong, you are strong enough. qadr ♥
Jazakallahu khair for your comment 😭
@@TheAmazighMuslimahkindly, i need your contact
6:41" فَعَسَىٰ أَنْ تَكْرَهُوا شَيْئًا وَيَجْعَلَ اللَّهُ فِيهِ خَيْرًا كَثِيرًا"
@@ankur7773 how is this nonsense related to my comment ????
He’s just a creepy dude
@@TheAmazighMuslimah just block or band him from your channel sis
Right,may Allah offer me a good wife like u faithful and loyal also beautiful amin❤
My dear sister may Allah make it easy for you and grant you the best spouse for your dunya and akhira
If they reject the person because of racism then it's wrong, point blank. Marriage has to be made easy so zina becomes difficult. It is the devil's plan to make the halal difficult and the haram easy.
Absolutely
Please improve your sound or Mike
I will take it into account. Thank you for the advice!
I understand you’re upset, but you have to understand that if that marriage with your significant other was meant to be, then it WOULD have happened. Everything is in Allah s.w.t. control.
No matter what your family would have said or done, even if they would have tied you down in the house and made you a prisoner in your own home. If it was MEANT to be for you both to marry, it would have happened sis. Don’t be angry or upset/sad with the Qadr of Allah s.w.t. with this significant other in your life, you don’t know what WOULD have happened if you ended up marrying him. Maybe it is better for you to marry someone else, wallahi we do not know but Allah s.w.t. knows!!
Only Allah s.w.t. knows, which is why we need to TRUST His plan for us (and not our own plan !).
Everything that happens in our lives is for our own good, whether we like or dislike it. You need to trust Allah s.w.t. plan for you and be patient. And don’t you ever, EVER, lose hope in Allah s.w.t. !!
May Allah s.w.t. guide us all 🤲🏼.
Jazak Allah Khairan.
There is free will
Hi sis, I just wanna let u know that ur arms ar showing in this vid which is haram.
May Allah protect uuu
I feel so sorry for you 🥹
Things will get better biidnillah
Dont mind what liberals and disbelievers says .
But they defaming Islam can we curse them? 😂
sister is beautiful
Thanks for deleting the writing from the screen
continue
Yeaaah I saw your comment and I applied it. I don’t want to create annoying vids haha
Wait does he/she mean the subtitles ?
@@TheAmazighMuslimah thank you so much Chaima
6:49 It’s a test from Allah; be strong and the person you’ll end up with is fated 🫂 try to make dua and ask for guidance 💗💗