Unfair Advantages of Being a Gentleman in 2024 (And Beyond)

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  • @Batflecksnyderverse
    @Batflecksnyderverse วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Can't wait for your book. You've helped me tremendously as a young man trying to become a old school gentleman in a new world.

    • @Olyfrun
      @Olyfrun วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I am confounded by how he can continually get so much better than where he was before, this shouldn't be possible. The man is on a truly meteoric rise in terms of insight

  • @Olyfrun
    @Olyfrun วันที่ผ่านมา

    Patrick, this is astounding work! An instant classic, I am moved by the increase in quality of your thought from excellent to world-moving.
    You're truly breaking new ground here and I am honoured to be present. I could wax lyrical but instead I'm going to watch it again.
    Thankyou, bravo, and please keep up the good work.

  • @kennleuzinger3150
    @kennleuzinger3150 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love the clear definition of "Gentleman" in this video. Most people take a "I'll know it when I see it approach to the word.

  • @Cascalonginus1
    @Cascalonginus1 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Good presentation. A suggestion. Slow down your speech. It will make your pronunciation and annunciation easier and clearer. It will be much easier to understand you and it will be more engaging to the audience. Don't be in a hurry.

  • @alviwong27
    @alviwong27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Found your channel after The Decorum videos, instant sub. Keep up the good work.

  • @philipshayne8672
    @philipshayne8672 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Looking forward to your book !

  • @maxwell7470
    @maxwell7470 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This video speaks so well to me. I have always looked up to people that behave gentleman, the projection of sutil power is a topic I'm in love with sense I'm 21. Right now i don't have the life setup to commit to the life, but this is where I aspire to end up in. Yes i like money and old money style but is more than that i feel, and more than showing off. Its more, deeper

  • @williamkazak469
    @williamkazak469 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Excellent video discussion.

  • @TeslaRules1856
    @TeslaRules1856 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You make many good points. Some of the current "Men's movement" ideas are helpful, others destructive. A "Gentleman's movement" is far superior and welcome in today's world. I often refer to the Poem "If" by Rudyard Kipling to recenter myself as a Gentleman.

  • @CarolannBrendel
    @CarolannBrendel วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    As someone who has written a bit lamenting about the recent attitudes of men, I wish I could pass a law requiring every man to watch this video. I would add that a man doesn't have to shop on Savile Row; just not dressing like a boy on a trip to Disneyland would be a start. Classic Hamptons style is casual but not childish and not necessarily expensive.

    • @CircainReacts
      @CircainReacts วันที่ผ่านมา

      I was about to ask if there was a way to dress gentlemanly without having to be constantly dressed in a suit. Like can you still look and be gentlemanly in a white tee and jeans with well kept white sneakers? Or is gentlemanly attire all just business casual and classier?

    • @CarolannBrendel
      @CarolannBrendel วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@CircainReacts You're on the right track by keeping your clothes tidy, but something a bit more elevated than a t-shirt, jeans, and sneakers (unless you're working in the yard) signals that you respect yourself and the people around you.

    • @CircainReacts
      @CircainReacts วันที่ผ่านมา

      @CarolannBrendel so what would you probably recommend then for someone who doesn't want to go Oxford shirt dress code every day?

    • @CarolannBrendel
      @CarolannBrendel วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@CircainReacts You don't have to dress like a prepster. There are plenty of other styles of men's clothing. A good rule of thumb is to choose shirts with collars, avoid bulky sweaters, and wear pants instead of jeans. Also, shoes are a better choice most days than sneakers. I'm usually not a fan of the internet, but if you Google "business casual menswear" and click images, it provides a wealth of ideas, and you can choose what appeals to you. It's not about being stylish; it's about, as they used to say back in the day, "looking your best."

    • @evegurney8368
      @evegurney8368 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ⁠​⁠@@CircainReacts It all depends on the climate where you live. The secret is to dress for the weather. A smarter but still casual look would be a polo shirt, with either dark denim jeans or chinos. A long sleeve looks good and is versatile, you can push up the sleeves for an easy relaxed casual vibe. For something warmer and to up the ante something heavier such as corduroy or moles skin trousers instead of jeans.
      Learn to layer up, not only for colder weather but for another level of sophistication. Try adding good quality knitwear, cashmere if you can afford it. If not fine merino wool or lambswool. Shetland wool if you want a heavier weight. Arran style knits are super warm and toasty and look "rugged and masculine", great for weekend wear in cold climates.
      Footwear - for city wear go for be a leather sneaker type shoe or Chelsea boots. For a rugged country look go for desert or chukka boots.
      If you want to be slightly more formal but not go whole hog in a suit, then go for a structured jacket or blazer in pure wool or tweed. If you can afford it, a good quality soft leather or suede jacket is a good investment piece.
      However, don't automatically rule out suits. Experiment a little. A suit doesn't always have to be formal. You can dress a suit down for a relaxed casual look, you don't always have to wear shirt and tie. A suit can look really stylish when paired with a crew neck or turtle neck fine knit sweater or even a good quality tee shirt, especially if you stick to a one colour palette. Needless to say no logos on tee shirts. The beauty of head to toe one tone dressing is that it can make you look taller and leaner, especially if you go for darker colours such as black, navy or dark grey.
      Never forget - the whole point of a suit is it is designed to show the male form to its very best advantage, the structured jacket in particular is designed to enhance the male body, adding width to the shoulders whilst the tapered fit can make the waist look smaller. A well fitting suit in a darker colour can easily knock 10lbs off, making the wearer look taller and slimmer.
      Think of the suit as the modern day equivalent of the medieval suit of armour. It will instantly make the wearer look important, powerful and a force to be reckoned with. It will make you stand out from the crowd and get you noticed, it will enhance your job prospects, get you better service in shops and restaurants and give you the edge in the dating game.
      (Trust me on that last bit, I'm a woman 😂).

  • @sprezzatura8755
    @sprezzatura8755 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you for the great content! "Shiv-el-ree" is a helpful way to pronounce chivalry.

    • @Batflecksnyderverse
      @Batflecksnyderverse วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      English isn't his first language but it is mine and i understand him perfectly and it's also impressive he knows mutiple languages.

    • @Olyfrun
      @Olyfrun วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@Batflecksnyderversethis is exactly how I feel. Firstly I understand him perfectly, and yeah he speaks better English than I do Japanese- or even French.

  • @McGruph
    @McGruph วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great video. Thank you 🙏

  • @justinwatson16
    @justinwatson16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Heinlein himself lived that ideal.

  • @alanbarnes3569
    @alanbarnes3569 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This video needs subtitles. I couldn’t understand a word you’re saying! Please Speak slowly😊

    • @Olyfrun
      @Olyfrun วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I didn't have this problem, but certainly we could benefit from a more relaxed pace.

  • @kingofbithynia
    @kingofbithynia วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi! 😊

  • @ObiknovennieParni
    @ObiknovennieParni วันที่ผ่านมา

    Son Coneli