Marriage Short Film WOMEN EMPOWERMENT | Heart Touching Story | Motivational Video | Content Ka Keeda
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- Marriage Short Film on Women empowerment. A heart touching story, motivational video from Content Ka Keeda. Marriage pressure is an issue in India. Watch this heart touching story of women empowerment. A motivational video, this short film would touch your heart.
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no subtitles needed 😊can't even see the video properlY
@@saroj_choudhary2670 You can turn the subtitles off there is an option
Ok
@@ankit6936 yeh baat apne kisi se copy ki hain har jaga sirf yeh comment mujhe dikhai deti hain
It's a truth. Every women needs to be financially independent before marriage.
And even emotionally stable so that you do not depend on your toxic relatives even if you have had a breakup
@DAMAN & DIU you go keep your bulshit
@DAMAN & DIU so according to you people who have jobs have no relation , what a stupid thought
Yes absolutely 👍👍
@DAMAN & DIU old thinking people
"Marriage does not mean security" - So true. Marriage also does not mean "happily ever after".
@Посейдон Афродита Дионис lol . What about abusive non caring husband afterwards ? Security
@@BeingABitKind Valid point. Divorce such men. Difficult, but everyone deserves a happy rest of one's life.
@@amvora777 or avoid getting married to such men by finding out about their family history Their background behaviour everything if that custom is followed by the boys family before choosing their desired girl for the marriage sake why not the girls do the same with the boys family huh
Neither does being single...thjere are no guarantees....
@@user-lm1bg5gs9c why only woman should think of getting married and settling down first and if there is a reason where they will have to remain single for life then what is it a forceable decision and men can stay single can have sex with anyone they desire get married many times have GFS even after marriage but the woman can't think of marrying later in life or staying single
Ok..my blood was boiling was watching this especially because this is the reality.
Repeat After Me:
MARRIAGE IS A CHOICE.
If you want to do it ,then do it and if not, there's no problem living alone!! It's amazing.
If this was my home I would have run away(alone 😂)
Exactly I personally believe in "you want to marry bcz you have found the right person, not want to find the right person to marry"
I'm repeating after u MARRIAGE IS A CHOICE
Preach!!!
Yea..
trueee marriage should be an option, not a compulsion.
That's true bro
MARRIAGE IS A CHOICE
I am a man and I loved the message in this story - women need to be independent and that is where their strengths comes from. My dad left my mom and I when I was 5 years old. My mom was uneducated and we didn't have money so we used to live with our relatives at their mercy. I would have loved for my mom to be independent and successful. Hats off to this daughter and her mom to being strong.
No wonder, you're such a wonderful husband to your wife. I'm the same person who had those harsh arguments with a guy on another channel who was abusing you for sharing household chores with your wife.
May this planet have more men like you.
God bless you.
@@JyoSco007 Thank you for your kind words and support. I don't understand that guy who wants to keep his wife as if she is a servant to him. It is a Neanderthal thinking.
My Mom was brainwashed by her younger sister for my marriage though her sister daughter was an engineer and was unmarried...I was extremely hampered for my Mousi who constantly abused me mentally of being overaged and not getting married only because I was academically strong and was looking for a good job.....she was the one who would call my Mom and taunt her why her daughter is not married.... today I m a Govt Officer.
Kudos to you ♥️
You go girl 👍🏻✌🏻
People act n believe n live their life thinking others want to do the same- your life your rules. As long as no animals property or people or children are being harmed.
😘😘
Before Me & Mom ... After Me & Money ... Then After Only Money ... Later on Me LEFT aside by Relatives ... At the END ... (a) Someone support me not for my sake but ONLY DUE TO MY MONEY. (b) I had my OWN HOUSE, I left this mortal world in MY house dwelling in complete loneliness, my dead body left decaying till weeks before police arrived after getting information by neighbors on foul odours. (c) I donated my huge property which was earned on cost of youth & energy and I took last breath in an old age home.
Life is yours decisions are yours. What you selected, what you preferred ... was your DESTINY.
BE CONTENT ... BE HAPPY
My mom is totally the opposite.
She told me first career then marriage!
And even after having stable career they never forced me to marry.
I wish I have a mom like that
you are a rare lucky one
My parents are supportive.
Same bro
same my mom too.
A recent global survey has shown that those woman who become mother after 30 even after 35 can compliance their childs properly rather than others becoz those womans have gained much experience in their life and they can take the right decision for their childs education and their future also .... But the fact is in our society there are too less people to understand that fact....
Very true😔😔
True
" Simp " spotted....!
@Посейдон Афродита Дионис I think you are belonged to stone age
Don't go for babies after 35......it's like seeing tom and Jerry at the age of 15 for a whole day ..........pregnancy at the age above 32 is not recommended for girls healthy life ........so plan accordingly and balance the life
I'm 21 yrs. Old and i can feel this pressure 🙂hats off to indian household and their thinking 🙌
Yes you say right 🙂
When the girl said "these age-old customs are senseless"..This so true and very deep😘😭👏👏👏
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I loved that dialogue. It's true. All these customs are bakwass.
th-cam.com/channels/Fb6H-aMHfGUBjkujh3u4_A.html .
CUSTOMS ARE NOT BAKWAS
TELL ME WHICH CUSTOMS SAYS TO FORCIBLY GET YOUR DAUGHTER MSRRIED?
WHICH CUSTOM CONTAINS THIS MADE UP LINE PARAYA DHSN
THEASE ALL COMES FROM MODERN ERA (BRITISH ERA) only not before that
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Beautiful; Everyone needs to be financially and career-wise independent.
Absolutely right.
Totally agree with u
So true... 🙏🙏🙏
200%
So true 💯💯💯💯
Society be like:-
Male frnd -No
Boyfrnd -Big No
But, MARRIAGE with a stranger:-Big YESS. 😏
I think,
A Single LADY is better than a frustrated WIFE.
Same
I second this
Agree but be loyal to your partner 🎯
Same yrr
Single men is Better than frustrated Husband.
S absolutely I don't know why India is like this I am from India
Mujhe aisa ldka chahiye jo rotiyan gol gol banata ho.
Omg literally the best video.
Yesterday, my family were having discussion about this topic. I am pursuing chartered accountancy and I have exams in may. So, my relatives were like, ab toh isse cooking sikha do. And some of them were like, exams k baad shuru hoga iska cooking course. Until my chachi stood up and said, hum iske liye MasterChef dhund denge taki ise khana banana na pade. And damn, it felt great to have her in my life..❤️
Everyone forgets that a women has her own life too and her own dreams too.....
Women shd help her husband construct better environment in husband home
@@santoshpaswan9923 women's do what mens so just took another girl and left
@@santoshpaswan9923 so should men :)
Exactly
@@santoshpaswan9923 why not men
Career First choice and Marriage second so that no one could challenge someone abilities
We hope they do
But main kya karu yar i am alredy 30 nd i left my job for becoming an actor nd shadi ka bhi man hai
@@nandinisharma7096 Choose one thing
@@ContentkaKeeda My parents are very angry people. My parents do everything in my sister’s words .she insulted me from a young age and made me do it with my parents. According to Didi, everything is done at home. My parents forced me to follow her wishes. Didi will marry her 6 year old boyfriend. Didi will marry her 6 year old boyfriend. Didi's boyfriend stays at our house all day later. He will stay in our house after marriage.Opened an account for my marriage. My parents are asking me to marry them. My parents are pressuring me to get married. I don't want to get married. Marriage is very scary.I want to stand on my own two feet. I got a small job. I want to do something on my own. I can't live without my mother. Didi says she will marry by force. Relatives say that mother and father are being pressured to get married. Next year my sister's wedding will come when everyone will pressure me to get married. What should I do?
Help me
Lekin shadi ka bhi pressure hai society nd family se
I am 30+ and suffering with the same issue since 4-5 years still focusing on my career
Amazing👏. More power to u
Aww nice
I am 24 and suffering this pressure from 3-4 years...
And my mental health is hampered now
bahan ab tu apni life mei mast rah aur akeli rah....ab kabhi shadi matt karna....abhi toh kuchh nahi baad mei jab akelapan aayega tabb pata chalega
@@AyushBhardwaj-nk6cg me civil service aspirant hu
Loved mom's acting!!! Very natural showing her emotions!
Settlement for a Girl in India means Shaadi and Bacche..!! Why can't we just get out of this stereotype???😤 Girls have an equal right to decide about their future and career. Why can't she be Single,Independent and Happy at the same time?😶
Exactly
That's true
Exactly
Yaa
Well why mother parenting matters because it has reason that mother focus towards children affect better following western culture where women works professionally their focus towards children is not that better ..please don't disregard the housewife responsibility
No one understands when girls talk about their career. Ladka kamata h to acha h tera kya h roti bnana 😔 it hurts a lot...
Taking care of home is also a job , 15 thousands is salary for home taker .just demand from them
@@ankitkumar6988 they will never provided..bcoz they think it's not a job..it's our duty.. a duty without payment and leave
@@ankitkumar6988 it's not you to tell what is job and What's not . Ghar pe kaam karna sabko pasand nhin hota
@@ankitkumar6988 girls are not ascribed to stay in home and do household chores .
Seen only half of this movie. Same SJW, Woke XXXX without understanding human psyche. And movies are all contrived, "so you create a mother who is divorced" easy plot. Mariage is NOT FOR TWO PEOPLE, its is for a society and for the children. Marriage is for families. as for career. MOST PEOPLE, INCLUDING MEN HAVE JOBS, NOT CAREERS. most of these career women work with the help of maids, what's the big deal. should see the world outside of india, where kitchen help is expensive and people work all the time, broken families and tired communities. sad life in the long run.
Yaa my Parents specially my Mom always tells me to be independent in each and everything and that's what my thinking now !
My Parents are really open-minded and I'm really thankful to Allah for having such an amazing parents ! ✨
🤗
Me too
😍👍
Yep !👀
👏👏🥰
My father said "just build your career and stand on your own feet then marrying or not marrying ....love marriage or arrange marriage do whatever you like"
Stop forcing your child to get married . Marriage is when they are ready to marry , not becoz of age . This my request to all 🙏
100th like by me 🤣🤣
So does it mean that age doesn't matter for marriage?????
@@navagujarati2820 Exactly it doesn't. U should marry when u r ready instead of marrying before an age limit just because ur parents or society said the same. Being in an unwanted marriage or marrying at an immature age can make things a lot worse in a marriage.
@Dibya Mahapatra exactly💯💯👍🏻
I love your rply
It touched my heart because m 28yrs & unmarried. The same thing my parents keep me telling every other day. 😑😞
Same about me
Same 😒😒
unhe video dikhao
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Same and im dying daily wth the pressure n stress...
I'm 26 and my mother also constantly reminds me about how all my classmates are already married and have kids. But in my case, I'm asexual and don't want to get married or have any childern, I just haven't told my parents about it.
Same issue
In Indian society women are dependent on their father after marriage they are dependent on their husbands and when they become old they are dependent on their son. We need to change this things every girl should be financially independent before marriage .....it's very important.
She is right. Marriage doesn't bring security in life. Marrying under pressure is a forced marriage. A girl must become financially empowered before getting married and she shouldn't accept beatings from her husband and in laws.
neither does being alone and making money....being with a family and a partner and having children is not cultural BUT A BIOLOGICAL NEED.
Seen only half of this movie. Same SJW, Woke XXXX without understanding human psyche. And movies are all contrived, "so you create a mother who is divorced" easy plot. Mariage is NOT FOR TWO PEOPLE, its is for a society and for the children. Marriage is for families. as for career. MOST PEOPLE, INCLUDING MEN HAVE JOBS, NOT CAREERS. most of these career women work with the help of maids, what's the big deal. should see the world outside of india, where kitchen help is expensive and people work all the time, broken families and tired communities. sad life in the long run.
Start making some films without thoughtfulness ok...Marriage is the name we have given to decently cohabiting. You may not call it marriage but living together is another thing that shows NO ONE IN THE WORLD LIVES ALONE. They get pets and plants and live in painters. Marriage allowed for security. When you do not have that, it is harder for women, who move from man to man to man...oh btw, check out divorce rates, single parenthood in countries where marriage is not honoured. Use your brains and research some. Idiots.
@@user-lm1bg5gs9c just shut up, and respect people's choices. If someone is okay being a house wife let them be, if someone is happy being alone and make money let them be. And if someone wants to get married and make money, let them be.. stop judging people.
Yes mam
@@user-lm1bg5gs9c you first try to complete things. half knowledge is harmful. you only watched half of it and posting the same comment repeatedly. If you haven't even watched the full video, what makes you eligible to pass on judgement ?
Same way, I'm sure you never ever talked to girls to understand their opinion. Ask people about their experiences. Try to understand in FULL, why so many people are saying the same things. There must be something, right ?
Domestic violences against women happen and they can't easily get out from that because they are not financially and mentally indipendent. They have to tolerate their whole life with that sufferings. Therefore, it is very important that parents who have daughter should make their daughters financially and mentally independent so that they don't suffer in future. If they are independent then any unwanted situations happen to their life, they could easily handle it without having any fear and insecurity.
Yes!!! Good thought 👍👍
Kash meri family b ye bat smjh pati... That I want to be financially independent... 😢😭
Aap jese logo ke tadayat jyada Kyu nhi hai knha hoti hai esi soch
Rightly said 👍👍👍
So far, in our country after getting independence we had only one female prime minister. Being a man, i am very ashamed of it. What is usage of this policy like "Beti padhao beti bachao" when there is less implementation. Even in this generation, giving birth a baby girl is considered to be a liability of the family, even the mother herself things like that. I think, it is because of our outdated customs like women are born to be housewife, they can't go for outdoor activities, parents have to arrange for dawry from the time they are born, all these factors are responsible for the situations which women usually face. I won't say, every parents have thoughts like that for their daughters, there are some parents who are trying very hard to make their daughters independent but it is a bitter truth that maximum parents in our country have these kind of thoughts. I think, to have sons like rapists, drug addicts, gunda mawalis it is far better to have daughters who have huge potential to become great personalities. So, ladies try to make yourself independent as much as u could so that you can take any decisions when time comes. Don't think that you cannot survive without being dependent of someone. Always try to have this attitude that u can go shoulder to shoulder with men, even being a woman you can also take care of your own parents even if you get married. You "women" are the ones who can prove yourself an asset not liability. We "men" like us are also there to support u but it's only u who can change this stereotypical thought about you. Jai hind!
' Women Empowerment ' it's perfect Caption for It .
And I ' m in 18 but my mom is very supportive as case of mine ,nd I would telling to him that when I have own job and settled ,then u talked about Marriage .
She said 'Yes '
Love you Maa ♥️
proud to be My parents...bcz firstly said settle your career after that do marriage ...!!
Just turned 22 and they started talking about my marriage but I know how to fight for myself....I don't want to listen from someone mouth that ye to paraye ghar se aayi hai.....I will clear UPSC and will get my own lovely house😊❣️
Off course you will
But make sure to choose optional wisely 👍😊
@@parakhp9498 polity is my strongest sub. I will choose that only
Same problem yrr 😓 plzz tell me. How you handling this situation...🥺
@@meghanayak92 by ignoring and doing my study
Best of luck dear
Literally my eyes filled with water when she said this line"ek aurat ka ghar kaunsa hua maa"😥😥
I am 24 , facing it from my relatives and neighbours but my mom she stand with me. Because she know the pain of financially dependent women.
So relatable.. I'm 21 now & my whole relatives are forcing me for marriage.. I'm ready or not, they don’t even care..I just want to complete my studies.. That’s it
Wtf? You're just a kid
You are too young to get married..just take your parents into confidence and concentrate on your life...purpose of life is to be happy not to please others...
Same here 😫
Dont get married at least before 25
You are a bacchi yourself.
.🙄🙄🙄
Only thing I have learned in my life is to be financially independent is of utmost importance...!!! This is the reality of our society. Even after being independent,a women is expected to take care of household chores and everything... How can u expect this, she is not a machine, she also needs rest and care.
A girl is not born only to take care of others....She has a life of her own. This has to end.
Everyone do there personal chores in home ..😁😁don't expect others to do your family chores ...
❤️
You can hire a maid if working find solutions not problem in everything
@@soummyatilloo1761 Instead of all these things, there must be love, understanding among family members
@@soummyatilloo1761 sorry but I can't get your words
*Ps:-* *Girls are just not anyone's 'Paraya Dhan', She's her own 'Dhan' itself, isn't it enough!?*
Beautiful message conveyed....really important to be financially independent....every woman should have a house of her own .
Iam almost 31 & still unmarried only becoz I want to live alone in my entire life.
Me too.
Hey, great to hear that. I am a man and I too don't want to get married, not anytime soon. Is it lonely to not be with someone or do we regret it later?
Good yrr,live her life happily
Me too yaar same 31.. mera toh jeena haram ho Gaya hai..Ron thane aur fights hote hai .. m fedup of all dis drama of marraige
@@harchu-thefoodiequeen5014 Dude. I've read a news recently. A wife used to fight with husband regularly and leave home to their mom's. She don't even want to divorce him and he's pleading the court for divorce. Marriages can be hell,
Brilliant acting i would say.... . Marriage should take place when mind is ready, not physical body . We need to change our perspective.
Yess exactly , we all need to change our perspectives on this
Yes but ur body will not remain younger forever, it will age with time & u will get complications in childbirth at ur old age! I'm not against this. I hate forceful marriage but time & body won't stop for our career, it will age!
@@Myself_Megha ur right dea .. body vill age .. n whoes gonna merry u den
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My mom is completely opposite. ..lucky to have her ❤️
Women shd help her husband nd create better environment in husband Home
My mom also.. she's not believe all this nonsense things.
"MARRIAGE SHOULD BE AN OPTION, NOT A COMPULSION."
They say, all 'others' have gotten married. But, will never reveal 'how' those are living now.
Spiritual warfare is real please read up about it on TH-cam. People are casting spells juju on married couples so they fight all the time. Know the signs.
Satan uses people to do his nasty works breaking friendships, prostitution which are available 24/7. Creating misunderstandings, oppression, cheating in relationships, cheating in business, adultery,affair, rap*, abortion, miscarraige, prostitution n alcohol abuse, domestic abuse.
When people don't look after their children hurting them. Stop taking care of thrm- That's satan. Spiritual warfare is real. Laziness is from satan. Start questioning why u feel the way you do?. Doesn't matter what Religeon or background one is from spiritual WARFARE is real. Understand your enemy know it's weaknesses.
Through the Grace Of Almighty God we are living happily married. We have gone through spiritual WARFARE- aswell. It can effect how one makes decisions and act. Demons don't like it when 2 great people get together. Creates doubt n misunderstandings so 2 people don't get married.
Forced MARRAiGES are from satan putting sports of rubbish into parents minds and gossip rumours hate is from satan who uses women especially to create hate n rumours.
I have experienced this and many other things too. I have seen the unseen both Good and not so good. I broke my engagement at age 17. Stopped my abusers at age 8 then another one at age 12. I understand how satan uses humans to do his dirty work.
We have THE POWER to achieve anything Positive. - never give in to any form of abuse- some parents are under a spell. Black magic exists. My sister was hypnotized by her teacher he cast a spell on her so she falls in love with him- some people have learned to do this. Even other men out there when you look into their eyes. There are energy vampires too they drain energy out I have had experience of this when I used to be a cashier. It's important to have some sort of belief system to gain confidense and helps with consciousness. Educate yourself. These are life skills learning a different language, driving vehicle, cooking building fixing sewing are not only for women but for boys and men too.
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So proud of this film and so proud my film got selected alongside "Women Empowerment" as well! th-cam.com/video/nSC4ptU79-8/w-d-xo.html
@@Manifesting_Secret_Sketchbook at first i thought you will say that forced marriage is a way to go but this is really a good way to see things
7:49
I literally have goosebumps
From listening that dialogue
'Ek aurat ka ghar konsa hua maa'🥺☹️
So sad for our typical indian thought
Yes in parental house a girl has no place and at husbands house at the mercy of in-laws then uska ghar kaunsa hai atleast the society shld decide and even govt shld look into it.
Women shd help her husband nd create better environment in husband Home
@@santoshpaswan9923 women was helping, women is helping and women will be helping,
But atleast she should know her own house and ti whom she is say that ,
Haa it is ' MY ' house
@@manishayadav7374 women hv no particular home her husband Home is her home
@@manishayadav7374 so husband ki seva kro wohi tumhara sbkuch h
I'm only 21yrs old and feel very disappointed to say that my parents was invited some so called guests to show me
in front of them for getting marriage....without my permission even both of them doesn't informed me about that all....suddenly my mom said to me to be ready , we are going to home ....she doesn't tell me why we are going there suddenly....
Then I pressurized her that why I should go there I doesn't want to right now ...
So finally she tell me ...
And after listening I'm feeling very nervous, scared, angry and sad and many more emotions are coming in my body /mind ...which totally depressed me....
Next day I go to saloon and cuts my long hair in boy cut ...
And when my mother saw me she takes a hunger and beat me a lot even my father too he also beats me...and both of them abused me mentally...
I cried and weeping for around 2 months when I remember...
Even still now I'm not well ...And most important thing maine apni so called mummy se bat krna bnd kar diya h ...mujhe nhi pta ki y kitna sahi aur glt hai ...pr mere atma agree nhi krta mai dil se unse phle ki trh respect aur pyar nhi kr skti jaise phle krti thi....
I don't known what god thinks or plan for me....Inspite of these all I'm still alive😅 this is a very difficult for me still alive with this type of family in a room...
Bhagne m v badnami....
Marne m v badnami....
Kahi ka chhora hi nhi h y samaj aur priwar walo ne...
Bas itna kahna chaungi ki afsos h mujhe baal katwane ka jiske karn mujhe is ghar m rhna pr rha h ...bas baal badhe aur aur sadi ho jaye aur kya kr skti hu...Uske bad dekhti hu carrier....filhal jitna ho ske padhne ki korshis kr rhi hu..
Same here dear
Worship hanuman ji and shri ram ji..offer him a plastic gaya on either Tuesday or Saturday and ask him for help. Chant shri ram jayam daily 108 times and hanuman chalisa too. Girls can read hanuman chalisa. He will help you 200%. And your parents will stop asking you for marriage untill you get settled. You will be independent for sure
Tumhare he jaise bahut se larki aise narak bhaari zindagi beeta rahe hai....ek baat bolna chahenge etta sab kuch tolerate kee ho to thora koshish aur karo or independent ho jao baal badhne se pehle ...! Musibat to aate he hai girane par humme girna nhi hai....
Indian Marriage is all about pleasing society and your parents. You have to live very carefully in your husband's house. It's a lot of pressure. I'm doing my bsc and my family is mentioning about marriage frequently. Right now they are calm but I can see after 4 months, when my graduation is over they will sell me off. I wish I could finish my masters before marriage 😭
You doing bsc is a very good measure of your academic potential.... nothing will be lost if you do not complete masters.
I can feel it deeply since I am facing this situation these days😞😞
Never force a girl for marriage . When she decides, she will. Firstly every girl should be financially and emotionally stable on herself☺️☺️
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Hii
Same 😂😂
I wish every Indian parents will learn something from this 😊
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My parents always say me that make career and enjoy 3-4 years and then think about marrige
@@abdheshthakur2433 same here😂
@@harshitapawar703 I am a girl but my mother and father never burden me ki tum ladki ho tumhe ye kaam karna chahiye
Mummy lehti hai kaam karne ko lekin lekin kehti hai ki tum ladka hoti phir bhi tumhe ye karna hota kyuki ladka ladki dono ko kaam aana chahiye
And papa to mummy ko khud kehte hai ki rehen do nahi karegi kaam to kuch ho nahi jaayega
Use ghar ka kaam baad me pehle padhaai karkeoffice ka kaam karna hai
@@abdheshthakur2433 🥰👏
Realy so touching story
Aise hi sbhi samjhdar rhe.🤗
Parents rishtedaron ki aur logo ki parwah na karke yeh socen ki unke bachchon ki khushi kisme hai to unke aur bachchon, dono ke liye behtar hoga. Bahut hi achhi film. As a parent mujhe bahut achhi lagi.
Loved it! I remember I married at 32..I actually lost my dad when I was just 16 so I was kinda sceptical about having a family or being in a relationship. I was literally so scared of losing someone that I love. So it was my mom who raised both her kids as she's always been independent but her life never seemed to be easy unlike most mothers..so I kinda got the jitters everytime I looked at her and thought about marriage and once we got on our feets and be ourselves everyone around kept on asking my mom.. *when are you going to get your daughter married?* Everyone's kid got married aap kab karoge uski? But what I liked about my mother is she never pressurized me to do something that I wouldn't want to unlike other parents. She once told me that I know when the right time comes you yourself come to me and say that you want to marry this guy and that's the reason why she never forced me to.. she'd always held this belief that there comes a day in my life when I'd realize the importance of having a family and that marriage is not a bad thing..she always acted as a powerhouse of positivity to me .. even I didn't know that I'd ever marry until I met this guy who happened to be my colleague. He taught me the worth of having someone by your side.. the value of true love.🙂
M scared too to trust someone
♥️
@@madihadehalvi9357 same I will never able to trust anyone
@@mahamkhan7365 why?
Great to know that u have stand on ur own choices..
This video has given very informative message 👏
But in reality parents don't agree nor not ready to change their mindset so easily..
Typical mindset..
Here I'm 27+.. but my family members even don't want to think about my wedding..😂
They want my career first.. they are regularly motivating me for building my career well..
After watching this video.. I'm feeling blessed....😊❤️
Kirti you are so lucky 😞.... I am 27 and my father daily argues with me for marriage......
You are very lucky !!
Same here😊
Same here... My parents don't even want me get married. They said you can live independently after you become fully established, if you want you can do live in as well, no need to get married
@@rishitalodh387 you are so lucky yrr.....😔
I am doctor I married at 31
I am independent women
And now I am 37
I don’t have kids
Infact I don’t want kids
Very happy and practising well
For women it’s not just to get marry and to get pregnant we also want to do so many things in world .
Bohot buri halat hai tumhari zindagi ki to
@@boss-zv8qg who the hell are you judging her ....Ki life Kharab hai.... Don't Bark Your Patriachy here
@@boss-zv8qgI think you have everything....how you can judge someone's life on the parameters which u have designed, such a big jerk
It is always good that parents have an open conversation with their children and not force their ideas on them. All is well that ends well. 😊
Maa :- Tum paraya dhan ho
Sasu maa :- tum paray ghar se aayi ho
So girls just chill jab khud ka ghar hoga tab safai karna 😂
Edit : Thankx for 1k likes first time I get these much likes 😂
Bro reelss 😂😂😂😂😂
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Seen only half of this movie. Same SJW, Woke XXXX without understanding human psyche. And movies are all contrived, "so you create a mother who is divorced" easy plot. Mariage is NOT FOR TWO PEOPLE, its is for a society and for the children. Marriage is for families. as for career. MOST PEOPLE, INCLUDING MEN HAVE JOBS, NOT CAREERS. most of these career women work with the help of maids, what's the big deal. should see the world outside of india, where kitchen help is expensive and people work all the time, broken families and tired communities. sad life in the long run.
Start making some films without thoughtfulness ok...Marriage is the name we have given to decently cohabiting. You may not call it marriage but living together is another thing that shows NO ONE IN THE WORLD LIVES ALONE. They get pets and plants and live in painters. Marriage allowed for security. When you do not have that, it is harder for women, who move from man to man to man...oh btw, check out divorce rates, single parenthood in countries where marriage is not honoured. Use your brains and research some. Idiots.
Same dialogue bola saasu ko to usne to 1 mahine kalesh rkha ghr me... Jina mushkil kr diya ab tk.. Bola agr tera nhi h to nikl ja kyu rotiya tod rhi he
@Sunny Sorry bro Sunny, you are a paid writer. And you did have the time to let me know that you had no time..funny....Funny Sunny
Excellent content. Women are the worst sufferers in case of failed marriages. Only if she is financially independent,she can overcome all difficulties in life. But somehow in India, many people prefer marriage to career. We should atlest try to change this type of mindset. Vital decisions of our lives cannot be taken only due to pressure.
Very true... We hope we can change someone's mindset thru this video.
Very true yo
In case of failed marriages....unemployed women get alimony from their husbands
Then how are women worst sufferers???
@@VENOM-tx6gp Alimony isn't automatic & isn't ordered in every divorce case. In cases where a spouse requests alimony, it is the Hon'ble Judge who determines whether an alimony should be awarded or not. Alimony depends on how a case is represented in court.
If a woman belongs to a comparatively well off family, she may not get the maintenance money and she may not even get adequate financial support
from her parents after divorce.
If husband looses his job at the time of divorce or if he absconds, without properly ending marriage in court, who
will pay the alimony?
Alimony is not an alternative of financial independence for a woman. Due to the social stigma attached to failed marriages, women are the 'worst sufferers'. Financial independence doesn't only mean money but the confidence obtained thru it to face this world.
You are absolutely right....
Very well shown the emotions of a girl as daughter n as mom...and very well tackled with the society!! 👍
"Ladki praya dhan hoti hai kisi aur Kay ghar jaungi wo bhi khengay ki ik prayi ladki ayi hai to phir ladki apni kiski hoti hai " that line literally relate to me
Why to compare with friends, and why to listen to relative's advice
Seen only half of this movie. Same SJW, Woke XXXX without understanding human psyche. And movies are all contrived, "so you create a mother who is divorced" easy plot. Mariage is NOT FOR TWO PEOPLE, its is for a society and for the children. Marriage is for families. as for career. MOST PEOPLE, INCLUDING MEN HAVE JOBS, NOT CAREERS. most of these career women work with the help of maids, what's the big deal. should see the world outside of india, where kitchen help is expensive and people work all the time, broken families and tired communities. sad life in the long run.
They are the biggest haters of ours
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The women, who played role of mother,is brilliant 👍👍
Her name is Nilu Kohli... yes she is awesome
Age old khayal logonke dil se easily jate nahi. Ladkiyonko bahot mehnat karni padegi sabka mindset change karne ke liye. GOOD LUCK TO THEM
Aakho se aasu aa gaye 🥺😔
Our frustrated parents dont know a thing about mental health
True......i don't know why.....🥴🥴
Dats just coj of age
@@harchu-thefoodiequeen5014 Yes
Absolutely right...
"Value of parents" 👇👇👇👇
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This type of content should be made mainstream coz many people still watch our stereotype indian dramas where marriage is given the priority before career.the type of things we read or see helps us to open our minds
❤️🙏
Let's share it as much as possible
Don't you think 26 years is too early as shown in this video (according to 2021) ? I've seen working girls around me who are getting married around 30 and non- working around 25.
Video is quite realistic..... The moment a girl crosses 25, the marriage discussion begins...because 25 is considered to be the perfect age for a girl to get married. If she's not married by then, then woe betide her....
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This is so true, totally based on the current situation of our SO CALLED Indian culture 💯💯
My uncle once said, "If a woman marries after 30, she might lose the chance to become a mother."
I said, "So she can adopt"
"Adopted kids will never look after you once you're old"
"What is the guarantee that your own children will?"
He is the one who didn't look after my grandmom. Guess who did? My mom. A daughter.
what nonsense i delivered a healthy child in normal delivery at the age of , 34 yrs 8 months
these stupid ppl. dont know anything about health, biology
@@palkeshrivastav3706 aapki 1st baby h?? actually mai 31 above hu aur next year shadi h meri.. isliye jara dari rehti hu baby ko lekr..
@@redheart8875 yes first baby . but i have taking care of my health a lot since my twenties
exc..... yoga post 30.. juice,Vegetables, no junk
I was born when my mom was 43 lmfao
@@hnah8680 how this possible??
Women are not meant for sacrificing their dreams all the time... beyond doing household activities even we have lots of dreams to fulfill...it that case m lucky dat my parents always support me....
We are happy to hear that
It's good to hear but some women has their own life coureer so please don't say that.
@Ridhima Saxena yes sister you are right.
@Ridhima Saxena in a world where people don't have a house to sleep in, you have a house, people don't have food and water but you do, in countries like syria where there is no guarantee that a bomb may drop near your house, you are living in peace in your house, don't you feel lucky or do you feel entitled?
Have you never seen divorced women who make high amount of money....respect and love are intertwined.....money is too small --we need to have a better understanding of human relationships.
shaadi and children and companionship and belonging are NOT CULTURAL DICTATES BUT BIOLOGICAL NEEDS
Seen only half of this movie. Same SJW, Woke XXXX without understanding human psyche. And movies are all contrived, "so you create a mother who is divorced" easy plot. Mariage is NOT FOR TWO PEOPLE, its is for a society and for the children. Marriage is for families. as for career. MOST PEOPLE, INCLUDING MEN HAVE JOBS, NOT CAREERS. most of these career women work with the help of maids, what's the big deal. should see the world outside of india, where kitchen help is expensive and people work all the time, broken families and tired communities. sad life in the long run.
Start making some films without thoughtfulness ok...Marriage is the name we have given to decently cohabiting. You may not call it marriage but living together is another thing that shows NO ONE IN THE WORLD LIVES ALONE. They get pets and plants and live in painters. Marriage allowed for security. When you do not have that, it is harder for women, who move from man to man to man...oh btw, check out divorce rates, single parenthood in countries where marriage is not honoured. Use your brains and research some. Idiots.
love the ending .my mom is just like her mom.always supports me in my career n evrythng.My mom is worlds best mother for me.❤️❤️
Kitne bhi ameer ladke se shaadi krlo jb tk ladki independent nhi hai ladka apko dabaega. Request to all girls be strong and determined koi kitna bhi pressurise kre ap phle apna career bnao. Kisi k aage jhukne ki zarurat nhi.. not even husband and law's. Dikhaa do duniya ko ki hum kya kr skte hai. All the best girls.✨👍🏻
I got married at 31 after 2 degrees and 6 years of job.My parents never pressurized me for marriage.Although 33 now, I am not pressurized for having children as they know I have other life goals. But yes,that's not the scenario with all the families.Blessed to have such parents and husband
you are having a great life.I am happy for you didi
You are lucky di
I just want to be financially independent so badly because I know how much important it is . All must be financially independent in their respective lives. It's a necessity.
True
My best wishes go ahead
Hats off when her mom replied to didi....jst wowww
It's really touching nd realistic story..every grl should b financial independent before marriage..becoz uska koi ghar nhi hota 😞😞
Hii Arpita...
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Sickkk....the moment someone says this to u ki ldki ka koi ghar nhi hota just throw them out of ur life....they don't deserve to be the part
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Marriage is not a compulsion it's a choice
💯💯💯💯
Absolutely right
💯💯
Exactly correct 👍❤️
@@dobetter02 Q1
both characters r really very appreciative but in true love doesn't matter about financial independent . Marriage is not a contract ,to live happily we need true soulmate.
Relatives say the same as 01.22
I am 31 and now I m settled in my career but when now I m looking for guys then some become insecure because of my ambitious nature of grow. Finding supportive husband is too difficult
Ryt
I came to see this today amd i am struggling to make my parents understand that career is important and not marriage...i dont have a person to support me .. thankyou for making such a beautiful short film❤️
Same I'm suffering with this to
@@adityajaiswal2696 stay strong dear...thats the only thing we could do
Take care
I was facing this situation... Now I am financially independent . Everyday girl should make her career first. Be strong and achieve your goal. You will succeed definitely
@@anjanatk9765 don't worry...it happen in every home and that doesn't mean ur or anyone's parents are wrong...it's just their fear....
Just ignore the situation....no need to exaggerate by thinking that parents are not supporting n all...if you don't wanna get married then don't go for that decision....
But ....utilise the time given to you by ur parents...so that uhh can be something...
Be something with the fire in ur heart.....only thinking that I wanna be something is not enough
Just don't pay attention towards marriage discussion for some months and be something in some months that your parents feel proud....
If uhh will still keep thinking that my parents are not supporting parents are not supporting then you will stuck in that situation only and time will keep passing....
Do Something...action is required dear....
And after some months make ur parents feek proud...they could think like yes...now mu daughter did something...."Ab toh sabse....mere doston me ...ristedaron mein ...proud se kahunga meri beti yeh hain...""
She is an IAS officer...
They asked...Can u cook?
Reality of life..😁😁😁
@Посейдон Афродита Дионис A maid can do it a girl is not just for cooking food and looking after children
its natural
@Посейдон Афродита Дионис So if she builds up a good career she becomes financially independent and can pay the salary
@Посейдон Афродита Дионис So that is what I am saying what are you saying ??😑
ONE CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT FOOD AND ITS BETTER TO KNOW HOW TO COOK, THAN HOW TO ORDER FOOD. COOKING AND HEALTH AND FINANCIAL SAVINGS ARE CONNECTED. REALITY OF LIFE.
I lovedddd This short film. Can't describe in words how much I felt this.
There is no problem in age gap between mother and child these days .one of my di got married at 31 due to some family problems and she is the mom of two healthy twin baby girls 😊❤️
A woman's purpose in life is not to bear children.....!!!!! 😞😞
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Don't be sad. Live your life, start your life and do whatever you feel like. Because life is too short, we think we have years to this and that. But it will pass by in a blink of an eye.
@@mewxtwo855 don't laugh seriously it's not joke a women life is not only dependant on family a women can achieve whatever she want to be independent by herself love herself women are stronger than men in all situation and she can be anything.
Jaihind ✊🏼.
@@asmrks2153 😑😑😑😑🙄🙄🙄
Exactly
Every women should be independent financially and in all other ways🔥💯
Yes
Our country and culture really needs such kind of content to be putting a light in there minds regarding certain stupid myths ... And some girls really need to say NO, to the things they don't like and Should not be ready to suffer and sacrifice for stupid things🔥💔
A very true message giving video.... I urge that every girl and woman should watch this who wants to achieve something in her life....apart from being just only a housewife 🙏🙏🙏
Even I'm the victim of this pressure for last seven years... Damn crying while watching this.
7 years?????....so how's it going now I mean did u marry????
Haha
Me too😔
@@seeuinhell000 yes people never mind their own bussiness..fr girls it started as they turn 21
@@user-yk5lv8iw8x how did u go abroad i wanna go away too for a bachelors seems expemsive tho
My mom always say “You can Marry after 30 also ,it is still okay but first focus on yourself and be an independent one"
Interesting how was your mother's experience?
@@Manifesting_Secret_Sketchbook she knows some men run from thier responsibilities and women especially in my place who follow Matriarchy can never run from her responsibilities so you can't rely everything on men and also men should not take the responsibilities alone.. Both are equal and both have the capability to share .
@Посейдон Афродита Дионис that only you and few people think.. If a woman become independent so if it's 30 or 35 year she can still find her match "The right one will come at the right time" and no-one should be in hurry and marriage is not something only for a day or month but for lifetime ... So I will still say if a person is not ready yet then don't do it just for the sake of society or your parent is saying Soo or any other reason. And in my opinion to marry at 20 is way too early ,you have just started living your life.. You have just grown up physically and mentally and to marry at 20, taking a huge responsibility is not a small thing.
You are so lucky girl i just turned 21 n my mom start her shaadi drama
@@shareenkhan8656 oh no please you are still young don't go into this shadi things and all right now... There is much more to experience in life. If your mom insisted then tell her at least wait till you cross 25 but 25 also it's still young to marry .
Such a wonderful film
As a woman, i really appreciate this film. God job👍
finally someone stood for a women
My mom always says that the guy must be the one who earns more than 1 lakh per month. I end up shutting her by saying why don't you wish me to earn more than 10 lakhs per month...😁😁😁😎😎😎😎
Sure you will!
Yaa exactly.....
Paisa paisa paisa chheeee
@Ridhima Das nice earn money
SAY NO TO DOWRY
SAY NO TO ALIMONY
@Ridhima Das yes money gives you independence , it's not everything but a lot
If a girl asks her parents what they think about her future then they will say only one word "your marriage" according to them life of a girl starts from merriage and end on merriage there's no other way for her.
And it creates so much pressure and stress in life...
@@abeautifulmind5765 yes but there's is no solution no way of this problem .
@@atiqanudrat4880 true!!!😔😑
@@atiqanudrat4880 Solution is standing for yourself.Be independent financially so that you can take your life's decisions
@@pikubeatz4420 you know what the control of our life is in the hands of others we will be able financially when our elders permit us to do so there's a biggest problem that is "emotional blackmailing" this phenomenon also act as a barrier
Very true. This happens everywhere and every girl can relate to this
Hats off. Girls should be independent. I have two daughters and I am proud of them. They getting well educated to be independent.
I liked how the girl talked to her mother and made her understand. It is important that we create solidarity among the women in our lives. Mostly women seem to pull us down , but it is only because the society has put the burden and pressure on them to discpline and pass on its patriarchal characteristics. Making them see how they are also being used by the system will be an eye opener. We should do it without mocking them but with lot of empathy.❤️❤️❤️ Power and love to all the women out there. Kudos to the team.❤️
Well Said Ayisha. Thanks for appreciating :)
Same i m feeling about women home... Which u expressed in this.
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they wont understand dear.They are conditioned in their thought process.So just do want you want to do.
This short film should be must watch by every mom and dad so that they can understand what actually a girl feels nd wants....... I also want to be an independent girl ❣️...... My aim is getting a better job so I can take care of my parents lifetime 😊
Same
Hii
Marriage is a union of equal hearted souls , Till the balance is not attained its always a search for the right one . Very nice video indeed
My paternal uncle has 2 daughters. When I was pursuing my engineering, his wife used to always tell my mom that girls should get married at an earlier age and both of them have searched for a match for me. Now and then, she always tries to make her elder daughter better than me in every aspect (she feels it like competition). At present, her elder daughter is pursuing her Post graduation and she's still not married. These people just say to others, but don't follow what they said. By god's grace, I work with SBI now since 3 years. Due to this marriage pressure, I couldn't follow my dream (Civil services). But one day surely I'm gonna do it. I hope that atleast from now, everyone first thinks about their children rather than wasting their time thinking about marriage of other's children 👍👍
The way mom replied to her sister-in-law, I just loved it 👌👌👌👌👌👌😄😄😄😄
th-cam.com/channels/Fb6H-aMHfGUBjkujh3u4_A.html .
This is good short film ,,,every girl is facing this type of marriage pressure
I like this movie very much. Women must be powerful by her financially growth. Encourage our daughters to be strengthened. Yes!!
Lovely, heartwarming little story with a beautiful, socially relevant message !
I'm an only boy child and even I felt difficult to watch it just 4mins into the video. I can't imagine how hard it should be for some girls to LIVE through such toxicity.
I hope the situation betters from the next generation of parents.
same mate.i too stopped at 3.33 mark.it was so painful that I had to stop.i am too only son alongside my only sister.
Yeah hope so
@@ravi2820 wow....you are so sensitive...thats really cool.
@@rutujapalkar4329 😃
" Simp " spotted....!