Watching *PRECIOUS* Left Me Vexed !!!!!
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Pregnant by her own father for the second time, 16-year-old Claireece "Precious" Jones (Gabourey Sidibe) can neither read nor write and suffers constant abuse at the hands of her vicious mother (Mo'Nique). Precious instinctively sees a chance to turn her life around when she is offered the opportunity to transfer to an alternative school. Under the patient, firm guidance of her new teacher, Ms. Rain (Paula Patton), Precious begins the journey from oppression to self-determination.
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This movie is how I knew I could never be a social worker because I would be social worker by day and Dexter Morgan by night😒
Same LMFAOOO
"Who's gonna love me?"
"This glock😊"
SAAAAAME THING HUN!!! I could NEVER stomach that kind of job. And I have 10000000% respect for ANYONE who DOES do that job.
This is a black American horror story. I was tricked into going to the theatre to watch this and left traumatized
Chileeeee. It’s very intense. A lot of people can’t handle this. Thankfully because I studied psychology also in college. I’m able to keep my composure to break it down. But I was LIVID
I am still traumatized. Surprised I am watching this again.
That clip where she shoved that girl after her mother was abusing her was a depiction of how abuse can affect how we treat others. I had to analyze my past and how it was affecting those around me, because when the stress of the pandemic hit, I started to treat my little brother EXACTLY the way my mother treated me.
Mmmmmm yeah I definitely did see that. It makes you cold and numb to everything around you. Man pandemic did a lot to folks
Mo'Nique's character was broken. And in turn, she tried to do the same to Precious. But, Precious had the right people surrounding her finally to help her see that she deserved better than what she had.
That’s why when she gave birth. It was like a full circle moment for her that she she didn’t even realize. I was so happy that she was shown love and had support dealing with what she was going through. All everyone needs is love.
My thing is during her mom’s breakdown at the end where she kept saying she didn’t want her boyfriend to hurt precious…he wasn’t the only one sexually abusing her. We see earlier in the movie that she use to make precious take care of her sexually too.
YUP!!!! And I feel like she did that because he wanted precious more than her. So it was like revenge to me. Cause for to say oh who was gonna love me. She acting like she couldn’t go be with another man. Nah she wanted to to abuse her because of what the boyfriend did. Fucking sickening
@@DagiTingzwhen she said “who’s gonna love me” it wasn’t about being with another man, she was speaking from a place of desperation and insecurity, not unlike how Monique is in her real life. She beat Precious down so much because she that is how she really felt about herself. She doesn’t think any man will love her so the man who did, she let him do whatever because she was so desperate to keep him.
@@Yvanehtnioj2000It tells me she went thru something similar growing up and girl felt like that is all she deserved for a long time...these traumas are so intertwined and they grow if you never are able to or are given the opportunity to get out of it. Double hard for low income families of color too 😣
For colored girls is a very powerful movie, a hard watch, but, once you dry your eyes, it leaves you feeling a sense of unity.
Oh imma do it for yall and break it down. Ya very intense and I gotta prep myself for it
Mariah Carey did great in her role as the social worker
I was just shocked like you wouldn’t even think it was Mariah
Yup. I agree.
THE PERSONALITY SWITCH UP WAS JUST LIKE MY MOMMA TOO. This mother is the perfect depiction of a narcissist.
Mannnn it seems like a lot of us have been at the hands of parental abuse it seems like. I’m sorry you had to go through it. But yeah that mom was hands down a narcissist
Her daughter's name is also a bit of cruelty and/or ignorance. It's not actually a name- Mongol or Mongoloid is an old fashioned way to refer to people with Down Syndrome because of their facial features which is now considered highly offensive.
Yooooo this just broke my brain. Wow. That’s why I asked the question because I knew there was a reason why she was named that far beyond my knowledge. Wow
“Push” and “A Child Called It” are two stories I read as a child that I can never get over. It made me realize how sick some parents are and made me appreciate mines.
I’m telling you I wanna read these books. Cause I heard Push was way more graphic than this movie
I haven't read push but A Child called IT is very hard to get through. His mother was horrible to him.
Oh as someone who went to the foster care system the books I could write!
@@DagiTingz omg girl it IS 😮💨
@@christine8629 I literally cried reading that book. His father failed him too. He knew what the mother was doing and did nothing to save his son. Smfh.
Those anxious flashbacks to childhood trauma, your abuser’s voice echoing in your head…
This movie got a LOT very accurate.
Man they really did this film well
My mother in law treated my husband like this because he was gay.. he ended up getting accepted to a boarding school in Baltimore at 16 and getting away.
I’m telling you these parents !!!! You don’t gotta like everything your kids do or chooses but respect them. I hate when kids get treated this way. I’m glad your husband made it out on the other side
Thank God that he got out.
I heard the book is even more sad
I wanna read the book. Imma try to get my hands on it
The book makes the movie look like Barney 🤦🏾♀️
The book will make you even more angry than the movie.
The book was soooo much more upsetting than the movie. I was actually upset that the movie didn't do the book any😊 justice.
Don’t read the book.
I was homeless when I was 16-17 and for two years while I was trying to survive, starving, and sleeping on someone's floor, eating scraps, my mom had been cashing in food stamps in my name, saying I still lived with her. I didn't realize this until I was 18, and when I wanted to use my own food stamps, she refused to give me any of my social security info. In the end, I made it out. But I have nothing to do with my mom. Parents like this are ALL too real. All my childhood my mom told me that I needed to take care of her. This movie resonated with me.
First off. Thank you for sharing your story with me. I love when you guys come and feel comfortable and safe with sharing your lives. With that being said. I am truly sorry you had to go through these things in your teenage years. That shit is really hard. It’s crazy your mother did that to you and surprisingly that’s not the first time I heard that parents put bills and things in their kids name. It’s so worn on sooooo many levels. I could never do that to mine when I have them. Thankfully you have made it out stronger and beautiful. Thanks for sharing with me 💜💜💜💜
If you're looking to watch another movie that doesn't get enough love is Akeelah and the Bee. Keke Palmer, Angela Bassett, and Lawrence Fishburne ate their roles up in that film.
Stop reading my mind!!! My mind ran on this the other day and I’m definitely gonna watch it for sure
@DagiTingz I hope Beauty Shop is on that list too because damn is that movie quotable. It's my favorite movie of all time.
That movie makes me sob every time I watch it, it’s SO good
And lee Thompson young
The beatings and then acting nice is called “co-dependent amnesia.”
My mother would do it all the time. It makes you feel crazy. Like the savage abuse is normal, or like it didn’t even happen.
I’m sorry you had to go through that 💜💜💜 sending light and love your way.
Or like somehow you did deserve it because obviously mom can be nice, so whats wrong with me?
It's not fair.
Precious' mother was absolutely horrid in this. She legit tried to kill her grandkid and kid with a television over a balcony. That's just too much man.
When I tell you, my blood was boiling!!!
@@DagiTingz That I saw while watching your reaction. And the fact she allowed this to happen pissed me off more than it should've.
This movie definitely goes hard on the family and generational trauma. Sometimes I feel really bad for the mom, she must have gone thru some tough stuff growing up...like imagine what she must have gone thru to think the things she did in this film as her character. Monique did amazing as did Gabourey.
Chileeeeee! That’s why I’m saying like no one in their right mind would sit there and allow that if it wasn’t a cycle going on
Wow, the intensity & anxiety of this movie is off the charts, and Dagi, you did a good job navigating through all the dysfunction of this story. Good reaction! 👏🏾
I had seen it when I was teenager and it wasn’t something that I took that serious, that’s why I said in the beginning. When it’s presented to the culture sometimes you’ll see it in comical sense because of the little clips so coming into this I wanted to take it very serious and break it down. Yes very emotional but I feel like if others reacted to it. The commentary would be a bit different from mine. I try to keep my composure a lot of the time. Just so that the story that’s being told has a fair shot to be broken down
@@DagiTingz That's why you get the 👍🏾 (Good job!)...
There is a sequel to the book called “the kid” it’s about her son sadly he witness her passing away from HIV. It’s also hinted that Mary was also let down by her own mother which is why she treated precious like that but precious refused to fall into that cycle. Unfortunately her son ended up being let down by adults around him
I wanna read these books so bad, they way people have been saying things in the comments
And he became an abuser as well.. so the cycle goes on
@@emilykeegan4345sadly yes I was so upset
Great review. Poignant.
My mom was like this. It took me having my own child, and wanting to protect my child, that finally inspired me to get away from her.
She had my mind totally trapped
And it’s sucks that you had to go through that. But great that you broke that cycle and didn’t let it continue
@DagiTingz you are absolutely beautiful and you are amazing
@@UMewMew thank you sweets 💖💖💖
This movie actually made me cry for obvious reasons
Chileeee I wanted to fight. I was so mad
In the book this is based on, Push, it's said that after Mongo was born, (when Precious was 12, ew) the nurse called her a mongoloid because she had a flat face and slanted eyes because of her down syndrome. So Precious named her "Mongoloid Down Cinder") or Mongo for short.
I’m glad you guys are educating me about this because I was genuinely curious about the name. Being that I never read the book. It’s definitely something I wanna read though
@@DagiTingz it's on audible if you like listening to audiobooks and even cooler, the author is the narrator. I love this book, it's a super realistic, at least in my experience of it, representation of abuse survivors and the trauma years of abuse causes, especially in a young person.
This one of those films I watched once and only once.
I mean I can understand why. Look at wtf is going on
Yup.
This movie , brokeback mountain, and the passion of the Christ. Very good movies but too traumatic
@@Fluer-de-Lis I agree. I put Dead Man Walking and Schindler's List in this category, too.
@@Fluer-de-Lis Passion ruined me. I’ve never returned.
when this movie came out it was quite controversy some liked it while others didnt, people like dr boyce watkins called the director sick and mentally ill for making the movie and others claim it was anti black because its part of hollywood enforcing negative stoies and roles. Whatever it was it was well made and acted.
I feel like it was a story that needed to be told fr. Cause it’s happening to kids all over and much worse. These are real stories. The book the movie is made off of. These are stories that the author had seen and heard. So I’m glad they made this movie. Yes it’s controversial but necessary
This movie depicts the cycle of abuse so well. Precious’ mother clearly had some abuse during her childhood at some point which lead to her thinking the abuse she inflicted on precious was okay. But it also shows how when someone gets the right people around them and the right support they can escape that cycle for their own kids
As someone who actually dropped out of high school and made something of myself I can feel Precious’ struggles and challenges that she has in her life life even though I didn’t have to deal with any problems that Precious went through I can still feel her struggles and I sympathize with her
I was close to dropping out myself. I had a rough patch in highschool but it’s what you do after what determines the path. You dropped out but life doesn’t stop there my friend
I can see why she wanted a light skin boyfriend if he abusive father was a dark skin man! There’s layers to this! As someone who had an abusive white father idk what it is but I just can’t even look at a white man bro. Don’t worry I’m grown healthy did therapy all good but it make sense
Wowwwww. I never thought of it like that. That makes alot of sense. The characteristics and identity of our abusers. Ofc we wouldn’t want anything that resembles them. Hmmmm thank you for the enlightenment
@@DagiTingz yea just my take didn’t seem like they lived in a diverse place so she just ain’t want a man to touch her that resembled her father just like she wished if she was white she prolly have a dif life but per the movie her only examples of whiteness must been movies tv media etc pushing skinny white is best life. I’m bout to work my 12 hour Uber eat door dash shift and binge ur videos tho !
It’s not the teachers wanting to just pass these students that clearly need more help, it’s that the system and even parents make it so hard for teachers to hold these kids back and give them the extra time and resources required if the parents are not on board. It all started with No Child Left Behind, which ironically has made things within the education system worse. I’m currently a student teacher and one of my students is in 3rd Grade with a Kindergarten reading level. Her mom was contacted and offered support for her daughter and declined because “she got a second opinion” and thinks her daughter is fine.
You have damn good insight!!!!!🙂🙂🙂
That’s me all the time. I react differently. No shade but I went to college and studied music and psychology. Also I was an educator in the nyc school system. So that’s why I validate what I say. I’m differently gonna have a different approach when it comes to movies like this
some of what you said applies to me though i was did not have children by my father.@@DagiTingz
also have you thought about becoming a neuropsychologist?@@DagiTingz
I have not watched this movie in a minute. I love to see you react to the following movies with a strong female lead:
Claudine
The Color Purple
Beloved
The Ditchdigger’s Daughters
Thanks for always showing love
@@DagiTingz You’re welcome
Nah I cut BELOVED off real quick too weird for me 😅
This is a really good movie The reading is really good too with Mo'nique
It really was a great movie fr
@@DagiTingz also the reading is good to
so glad i found your videos frr fr🙏🏿 getting fried n watching this hit eveyrtimee
Ayeee welcome hun. Spark up and enjoy 🫶🏾🤘🏾🤘🏾
New sub! I love how u give ur thoughts not just a lazy react that says OOO WOW and the video 10 min quick grab u fire! ❤
Ayeeee welcome hun. Listen I really be watching. No lazy reactions around here. I will sit and break it down for five mins. I could care less if people don’t like the talking.
Definitely subscribed after watching this 🙏🏾💕
Ayeeee welcome to the gang 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 you’ll love it here
I just discovered this channel, the way I’d feel so safe with you as your student and I’m 27 years old, you give off motherly vibes but the NY accent also says “dont start none, won’t be none” in the best way possible.
Awwwww that’s the sweetest and all of it was factual. My students loved me and I loved them. I’ve been told I have a very maternal aura to me. It’s the Cancerian in me 🥰🥰🥰
WATCH MOONLIGHT!
Gotchu, I’ll put that on the list 👌🏾
I just found your video while watching clips of the movie! I just subscribed! Also this movie is also a key part why I’m majoring to become a social worker :)
Ayeee welcome to the family 💖💖💖 you’ll love it here. Also kiddos to you for taking an interest in serving as an active role in helping the youth
First time viewer but I love your vibe that movie breaks my heart everytime I read the book and the movie was a great sample of the book ...thank you
Ayeee thanks for being here 💖🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
i needed this video ♥︎☻
Had to do this one and I’m glad I did. It was the right choice
This movie is VERYYYY TRAUMATIC like it took me whole month to come back and watch you react to this. But I have to show support to my new fav ❤
Aww thanks for the support gang 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 I know this movie has a lot of sensitive topics and disturbing scenes. But hope my commentary made it big easier to digest
First video I’m seeing of yours. I’m subscribing 💜
Hey sweets. Welcome to the gang 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 you’ll love it here. I promise
@@DagiTingzI already know because within the first few minutes I guessed you was from NYC too ☺️ I love finding my fellow NYCers on TH-cam 💕
Ayeeeee wassup hun. Yktv 🤘🏾🤘🏾🤘🏾
I love your reaction. I love this film. it is so hard and so painful. but wow. art. I love that you laughed in the big confession scene with Monique when she gets precious birthday wrong-takes a moment-regroups and pivots to "my scorpio child-" it is an incredible moment of acting from Monique. one sees the way she works-so clearly. and it is terrifying, insane, and ridiculous all at once. it makes me laugh every time. it is just so who that woman is. i remember thinking-no-she didn't just say that did she? that is her out? that is the next card she is going to play? wow. wow. wow. an incredible film. all the acting is so off the charts. and Mariah???? Mariah?? mustache! speaking in the dead center of a vocal fry the entire time. so am I now to understand Mariah has THAT VOICE-"visions of love" "emotions" "can't let go" "fantasy" just to name a few favorites. and then Mariah-when you stop singing, you can act like this? you are so true and real and un-fancy in your acting-that you are literally unrecognizable to me. incredible. I wish Monique hadn't gone of the deep end after this. she can really act. and is such a power onscreen. it is a shame we haven't gotten to see more of her talent. thanks for posting! I liked and subscribed. oh! and I love any use of the word "vexed". great word! under-used!
Ayeeee welcome to the gang 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 it’s always lit here. First. That comment with Monique with that whole Scorpio child mess, I was so annoyed 😂😂😂 I WAS LIKE MISS MAAM. Let’s talk about what we here for. Then MARIAH “ITS TIME” CAREY, I’m telling I couldn’t believe that was her. Crazy as it sounds I wouldn’t have minded her winning an award for best supporting actress in this role lowkey. And it does suck that Monique couldn’t do other roles after being blackballed after this.
Dagi sounds so much like the characters (New York accent) I kept having to look up to see if a character was talking or Dagi 😂
Lmfaoooooooo I’m telling you. I can’t hide that shit for nothing
I think you should watch the virgin suicides!!! Such a good and complex movie
I’ll definitely check it out
I always forget about that movie. That was a good one
You should do players club starting Lisaraye, Ice Cube and Bernie Mac.. Ice Cube wrote that too
I been wanting to for a whileeeee now. Do worry imma do it
@DagiTingz Your thoughts about the mom was spot on!!! Its a extremely hard film to watch, This was a fantastic review
Definitely an intense film but I had to hold my composure to break it down the best way I could. Thank you for watching gang 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
@@DagiTingz You did a good job
Carl was off with his wife and kids. Yeah, Mary was his side piece.
Toosey is Mary's mother.
The book is very poetic prose. It starts with Precious' journal and she's barely literate, and it gets better as she progresses.
New subscriber love ur commentary
Ayeeee wassup gang 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 welcome to fam. It’s always lit here
I really like your content my only complaint is that its not more videos... LOL Keep doing your thing ❤
Awww don’t worry it’s coming. I just had surgery and then death in my family so it’s been a lot of running around, I’m finally getting back to work
@@DagiTingz I'm so sorry to hear that. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Take your time and come back strong... ✌🏾
FYI
There’s a phenomenal TH-cam channel
“The Vile Eye”
The whole channel is analysis and dissection of evil characters in popular fiction.
And he did a whole video on this movie and the mom.
The video is titled
“Analyzing Evil: Mary From Precious”
Yooooo I just watched that video that’s crazy
@@DagiTingz You mean you just watched the video before I even posted?
That is funny.
And trippy.
Glad you came across that video.
That guy does have a great channel with some interesting analysis.
Swear to you!! Because usually after I react. While I edit. I start looking into research and I came across the video. So that was crazy you commented
@@DagiTingz By the way.
That channel, “The Vile Eye”
He also did a video,
“Analyzing Evil: Menace II Society”
Brazil here❤great reaction
Wassuppp all from Brazil. Thank you hun 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
Love your reaction and analysis per usual.. here’s two I want you to see/review.. Set It Off and For Colored Girls..
Whewwww chile. Listen, For Colored Girls I gotta prep myself for. That was something I also watched when I was a teen and I couldn’t fully understand it either so imma do it again and break it down just how I did this one because there are other elements like the poetry being spoken throughout the movie
Would love to see you react to The Blackening
For sure 💜💜
The only thing that bothers me had to do with Oscar season. Gabourey Sidibe CLEARLY deserved the Best Actress Award but it was given to Sandra Bullock for the "feel good" The Blind Side plus she had more people voting for her since she had been in the industry longer and she was due. There was a sequel book by Sapphire which it would be interesting to film. Glad this was made though!
Mannn they snub these women of color so bad. I hate to pull the racial card but it’s facts. She hands down deserved that Oscar. Yes a very intense film but very well portrayed
Have you seen Crooklyn? The main character is a little girl.
I haven’t but I really want to. People have requested it so imma definitely watch it soon
When I confided in classmates about certain things, they just saw me as a weirdo because of it. Like they were just freaked out by the fact that I had a parent in prison, and some of the other things that I told them. They were like you need help she’s weird, that’s why I acted a certain way in school because I was depressed and angry and traumatized and why I got picked on so much because I was an easy target and I tried to stand up for myself my comeback sucked. Because I just never had it in me. I got told nobody likes you when at multiple places. Including home. Me & Precious probably would’ve been best friends. Plus my school was full, white teachers, and Asian teachers. When I had my hair cornrowed, & wore all black 2 teachers reported that they were concerned about me because of what I was wearing. These r also 2 teachers that witnessed bullying in class & did NOTHING about it
Can I tell you something that someone told me that actually told me. They told me that you should never tell the inner most parts of your soul to just anybody. I learned that growing up. If you tell people sensitive information about yourself that you don’t have peace with then it’s going to hurt you when people react negatively towards it and you. I’m sorry you had to go through these things as a youth. I had these moments as well. But I blossomed into this beautiful strong woman.
@@DagiTingz yeah, I learned that growing up too. You can say the only reason I confided in them is because they were right there. And I wanted someone to talk to. & it’s not like you can tell these things to counselors or teachers because they’ll call child protective services on you.
That’s also facts. I also had someone close to me that was incarcerated and it was very hard on my mental health growing up so I definitely get you
@@DagiTingz my pops has been incarcerated since I was in diapers. It’s nice to have some1 who understands
wow this was beautiful thank you 🩷
Glad you enjoyed sweets 💖 you’re welcome
I remember it took me a year to actually watch this movie in full, because it’s so over the top and disturbing that I didn’t want to watch it
I can imagine. This and For Colored Girls are very intense watches. This definitely is sensitive
2:31- It makes sense why Precious has very vivid fantasies and imaginations like that. It's her way of escaping from the reality she's stuck in. Cinderella had the same thing and idiots mock her by calling her weak. It drives me crazy.
5:25- This is one of those films you see once, maybe twice because it's kind of sad. I thank God I've never been sexually abused and hope it never happens although to the ones it happened to I pray they ask Jesus to be healed from that pain.
9:23- I'm not a therapist, so it would be difficult explaining rationality to an illogical narcissist. Psychologists must loooove have abusive mothers like this as a client.(Not really that's sarcasm)
9:39- Shout out to Monique for playing this character. She did great. I like seeing actors step outside the box and play a character that is the opposite of who they are as a person show their talent by channeling it in a unique way.
12:41- Dead. Her dad is dead.
25:36- I read a comment that this scene was hard for Monique to do. She actually broke down crying and apologized to that little girl's mother. Poor Monique. Even Danny Glover had a moment like that when he played Albert in Color Purple.
Watch Fresh next you gone love it
I’ll check it out for sure
@@DagiTingz fasho its the one with samuel l jackson
Thank you for your reaction! I watched this movie on a flight ✈️ to Paris.
Wow! How did you feel watching it on a flight ?
@@DagiTingz There were things in the movie that shocked me, so I had to keep my exclamations to myself.
I remember watching this movie and the feelings I felt and still do. I grew up in a very rural area and at time on welfare, but I never knew at the time my mom made it so I never felt "poor"
Trust and believe. Growing up in NYC I know exactly what you’re talking about. When I made the comment about people living off of welfare. It was the stereotyping of people that abuse welfare because the common thought should always be I’m getting financial assistance from the government but I don’t want to stay in that situation forever. There are other people that do. That do not want to come off of welfare and look for work. Which also makes it harder for the people who really do need help.
This movie always tears me up because I relate to it too much 🥺
Awww hun, I knew doing this movie. A lot of women would come and share how they relate to this movie. The traumas we go through. Sending love and positivity to you 💕
This is a really good movie
Yes it is
@@DagiTingz I do like the movie
This was the relationship dynamic between me and my mother minus the xes abuse. I hate that woman and I hate my maker/creator. I just hate this life
I’m sorry you had to go through a toxic cycle of abuse. But we gotta find a course of healing hun. Trust me when I say I’ve felt those same exact feelings. But you gotta come to terms with it. Forgive them and forgive yourself. So that even though they won’t exist to you. You have peace. At a certain point you gotta chose your peace over everything and anyone else
This movie came out when I was a kid we only had 3 movies on Dvd when the cable would get cut for a short time. Precious, Shrek the Third, and Chitty chitty bang bang. Guess which got played the most. This movie made me so uncomfortable I didnt understand most of what was going on. I just- Shrek the Third is my favorite movie lets just put it like that 😂
Lmaoooooooo yeah Shrek the third would be my choice outta the three. Especially being a kid. Yeah this ain’t appropriate for children
I used to buy cigarettes and gin for my grandma when I was a teenager. She’d send me to the corner store with a note requesting the items, or she’d call the store and tell them that I was coming and described me over the phone, what she wanted and how much money she was sending with me.
Na fuck that, idk how anyone could feel sorry for the mom cuz HOW IN THE FUCKING FUCK YOU ALLOW THAT?!?!!?!?!?!? As someone who's a survivor, this movie fucks with me. I forgot how messed up this was. Thank you so much for this reaction, I'm a fan!!!! Also, your nails ...omg 😍
WHAT THE FUCK IM SAYING. I’m telling you!!! I’m catching charges bro. NEVER IN LIFE IS ANYONE DOING THAT TO MY KID. I’m sorry you had to go through traumatic experiences and I send light and love your way 💜💜💜
Would you believe that I do my nails myself ☺️☺️☺️ always have a fresh set
@@DagiTingz WHAT!?!?!?!?!?? OMG!!!!! I'm obsessed cuz they're amazing!
Yesss girlie. Follow me on Snapchat, that’s where imma be doing makeup hair, nails all that good shit. How I get ready for my videos and also smoke sessions. Cause it’s really easy to do your own nails if you have time to.
You also need to watch deliver us from eva it's such a great movie 😂
I gotchu, imma put that on the list
11:15 she prolly just went to escape her home life but cant concentrate on nothin cause of all the abuse going on.
Mmmm yeah that’s a good perspective. I’m just messed about it.
I feel that....this whole movie got me pressed....just too real. It's a great film.@@DagiTingz
@@DagiTingz also been in her shoes where I got it I know what’s up I’m smart but..trauma…just made me disassociated to everything around me. I never been where she is and I still can feel a part of that trauma. Where she was I don’t think I’d be here today.
The movie was a very good interpretation of the book. Please read the book because the book written in vernacular.
I definitely wanna read the book for sure
The book has all your unanswered questions which is called Push by Sapphire. The follow up book The Kid (about Abdul's) explains how Mary became who she is. However this books is extremely heavy and triggering
I think I would be able to handle it lowkey. It was hard for me to keep my composure for this movie. But being that I have also studied psychology I’m really interested in reading them because I wanna see what’s going on
Hey if you wanna start a book discussion lemme know
What you puffing on? 👀 you got a new sub from me btw
Wassup Pooh 💜💜💜 welcome to fam. And I always got that different shit on
28:55 its the fact that they knew her friends teachers social workers knew wheat she was going through and still let her go back 29:01 there despite of that 😢😢😢 its crazy to me 😧 I just felt like they couldn't offer her a place to stay in taht moment just until she got back on her feet or she just declined but even still.......
Can you watch ATL next
Definitely gonna do that for sure soon
I remember watching this in 2015 back then I was 11 or 12 I didn’t really understand the movie I just enjoyed it & now that I’m looking back at it precious mother was in competition with her it’s sad
That’s what I’m saying. I ain’t take it seriously when I first saw it either. The moms was definitely sick in the head
@@DagiTingz she really was sick in the head she could of kicked her man out & break up with him for doing that to her daughter
30:20 its the fact that Bottle didn't even phase her and she kept going 😢😢😮 not even looking back even until she fell she didn't look back back down is what really gets me is crazy to me up until the tv situation why break your own tv 😭💔 because your mad I don't understand it lmaoo
My mom’s a social worker so suprised surprise I clicked b this video
Ayeee that’s cool. How did you feel watching this movie ?
@@DagiTingz I was pissed obviously
What I find so funny about this is the more you watch the video the higher she gets 🤣
LMFAOOO mmhmmm. But I’m still on point 💁🏾♀️
Are you from New York? I am and it sounds like u are
This movie is so sad but very well acted.
Yeah I’m from NYC sweets 💜
Mo'Nique did TOOOOOOOOOO Good of a job at her character. I COULD NOT watch this movie when i first became a mom. I couldn't stomach how a mother could do that to her own child.
I could imagine that this movie and For Colored Girls was very triggering especially for parents
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@@DagiTingz nah i’m deadass! not only are you pretty, you blow🍃😫u got ig or twitter ¿
Awwww thank you sweets. Lemme find out imma have a friend that blows 🍃🍃🍃 my ig and Twitter is @whoisadagio. If you see everything blank. I just made it and I’m about to make content soon
@@DagiTingz following now! can’t wait to see it!!
Bet sweets
15:12 is that sexy red with the black hair and the lip lining 😂 16:13 I’m joanne heyy like no that’s younger sexy red tbh
Her mother was a narcissistic pick me
“Mongoloid” is an offensive term that some people used to use to describe someone with Down syndrome due to their look. That’s why them naming her that is so messed up
I’ve just got the insight about this and I was like woww. But that also says a lot doesn’t. Think about it
@@DagiTingz It really does! Great reaction btw. Appreciated your insight on this film
Ok I know this is my 3rd comment on this video but 29:18 this clip right here I tought she was gonna take the cigarette and burn the baby with it
Poor precious 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Monique acted her damn ass off in the movie!
Whewwwww she played her role well
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28:00 29:24 I wonder if the father is her actual father 😢😢oh noooooo
In the '80s it wasn't common for 16-year-olds to buy cigarettes and lottery tickets for their parents to TBH. Especially if they're known in the community or they go to that corner store often. Convenience store. We have them up here in Canada too bro. I grew up around people like this as well. Dysfunctional families, I think most Most lower middle class minority families experience something like this. Well I think I don't know. It depends we have choices in life. But I we all had f***** up lives if you think about it. I enjoyed your commentary. Really entertaining.
Ayeeee that’s wassup fam. I’m glad you enjoyed my reaction
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It’s sad I laughed through that fight scene wit ol girl and Monique
That’s what I mean by when things are presented on social media. It can be passed off as comical but watching this as a whole. Definitely makes me very vexed
@@DagiTingz cause I’m just Thinkin like bro Monique. You REALLY wondered why u didn’t get no mo roles after this? 😂 this was a horror film
I was sickkkk when this first went private I couldn’t wait for your reaction to this one !! I hope you’re doing good beautiful 🩷🩷and that march treated you well
It’s cause TH-cam fucked up the edit. When I tell you I was stressed out 😩😩😩 I was like nah y’all not about to fuck up my video, I just lost 1k on views cause of the fuckery. Thank you for always supporting though sweets 💖💖💖💖
32:07 I don't understand why she couldn't just stay with one of them especially the teacher 😢😢😢 I thought she would take her in a heartbeat 😞💓 people talking about they care about her but not well enough if they knew she was going back to her mom's place in the first place i don't know if she said no the first time but still..... Even if they offered it still would have been better than not trying I'm talking about the social workers the students etc im just saying..... Even if its a foster home or whatever i feel like anything would have been better than living with her mom at this point especially after having the baby
One scene that I never understood and glanced over was when precious was doing her hair in the mirror and Monique said “come take care of mommy, precious.” This was a SA situation between her and her mother. 😓. Precious couldn’t catch a break.
That’s why I said she did that shit because her baby father did it to precious. I felt so bad for her
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Ooooo thanks for holding me down girlie 💖💖💖 imma try it out
@@DagiTingz do you have a PO Box for your TH-cam channel?
I was thinking about making one. Cause I would love to see just the lil things people would maybe send like letters or things
There’s so much fun things I wanna do like P.O. Box openings and anonymous comments or Reddit threads. And definitely storytimes on live. I wanna go live more soon
@@DagiTingz oh you have all kinds of fun things planned. We just have to keep watching and sharing. Sponsoring a watch of my favorite movie is something I would like to do if you open up request. "Carmen Jones" 1954 with Dorothy Dandridge
i think monique’s character was a teen mom. she had precious in HS and she dropped out and decided to stay with her baby daddy and either she just never wanted to try to finish school or something/someone wasn’t letting her. and bc precious has an opportunity to get her ish together thts another reason in her head to resent and be jealous of precious. (not sure if this is like a reasonable explanation, it’s been a min since i’ve watched this movie. it’s just a little theory i have.)
I think that’s a good explanation. It makes a lot of sense. But it’s so backwards for someone to be like that. If it happened to me I wouldn’t want it for my kid. That’s why said she a weak bitch. Cause ain’t nobody touching my kids even it was their father. It’s clipped for him
@@DagiTingz 🥰🥰omgggg not you replying to my comment!!! i loveeed your video and i’ve been binging watching😭😭have you ever watched grand academy? it got canceled but it’s really good and i think you would love it. i wanted to do a video about it but i don’t even know where i would start😭😭.
@@DagiTingz and she is fs weak asl for tht. i wasn’t trying to justify her or anything like tht i was agreeing tht its weird for her to wanna ruin her daughters education over the situation wit her baby daddy.
Ofcccc sweets. Trust me I’m really cool and chill. I love responding to everyone and connecting. I plan going live more. Imma definitely check out these shows for sure. I’m actually about to stream all of Bridgerton before season 3 comes out so if you’re into that lemme know 💜💜💜
Nah I know for sure. To jeopardize your kid is crazy as hell
When watching this with as an adult what I see as far as the mother is that the mother was jealous of precious. She was jealous that he SA’d her and precious had 2 kids (but in her head precious was the “other woman”) then at the end when the mom kept saying “that was my man…MY MAN” confirmed it for me….
One thing I will say though, is that this is very prevalent in our community. When mothers be jealous of the daughters and mothers being their daughters first bully (not saying all mothers but some) and it’s sick. I can never wrap my head around that whole stigma because we didn’t ask to be here
Whewwwwww as someone who had to deal with bullying first hand. It’s sick. The things I was told and how I was treated. I would never want my children to ever experience from me. There will be no mistakes in that. She cared more about that disgusting man more than her daughter and it’s sick 🤢
I COULD NOT watch this movie after I saw how Mo'Nique's cnty character was treating her grand daughter.......I was so pissed that I started tearing up for that baby.
I'm betting ANYTHING.....just like how Jack Nicholson went through therapy after he did Batman cause playing Joker fcked him up mentally.......Mo'Nique probably had to do the same thing after playing such a monster of a person. ESPECIALLY being a mother herself....
I would have felt so dirty that I would be drowning myself in the shower and rubbing my skin RAW with a brillo pad to get that character off of me
I can imagine. The amount of preparation it is to prepare for a role of this magnitude.and I feel you. It lowkey would’ve hurt my soul and I would need therapy after