💜Anytime I lend anyone money I’m make sure I’m ok with possibly never getting it back. I only lend small amount never large sums of money. I only do it with people I trust💜
Family members used to come to my parents for money but they stopped lending money long ago when I talked to them about saying NO. They never got the money back so I had to step in and talk to them about it, esp since we have lots of bills to pay. They've lent lots out and our family members would talk behind our backs despite the help. Family members like aunts, uncles, and even my grandma stopped talking to us because of it but I couldn't care less. They live in Mexico so I don't expect them to understand. Mexican families always see their US relatives as a bank! Great video btw!! First video of yours I see! Also I fell in love with those binders!! omg 😩💗💗
Love the nails girly! I usually let people borrow as long as it doesn’t become a habit. It’s hard out here. I live in cali and everyone is struggling so I like to help family if I can. I’m blessed to have food on the table.
Girl you are the best hype girl, you always give so much love and appreciation to those you send you happy mail, it is so genuine & sweet, And that Gaby envelope is hella cute 😍 Also thank goodness for that warranty 😅 yikes. My mom taught me the same, if you’re going to “lend” someone/fam money don’t have the expectation of getting it back and give it with no ties.
Hey sis! I love the nails! They are so pretty! The packaging is so pretty! Love the envelopes! Awe boo for it being more! Glad you had money to pull from though! It depends on who it is. My close family of course but extended that never talks to me or worries about me then the answer is no. Yay for finishing challenges! ☺❤🌸
Omggg the envelopes from Carly are soo cute 🥺😍 I feel the same way about money and family. If they ask then they really need it and we never expect it back (90% of the time we don’t get it back) yay for finishing the challenges ❤
When I give, I give and tell them don't worry about giving it back...Now if it's someone who's always asking and it seems to be a pattern, I don't continually give etc.....
My family and friends rarely, if ever, ask for money or anything. If they did, I'd know they REALLY needed it and I'd give all I possibly could to help, no strings attached. Family (including friends who are family) comes first. They mean the world to me and I always want to make sure they're safe, comfortable, and taken care of.
Depends on the amount I’m lending out and to whom. I dont expect it back knowing my family. Certain family are a direct no due to abusing it. Yay for completing the challenges 🙌🖤💜
My husband’s family lives in Mexico and they’re constantly asking him for money, at first I was okay with it but it got to a point where they were just seeing him as a bank. I had to put a stop to it ☝🏼 lol
I agree, I’m going to do the challenges, but do not know, if I want to put it on my TH-cam channel. My husband and I have helped family and friends for years. We don’t ask for it back, but situations come up where the person needs something else, and I’m like it’s getting to be too much. Family/Friends (some) believe if you saving or have money in the bank they can ask and ask. Give you a sob story, etc. You’ll be broke and they will be sobbing and asking the next person. People have to learn and say no, and I have.
I'm the same as you. I will give my family what they need as long as I can. I also don't except to get it back. The biggest amount was when I was single and had no real bills. I was saving a lot and gave my sister and brother in law $20,000 toward their down payment on their house. The did pay it back about 15 years later.
Depends on what they are asking. Small amounts. I don’t expect to get paid back. Also depends if they are trying to take advantage which unfortunately has happened.
I think the same way you do. I just recently gave my sister $1000.00. To help her get her car back. She had a hard life and I just told her not to worry about paying me back.
My family never asks me for money because either they’re never in a situation where they need or because I’m the only one with kids, they probably figure not to ask me. 😂 My partner’s family will ask for money if they need it. Sometimes you don’t want to lend money to people who aren’t managing their money well because it feels like we’re enabling them, but if they lend it out because we hate to see them in a bind, we don’t expect it back.
That’s how I figure out helping family, if I can go without it absolutely, if I’m going to need it, like part of a bill or whatever then I’ll do a lower amount. Typically my lil bro asks or my mom, and it’s never a crazy amount, the most was like $150, and absolutely, for me I’ll figure it out.I pay all my bills as soon as I get paid, and anything extra has just been extra coffee or tumbler money lol
My family in Mexico always asks but it’s tough here with prices going up, we avoid it because then they complain about how much we sent and that’s not cool so we no longer do that.
Yes! I would give our parents money with no expectation of getting the money back. As far as friends, it depends on the friend. I want the loan repaid. Good luck
Anytime it’s family it’s always a definitive yes, even with my mom. I always say yes and I don’t ever expect for her to pay me back. It’s different with my older sister, but I always end up saying yes and I refuse for her to pay me back sometimes. 😅
Omg! I am a bookworm !! I follow booktubers . So yes make videos of what you read and if you recommend us to read it ❤… you are a awesome girl! Love your videos
“If I was an envelope, this would be me” 😂😂 loving the nails! $420 😂 snoop 💀 I would lend money to family in a heartbeat…. Now friends….I would have to know you are trustworthy, I guess. I’m in that situation now. I lent a friend $150. Only because anytime we go out she’s on it with paying me back without me having to ask. But this time around it took a very long time to get $100 back. I’ve given up on the $50 at this point….but I did lend the money with the mindset that there’s chance I wouldn’t get it back 🤷♀️ I also couldn’t lie and say I didn’t have it because home girl watches my TH-cam videos 💀 Yess! Share that bookstigram! Been wanting to get into reading again
This is my concern. I’m two months in with TH-cam and doing this challenge at the end of the month. People see you saving money, but not realizing your saving to go somewhere, etc. Then they will say something about what they need to pay but they know you have it because they see you doing the savings challenge lol. Another reason they’ll say she doesn't need it is because they know my husband and I sold a house we built in 2020 in May to pcs to Japan. My first mistake yrs ago was telling family and friends how much we saved the first time in Japan, and went BROKE. No one's fault but mine. I had some family ask about how much we got for our house, (we did help the family with a small amt of money) but I did not tell how much we banked. Lesson learned💰.
Yess to books-ig! I have the cheapest kindle model right before the paperwhite kindle came out. It’s so small and portable. I prefer that over the tablet style kindle because i get distracted and the one I have is only for reading. I love physical books too but haven’t bought one since getting kindle last year.
Same I don’t expect it back if they asked to borrow the money. But hey if they pay me back amen 🙏🏽 .. If you don’t want to spend on a kindle why don’t you download the app on your iPad. 🙂 Yes I would follow you. 😊
How do I feel about family members asking for money? I hate it and never again will I help any of them. I was always the type to help whenever anyone needed it. A place to crash, I have a spare room. Need a ride, I’ll pick them up. They’re hungry, I’ll feed them. Short on money for bills or gas, I’d give it to them. Etc. But all those people who would constantly hit me up for money, or rides, or a place to stay (sometime for months rent free), all showed how I meant next to nothing to them when my abusive husband tried to kill me and my kids twice, left me and my girls (one of which wasn’t even 1 yet) with absolutely no money because he emptied my bank account, and had us sleeping in a car for WEEKS! We couldn’t even get into a shelter. And when he found out I found someone we could stay with in another state, he did something to my car that caused the engine to blow up almost making me lose control and drive us all right off the cliff we were driving on (second time he tried to kill us). All those “family” members who I was always there for, ignored all my calls, left us stranded in the middle of nowhere, wouldn’t even pick us up when we were less than an hours drive away and I was going to pay for gas, nothing. But still to this day (it’s been a year I’m still living with a friend) don’t ever check up on us, or ask if we need anything, they just hit me up to ask for money and act like we don’t exist otherwise. I learned that day I don’t have “family”, I have users. They showed me blood only makes you related, loyalty makes you family, and they had absolutely none; as they still show more love and support to my husband who refuses to give me a divorce and still threatens my kids and I on occasion.
I also will "lend" family money, but only what I can afford to never get back as I never want money to interfere in my relationships. Love the nails and the envelopes from Carly. Are you doing any binder/envelope changes for 2023?
If someone ask me to borrow money, before I say yes I make sure I’m in a position to give it with the expectation of not getting it back. I never lend money if I know it’s going to put me in a touch spot.
How much does your nails usually cost 😮 also for me, I agree with you. If you have the money and don’t need it then it’s really nice or you to help someone out. Great video ❤
I would rather give them the money and if I get it back fine. I don't like it when they say I will give it back too you but they never do. Hubby has a childhood friend that lives a few states away he's having a hard time he's alone trying to stop drinking. Well hubby offered to send him his old playstation 4. We mailed it to him. Cost us 78.00 and the guy offered to pay shippihg charge so we said ok but still no money from him. It's fine but don't offer if you can't do it. One good thing about a kindle or iPad with the Kindle app is if you need a book in the middle of the night you can just download one.
Yeah I always take it with a grain of salt if someone says they will pay me back. Better to not expect it so there’s no disappointment 😶 I didn’t even think about that with kindle ! Don’t have to wait for Amazon or going to the book store
I only give money to my mom, sister, and brother without expecting it back. I am cautious with anyone else. I never pull from my joint account I have with my husband. If his mom asks, we will give it. We are cautious with his sister because she has burnt him really badly before. He is also cautious with other family members
When I have it to give, I don't expect it back. There have been times when I needed help and someone helped me, but i make it a priority to pay it back. 💰 💶 💸
I lend out money, but I always ask for it back from family members. I have seen my parents get abused financially a lot by family and then get back stabbed, and it resulted in us struggling because of their mistakes. If it's friends, I lend it out because the people I keep in my circle are very tight, and we have built a lot of trust over the years. I always try to pay back ASAP, my friends, because I don't want it to be a habit.
For me I’m ok with helping people when it comes to money. Family or not. But they need to be someone trust worthy. And deserve that help honestly. My husband and I have gone through it enough with his sister. So I say this from personal experience. Also when I say trust worthy. It’s not about paying me back. It’s about what they’re using it for. I’m not giving money to you if you’re just using it to buy beer and drugs.
my mom would ask to borrow money but she would always pay me back without asking so i do except to be paid back but unless its trusted trusted people, i dont lend any money 😬
Because I'm doing my budget and my siblings have seen how much I'm saving, every now and then, they will ask but they will pay me back. I did something stupid and helped the sperm donor(baby daddy) out wayyy in September, and I'm still waiting on the money back. Needless to say, I will never help him again. Considering that he haven't done anything for our child(even though she's 19) but yeah. Other then that, if I have it, I'll help out, but I tell them, I do expect my money back.
for me, there’s a difference in letting someone “borrow” $10 and $1000. It’s not easy for me to save $1000 so to lend that to someone without expecting it back doesn’t sit well with me. if it’s an emergency and the $1000 is the solution to this emergency then I will lend it to them but we definitely will be working out a payment plan.
THIS! I was reading all these comments about people “lending” family money but not expecting anything back and I was beginning to feel guilty, because I always want and expect my money back, even if it takes years. I work hard for that money. But maybe its because I’m not lending $10. I’ve borrowed anything from $200-$1000. Leant $1000 to my bestie, she’s basically my sister. We’re that close. And I’ve leant $600 to my blood sister. All in all, I’m defo owed more than 2k. Ain’t no way I’m just not expecting it back. I don’t pressure them for it but I’m not writing it off either. Is that bad? 😭💀
Yes and no my dad is a drug addict and will try any excuse to get money . I love him I don’t wanna give him money to supply something that he’s killing himself with. I’m a 20 year old women and I was adopted by my grandma and my mom and dad left to do drugs well now my moms fine but my dad is still on them.
Those envelopes are so cute 🤗 I am a person who tries to give whenever I have extra. I do have a family envelope that I use for any family member who needs a little extra. Yes I would definitely follow your bookstagram 🤗I enjoyed watching your cash stuffing video 🫶
💜Anytime I lend anyone money I’m make sure I’m ok with possibly never getting it back. I only lend small amount never large sums of money. I only do it with people I trust💜
Yeah if it was a large amount I’d have to think a little longer on it ! I agree we can’t just lend out money to anyone lol
Family members used to come to my parents for money but they stopped lending money long ago when I talked to them about saying NO. They never got the money back so I had to step in and talk to them about it, esp since we have lots of bills to pay.
They've lent lots out and our family members would talk behind our backs despite the help. Family members like aunts, uncles, and even my grandma stopped talking to us because of it but I couldn't care less. They live in Mexico so I don't expect them to understand. Mexican families always see their US relatives as a bank!
Great video btw!! First video of yours I see! Also I fell in love with those binders!! omg 😩💗💗
Ion know what I love the most....the nails....the setup...the envelopes 🤷🏿♀️ all.i know I's IMMA NEW SUBBIE 🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑
Snoop sliding across the screen, I can't 😆
It’s the clacking of the nails for me. 💅🏽 giving unintentional ASMR vibes 😍🔥
Total equaling 420 and snoop dog making a quick appearance 😂🤣
Love the nails girly! I usually let people borrow as long as it doesn’t become a habit. It’s hard out here. I live in cali and everyone is struggling so I like to help family if I can. I’m blessed to have food on the table.
Love love the icy blue nails. 💅 💅 ❤❤
Omg I love the blue n snowflakes ❄️ 💙
OMG LOVE THE GABBY ENVELOPE
This reminded me that I need to start a car maintenance fund so grateful for cash stuffing system great cash stuff video
I would agree with you. I have learned over the years that is best practice.
Loved this video, the nails, and the new envelopes you got sent! ❤️❤️
Girl you are the best hype girl, you always give so much love and appreciation to those you send you happy mail, it is so genuine & sweet, And that Gaby envelope is hella cute 😍
Also thank goodness for that warranty 😅 yikes.
My mom taught me the same, if you’re going to “lend” someone/fam money don’t have the expectation of getting it back and give it with no ties.
Hey sis!
I love the nails! They are so pretty! The packaging is so pretty! Love the envelopes! Awe boo for it being more! Glad you had money to pull from though! It depends on who it is. My close family of course but extended that never talks to me or worries about me then the answer is no. Yay for finishing challenges! ☺❤🌸
I prefer physical books over e-readers as well. 📚
If my family needs to borrow money, it’s a def yes for me. Simply bc my family would/have done it for me. 🤷🏾♀️
I always like to give if I have it. Especially for family.
Omggg the envelopes from Carly are soo cute 🥺😍 I feel the same way about money and family. If they ask then they really need it and we never expect it back (90% of the time we don’t get it back) yay for finishing the challenges ❤
Love the blue nail!!
I love your nails 😍, how nice of Carly to send you those envelopes they ate so cute! How nice of you to lend your family money when they ask. 💕💕💕
When I give, I give and tell them don't worry about giving it back...Now if it's someone who's always asking and it seems to be a pattern, I don't continually give etc.....
I love the vibes and all the pink 😍😍 Just subscribed
My family and friends rarely, if ever, ask for money or anything. If they did, I'd know they REALLY needed it and I'd give all I possibly could to help, no strings attached. Family (including friends who are family) comes first. They mean the world to me and I always want to make sure they're safe, comfortable, and taken care of.
i love your blue nails girl 💅
It depends on the family member. Because some relatives will never pay you back and will always take advantage of you.
Great job with your saving challenges. Great video overall
Depends on the amount I’m lending out and to whom. I dont expect it back knowing my family. Certain family are a direct no due to abusing it. Yay for completing the challenges 🙌🖤💜
Loveee the nails
My husband’s family lives in Mexico and they’re constantly asking him for money, at first I was okay with it but it got to a point where they were just seeing him as a bank. I had to put a stop to it ☝🏼 lol
I agree, I’m going to do the challenges, but do not know, if I want to put it on my TH-cam channel. My husband and I have helped family and friends for years. We don’t ask for it back, but situations come up where the person needs something else, and I’m like it’s getting to be too much. Family/Friends (some) believe if you saving or have money in the bank they can ask and ask. Give you a sob story, etc. You’ll be broke and they will be sobbing and asking the next person. People have to learn and say no, and I have.
I'm the same as you. I will give my family what they need as long as I can. I also don't except to get it back. The biggest amount was when I was single and had no real bills. I was saving a lot and gave my sister and brother in law $20,000 toward their down payment on their house. The did pay it back about 15 years later.
Wow, thats along time to pay back. Would you do it again?
Gabby😂 10:37 had me weak😭
Depends on what they are asking. Small amounts. I don’t expect to get paid back. Also depends if they are trying to take advantage which unfortunately has happened.
❤❤❤love the nails
Love your nails 💅
Omg Carly has the cutest coffee envelopes! I want them 😂
I think the same way you do. I just recently gave my sister $1000.00. To help her get her car back. She had a hard life and I just told her not to worry about paying me back.
My family never asks me for money because either they’re never in a situation where they need or because I’m the only one with kids, they probably figure not to ask me. 😂 My partner’s family will ask for money if they need it. Sometimes you don’t want to lend money to people who aren’t managing their money well because it feels like we’re enabling them, but if they lend it out because we hate to see them in a bind, we don’t expect it back.
That’s how I figure out helping family, if I can go without it absolutely, if I’m going to need it, like part of a bill or whatever then I’ll do a lower amount. Typically my lil bro asks or my mom, and it’s never a crazy amount, the most was like $150, and absolutely, for me I’ll figure it out.I pay all my bills as soon as I get paid, and anything extra has just been extra coffee or tumbler money lol
Also I’ve read that book! I thought it was good 😊
I love having physical books, I’m so old school! Lol ❤
Definitely the type to help out whenever I can but there’s a limit.
Specially having my own little family now.
loved it!!!
My family in Mexico always asks but it’s tough here with prices going up, we avoid it because then they complain about how much we sent and that’s not cool so we no longer do that.
Thank you so much for sharing! Been meeting some money motivation and your videos always do the trick! And that Happy Mail is absolutely adorable OMG!
Yes! I would give our parents money with no expectation of getting the money back. As far as friends, it depends on the friend. I want the loan repaid. Good luck
Hi Gabby,
Great video!!! I love to read, so yes I would follow your bookgram. I give money to family with the notion of now getting it back.
Anytime it’s family it’s always a definitive yes, even with my mom. I always say yes and I don’t ever expect for her to pay me back. It’s different with my older sister, but I always end up saying yes and I refuse for her to pay me back sometimes. 😅
Awesome video 💜
I’m with you there of course if I have the money I will lend if it’s a no brainier 🥰🥰
Omg! I am a bookworm !! I follow booktubers . So yes make videos of what you read and if you recommend us to read it ❤… you are a awesome girl! Love your videos
Naillllsss 😍😍
Love the colours, the vibe and the money motivation!!!🥰🥰 sending love from Australia
Your nails are soooooo cute
Great video 🎉
“If I was an envelope, this would be me” 😂😂 loving the nails! $420 😂 snoop 💀 I would lend money to family in a heartbeat…. Now friends….I would have to know you are trustworthy, I guess. I’m in that situation now. I lent a friend $150. Only because anytime we go out she’s on it with paying me back without me having to ask. But this time around it took a very long time to get $100 back. I’ve given up on the $50 at this point….but I did lend the money with the mindset that there’s chance I wouldn’t get it back 🤷♀️ I also couldn’t lie and say I didn’t have it because home girl watches my TH-cam videos 💀
Yess! Share that bookstigram! Been wanting to get into reading again
This is my concern. I’m two months in with TH-cam and doing this challenge at the end of the month. People see you saving money, but not realizing your saving to go somewhere, etc. Then they will say something about what they need to pay but they know you have it because they see you doing the savings challenge lol. Another reason they’ll say she doesn't need it is because they know my husband and I sold a house we built in 2020 in May to pcs to Japan. My first mistake yrs ago was telling family and friends how much we saved the first time in Japan, and went BROKE. No one's fault but mine. I had some family ask about how much we got for our house, (we did help the family with a small amt of money) but I did not tell how much we banked. Lesson learned💰.
Omg cup twins That's one of my favorites I can never have enough Statbucks cups I have a whole cupboard devoted to all them
I always look forward to your videos! Love them and love your nails!! ☺️
Yess to books-ig! I have the cheapest kindle model right before the paperwhite kindle came out. It’s so small and portable. I prefer that over the tablet style kindle because i get distracted and the one I have is only for reading. I love physical books too but haven’t bought one since getting kindle last year.
Also love the nails!
Great video
I just had a cousin borrow $150 on the 8th.....he SAID he'd give me double back...let's see...👀 I'll keep you updated.
Great video 🤗🌷🌺🎉🎊🥰
Can’t wait for the new setup ❤
Same I don’t expect it back if they asked to borrow the money. But hey if they pay me back amen 🙏🏽 ..
If you don’t want to spend on a kindle why don’t you download the app on your iPad. 🙂
Yes I would follow you. 😊
I’m not sure how I would go about some asking for money, I haven’t been in a situation like that yet. Great video! 🥰
Great video! Congrats on that huge debt payment 👏🏻
Omg your nails love them
Wow your nails are stunning!💙💙💙
Great video 😌 if it’s my parents I’m not gonna accept the money back even if they have it to pay back.
How do I feel about family members asking for money? I hate it and never again will I help any of them.
I was always the type to help whenever anyone needed it. A place to crash, I have a spare room. Need a ride, I’ll pick them up. They’re hungry, I’ll feed them. Short on money for bills or gas, I’d give it to them. Etc.
But all those people who would constantly hit me up for money, or rides, or a place to stay (sometime for months rent free), all showed how I meant next to nothing to them when my abusive husband tried to kill me and my kids twice, left me and my girls (one of which wasn’t even 1 yet) with absolutely no money because he emptied my bank account, and had us sleeping in a car for WEEKS! We couldn’t even get into a shelter. And when he found out I found someone we could stay with in another state, he did something to my car that caused the engine to blow up almost making me lose control and drive us all right off the cliff we were driving on (second time he tried to kill us). All those “family” members who I was always there for, ignored all my calls, left us stranded in the middle of nowhere, wouldn’t even pick us up when we were less than an hours drive away and I was going to pay for gas, nothing. But still to this day (it’s been a year I’m still living with a friend) don’t ever check up on us, or ask if we need anything, they just hit me up to ask for money and act like we don’t exist otherwise.
I learned that day I don’t have “family”, I have users. They showed me blood only makes you related, loyalty makes you family, and they had absolutely none; as they still show more love and support to my husband who refuses to give me a divorce and still threatens my kids and I on occasion.
I always look forward to your videos!!
I also will "lend" family money, but only what I can afford to never get back as I never want money to interfere in my relationships. Love the nails and the envelopes from Carly. Are you doing any binder/envelope changes for 2023?
Loving the nails
Definitely don’t mind lending money, money is not a big deal to me either but what I hate is when they say they’re gonna pay me back and never do 🙄
I will never let anyone borrow money over a certain amount. Maybe $100 tops, but anything more never again.
If someone ask me to borrow money, before I say yes I make sure I’m in a position to give it with the expectation of not getting it back. I never lend money if I know it’s going to put me in a touch spot.
Love those nails❤❤❤❤
💰💰💰💞💞💞💞 👋🏾 Heyyyy Gabz
How much does your nails usually cost 😮 also for me, I agree with you. If you have the money and don’t need it then it’s really nice or you to help someone out. Great video ❤
$60-75 + $20 tip ☺️
I would rather give them the money and if I get it back fine. I don't like it when they say I will give it back too you but they never do. Hubby has a childhood friend that lives a few states away he's having a hard time he's alone trying to stop drinking. Well hubby offered to send him his old playstation 4. We mailed it to him. Cost us 78.00 and the guy offered to pay shippihg charge so we said ok but still no money from him. It's fine but don't offer if you can't do it. One good thing about a kindle or iPad with the Kindle app is if you need a book in the middle of the night you can just download one.
Yeah I always take it with a grain of salt if someone says they will pay me back. Better to not expect it so there’s no disappointment 😶 I didn’t even think about that with kindle ! Don’t have to wait for Amazon or going to the book store
I only give money to my mom, sister, and brother without expecting it back. I am cautious with anyone else. I never pull from my joint account I have with my husband. If his mom asks, we will give it. We are cautious with his sister because she has burnt him really badly before. He is also cautious with other family members
Yeah definitely need to be cautious with certain people !
When I have it to give, I don't expect it back. There have been times when I needed help and someone helped me, but i make it a priority to pay it back. 💰 💶 💸
I’m heeeerrrreee ❤
I lend out money, but I always ask for it back from family members. I have seen my parents get abused financially a lot by family and then get back stabbed, and it resulted in us struggling because of their mistakes. If it's friends, I lend it out because the people I keep in my circle are very tight, and we have built a lot of trust over the years. I always try to pay back ASAP, my friends, because I don't want it to be a habit.
I don’t give out money unless it’s immediate family.
For me I’m ok with helping people when it comes to money. Family or not. But they need to be someone trust worthy. And deserve that help honestly. My husband and I have gone through it enough with his sister. So I say this from personal experience. Also when I say trust worthy. It’s not about paying me back. It’s about what they’re using it for. I’m not giving money to you if you’re just using it to buy beer and drugs.
my mom would ask to borrow money but she would always pay me back without asking so i do except to be paid back but unless its trusted trusted people, i dont lend any money 😬
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Because I'm doing my budget and my siblings have seen how much I'm saving, every now and then, they will ask but they will pay me back. I did something stupid and helped the sperm donor(baby daddy) out wayyy in September, and I'm still waiting on the money back. Needless to say, I will never help him again. Considering that he haven't done anything for our child(even though she's 19) but yeah. Other then that, if I have it, I'll help out, but I tell them, I do expect my money back.
Yes I would definitely follow your Bookstagram 😊
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for me, there’s a difference in letting someone “borrow” $10 and $1000. It’s not easy for me to save $1000 so to lend that to someone without expecting it back doesn’t sit well with me. if it’s an emergency and the $1000 is the solution to this emergency then I will lend it to them but we definitely will be working out a payment plan.
I agree if it’s a big amount its not easy to let that go ! Its something I would have to think about if it was more than $500
THIS! I was reading all these comments about people “lending” family money but not expecting anything back and I was beginning to feel guilty, because I always want and expect my money back, even if it takes years. I work hard for that money. But maybe its because I’m not lending $10. I’ve borrowed anything from $200-$1000. Leant $1000 to my bestie, she’s basically my sister. We’re that close. And I’ve leant $600 to my blood sister. All in all, I’m defo owed more than 2k. Ain’t no way I’m just not expecting it back. I don’t pressure them for it but I’m not writing it off either. Is that bad? 😭💀
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what app does she use on her ipad??
It’s good notes ☺️
Yes and no my dad is a drug addict and will try any excuse to get money . I love him I don’t wanna give him money to supply something that he’s killing himself with. I’m a 20 year old women and I was adopted by my grandma and my mom and dad left to do drugs well now my moms fine but my dad is still on them.
Extra clickity like how we like it 😂
I only lend money I can afford to give away.
I think you owe yourself $5 for your envelope
Those envelopes are so cute 🤗 I am a person who tries to give whenever I have extra. I do have a family envelope that I use for any family member who needs a little extra. Yes I would definitely follow your bookstagram 🤗I enjoyed watching your cash stuffing video 🫶
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Yesss I love bookstagram and booktube but it definitely tests my self-control 🫠
Fetch helped me get my son's new Xbox with me paying only $30 towards it.