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  • @abigailtorx
    @abigailtorx ปีที่แล้ว +2303

    it's so refreshing to see morgan sticking her ground and sharing her unfiltered opinions! i think fannita definitely had a lot to do with it, her confidence and warmth probably let morgan feel comfortable in going back and fourth the way she does with her friends and family, this episode was a great listen!

    • @swadieanwelch5043
      @swadieanwelch5043 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Right!

    • @stephd.a.3963
      @stephd.a.3963 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes! Perfect comment! ❤

    • @viviand16
      @viviand16 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yooo I came to the comments to say the same thing! I loved it! What a great episode :)

    • @shaylastartley9881
      @shaylastartley9881 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Will someone pls make a gif of “why is there a pit bull in the Cheesecake Factory?”

    • @ashleyduckworthyt3224
      @ashleyduckworthyt3224 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes!!

  • @buracarolina5462
    @buracarolina5462 ปีที่แล้ว +1096

    "Some guys are sexually attracted to women but they don't like women as people"
    THAT👏

    • @tasha1357
      @tasha1357 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      All the men around me

    • @blondeboo131
      @blondeboo131 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Seriously makes me rethink some of my past relationships now. Honestly this world explain a lot

    • @Biusmenoi
      @Biusmenoi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I feel the same abt guys tbh. I genuinely dont like how men are fundamental as ppl bc theyre condition to be toxic by the patriarchy. Even tho im still attracted to them, i dont like the majority of them as ppl. Bc they’re fkn assholes. So the feeling is very much mutual even tho the motivation is VERY different. My feelings abt them are more of a reaction to their actions of bad behavior bc they feel entitled to subjugate, take advantage and @buse women.

    • @MegaEpistemology
      @MegaEpistemology 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh yes, this.

  • @franziskagourd3028
    @franziskagourd3028 ปีที่แล้ว +3064

    For real, Fannita was so refreshing. She spoke her opinions without tiptoeing around what people could think or say. The dialogue was entertaining, it's nice to have people with different views.

    • @LegalVampire
      @LegalVampire ปีที่แล้ว

      That's just called being an as*hole tbh 😬

    • @lalibelardo1706
      @lalibelardo1706 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      This is what it’s supposed to be instead of watering down their takes to be overly woke/politically correct/not offensive/not triggering.. like come on people it’s opinions about reddit stories.. it’s not about you. It’s about the story

    • @ElizabethMartinez-nz2gj
      @ElizabethMartinez-nz2gj ปีที่แล้ว +19

      This is the first episode I finished to completion! LOVED FANNITA ❤

    • @ritzismynamo
      @ritzismynamo ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yessss I loved her !! Lol

    • @dbr27
      @dbr27 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly what I was thinking

  • @ItsLilRaeRae
    @ItsLilRaeRae ปีที่แล้ว +1025

    When Fannita said, moms lose their identity when they have kids... I felt so seen. Figuring out who you are after being married and having kids is so hard. Thank you so much for acknowledging what so many of us moms don't know how to explain.

    • @sashavann92
      @sashavann92 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Especially when they're young and people fuss over the baby while you get ignored, it totally sucks 😅 I've got one on the way rn (23 wks) and am not looking forward to that part, but am looking forward to her coming into the world and meeting me and her Daddy 🩷

    • @HayBay1597
      @HayBay1597 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes! It’s sums up postpartum perfectly.

    • @sarahjane1223
      @sarahjane1223 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I had just turned 22 when my son was born. I had moved state 2yrs before & hadn't made any friends outside work. Leaving my job, I left all connections with adults behind. Mummy groups didn't help, I didn't click with anyone. I'm 40 now & my sons 18, almost 19. I still don't have friends. I had 2 more kids but its just me & them. Their dad wasn't interested in being a father, he wanted the single life. Doing Uni by distance because my youngest had additional needs. Being a mum is lonely in a way no one but other mums understand. Yes I'm rarely alone but I don't have company. My kids don't want to hang out with me, which makes total sense but I'm on my own so much & I don't know how to change it, there aren't place to go meet other adults.

    • @carolinaazevedo7480
      @carolinaazevedo7480 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm not a mother nor do I intend to be one but I think we put a lot of pressure on ourselves to have a child. Some of my friends already have a child and we're all 27/28 and I don't understand the need to have a child or at least to have one so young. I feel like some women think our entire purpose in life is to get married and have a child. I genuinely don't understand that feeling.

    • @callie_5117
      @callie_5117 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am trying to navigate that space right now. My daughter is leaving for college soon and I have no idea what I am going to do with myself. She has been my entire focus for 18 years.

  • @louarmah8438
    @louarmah8438 ปีที่แล้ว +1326

    i love that morgan is standing by her opinion this episode and feels comfortable disagreeing with fannita’s opinions more than usual eps with guests, it makes episodes way more interesting when there’s back and forth in my opinion. i hope she feels confident standing by her opinions in future guest episodes

    • @TwoHotTakes
      @TwoHotTakes  ปีที่แล้ว +499

      Fannitta was such a good vibe. She really did make me feel comfy as as socially awkward shy girl. Love her energy, laughter, and banter

    • @Poohbear5560
      @Poohbear5560 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Yes!! I love when they disagree bc some times I’ll disagree with what they say and i like to see the debate. Sometimes i even switch sides bc of what the other person says!

    • @emromm
      @emromm ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yessss normalize having different opinions lol

    • @mandycook3853
      @mandycook3853 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yes! I was shocked to hear the response to the first story bc my husband I actually argued about that one last week 😂 He agreed with Fannita and when I heard her initial answer I was like 🤯 😱

    • @Honkshoo_honkshoo_zzz
      @Honkshoo_honkshoo_zzz ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@@TwoHotTakes you guys were great together!

  • @kaybeebee6020
    @kaybeebee6020 ปีที่แล้ว +294

    First story- they had a house together and he told them he wanted to marry her and change his insurance to her so those parents are horrible for not giving her anything.

    • @janasmith8315
      @janasmith8315 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      This tho!!!!! They are so freaking gross for that!!! So now shes grieving AND has to worry about all these bills and shit that she thought she was going to have a partner to help her with all of it. After he told his parents he was going to propose and change his life insurance they should respect that and absolute DEAD MINIMUM pay of his part of the mortgage. Instead they are being selfish as fuck and keeping it all as if this is some stranger that their son slept with once or twice!!! 😢they are selfish and disgusting people.

    • @lasana-ew4mj
      @lasana-ew4mj 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@@janasmith8315 fr tho and the girl that is a guest in this ep seems interesting but but her opinion is not it.... How can anyone say that I hope she changes her tune because if this is her look on everything she is not a good person

    • @sisterseverus
      @sisterseverus 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But he said he said he didn’t want to leave a wife, he never proposed, they weren’t married. You don’t know if he was REALLY serious about marrying her.

    • @kristinaerickson2353
      @kristinaerickson2353 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Bare minimum they shouldve paid off his part of the house. Because, he did agree to pay for half of that house. ​@@sisterseverus

  • @M2161
    @M2161 ปีที่แล้ว +1821

    I love the chemistry between Morgan and this guest! Different opinions but can still make things fun and interesting!

    • @TwoHotTakes
      @TwoHotTakes  ปีที่แล้ว +132

      Yessss you get it 🙌🏼

    • @amandareed4689
      @amandareed4689 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      So fun to watch I loved this episode!

  • @msammerz5608
    @msammerz5608 ปีที่แล้ว +491

    "You're creating a monster by not taking your kid out and socializing them"
    This. So true. How are they supposed to know how to act in public if you dont take them out. I know this doesn't apply to a 3 mo old, but the sentiment stands.

    • @Shayron1989
      @Shayron1989 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      As someone who had a 3m old when lockdown hit- it actually does apply. When I took my 9/10m old into restaurants/cafes after lockdown lifted, he was totally overwhelmed by all the new sounds, smells and seeing so many people at once. Took months for him to adjust to being in public spaces.

    • @8LyJu8
      @8LyJu8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ​@@Shayron1989yes. Humans have been living in groups since forever, and helping each other. Taking those things from them could cause damage (like not holding a baby will not allow them to properlly develop enotionally), even more at such young age because 80% of the brain is developed during the first 2 years

    • @teamlining7685
      @teamlining7685 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Clearly the guy who yelled at her his parents never took him out because he doesn’t know how to act in public. His parents clearly failed him

    • @hellintheclouds7074
      @hellintheclouds7074 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If you don’t take them out they will be scared and confused!! If you don’t have dogs and you bring them to a dog park when they’re 4 or 5 after never being out and about they will be so confused

  • @DarrianJewel
    @DarrianJewel ปีที่แล้ว +1136

    “Bitches don’t be getting beat up anymore, that’s the problem” amen, favorite guest. Make her a regular.

    • @lovelanirose
      @lovelanirose ปีที่แล้ว +12

      YES THIS!! Lol

    • @kseniapyza
      @kseniapyza ปีที่แล้ว +28

      no way, so many unhealthy opinions

    • @dijanavukovic2494
      @dijanavukovic2494 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Nah we are here for the entertainment not for hearing boring opinions

    • @kseniapyza
      @kseniapyza ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@dijanavukovic2494 most other two hot takes vids are entertaining AND with healthy opinions lol what are you on about? I understand people like her because she's fun, and I'm not disputing that.

    • @dijanavukovic2494
      @dijanavukovic2494 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@kseniapyza Lately I've noticed that depending on the guest, Morgan is very afraid of saying the wrong thing. Saying things like "someone who can give birth" instead of just saying "woman". I don't like where this is going. I really liked this episode because I feel like they just stated their opinions without being afraid of what some sensitive people will say about it.. the title of their channel is two HOT takes, not two unproblematic takes.

  • @gothmomnextdoor
    @gothmomnextdoor ปีที่แล้ว +349

    Make Fannita a permanent part of the show. She is INCREDIBLE!!!

  • @daesloaf600
    @daesloaf600 ปีที่แล้ว +890

    Don’t normally comment but Fannita had me fucking weak. When she said “my bad twin” I immediately followed on IG.

    • @GIJaneB
      @GIJaneB ปีที่แล้ว +84

      She got me with "Fuck Emily" in the first story 😂

    • @ilooklikekirby
      @ilooklikekirby ปีที่แล้ว +55

      “put a MULLET on em” “what’s it called? A MUZZLE” had me dying

    • @Foxyprincess3
      @Foxyprincess3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Literally saaaame

  • @MimiTD5533
    @MimiTD5533 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    Could you bring Fannita on more often? Like, a lot more often? I love her energy, and I love how good the energy is between you two.

    • @iH3artKitties
      @iH3artKitties 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      OMG YESS I LOVE HER ENERGY ON THE SHOW, i need another episode with her

  • @sonokoful
    @sonokoful ปีที่แล้ว +416

    This is the best guest you ever have on this show! She’s so real and honest!

  • @lillianbowers6378
    @lillianbowers6378 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    We 1000% are going to need a follow up on the 'AITA for covering the cameras' story. That girl is NOT safe and they are almost certainly using those cameras for dad or whatever men with power are involved with that family. My heart hurts for that girl

    • @SunCatOnGrass
      @SunCatOnGrass 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      I went to her profile and I think she got out. She amde that post a year ago and her most recent one is talking about her being single and her trouble finding the right guy.

    • @taylorscott782
      @taylorscott782 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@SunCatOnGrass oh thank christ !!! i read that one before hearing it on the pod and i've been latently worried sick abt her !!

  • @ESPHMacD
    @ESPHMacD ปีที่แล้ว +941

    The way OP was talking about Emily as though she wasn’t suffering at all. The person who she was gonna spend her life with died and stuck her with everything. Since his son said to them that he was gonna put Emily on the policy instead and for OP to just focus on how that money would improve THEIR life. That OP could be so callus about someone his son had every intention of staying with for life. Selfish, honestly. And shame on them.

    • @WouldntULikeToKnow.
      @WouldntULikeToKnow. ปีที่แล้ว +120

      For real, Emily should have received at least *some* of the insurance money. She was almost their daughter-in-law and their son *specifically* said he wanted it for her. The parents are greedy mf'ers.

    • @candiedolives5340
      @candiedolives5340 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      Marriage doesn't mean shit anymore & isn't a priority for many. Obviously he felt she was special because he bought a house with her & was planning a future. His parents are gross.

    • @GrungeGalactica
      @GrungeGalactica ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Yeah they literally chose not to take his wishes on board, when he’d specifically expressed them exactly! Even the brother spelled it out for them and they were still unsure? How gross to see his death as just money for you, rather than money to help his loved ones’ lives a little, when they’re dealing with sudden grief. At least they feel a bit bad, so there’s a chance they have enough of a heart to do the right thing? Literally a small amount is better that nothing 🙈

    • @Emily-ld2zt
      @Emily-ld2zt ปีที่แล้ว +68

      For real. The point of life insurance money isn’t to improve your life if your loved one dies. It’s to help you with the financial burden of losing their income and other family contributions. They should use it to pay for the services and give the rest to Emily in my opinion. Their son was not part of their financial picture. He was a grown man.

    • @candiedolives5340
      @candiedolives5340 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      @@GrungeGalactica unfortunately, I don't think they feel bad. I agree with Morgan that he looked into the house deed because he was going to take the house from Emily. I've worked in probate law and these situations bring out people's true colors.

  • @gracer9316
    @gracer9316 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    The parents are fucked up in that first story they think they’re grieving? His gf literally saw him and spoke to him everyday she has to sleep alone now and try to figure out how to pay double what she was so she doesn’t have to leave the house they shared. It’s like actually sick what they’re doing.

  • @peachreed
    @peachreed ปีที่แล้ว +796

    My Hot Take: You don’t have to tell people when you are TRYING to get pregnant. It’s weird.

    • @emmyjulianne6850
      @emmyjulianne6850 ปีที่แล้ว +144

      Oooo i have a story. My fiancé (25) has 2 brothers, 15 and 35 (they’re each 10 years apart). His older brother/gf are well off and they gloat. Their mom is not well off. As kids they grew up in trailers, homeless, etc. My fiancé went to live with his grandma at 13. Older brother and gf offer to host every party, because they’re so “equipped.” When little brother turned 14, they obviously offered to host his party. Their mom agreed. Fast forward to the “party”…not a single one of his friends was invited or was allowed to be invited (they had a pool and said ‘we’re not lifeguards’). They asked what flavor cake he wanted and they got the opposite. They invited older brothers entire in-law family and sat in the other room chatting while the three of us (me, my partner and the bday boy) watched TV and played with a bop-it. Time for cake and presents. Before they even let him open a present, they had an announcement!!! “I’m sure you’re all wondering why Kristen’s mother, grandmother, and siblings are here…well we’ve decided to start trying to lose weight so we can try for a baby!”
      When I tell you my jaw dropped… that was sickening. Poor bday boy had never had his own “party” before and they made it literally all about them. We refuse to have any parties there now. It’s so fricking weird. So so weird.

    • @katieundercover
      @katieundercover ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@emmyjulianne6850 aint no fkn way 😭😭 that’s INSAAAANNNEEEE

    • @lovelanirose
      @lovelanirose ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@emmyjulianne6850 STFU NO WAY!!! Lmfaooo that’s literally soooo cringe. I would’ve felt so uncomfortable 😂😂😂😂 I already know I would’ve been like ….ok???

    • @Yankeesdid911
      @Yankeesdid911 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      To be fair the fact that they’re trying for a baby was pretty relevant to the seriousness of the camera farm story. If she has a baby with that dude she is way way more trapped in that situation

    • @liltheydy9299
      @liltheydy9299 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      People will ask unprovoked. So it’s better to just say it so they don’t keep asking honestly

  •  ปีที่แล้ว +145

    The camera story is scary af. I've been screaming run the whole time Morgan was reading it 🚩

  • @isacarral2736
    @isacarral2736 ปีที่แล้ว +735

    The story about the cameras: girl, RUN, don’t walk away 🚩🚩🚩

  • @Razuberri
    @Razuberri ปีที่แล้ว +704

    when Fannita opened with “fuck Emily” I immediately fell in love 😂

  • @hannahdalsoglio7169
    @hannahdalsoglio7169 ปีที่แล้ว +401

    Story 5 with the cameras... sis, RUN. This is absolutely a cult. This story gave me a physical, visceral response. I bet those cameras are for Dad, and the boys are doing everything at Dad's (cult leader) instruction. Get out, and then find a way to try to reach out to sister in law (after you're safe!!) to get her out too. And I hope to god no one has a baby.

    • @lunniebunnie
      @lunniebunnie ปีที่แล้ว +40

      DYING for an update on this one

    • @Lena-bu6zn
      @Lena-bu6zn ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I thought the same thing. Sister in law refusing to speak to OP reminded me of the way cults make all of the members shun people who disobey their rules.

    • @srkh8966
      @srkh8966 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m really hoping this is fake.

    • @lenaloveroyal
      @lenaloveroyal ปีที่แล้ว +4

      YES. Hearing this made me literally sick to my stomach. This poor girl. This is FOR SURE a cult.

  • @yammiesandoval5890
    @yammiesandoval5890 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    I’m so glad everyone liked the guest i was listening while showering and girl had me dying got soap in my eyes and everything 😂, glad everyone liked her too! Make her a regular!

    • @patrinaperkins1992
      @patrinaperkins1992 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sorry about the soap in the eyes, but that had me cracking up!!!

    • @jamienicole6483
      @jamienicole6483 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh my god literally same I was washing my face and started laughing and I got soap in my eye

  • @emilyweber9619
    @emilyweber9619 ปีที่แล้ว +331

    As a first time mom, I really really appreciate and love what Fannita has had to say about mothers and kids. Usually you don’t get it until you’re in it and it sounds like she sort of gets it. Raising kids is the most hard thing I’ve ever done (though totally rewarding for me) and i totally understand and respect anyone who chooses to be childless. And to hear someone who is childless and might stay that way have the respect for mothers the way Fannita does really made my heart warm 🤍

    • @katrinascarlet5637
      @katrinascarlet5637 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      People forget that socialization takes practice too. Being social not a "wait until they grow into it" type of skill. My mom had a hard time with me because I was so fussy but she was determined and it paid off because I was a flower girl at weddings as soon as I could walk. I was the most social tiny human and was in high demand as a flower girl because I was the only child that not only didn't cry during the ceremony but I loved playing with the flower petals so I had a blast too.

    • @Ugliesteffingskirt
      @Ugliesteffingskirt ปีที่แล้ว

      That's how most childless by choice people feel. Just saying. Not as many mother hating childless women out there as people want to think.

    • @Lovelybug777
      @Lovelybug777 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I took my baby to the movies 😂 he was a good little boy. He was making baby talk, and making little bubbles, but it was at a small part of the Time I was there. Then he went to sleep for the rest of the time.

  • @springfairy5513
    @springfairy5513 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Story two - as a child free person and a person who doesn’t particularly enjoy being around babies and or children… I think this mom was doing everything right ,as soon as the baby fussed she was going to take it outside which is very nice and respectful to everybody else around especially because she acted so quickly to remove the baby so it wouldn’t disturb anybody else

  • @viacake5369
    @viacake5369 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    fannita is so funny and I can so tell morgan is terrified by some of her opinions lmao! I love that morgan is standing her ground though, like with the first story. I think she is feeding off her confidence and its awesome to watch.

    • @kaylahood8307
      @kaylahood8307 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Fannita is so real and such a good co host. I’d love to see her again. Love the contrast in opinions.

  • @jynniepig8343
    @jynniepig8343 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    I am 100% the person who tells someone they’re being cheated on but I also would cut the cheating friend off. I don’t want friends around me who act like that and I don’t trust them. I would also be so pissed and embarrassed if I was being cheated on and everyone around me knew but wouldn’t tell me because it “wasn’t their business”

    • @drulorenowich4884
      @drulorenowich4884 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Same, I'm always down to out a cheater. If my friend becomes a cheater, I'm not really down with them anymore.

  • @briannagallorini5535
    @briannagallorini5535 ปีที่แล้ว +264

    My mom was engaged to marry her boyfriend of two years. She moved from New Jersey to North Carolina to be with him. My little sister was only 12 at the time so she moved with my mom and her fiancé. He was not only planning on marrying my mom but planning on adopting my younger sister because she doesn’t have a dad, (shes my half sister but I don’t usually acknowledge her as that ever). Anyways, he ended up dieing suddenly of heart attack and his family took everything. My mom was eventually allowed to keep the house after fighting for it. But ya my mom and sister were left in North Carolina with no family and almost no house. My sister is 16 now so it was a while ago. Her deceased fiancé’s boss actually sought out my mom and offered her his old job. This literally saved my mom and younger sister. I think about this a lot.

    • @annafluellen6730
      @annafluellen6730 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Wow. I know of a similar story of an old friend of ours. Just awful. I’m glad you mom got that job ❤

    • @WouldntULikeToKnow.
      @WouldntULikeToKnow. ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Jez, that is terrible. My condolences to you and your family.

    • @kristinaerickson2353
      @kristinaerickson2353 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Something similar happened to my aunt. Her husband sadly died in the middle of the night. Her husband thought when he told his agent that he wanted "his wife" listed as beneficiary that meant whoever was currently his wife. No he had to ask them to change it from his ex wife to current wife. His exwife got a payout and my aunt got harassed by his kids for "hiding their inheritance" when she got nothing had to sell the house and move in with her daughter.

    • @TheHestya
      @TheHestya ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Some people out there are so completely despicable. It's gross.

  • @Wefoundwonderland1989
    @Wefoundwonderland1989 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Can we please have fannita back for another episode! I loveeee her energy! And you seem so comfortable & with her too. The vibes are so so good! Love this episode!!

  • @Larissastout
    @Larissastout ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Dude!!! You and Fannitta's discussion on weaponized incompetence was perfect!!! I have totally had this issue in my relationship and haven't known how to express the frustration - this helped me understand! "You're doing the labor but you're making me do the planning" is *Chefs Kiss*

    • @aaustin656
      @aaustin656 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly! The physical labor is only one part. The mental labor is a separate issue/ task. This is why a partner saying that "[insert household task] is easy. I don't see why you complain about doing it!" is so infuriating and dismissive. Because they discount the fact that it's easy for them because they are just executing the steps at the end of a process that has been planned, prepped, and laid out for them by the other partner. Picking up the groceries is easy if the inventory check, meal planning, list making, and possibly order placing has already been done for you! 🤬

  • @lpstigerlily8506
    @lpstigerlily8506 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    “Some parents don’t discipline their kids” THANK YOU, FANNITA. I used to live with my aunt, and she refused to discipline her youngest, but would over-discipline her oldest. My older cousin was getting grounded for being sick while my younger cousin was biting him nine times and she refused to do anything about it

  • @jaz9915
    @jaz9915 ปีที่แล้ว +331

    1:30:00 nah.
    If my friend cheated on their SO, they get a 2 day timeline to fess up or break up before im snitching. As their friend, im holding them accountable for their actions, and i would expect them to hold me accountable as well. Being friends isn't a pass to just let them be a shitty person.

    • @ShelbiPost
      @ShelbiPost ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Fucking agree, thank you!!

    • @Babypixiemagikarp
      @Babypixiemagikarp ปีที่แล้ว +16

      !!!

    • @TaraGruette
      @TaraGruette ปีที่แล้ว +9

      💯

    • @Natika101
      @Natika101 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      agreed! I hold all my friends to account and expect the same. If they are cheating on their SO then there is something else going on. I want the best for my friend and them cheating on their SO is not it.

    • @HD-zv2mn
      @HD-zv2mn ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I've been binge listening to tht and came to TH-cam just for this! 10000% Agree! I was pretty disgusted to hear this and I'm happy to see this comment

  • @shellysaver622
    @shellysaver622 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    5 mins in, and i want her to be a regular guest. she's so fun with morgan

  • @shannie1993
    @shannie1993 ปีที่แล้ว +316

    For the life insurance one: how much can they be grieving if they were digging hard into the rights of the house shortly after his death. I firmly believe they did not like the gf and wanted to screw her over… YTA

    • @arabsiham151
      @arabsiham151 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      definitely i was mortified to see fannita's reaction like where is the compassion

    • @cecropia_mothe2050
      @cecropia_mothe2050 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Also his son dies and one of the first things he thinks to do, is change his Reddit username to grieving dad????

    • @briannam916
      @briannam916 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ​@@cecropia_mothe2050loli figured it was a throwaway but even then it's a bit much and looking for sympathy.

    • @zellagrace445
      @zellagrace445 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Fannita said a little later on if she was the grieving parent she would have given a portion to the surviving gf.

    • @bayleetryon2589
      @bayleetryon2589 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      They bought a house together! I think that's a little more than just a girlfriend. If you are willing to get into that financial situation with someone, it's definitely someone you plan on being with long term. I'd consider them basically married at that point. She deserved at least half of it.

  • @amanduhhcarol
    @amanduhhcarol ปีที่แล้ว +51

    PLEASE bring Fannita back! She’s a breath of fresh air and her commentary was 🤌🏻😘

  • @mrs.rodriguez123
    @mrs.rodriguez123 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    When Fannita said that people who have never been through shit are the ones who do rat stuff, she was spot on. If you've seen what people do when they are angry, you won't even try it. You know what can happen.
    Also, I loved her input and humor on this episode. Hope you have her on again.

  • @blondeboo131
    @blondeboo131 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Obsessed with Fannita she was hilarious and spunky and gorgeous please bring her back more!!!

  • @haileyhollis711
    @haileyhollis711 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    Fannita has to be my favorite guest you’ve brought in! I was so weak! The slap a mullet on the kid instead of muzzle got me😂

    • @FemaleNamedStacy
      @FemaleNamedStacy ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I LOVE Fannita so much. I just started the video and already “give it to me raw, no condom”. 😂😂

  • @summerperlson7787
    @summerperlson7787 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    As someone who was finally told of my SO cheating 5 MONTHS after it happened by one of my SO’s best friends… PLEASE SNITCH ON YOUR FRIENDS. This literally saved my sanity bc I thought I was going crazy.

    • @palmermoynihan2628
      @palmermoynihan2628 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Exacty. I've been cheated on three times and would want their friend to tell me if they knew.

  • @hal2052
    @hal2052 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    Morgan I hope you’re taking care of yourself and taking time to recover from the emotional roller coaster that the last 4 months has been! We all love you and appreciate you so much. I started watching during covid, graduating highschool, now I’m married and I had my baby a little bit ago. We listened to your stories after our wedding, on my first move across country. While I was in active labor with my baby !😂 your show has literally been there for me to find comfort in throughout some of the best and worst times of my life. Thank you. PS: I hope you get your camera back ❤️

    • @TwoHotTakes
      @TwoHotTakes  ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Camera has been returned to me!! But then I had two other packages stolen from my office/new studio space. Like whut?! But thanks for checking in. I love hearing THT has been there for you in times of need. And active labor?! Talk about a THT baby wow

  • @Beeduddz
    @Beeduddz ปีที่แล้ว +33

    You should do an episode of “Worst things people have done drunk” I’ve read some crazy Reddit stories about that and feel like you would find the best ones and make a great episode!

  • @ElizabethSyty
    @ElizabethSyty ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Just wanted to comment on the mom-identity portion. This is SO important. Before having kids I made it abundantly clear to my husband that we need to maintain our hobbies, identities, and OUR relationship. Not just become "mom and dad". I firmly believe being intentional on those fronts directly contributed to our personal happiness, our strong marriage 💪, and our ability to show up as our best selves for our kids. I think it's also important to show your kids how to set boundaries and make space for yourself. ❤

  • @wiggindorfthemagnificent
    @wiggindorfthemagnificent ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Please bring on Fannita again. I enjoy the chemistry between you two, you both play well off eachother. Very fun to listen to.

  • @landowhat665
    @landowhat665 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    Okay you got Drew, Deison, Griffin and now FANNITA? YOU ARE TRULY BLESSING US THIS YEAR.

    • @ScarletASV
      @ScarletASV ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I know right?! What's funny to me is that I didn't know about any of them, but now I feel like I need so much more

    • @landowhat665
      @landowhat665 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Scarlet S I've followed all of them on tiktok for a while, and they are all good people. Morgan has a good judgment of character.

  • @katemcnicol2264
    @katemcnicol2264 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    When I worked for a restaurant, we used to read missed connections every Sunday when it was slow. One time, we found one about one of the managers. It was so funny and awkward. Love this segment!!! 😂

  • @laurenann4693
    @laurenann4693 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    As someone who also frequently says “however comma” I really appreciated the splitting the bill rant

  • @rg2497
    @rg2497 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    As a first time mom, some of the best advice I’ve gotten was to remember the baby joined your life not the other way around. Don’t stop doing the things you love just because you have a baby.
    Also about momma boys, I married one lol. I don’t know if it really is that uncommon but he definitely knows how to do all the household chores. He cooks, cleans, does the laundry.

  • @irispeterson9781
    @irispeterson9781 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    First story had me so mixed at first, but after hearing the dad went out of his way to figure out who actually owned the house. Obviously to take it away from her. Had me mad, still don’t think she should have gotten the whole life insurance, but dad did say his son had mentioned wanting to marry her and add her to the plan. Yeah sucks he didn’t get around to doing it, but it sounds like they were 50/50 on everything and he’s left her with a house that she can no longer pay off on her own. Your son wouldn’t want her to lose her partner and the home they shared.

    • @katrinascarlet5637
      @katrinascarlet5637 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Some people only get married for legal reasons. OP really needs to give Emily enough to not get kicked out of her home but I agree with Morgan's "He looked up who owns it so he could take it" line of thought. I would've just called Emily to ask "Hey is the house outright yours or do I need to sign his half over to you?" But this man got a hold of a copy of the contract and dug through it to figure out who owns the house. Contracts are long (and often need a professional to explain legalese) and if I'm grieving I don't think I'd bother with all that when I could just make a quick call.

    • @trueMAXIMUS
      @trueMAXIMUS ปีที่แล้ว

      wait so i’m confused as to how you’re mixed then because it sounds like you’re agreeing with what everyone else except the parents in the story are saying

    • @irispeterson9781
      @irispeterson9781 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think like Fannita I was mixed at first. Because I don’t think she should get the whole insurance policy. But once I heard the part where the dad looked into the laws about who the home would actually be owned by. Hurt my heart for her. Or knowing that she didn’t even get the amount to pay off the house also hurts the heart.

    • @samanthaM7119
      @samanthaM7119 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@trueMAXIMUS they were mixed at the beginning, but as more was read they agreed the dad was the ass

    • @trueMAXIMUS
      @trueMAXIMUS ปีที่แล้ว

      @@samanthaM7119 ohh gotcha gotcha ty!

  • @kyrabrimmell5953
    @kyrabrimmell5953 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    She is my favourite guest. She is so refreshing and hilarious

  • @sadlystuckinreality
    @sadlystuckinreality ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I know Morgan can sometimes have a hard time disagreeing with her guests so this was a delight! I love seeing genuine hot takes and a little bit of disagreement is fun!

  • @holly22972
    @holly22972 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I’ve never wanted an update to a story as much as I want one for story 5. I haven’t had a physical reaction to one of these stories in a long time, but I was literally screaming “Run!” at my phone while Morgan was reading the story. I truly truly hope that she took those comments to heart and she left. Or at least talked to someone else in her life outside of his family and has somewhere else she can go.

  • @kodamaakemi9758
    @kodamaakemi9758 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    in the cult farm story, I felt so bad about laughing at Fannita's phrasing of speculating how they killed the mom until I saw Morgan laugh at that too

  • @bionikbrainkilla
    @bionikbrainkilla ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "Put a mullet on him!" lmaooo. I just pictured a lil 7 year old boy with a mullet on the plane 😂😂

  • @RebeccaDarlingg
    @RebeccaDarlingg ปีที่แล้ว +110

    Fannita has the hottest take of anyone i've ever seen on these shows and i kinda love it 😂

  • @zoeinkerman969
    @zoeinkerman969 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is my favourite guest episode Morgan's ever done .
    It's nice that she isn't blindly agreeing with the guest, and their energy together is so good.

  • @meganxcox
    @meganxcox ปีที่แล้ว +48

    “Give it to me raw, no condom” should be the shows motto 😂

  • @brooke1257
    @brooke1257 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I feel Fannita on the “no farm life” thing specifically for the same reason of like….if someone attacks me on the farm it’s gonna turn into a horror movie Rq 😂

  • @danielleh7680
    @danielleh7680 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Everyone needs a friend like fannita literally my favorite guest the banter the diversity in opinions the laughter the respect for difference perspectives is unmatched loved this episode so much ❤ thanks for making my day ladies

  • @NicoleUlik
    @NicoleUlik ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When fannita talked about mom's losing their identity when becoming a mom hit the nail right on the head. Thank you both so much for talking about this and post-partum depression! 💜

  • @yikessaintlaurent
    @yikessaintlaurent ปีที่แล้ว +35

    WE NEED TO BRING BACK STREET FIGHTING 😂 I love this girl. she’s just like me fr. It’s nice to hear from a guest that’s not afraid of making people mad in the comments.

  • @planety2k
    @planety2k ปีที่แล้ว +1

    learning how to navigate disagreements without making things awkward or combative can be difficult but i’m so glad ur standing firmly on ur opinions!!

  • @stellar._.sunset7048
    @stellar._.sunset7048 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Agreed, people don’t have to like kids but you still have to treat them as a human being not as something that doesn’t have feelings and won’t remember what you did to it. People are traumatizing kids without know it.

  • @tracy3588
    @tracy3588 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    By far, One of my FAVORITE co-hosts !

  • @YoitsKendahl
    @YoitsKendahl ปีที่แล้ว +68

    please have fannita on more!!!! I am obsessed

  • @mmaritzamar
    @mmaritzamar ปีที่แล้ว +1

    please put fannita on more episodes!!! this was the funniest video I've seen so far LMAOOO

  • @heathersherr3904
    @heathersherr3904 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    I’m sorry but I think they’re absolutely wrong with their take on telling the SO your best friend cheated. If my best friend cheated and refused to tell their SO I’d gladly do it and block both their numbers. Your loyalty to your friend shouldn’t make you have to keep secrets like that and if it does, then you shouldn’t be friends with them.

    • @animeloverforever8304
      @animeloverforever8304 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Thank you I was so socked about their opinion on that and it left a bad taste in my mouth and looking through the comments no one was disagreeing

    • @zellagrace445
      @zellagrace445 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Same. If my fiancé was unfaithful to me, any of our friends knew and never told me I would be way too uncomfortable with the friend to stay in contact with them. So they would get blocked right along with the cheating ex for allowing someone to hurt me.

    • @sarah_bee0321
      @sarah_bee0321 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Y’all. I was not expecting the vehemence in that conversation. Add to that the amount of times they were throwing the hypothetical friend under the bus by calling her a skank and shit like that?? Why?! Why is it so wrong to tell someone’s SO that they were cheated on it? Why does there have to be a motive?? I was really enjoying the episode until that and it didn’t even have anything to do with the stories so I’m baffled here.

    • @marygl163
      @marygl163 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      yeah you´re right as a persone whose boyfriend cheated and all of his friends and family knew, you literally have no idea how that messes u up

    • @cutiebun_bun1654
      @cutiebun_bun1654 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Omg THIS COMMENT. THANK YOU
      I was so grossed out.
      Because i sat there thinking.
      We praise men for telling us gurls if their "best bro" cheated on us
      But we are shamed and are "bitches who are thirsty" if we do the same ???
      Make that make sense!

  • @alyssarivera4461
    @alyssarivera4461 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I haven’t even finished the episode yet and Fannita (along with Sarah schauer) is my favorite guest so far, she is so funny. I also like how up front she is about her opinions, I hope she comes back many times!

  • @arielxlazarus
    @arielxlazarus ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I have mixed feelings about the gf and mom and the inappropriate joke story. Kicking her right out felt a bit extreme, instead of just saying that was inappropriate/uncomfortable and giving her the chance to apologize right then. Plus her son's reaction is off, according to her he was surprised she got so upset, it makes me wonder if he and gf had discussed the joke prior and he hadn't thought it would be that inappropriate.
    Edit: Ok yeah, now with the update and them saying it was his idea to do the joke, guess my instinct was right on there, lol

    • @SocietalNoob
      @SocietalNoob ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Especially saying her standards were high, she seems like the type of parent that thinks no woman is good enough for her son.

  • @megankjos2688
    @megankjos2688 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’ve been working my way through some old episodes I missed. Damn think is a new favourite for me! Fannita is a fantastic guest. Love someone who is so themselves and brings their own hot takes!

  • @paisleyrae207
    @paisleyrae207 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    OK but Fannita’s laugh is one of those contagious laughs that gets everyone around going 😂 and she’s effing HILARIOUS..LOVE her… new follower for sure. Also loving this episode so much the missed connections were a great idea Morgan!

  • @CPhTmama
    @CPhTmama ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ok, I swear every co-host is my favorite, but I fell in LOVE with Fannita. Give us more!! I love how real she is, and unapologetic in her opinions, even when Morgan disagrees.
    I also love that Morgan feels comfortable disagreeing, and y'all can just be like.. yep 🤷‍♀️
    I think this is by far my favorite ep!

  • @rylie.annette4124
    @rylie.annette4124 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Okay the op who covered the cameras I’m actually worried about… would love to hear an update on this if it comes up!

  • @annvanbuskirk6847
    @annvanbuskirk6847 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi! ER worker here!
    I work in an area with a large presence of plain community (Amish and similar religions). They have their own healers and very particular health ways. Most often, it takes a LOT for a plain community individual to come to the ER. When they come in, we do prepare for the worst. They also keep their pain and emotions to themselves, and don’t present their pain like other patients. For example, we had a patient who was impaled through the arm but stated their pain was a 4 out of 10. It was crazy. It is difficult taking care of these kinds of patients because they don’t like modern medicine and especially don’t like pain meds, shots, vaccines, etc. it’s super difficult.

  • @realmnthrwknives
    @realmnthrwknives ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I listened to this this morning but had to come over to comment. I LOVE Fannita and her tik toks, this whole episode had me laughing so hard.

  • @linaelise
    @linaelise ปีที่แล้ว +45

    the first story bothered me. i understand their grieving but so is emily! she lost her partner. she’s the one who has to live in their home by herself now. like morgan said they were together for 2 years so Im sure they knew where they were at in there relationship. I just found it so funny how OP said “let’s stick to the facts and leave emotions out of it” but best believe if the roles were reversed and it had all been left to emily instead of his parents, that comment would have gone right out the window. and something it also rubbed me the wrong way how OP is so adamant about using his sons life insurance to cushion his own life now… like what lmao

  • @Rachel-xg7hs
    @Rachel-xg7hs ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m slowly working my way through the episode as I get time. This one is SO much better than some of the recent ones. I had never heard of Fannita before this. She and Morgan are really entertaining together. Would be willing to watch another episode with Fannita as a guest.

  • @emmelia6909
    @emmelia6909 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    needed an episode of my comfort show so bad today, thank you for doing that you do!!!❤

  • @arielle5752
    @arielle5752 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The silence after 'why aren't you listening to mine' had no right to be as hilarious as it was😂 oh I'm looking forward to the rest of the episode💙💙💙

  • @Honkshoo_honkshoo_zzz
    @Honkshoo_honkshoo_zzz ปีที่แล้ว +31

    With the baby in the restaurant story, i 100% thought the same stuff as Fannita!
    I would've lost my shit, and if my baby's daddy was there, he definitely would've made that jerk regret his shit talking!❤
    Screw that jerk!

  • @Keriberryxo
    @Keriberryxo ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love Fannita! She is so funny and doesn’t take it so serious, she made it such a fun time. Great episode! ❤

  • @Larissastout
    @Larissastout ปีที่แล้ว +56

    OMG not me being the "pet people who like dogs more than people" and getting called out 😅
    I take my dog everywhere(I live in Portland and it's extremely dog friendly here) but anytime there's a baby or toddler I instantly focus on them and make sure they are getting watched/safe. Love my animals, never plan on having any children but babies health/safety always come first!

    • @destinylynn8605
      @destinylynn8605 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sameeee

    • @lois.eunice
      @lois.eunice ปีที่แล้ว +2

      same! as long as your dog is well behaved they should be allowed in everywhere. dogs are part of your family and probably less disruptive than babies. although of course you should be able to take your actual baby with you!

  • @kaylasam575
    @kaylasam575 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The vibe that Morgan and this guest give off are INCREDIBLE !! Brought me right out of a bad day!! I think we need here as a guest more often!! 🎉🎉

  • @3mariahgirl
    @3mariahgirl ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Absolutely loved Fannita’s energy and takes! Y’all bounced off each other so well and I did not want this episode to end!!! I would love to see her on again

  • @chellyo4792
    @chellyo4792 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I literally got full body chills. I thought story #1 was about me at 1st. My fiance Erik passed away last year in October from an accident too. We lived together and I also just turned 30 at the time of his death. So creepy!

  • @MochiTheAxolotl69
    @MochiTheAxolotl69 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve never seen any of Fanitas stuff before, but she’s amazing, I love her, definitely my favourite guest you’ve had on the podcast! Please get her back!!!

  • @Feliciatanktop
    @Feliciatanktop ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "Why is there a pit bull in the Cheesecake Factory?" 😭😭 no cause I be wondering the same thing when I go out

  • @shaielizabeth
    @shaielizabeth ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was one of my favourite episodes and I don’t really enjoy the ones with guests very often. However, Fannita is absolutely AMAZING as a guest. She’s so hilarious I laughed the whole way through. Please bring her on again in the future

  • @SullivanFamilyChaos
    @SullivanFamilyChaos ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love how real honest and genuine this guest is she is so unapologetically her self. It’s refreshing to see people who aren’t afraid to voice their opinions because they hate mob. Love this episode.

  • @brittanyzahn7939
    @brittanyzahn7939 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fannita was freaken hilarious and I love her!! She needs to come back! Favorite guest you have had in awhile.

  • @jessicamart83
    @jessicamart83 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    This was a great episode. I do have a comment about the telling your best friends SO if they cheated. I was really good friends with my best friends boyfriend he was like an older brother I never wanted. She was my best friend for almost a decade and he was so in love with her saving for a ring and wanted to spend the rest of his life with her. I walked in on her and his best friend together….: I called him. Her and I were not friends after that I went to his wedding a few years later to a different chick and thanked me for saving his life. Sorry so long just brought up a memory that I had to share.

    • @moonflxwerxo
      @moonflxwerxo ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I've had a VERY similar situation happen - tbh i don't wanna be friends with a cheater bc a. it's so shitty to do and b. what's stopping them from doing something equally shitty to you?

    • @ShelbiPost
      @ShelbiPost ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Okay I'm so glad to see another comment like mine. I was surprised to hear their takes on this matter. I definitely agree with you, cheating is cheating, I don't care who's doing it. The person being cheated on deserves to know.

    • @mayas883
      @mayas883 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Exactly, I'm not having anyone's back after they betray their partners trust. I also felt like Fannita had some double standards, with women it was like "don't be snitchin' on your friends" and with men "you are never safe girls"

  • @lexvranick5217
    @lexvranick5217 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was honestly my favorite guest episode. Fannita brings such a great energy and I loved the conversations between her & Morgan!

  • @annaroe7851
    @annaroe7851 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    easily the best guest y’all have ever had!!! I love her please bring her back for future episodes!!

  • @kosmickobb8570
    @kosmickobb8570 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Fannita is a whole dam vibe and I'm loving this so much

  • @alli7228
    @alli7228 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Loving the energy in the studio today ❤

  • @devinnewbyart
    @devinnewbyart ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I NEEEEEEED Fannita to come back regularly! Easily a top 3 episode!

  • @justinmontgomery9526
    @justinmontgomery9526 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Please bring Fannita back on sometime. I loved all of her input!

  • @melissaroetto6291
    @melissaroetto6291 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    IM SO TRIGGERED BY THAT LAST STORY BAHAHAHA. Absolutely loved this episode Fannita is hilarious 💛

  • @rachelbubble3582
    @rachelbubble3582 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Omg this was one of my favourite guest episodes. Fannita was so much fun and you guys vibed so well together!! Please have her back on!!!

  • @crashtatti
    @crashtatti ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this was my favorite guest you’ve ever had please have her back !!!

  • @redberriesrgood
    @redberriesrgood ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I loved the energy of this episode. It was so cool to see two different takes be so different and funny. I also liked how they has a discussion/funny debates to talk through conflicting takes

  • @margaritaaceves-king1775
    @margaritaaceves-king1775 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fannita is my favorite ❤️ she’s the most authentically herself host I think you’ve had that I’ve seen! You guys playing off of each others energy is perfect!!