The first story is crazy. People need to talk more about healthy consent. Yes the woman can decide if she wants to have sex or not but using sex as a coping mechanism for pretty much anything is no bueno ESPECIALLY to cope with SA The story about the girl best friend being weird…been there, done that! Literally exact situation where my boyfriend’s best friend died and later my boyfriend and the friends girlfriend “grew closer” to cope with the loss. Yes they ended up sleeping together, hurting me in the process. Coincidentally (and sadly) the dead friends brother passed away about a year later and I saw my ex at his funeral. He attempted to speak to me and I pointed to the dead brothers girlfriend and told him he should hurry up and get to her before someone else does 🤷🏽♀️ idc idc, im petty to the grave when it comes to cheating!
Right and if she’s pretty much telling the guy that is the reason she wants to sleep with him- then he should see the glaring red flag. And grief is a confusing and varied process but it never entitles someone to cheat. I think that girl wants him- badly!
This thread is good!! That first story makes my blood boil… We really have to stop giving free passes to people for them to act like complete a**holes just because they have trauma. First and foremost, everyone has some kind of trauma they have to deal with, and even though some people have it harder than others, it should never be an excuse for poor and disrespectful behavior. Even with a lot of trauma to deal with, your life is still a succession of choices and trauma doesn’t prevent you from making the ones that won’t hurt others and give THEM trauma, that’s why some heavily traumatized people are the sweetest of angels, because they know it’s no excuse to behave like a douche even though they have it hard! This girl can be promiscuous however she wants if it helps her deal with her issues, but she should either stay single or just stick to open relationships instead of betraying someone who loves her because it’s going to « make her feel better » 🤦🏽♀️
For real!! She sounds really selfish and immature and like she can’t consider anybody but herself. She’s probably the type that would cheat and then tell the new guy it was this guys fault and put all the blame on him and it’ll be full on drama!
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The first story is crazy. People need to talk more about healthy consent. Yes the woman can decide if she wants to have sex or not but using sex as a coping mechanism for pretty much anything is no bueno ESPECIALLY to cope with SA
The story about the girl best friend being weird…been there, done that! Literally exact situation where my boyfriend’s best friend died and later my boyfriend and the friends girlfriend “grew closer” to cope with the loss. Yes they ended up sleeping together, hurting me in the process. Coincidentally (and sadly) the dead friends brother passed away about a year later and I saw my ex at his funeral. He attempted to speak to me and I pointed to the dead brothers girlfriend and told him he should hurry up and get to her before someone else does 🤷🏽♀️ idc idc, im petty to the grave when it comes to cheating!
Right and if she’s pretty much telling the guy that is the reason she wants to sleep with him- then he should see the glaring red flag.
And grief is a confusing and varied process but it never entitles someone to cheat. I think that girl wants him- badly!
This thread is good!!
That first story makes my blood boil… We really have to stop giving free passes to people for them to act like complete a**holes just because they have trauma. First and foremost, everyone has some kind of trauma they have to deal with, and even though some people have it harder than others, it should never be an excuse for poor and disrespectful behavior. Even with a lot of trauma to deal with, your life is still a succession of choices and trauma doesn’t prevent you from making the ones that won’t hurt others and give THEM trauma, that’s why some heavily traumatized people are the sweetest of angels, because they know it’s no excuse to behave like a douche even though they have it hard!
This girl can be promiscuous however she wants if it helps her deal with her issues, but she should either stay single or just stick to open relationships instead of betraying someone who loves her because it’s going to « make her feel better » 🤦🏽♀️
For real!! She sounds really selfish and immature and like she can’t consider anybody but herself. She’s probably the type that would cheat and then tell the new guy it was this guys fault and put all the blame on him and it’ll be full on drama!
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