Dallas vlog | brunch, boundaries & burnout!!! 🤠 I'm tired

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  • @tiffanyferg
    @tiffanyferg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1110

    I’m sorry so many strangers have crossed the line with you! You have every right to voice these complaints and establish boundaries, especially with your audience. Enjoy taking time off! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @somethingbettercoming
      @somethingbettercoming 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It comes with the territory

    • @weber1494
      @weber1494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Hey Tiffany I love your internet analysis !
      Kelly Stamps I’m sorry to hear about your dad and also thankful you for opening up with your supporters about the things you deal with.
      honestly its very refreshing and relatable

    • @KB-pg1bi
      @KB-pg1bi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I felt everything that you said. All the best Kelly 😊

    • @mickdog7
      @mickdog7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly

    • @alphamail8974
      @alphamail8974 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@somethingbettercomingSo just never expect people to do better? You sound very complacent and a part of the problem.

  • @bernadettemary2135
    @bernadettemary2135 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    We love a woman who establishes boundaries. So sorry for all the bad experiences and pressures you’ve had with others

  • @BucketListTravellers
    @BucketListTravellers 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's so important to take the time you need to look after yourself. Do what you need to do for you, we'll be here when you're ready.

  • @Je.rone_
    @Je.rone_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Ice skating isn’t something I watch often but when I do it’s always entertaining

  • @tamishastokes
    @tamishastokes 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, I know exactly what you're talking about! It's way too important for us, MORETHANEVERBEFORE, to start thinking of setting up ourselves up to be free from... well, ya know.

  • @TheSadie88
    @TheSadie88 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Live your life on your terms and if you need a break, take it, and come back when you're good. We’ll be here. Stay safe and healthy all around. Sorry for your loss and one day you’ll have your own loving family. God bless you.

  • @mikaela3542
    @mikaela3542 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kelly! I sense it too. Very pleased to hear you are being wise and listening to this divinely gifted survival instinct. Stay in peace ya blessed + beautiful soul, sending my love to you + ze fellow stampeders! Whatever is ahead, love always wins.

  • @curstinw6420
    @curstinw6420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    honored that THE Kelly Stamps has stepped foot in my city Dallas 🤠 an unexpected crossover

  • @SharmaineJoyel
    @SharmaineJoyel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I've never been to Texas but would love to visit! My anxiety controls a lot of my life and I've felt burnt out too. Hoping to finally start my own garden and start new hobbies/projects soon 🌱

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You should do it!

    • @weber1494
      @weber1494 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Moved to downtown Dallas end of 2020 - best move ever.
      South Padre Island for beach life
      Oklahoma for weed life
      Houston for street life
      Austin for hippie life
      High income, low taxes
      My husband is in Texas, he just gotta find me hahaha

  • @ashleyramirez4198
    @ashleyramirez4198 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel her.. I don't even have a TH-cam channel and I get anxiety out in public sometimes. I feel like you need a vacay to Cancun...thats what helped me

  • @jessedeansadventures1156
    @jessedeansadventures1156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are an amazing inspirational person, you keep doing you that’s what I like watching.
    P.S. like I told my daughter when she started dating “ there’s nothing a frying pan to the head won’t fix”. Hang strong and thanks for the thoughts on keeping an eye on things to come and being better prepared, great idea to get things paid down a bit and put a little extra away. Have fun in Idaho!!

  • @anniefox23
    @anniefox23 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Take a break! You deserve it. Thank you for such an honest video it was refreshing to watch. And I’m so sorry about all the stuff you have to go through. I hope Idaho gives you room to breath.

  • @edithgonzalez7988
    @edithgonzalez7988 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your videos, I think you are an authentic person, greetings from Mex , Kelly

  • @melouellette251
    @melouellette251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I feel the impending doom, and I too want to buy land to homestead on in Idaho. Seems like a lot of people have that same idea, so I’ll have to make a move soon!

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s where I am currently!

  • @Severianaxo
    @Severianaxo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes I know the signal your talking about I’m glad I’m not the only one thank you! Look at Montana 🤭🤍 I feel it !! I feel it I KNOWWWWW

  • @Ajanaefitness4709
    @Ajanaefitness4709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello, kelly Stamp. Yes, I am new to your channel. ❤️❤️ and I love your video.

  • @sincerelycalypso4993
    @sincerelycalypso4993 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feels it’s Kelly good for you moving towards freedom

  • @astatine0085
    @astatine0085 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    And so sorry for your loss 😢

  • @cheyenne7982
    @cheyenne7982 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'M HERE FOR COWGIRL KELLY. But for real we live outside Dallas and are trying to start growing some veggies and canning. Maybe chickens in the near future

  • @amandabanana82
    @amandabanana82 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, I feel it too.

  • @lanasova89
    @lanasova89 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    In my 32 years of living on this planet Earth, my tingly esophagus and ovaries has shown me that life comes full circle. Case in point. I grew up outside of US, in a country that the ONLY way to survive was to homestead. So I grew up learning how to grow our own veggies, take care of animals, make cheese, butter, and even saw our own clothes. But I also absolutely hated this way of living. So what do I do? I move as far I humanly possibly to a country where if you want to get tomatoes you go to a store and don't spend hours, days weeks and months waiting for one to grow in your garden. Now to the plot twist. I'm 32 now and seeing the trend towards homesteading esp in US aka the country where kids don't know where tomatoes come from. What's more I now YEARN for a huge chunk of land and my own veggies and homesteading. life id WEIRD lol
    EDIT: Please please please DO take the break! You don't owe anything to anyone. Go to the mountains. Unlug. Recharge. Play with cows idk do whatever it is your soul needs. We'll wait for you :)

  • @kyladanae
    @kyladanae 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was disappointed at the boob job but this is exactly what you are talking about. at the end of the day you are still a person and yes even if people look up to you or see you as inspiration you are still a person with feelings insecurities etc. we tend to put people on a pedestal. It's not healthy. We don't know you personally.

  • @Itsrella
    @Itsrella 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    when u said im not going to go as far as selling my clothes lol. thats me

  • @glossbby1924
    @glossbby1924 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What you said about you sense bad things happening. I agree with you. We see each other.

  • @RaheemD
    @RaheemD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    Wishing you all the best Kelly ❣️
    C'mon Stampede, asking for her phone number out the blue and getting confused when she says no? Is this who we are? Is this what we represent? Do better! 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @Crhobbit
    @Crhobbit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +371

    So many people in the “public eye” are afraid to speak their truth for fear of being cancelled. What kind of a life is it to live a lie just to please others? Your true supporters completely understand what you’re saying. 😉

    • @RobWill5864
      @RobWill5864 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      The only thing that needs to be cancelled is cancel culture.

    • @JulianSteve
      @JulianSteve 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@RobWill5864 To an extent yes and no. Some celebrities, influencers, and politicians need to be called out for their poor actions. On the other hand, there are some people who just cancel anyone for no reason. Kelly did not say anything wrong, but certain people are going to take her opinions wrongly…. And if they do, that’s their problem🤷🏾‍♂️
      I am happy she is saying her truth and protecting herself🙌🏾‼️

    • @rens0n
      @rens0n 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      For real, what's the point of living afraid of that ? Someone, somewhere is always gonna be mad and take something personal...u can't please everyone and u shouldn't even be trying

    • @tiathecreator8557
      @tiathecreator8557 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      TOTALLY AGREE! And I feel everything she’s saying. I’m also very stressed and overwhelmed with his things are going and that’s what’s keeping me stagnant

  • @Jacob-gg1ie
    @Jacob-gg1ie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    Parasocial relationships are so strange, especially on TH-cam. People are given free content yet act like they're owed their due?? Any creators offering FREE content for entertainment/consumption do not actually owe anyone a single thing.
    (Also I want Trader Joe's chow mein now.)

    • @Ren-xc1cb
      @Ren-xc1cb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      FACTS!!

    • @weber1494
      @weber1494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      true! backseat passengers trying to tell the driver how to drive, chile
      kelly owes us nothing
      if she wanted to make a side coin doing meet and greets id definitely pay to meet her (on her terms).
      its the audacity for me

  • @Jessica-bo9kz
    @Jessica-bo9kz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    It’s spiritual warfare out here. It’s gonna get real in the next few years but we need to keep our faith and prepare 🙏🏻 I admire you for sharing your thoughts and what’s been on your heart. I’m sure it’s not easy to not follow the crowd, especially being a social media figure. A lot of influencers are sadly following the grain, and others that see behind the curtain are silent because they’re scared of the backlash they would receive

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Yes you know exactly what I’m talking about! Spiritual warfare is the best way to describe it

    • @NomadicIslanders
      @NomadicIslanders 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Agreed 100%. I feel it STRONGLY!

    • @ViewTifuLKat777
      @ViewTifuLKat777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      agreed. living somewhat off the grid and doing your own thing seems to be the best thing right now. unfortunately things aren't seeming to pan out to living how we are usually used to.

    • @tiathecreator8557
      @tiathecreator8557 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      WHEW! You said the whole truth! I’m finding my tribe in these comments lol

    • @spiritualpoet4003
      @spiritualpoet4003 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen,yes!

  • @HINDZSIGHT
    @HINDZSIGHT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +410

    love this video , probably my favourite one yet.

    • @rubyforsey
      @rubyforsey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🍵

    • @weber1494
      @weber1494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I’m happy she’s showing other sides to herself; other than making constant happy videos all the time. I’ve never wanted perfection just authenticity

    • @EpicKate
      @EpicKate 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@weber1494 It's the most valuable thing. I love how you phrased that. I think most people feel that way but it's so hard to make those real connections.

    • @user-ow7bi3se2b
      @user-ow7bi3se2b 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hindz!! You're the reason I'm following Kelly after you mentioned you enjoyed her work :D adore you both.

    • @wordnodoubt2
      @wordnodoubt2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      BARS. 👍🏾🤛🏾💯

  • @annewhittemore3771
    @annewhittemore3771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    Woah. I’m with you on the tingling, growing, “something bad is coming” feeling. It’s hard to know how much is intuition for REAL and how much is my anxiety catastrophizing the future. I feel it so badly, whatever it is. And I have two little boys and no idea what their future looks like. 😭

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I’m glad you understand!

    • @artistic_jae
      @artistic_jae 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It’s that feeling like the end of the world is near.

    • @Catscratch241
      @Catscratch241 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Intuition is always calm. Anxiety is far from it

    • @calistacisneros
      @calistacisneros 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Once I heard the key difference between fear and real intuition is the feeling of fear, when it’s intuition you’ll simply feel like you know what to do and act accordingly but if you’re feeling frightful that’s fear 100%

  • @StudioJibby
    @StudioJibby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    *constant state of anxiety *not being able to please EVERYONE...dang Kelly it's liked you read right out of my journal today 😬

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I did steal your journal. Didn't you see me enter your home? Oh, well I left some tiramisu on the counter for your troubles!

    • @StudioJibby
      @StudioJibby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@KellyStamps no lie!! I had tiramisu this morning for breakfast?!? That's wild!!

  • @xDHalcyonn
    @xDHalcyonn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    Kelly you're the second person I've heard say something about becoming self sustainable.. reminds me I need to start my own garden. These are strange times.

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Strange times indeed! It’s time for everyone to buy land

    • @Trish....
      @Trish.... 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @alyssa xo or share the costs, community gardens, beekeeping for areas w/o any (not to replace native bees), & live near like-minded ppl who look out for one another.

  • @SharatiaBanks
    @SharatiaBanks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Brunch confession: I’m 31 and I’ve had my first mimosa a month ago

    • @dagogouranta5583
      @dagogouranta5583 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It do be like that sometimes 😂, hope you liked it

    • @littleripper312
      @littleripper312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same age and never had a mimosa. In love with mojitos though!

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I've never had a mimosa LOL. I drank tea!

    • @MARVINSBACKYARDGARAGE
      @MARVINSBACKYARDGARAGE 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm 48 never had one😮😮😮😮😮

    • @RoselySS95
      @RoselySS95 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m 26 and I had my first one a few months ago too! But I didn’t like it 😩😂 I realized that I def do not like the taste of champagne. I was so mad. I really wanted to like it but.. 🤷🏽‍♀️
      Margaritas are def my go-to though 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @MsJaevin
    @MsJaevin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I had the absolute pleasure of meeting you and Michelle at Restoration Hardware! You are so kind, I wish I had the opportunity to talk to you more but I didn't want to intrude on your lunch. I am so sorry you have to deal with all of the scary interactions from complete strangers. I am so sorry about the passing of your Father. Take it easy. Take a break. Your soul is so bright, and the way you live your life is inspiring! Take care of yourself! I'm so glad you're enjoying Dallas

  • @StudioJibby
    @StudioJibby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    Also I'm sorry you're experiencing all of these scary interactions with viewers. It's not ok that you can't just live your life and feel safe and comfortable walking down the street without your space being invaded. I hope you do find that self sustainable life you're looking for soon! Have fun with your time off in Idaho!!

  • @VIAGLO
    @VIAGLO 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I can hear it in your voice that you’re feeling depleted. I do think you taking a mental health break to rebalance and grieve and come back better is something subscribers should understand. You shouldn’t have to feel like this and the people that are weirdos thinking that they truly know you is pretty scary I’m sorry you even had to deal with that energy. Get all the golfing you need Ms. Stamps! 😉

  • @denine685
    @denine685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    "If you know you know" all facts Kelly. My alarm started ringing at the end of 2016 letting me know it's...about...to go, Down! Stay safe and discerned during these times. Best of luck to you.

    • @fulminisrecovery1264
      @fulminisrecovery1264 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      2016? Not 2019?

    • @denine685
      @denine685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@fulminisrecovery1264 Yes, 2016 for me. By 2019 I could see it all clearly so I was ready when 2020 showed up.

    • @AdriannaAndFriends
      @AdriannaAndFriends 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      M

    • @nicolletelangdon2694
      @nicolletelangdon2694 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Unfortunately for me it started in 2000. I've been screaming off the top of my lungs for people to wake up but, they refuse too. We have a two party system in a country with over 300 million in population but are considered a democracy. Yet Cuba who has a population of less than 20 million and one main party is considered a communist country? There are so many wicked things that are shinning right in front of our eyes now, in broad daylight but we are still refusing to see the truth. Our past generations failed us. If the world is in the state it is now, it is because past generations refused to wake up and take a stand.

  • @tammiepulley7167
    @tammiepulley7167 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    If someone asks for my number, I turn it around and ask for their number instead. Just say “this works best for me”. That puts a clear and firm boundary down without shutting the door on them. You are kind of famous so you cannot be giving your number to strangers. I would never ask a stranger for their number. It’s rude.

    • @mordecai8707
      @mordecai8707 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right... like do I know you? Stranger danger is used for kids a lot but i still stick to it and it surprises me how many people disregard it. The men that usually do, do it for shallow reasons as well. Low quality men.

  • @INTERESTEDINFORMEDINSPIRED
    @INTERESTEDINFORMEDINSPIRED 3 ปีที่แล้ว +330

    The down side of being a well known TH-camr or person in general: random people stopping you in the middle of the night to ask how you blow up. That’s scary. Stay safe
    Edit: take that break Sis. Even if it’s for a month. You’ll come back reenergized. A month and a half break from posting content was amazing for my mental health.

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Thanks for understanding and I agree!

  • @justjoelee
    @justjoelee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +419

    the dreaded TH-cam studio app and youtube's passive aggressive "your audiences interest in this video is lower than usual 10/10" 💀💀💀

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +206

      When I don't expect a video to perform well it gets 10/10. The ones that took more thought or personal chatter get 1/10. I swear one day I'll upload a video titled "breathing air for ten minutes straight" and it'll go viral.

    • @lpsloveandgame6046
      @lpsloveandgame6046 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@KellyStamps I feel like you meant to switch the ratings there but I might be wrong-

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@lpsloveandgame6046 correct let me fix that typo lol thank you

    • @justjoelee
      @justjoelee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@KellyStamps I believe the previous ranking was correct, since it's ranked 10th lowest of the previous 10 videos.

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yes you are correct. I misread LOL. But you know what I’m talking about. 10 out of 10 seems fantastic but it means it’s rankings poorly in comparison to my last 10 videos.

  • @hayley8459
    @hayley8459 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    I totally feel you on the notion that something is coming. My sister and I grew up in San Diego and are looking to buy a few hundred acres together in either montana, idaho, or wyoming and learn to "live off the land" in case something goes down. The media has turned different racial and socioeconomic groups against one another and I think this might all be part of some larger plan and we are all just pawns in it. Take the time you need to recenter yourself sis. youtube is not going anywhere soon

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Totally agree. You should watch my idaho video! I wouldn’t suggest settling there unless you know people because it is rather small, but I know several people who have started this plan in Montana and are loving it. I just don’t want to hear any of it anymore. It’s kind of impossible to not see politics and race videos when I upload to TH-cam but have to login on occasion. I do my reading when necessary on politics and race-based tragedies but it’s just actually bizarre to me how often people think about race. But sadly it’s always going to be like that.

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      I admit I was slightly apprehensive about going to Idaho the first time I went many years ago, I was assuming I would run into the KKK LOL. But most people aren’t thinking about my race or gender. I ran into a couple of other black people on my trip and we agreed that it’s actually good to go out to places where we aren’t seen. I feel like it’s my way of making the world a little less ignorant LOL. Think about it, at least 50 people ran into me and now they have a good impression of what others are like.

    • @Loleini91
      @Loleini91 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @ Hayley It’s bizarre how often I see people constantly blaming the media for pitting groups ( based on race, socioeconomic status) against each other, as if we as humans have not already been doing this long before the strong presence of media. Things won’t change if we don’t take accountability for our part in the disruption that has been amongst humans for thousands of years. This isn’t just the media, this is also the average civilian turning on each other due to their own free will.

  • @apieceofcoffee
    @apieceofcoffee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    "If you know, you know." Yep. I feel a spring has been winding tighter and tighter. It's very unsettling.
    I have no clue what to say about the boundary-less-ness that you've been experiencing with strangers. I feel it's a culmination of the past few years where the societal culture has shifted towards personal entitlement, emotional instability and lack of critical thinking (amplified by almost 2 years of isolation). It definitely isn't the first story of it and won't be the last unfortunately. Just keep up your protection, situational awareness and smart choices. Go take a break from all this. You have the ability and you should. Don't feel guilty or take for granted all the freedoms your hard work and success has brought you. :)

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yes all true! I'll take a brief pause and continue to shine

    • @dirtnbloodnotherkids
      @dirtnbloodnotherkids 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@KellyStamps Kelly look into the Great reset/agenda 21. Your instincts are correct. There is a global shift towards the new world order. I don't want to scare you but this is 100% happening and you're on point to want to start preparing. God bless and protect you 🙏

    • @Trish....
      @Trish.... 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@dirtnbloodnotherkids yep - we're seeing the finality of a multi-generational, multi-national plan...

    • @dirtnbloodnotherkids
      @dirtnbloodnotherkids 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Trish.... I pray the people wake up and their plan fails and their evil deeds exposed, in Jesus name 🙏

    • @helenatube
      @helenatube 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      All the fake news, total immersion in social media, and major ecological and societal breakdown is getting to people's heads. Protect your sanity folks!

  • @prinzezz210
    @prinzezz210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    It was really nice to just sit here and listen to what you had to say. There’s this weird energy in the atmosphere and I’m glad you brought it up. You’re human and deserve time to reenergize physically and mentally. Take care Kelly and enjoy this time off! Hope you can clear your mind and brush some weight off your shoulders. 💖

  • @lils6696
    @lils6696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    fun fact: did u know mr birkin named his iconic Kelly bag after our Grand Leader Miss Stamps after he met Her in a parisian café and immediately fell in luv w Her boujee yet frugal vibe

    • @Jane_1994
      @Jane_1994 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      💀👏👏👏

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      HAHA wow! I love a history lesson 😂

  • @thecowgirlmermaid
    @thecowgirlmermaid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    It's crazy how you don't even have to explicitly say but we know / feel it with you. We're all fighting for our souls and yearning for clarity. Love your message and am amazed at how grounded and real you keep it

  • @jamiliahrivera5986
    @jamiliahrivera5986 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    This "deep end nonsense" is why I choose to Homeschool I would rather my children have strong morals and values taught by me
    You have the right to have boundaries 🤷🏿

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I cannot imagine having children in the education system right now oh my goodness.

    • @pl9046
      @pl9046 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes!! I’ll never put my kids in public school

  • @Baldcafe
    @Baldcafe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    This was a great video.

    • @LemonGreenism
      @LemonGreenism 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mr. Bald himself !!!! I love your empowering videos ❤️

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m glad you liked it!

  • @logicandwisdom
    @logicandwisdom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Hey Kelley,
    I'm a mini homesteader but out in the desert. Find a home with alot of land, tucked away preferrably. Get solar and residential battery storage. Make sure your property has a well or is near a river. A well is preferable and install a good well water filter. Build a food pantry and start your garden.

  • @DirectionerColdplayr
    @DirectionerColdplayr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    thank you for making this. people forget that the person behind their favorite video/song/film is still a perfect stranger. creatives can be vulnerable in their work, and therefore relate to others, but by no means does this replace a personal connection. I am so sorry that these unpleasant interactions happened to you! you owe us nothing, truly, (go girl, owe us nothing!) and you should be concerned for your mental health and well-being.

  • @chantelserita585
    @chantelserita585 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    As a fellow former gymnast....I also know the feeling of constantly reaching for perfection. As you know...there's no such thing! Take the time you need: journal, reflect, practice hella self-care and take care of yourself. You deserve, Kelly!

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I’m glad someone gets it. I am constantly reaching for perfection and sometimes it’s OK to just take a step back and just enjoy the process. That’s what I’m trying to enjoy recreational skating without hiring five Russian coaches to send me to the Tokyo Olympics LOL.

    • @chantelserita585
      @chantelserita585 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KellyStamps I def get it. Lmao!! Enjoy it just because…and nothing more. ✨🙌🏽

  • @heyitsjoanne
    @heyitsjoanne 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Ugh, people who don't understand boundaries. And then if you try to call them out for their behavior, they act like you're the problem! It's amazing what a lack of self-awareness can do to people. I don't get bothered by creators not uploading for a while, especially not a week. I have so many other interests to fill my time, so that's why. Also, that's what notifications are for. But I guess the impatient people who can't even wait a week are just bored with their lives. Not that it's a bad thing, but at the same time, it's not the responsibility of creators to fix their boredom. Anyway, here's to a good break for you! I hope you hit the golf ball, lol.

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m glad you’re in the normal bunch who gets it!!!

    • @heyitsjoanne
      @heyitsjoanne 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KellyStamps Ha ha, thank you! ^_^

    • @virtualaustralia
      @virtualaustralia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're absolutely right! As soon as you start to set boundaries with people that is normally toxic or abusive, they start to act like you're the worst person in the world 🤔🙄

    • @heyitsjoanne
      @heyitsjoanne 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@virtualaustralia Yep! That's how it usually goes.

  • @mkdutremble1
    @mkdutremble1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I feel the sinister stuff going down and it’s leading us, somewhere.. seems like the uncooperative are being pushed out of society. Proud of you for your vision to take care of yourself and maintain true freedom and autonomy☺️

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m so glad that you understand along with many others!

  • @holisticlifestyletherapist6918
    @holisticlifestyletherapist6918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    THANK YOU for sharing this message! It is SO important we are prepared in every aspect. Not to live in fear but to feel at peace knowing WE are in control of our own spirit and lives!! 🌱✨🌱 sending higher vibes to everyone. Kelly I’m so down to be a helper in your land lol, sign me up. I’ll send my qualifications lol

  • @oa164
    @oa164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Watching someone taking care of themselves is so comforting to me. Welcome to the self care club everyone.

  • @goldenostrich7629
    @goldenostrich7629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I had a feeling that there was something deeper going on behind the illusion of panera's panorama drama. It won't be public knowledge until years later (like everything else) so yeah keep your focus on you. Hopefully our positivity today can create better tomorrow's

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I agree fully there’s something more to this Panera mac n cheese combo 😂

    • @goldenostrich7629
      @goldenostrich7629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@KellyStamps you are so witty and beautiful! Sending you love from california 💛

    • @zerubablegrrrrrr
      @zerubablegrrrrrr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly. Something is up. A lot of things.

    • @ED-ie3et
      @ED-ie3et 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree. This panorama was planned. I honestly feel that

    • @pleasedontbiteme1117
      @pleasedontbiteme1117 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What's the drama about?? I tried looking into it, but nothings coming up

  • @Fir3bird23
    @Fir3bird23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Definitely feeling the shift, trying not to freak out about it but I'm doing what I can to prepare. Glad to hear you have been thinking ahead too.

  • @chantelserita585
    @chantelserita585 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I definitely feel the energy you are referring to. It also makes me want to be fully self-sustained. Not sure what's to come in this madness but it makes me anxious and driven to be solely dependent on myself. Thanks for affirming my thoughts!

  • @RicardoJPosada
    @RicardoJPosada 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Becoming self-sustaining on a plot of land sounds so refreshing right now. Best of luck Kelly!

  • @tamirajohnelle4700
    @tamirajohnelle4700 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Some of these people forget you are a human being. They get mad because you won’t give them your number. I’m sure they wouldn’t give their number to a stranger either. Some of them are really ridiculous.
    People are out here making videos about you like you’re not even a human being just so they can get likes. It’s crazy to me the things people do to others, but they wouldn’t want it done to them. They are jealous because they want what you have, but they don’t realize when they’re jealous they can’t have what you have. Jealousy is a low vibration and no one can get what they want that way.

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yeah I made the mistake of searching my name once on TH-cam when I was showing something to my neighbor and like 12 videos came up like why I’m subscribing or no longer watching k stamps 😂 I was like oh my goodness I swear I’m not Logan Paul or James Charles I don’t know what that is 👀

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I never said anything about it because in the end, anyone putting my name in videos is just drawing more viewers back to me, but it is very strange to me how my name has become “clout.” 😂 My channel blew up and January but it was bigger than other blowups because FIVE videos took off at the exact same time. It created this sort of celebrity effect but thankfully now it has died off. I used to respond to the first few videos because I thought people were genuinely trying to reach out to me, but now I realize it’s just a way for people to get views and it makes me feel not human. But I’m honored that I was able to create a trend just being myself. when people do that it just reminds me of people who cheat off each other in school. I was never interested in doing that.

    • @tamirajohnelle4700
      @tamirajohnelle4700 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@KellyStamps you haven’t done anything to anyone. Sometimes people are just jealous no matter what you do. All that matters is that you’re doing what makes you happy. This process is weeding out the people that don’t need to be around.
      I don’t think some people understand that you have to get paid to keep creating videos. Sometimes it can be challenging to figure out how to incorporate sponsorships into comedic like videos. A lot of us love seeing you grow and what you to get paid, so just do the best you know how. We’re cheering you on!☺️

    • @tamirajohnelle4700
      @tamirajohnelle4700 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@KellyStamps it’s a mixture of both. Some people really do want to reach out to you, while some others do it for views. I think more people are captivated by you though than the ones who are jealous. If they’re jealous that’s their own karma. I think most people enjoy your humor though. You are so freakin funny in a way that I’ve never seen. :)

    • @YSANROCHEOfficialYoutube
      @YSANROCHEOfficialYoutube 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It seems jealousy dehumanises the object of jealousy. The more someone has or the more envied he is, the less others consider him a regular human being - and his/her hurt or painful emotions. Weird

  • @gabrieleelizabeth6521
    @gabrieleelizabeth6521 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I’ve been experiencing the same sense of dread since November/December of 2019. It comes and goes but it never fully leaves. So I feel you
    Also, I’m really sorry so many people cross your boundaries like that. People seem to have a weird sense of ownership with creators, they forget that you’re just a person too. I also really relate to your perfectionism, and having time off always helps me get myself sorted out :)

  • @drucilladeville
    @drucilladeville 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    When I say I have had that same ringing omg I always just say I have a need to prepare for the apocalypse like giving myself useful skills, being independent and understanding how the things I like work

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      So many people in the comments also get the apocalypse-is-coming vibes

  • @LULUandBELLA
    @LULUandBELLA 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I feel like feeling burnt out or a lil down is the natural process of growth and evolution. You are super talented and I'm beyond sure you've barely scratched the surface Kelly😘😘😘😘

  • @chioma2844
    @chioma2844 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I’m glad that your speaking out on the discomfort you have and being honest with us. This helps us grow and learn.

    • @EpicKate
      @EpicKate 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Absolutely. It helps us to listen to our own guts and act on it.

  • @thefoxnymph
    @thefoxnymph 3 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    "I feel like most of humanity has run off into the deep end lately and if you don't run off with them you're gonna get pushed. And I don't like getting pushed." Love that! ❤️

    • @Ren-xc1cb
      @Ren-xc1cb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Well said

    • @sf7562
      @sf7562 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It struck me the wrong way. Does Kelly mean “falling off the deep end” as in recognising how messed up society is and making a push to change it from the ground up? If that’s “falling off the deep end”, then what’s the alternative? Staying as we are? The past 5 years have shown how we can’t do that.
      And honestly, people should get cancelled if they think things are great and should stay the same.
      Of course this might not be what Kelly means, but it’s the vibe I got. Would like to know if anyone interpreted it differently.

    • @sunnyspaces7
      @sunnyspaces7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@sf7562 Your a great example of “ overly sensitive “ subscriber. Nit picking, analyzing , taking things personal, needing things broken down , offended and looking to find reasons to be offended. 😩🥴🤯🙄

    • @helenatube
      @helenatube 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Sad but so true! I often feel like people these days will viciously attack you for not taking their ultra-left, ultra-right, or otherwise just wacko perspective. It's like they want to tear society apart. It's scary

    • @kaseryn
      @kaseryn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@helenatube Honestly. I so felt both what she said and didn't say on the subject, and actually thinking back i'm sure one of her first video's touching on the trend was what got me first interested. Maybe when we're all living in the razed barren and lawless societies envisioned in Mad Max people will see we actually had it pretty good for a while...

  • @ClaireCraig
    @ClaireCraig 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    I sense bad things coming too... way too much extremism trying to force people on one crazy side or another, lol. My whole channel is dedicated to talking about cancel culture at this point. Just look after yourself, do what you gotta do, and try to stay sane even as it becomes more and more impossible hahaha

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Agreed!

    • @shenova
      @shenova 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same. Let’s make an ALL GIRL HOMESTEAD!!!! 😂

    • @EpicKate
      @EpicKate 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Your channel looks so interesting! I added a video to my watch later. Mine is dedicated to making the world better by being authentic and listening to people from all kinds of walks of life to hear what they are passionate about.

  • @miguelstancil5102
    @miguelstancil5102 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Not sure I’ve ever commented on your channel, but Kelly, thank you for entertaining us. Thank you also, for your honesty. Now, go and take care of yourself. We will be just fine! We will see you again after you’ve rested. Peace and Love

  • @WhatchaGot2Say
    @WhatchaGot2Say 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    I’m late but welcome to Dallas FAM 🤓

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      HOWDY

    • @goodgirlsguide
      @goodgirlsguide 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KellyStamps please put Sheraseven in the Family... You are in the Level up capital. 😉

  • @Ravynrca
    @Ravynrca 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    U were really meant for Texas! your the only person that can pull off saying HOWDY so effortlessly

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      hahaha

    • @SuperSilverJay
      @SuperSilverJay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It depends on where you live in Texas. No one says howdy in the city. I've lived in Texas my entire life and wouldn't be caught dead saying howdy 🤣 and I live in the suburbs to put it into perspective.

    • @Ravynrca
      @Ravynrca 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@SuperSilverJay I know no one honestly says howdy 😭 it’s just the fact it goes with her and the cowboy theme of Texas , I get your perspective tho LOL

    • @SuperSilverJay
      @SuperSilverJay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Ravynrca understandable. Some people honestly think we have horses everywhere here 😂 so I like to give some perspective. But yes she really does fit well with the country lifestyle.

  • @zenabumblebee9738
    @zenabumblebee9738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I feel the shift too! I have such anxiety over it. My gut tells me we are in for a world of hurt. I bought a Berkey water filter, am hoarding food (including pet food), and bought a solar generator. God help us all

  • @SarahWarrender
    @SarahWarrender 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I've heard Idaho is so beautiful. Sounds like a perfect place for a "I don't owe anyone anything" retreat!

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes you should see my other videos on Idaho!! I made at least one

    • @SarahWarrender
      @SarahWarrender 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KellyStamps how did I miss those potatoes?!

  • @jamilgotcher5456
    @jamilgotcher5456 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kelly, have you ever heard of Marie Forleo? She's on TH-cam and she refers people to free tips on her blog or she has some go to links to other people's vlogs she can send them to. Do you have business cards? A Website? The way to handle someone who approaches you like that next time is to give them a business card with your email address only, no phone number. Most people are too lazy to even follow up but if they do that's when you have the copy paste info/links/tips to email reply back with. And or you could also refer them to one of you videos about how you blew up or got started etc. This is a professional way to handle someone who asks you on the spot about how to "blow up" lol. Also sorry for the loss of your father.

  • @desmaralashay
    @desmaralashay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I’m feeling the vibes too Literally have the same goals of living sustainably. Currently working on manifesting my soulmate to move off grid with haha 👀😅

  • @Ash.d.cortes
    @Ash.d.cortes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I really felt this Kelly! Sometimes you just want to disappear away from everyone and spend some me time in peace and quiet, doing what you enjoy.
    You have every right to take that time for yourself, self care is important and I’m realizing this more and more each day myself.
    Hope you get some much needed you time!

  • @TheNinjapancake14
    @TheNinjapancake14 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    My sister and I are looking into buying our own land for regenerative farming and housing. My aunt has her own garden and I remember my cousin showing me how green the fresh lettuce was after a wash vs the store bought lettuce that still had a waxy look.
    Being self sufficient in that way is a great goal to have! You control what you consume and know where it comes from

  • @alyssasantos6340
    @alyssasantos6340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    KELLY so glad you moved to Dallas! I lived in Dallas all my life. Check out Carrolton. There is a whole bunch of korean food and they have hmart! Hope to see you around one day. Please take care of yourself. Health is wealth. We are always rooting for you.

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have made my way up to Carrollton! It was awesome!!

  • @MikePitt
    @MikePitt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Take some time out for you, Kelly. Your mental health is so important. We will all still be here when you get back. Mx

  • @chaichaijade
    @chaichaijade 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Sorry for your loss.
    People forget that we're all human. Everyone goes through stuff; everyone has a right to take the time they need to chillax without having to give a reason or answer to others. You go Kelly Stamps! We'll still be here

  • @ALLISONBICKERSTAFF
    @ALLISONBICKERSTAFF 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    This is making me want to start a homestead with you & @MichelleReed

    • @nancy3939
      @nancy3939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg! Absolutely love when two people im suscribed to interact lmao. Ik it sensationalizes people but in its own respect, it’s like finding out your two separate friends actually know each other :)

  • @simpleschoolstv5287
    @simpleschoolstv5287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Wow this really gives insight into why some of our favorite creators take a break. TH-cam seems so much easier and better than a job, but you pay in other ways. I'm so sorry this is your experience. I hope you find comfort and peace again.

  • @lils6696
    @lils6696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    kelly ur experience w parasocial relationships is rlly eye opening as a viewer! if u wanna do a full length video on it i wud absolutely watch it's rlly interesting hearing an influencer's side of the story

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I agree, I think it would make a great long video topic but can easily be misconstrued as being salty or ungrateful lol. But so far most people appreciate my transparency!

    • @vinyasa748
      @vinyasa748 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@KellyStamps naw. They need to know that what they’re doing is disgusting

  • @m.j.333
    @m.j.333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    When you mentioned homesteading I knew you were on the right path. Its so refreshing!

  • @terrydionnesvlogs9355
    @terrydionnesvlogs9355 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kelly, I sent a DM. I noticed it was off. I am praying and believing positive thoughts for you! I have been a youtuber for a few years but consistent for almost 2 years and full-time for 5 days! (It is ALOT) This video made me sad. I hope you are feeling better!❤

  • @contentlyliving7205
    @contentlyliving7205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    👏🏾Kelly 👏🏾take👏🏾your👏🏾break! All of us who are faithful stampede members will be waiting for you when you get back! 💕You need your rest! Mental health is EXTREMELY important! 😘 I really appreciated the honesty in this video! Wishing you the best

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      THANKS FOR UNDERSTANDING

  • @thatsjustzero
    @thatsjustzero 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So this is the side of TH-cam stardom that they don't tell you about huh 😕. I know I am MONTHS late to the party, but I just discovered you last week and I hate that that happened to you and I hope that you've found some peace in 2022.

  • @bridgestowisdom
    @bridgestowisdom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You are absolutely correct! It's not a conspiracy or crazy talk. Go with what your spirit is telling you.👍🏽

  • @twilight79010
    @twilight79010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Love this video and relate to it so much. I feel the same "sinister" energy you're referring to. I'm glad you're thinking of homesteading/being self-sufficient for the unknown future. I grew up in TX and it is a great place to learn about that, since there is a strong culture of living off the land. Thank you for talking about this so that more people in our generation can start making their own longterm plans!

  • @goodenergi
    @goodenergi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Take a break girl please. I understand the pressure of being a youtuber💛

  • @tajashania
    @tajashania 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    1:31 kelly you can’t be giving away foot content for free like that!!!

    • @Je.rone_
      @Je.rone_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂 this comment is actually hilarious

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ONLY FANS

  • @angelpeace
    @angelpeace 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I totally feel the shift in this world, something is definitely coming and it’s not good. Sustainability is everything..

  • @madisonraetogo
    @madisonraetogo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Ah yes, the holy trinity: brunch, boundaries, and burn out

  • @beckymcaulay6382
    @beckymcaulay6382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    No matter what you post i'll be watching, when you take breaks I'll be here waiting! Kelly we all love you and everything you do.
    I also seen you posting on Instagram that your flying videos didn't get as much traction but I watched your helicopter video 3 times because of how happy you were in it, post whatever you want we will always be here! love you girl

  • @lanremadiba
    @lanremadiba 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I thought I was the only one. Traveling been hectic. And being in the craziest city hasn’t been easy but we do this cause we’re dream Chasers. You inspire me Kelly. It’s an honor to be a part of the stampede . I GOT A STORY TO TELL too

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes!

    • @lanremadiba
      @lanremadiba 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KellyStamps Keep going, girl! 👏🏾

    • @AaronYorkYT
      @AaronYorkYT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Let’s get a HELL YEAH for the fellow dream chasers!!

    • @cultivatingwellness4028
      @cultivatingwellness4028 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @THE INFINITIVERSE OF SWAG Wishing you the best! If you need any help on content writing let me know

  • @ArtsyIslandGirlJamaicanVlogs
    @ArtsyIslandGirlJamaicanVlogs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I have been getting that gut feeling for years now, so I feel you on that. Start preparing from now...slowly but surely. I have the urge also to start creating my apocalypse team (🤣 and start learning certain skills)

  • @stepahead5944
    @stepahead5944 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Strangely relatable! Worked abroad in a country where I was clearly a foreigner (appearance, native language, etc.) and many times the locals would have NO sense of boundaries. Often times their logic seemed to be, FOREIGNER = FREE ENGLISH LESSONS or FOREIGNERS = ENTITLEMENT TO PHOTOS/ ENGAGEMENT.
    There were days where I'd be sick, exhausted, sad, or clearly busy but people still approached. It's one thing to ask for a photo and another to demand such. It's one thing to be curious but another to point, poke or grab me without permission, trail me throughout public spaces, or argue that this invasive behavior is acceptable because people "don't know better", are "just curious", or that foreigners are soo rare that I should just accept it. It's exhausting and not ok! Especially when they clearly understand boundaries when they are the ones in question. I'd find strangers with their hands in my hair unsolicited, for example, but I know for a fact they'd freak out if I returned the favor. The poor behaviors of some can make it hard to remember all the amazing people who *did* respect boundaries and treat me as a fellow human being with mutual respect and the autonomy to give or rescind consent.
    These interactions radically changed the way I lived while there. Over time I didn't explore as much nor leave my house as much as I didn't have the energy or mental strength to deal with all of that.
    Boundaries are boundaries, people. Please, respect them. NO ONE is entitled to anyone else, no matter how "innocent" or reasonable you think your justifications are.

  • @imsoyancy
    @imsoyancy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Setting boundaries can be so uncomfortable but I hope it ultimately gives you some relief from dealing with people. Sending love ❤️

  • @jada8830
    @jada8830 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Praying for a husband, fertile land, and no car payments for you Kelly Stamps🙏🏾❤️✝️💕🌹📿 ps your silk press looks great 💁🏾‍♀️

  • @SusannahPerri
    @SusannahPerri 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you from the earth for wanting to be sustainably responsible, Kelly. Anyone who wants to cancel you for that would probably cancel Mother Theresa (if she was alive and had a channel). I will defend to the end your right to draw boundaries with whomever/whatever you wish! OMG, most people are respectful, but the ones who aren't pretty much are ruining society! I'm so glad there is an ice rink there for you!

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you Susannah! And yes I love my ice rink. I ran into a couple of skating acquaintances who I haven't seen in years and it was definitely the highlight of my week.

  • @aurahaute
    @aurahaute 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Unfortunately people just aren’t as connected to reality as they ought to be. If I see an online sensation I’ll just think to myself “oh wow that’s such and such”. Hence I saw one today while target shopping. People have this tendency to forget although the creator is sharing some of their personal life with the internet, privacy and respect are still vital. Glad you’re able to regroup and not completely freak out.
    On another note….. Omg I luv shera7 😂

  • @spellsgabrielle1737
    @spellsgabrielle1737 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Totally feel the sinister shift! Love how you talk about it here :)

  • @terrydionnesvlogs9355
    @terrydionnesvlogs9355 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not sure why you saying Jethro was so funny to me!🤣🤣🤣❤