Why won't my son talk to me?I want to hear how he feels..[Hello Counselor ENG,THA/2018.10.22]

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    Hello Counselor EP.384
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  • @crayons1584
    @crayons1584 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2292

    "no. I'm a very cheerful person."
    This dude has me dead

  • @elris452
    @elris452 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3339

    i know this is serious but his voice is very soothing and relaxing and the beanie dude has me on the floor 💀

    • @armyyysugasvoice558
      @armyyysugasvoice558 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Nam Balloon I like your profile pic lol

    • @ningnu2403
      @ningnu2403 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      samee lol

    • @sl3975
      @sl3975 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Sameeee

    • @sl3975
      @sl3975 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      But the guy singing is fine as hell

    • @Loui3626
      @Loui3626 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I thought they were together lmaoo

  • @itsdiamondnicole
    @itsdiamondnicole 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3323

    Everyone in the comment section is being nice to this boy because he has good looks lol
    I felt so bad for the mom. His son was obviously going through depression during his school years, and the change of scenery did really well for him. But he left his mom in the dust and all she could do was worry about him because he would never tell her anything. He never even calls her to wish her happy birthday.... I really hope he talks to her more... he will really regret not talking to her more once she passes.

    • @ummmhyeahhh3090
      @ummmhyeahhh3090 5 ปีที่แล้ว +202

      Diamond Ray not really, it’s not bc of his good looks but bc he actually knows his mistake and is sorry about it! Not something you see in Hello

    • @ashanab.7105
      @ashanab.7105 5 ปีที่แล้ว +340

      I think people are being nice because there's nothing to really fault him on. He was depressed over his dad's passing and then his injury ended his track career. One of the symptoms of depression is irritability and seclusion. Luckily he got out of his comfort zone and changed for the better. Most people who sit in the hot seat on this show, are assholes and always say "I don't see this as a concern" "I don't remember this happening" but he apologized, was polite, and realized what he did wrong. I don't think he had ill intentions by ignoring his mom. Alot of us take out parents for granted because we assume they're always going to be there. He seems like a good guy, i'm sure now he realizes how much she loves him, and will try better with communication. They just needed to have this heart to heart❤

    • @dprsky
      @dprsky 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Diamond Ray I was thinking the same thing as well... Once someone passes, you regret stuff. But he has time to make up for it, and I hope he does before it's too late.

    • @KateLove21
      @KateLove21 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      I felt so bad for the mom, and the father has passed away too. How lonely she must be. I do think the son understood the situation though and I have hope he really will change. I wish this program did updates on guests.

    • @LvveevvL
      @LvveevvL 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      People with good looks has it better, it's facts. Most people in the comments actually cares if it doesn't involve a good looking person but now literally 90% of the comments are ppl talking bout all their looks. Although this boy is different than the others because he knows he's not acting like the best son and he does have a reason to be sad and depressed but the mother is most likely 2x more hurt than he is cause think about not having 2 loved one by ur side at all times.

  • @nameless3575
    @nameless3575 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2143

    It hurts to see that his mom was the only one making effort to keep the conversation going . I hope he'll communicate more with his mom in the future .
    Side note: he's kinda cute 👀

    • @ILoofYou
      @ILoofYou 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      e

    • @junebees8491
      @junebees8491 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I like the idea of sending a selfie to his mom each week, either with friends or at different location. That would be a way to say a lot without having to speak much.

    • @gabbyv7921
      @gabbyv7921 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ikr

  • @rawna7920
    @rawna7920 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1139

    Even though I understand his side of the story, I feel bad for his mom. She’s such a sweetheart, she cares for him, she’s worried and for as far as we know hasn’t done anything wrong. Moms like this are so important, if he keeps this up he’ll regret it so much if anything happens to her. I can sense the love she has for him.

    • @Kimmi___.
      @Kimmi___. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Vip Tae so true I would be so thankful if I would receive so much love of my mother..she is so pessimistoc against me - always. rn i am fine with that, but it wouöd be cool to have such a caring mother, then I could have a healthy relationship with her

  • @zahirahwan506
    @zahirahwan506 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1746

    The guy with beanie is so cuteeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee. I can't

    • @dprsky
      @dprsky 5 ปีที่แล้ว +160

      zer I knoe right!? He is your typical "looks like a gangsta but is actually a softie" kind of guy hahaha.

    • @anawkwardsweetpotato4728
      @anawkwardsweetpotato4728 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      YES HE ISSS dsjfhjgferbhwrf

    • @thoriqmuallim606
      @thoriqmuallim606 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Idk but go kyung pyo vibe? Cute and manly at the same time

    • @thoriqmuallim606
      @thoriqmuallim606 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      17:40 oh

    • @akaisora5427
      @akaisora5427 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Truuuue, I just wanna pinch his cheeks 😄😄

  • @dingdongg01
    @dingdongg01 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1118

    i'm sorry but three of them make the visual holy trinity

    • @eltommo6078
      @eltommo6078 5 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      Ikrrr. I wouldn't be surprised if they were popular in their school.

    • @ashlynx1296
      @ashlynx1296 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I need to know them SNS

    • @robertdowneyjr5478
      @robertdowneyjr5478 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      bangstan for bangtan *Ikr.*

    • @Miafjdd
      @Miafjdd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      the guy on the right was hella cute

    • @lasrie9689
      @lasrie9689 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      beanie boy was so fine

  • @Quomooo
    @Quomooo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1701

    Two things: 1. The son reminds me of Day6's Jae.
    2. Beanie guy is life.

    • @valerietan8176
      @valerietan8176 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      omg omg omg same but jae definitely gunne be a better dancer den him
      beanie guy reminds me of Dae Yeong from descendants of the sun, you know the second male lead
      esp the "no comment" part
      so DAMN CUTE

    • @Quomooo
      @Quomooo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@valerietan8176 Trueeeeeee!

    • @catr2260
      @catr2260 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      i knew i couldn't be the only one!! their smiles look the same

    • @bemyday3656
      @bemyday3656 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Goshh i thought it just me

    • @staerrynight264
      @staerrynight264 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Omg I thought I was the only one who thought the son looks like Jae but I was wrong.

  • @ny9296
    @ny9296 5 ปีที่แล้ว +931

    Is anyone not gonna talk about the backgroud chat screenshot, I lowkey thought he was some kpop idol i don't recognize lmaoooo turns out he's the son 😂😂😂 soooo handsome. I hope the relationship between the two of them gets better 💖

    • @kc.dia.
      @kc.dia. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      :o I didn't realise until your comment. Wooow

    • @ny9296
      @ny9296 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@kc.dia. haha yess I realized it on minutes 6:48 from their conversation lolol 😂

    • @kc.dia.
      @kc.dia. 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ny9296 ahh that makes sense, I completely missed that ahha. Thank you

    • @jessicalee1071
      @jessicalee1071 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I thought no one will notice hahahaha

    • @belenlen18
      @belenlen18 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      i was just thinking which idol was it and then they said it was her son i was shocked lol

  • @SarahYukia
    @SarahYukia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1632

    Her son's voice is so soothing and calm, I'll come thru if he opens an ASMR channel lmao

  • @JM-iu2ss
    @JM-iu2ss 5 ปีที่แล้ว +620

    Tbh when they asked if he has anything to tell her I don’t know why but I thought he was gonna say
    “I’m getting married in a few months and I got a kid”

    • @teax7402
      @teax7402 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      J M lmaoo

    • @notnoott
      @notnoott 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      What the heck😂🤣

    • @user-hr7cj6fx4q
      @user-hr7cj6fx4q 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I thought he was going to come out as gay

    • @aubriaubri8214
      @aubriaubri8214 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Omg I'm deceased 😂😂😂😂

    • @damihatlaw8273
      @damihatlaw8273 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      LMAO....you're crazy but I love it 😂😂😂😂

  • @tangy8213
    @tangy8213 5 ปีที่แล้ว +468

    Why are majority of the comments about their looks -_-
    I feel bad for the mom. She must be lonely and her son doesn’t talk much either. I hope he learns to open up to his mom so they can strengthen their bond together

    • @railenbow4502
      @railenbow4502 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Tangy that’s all they care, his handsome look won’t change how horrible he is if he’s ignoring his own mom like that like she’s nothing I wish I could see my mom and be with her 24h and I regret every time I was with her but on my phone and not communicating with her..

    • @constel-lations4343
      @constel-lations4343 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I know, makes me mad that they focused more on his looks rather than the problem.

    • @shjns_
      @shjns_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Because they’re thirsty

    • @lavinder11
      @lavinder11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's all most childish kpop fans care about.

    • @nurafernandes7876
      @nurafernandes7876 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@bringdaruckusss5408not everyone is a koreaboo , koreaboos are people who think they are korean and would throw out their own nationality. So don't...

  • @blessingrose9952
    @blessingrose9952 5 ปีที่แล้ว +715

    Beanie guy had me deadddddddd😂😂😂

  • @topia817
    @topia817 5 ปีที่แล้ว +464

    The 3 of them are so good looking 😍

    • @ashlynx1296
      @ashlynx1296 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yep i need to know their SNS

    • @safiya8930
      @safiya8930 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      OMG that is going to change my life (not)

    • @dia_lainie_
      @dia_lainie_ ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ashlynx1296 same, btw do u have it now??? if so can u pls send

  • @yuujikun712
    @yuujikun712 5 ปีที่แล้ว +533

    You guys are lucky enough you still have moms and dads to talk to. While me...
    I’ll be good to them if only god gave me another chance to met and to be with them.

    • @MariahBunni
      @MariahBunni 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      BTS’sArmy A.C.E’sChoice Oh I'm so sorry :( Yes, many people don't take advantage and love their parents. I purple you 💜💜💜

    • @aylinca8179
      @aylinca8179 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ...I'm sorry for you💜🙁If you need someone to talk I'm here for you^^If you have instagram or Kakao Talk dm me💜(Need your ID)

    • @TeeB7
      @TeeB7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      :( I wish my mom was here too...

    • @nainaarora1885
      @nainaarora1885 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same here, lost my mom and fought alot with her when she was alive, I wish I could tell her I did love her

    • @aylinca8179
      @aylinca8179 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nainaarora1885 don't worry dear I'm sure she knows that you really loved her and still Love her so much even if you fought. Love always doesn't mean that you'll have peace or that you don't fight you know? 💖I'm really sorry for you😢but don't be sad I'm sure she's really PROUD of you and she loves you so much
      Take care of yourself💜

  • @lisaoppa5784
    @lisaoppa5784 5 ปีที่แล้ว +320

    I don't think you should say you find your parents messages annoying on tv shows to the public no matter how annoyed you are. You're embarassing your parents and making them sad when they just love you so much and care about it. Wait until your parents is gone you will regret everything and feel lonely and wish that your parents can "annoy" you again.
    This is to the girl with red hair who called her father annoying when obviously her father will watch this show cause as she said her father is her big fan. And also to all the childrens out there no matter how annoyed or fustrated you are please don't do this to your parents it breaks their heart really.

    • @putikpadi275
      @putikpadi275 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Why is this such an underrated comment? I 100% agree with everything your saying, that wasnt a good thing to do, hope this comment grt recognized!

    • @aohana9263
      @aohana9263 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      👍👍👍👍👍

    • @dzevada1992
      @dzevada1992 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Agree even though my mom can be very annoying it’d because she loves me and some day when she’s gone I’ll miss those text

    • @xiioh6788
      @xiioh6788 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      When she said that i was like "wouu girl your gonna regret that so much you don't eve-"

    • @hoshook
      @hoshook 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am still dying to find out so please drop it~

  • @emptyblank3396
    @emptyblank3396 5 ปีที่แล้ว +243

    OMG the guy with the beanie Wass everything! 😁👌

  • @vivianinnie
    @vivianinnie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    I think all of us should talk about the concern more then the boy's looks.

  • @Abcd-br4mz
    @Abcd-br4mz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Bro he’s good looking and has a good voice I hope he cares for his lovely mum from now on

  • @Lyshie7
    @Lyshie7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    A boy/man that loves his mother is a man that could love his wife very well. Your mother cares about you because she loves you. She did not carry you for 9 months to burden you.. Some people wish to have a mother figure in life but unfortunately they don’t. You should never take the things you have for granted, time goes very fast. He should talk to his mother, because we don’t know when she’ll send her last text to him. For sure he will regret not being able to speak to his mother one day.

    • @chrishendricks1736
      @chrishendricks1736 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not true. He'll take his mom's side against his wife.
      Happens all the time.

  • @hariysni473
    @hariysni473 5 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    I hope he will be good to his mom afterwards bcs he's gonna regret it later if he doesn't ;')
    p/s;His friends are cute (he's cute too)

  • @marumaro2012
    @marumaro2012 5 ปีที่แล้ว +638

    i really relate to the son, i kinda get the feeling that he's exactly like me. i see a lot of people in the comment saying that the son is at fault and how he should be grateful that he still has a mother and such. sometimes, it's not that we don't want to talk to our parents, it's just really awkward. i'm also an introvert and while i do get loud with friends i'm close with, it doesn't change the fact that i'm an introvert. my mom worries over everything and keeps forcing me to go outside and be more extrovert as if being an introvert is such a bad thing. thing like this makes it really annoying because she keeps trying to force me into something i'm not.
    my mom also views me as a child so she forbids from doing anything, now i became a 20 year old with not much real life experience with no passion for anything and no idea of what i wanted to be because i always followed what my mother told me to do. in addition, while it seemed like the mother is really caring as she keeps wondering what her son was up to, the son might not feel what the mother was trying to show. my mom always asked me how i was doing, but then when i actually told her how i'm feeling and such, she just ignored it or turned it into a session of nagging. sometimes, she would do the same thing as the guy's mother (saying that there must be something wrong when there wasn't or forcing what she believed had happened onto me) and it made me felt unappreciated and so i decided to just stop telling her and it created a distance.
    i know i should try to repair my relationship, but i don't know what to do or say to her because i don't have any example to learn from and i was never affectionate from the start anyway. i think the son might be feeling the same thing i did.
    well this turned into a long ranting session, but my point is that before concluding that the son is bad and ungrateful, we should think and consider what the son might be feeling. there's always two sides of a coin.

    • @myrundise2552
      @myrundise2552 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      I was like that too, but being a bit older now and living on my own I look back and definitely regret how harsh I was to her at times. For me our relationship definitely got better when I moved away from my parents (I hope you find a good balance within your relationship too :)).
      Although the mom should probably learn to give her son some space and not push her narrative on him (I hated that the most) I do think she would find that a lot easier to do if he just let her know he was doing well every once in a while (with more than one sentence). For her to find out he's achieving/doing all these great things without her knowing is unnecessarily harsh in my eyes. And it doesn't help stop his mother from overworrying either.
      But you're right she definitely has to respect his boundaries and personality more. I think it's good he went out on his own and started undertaking things that he liked and decided on himself.

    • @marumaro2012
      @marumaro2012 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@myrundise2552 true, i went to a uni in a different city now and i communicate better with my mom now. I think after this the son and the mom will definitely be able to mend their relationship, the son just didn't know how to start first and i think coming to hello counselor gave him the chance to start.

    • @kas506
      @kas506 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      i agree, like its not that i dont appreicate my mom its just awkward for me to talk to her and the rest of my family bc i have a harder time expressing myself

    • @kinseybae2450
      @kinseybae2450 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My mom ignored me when I was 12 (because at that time my cousin moved into our house and she paid all attention to her) so I started felt lonely. She favor my little cousin. I hope less from my mom because I don't want to be dissapointed. She never asked me how I'm doing at school. Until now even when I'm facing a hard time I always keep it in myself because it's too awkward to tell her. It's been a long time since my cousin moved out from our house and our relationship is getting better. Maybe because she feel guilty? Idk😥 my darkest past

    • @marumaro2012
      @marumaro2012 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@kinseybae2450 have you tried talking about it with your mom? while my case isn't really the same as yours, but i told my mom that i felt like she is unfair and that she loved my siblings more than me a few times, both directly and indirectly through letters and such. it helped a little bit

  • @madyalvarez428
    @madyalvarez428 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I cried when he sang to her... she seems like such a sweet woman who tries her best for her son, and he seems like he's struggled with depression and doesn't know how to express his feelings well. I hope he calls her more and does more to boost her self-esteem. I hope their relationship improved after this... I can't even imagine how lonely she must be.

  • @dnahubs
    @dnahubs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    Seeing as she lost her husband 8 years ago and now her son lives very far from her and doesn't contact her, I think she must be really lonely. I would have thought that they'd be closer seeing as there's just the 2 of them specially with his mom being handicapped due to having polio.
    I think the mom may have been a bit overbearing with her worrying because she's trying to over compensate for being a single mom and for not being able to do more for her son or give her son more things since she's not financially stable because she can't work with her disability.
    I do hope that they'll be able to cultivate a closer relationship now that at least they've learned each other's side, and hopefully understand why they act the way they do.

  • @emptyblank3396
    @emptyblank3396 5 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    I hope they sort everything out, the mom looked truly hurt. Even a good morning can strengthen a relationship. The son needs to realize that the first person to love him was his mother. That's my opinion, I hope everything goes well. 😁

    • @unursyafeeqa7658
      @unursyafeeqa7658 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Siapakah itu yang bernama nissa sabyan ini sebenarnya n adakah dia merupakan seseorang yang terkenal n popular di malaysia ini ke?

  • @charklat
    @charklat 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Crying for the mom. She cares so much about the son yet he doesn't appreciate it, show her the love she deserves, she raised him.

    • @safiya8930
      @safiya8930 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Honestly it’s such a serious issue. I expected more comments like yours on this comment section. Unfortunately people find it more appropriate to mention their looks instead.

  • @anthoniaoffor3873
    @anthoniaoffor3873 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I love that he owned up to his mistakes because it takes courage to do so. He is really a good singer and a jack of all trades. I understand his moms feelings especially since she's handicapped and lost her husband and has only him. Hopefully, they communicate more because I feel they want to say more things but because this is a timed show, they can't really say every thing they want to say. I wish them well.

  • @kymeana
    @kymeana 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    tbh i feel this boy on some level. A lot of us asians is shy with affection especially with parents. But this boy is a bit over the top.
    also, hope he starts his own ASMR channel

  • @vipblackjack8079
    @vipblackjack8079 5 ปีที่แล้ว +310

    It's not about he doing well or not..but how can you ignore ur mom like tht..seriously she has no one but only you. And it's not cuz he awkward but he not fond with his mom anymore

    • @beomkyutie1112
      @beomkyutie1112 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I’m kinda like him, it’s not that I don’t want to talk to her it’s just I have so many emotions pent up in me and whenever I talk to my mum I always end up feeling more frustrated and taking my feelings out on her, so I don’t. After a while it becomes a habit and you can just block them out completely, it’s not good but

    • @railenbow4502
      @railenbow4502 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      TheMystery30 ohhh so leaving your parents that didn’t do anything bad to you but love you and care about you a mom that did everything for you when you couldn’t do things without her help, is ok and not considered rude? If he is that busy with his life then at least saying good morning and good night everyday in a text message is going to make her happy and take him seconds to write..

    • @LvveevvL
      @LvveevvL 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @TheMystery30 wow is this how you treat ur mother. You don't have to "chase after" your "mother's ass" to show you love someone and is there for them.

    • @minoriruba1828
      @minoriruba1828 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Heh... Asian mothers are not the type to find a boyfriend after their husbands death. She sticked to her son and didn't remarry cuz she thought that husband wouldn't love his son...This mom is so selfish...don't know why but I've always seen selfless people getting hurt..
      .

    • @anak4600
      @anak4600 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@minoriruba1828 wait I don't get you? She is selfish ? Or?

  • @itsfaustinee
    @itsfaustinee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    It's sad that a lot of people my age take their moms for granted (not saying all). You should show how much you love your mom as long as you can.

  • @utamiamalia
    @utamiamalia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    I think I can relate with him since it is the same for me for not replying my parents message really quick or calling them first. It is not because i don't love them but I'm not used to it and i feel kind of embarrassed to show my love to them.
    Btw his friend in grey shirt is really cute ❤

    • @Aerany02
      @Aerany02 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same🙃

    • @gaybodypillow
      @gaybodypillow 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      same dide

    • @bhebheko7633
      @bhebheko7633 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Nado I can't even express my true feelings to them ,even saying happy birthday its really hard to say those words ....also i was very talkative person but when I'm with my family I don't know how to start a conversation

    • @63.minzashahid49
      @63.minzashahid49 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @utamiamalia
      @utamiamalia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bhebheko7633 i feel you

  • @circlerie
    @circlerie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I hope he’ll learn to communicate more with his mum or he’ll end up on Hello Counselor again as a husband who doesn’t talk with his spouse and children.

  • @aishahazmi474
    @aishahazmi474 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I cried because I can relate my life with him.

  • @Simmer4EVR998
    @Simmer4EVR998 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    what a goodlooking friend group LOL. But I can understand both sides, I hope they both develop more understanding for eachother too, I hope the son will contact his mother more because she really cares for him. And I hope the mother acknowledges her son is more grown but she’s really means the best.

  • @aleah4101
    @aleah4101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    **serious face** No. I'm a very cheerful person.
    I love the beanie guy lmao

  • @konnichita
    @konnichita 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    He should try to make the effort to take his mom into consideration. Yes, parents can sometimes be overbearing but I know his mom is just worried about him, she loves him. I think if he explained her how he feels or be in touch with her more often she wouldn't worry that much.

  • @cinnarenaroll1292
    @cinnarenaroll1292 5 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    I understand both sides though. The mom just wants to know more about her son, but he just wants to be more to himself. I also get annoyed when my mom asks too many questions LOL I think that he's at that age (and situation, considering that he lives away from her) that he'll start to LEARN that his mom just loves and cares for him. He should try to bond with her more before it's too late. I know that it can be annoying, especially when personalities clash, but if you love someone you should sacrifice a little bit. Like let's say you like staying in and hanging out at home, but your mom, who you haven't seen in a few weeks, wants to go out for lunch or go to a festival or something. Just go for a little bit!
    This situation is a little different from mine because my mom is sociable and has friends (and my other siblings) that she can go to when I'm busy with school or work, but this mom doesn't seem to have anyone else. Just her son. I hope that he realizes that. He seems like a good kid and he seems to know what he's done wrong in the past, so I think it won't be too hard for him to open up a bit

    • @cinnarenaroll1292
      @cinnarenaroll1292 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Another thing that I can relate to, is that I'm more silly and talkative around my friends. I'm sometimes goofy and funny at home but my mom doesn't see it much so she's always like "You're always so grumpy and quiet, you should joke and sing and dance more" and I'm like "..... I do, you just don't see me when I do" 😂

    • @MariahBunni
      @MariahBunni 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      just tell me why yeah I agree. I love my mom to death but she is very talkative sometimes and I just zone her out with music but I feel bad for doing it at the end of the day. However I don't ignore her all the time like he does which is very rude. Side Note: CAI XUKUN YAY!

    • @kellyang12345
      @kellyang12345 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      just wanted to leave a comment becAuse i see kunkun❤️ 坤坤and justin are bae hehe

    • @safiya8930
      @safiya8930 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Parents ask questions because they child doesn’t start the conversation or make the habit of talking to them. Then ask her questions back!!

  • @sabinav.6127
    @sabinav.6127 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I could listen to her son's voice all day...He sings so well too.

  • @hudarsd
    @hudarsd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I feel bad for his mom. His mother doesn't ask a lot. Just for them to have a better relationship. I hope he'll try hard to make his mother happier.

  • @widyaemmy4341
    @widyaemmy4341 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I tear up when she said that she is embarrassed of getting money from government😭😢

  • @yos33tdr3ams
    @yos33tdr3ams 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I swear that some of us introverts actually secretly love the attention from our parents and we play hard to get at times. But this level of hard to get, is just messed up. I really hope he at least calls her more often and shares his thoughts with his mom.
    Also, guys like Beanie Boy, give me hope for future romance ❤

  • @yutasnessa9003
    @yutasnessa9003 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I keep rewatching and I have to say I understand him I really do but he can’t just leave his mother like that I understand his mother more like she doesn’t want to lose her son and that warms my heart like she’s so sweet and beautiful

  • @chenniekim4045
    @chenniekim4045 5 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    The son is handsome... :)

    • @safiya8930
      @safiya8930 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      His behaviour isnt

  • @Rsie-tc1zp
    @Rsie-tc1zp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    His Mom is so sweet and lovely ! I love her so much ! She was so worried about him and didn't even heard a " Happy Birthday , Mom " from her son on her Birthday :(

  • @nurnajihah6935
    @nurnajihah6935 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    one day when your mom is gone, you will miss and longing for every messages and the unnecessary worries that she gave you..of course when your mum still alive you can ignore her like that..wait until she is gone

  • @alessiab.6418
    @alessiab.6418 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    that _cheerful man_ is so unique lol i kinda like him

  • @valerie0091
    @valerie0091 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I really think its normal for kids not too communicate that much with the parents. I myself tend to forget messaging my parents because of the schedule and because I just don't talk that much at home.
    Btw, those three guys are cute.

  • @loonatic7898
    @loonatic7898 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I hope he talks to his mum more now,she clearly just wants his love and he should be happy he has such a sweet and caring mum.

  • @joelinepretty79
    @joelinepretty79 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    At first, I think her son was type of ignore-type person but it turns out he is very independent person. I’m glad he is doing very which it amaze me that he’s PR manager.
    The comedian (forgot his name) I agree what he said not calling is an excuse because of course, her son should have a lot of communication with mom. It’s not only that because her husband passed away and nothing else to talk with.
    PS: Her son and two friends are extremely handsome... ☺️😏 I can’t deny it. Damn me

  • @serendipity6087
    @serendipity6087 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am I the only one thinking about his voice? It’s so beautiful. He is singing so beautifully

  • @xxvietchickxx1
    @xxvietchickxx1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +640

    If anyone finds his social media HMU HAHAHA

  • @morgane9306
    @morgane9306 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the voice of the mother she should make radio 😊

  • @soulmate6365
    @soulmate6365 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I loved that beanie guy😂😂

  • @mannermode5378
    @mannermode5378 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    you only have one mother. no one can replace her. please appreciate her more. once she not in this world any more. how much you cry she doesnt come bank anymore. please give your mom so much love and make her happy.

  • @pearlskis9741
    @pearlskis9741 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm sure he'll realise it one day. Just hope its not too late. I pray that the mom will find happiness (regardless of her son's cruel behaviour) and love in her life.

  • @NoName-gx7cp
    @NoName-gx7cp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ive been coming here again and again just to listen to his voice

  • @onfusensationee
    @onfusensationee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Okay but.. why do all 3 of them look so handsome?😩😍

  • @lovemyselfloveyourself856
    @lovemyselfloveyourself856 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The son,He has a idol visua. Great voice and can dance as well.😍😍

  • @ootarichan5387
    @ootarichan5387 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    10:05 lol I wished my mom worried over nothing. Every time I’m sick or something big happens she just thinks I’m faking it, I literally have to be on a “ dying “ state for her to take it seriously.

  • @nelizapinto1076
    @nelizapinto1076 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm literally crying he has a beautiful voice ❤❤🙏🙏

  • @beautifulorchid5107
    @beautifulorchid5107 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That guy in the beanie is my favorite haha I wish I knew him.

  • @joanna8237
    @joanna8237 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    oh my his voice is so great

  • @snurmalafitri
    @snurmalafitri 5 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    The friend with beanie looks like dean. Anyone agree?

    • @harundaniel7705
      @harundaniel7705 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      sorry mate, don't see it

    • @bee-3220
      @bee-3220 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He looks like Jiwon from Spica to me.

    • @Fishlover-lt7cf
      @Fishlover-lt7cf 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      He looks like the friend of the 29 year old in plus nine boys

    • @tiffanya2516
      @tiffanya2516 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      His personality is like siwoo from a-teen😂😂😂 so blunt I love it

  • @prischaumbaran5354
    @prischaumbaran5354 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Please be kind, respect and love your parents.. before it's too late..

  • @YessyPutriNatasya
    @YessyPutriNatasya 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Her mom just want a little things from him but the fact that he never do that made me cry. I really hate someone who ignore their parent. Like someone who get excited when their bf or gf text them but get annoying when their parents text them. Did u know that your parents gonna love u for forever but your bf or gf at the end u just gonna broke up

  • @sitiasmah9894
    @sitiasmah9894 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Seonggu ahh, if you're reading this, pls know that as we grow older each day, our parents are growing older too. Pls create more good memories with her when time still allows. You're a good son. Fighting!

  • @garimamazumdar9763
    @garimamazumdar9763 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    The son looks a bit like Jae for me haha

  • @shreyakarmakar2002
    @shreyakarmakar2002 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Once I talked rudely to my mom because of her overcaring nature...and she just told me one thing,"One day you will miss it". After that day I could never talk to her rudely.

  • @MariahBunni
    @MariahBunni 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I haven't finished watching all of their episode but I can already tell the son just doesn't accept his mom the way she is. Be grateful your mom loves you and dotes over you cause it could be a lot worse.
    PS: YALL ARE SO THIRSTY OVER HIM SKDKD. SOMEONE DROP HIS IG

  • @hazraconteur
    @hazraconteur 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    She's such a sweet mother i want to hug her just by watching the video

  • @alexisholbert1573
    @alexisholbert1573 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    He is handsome.
    But needs to be more respectful to his mother. She is the one who gave birth to him.

  • @LucillejhenOsoriolucille
    @LucillejhenOsoriolucille 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Doyeon's visual is sooooo amazing❤😍

  • @aflower7235
    @aflower7235 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I like how the son smiles and the guy in the beanie, I couldn’t stop laughing 😂

  • @asmarais7566
    @asmarais7566 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i feel sorry for the mom she is an angel and that son doesnt deserve her for real !

  • @lailaabdulrab5874
    @lailaabdulrab5874 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yeah he’s cute, but I feel really bad for the mom. I can also understand his situation as well cuz my grandma does this to me and I try my best to always make sure she’s doing alright. It is hard, but he should really try

  • @soumyashrivastava6573
    @soumyashrivastava6573 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    A child must be loving n caring towards parents even when you grow up. He has a loving mother

  • @haninahaslan2429
    @haninahaslan2429 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Talk to ur mom before it's too late.. U wouldn't want to live ur life with regrets.. Trust me

  • @dimpledimple5545
    @dimpledimple5545 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I lost my mom when I was 6. This dude is taking everything with her mom for granted.

  • @bushraahmed5273
    @bushraahmed5273 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Who else thinks the son looks like Jae from Day6?
    Nope just me ok I’ll leave😂✌️

  • @ninjashosun
    @ninjashosun 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    be grateful tht your mother really care for you . some ppls didn't get tht enough or didn't get it at all .

  • @Saiki_Jelly
    @Saiki_Jelly 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I fell in love with Beanie Friend...👀👀

  • @auburnradke4340
    @auburnradke4340 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    That boy is an idol I'm disguise.
    I understand the boy but also the mum as well.. He doesnt have to do much honestly, just smiling at her and just be childish once in a while..

  • @takeoutthetrash6235
    @takeoutthetrash6235 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    My mom is my only friend and my best friend I'm very anti-social and it's hard for me to make friends glad I have my mom she don't have many friends either lol.

  • @ainaaL1485
    @ainaaL1485 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He have such a very good voice 😭💓

  • @plum7t
    @plum7t 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    They guy's behaviour is similar to mine when I had severe depression..

  • @aghniyazahra9788
    @aghniyazahra9788 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Seonggu really handsome. 😍😍

  • @karina.letheia
    @karina.letheia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    All of them r handsomes😂😂💕💕

  • @kiya4810
    @kiya4810 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    okay the son is beautiful, has the most beautiful smile and clearly loves his mother, he’s just feeling guilt. i feel so bad because if it was my son if i were older , i would be so depressed. i’m sure this gave them a stronger relationship between them though!

  • @min_wonshaw_be3643
    @min_wonshaw_be3643 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    How lucky you are bro, please take care of your mom, fighting

  • @theallenlim
    @theallenlim 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I relate with the son. We have a different personality at home and with friends.

  • @luevang5235
    @luevang5235 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “Do you want me to beat you?”😂😂 This got me dead😂

  • @rebecca4982
    @rebecca4982 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He will regret it later in life if he doesn’t change. He seems like a very genuine person, so hopefully he will have a change of heart. As he gets older he will realize that his mom is truly her best friend and that her love is something to never take for granted.

  • @mashikyu534
    @mashikyu534 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    lol when they told him if he had a girlfriend and the guy with the beanie look at him i thought they would say that they were dating😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
    btw the guy with the beanie is sooo good looking💜😍

  • @lungilejenniferngubane2633
    @lungilejenniferngubane2633 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    They both don't have any malicious intent. The mum is lonely and needs affection, the son was depressed, going through puberty and became independent. They still care about it each other, it's a matter of how he expresses it now.

  • @joanna8237
    @joanna8237 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i think her mom jusst lonely and a bit depressed so she want to be with his son more but too bad he is quiet at home

  • @shasky5776
    @shasky5776 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really respect him for how he still talks to his mom. Mostly, unless he's aggravated, he respects her as someone whom he's indebted to and has just not learnt how to communicate and express his emotions to his mom. This, I could understand as well as I didn't learn how to share my problems to my parents and didn't. I didn't want them to constantly ask me if I'm ok, which sometimes I'm not but I don't want to burden them, so I avoid. I was much ruder to my dad and my mum so that they won't feel the need to understand me and leave me alone. How wrong was I, my parents tried to constantly understand me and reach out where I ran away.
    I really thought my problems would just burden them. I'm lucky that I saw a counselor and things are so much better, but I know these two care for the other the most and want to be the best parent/child they think they can be. Good luck guys, your pure hearts will pave the way for a better relationship.

  • @nurfarihah7492
    @nurfarihah7492 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Omg her son is so handsome. What his ig? 😂😂

    • @DannyBoo242
      @DannyBoo242 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      lol i'm just joking that's not it but he reminds of a member from this group

  • @erzawalker5301
    @erzawalker5301 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I cried when watch this episode. I am totally understand with mom and the son.

  • @akirasingh994
    @akirasingh994 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I want to know what context they use the word introverted in. Cause I am an introvert.

    • @anawkwardsweetpotato4728
      @anawkwardsweetpotato4728 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah, I'm introverted, too, but to me, introverted doesn't necessarily denote only shyness and aloofness like they imply.

    • @snsdfx1
      @snsdfx1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Introverts often get energy when their by themselves. Like being with a group of people over a long duration of time can mentally drain the life out of you. At least that's how I see ig

    • @anak4600
      @anak4600 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@snsdfx1 I think I'm more of an outrovert . Yeah I can enjoy some loneliness and privacy from time to time but I can also get lonely and unenergetic . So idk what exact context they used here

    • @ViickyGar
      @ViickyGar 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anak4600 me too. Im shy but I don't know if I'm introvert or extrovert

  • @dani._.2000
    @dani._.2000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Everyone is commenting on beanie guy but is anyone gonna appreciate the looks of the guy in the middle!!