MY ONLINE BOYFRIEND ABANDONED ME AT THE AIRPORT IN HIS COUNTRY FIRST MEETING

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  • @magdalein2
    @magdalein2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I think it's better and safer to have the man come to you in your country...if he refuses know he's scammer...if he comes to yourcountry you are safer..i realized even when he refuses video calls..that one is scammer

    • @hasanakato7936
      @hasanakato7936 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your right dear

    • @hawagracious8840
      @hawagracious8840 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes my sister, let a man follow you in your country if at all he loves and he wishes to be with you

    • @rose_Winchester86
      @rose_Winchester86 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hawagracious8840 a man coming to your country does not mean he loves you dear, he can come, eat the goddies and run away. Ghost you🤣

    • @hawagracious8840
      @hawagracious8840 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@rose_Winchester86 I gat you but I responded on how Samantha wasted her time and her money 💰 I don't say a man to follow me in my Country means he do loves me 🙅‍♀️, relationship works when both of you speaks and stands on the truth. I came in peace ✌ 🚶‍♀️🚶‍♀️

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      And those who come will make you feel special on their visit to take goodies but back home in their country are happily married 😃

  • @faynsingo3348
    @faynsingo3348 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    My heart literally broke into pieces. All the same, we all going to look back and laugh at this when her success story comes through. Much love Sammy

  • @Smokeylucas
    @Smokeylucas ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Samantha was too desperate. If he is not paying for the ticket or the hotel you should not be getting on the plane to go see him

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree with your advice.

    • @ViatrixKaheke
      @ViatrixKaheke ปีที่แล้ว

      So, from Samantha, no Namibian lady with a successful story from online dating app again 😊 I can't wait to hear about my country🎉 ❤❤❤🎉

    • @ViatrixKaheke
      @ViatrixKaheke ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@africanbellatherealtalkany successful stories from Namibian lady's.

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  ปีที่แล้ว

      We will have a successful story soon from Namibian.

  • @namu-que
    @namu-que 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Hoooooo Namibian Story left me Speechless.... Jesus Christ.... Have no words to Say....
    Thx dear Bella for Updating us... Much Love💕💕

  • @SharonandFamily
    @SharonandFamily 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Wah sorry she had to go through all that but the red flag on the first day she arrived at the Airport and Hotel paying issue was just enough for her to run. We have learnt and she has learnt too. God be glory she is back home safe. I would say let the man visit you first before going to surprise him. Don't take loan for nobody. Any red flag 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

    • @mercymelody1
      @mercymelody1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Very true to that,my rule number one is,if he can't come to meet me first it's a big NO for me! I can't even go meet him with my money and he hasn't married me!

    • @ashphionafrancisca3207
      @ashphionafrancisca3207 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@mercymelody1 me ,,,I can't travel using my own money in a foreign country to a man on first meeting , never ever

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes people need to watch the redflags.Thank you Mrembo❤️

    • @finallyjohnboscoubrokenmyh5978
      @finallyjohnboscoubrokenmyh5978 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You have point

  • @rosiealways1082
    @rosiealways1082 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She fell really harddddd.
    Bella thank you for being so kind to her it’s not easy to find people like you abroad

  • @evaevelyn5925
    @evaevelyn5925 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Thanks for the Beautiful heart and your family...its amazing to see you saving and helping your African sisters. God Bless you Bella.

  • @losaliasamuel5138
    @losaliasamuel5138 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you Bella, as a Namibian woman on dating site, i cried, while i listening to this story its a an emotional story indeed and teaching us a lot.

  • @patiencemtetwa
    @patiencemtetwa ปีที่แล้ว +9

    What a story! Shocking! But educational as well. Honestly a lot of women need to listen to this story, it will help one understand how online dating works. Thank you for sharing 🤗😘

  • @ruthie8466
    @ruthie8466 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    She missed the 🚩flags. I was talking to another italian man,sent me fotos of his hse,his fam,parents,asked me for my ring size,promised marriage but nothing materialised. The red flag for me was him going silent come weekends. So when i asked Bella and my sister about it back at home i knew something was amiss for sure. N called it off. So yes,there r psychos out there,ladies be alert !

  • @Challet-Kay
    @Challet-Kay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    When I saw our country's 🇳🇦 without reading the title thought here comes "Namibia". When I read the title I was disappointed. I feel sorry for her and Bella thanks for sharing I learned a lot from your videos.

  • @rachealmnamagga1178
    @rachealmnamagga1178 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Sometimes theses white guys think that African women are stupid and we die to have them and I have come across many of that type. I always tell them that color doesn't move but the heart and character. One time one white guy told me that am proud and I told him no I just love my self too much. Bella I personally appreciate your good heart. May God continue keeping and blessing you for us.

    • @eve0chingo404
      @eve0chingo404 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      you did well ....i think they feel they are special in away but to me we are the same.i like your pride

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly we need to show them we are not stupid but we know what we want❤️❤️❤️

    • @maryumanah7807
      @maryumanah7807 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They feel they are doing the black women good by marrying them, it's a thing of the heart not color like you said

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  ปีที่แล้ว

      You are right

    • @africaine4889
      @africaine4889 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yep. And women an advice. Never be the one to travel to go and meet any man for the first meet. That man has to come and see you first.

  • @rebekalysandFam
    @rebekalysandFam 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    My husband said a man that let you pay everything like that does not expect you to even do it! Ricardo did not believe Samantha will show up and he was confuse and surprise she even did… I am seriousely angry😠🤣 since when we African ladies do such expenses for a guy? even a white one?
    keep laughing Bella😍 We love it!

    • @mercymaingi1724
      @mercymaingi1724 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      My point exactly. She wouldn't do this for a black one 😆

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Your husband is right sis.❤️❤️❤️

    • @VeraEkwa
      @VeraEkwa ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know right is getting out of hand my sister 😢. Ladies stop all these please as we entering 2023 stop..be it a white or black man don’t let any man take you for a fool use your brain.

    • @lucyachieng3271
      @lucyachieng3271 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah sis I believe it's a man to provide 😊

  • @fionahjoy200
    @fionahjoy200 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This was too bad for her to handle but we thank God that she returned home safely

  • @profalexandra1961
    @profalexandra1961 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Nothing will ever shock me in this world, anything is possible.. You just need to train your heart to be strong 👌😊😊

  • @koketsoditau5204
    @koketsoditau5204 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Very sad story😢 Hope Samantha has learnt a lesson. Desperation can really get us into rubbish.

  • @zoraxye4325
    @zoraxye4325 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    #Alternativeview.
    Samantha was gullible and naive. There was no reason for her to spend money on an international trip to visit a complete stranger. If Ricardo was really interested, he should have purchased a plane ticket from Italy 🇮🇹 to Namibia 🇳🇦 Ricardo probably talks to multiple women, in multiple countries simultaneously as he has so much free time during the day.
    Hopefully spending time with you and your family made up for her AVOIDABLE disappointment. Don't put strangers on a pedestal and keep expectations low. Chat online if you must but don't get caught up in stories or flattery. Samantha ignored all of the red flags. Dishonest men/women can sense desperation, so it's essential to protect your heart. Even though Ricardo is a deceitful person, he doesn't owe Samantha anything. No judgement. Learn from this experience, concentrate on developing discernment, boundaries and high self esteem. You'll be OK.

  • @unifiednoblesomaks5636
    @unifiednoblesomaks5636 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    She was too desperate to me,we have to be more calm and careful

  • @rikayangu3833
    @rikayangu3833 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I really feel for this lady. I`m sure she learned something and she`ll one day look back and be grateful for what happened happened. Things happen for a reason.

  • @vivacaciouslilyvlogs9366
    @vivacaciouslilyvlogs9366 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    sis bella thanks so much for this video ,has actually opened my eyes .sorry for her ,broke into tears😭😭

  • @gee9206
    @gee9206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thankyou so much lovely sis Bella for this vedio ..what i love about your content is that you share both good and bad experiences so that we learn from these ...I pray in the name of Jesus for our lovely Samantha to find love one day ... because all things work together for good to those who love the Lord...and she will finally gind her soul mate...A big thanks to you sis Bella and your family for your love and Kindhearted may God richly bless you ...i love you from Zimbabwe

  • @LilacGlo
    @LilacGlo ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Omg! What an unfortunate story! Aww bless her. I hope and pray she gets a happy ending in the end. They say you meet a lot of frogs before you find your Prince Charming. Great great advice sis. You’re so right 👍🏽❤️❤️

  • @AlexandHappy
    @AlexandHappy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    The moment she called him and said his mom fell on the stairs and that she should take a train back home would be the moment I block that loser and enjoy my time in Milan and leave for Namibia....Sending Samantha love...hope you recover from this babe..it shall pass and you will find the one for sure.

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen🙏❤️

    • @marrieimmaculate
      @marrieimmaculate ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Am even worse! That would start the end of anything and everything to fo with him, no more contact, not even for a split second.

    • @maximr6576
      @maximr6576 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The moment he did not pay for the ticket and the hotel should be the moment.

  • @rennyfaith9681
    @rennyfaith9681 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Really thanks for being so helpful and good to hear. Thank you for supporting your fellow African ❤️

  • @asia9548
    @asia9548 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Namibian men are like ugandan men so sweet at first but after sharing the goddies they disapper, thanks Bella for always opening our eyes about the dating apps we really appreciate sweet heart,hooooo Samantha really got a night mare

    • @hildaug7177
      @hildaug7177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Talk about Ugandan men my dear, it's like they were cursed

    • @natukundadeborah5612
      @natukundadeborah5612 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Asia😂😂😂😂tureke

    • @natukundadeborah5612
      @natukundadeborah5612 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love that statement 😅Afro cinema 😊the way you say it

    • @marblechingema2076
      @marblechingema2076 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      All over my dear especially African man.

    • @nickytinah8036
      @nickytinah8036 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      All African men my dear 😂. See them and then take off.

  • @olivernakhawondo1790
    @olivernakhawondo1790 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Oooooh so sorry Samantha. Can't just imagine the pain she went through

  • @sharminegaoses9134
    @sharminegaoses9134 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Oh my gosh it's a sad story to my Nambian sister,I wish her all the best in future.men from 🇳🇦 are worst all they want is your goddess,most of them are not loyal even the married one's.Bella gal thanks for being so kind and caring same to your husband may God bless you both.

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you too dear❤️

    • @profalexandra1961
      @profalexandra1961 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are right, I am totally disgusted by our Namibian men, not interested in any of them... 😳😳

  • @angelamkandawire7612
    @angelamkandawire7612 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Oh my this is so sad, some people are wicked and so many red flags indeed. Thank you Bella and your family for wanting to reach out. Samantha stay strong dear you will surely find someone who loves you ,God is faithful .

  • @SA-nl7wn
    @SA-nl7wn 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very informative. Keep up the sensitization indeed you are a sisters keeper. God bless you for what you are doing.

  • @AbiaSaloise
    @AbiaSaloise ปีที่แล้ว +18

    My guess is, the Italian guy was not really Italian.. Scammers can pretend to be whomever they want to be, they can even impersonate another person. So my guess is, he didn't pick her up because he was not in Italy. I wish her healing from this trauma. I am from Namibia too.

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He is Italian dear I have all his information right now that prooves he is Italian.Its really 😔

    • @loiceogak9932
      @loiceogak9932 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Most Italians are scammers

  • @sharronmashave1357
    @sharronmashave1357 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Omg, I laughed so much at your husband's response, he is a real gentleman. Bless you guys for supporting her, she mustv been so disappointed shame....I pray someone worthy finds her and cherishes her.

  • @johannakambode1035
    @johannakambode1035 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Am from Namibia 🇳🇦 and most men here don't want to commit to serious relationship. Dating app are also dangerous, most men out there are fake.

  • @fowokanronke3342
    @fowokanronke3342 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks a lot Bella for your kindness and care.
    I pray that the Lord will divinely connect Samantha with her own husband in Jesus name amen.

  • @sumaiapearl7900
    @sumaiapearl7900 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    One thing I learned from this story is that I will never travel to a man that will be him to travel to me.

  • @patiencetumuherwe8501
    @patiencetumuherwe8501 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Oooh my gosh... This story was very educative to us all...thank you so much for sharing and guiding us for sure.

  • @ladyraba
    @ladyraba 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    God bless you Bella for coming through for our African lovely sis, I'm learning from this information and hopefully other are too. Thank you for your sharing some of the videos for us to learn and understand, it is indeed helpful

  • @ciaobella796
    @ciaobella796 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ohh my, she even took a loan, that's sad, wish she saw the red flags . Thanks Bella for this story ❤️

  • @ucmaris86
    @ucmaris86 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I feel so sad for Samantha . Men have really played with her. I pray her story changes soon 🙏

  • @houseoftendai1
    @houseoftendai1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    O.M.G this ricardo never hugged or kissed the lady oh dear that’s sad . Ricardo wearing his mask O.M.G 😢 if he doesn’t work argh makes it all difficult ❤❤❤ glad she was smart to go back on the dating site again weldone Samantha At least she’s tried her best and thank you Bella for checking on Samantha the whole time

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  ปีที่แล้ว

      I tell you sis this Ricardo been chatting to lots of ladies they sent me his photos on insta and was more shocked. Let's hope people learn from this story.Thank you hun❤️

    • @PrincessroviehNambuusi
      @PrincessroviehNambuusi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He was poor

  • @titizoc9617
    @titizoc9617 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What i like about your channel is that you talk about the ugly and the goods.

  • @natukundadebbie100
    @natukundadebbie100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My diva ❤️🤩 can't wait for this episode,
    I don't know whether its the lady i saw on social media platforms, people were talking about

  • @itsinesantonio
    @itsinesantonio 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You are such a wonderful lady dear Bela .keep up helping others
    Much love 💕👏🙏❤️👌🌹

  • @hallejudy
    @hallejudy ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I wish she came to your place and enjoyed that trip fully instead of going back to the mess with men. I've learnt alot from this

  • @angelakagwiria3925
    @angelakagwiria3925 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The good thing is she returned home safe and learnt about the red flags.
    very soon we will celebrate her successful love story

  • @enjohgrace3331
    @enjohgrace3331 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Belly thank you so much for check on her all the time,Her story is so sad.

  • @maureenkavumbinovenakarisa6411
    @maureenkavumbinovenakarisa6411 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So bad for men not to man up, i am also a victim dating a guy i havent seen on video for2 years from uk , he has no family all dead, i just chat with his two friends from another country but a still on the dating site waiting for a real one to come. Thank you Bella i really love your videos. God bless you as you help us in these dating life

  • @arewanewztv765
    @arewanewztv765 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Why would a lady travelled all the way round to meet a total stranger. What if he's a psycho killer ? Girls wise up

    • @nighni459
      @nighni459 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's what I said

  • @Tashaelora
    @Tashaelora 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don't know why am late today...I was just waiting for this specific story...thanks Bella for more educative Cinema

  • @christinemukama1840
    @christinemukama1840 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really feel bad for samantha.thanks Bella and your husband for having a golden heart

  • @Simplynonnie
    @Simplynonnie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m imagining what she must have gone through.There are mean men out there 😢

  • @nickytinah8036
    @nickytinah8036 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi beautiful Bella ❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘😘. Thanks a lot for the great work your doing for us. May the good LORD continue blessing you abandantly dear 🥰

  • @AngelOruore1
    @AngelOruore1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    There were red flags from the start, I feel sad for her but she was desperate and when we are desperate we tend to make mistakes. Paying for everything herself was a big no no atleast he would have taken like 70% . I pray she finds love

    • @lainaotshotshawol3829
      @lainaotshotshawol3829 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She ignored the red flags
      Yes.
      But I have a lot of questions for her also..something is not right with her even

    • @AngelOruore1
      @AngelOruore1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lainaotshotshawol3829 I do too o, just being sweet with that comment, couldn't even type what I wanted to really write

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  ปีที่แล้ว

      For me what I observed she had no experience when it comes to date these people was just too nice.

  • @valerievankent5076
    @valerievankent5076 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi guys. I'm also from Namibia 🇳🇦 residing in America. O ya, we are learning everyday.I was helped by a stranger to settle in the States, which is a rare case I believe.

  • @livingdotprime
    @livingdotprime 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I once was her. It is all learning darling. Thank you Bella. I love the way you laugh and make things hard to digest...easier..so yeap...keep on laughing like you do.

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you dear 😘

    • @khomotsokhoza3159
      @khomotsokhoza3159 ปีที่แล้ว

      We all learn from mistake,I was scammed once but now I know better,😂🤣.I felt I was hypothesized at that moment.I read more about it but I ended up being scammed.now I see red flags from far and carry my two legs and run as fast as I can.

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry dear for that experience dear

  • @ruthkabui7022
    @ruthkabui7022 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks Bella keep it up, we are learning a lot. Samantha will be ok with your info. God bless you.

  • @saarasimeon5384
    @saarasimeon5384 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thanks Bella for the video. I hope and pray that Samantha find someone who really love her. This is saara from 🇳🇦 much love bella. Great the whole family.

  • @lovettesmith8196
    @lovettesmith8196 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Damn good lesson for her and others. What happened to all the handsome men on the Mother's land? I think is all about thinking that some random man will take care of you maybe financially. True love don't count money and material things .Material things and money cannot give you happiness. For all is vanity. But respect and peace of mind is priceless.

  • @hasanakato7936
    @hasanakato7936 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    There is no way I would spend my money on a man, mostly going to another country without him supporting the trip ,Am sorry to say this but she was a bit desperate and the guy never loved her. He's such an ass 😒😒😒😒

  • @valerievankent5076
    @valerievankent5076 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh my goodness 😳 what a sad story. May God restore her fully. I can imagine what went through her mind.

  • @jasonandestelle
    @jasonandestelle ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My husband planned and visited me first. He was now planning for my visit when Covid struck
    Just be careful out there ladies
    I wish you all well

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Challenges are so many one need to be strong for everything to work out.Thank you dear❤️❤️

  • @damarisonsabwa1293
    @damarisonsabwa1293 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks Bella for being there for us you helped us so much may be blessed

  • @isabellelengo4213
    @isabellelengo4213 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Bella hope all doing well thank you so much for your nice story for us thank you so much for your love for us🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

  • @fatumamasinga8770
    @fatumamasinga8770 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    At times as women we get blinded by love we miss a lot of red flags and most of the times they are there and we ignore them at times is good to listen to your intuition .the good thing about this story she came back home safely others don't come back they become unresolved case is either they have passed or with no traces God is great and god is love .thank you Bella for being her guidance when all the odds where against her and thanks again for all the info .asante Sana 🤗❤️

  • @triciahope2568
    @triciahope2568 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    OMG sorry for Samantha thnx Bella for the story I have to be careful cause this story Samantha was stronge enough to pass through that all some of us can even faint imagine being in the place where people don't speck English stranded at the entry of the hotel OMG

  • @victoriaravera5831
    @victoriaravera5831 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am so sorry for everything she went through, i really felt for her but she is so brave and i pray that God almighty will smile on her soon also for does that are still searching, thanks dear African Bella for sharing.😘

  • @theetinashow
    @theetinashow ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love the way you narrate the stories 🤣🤣🤣

  • @unifiednoblesomaks5636
    @unifiednoblesomaks5636 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow 🥺 , we're waiting Sis Bella

  • @winny973
    @winny973 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    we heard you dear we are not going to date jobless men

  • @usertopista6633
    @usertopista6633 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    That is so painful. I met Riccardo too on a certain dating app but i didn't trust that guy he was a lier i ran for my life Bella.

    • @mookolamweneni1899
      @mookolamweneni1899 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think I also met this Ricardo guy am just not sure if he is the same one

    • @marblechingema2076
      @marblechingema2076 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Don't make me laugh you run with your life kkkkkkkkk

    • @mookolamweneni1899
      @mookolamweneni1899 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      For real when she said is Richardo from Italy 35 yrs and unemployed I think it's the one I met on this sites.. bt when I looked at his pictures.. it was suspicious 🤔

    • @atimsuzan4990
      @atimsuzan4990 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I did chat with him too, Riccardo on a dating site and he's jobless, living with the mother, l suspected something fishy about him so I decided to run for my life

    • @usertopista6633
      @usertopista6633 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mookolamweneni1899 me too he is unemployed and he used to vedio call from the washroom always

  • @Nyakato-v3t
    @Nyakato-v3t ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sorry Samantha may God heal your heart from all heart breaks 😢😢😢too painful to bear.Thanx Bella for sharing ❤

  • @triciahope2568
    @triciahope2568 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bella imagine that loan of 6yrs may God give Samantha strength

  • @toyaandprincesslifehacks
    @toyaandprincesslifehacks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hello Bella here catching up… as always you look amazing 🤩 11k subs you go Chica. Wow didn’t know this country so great hearing of this…

  • @fashiont789
    @fashiont789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a sad story... a lot of red flag oh my God she couldn't realized it...I think we have learned something from this and thanks her for sharing..I wish her to get the one and forgets all what happens to her.🥺

  • @valerieshinia8526
    @valerieshinia8526 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Uko italy kuna wasusi wazuri Bella uko smart sana🤎🤎 Beautiful 😍 bella

  • @linetgechemba9767
    @linetgechemba9767 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG! what a sad but educative story!! Thank you Bella for all your all educative videos.... keep it up!!

  • @seragifty5175
    @seragifty5175 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Some people in this world are so heartless why put someone thru this...very touching story we make all this sacrifices for love..🙏.. may God locate to us the right men we deserve

  • @divine5582
    @divine5582 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What a story, So sorry that she had to go through this in a foreign country. God makes things beautiful in his appointed time. Each of us is unique and so are our journeys however I fully agree with what you said , watch the videos, do your due diligence and research before you make a move. That part on video calls was an eye-opener coz many will now suggest Viber, skype etc thinking ladies are so desperate. Samantha will come out strong for sure. Bella you are a gem, thank you for the follow-ups and for offering to accommodate even though it never happened.

  • @dj_butterglow
    @dj_butterglow ปีที่แล้ว +6

    She could have explored Milan and enjoyed her trip the moment he did not show up at the Airport.

  • @rachealmnamagga1178
    @rachealmnamagga1178 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh my God!!!!! Sometimes things work for our good and we learn through mistakes. I always tell girls and women to first love themselves before loving any man. Don't act desperate infact any one who makes act desperate is a wrong person.

  • @jemmyshiko3527
    @jemmyshiko3527 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Omg this is a good lesson for people to learn and be on CAUTION

  • @marthakangai9210
    @marthakangai9210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh God..Sam went thru" so much.Sorry for her, We need to be very careful in this field..

  • @shebacynn1320
    @shebacynn1320 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aw Bella that was kind of you to offer her a place to stay with your family in such a situation. Samantha is a risk taker that’s all I can say.

  • @anitatumeka1466
    @anitatumeka1466 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I heard a story of a white old man who came to SA for a "nurse" girlfriend all her names were fake. The man was so heart broken so women do this as well. So sad😥

    • @AchiroNyaPaco
      @AchiroNyaPaco 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      One actually withdrew all his pension to come visit a Ugandan girl, only to find out she was wedded after his asked to see her parents. And more shocking is that she's a Bishop's daughter. So women too do those things 😔

    • @annetfura7243
      @annetfura7243 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow you and your husband are so amazing,be blessed and thanks for the story

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  ปีที่แล้ว

      Ooh my God that's so sad

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you dear 😘

  • @alicenafula7789
    @alicenafula7789 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much Bella 💝 May God bless 🙏 you dear 🙏
    Much Love from Alice 💕.

  • @toyaandprincesslifehacks
    @toyaandprincesslifehacks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She should not put herself in such depth but yes 🙌🏾 such is life. She will learn. If he couldn’t buy her ticket 🎟 is dinner he will afford…. Well I hope someone learn from this indeed. Thanks 😊 for sharing

  • @annanegongo967
    @annanegongo967 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Waiting for you Bella❤️

  • @smith_shelly
    @smith_shelly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Samantha don't worry, experience is the best teacher.

  • @charlottequeen2079
    @charlottequeen2079 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Seriously this man is not a human being may be , how can u treat a person like this but God can change problems to promotion . Thanks bby Bella u have been there for me en u hv saved me many times 🙏

  • @yvonneanyango6010
    @yvonneanyango6010 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hello Bella 💐 this is such a touching story I feel so bad for her this guy is a psycho, but it's good to learn from our mistake

  • @patiencetumuherwe8501
    @patiencetumuherwe8501 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much for having a good heart may good bless you people

  • @julesgibson5721
    @julesgibson5721 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's so touching plus with the knowledge She took a loan to travel

  • @francesamulen1848
    @francesamulen1848 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Problems of wanting to go abroad.

  • @kalungijackline1308
    @kalungijackline1308 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Poor her thank you for sharing but men can disport ohhhhhhh he was so young to act like person he really acted like true maama's boy I love you Bella

  • @jantshiyamba7251
    @jantshiyamba7251 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much my Beautiful Bella for the nice story , God Bless you my Sister ,, I love you 💓 ❤ 😍 😘 💗 💕

  • @prettymagdou2512
    @prettymagdou2512 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow 😮 so sad for Sammantha I will not do that for no men , you should come first and marry before 👋🏾

  • @LadyP882
    @LadyP882 ปีที่แล้ว

    First time Subscriber ,it is so sad 😔 😭 I wish her well and she must keep calm stop looking for love ..She must love herself ..much love to her 🤗

  • @PrincessroviehNambuusi
    @PrincessroviehNambuusi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks bella for good heart bambi naye its not good okutambula ogenda to another country weu u pay everything on your own

  • @janenakaweesa5330
    @janenakaweesa5330 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Waiting darling

  • @The-African
    @The-African ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this story we learn alot and I hope one day Samantha will be in good relationship.Thank you Bella

  • @alicenafula7789
    @alicenafula7789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh my goodness so sorry dear
    But don't give up baby girl ❤️💖, one day God will bless you with aright Man and we are in this together dear 🙏