Having a Low-Budget Nigerian Wedding | Our Experience
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- Weddings doesn’t have to cost so much though it is based on preference. We are not against elaborate or extravagant weddings, we are just sharing our thoughts and experience.
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Fell in love with this couple straight up for choosing a low budget wedding. I respect your wisdom.
Just do what you know it will make you comfortable. If you follow people mouth you miss road
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This is how we also did our introduction also, we went to registry and also called our friends to do makeup, decoration,photography, catering and everything at an affordable amount of money for our traditional wedding. The wedding was very interesting and we never own anyone after the wedding. Our marriage is a month now 💃🏻 and I’m happy we did it the way we want it.
What I love to hear 🥰
Congratulations!!! 🕺🏽
Your home is blessed
May I learn whar was the budget amount and actual amount? I'm a foreigner trying to manage and it would be nice to get an idea of what things really costs before my accent pours out.
The FABs nailed it! I wish people that haven't married can learn from this. I really learnt alot. Thanks for being a blessing.
Thank you Sis and Thanks for watching 😇
Yes I really learnt
I like ur husband, how I wish I can b his friend.i love his sense of reasoning, God bless ur marriage...👌
We are officially friends 😁
Amen!
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pls sir, can I chat u on WhatsApp sir🙏
Wow!!! This analysis is explicit. I intend to have a low budget wedding too. Thanks for explaining how you did yours.
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My man, you are blessed to have an amazing wife. Carry her like egg oooh. Bless you!
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I’m really liking you both. I stumbled unto your video today on your husband’s experience at his warehouse job and since then I’ve been binge watching your videos. I’m really enjoying your videos
Aww it was so good that the pastor agreed. That can only be God. Protocol broken for your sake
I love your wedding dress. You did good sis.
In UK, people are now doing weekday wedding because it helps to reduce prices on vendors, halls etc
Thanks a lot for this ☺️
It is nowww, i know say low budget wedding make sense. Chaii. God bless you guys.
Thank you so much ☺️
Thank you guys for this piece of advice, may your home be blessed 🙏
I think we(I and my fiancé ) will stick to this idea of marriage to enable us save money for our UK trip😊🤭, really appreciate your efforts🤗🙏
Amen! All your endeavors Will be fruitful in Jesus name.
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@@Dfabfamily
Amen 🙏
Thanks 🤗
Truly, introduction should involve immediate family members,living room location. I joined in the cooking sef.
Very nice
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The main thing is that you got married and see eye to eye. Both of you are sensible people. The cakes were lovely, also your wedding gown. If you're working within a budget, you cannot go over it, that's the reality. I like the fact that you didn't make a big elaborate wedding and end up being in debt after it was all over. 🎉
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This is my first time coming across your channel as i am about planning my own wedding. I must say i just subscribed immediately. You people are just simple and amazing. I'm glued to your channel
Thank you so much ☺️
Kudus to you guys.. That mindset of yours is a sure recipe for success going forward.. As long as you don't let people's opinions which mostly don't align with ur goals and aspirations in life to dictate how you proceed, you guys would be fine.
That’s it!
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The only mistake I did was not stopping my mum from taking Ankara now I know how much my husband is spending but God is good
God is good 😇
This is the kind of wedding i want.. low budget and small number of guests 😊
That’s nice 😁
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you are super honest and down to earth . omg , you were just meant to find each other. i love african couples 😊 😊. Please protect your vibe and African values and always keep your faith in God. Western world is dangerous, i tell you from experience
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This was me too. Owe no man before during and after the wedding! Well said👏👏👏👏
Nice! 🙌🏽
Nice planning, and interesting, I pray my children should understand in this area
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I love this ❤. Very informative and enlightening. Thanks for sharing your experiences. Saving this for the future
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Exactly is Ur wedding... I also want a low budget wedding.. And I also have that confident in my husband. Yes parents won't understand and want that. But is you that will make it up.
This is very insightful
My question is about the planning, did you guys spend all the money yourself or is it just the groom family or both parent joined together!
Thank you for watching. We spent our money (husband and wife) on our basic needs (like clothes, shoes, hall, cake, decoration, ring, logistics for ourselves and the likes). The families cooked separately so each family sorted their food depending on the number of guests they invited. We planned for 50 per family even though we had a little bit more. The grooms family sorted the bride price list.
That's what I'm thinking of right now me and fiance are planning on low budget wedding...I just came across your video I think it will help 😊
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That is how initial introduction should be actually……. But these days we tend to turn everything into elaborate big party
Exactly 😄
Some people still keep to the real essence and the way it ought to be done but in all, everyone should do what pleases them.
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Honestly. My brothers did their introduction and it was strictly between both nuclear families. The way I see people spend lavishly on introductions ehn
Wow. Thank you for sharing this. You both are so down to earth. This is helpful. Thank you
Glad it was helpful!
I really love this.
Thank you so much Sir and Ma.
I'm blessed.
You’re welcome
Thank you for watching ☺️
This is so fantastic, sensible, Perfect......
In fact, I really love this.
This will really help me 100% planing for mine.
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I needed to hear this, you guys just lifted my souls... more Grace
Thank you very much
So much to learn. Well done guys 🙌🏽
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God help my and my fiancé o, we are still playing our wedding too and we really want a low budget wedding
Another thing is, we are also planning on having a low budget wedding, but the thing is there's no how I can do it that I won't end up offending alot of people, because of the kind of job I'm into, am a teacher and it's my Mum that also own the school. So I think to me, that part is challenging.
The people you think you’ll offend aren’t an important part in your marriage. Anyone who gets offended with your decision and holds a grudge doesn’t really love and respect you. I understand the feeling to gather friends and colleagues to rejoice with you. If you can afford it, it’s very nice. If you can’t, just focus on the purpose, which is the wedding and marriage.
God’s hand was upon you .., your marriage is simple and favoured
Amen
Thank you so much ☺️
I just like the real YOU
God bless this family more
Amen!
Thank you so much ☺️
Thank you so much for this.. I am subscribing. This is so sensible 🥰🥰. God dey give sense🔥
Thanks for subbing! And thanks for watching
Thank you for this video. This is a new insightful look at how to do a Yoruba wedding. 👍👍
Glad you enjoyed it
I'm here after a year
And I love everything about your wedding ❤❤❤
Thank you so much
Sincerely,
You guys are very prudent with finance.
Thank you so much ☺️
Smart move and you both will last more grace in Jesus name
Thank you for this wonderful idea it was so helpful I just subscribe to your channel
Thank you so much ☺️
Hello. Thanks very much for sharing your wonderful wedding. Your trend of thought resonates very well with me. Mine was awesome outside home. The traditional was at home and I had a marriage blessing by my pastor with 20 close friends. We are 17yrs married today and EU 🇪🇺 settled for decades.
Thank you very much for this.
Really learnt a lot from this. Thanks for sharing this
Awwwwww 🥰
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Amazing couple. Love your simplicity. God bless your home always
Thank you so much 😊
God bless your union forever this really helped alot for upcoming like me💝🥰🥰🥰may God help us...i love you both i subscribed already.
Thank you so much 🤗
Very insightful.
Thanks for watching 🙌🏽
Loved every bit of this, my wedding is coming up and I need videos like these
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Really love this. Is it possible to have the caterers contact for an upcoming event?
Also low budget wedding is stress-free, I particularly dont like stress or thousands call because of an event.
Exactly. Thank you for that contribution. We don’t have the caterer’s contact anymore, as it’s been more than 3 years now. We’ll try to get in touch though, if we can get her contact, we’ll get it across to you. Thank you.
This is BAAM!!
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Thanks a lot but video is cracking ooo me and my fiance we are not financially boyant I need your help I also want a low budget wedding
It’s very achievable
This is nice I really appreciate you guy
Thank you so much ☺️
You both are beautiful.
Thank you very much ☺️
Planning my introduction by April
That’s great!
That's great news! When will you plan the wedding? :)
Thank you for this information.
It's really helpful
Glad it was helpful!
This is beautiful. But could you put specific prices that you had to face at that time? It would really help. Thank you so much
Thank you for watching.
We really can’t remember a lot of the prices but we will try to put down a list.
Thanks so much for this video, it going to help us in planning ours too. Please my questions is, how much did you end up spending while getting your wedding gown, I mean buying of the fabric/material because I have a Sister that sew. Thanks
We will try to get the exact price. We can’t really remember most of the prices because we went to the market to get everything ourselves, including the gown and suit materials.
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I watch this at the right time 💃 l love this
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Same here... I just saw this now, I really needed to watch this now cos I and my partner had fix December this year for our wedding both TM and white and we plan to do it same day just like yours, but right now I have been thinking of what to start doing cos the money is not there and December is just by the corner, I thank God I saw this, I will begin to buy things with the little I have for now... Thank you so much for this.. God bless your marriage
Quite intriguing. Courageous. Impressive. Summary is God's grace.
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Amazing video. God bless 😊
Nice🎉, congratulations.
Thank you 😇
This is our plan too ... My fiance and I. So help us God
Amen! 😇
Everything will work out fine by God’s grace
The bridal wear shopping part, going together with your hubby, in the market to pick suits,planning your wedding touched me,
think this is how wedding should be,between 2 people ,at the end of the day no body pays the bills for you,as long as you joined together in a holy marriage thats what matters,
That’s just it.
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Love this , Very informative
Glad it was helpful!
i love you guys* you are both wonderful...
Thank you very much ☺️
My wedding was a very low key ……. Six people them myself and hubby finish
Fantastic 🙌🏽
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Exactly what I want ooo.😭😭😭
Just what I want 😮
Please gist me because a bit overwhelmed, I no want crowd at all
Very insightful and true..
Thanks for watching Boss 🙌🏽
This is very helpful to me,thank you so much Couple.
Please where is the hall you are talked about located? I mean the name and the location.
You’re very welcome. It’s been about 5 years now and we think they relocated. We’ll just confirm and get back to you.
I needed to see this, thanks❤️
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Exactly d way I planned my own. I hate wasting money for a day occasion even if I have money. Elaborated wedding is total waste of money for me. We have our budget and we didn't spend more than that. kudors to u pple
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Wow
Thanks for sharing this with us.
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Infact I love I gained a lot thanks so much
Wow i love this video
Thank You ☺️
Thank you so much for this
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Amazing message
Thank you so much for sharing and keeping it real.
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Pls what is the ideal budget for a wedding now pls help ohh..my head is hurting
Your budget is the ideal budget. Whatever kind of wedding you can afford is the ideal one
@Dfabfamily my own head is spinning, like I don't want much guest,make I use d money expand my business than eating
Budget has figures that would help
Yes!
What if you want to do your church wedding in a different place, like the grooms church because of cost
And you where denied of it, and denied of wedding as a whole
What should I do?
There’s no straight answer because this question raises other questions like why was it denied?
Ultimately, there’s always a way out.
Beautiful wedding dress!
Thank you 😇
God bless you guys for this video...
please I really want to connect with you guys, is very urgent 😭😭😭 pls🙏🙏🙏
Amen, thank you for watching.
We can connect on Instagram.
@dfabfamily
@dfabdaddy
@abispecial1
Thank you for this, it's helpful
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I will really love to do this but I come from polygamous family,so am confused on how to fix it
How can I arrange it pls,am thinking of inviting only my siblings
Fab Daddy is also from a polygamous family. He invited only his immediate siblings to avoid complications and family drama. A lot depends on you and your spouse. You are in the position to decide what you want for your marriage and you must be able to stand your ground especially with your parents. Also, pray hard!
Lovely content! Even if money is no object, it makes good sense not to lavish money on the ceremony. Do you mind sharing what your budget was and the year?
Between 400k and 500k, 2019
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Was the budget inclusive of the clothes you both wore and all the accessories?
Two amazing young couple. You will go far together
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Pls i have a question, my question is how about your engagement,how did you do that?
We had our engagement immediately after the church wedding. We had reception and engagement at the same time so it was like killing 2 birds with one stone. It saved us money and time.
This was really helpful
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I buy this idea to the moon✌️✌️
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Indeed if God cannot fix it No one can
Yes!
Wow thank God I found this
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Pls help a friend my wedding is this year .Have been thinking of how to do it am on low budget too nikkai nd reception pls help
Help in what way?
Beautiful and funny couple I have to go one this your budget I love it
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Applaud
Thank you so much ☺️
My question is the list given to the husband what are the items Thier please
you said low budget but you never said how much you spent on the wedding can you please let me know thank you
There’s no amount that exactly defines low budget or high budget. 300k might be low budget to us and high budget to someone else, the same way 1M can be high budget to us and low budget to someone else. I can’t remember the exact figure but I think we spent about 300-400k (somewhere in between).
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@@Dfabfamily you need to say it,your low budget,might still be another person's own.
400k wow... In Lagos? Impressive.
Pls,how can I spend 500k for my wedding in the economy suitation? I need somebody to help me
It’s very difficult but yes, it’s achievable. You have to cut drastically on expenses and people.
This is my first time welldone
Wow
This is awesome ❤
Thank You 😇
Thanks for sharing, I learn some few things..
But when you have to share on social media, then you should help us to know some very specific things.. By mention the price or amount spent that constitute the Low budget wedding. To one person 800,000 can be a low budget wedding, while to another 2M can also be a low budget wedding. So it would have been good to know the range of your spending that makes it a low budget wedding.
Secondly, where you both working and what is the salary range. Was the contribution coming from both of you.
Thanks for the tip
Nice tips. 👍
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How many clothes,shoe and how much should we prepare for
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So what’s the total your wedding cost?? Did you spend up to 2 million more
We spent about 300k
@@Dfabfamilyoh woow
It’s the big big yam for me lol😂
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😊still watching
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